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[thedeluluverse]

To the anon that requested this, I hope you like it and I'm sorry it's taken me this long to get to it <333

Summary:  Your husband Jimin has always loved kids and wanted them one day but wasn’t sure he would ever get to see himself as a father due to his busy schedule. Now that that dream has come true, he is determined to be the best he can be for your little miracle

Pairing:  husband!jimin x wife!reader

Genre: fluff, established relationship, first time parenthood

Word Count: 1,795

Warnings:  None, just a bunch of fluff : )

A line. Parallel. No wait, two lines. As you look at the pregnancy test you took a mere 5 minutes ago, you can’t believe your eyes. Your whole life is about to change and too many things are hitting you at once. You and your husband of 2 years, Jimin,  were not trying to start a family right now; granted, it isn’t like you were the most careful couple ever (the flashbacks making you blush) but nonetheless. Scaring you out of your frozen state, your phone lights up showing that Jimin is calling you. Oh no! What is he going to think? Children had been discussed in the past and there was definitely a want there but you mutually agreed to wait until his schedule had calmed down a little bit.

Taking a deep breath and trying to steady your voice, you take the call. As soon as he picks up, he is full of energy, “Hello my love, I am about to head home, did you want me to pick up something to eat for dinner? I know we have both been busy so I figured some takeout would heal the soul hahahaha! Oh wait, it is a bit later than usual. Have you already eaten? Sorry, let me be quiet for a second so you can answer!”. You can’t help but grin at how caring he is just towards you and have to keep yourself from drifting off into how great he would be as a father lest you start crying. Sniffling and clearing your throat discreetly, you answer, “Hey hun, yeah takeout is fine, I’ll just take some veggie ramen. Thanks for being so thoughtful!”. There’s a pause, “Jagiya, are you feeling well?”, he asks.

                You freeze up because the truth is, you haven’t been feeling well. Your stomach was already unsettled before which is what prompted you to take the test in the first place and after the results, you feel even more unsteady than before. There’s no way for him to know that though so why the wellness inquiry out of the blue? You decide to try and play it cool and reply, “I’m fine, just not super hungry today love.”, he gives a skeptical okay then says that he is leaving work now and should be home in about 30 minutes with the food.

                A little over a half hour later, your husband walks through the door as you are sat on the couch catching up on your shows as you had the day off today. He comes in and places a kiss on the top of your head before setting down the bag of food on the counter. Walking to the front of the couch, he leans in, kissing your nose, “How was my girl’s day huh?” he asks with a grin. You give a small smile, “It was good but much better now that you are here.” He gives you a peck on the forehead then states, “I’m gonna go take a quick shower, then we can eat. Unless you’re really hungry now then I’ll wait to wash up”. “I’m fine babe, I promise!” you answer; “Swear?” he asks as he sticks out his pinky. You giggle and make a show of acting as though you can’t see him holding up anything which earns you a cocked eyebrow and him hooking your pinky himself before he walks into the master bathroom.

                Not 10 minutes later, and your husband has definitely shifted into home mode; emerging from your shared bedroom in sweatpants, an oversized hoody, and his glasses, still damp hair making him look like a tiny puppy who just got caught in the rain. You start tearing up the moment you see him and he instantly notices, “Honey, are you alright?” You sniffle and stifle the waterworks as best you can while you nod, “yeah I’m fine, you just looked so cozy and tiny and *crying ensues*”.  He rushes to your side and rubs your back, “Woah there, it’s okay pretty, in the best way possible, are you about to start your period? It isn’t like you to cry because you find me so cute. It’s super sweet but just wanted to check in”. You start laughing and answer “Good joke, about to start my period HA HA  HA, mister funny man, I love you and your sense of humor! XD” You take a deep breath to calm down and then get up to grab the food, blaming the laughing fit on delusional hunger Y/N.  Jimin just smiles and nods, lowkey worried but figures food is the cure.

                While Jimin is almost done with his 5 course meal, you are barely halfway through your bowl of noodles. You really are hungry but your brain is going a million miles a second thinking about everything yet nothing at once and wondering how soon you should tell him. Should you do it now? Wait until he has had some rest? Wait a month or two so you know all is well? As you are having this debate, you feel his hand gently resting on your knee and have just noticed his head bent down so his eyes can meet yours which have zoned out on the floor beneath you in thought. “y/n, are you sure you are okay? You’ve barely touched your food and something just feels off. You can talk to me you know that.” Pressing a sweet kiss to his cheek, you nod and reply, “ I know I can, just a lot on my mind but I’m fine I promise!” He purses his lips, not completely convinced but drops the subject.

                After about an hour of you both passing out on the couch after dinner, you are awoken by  a gentle hand on your shoulder and your husband standing behind you with tears in his eyes holding the pregnancy test. Once your eyes adjust, they are wide in panic. Is he upset with the results or that he found out by finding it, you meant to throw the bathroom trash anyway but had forgotten in the midst of everything. He sniffles then comes around to sit beside you, both of his hands holding the test now. Too worried to speak, you just lay a hand on his thigh to let him know you are there if he wants to talk.

“Why didn’t you tell me? How long have you known?” he spurts out. Tears form in your eyes with just the biggest mix of emotions. “I only found out a few minutes before your call earlier and have been processing the news myself and trying to figure out when to tell you because I know you are busy and this is just a big surprise and I didn’t want to stress you out and-“ He cuts you off via a finger on your lips, “You wouldn’t have stressed me out jagiya. Yes I’ve had a long day and yes we have been busy lately, but this is a dream come true!”. As he throws his arms around you, your whole body relaxes instantly. The two of you stay up for the next 3 hours talking about everything and just gushing about how excited you are to start a family.

TIME SKIP: 9 MONTHS LATER

                After weeks of preparation, the day is finally here. You are about to give birth to your first child. The nerves are definitely there but you are doing your best to stay calm. Jimin was doing a radio interview about an hour away when you called him that you were in labor and checking into the hospital. He immediately told the host to use whatever material they already had and would be M.I.A. because “his baby is having a baby and I gotta go byyyeeee!!”. He rushes to your side the second he gets to the hospital and doesn’t leave no matter how many times you insist you’ll be fine, glare at him for doing this to you, or putting his hand in a death grip trying to get through the pain.

                About 3 hours later, you give birth to a beautiful baby and once the nurse gets you all settled and you’ve held the baby for a bit, Jimin takes the bundle of joy into his arms for the next 2 hours while you nap just talking and occasionally staring as the situation still feels surreal. As you regain consciousness, you hear him talking to the newborn and fake sleep so he doesn’t stop. What you hear only affirms that you sure picked the right man to start a family with almost 3 years ago.

Now to what you heard, Jimin is telling the child, “You know you are so adorable, aish… you take after your eomma so much you know? She’s as precious as you are and I already can tell she will take the best care of you. Me on the other hand… well, I vow to do everything in my power to protect you, love you, and be there for you as long as I live. I feel honored to be your dad and will make sure I do right by you always. Pinky swear.” At those words, your eyes pop open and see him placing his pinky under the baby’s while he gently kisses the forehead. Tears are forming in your eyes and all you can do is croak out an “I love you” while he smiles back and gets up to lay the baby in the crib.

                Throughout the years, Jimin definitely did right by his promise. Providing for the both of you and eventually for a second child as well in every capacity to the best of his ability. He even went so far as to take a year of paternity leave for each child because he said that “The guys understand and we have enough projects and content coming out for awhile that it’s all set baby. My family comes first. Always will.”

He was better than you ever imagined with children, making your heart flutter and you swear you fall deeper in love with him every day seeing how he interacts with them. He is the perfect balance of stern enough to not be a pushover but not too intense. He genuinely cares about every facet of their lives and helps you to raise them the best y’all can. Over the years, he keeps a log of pinky and height comparisons which helps his self esteem for about 8 years or so. No matter if he is reassuring the kids, planning a surprise for you, or disciplining them, he always finds a way to to work in his signature to let them know that things are alright between them.

The pinky swear <3

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The Year of the Rainbow 🌈

New Years Day of 2022 started off as a normal day. My husband and I ran around to five open houses trying to find the home we’d start a family in after months of getting clobbered in an absurd housing market. On this day I was 7 weeks and 6 days pregnant but hardly anyone knew. After a busy afternoon we sat down on the couch to relax. I started to have some pretty severe cramping, worse than any…

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[unlikelywallflower]

letter to a new mama: on the first six months

This is (some of) the advice I actually wish I’d gotten in the first six months, or did get and feel like is worth passing on:

1. Put your own oxygen mask on first.

You will feel guilty doing this, because you have been socialized and told to believe that you must sacrifice your entire being to this tiny, wailing creature whom you have just met. Obviously, you should meet your baby’s needs as much as you’re able. Please remember, though, that you not only count, too, but that your well-being is integral to your baby’s. I had to remind myself of this dozens of times a day, every time I wanted to do anything for myself (including going to the bathroom).

2. People will tell you to enjoy every moment. You won’t.

You will also feel guilty about this, because some Instagram mommy influencer told you life with your baby should be all sunshine and rainbows and cooing and cuddles. Maybe you are somehow a magical unicorn who can enjoy existing on a total of 3 hours of fractured sleep, and alternating between being sucked on and spit up on all day, but probably you are not. Have compassion for yourself.

3. It’s okay if it’s hard.

I’ll say it again: IT’S OKAY IF IT’S HARD. It’s okay to say it’s hard. It is hard. See: enjoying every moment.

4. It really will get better.

People will look at you with your vacant expression and bleary eyes and tell you that it will get better, that it did for them around five, or six, or seven months. In your severely sleep-deprived state, you will not believe them, but it will. It really will. Caveat: my little one is just shy of a year old as I write this. It has been and will be hard again since the first six months, but in different ways. 

5. No dogmatic way of doing anything is worth your well-being.

This could go for anything to do with feeding, sleeping, playing, etc. The world is chock-full of dogmas to buy into. I was extremely attached to breastfeeding exclusively, for a few reasons: first, I honestly think breastfeeding is a mundane miracle. I often had (and still do have) the thought that I cannot believe how cool it is that my body makes food for my baby. Second, we’re still in a pandemic and I wanted to pump her full of as many antibodies as I could possibly provide. Third, even though I am a fierce supporter of the idea that “fed is best”, underneath that, I’d still bought into the well-meaning promotion of breastfeeding as the ultimate pinnacle of motherhood that the dogma of being a “natural mama” promotes. All of this combined to mean that I pushed real hard to keep exclusively breastfeeding, when combo feeding likely would have saved me a lot of heartache. Feed your baby in whatever way works for you. Do what you need to in order to maximize sleep quantity and quality for everyone. Do what you need to do to survive.

6. Every tiny thing will seem monumentally important. It isn’t.

You will not realize these things are not actually important until much later, even if you tell yourself now. Real-life example I bought into (momentarily): having to have a sparkling clean bathtub before I bathed my baby in it, every time. This is absolute nonsense. Nonsense!

7. If your love for your newborn isn’t there right away, it will come.

It does not make you any less of a mother/parent if your love for your baby is not instantaneous and all-consuming. I spent a lot of time in therapy discussing how afraid I was that I wouldn’t explode with love the second I laid eyes on my newborn, and in the end, came to terms with the fact that I might not, and it would be perfectly normal if I didn’t. When the time came, I didn’t, and I was a bit sad about it, but the love did come and grow over time. Interestingly, even if my mind hadn’t caught up, my body did love her from the start; I instinctually showered her with kisses and cuddles and sang to her and did all the things I’d imagined.

8. Read Precious Little Sleep. 

I’m like a walking infomercial for this book. Seriously. There are many books about baby sleep out there, and most of them will have you believing that you will ruin (ruin!) your child’s entire life if you do not do things exactly as they say (see: dogma). Thank God for my friend who told me to read this book, which is not only not dogmatic, it’s hilarious, and it lays out a bunch of different options for how to teach your child to sleep, so you can choose based on what feels right for you and your parenting values. Also, I’m somewhat embarrassed to admit that despite all my pre-baby reading, I didn’t really know that newborns should only be awake around 45mins at a time, and need a lot of help to fall asleep. If I’d read this book earlier, it would have saved me a lot of time, frustration, and sleep.

9. Learn how to ask for and accept help.

I am particularly bad at this (see: Strong Independent Woman™), to the point that neighbours would see me struggling with large heavy loads of things while I was pregnant and say with exasperation “let us help you!”. It’s still hard for me to ask for and accept help, but I’m getting better at it, because there is literally no other way to function as a new parent, let alone a single one in a pandemic.

10. Some people will show up in the way you’d hoped, some won’t. Have compassion.

Almost every parent I’ve met had the realization after they had their first baby that they wished they’d been able to do so much more for their new parent friends than they had. I was no exception. You simply can’t know how vulnerable a time it is, how much every little check-in and meal drop-off matters, until you’ve been through it yourself. Have compassion for yourself for the people in your life for not having known. Everyone is dealing with their own shit and doing the best they can.

[nrparentcoach]

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How to get pregnant?

Being an infertile man in a hetro relationship I’ve asked myself this question a lot, and the answer has always been hidden by a veil of expense and inaccessibility. Being on a low budget my fiancée and I couldn’t afford to go to a clinic and get a donor, and we are too young to legally adopt, but we are desperate to have a baby. So how would we ever get pregnant?

I spent many nights trying to find a way to raise the funds for us to conceive, even considering loans, and it was a very hard period for both me and Liv. I felt awful that it was ‘my fault’ that we couldn’t naturally have our baby, she felt bad that there was nothing she could do to help.

We have been trying and trying to figure out how we can get the family we’ve been longing. How could I get the pure happiness you get when you look at your child for the first time?

And luckily we found a cheap(-ish) clinic and we are now in the process of noting ovulation dates and waiting for the day we can try the first insemination! It’s been a long wait but we know it will be worth it to have our family at last.

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[ourfirstbub]

Breastfeeding Must Haves

Note: This is entirely based on my experience, written with the intent to help first time mothers and their partners prepare for breastfeeding. 

Personally, I found breastfeeding so much harder than labour. In retrospect it could be because I was so mentally prepared for what labour would entail and though I had never experienced labour before, I knew what I was getting into. Breastfeeding on the other hand, was something I thought would come naturally. I thought “oh I have a pair of breasts so I should be alright with breastfeeding!” Boy, was I wrong. Getting our baby to latch on, figuring out positions, using a hospital grade breast pump, not knowing when and how to feed my baby, feeling guilty over having to opt for formula when my breast milk wasn’t enough, sore breasts, tired breasts.  Below are a list of things that really helped me and I wish wish wish I had carried them all to the hospital with me because just a pair of boobs aren’t enough!

1. Breast pump

While you are at the hospital, you may be advised to start ”expressing” milk as your little one may need a top up. In our case, our baby was born pre term and we had to keep an eye out on her weight. She also had jaundice and breast milk is liquid gold for jaundiced babies so any spare minute I had I was pumping.  I proceeded to use the hospital breast-pump and it was so confusing when every person trying to help me had a different way of operating a machine I had never used before. Long story short, a week later and nipples that were on the verge of falling off, I came home and used my own breastpump. I literally cried because I wish I had taken to the hospital with me.  It was so much easier and time efficient. My breasts no longer felt or looked like that of an overworked cow. I highly recommend you get an automated one. There are many brands out there, the one I used was Medela Swing and I recommend it. 

Pro tip: If you have the opportunity to borrow from a friend, do it! 

2. Breastmilk Storage Bags:

Breastmilk is liquid gold (I will be using this term A LOT) not just for your little one but for you too. Imagine all the time you spent pumping when you could be sleeping (there’ll be a lot of imagining), you want to make sure that milk is stored securely and safely.

Just make sure these bags are Pre-sterile, with an easy to use wide opening for easy filling and pouring and made out BPA free material.

You can get them for so much cheaper in Amazon 

Refer to this article on Step-by-Step Instructions for Collecting and Storing Breast Milk In the Freezer

Pro tip: Always freeze your breastmilk packet flat and never fill storage bag to the top. Breast milk needs room to expand when it's frozen.

3. Milk catcher

A girlfriend of mine gifted this little magic number to me when I did not even know what it was.

To all new mummas out here, a letdown reflux is what makes the milk flow. When your bub sucks on your breast, tiny nerves are stimulated which then releases hormones that produces milk and also pushes the milk out through your breasts.

Some women notice that while they breastfeed or express from one breast, the other breast “leaks”. This is what the milk catcher catches and the quantity can be anywhere from 30ml to 100ml. Now would you not rather capture this drumroll liquid gold than let it get soaked away into your breast pad!

Haakaa is one of the trusted brands. Please girlfriend, give this a go. You won’t regret. My little one is 6 months and I still use one to collect letdown which I then mix in her solid food. Every drop counts!

4. Well fitted/Super snug Bras

After many many hours of getting a little human to figure their way on your breasts, your breasts will feel sore, over used and even the touch of the softest cotton on your nipple will feel like a mini electric shock. This is when a really firm and snug bra - without the hooks and clasps - come in handy. Something that will hold your breasts for you while ton try squeeze in a nap. These ones at Target really were what my sensitive breasts needed.

5. Breastfeeding support/pillow

These type of pillows are made to serve breastfeeding mums and baby because we have every tendency to slouch, which can take a toll on your back.

I used my Breastfriend and really recommend it for the first few months. 

What I really like a lot this support are

it has a firm back support

the flat surface provided a good support for my arms when I walked around carrying baby. 

a little convenient pocket to carry around bips, water bottle and your phone

a flat surface for bub to rest while feeding and also adjustable Velcro straps to keep the pillow nice and snug according to your preference.* Just keep in mind the Velcro straps are pretty loud! This was one thing which really bugged me and I had to leave the room to take it out.

I’ve also heard good things about the Boppy breastfeeding pillow from my c section mumma friend but I personally haven’t used it. 

6. Breastpads

There is sure to be some leakage when your breasts are filled to the brim and your little human obviously cannot drink it all. So something’s gotta give. This is when these bad boys come in handy. They soak up your leaked breastmilk and I recommend stocking up on these if you see them on specials!

Another option are the eco friendly washable ones, although they didn't really work for me and my breastmilk would soak right through. 

Pro tip: Use an absorbent breasted at night. If bub sleeps a little longer than usual and you skip a feed or two, your breasts WILL leak.

7. Nipple cream

Look out for ones without Lanolin! I have read mixed reviews on Lanolin breastfeeding creams and just to be on the safer side, I opted to skip it. 

One of my girlfriend’s gifted me MooGoo’s Mudder Udder. It’s lanolin free, made of baby friendly ingredients and does not require removal before feeding (although I did). 

Pro tip: A midwife shared this tip and it really worked for me. Before you do try any balm or creams for your sore nipples, try using breastmilk. Most often then not, your breastmilk is the best medicine. 

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[ahoydanny]

Some of you may have known that Josh and I have been trying to adopt for the past 2 years… well earlier this month the stork surprised us with a little bundle and we were finally able to bring him home today. Although our journey to adoption is far from over we are beyond excited to introduce the newest member of our family: 👨‍👨‍👦 Dashiel Kingston Davila • • • #disneydads #gaydads #gayswithkids #theincredibles #firsttimeparents #disney #pixar #husbandandhusband #daddies #incrediblefamily #lgbtqfamily #twodads #adoptionjourney #gayadoption #disneygays (at Orlando Health Arnold Palmer Hospital for Children) https://www.instagram.com/p/CVlG0L8LpMy/?utm_medium=tumblr