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Hi Everyone,

If you're considering your options after experiencing harassment at work, there's a tool I wanted to shine some light on that your employer probably doesn't want you to know about. An option that doesn't involve HR or signing over your soul to a company lawyer.

It’s called a demand letter.

It’s lowkey the legal system’s quiet little power move. If something happened and HR made it worse or did nothing you don’t have to go quietly. You can go strategic and legal - with a demand letter.

What is it? It’s a letter your lawyer (or legal clinic) sends to your employer. It outlines what happened, how the company failed you, and what you want them to do about it -like money, a reference letter, or changes to your file.

Why it works Because employers hate lawsuits. They cost time, money, and PR cleanup. A demand letter signals you know your rights, and you’re ready to take action without asking for permission from HR or your manager’s manager’s manager.

Why no one talks about it Because it's not in your company handbook. Or mentioned in your harassment training. And it's a threat to the structure the company benefits from.Will I have to pay a lawyer?

Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. Community legal clinics exist. Some lawyers work on contingency. Some do free consults. Ask anyway. You might be surprised what support is out there.

Will I have to pay a lawyer? Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. Community legal clinics exist. Some lawyers work on contingency. Some do free consults. Ask anyway. You might be surprised what support is out there.

What if I just want to move on? That’s totally valid. But sometimes moving on is easier with a severance, or a reference letter. Or just a little bit of control back.

NOTE: This post isn’t legal advice. It’s “you deserve to know your options” advice!

Thank you for reading. Stay safe out there.

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Better than takeout, this Ginger Tofu Fried Rice gives you a fairly quick and easy option for a great-tasting and satisfying everyday meal. Crispy tofu, brown rice, veggies, and a tangy sauce come together to create a vegetarian delight.

https://www.urbanfoodiekitchen.com/ginger-tofu-fried-rice/

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Vegan Risotto with Miso and Spring Vegetables

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Stuffed Tofu (囊豆腐) Chinese stuffed tofu is tender with a juicy pork filling, cooked in a fragrant brown sauce.

Recipe: https://omnivorescookbook.com/stuffed-tofu/

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West Lake Beef Soup (西湖牛肉羹) West Lake beef soup is a delicate and heart-warming dish that features tender beef, mushrooms, and tofu pieces made into a chicken broth based egg drop soup.

Recipe: https://omnivorescookbook.com/west-lake-beef-soup/

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ONE PAN LEMONY ORECCHIETTE WITH SAUSAGE AND BROCCOLINI

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Pasta e Ceci (Pasta With Chickpeas) Recipe

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Butter Chicken Pasta

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Lemon Mascarpone Pancakes

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Kimchi Fried Rice

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  I re-blogged this (the first time) in 2014. Today, I tried half a dozen times to re-blog it, and it wouldn’t work. So, I saved the images and re-posted it. I hope it helps make life a little easier. :-)   The original post is by iraffiruse.

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reminder to worldbuilders: don't get caught up in things that aren't important to the story you're writing, like plot and characters! instead, try to focus on what readers actually care about: detailed plate tectonics

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for the love of god, do not use chores to punish your kids!!!! it's just going to make them struggle deeply to keep their houses tidy as adults since you made them associate necessary chores with punishment and suffering, and it's going to take years of therapy to undo. don't use chores as punishments!!!