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“11 years Love story of SEAMANloloko”

“One hour lang ako nawala, chinat niya yung online girl, may nangyari sa kanila. Sinuyo niya ako na parang walang nangyari.” -Runa

“1st boyfriend and 11 years kami.” -Runa

“Nag-training siya sa Cebu para mag seaman at binisita ko siya doon. Meron nagsabi na may kasama daw siya doon. After po noon ay siya po mismo yung nag-confirm. Nagkusa po siya.” -Runa

“Nagkaroon po talaga ako ng kasalanan, fling lang po talaga. Inamin ko po talaga sa kanya na nagkamali ako sa kanya that time.” -Cliff

“Pinatawad ko po siya kasi sabi ng mother ko, kung hindi ka magpapatawad hindi ka patatawarin ng Diyos.” -Runa

“Ilang taon na kayo niyan noong nahuli at pinatawad mo siya?” -Vhong

“Six years po pero naulit na naman sa Manila at pinatawad ko na naman po siya at naging martyr po ako. Pero naulit na naman ulit sa online. Last na po yun, hindi ko na kaya.” -Runa

“So cyberspace, nagloko ka, may mga ka chat. Sino yung chinat mo?”-Vice

“Ex ko po. That time po kasi hindi kami masyadong nagcha-chat ni Runa kasi busy din po siya sa negosyo niya kaya bumaling ako sa ex ko.” -Cliff

“Di naman umamin Paano mo nalaman?”-Vice

“May chinachat po siyang mga schoolmates ko, classmates ko kasi nakita ko yung account niya sa google at marami siyang china-chat na mga babae.” Runa

“Hindi lang pala yung ex, marami pala. So, you're a womanizer.” -Vice

“Anong reason mo?” -jhong

“Hindi na kasi si Runa nagcha-chat sa akin.” -Cliff

“Hindi. Hindi iyon yun. Bago pa siya na-busy ginagawa mo na rin iyon noon eh. Anong epekto ng pambabae sayo?” - Vice

“You're a womanizer. Kasi paulit-ulit, eh. Bakit paulit-ulit mo itong ginagawa? Do you feel good about yourself? And you feel bad kapag kinakarma ka na?” -Vice

“Alam niya kasing mahal na mahal siya ni Runa at alam niyang papatawarin siya nang papatawarin.” -Vhong

VICE: “Anong effect nito sa'yo? Panandaliang saya at init ng katawan na kailangang maibsan?"

“Opo.” -Cliff

“It's the init ng katawan eh. Nakakalimutan mo yung mahal mo pag hinahanap na iyon ng katawan mo. Ginagamit iyon ng demonyo kasi doon ka mahina. Pag nandoon ka sa puntong iyon, ang sarap noon. Panandaliang saya pero pang matagalang sakit at pagsisisi.”-Vice

“Yung cheating yung womanizing ano siya eh, sa una it becomes your mistake. Pangalawa it becomes your weakness kasi naulit until it becomes your lifestyle.” -Vice

“Nagbabago pa ba ang mga cheaters, ang mga womanizers?” -Vice

“May faith parin naman po ako kahit na nakagawa ako ng maraming beses sa kanya. Kasi once na rin po akong nasaktan nong bago po ako nagkakami. Talagang sinabi ko rin po sa sarili ko na di narin ako magmamahal ulit.”-Cliff

“Then nagkahiwalay po kami nong 2020 po. Then yung iniisip ko na baguhin ko na lang po yunh sarili ko. Until now po wala po akong babae, wala na po akong Girlfriend po until 2024 po. Yung inisip ko talaga na ayusin ko ang sarili ko muna bago ulit ako magmahal kasi talagang nasaktan ko po talaga siya ng sobra sa mga nagawa ko pong mali. “-Cliff

“So parang sinasabi mo naging ganyan ka dahil lang din sa traumang idinulot sayo nong huli mong relationship before her? “-Vice

“Opo” -Cliff

“So ngayon bago ka pumasok sa susunod kailangan maayos mo yung issues mo eh. You face your deal, you acknowledge your issues , you deal with it and you resolve your issues”-Vice

“Opo” -Cliff

“Yeah magandang bagay yun. Kasi marami tayong bagay na ginagawa lahat yan ay di naman talaga tayo. Yun ay epekto ng mga trauma natin pagkabata, pagbibinata, pagdadalaga, trauma sa pagtanda, trauma sa loob ng bahay, trauma sa eskwelahan lahat yan binago tayo.” -Vice

“Lahat naman tayong nagsimulang purong puro eh, mabubuting tao, mabubuti ang puso hanggang sa binago tayo ng napakaraming iba’t ibang mga pangyayari sa paligid natin. Kaya tama yun you acknowledge kung ano bang mga issues mo kung ano ang nangyari sayo noon, ano naging epekto nito . Gusto mo ba yung mga epektong to? Ngayon aalamin mo kung pano mo matutulungan ang sarili mo to become a better person.” -Vice

“Opo” -Cliff

“And you deserve another chance to redeem yourself. “ -Vice

“Ilang taon kana?”-Vice

“34 po”-Cliff

“Kaya yan, yung iba na redeem ang self, nakapagbago nong kwarenta na. Ikaw malay mo sa 35 di ba? Lahat tayo Nong nagkamali tayo choice natin yun eh, kaya yung makakabawi tayong lahat choice din natin yun” -Vice

“Napatawad mo na si Cliff?” -jhong

“Yes po. I know na magbabago siya pero hindi sa akin, sa ibang person na." -Runa

“Ang sakit na ikaw iyong biktima noong bad person era niya. Tapos ikaw iyong rason para ma-realize niya maling iyon pero hindi ikaw iyong makikinabang ng magandang pagbabago niya. Parang, ‘ako yung nasaktan eh pero sa iba siya bumawi.”-Vice

“Ikaw yung nag forgive, nag sacrifice, nagmahal pero nong bumuti siya sa iba niya naranasan yun”-Karyle and Vice

“NAGBABAGO ANG CHEATERS PERO SA TAONG HANDA NA SILANG MANINDIGAN.” ang cheater kasi late nila narerealize na di sapat yung nabibigay na fullfilment sa kanila sa mga pinaggagawa nila at minsan late na din nilang narerealize yung value ng taong minsa’y silang inibig pag ito ay wala na sa kanila.

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𝗚𝗔𝗟𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙

"Galactic Self" is a concept often associated with New Age spirituality and metaphysics. It refers to the idea that individuals are interconnected with the entire universe on a profound level, and that our true nature transcends our physical existence.

Some people believe that tapping into their "Galactic Self" involves exploring higher consciousness, meditation, and connecting with the cosmos to gain a deeper understanding of their place in the universe. It's a concept that emphasizes unity and oneness with the cosmos.

In simple terms, the idea of the "Galactic Self" suggests that each of us is not just an individual person but also connected to the entire universe. It's like saying that we are all tiny pieces of a much larger cosmic puzzle. This concept encourages us to explore our connection to the universe, often through practices like meditation and self-reflection, to better understand our place in the grand scheme of things. It's a way of thinking that highlights our unity with the universe and seeks to explore our deeper, more profound selves.

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This is hilarious! ABOUT GEMINI

Most of the time we don't apply to ourselves what we advised to people who needed our advise. I guess that's how we really are—good at advising to people without even caring if we can apply that advice to ourselves 🤣

But hey! What matter is we are smart all the time! 😂

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𝗦𝗣𝗜𝗥𝗜𝗧𝗨𝗔𝗟 𝗔𝗧𝗧𝗔𝗖𝗞

A spiritual attack is a term used in various spiritual and religious traditions to describe perceived negative or malevolent forces or energies targeting an individual’s well-being, often on a spiritual or energetic level. These attacks are believed to disrupt one’s spiritual, emotional, mental, or physical equilibrium.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF COMPREHENSION

Comprehension is a fundamental cognitive skill that plays a pivotal role in human communication, learning, and problem-solving. Its importance cannot be overstated, as it forms the bedrock of our ability to make sense of the world around us. In the realm of language, comprehension enables us to understand spoken and written words, allowing us to engage in meaningful conversations, read and interpret literature, and follow instructions. Beyond language, comprehension extends to various aspects of life, such as comprehending complex mathematical concepts, scientific principles, and the nuances of social interactions.

In education, comprehension is the cornerstone of effective learning. It is not enough for students to merely memorize facts and figures; they must grasp the underlying concepts and ideas to apply knowledge creatively and critically. Comprehension enables students to connect new information with existing knowledge, fostering deeper understanding and long-term retention. Moreover, it empowers individuals to analyze, evaluate, and synthesize information, promoting higher-order thinking skills that are essential in the modern world.

Comprehension also plays a crucial role in problem-solving and decision-making. Whether it’s deciphering a complex issue at work, navigating personal relationships, or making informed choices as citizens in a democratic society, the ability to comprehend diverse perspectives, data, and consequences is indispensable. Without comprehension, individuals are prone to misinterpretation, miscommunication, and making hasty or ill-informed decisions.

Furthermore, comprehension is intrinsically linked to empathy and cultural awareness. When we comprehend the experiences, beliefs, and perspectives of others, we can foster empathy and build bridges of understanding in an increasingly interconnected world. This skill is vital for promoting inclusivity, tolerance, and cooperation across diverse communities and global contexts.

In summary, comprehension is a multifaceted skill that underpins our capacity to learn, communicate, solve problems, and engage with the complexities of life. It is an essential tool for personal growth, education, and societal progress, contributing to more informed and empathetic individuals and a more harmonious and prosperous world.

Certainly, let’s delve deeper into the significance of comprehension.

Comprehension is not just a cognitive skill; it’s a lens through which we perceive and interact with the world. It enables us to extract meaning from the barrage of information we encounter daily, whether through text, images, or conversations. In an era defined by an overwhelming abundance of information, the ability to discern what is relevant, accurate, and valuable is paramount. Comprehension empowers us to sift through this data deluge, distinguishing between fact and fiction, making informed choices, and participating in meaningful discourse.

Moreover, comprehension fuels innovation and progress. It allows us to grasp the discoveries and inventions of those who came before us, building upon their knowledge to push the boundaries of human achievement. Scientific breakthroughs, technological advancements, and artistic creations all rely on the capacity to understand, synthesize, and innovate based on existing knowledge.

In the workplace, comprehension is an essential skill that can lead to professional success. It facilitates effective communication, ensuring that ideas are conveyed accurately and that tasks are executed with precision. Furthermore, it supports critical thinking and problem-solving, enabling employees to tackle complex challenges, adapt to changing circumstances, and contribute meaningfully to their organizations.

On a personal level, comprehension enriches our lives by fostering a deeper connection with the world and with others. It allows us to appreciate the beauty of literature, art, and culture, transcending surface-level experiences to engage with profound ideas and emotions. It also enhances our relationships, as it enables us to truly listen, understand, and empathize with others, strengthening bonds and resolving conflicts more effectively.

In the context of lifelong learning, comprehension remains a lifelong companion. It is the key to continued personal growth, adaptability, and resilience in a rapidly evolving world. In essence, comprehension is the bridge that connects us to knowledge, to each other, and to the possibilities of a brighter future. Its significance extends far beyond the boundaries of academia; it is a fundamental skill that shapes our identities and our collective destiny.

“I used to think that communication was the key until I realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want to someone, but if they don’t understand you, it won’t reach them they way you need it to.”

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THE POWER OF SILENCE

Silence possesses a profound and often underestimated power in the cacophony of our noisy world. It serves as a canvas upon which the nuances of our existence are painted. In the stillness of silence, we find the space to reflect, to listen, and to truly understand. It is a sanctuary for introspection, where thoughts take shape and emotions find their voice.

In silence, connections are forged that transcend words, as a shared quiet moment can convey more than a thousand conversations. It offers solace, allowing us to escape the relentless noise and rediscover the beauty of our inner world.

Silence is a potent tool in communication, for it allows us to absorb the unspoken truths beneath words, fostering empathy and connection. Moreover, it has the power to heal, offering respite to weary souls and mending wounds that words cannot. In the grand symphony of existence, silence is the rest between the notes, the pause that imbues meaning and depth into our lives, reminding us that sometimes, it's in the absence of sound that we find the most profound wisdom and serenity.

The power of silence extends beyond the individual, resonating through the tapestry of human relationships and society itself. In a world characterized by constant chatter and information overload, silence stands as a counterbalance, a source of clarity and perspective. It empowers us to truly hear others, not just their words, but the emotions and intentions beneath. In the silence of a compassionate ear, people find the courage to share their deepest fears, hopes, and dreams, fostering bonds of trust and understanding that transcend the superficial. Silence can be a potent force in conflict resolution, offering a space where adversaries can pause, reflect, and find common ground.

On a larger scale, the power of silence emerges as a force for change and protest. Throughout history, silent protests have conveyed powerful messages, speaking volumes without uttering a word. It is in the silence of collective action that societies have confronted injustice, discrimination, and inequality. From Gandhi’s peaceful marches to contemporary movements, silence has been a symbol of resilience, unity, and the unyielding demand for justice.

In the natural world, silence showcases its awe-inspiring power as well. It is in the stillness of untouched landscapes, the quiet of a forest, or the hush of a tranquil dawn that we connect with the profound beauty and intricacy of the planet. Silence is a reminder of our place in the grand tapestry of the universe, an invitation to contemplate the mysteries of existence and appreciate the delicate balance of life on Earth.

In sum, silence is far from empty; it is a reservoir of potential, a space for introspection, connection, and transformation. Its power is both personal and collective, a timeless force that enriches our lives, relationships, and the world itself in ways that words can only begin to describe.

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𝗪𝗛𝗬 𝗜𝗦 𝗜𝗧 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗧𝗢 𝗥𝗔𝗜𝗦𝗘 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 & 𝟰 𝗦𝗜𝗚𝗡𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗥𝗔𝗜𝗦𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗔𝗟 𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗡𝗖𝗬

Everything that exists is vibration. We all are made of energy. When our vibration increases we feel lighter, positive and happy but when it decreases we end up feeling low, depressed, fearful and insecure.

After all, we all are humans and on a daily basis we experience a variety of emotions. It is absolutely normal to feel sad, angry, low, joyous, happy and so on. But as we raise our vibration, these emotions flow through us easily than getting stuck within, as they generally tend to.

Raising your vibration isn’t about being constantly happy and in a la la land. It’s about attuning to the frequency of the Universe. The way we talk to ourselves and others, and ourselves determines our frequency. Let’s start with ourselves first. Are we rude to the self, feeling guilty, judging ourself, and taking life too seriously? Are we thinking, “I am not good enough, I am fat, I can never do anything right, life sucks.” What if every word we spoke appeared on our skin like a tattoo? How would we communicate then?

Honestly, every word has a vibration and it becomes your reality. The harder you are on yourself, the lower the vibration. The main tool to raise your vibration is to live joyously and find fun in the simplest things. This of course takes most of us back to our childhood where there was no fear of the future or bitterness of the past because we were always living in the present moment and mostly having fun.

𝗦𝗬𝗠𝗣𝗧𝗢𝗠𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗛𝗜𝗚𝗛𝗘𝗥 𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡

You are mostly happy, energised, enthusiastic and optimistic. You start attracting positive people and good things into your life. When an unpleasant situation arises, there is a deeper knowledge that it is for your good and you are protected.

𝗦𝗬𝗠𝗣𝗧𝗢𝗠𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗟𝗢𝗪𝗘𝗥 𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡

You are mostly moody, depressed, lethargic, angry, insecure and fearful. Negative people mostly flock to you. ‘Why me’ attitude. You mostly play the blame game. You constantly judge yourself and often use negative words like “I’m unlucky, life sucks, I don’t like my body etc.”

𝗦𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗘 𝗧𝗜𝗣𝗦 𝗧𝗢 𝗥𝗔𝗜𝗦𝗘 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡

• 𝘎𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦 — is the quickest way to raise your vibration. Be grateful for little things like perfect health, a great meal, family etc. Love and appreciate the self. Love your flaws as much as you love your assets. Stop surrounding yourself with negativity — negative people, news and gossip.

• 𝘕𝘰𝘯-𝘫𝘶𝘥𝘨𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 — realise that we all are on this path to learn and accept others with kindness. Let things flow, don’t be a control freak. Use positive speech. Talk to yourself and others with kindness. Stay away from negativities in social media. It is a trap.

Spend more time with yourself, go inwards and give more time to your family. Have fun. Laugh more. Live in the present. Exercise is the mantra for a healthy mind and body. Eat higher vibrational food such as fresh fruits, veggies, nuts, seeds. Stay away from processed, canned, frozen food, meat and sodas. Listen to music. Sound uplifts you and encourages a deeper connection with your highest self. Living in high vibration doesn’t promise end of bad days but it definitely guarantees a better life, making you feel truly one in a million.

𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗗𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗞𝗡𝗢𝗪 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗜𝗡 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗢𝗖𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗡𝗦𝗖𝗘𝗡𝗗𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗢 𝗔 𝗛𝗜𝗚𝗛𝗘𝗥 𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗔𝗟 𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗡𝗖𝗬?

𝘛𝘏𝘌 𝘗𝘌𝘙𝘊𝘌𝘗𝘛𝘐𝘖𝘕 𝘖𝘍 𝘛𝘏𝘌 𝘌𝘟𝘐𝘚𝘛𝘌𝘕𝘊𝘌

The first of these to look for is whether or not you believe your understanding of the workings of the world and the fact that you have ascended means you can hold yourself in higher regard than other people who have not yet awaken; if you believe there is any rationale in condescending thoughts toward others, chances are you haven’t yet started awakening yourself, and just that you acknowledge there is a higher form of consciousness which helps us make life better for ourselves and those around us.

𝘛𝘏𝘌 𝘗𝘌𝘙𝘊𝘌𝘗𝘛𝘐𝘖𝘕 𝘖𝘍 𝘠𝘖𝘜𝘙𝘚𝘌𝘓𝘍

Second, a significant sign of heightened vibrational frequency which we can notice, is based on our understanding of ourselves and the world in which we exist. If you see life as a bunch of sticks, stones, people, and mundane artifacts, chances are you haven’t awakened to the point of opening your eyes to reality, yet. Conversely, if you look out and see yourself as a spiritual being having a human experience, notice the beauty and light of all life as observed in absolutely everything (yes, even darkness is beautiful), then you’ve likely reached a slightly heightened form of understanding.

𝘛𝘏𝘌 𝘗𝘌𝘙𝘊𝘌𝘗𝘛𝘐𝘖𝘕 𝘖𝘍 𝘖𝘛𝘏𝘌𝘙 𝘗𝘌𝘖𝘗𝘓𝘌

A third teller is how we approach interactions with people, particularly pertaining to learning or teaching opportunities. If we approach interactions with our ego in the forefront and have a driven goal to convince them of our perspectives, or to tell them theirs are wrong, we are likely not yet awakening. This isn’t just because being of a higher conscious understanding means we are less hypocritical or less aggressive (less aggressive energy, maybe…), but the ability to stop projecting our own negativity on others as well as your focus being on your own growth more than theirs. To acknowledge that teaching is teaching and not preaching, so to speak.

𝘚𝘌𝘓𝘍-𝘓𝘖𝘝𝘌

The fourth observation I’d like to mention is highly important in acknowledging spiritual growth: you find yourself practicing self-love. To understand that whatever is happening in your life can help you to reach a higher state of understanding and no longer expect yourself to maintain a reputable level of “perfection” while getting upset with yourself for not managing it. To have grown spiritually a person must see the world as it is: beautiful and stunningly imperfect. And you, as part of the world, will never be perfect either. For one to actively practice forgiving oneself, caring for oneself, and with the goal of improving oneself, is a sure sign that ascension and transcending to a higher vibrational frequency is in the process. That is, as long as it isn’t while being condescending.

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“You need to be responsible with your every decision, even if it may lead you to failing and/or losing yourself during the process.. Pause and think.. feel your heart and follow your intuition.. Trusting your instinct will take you on the right path to your desired destination. Be present always and have patience. The hardest road that sometimes tedious path to cross is usually the right path you need to take. There is no shortcut when aiming enlightenment. There's no shortcut to any kind of success in this human life.”

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“Let my soul smile through my heart

and my heart smile through my eyes,

that I may scatter rich smiles in sad hearts.”

Paramahansa Yogananda

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𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗗𝗔𝗥𝗞 𝗦𝗜𝗗𝗘 𝗢𝗙 𝗡𝗜𝗖𝗘 𝗣𝗘𝗢𝗣𝗟𝗘

Human beings are a blend of the good and the bad. Some are kinder, while others are not. Some people believe that being polite is one of the most admirable traits a person can have. Isn’t it true that all nice people are wonderful to be around? They always appear to be composed, calm, and trustworthy.

However, as we dig deeper and understand a person’s motives, it’s clear that there’s a dark side of nice people. The best thing we can all do is acknowledge ourselves. As there is always more than what meets the eye.

𝘞ℎ𝘺 𝘈𝑟𝘦 𝘚𝑜𝘮𝑒 𝑃𝘦𝑜𝘱𝑙𝘦 𝘚𝑜 𝑁𝘪𝑐𝘦?

We often wonder how someone can be so nice. They are considerate and caring people. But they may have their own motives for being nice. Some of these reasons are:

1. 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙮𝙧 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙭

Have you seen certain people going out of their way to do things for you? Nice people will sacrifice their own happiness and well-being to care for others. People with this attitude maintain a blend of selflessness and servitude. They want to be the martyr of your life and demand to be showered with appreciation and praise for their niceness. This is one of the dark sides of nice people.

2. 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢 𝙤𝙛 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙥𝙪𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣

Being too nice can be used as a form of manipulation to get what they want. Narcissists men often display unwarranted affection towards women to lure them into their trap. They are masters of deceit and manipulation. They begin by convincing their partner that they share a unique and special bond by being too nice. Once the victim is in their trap they begin to exert control over their victims. A 2020 study suggested that narcissists tend to go out of their way to impress others.

3. 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙖𝙧𝙨

One of the darkest sides of nice people is that they are liars. Nice people constantly lie to themselves when they agree to do things they don’t enjoy. They lie to other people to make sure the other person is not upset. They are so anxious about upsetting others or being perceived as someone who is selfish, they become dishonest. Nice people are dishonest about their true selves. Hence they lack the courage to stand up for what they believe in. In relationships, being too nice without being honest can only give birth to mistrust and resentment.

4. 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙨

Nice people are often people pleasers. Their first instinct is to please everyone. Nice people want to be nice despite the consequences. Hence they say yes to everything even if they don’t want to. People-pleasing goes beyond kindness and being nice. It involves alteration of words and actions for the sake of making someone happy. The urge to please people all the time and allow other people’s wants above our own can have a negative effect on ourselves and our relationships.

The Negative Effects Of Being Nice

There are several negative effects of being nice. They are:

Being taken for granted

People taking advantage of your niceness

Being hesitant to ask for help

Being abused for your generous nature

Interferes with the individual’s self-esteem and worth

Experiencing a lag in their lives because they are too consumed with helping other people

Experiencing burnout

The Truth About The Dark Side Of Nice People

Nice people are often not as nice. Nice people are just people who are obedient and secure. They are more likely to sacrifice their authenticity for authority. The dark side of nice people may be shocking. However, the key to being a “nice person” without the dark side is to actually identify the consequences of your actions and understanding your motives behind them

[serafheljadeeeee]

𝗪𝗛𝗘𝗡 𝗔 𝗦𝗢𝗨𝗟 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗘𝗦 𝗜𝗧𝗦 𝗕𝗢𝗗𝗬

When a soul leaves its human body, there is an expansion of consciousness, a feeling of immense peace and liberation.

Souls never leave alone, no one dies alone, they are generally accompanied by relatives who left before and who come to accompany them.

Also Spirit Guides are present to reassure them and accompany them on their journey.

Sometimes they are taken to places of recovery, especially if they suffered an immediate death or a long and exhausting illness, or if you one had a difficult life.

The person who leaves his human body receives and welcomes our thoughts of gratitude for his life.

We can always help you with our calming words and thoughts to avoid your worry or attachment to this plane.

The soul says goodbye once it feels and perceives that its relatives are calmer. They usually become present in your energy body through dreams.

What a person needs the most when leaving their physiological base is to feel and know that we are going to be fine.

The greatest gift that we can offer a person when leaving their body is our own Peace and Loving Energy.

In honor for all the souls that are experiencing their transit or transition. Love and Respect for all those who are saying goodbye to a loved one.

— Sujata Agarwal

🦋

[serafheljadeeeee]

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗜𝗖𝗘 𝗢𝗙 𝗔𝗪𝗔𝗞𝗘𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚

You will feel pain.

You will doubt yourself a thousand times.

They will tell you that you are going crazy.

You will lose friends.

Your family will sometimes cannot understand you.

People will hate you for no reason.

You will develop weird habits.

You will fight with your monsters (fear, ego

and ignorance).

You won't care of what they will think of you.

You will feel like you don't fit in this world.

You will become terribly selective.

And you will be left little by little alone.

But it will all be worth it!

No one lights up fantasizing figures of light, but making aware of the darkness that surrounds us and the that dwells within us.

The true spiritual awakening is not a caress, but rather a bucket of cold water.

What good would it do you, to caress your ego, with whispers, fantasies or longings. When what you need is a strong jolt, so that you really assimilate what life is.

The True SPIRITUAL AWAKENING is a process of destruction.

"It's the crumbling of everything you ARE NOT."

[serafheljadeeeee]

𝗡𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗰𝗲 𝗔 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽

Sometimes it's better to move on, than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately there will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot.

You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work to begin with.

You can't force someone to genuinely care about you.

You can't force someone to be faithful to you.

You can't force someone to be the person you need

them to be.

The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without.

You have got to understand some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay.

Everything that you do to show love, you have to be

careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

I know it's hard when you meet someone and your heart feels, that's the person you could spend an eternity with, and you start to accept that they are not that person you thought they needed to be.

And no matter how many times you cry yourself to sleep at night, you will eventually heal from your previous relationship and find the one you have always longed for. Your future will now bring an understanding of why things didn't work out in your previous relationships.

One thing I have learned throughout the years, is “It is better to be single than to be in a relationship settling for less.”

If they see you as an option, then they don't deserve to be a priority in your life.

Take my advice and never chase someone who's not chasing you.

🧘‍♀️

[serafheljadeeeee]

Affirmations to

Rebalance each Chakra:

FIRST CHAKRA: I am willing to let go of all fears, worries and situations related to money, career, safety and security. I know that I am perfectly

protected and that all my needs are abundantly covered.

SECOND CHAKRA: I release all my desires and cravings to the light. I renounce all fears and negative thoughts that prevent me from feeling peace,

harmony and balance. All my thoughts

and emotions flow harmoniously. All my

desires are perfectly balanced.

THIRD CHAKRA: I am willing to let go of all fears and situations that have to do with power and control. I fully accept my inner power, it's okay to be in control of my power and use it for my ultimate good and the good of others

FOURTH CHAKRA: I voluntarily release all fears and worries related to giving and receiving love. My heart is open and flowing freely with love for myself and others. I allow myself to give and receive love easily.

Fifth CHAKRA: I voluntarily release all

fear and negativity that prevents me from expressing my truth. l lovingly speak my truth and allow my Higher Self to speak through me. I use my words to

create beauty in this world.

SIXTH CHAKRA: I voluntarily release

all fears of looking to the past, present

and future. I release any fears I have of

seeing the Truth. My vision is perfectly

ordered and illuminated by love, I trust my intuition

SEVENTH CHAKRA: I allow the light to dissolve any barriers that prevent me from receiving wisdom and guidance. I give up all fear and open myself to listen to my Soul and Higher Self. I am in

balance and harmony with the whole

Universe!!

[serafheljadeeeee]

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗘𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆 𝗙𝗶𝗲𝗹𝗱: 𝗔𝗨𝗥𝗔

The AURA is one of the key components of the Human Energy Field. The aura surrounds the body and provides an energy-based connection between an individual and the external environment. Even though most people cannot see auras, everyone is able to sense the information they emit. Most people know, for example, whether being near another person makes them feel energized or drained.

This form of subtle communication occurs as the aura interacts with energy in the environment. You may have noticed that the auras of some people seem to reach out and draw you in, while those of others seem to keep you at arms’ length. When a person is feeling expansive, his or her aura is literally expanded.