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the great thing about being an aroace nonbinary person is that half the queer community thinks I’m a privileged cishet invading their spaces and the cishets think I’m a mentally ill freak but both sides agree that I’m faking it for attention.
#my favorite is when people claim to be accepting but constantly “forget” my identites#but would never dream of doing that to non-aspec or binary trans people
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a feel like the new generation of fanfic readers NEED to understand that clicking on a fic (interaction) does nothing. ao3 has no algorithm. your private discord discussions of fic do not reach the authors. if you do not actively engage with writers they will stop posting. this isn’t social media this is community.
#like sure#you dont owe fic writers comments and interaction#but fic writers also dont owe you fics and if they arent motivated to write more they just wont
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I didn't thought I'd need to say this in the year of 2025, but Just because nonbinary people can be transmasc/transfem, doesn't mean all of us are, And erasing/ignoring nonbinary identities and expressions that very much denies/rejects a gender binary is still exorsexism and genderism. Just because asexuality/aromanticity are a spectrum, and with that there's aspec people that can have sex/be in relationships if they feel like it, doesn't mean all aspec people can/want to do any of that, and ignoring a whole group of sexrom averse/negative/repulsed aspecs while treating the possibility for sex/relationship with sex/rom-positive aspec people as a 'loophole' to still pursue that with them, is still very much ace/arophobic At the end of the day, if your progressiveness doesn't actually stray away that much from the status quo, if there's always a loophole, if there's always an argument to pull us back in (even if tangential) to the same violences that denies our existence, then it's not really actually that progressive, you just made extra steps to the same system that opresses us.
#as a nontrans masc or fem nonbinary person#as well as a sexrom repulsed aroace person who has had (other queer!) people pursue me while fully aware of that#i need people to stop acting like all nonbinary people still fit into the gender binary and only talking about aroace people who date#or have sex
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has this been done

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I have had an original work about grieving lesbians trapped in a mountain cabin during winter cooking up somewhere in here for a while
#just as soon as i can afford to get a new laptop so approximately 2 years from now#then i can write it lmao#writers#writing#writers on tumblr#writer#lesbians#grieving
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If this were medieval times, Neil Josten would 100% be burned at the stake for looking the way he does and having a mouth that doesn’t know when to quit.
I’d be in the front row handing out torches. He made me feel things and I find that personally offensive. I’ll start the rumor, I’ll light the fire, and I’ll sob into my cloak while chanting 'witch' with the peasants.
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Responding to the excuses ppl say when they’re “TOTALLY NOT” erasing Yelena’s aroace sexuality
- So tired of people who are “aro/ace allies” until the moment it costs them something. “We need more representation! I’m here for the aro/ace community!” until you wanna ship Yelena x Kate or Bob x Yelena, then you’re totally chill coming up with excuses like “but mcu is different from the comics…!” and erasing one of the little pieces of aro/ace rep we actually have
- “Just because Yelena is aro/ace in the comics doesn’t mean she’s aro/ace in the MCU! These are different characters!!” If Yelena was gay in the comics and they had her be straight in the MCU, you would understand why erasing minority representation is bad.
- “Aro/aces can still date!” Awesome, true. So I better see those Yelena x character fics depicting what’s like being in a sexual relationship without being sexually attracted to your partner, to show how it feels to desire a romantic relationship when to you, that means something different to typical romance, you had better show Yelena being an aromantic asexual person in a relationship. Or was this just an excuse to write her in an allosexual, alloromantic relationship and then say you aren’t erasing her sexuality?
- “Why do you care so much? Just let it go!” I care so much because it’s 2025 and aro/ace people like myself are still being ignored and mistreated by our own community. Aro/ace people have even less representation than most branches of the queer community, and the blatant erasure of one of the very few pieces of representation we DO have helps no one.
#“aroace people can still date” yeah but dating doesnt mean we automatically stop being aroace#just saying “oh this character is [insert identity]” and then not respecting any of the actual aspects of that identity is still erasure#yelena belova#aroace#aroace yelena belova#thunderbolts
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Lunar Chronicles movie adaptation and it's animated????
#marissa meyer stays THE fandom girly turned author ever#as long as they fix some of the world building issues (iykyk) this one might actually be good guys#cant believe i get to see the couple that introduced me to cringe werewolf romance come to life lmao#the lunar chronicles#marissa meyer#cinder#scarlet#cress#winter#stars above
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WHY DID NO ONE TELL ME THE FREAKING MC IN ALL FOR THE GAME SERIES IS ASEPC??? SHUT TF UPPPPP
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What the fuck what the fuck WHAT THE FUCK

We live in actual hell
#“the victim forgave his killer” no you made deep fake of the victim and then made it say whatever you wanted#do people not feel fucking empathy or shame anymore???#ai#anti ai
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Yashiki is such a good protag because he manages to embody both major + opposing sides of the death mark fanbase at once: 1. The weird doll pervert guys 2. The people who want to fuck mashita
#jokes on you im neither#yashiki embodies me by being pathetic and procrastinating so hard people die#death mark
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Just saw someone post a TikTok of their art of Neil labeling him pansexual and claiming that Nora confirming he's demisexual isn't canon because it's "supplemental" and "not whats written in the book" so for this pride month I will be bleaching my eyes.
#if anyone was wondering what i was on about when i posted about people trying to erase neils ace identity#first of all it absolutely is whats written in the book and idk how anyone is reading jeremy and jean's povs and not getting the contrast#a lot of this fandom needs to deal with their internalized acephobia#aftg#neil josten#demisexual
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Unsure how anyone left Sinners believing that the message was Christianity saved the day, Mary and Stack didn't really love each other, and Remmick wasn't the bad guy. Did we watch the same movie?
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it really frustrates me to think about how people are inevitably going to take Remmick’s one (1) singular statement about how much he resents the way the Irish were colonized and forcibly converted to Christianity and use it as fuel for “actually he had a point” and “he was right actually” and “he’s not really the villain here” posts, when the whole point is that Remmick is, through the vampiric hive mind he’s creating, forcibly assimilating people into yet another manipulative and parasitical system. he doesn't value the cultures of the people he assimilates—notice how all the vampires he turns dance to his culture's music using his culture's dances, and how he only uses the languages or knowledge other vampires have to offer when he needs to manipulate someone. Remmick is extremely transparent about the way he sees the people he turns as resources to exploit.
he’s perpetuating a cycle that he claims to hate and resent, and I think the movie is pretty damn clear about the fact that he doesn’t see anybody as valuable or useful to him except as prey and as pawns—otherwise he would just, you know, focus solely on people who actually consent to being turned. but he looked sad in that one scene and he’s an apparently attractive white cis man so people are gonna bend over backwards justifying all the harm he did.
#literally a huge part of the movie was the juxtaposition between remmick's offers of “love and fellowship” through control and submission#and the real love and fellowship the humans shared through their community and culture#Sinners#Sinners 2025
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I was also using Fanfiction.net, it's not that old lmao
When it comes to talking about pre-Ao3 fanfiction platforms, its always "Fanfiction.net" this, and "LiveJournal" that. Where is my love for the people who were making those 5 part "Trapped in a Haunted House with One Direction" quiz series on Quotev? The true backbone of the early 2000s fanfiction community.
#ao3 wasnt even really a thing until i was almost out of middle school and i didnt have an accunt until college#i think we are just forgetting how new it actually is#like it existed but people didnt start migrating over the way they have recently for a while
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