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Unpackinggamic

a xenogender relating to the game unpacking !! this can be relating to the lore, characters, sorting, or the whole thing

Coined by Saturn !!

[ENDOS DNI]

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𓏵　|　everique !　|　𓌔

"everique is an orientation term to describe when one views their entire identity as queer, and thus views all of their attractions as such. it can be used as a modifier alongside other labels or as a term on its own."

the pink stripes represent queerness in their attraction, and the blue purple-ish stripes below it represent the multiple sexualities someone everique can identify with. the outside stripes represent queer connection, affection, and the last stripe is up to personal interpretation.

001. creds to @oceancoins (for coining the term), @ruvien (making the flag)

002. requested by anon!

003. term coined by @oceancoins ! this is an alt flag.

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Omg this is beautiful

Ah, hey, first post here. My english is not soo good and I'm brazilian btw, but, i have something to share with you 🫵

This is a version of the aromantic flag made by me, honestly i don't like so much the green, gray and black one, so i made this, i tried to post on reddit but I think it don't worked out as well as I expected. Well, here we go

The isolated flag if you want it

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"this [noun] is a leafeon otherkin"

— used official TCG art

— request for @ the-starry-city

— endos DNI

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This is real and I agree 100% <- I just wanna make that clear

Though I do have to add, do not force source separation if it's only going to do more harm

If an introject is having a lot of trouble with source separation, you need to be gentle and understanding, it is a delusion and it's not something you can always just snap someone out of, be supportive of their growth outside of the source, show them new things, help them grow outside of their source slowly and comfortably

Offer names, pronouns, hobbies, ect

Be kind to your headmates who have unhealthy attachments, encourage them to grow, do not shame them out of it

Note in case someone gets upset at me calling it a delusion: I am delusional, I have psychosis, it is not a bad thing to point out when something is a delusion in general, obviously don't go telling people directly they are delusional, that is wrong, but heavy source attachments can cross the line of delusion

it’s genuinely not healthy for introjects to fully identify as their source.

yes, it makes sense that an introject might feel a strong connection to their source — that’s literally what being an introject is — but when that connection turns into “i am this person/character”, it starts to cross a line that can be harmful for both the introject and the rest of the system.

clinging to source identity can seriously blur the line between reality and internal experience, which isn’t great for staying grounded. it can also get in the way of healing, where building a stable, self-aware identity is part of recovery. if you're stuck in “i’m not me, i’m [source],” it’s hard to grow into who you actually are.

plus, the longer someone holds onto that identity without room to self-differentiate, the harder it can hit later when they start questioning it.

it’s okay to relate to your source. it’s okay to carry parts of them with you. but introjects deserve to be their own person — not carbon copies. you should exist beyond where you came from.

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"Endos aren't invading disordered spaces!!!"

Seven times, we've clarified this community to be an anti-endo space. Seven. As if the bolded community name itself isn't enough, already. So, with that being very clearly pointed out (seven times, did I mention?), why have there still been multiple accounts littered with pro-endo tags trying to join? Hm? Why is that?

There's a reason this community is a "request to join" one. Do people fr think we're not going to check? Guys.

I'm not even mad about it atp, the audacity is just absolutely insane.

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I've actually noticed our hand writing actually does change sometimes with switches

Some of us like me write neater, slowly and actually understandable characters while others just write quickly to get it done and then it turns out looking kinda like shit

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Maybe in another universe we aren't fragments of what could have been

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Have you considered that maybe I'm just sitting in a telescope silently with my fingers entwined?

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I think those who are kind to nature are more likely to be kinder in nature

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This is exactly how I feel with certain alters

You know who you are /silly

Communication in this system with certain alters is shit. I have to learn most important information through what is essentially run off — crumpled notes in our pockets, notes written in apps on our phone, posts on their blogs etc. I would love it if they would directly communicate with me.

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— HYDRANGIC

[pt: hydrangic, end pt]

attraction to women that is queer and straight simultaneously, but the straightness is uniquely queer and not heteronormative.

this can be referred to genderfluid or multigender individuals who identify as female and nonbinary/male/etc, as well as primarily neutral, agenrine or outherine individuals who experience both straight and queer attraction to women due to their gender identity and/or other influences.

mlm equivalent / dianthic

requested by anon!

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ALRIGHT EVERYONE!! THE SERVER IS DONE!!!!

The server is open to CDD systems of all syscourse stances!! Since it's a CDD only space, we aren't allowing endos, BUT pro endos with CDDs are welcome to join!! Just a place where we can all forget about the chaos and cruelty of syscourse, and just vibe with other systems!

(Special thanks to @enbuggsblurr and @the-starry-city for helping us with the server, making the emojis, and enbugg making the server icon!!)

Come join us!! It's fun I promise hehe

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Big Sibling

[pt: big sibling. end pt]

requested by 🌺🌸 anon

A big sibling is a type of alter who acts as a caring big sibling and takes care of other alters, usually due to the system lacking an older sibling or parental figure.

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Calmrivnaturic

Calmrivnaturic!

A gender related to calm rivers that slowly flow into lakes, where the rivers are filled with mossy rocks, moss, lilypads, and other plants and nature.

Coined by us, requested by no one, but pls let us know if this is an accidental recoin!

Etymology: [Calm] + [ri]ver + [natur]e + ic

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everythingisstarsic

this gender relates to cavetowns albumn everything is made of stars !! this gender may feel starry, outworldly and alien like like as if ur gender itself is made of stars

coined by saturn !!

[ENDOS DNI]

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lemonboyic

this gender relates to cavetowns albumn lemon boy!! this gender feels connected to nature and being a boy

coined by saturn !!

[ENDOS DNI]

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