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[👾] autaromantic + autasexual !!!

.*⌒★; autasexual, autaromantic, autaaroace: autasexual and autaromantic were coined by @genderlofi​, their definitions are:

.*⌒★; autasexual: when someone isn't sure if they're asexual or not due to autism making attraction confusing or asexuality modified by autism in some way 

.*⌒★; autaromantic: when someone isn't sure if they're aromantic or not due to autism making attraction confusing or aromanticism modified by autism in some way.

autaaroace is simply for when you are both of the above.

.*⌒★; im not a huge fan of the original flags because of the autasexual flag’s resemblance to the nby flag and the confusion that causes. i use these terms extremely frequently so i thought it’d be nice to make some flags i feel more comfortable using :)

ORIGINAL COINING POST

.*⌒★; autasexual flag meaning: black, purple, white and grey from the asexual flag, orange and yellow for levels of ambiguity, and red for autism. autism symbol also for autism.

.*⌒★; autaromantic flag meaning: greens and grey from the aromantic flag, orange, yellow and creme for levels of ambiguity, and red for autism. autism symbol also for autism.

.*⌒★; autaaroace flag meaning: purple and black for asexuality, red for autism, orange and creme for ambiguity, greens for aromanticism and spectrum of both attraction and autism. autism symbol also for autism.

★; coins by @genderlofi, flags by me ; req by no one

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Reblog to put one of these in your mutuals’ pocket when they’re not looking

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As a reminder: libraries, museums, zoos, etc are NOT brand accounts! As an example, the Monterey Bay Aquarium Tumblr is very cool & they support ocean conservation and education! I believe the National Archives and Smithsonian Libraries are also around here somewhere. Support public institutions!

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ECCENTRICLEXIC 。

a lexegender related 2 the word " eccentric . "

coined && flag by me , requested by withlovefromtheoozes 。

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Adding on to the recent neogender/xenogender discourse, I feel that people don't talk enough about the fact that gender umbrellas can overlap a lot, and that acknowledging that xenogender and other neogender umbrellas are different doesn't mean that terms can't be used in a xenine way

You're oddcoric in a xenine way? Cool.

You're oddcoric in a kenine way? Cool.

You're oddcoric in a gender umbrella that the term isn't typically used for? Cool.

I think that people on both sides of the debate fail to realize that distinguishing different umbrellas from xenogender doesn't mean that we have to disown or shrink xenogender's place as an umbrella term, and that labels can be very subjective and not overly strict and categorized.

(feel free to correct me on this if I'm just being dumb, but don't take it as an invitation to start shit with me.)

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（：。）ミ : mythanix

a gender related to being a great monster / creature / animal from mythology / legends but being kept as a pet — made with creatures such as cerberus but can be used for non-dangerous ones as well !

[ id : a six striped flag. the outer most stripes have triangles protruding out of them like sharp teeth. the colors in order of top to bottom are dark red, red, off white, grey, dark grey, nearly black. all flags are the exact same. / end id. ]

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already got a blazed marvel post. the adpocalypse is closer than we think so heres your daily PSA

don't interact with corporate tumblr accounts

yes even to dunk on them. i don't care if you have the sickest burn of the century lined up, don't even give them the time of day

the eventual and inevitable fall of twitter marks a change in the advertising industry, and tumblr is unclaimed territory. if we want tumblr to remain the social media bastion it has become, it needs to remain as unappealing to corporations as possible. do not engage. in a marketing strategist's eyes, any kind of attention is good attention. don't "silence, brand" them. don't kungpowpenis them. don't send them hate anons. don't hate-follow them. corporate tumblrs are not a single entity and they will not be harassed off this site. we only have a shot at repelling them because of tumblr's lack of an algorithm. so turn off recommended posts on your dashboard, put it chronological order, and install an adblocker. if you don't seek out these blazed posts and actively ignore them when they happen upon you, the corporations will starve. in this case, the best kind of protest is a silent one

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I’m watching that documentary “Before Stonewall” about gay history pre-1969, and uncovered something which I think is interesting.

The documentary includes a brief clip of a 1954 televised newscast about the rise of homosexuality. The host of the program interviewed psychologists, a police officer, and one “known homosexual”. The “known homosexual” is 22 years old. He identifies himself as Curtis White, which is a pseudonym; his name is actually Dale Olson.

So I tracked down the newscast. According to what I can find, Dale Olson may have been the first gay man to appear openly on television and defend his sexual orientation. He explains that there’s nothing wrong with him mentally and he’s never been arrested. When asked whether he’d take a cure if it existed, he says no. When asked whether his family knows he’s gay, he says that they didn’t up until tonight, but he guesses they’re going to find out, and he’ll probably be fired from his job as well. So of course the host is like …why are you doing this interview then? and Dale Olson, cool as cucumber pie, says “I think that this way I can be a little useful to someone besides myself.”

1954. 22 years old. Balls of pure titanium.

Despite the pseudonym, Dale’s boss did indeed recognize him from the TV program, and he was promptly fired the next day. He wrote into ONE magazine six months later to reassure readers that he had gotten a new job at a higher salary.

Curious about what became of him, I looked into his life a little further. It turns out that he ultimately became a very successful publicity agent. He promoted the Rocky movies and Superman. Not only that, but get this: Dale represented Rock Hudson, and he was the person who convinced him to disclose that he had AIDS! He wrote the statement Rock read. And as we know, Rock Hudson’s disclosure had a very significant effect on the national conversation about AIDS in the U.S.

It appears that no one has made the connection between Dale Olson the publicity agent instrumental in the AIDS debate and Dale Olson the 22-year-old first openly gay man on TV. So I thought I’d make it. For Pride month, an unsung gay hero.

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how many times are intersex people going to have to remind you all to stop throwing us under the bus. when i see dyadic trans people say shit like “no kids are ever prescribed hormones/have surgery” you’re ignoring the hundreds of intersex kids every year who are forced into “normalizing treatments” because the idea of letting kids exist outside the sex binary is something doctors refuse to let happen. doctors and legislators are both incredibly interested in controlling our bodily autonomy as both trans and intersex people—they don’t want any of us to have the freedom to live authentically as ourselves. for trans people, that shows up like restricting access to gender affirming care. for intersex people, that looks like non consensual surgery and hormones that is often times used almost like conversion therapy, especially if you’re both trans and intersex. y’all CANNOT forget about us when you’re calling out transphobia, because I promise you that the transphobes have not forgot about us, as almost every single transphobic bill about restricting gender affirming care in the United States has also left explicit provisions to ensure that intersex genital mutilation and nonconsensual hormone therapy can continue. Dyadic trans people, you really should be able to understand why doctors denying people the ability to live as their authentic self without coercion is a problem, and you all NEED to stop acting like our fights for bodily autonomy are in conflict when in reality, it is two sides of the same coin.

okay to reblog

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Aux pronouns flags

General warning, a bit of a long post, added a keep reading text break to avoid lag or to avoid the post in general. Please read DNI here on our pinned post before interacting.

She/her auxiliary pronouns flag

[FLAG ID: Four stripes of equal size, from top to bottom: pink, peach, pastel purple, and pastel yellow]

A flag for those who prefer she/her pronouns as auxiliary pronouns. Auxiliary pronouns are pronouns used instead of preferred pronouns for multiple different reasons, such as for those who are first learning English, those who are disabled, for verbal use, or another reason entirely.

Pink stands those who use she/her to show a strong connection femininity or a strong connection to woman-hood or girl-hood. Peach is for those who have a weaker, yet present connection to femininity, woman-hood, or girl-hood, such as demigirls. Pastel purple is for those who are a mix of both femininity, masculinity, or another similar combination. Finally, pastel yellow is for those who are separate from the binary of male and female/masculine and feminine and use she/her aux pronouns for a completely different reason.

He/him auxiliary pronouns flag

[FLAG ID: Four stripes of equal size, from top to bottom: blue, pastel cyan, pastel purple, and pastel yellow]

A flag for those who prefer he/him pronouns as auxiliary pronouns. Auxiliary pronouns are pronouns used instead of preferred pronouns for multiple different reasons, such as for those who are first learning English, those who are disabled, for verbal use, or another reason entirely.

Blue stands those who use he/him to show a strong connection masculinity or a strong connection to man-hood or boy-hood. pastel cyan is for those who have a weaker, yet present connection to masculinity, man-hood, or boy-hood, such as demiboys. Pastel purple is for those who are a mix of both femininity, masculinity, or another similar combination. Finally, pastel yellow is for those who are separate from the binary of male and female/masculine and feminine and use he/him aux pronouns for a completely different reason.

They/them auxiliary pronouns flag

[FLAG ID: Four stripes of equal size, from top to bottom: yellow, pastel yellow, pastel green, and pastel purple]

A flag for those who prefer they/them pronouns as auxiliary pronouns. Auxiliary pronouns are pronouns used instead of preferred pronouns for multiple different reasons, such as for those who are first learning English, those who are disabled, for verbal use, or another reason entirely.

Yellow is for all the non-binary individuals who use they/them as aux pronouns. Pastel yellow is for those who use they/them for their own personal reason, such as being a demiboy who prefers neutral terms, someone who is androgynous presenting, or a completely different reason. Pastel green is for those who reject the binary, are xenine, outherine, or any other form of not being in-between a gender binary. Pastel purple is for those who are a mix of genders or are somewhere in-between the gender binary who use they/them aux pronouns.

It/its auxiliary pronouns flag

[FLAG ID: Four stripes of equal size, from top to bottom: green, pastel green, pastel orange, and pastel yellow]

A flag for those who prefer it/its pronouns as auxiliary pronouns. Auxiliary pronouns are pronouns used instead of preferred pronouns for multiple different reasons, such as for those who are first learning English, those who are disabled, for verbal use, or another reason entirely.

Green is for those who reclaim the "weird" or "strange" stereotype of breaking gender norms through its gender and/or presentation and use it/its aux pronouns. Pastel green is for those who reject the binary, are xenine, outherine, or any other form of not being in-between a gender binary. Pastel orange is for the nonhuman individuals who use it/its as aux pronouns to separate itself from human terms. Finally, pastel yellow is for those who use it/its pronouns for a completely different reason, such as being non-binary but with a preference for it/its, someone questioning its pronouns, or a completely different reason.

No pronouns auxiliary pronouns flag

[FLAG ID: Four stripes of equal size, from top to bottom: black, light gray, orange, and green]

A flag for those who prefer no pronouns as auxiliary pronouns. Auxiliary pronouns are pronouns used instead of preferred pronouns for multiple different reasons, such as for those who are first learning English, those who are disabled, for verbal use, or another reason entirely.

Black is for those who are agender, gendervoid, or another form of genderless and prefer to use no pronouns as aux pronouns. Light gray is for those who's gender cannot easily be explained by other aux pronouns and therefore uses no pronouns as aux pronouns. Orange is for nonhuman individuals who use no pronouns as aux pronouns for comfort with nonhumanity. Finally, green is for all other individuals who do not wish to use other aux pronouns and therefore use no pronouns as aux pronouns.

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︶꒦꒷ ୨ HELLOKITTAIDIC : 🩰🩹

a gender related to hello kitty bandaids !

coined late for gorey cointober

[ id: a symmetrical, horizontal, nine striped flag. all the stripes are the same size except the second, third, seventh, and eighth. the third / seventh is the thinnest, while second and eighth are a bit bigger but still thinner than the rest of the stripes. the the colors from top to bottom are hot pink, pink, desaturated pink, light pink, off white, light pink, desaturated pink, pink, hot pink. the second flag is the same except for having a png of a pink hello kitty bandaid. / end id ]

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Pasteldeathic

Pasteldeathic- A gender related to pastel death. Pastel flowers around a gravestone, pastel sheets in a casket, pastel clothes at a funeral, etc.

Related Pronouns: death/deaths grave/graves end/ends pas/past/pastel/pastels/pastelself or pasself

Day 7 of @cinnamogai 's coining event. Prompt: Pastels

[Image ID: 2 five striped flags. Colors from top to bottom are: lilac, pastel blue, pastel green, desaturated pastel green, pastel magenta. First flag has a skeleton man sitting cross-legged and juggling five skulls in front of a blob of white in the center. End ID]

(term and flag by me) ask before adding any term to a wiki

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I might not be perfect, I definitely don’t have all of the answers, and I’m not all the way there yet but I’m getting there.

And that’s what matters. That’s what I’m most proud of.

I can only be as good as I can allow myself.

I am better than I was last year, and next year I will be better then I am right now.

I deserve to be happy. To dance. To laugh,

I deserve what’s to come, and I will stick around long enough to see it.

I am here and I am okay.

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i feel kind of bugged out by umbrellas that are like "any gender outside of x" because i feel like the more things that are coined that create more categories, the less these descriptions work, and the more they shrink

like, one of the definitions of xenogender (which, btw, i don't really support wikis changing the original definition of xenogender, even if i don't like that one too much either, bc it's still rude to the coiner idk) is "any gender outside of male female neutral androgynous and outherine" (or something like that) and to that i say.... first of all that is clumping a LOT of things together that aren't necessarily related, and then secondly...

when people start making shit like lumenoir, luxine, kenochoric, aetherine, etc., and placing them alongside male, female, neutral, etc., the response is either putting it under xenogender (which a lot of these coiners don't want), OR now the definition of xenogender is "any gender outside of male female neutral androgynous outherine kenochoric luxine lumenoir mortelum aetherine rosenion etc etc" and to me it just feels like that will shrink the xenogender label over time

so when they're COINED they might make sense, but i think in the long run having these kinds of definitions can be very damaging. with a term like "nonbinary" it makes sense because it's outside of the extremely widespead and not-changing-any-time-soon gender binary of male and female, but outside of that, especially with neogenders, it's something that i think has just been causing more and more conflict. people see xenogender in a set way that in the long-run either tries to include terms that don't fit, OR that inevitably shrinks the labels' scope over time

idk where i'm going with this, just something that's been on my mind tbh

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🎀　ー PATHETICFREAK ..

patheticgirlfreak ー gender connected to being a girl / girly , a freak && pathetic

patheticboyfreak ー a gender connected to being boyish / a boy , a freak && pathetic

patheticfreak ー a gender connected to being a freak , && being pathetic .

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[id: screenshots of tiktok captions. the images say, “but the only reason we still love princess diana is because she did not have the time to disappoint us.”]

begging queer kids to read up on princess diana’s involvement with the community. yes, she was a rich, pretty monarch. yes, she died young.

but the reason why queer people love her is because she used her privilege during the aids crisis to advocate for sick queer men, when very few others would - much less someone of her status.

diana spent years advocating for the health and care of queer people with hiv/aids. in 1987, at the height of the epidemic, she opened the first specialist clinic dedicated to treating aids patients (the first clinic of it’s kind in the uk).

she also fought public hysteria by hugging and shaking bare hands with aids patients, at a time when aids was thought to be spread by skin to skin contact. not only that, she visited patients in the clinic regularly and even comforted them through their sickness.

and when queen elizabeth told her to try focusing on “something more pleasant”?

diana ignored her and kept fighting.

and this is only her work towards the aids crisis. she publicly called out the royal family, brought attention to numerous world issues, and was known as an advocate for empathy and kindness. she’s known and loved as the people’s princess for good reason