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juvie buddies
#alek art#td duncan#td mal#total drama#total drama all stars#(if i want to get technical)#2024#duncan is around 15 here... mal is around 16#ive thought really hard about them these past few days . in my brain they actually knew each other and canon is different#duncan and mike got along really well. in juvie mal refused to speak to anyone about anything and would fight as many people as he could .#he wanted to stay in there and far away from home . they get roomed together and duncan is the first person who mal can talk to . he isnt#scared of him . he relates to him a lot . like -> wow we both act out for attention and people think we are terrible because of it#duncan being a mentally ill teenager seeing mal an also very mentally ill teenager thought 'i can fix him' . mike and duncan speak too here#i cant really see anyone else fronting besides those two . their brain was on lockdown and mike wanted out so bad . i see manitoba as a#gatekeeper so hed handle some sessions with their psych. i want to say they (duncan and mike) get moved to a psyche ward just because#i have more knowledge on being in one and how it goes ... but yeah i like duncan mal a lot . this art isnt ship whatsoever though 🙏 i dont#see them as a couple their dynamic is just better as friends imo#but anyways in all stars they obviously recognize each other but have an unspoken agreement not to say anything abt it#duncan is a known criminal but mike isnt like that . mike hadnt even told zoey about that part of his life . so duncan wanted to respect his#privacy -> then mal starts hurting people and he has to step in . mal isnt a good person by any means but i dont think he was that bad in#juvie . so duncan had to come to terms that his friend wasnt the same person he was years ago (in all stars duncan is ~18 and i think mike#is almost 20... so it had been a while since they last talked)#them getting each other like no other and being in pain because they couldnt really speak . i see them having a conversation still in moon#madness abt their past and history . god i just think abt them and their wasted potential wdym mike and duncan were in juvie together#duncan was in for trespassing or destruction of private property or something really dumb . mal fought his parent(s) and got in for assault#mal was already in when duncan was placed . and duncan was let out early on good behavior + his parents (dad) mostly did it to teach him a#lesson . wrong of them or otherwise . so mal was just kinda stuck there until they realized he was actually not right in the head . think he#knew abt their DID but was only diagnosed in juvie and had to go from there . tbh he shouldve been tried as an adult but td logic . doesnt#matter dw guys . mike gets the 'was put on random meds that made him go braindead' treatment bc that was me . post mental hospital abilify#had me messed up
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actually I need a heist-style/murder on the orient express type fic where the entire aguefort staff works together to kill Bobby dawn. and succeeds btw that's so important.
#sklonda handles the case in court#she was also in on it#dimension 20#fhjy#fuck it lets throw the parent polycule in there too#fh adults Murder Abuser#everyone cheers#more at eleven
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I have all of these extended thoughts on my head about the amazing way themes and character relationships are handled in Iruma-kun and the inclusion of queerness and the handling of the coming of age narrative in this shonen manga/anime
And every time all that comes out when I'm reccing it is "You should watch/read it"
Do it. Go watch/read Mairimashita! Iruma-kun/Welcome to Demon School Iruma-kun
Please.
#mairimashita! iruma kun#m!ik#welcome to demon school iruma kun#i just be ramblin#anime recommendation#manga recommendation#Like okay baseline on its surface it's an isekai anime about a teenage boy who is sold to a demon by his terrible parents and has to go to#school in the demon realm and live there without being found out (otherwise he thinks he'll be eaten)#But it's also a story about growing up and a story about a kid from a terrible situation learning what it means to (and being allowed to)#have goals and ambitions and wants#It's about a kid who gets all his needs met for the first time in his life (and a little spoiled) and figures out he wants everyone to have#that#It's about friendship and bonds and the importance of working together with others#It debunks that usual take about how humanity's base traits are evil and greed and the urge to murder and steal and whatnot through#the comparison to demons‚ who are said to be all of those things at their core and yet in actuality aren't beholden to it#It's about outcasts coming together not letting other people determine their worth and proving just how high they can reach and what they#can accomplish. they force the world to recognize them instead of assimilating#It's about what happens to outcasts who are taken in by bad actors vs outcasts who get genuine support#It's about kindness#It's about how adults should both help the next generation improve while also being their defenders from things they shouldn't have to#handle yet#It's even about the dangers of being fully selfless or fully selfish. How personal desire/the serving of oneself and kindess/the serving of#others should be balanced#About how desire is not inherently terrible and about how being constantly self serving stunts one's growth#And it's also about a human who got sold to a demon and is gonna be the demon king one day#Thinking about this manga makes me want to chew through concrete I love it so much#*how constantly serving others stunts one's growth
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I'll never not find it funny that Jellystone's Doggie Daddy of all characters is a better father and person in general than Stolas.
#jellystone#jellystone!#Doggie Daddy#anti stolas#stolas critical#anti helluva boss#helluva boss criticism#helluva boss critical#anti vivziepop#vivziepop critical#vivziepop criticism#I mean last time I checked Doggie Daddy never neglected his daughter so he could go sexually harass the guy she views as ruining the family#And he sure as hell worries for his daughter if she goes missing if Grocery Store is any indication#Granted he's not necessarily a GOOD parent or person#In fact it's pretty obvious that Doggie Daddy is a textbook helicopter parent that doesn't let Augie have any individuality#and they are weirdly codependent with each other#which makes it even sadder that the “love interest” in a show for adults that's supposed to handle mature topics is worse
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dazai going from wanting chuuya to be his dog and/or maid in their teens to wanting chuuya to be his prince is the best example of a character growing up and realizing they're not a dom and they just thought they were when they were young and didn't know any better and had control issues. this way you can truly tell he's healing
#this is a joke. but also. it does work with his character arc you gotta admit#(of letting go of the role he found himself in. no longer a leader or someone with control over others like he was as an executive)#(now an adult who can let down his guard and let other people handle things and still feel safe)#(...hold on this post did start out as a d/s joke but i think i may be onto something here)
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Girl, help, the book authors are trying too hard to be "hip" with the fleeting "teen lingo" and trends again, immediately dating their works before they're even released
#eye twitching seeing certain modern slang in for real published books unironically#tiktokian slang that is out of date within weeks#it's a pet peeve of mine but so is modern books mentioning tiktok or stuff at all esp. when not relevant in general#god it pulls you out of the illusion#turns it into this very set in stone time frame rather than letting it just be or resonate on its own which is fine sometimes if natural#you can't avoid some mentions of some things when setting it today but in these cases it's so forced#hello fellow kidz.jpeg vibe in book form#books#this isn't even specific to ya books i've seen it in adult books as well#booklr#petty as i am i once stopped reading a first chapter excerpt for mentioning spotify by name on page 1 i'm sorry#this other book though oh they've used online phrases and boomer insult 3 times and brought up tiktok twice it's on thin f-ing ice#ignore me i'm petty but don't ignore me because this is a legit problem in the media industry#don't even get me started on text speak in the dialogue or texting sections yeah#it's not quite as bad if it's some fake variation of an app or just generic about being online but mentioning by name oh i'm gonna explode#most times anyway#i have yet to see it handled well#this was about slang though so tangent but !! gaah
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It's okay to rely on the other alters to take care of things that you can't do. You don't have to do everything by yourself. You're a team, you're a system of people. In fact, you should take advantage of that fact whenever you can. Life as a system is already difficult enough as is, you shouldn't force yourself to make it harder because you believe you have to be able to do it all.
#dissociative identity disorder#did#actually did#actuallydid#did osdd#osddid#by gray#this post is for our littles who stress out over doing adult things like work#it's okay kiddos you don't have to worry about that#let the adult parts handle work and you guys can handle getting love and affection and headpats
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This is a rant after I stupidly doom-scrolled Twitter and saw all those "Don't blame him!" posts. Mind the tags, and read at your own risk.
Just to be clear, even I could smile and shake hands with people I would love to hit with my car. It's called playing nice, being civil. But that doesn't mean I'll break bread with them. That doesn't mean I'll still smile and praise them, that's way beyond playing nice.
That is as close to ass-licking, in my opinion.
In what fucking way, Lando, did Donald fucking Trump is someone you have to have respect for in many ways?!
Tell me. Tell me!
As a sportsman, dear social media users, playing nice with a politician does not equate to whatever the fuck that Lando did! That's too much. Too much.
We feel that Lando lacks awareness because of his comments in regards to Trump not because he should have spit on Trump's face, it's because Lando could've just said:
"Yeah, I only met him after the race. Didn't think he'd be here watching the race." Or something!
You know, when dealing with politicians you should just stay clear of them. Especially when you're not in your own country, and you have influence over people (no matter the fact that he is, first and foremost, a sportsman). He either has zero awareness, he is just that apathetic towards whatever is happening, or he lacks media training.
I mean, who the fuck wouldn't put a red flag on Donald Trump? He should have gotten some notes before walking into the presscon. It's a disaster.
Also, to every single one of you who insist that Lando couldn't have done anything else- fuck you. There are a lot of ways he could've handled it.
#f1#mclaren f1#formula 1#miami gp 2024#lando norris#anti donald trump#ffs get a grip and don't baby him#he's an adult and he could strategise how tf to handle a 'potentially dangerous' situation (read: political involvement in sports and stuff)#and let's talk about how being civil is not the synoym for PRAISING!#you don't have to sugarcoat shit#just say shit is shit#ffs#rant post
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“They could have handled it better—” how????????Juliet was going to be a victim of child marriage to an older man and Romeo was on the run for manslaughter. They could not go to their parents (see: feud), they could not go to the authorities (see: Romeo at large for killing Tybalt), they literally just had the Friar and Nurse. Literally how could they have handled it better?????????
#romeo and juliet#rj clownery#r&j clownery#i think this may be the most detestable clownery#how???????#also what situation????#the falling-in-love-with-your-enemy situation????#the romeo-refusing-to-duel-tybalt situation?????#the learning-your-one-true-love-is-dying situation????#because let me tell you#grown-ass adults would not handle these well either
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the way people on the internet handle small animals makes me insane
#by handling btw i mean literally holding them with hands. in pictures#at fucking large why would you as an adult think it wise to hold a creature by its chest/scruff and just let it dangle. for why#is it that hard to support their rear with your second hand. would it kill you#im not a handling expert for like every animal ever but its justkind of common sense#and it gets more absurdly cruel the bigger the animal in question is#and yes i know what nuance is sometimes its an emergency but if youre snapping pics its clearly not an emergency. anyays
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mmm thinking of writing a fic where post drs2p1 lloyd gets time traveled to post pilots ninjas n has to raise himself n train others ninjas. also he wears a grey gi... and maybe kid lloyd doesnt show any dragoni features n just looks like a normal guy. and lloyd still has visions. and dr timeline ninjas try to get lloyd back. as a side story. also lloyd is still completely shit at disguising himself so wu garm n misako clock him as soon as they see him.
#im kinda loving this idea#also idk if lloyd will age up.i kinda think lloyd wants his kidself to be a kid for a bit longer. and let the adults (him n og 4) handle#ninjago#also lloyd introduces himself as green ninjas teahcer/protector or something.#syih tag#<- FOR NOW. i will make a better name for it later#lloyd garmadon#LLOYD FANS WHERE ARE YOU....... ANSWER ME PLS
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god i fucking hate my dad
#he came home today from a bike trip he went on and he's been arguing with me about honeybee the whole fucking day#he keeps saying just let her out let her run around! every time i put her in her pen to nap#and he refuses to stop her from biting him#and he got mad at her for playing with his socks when she'd just been playing with mine and he threw them on the floor of the living room#which first of all stop being such a fucking slob#and second of all what the fuck did you expect to happen? it's a soft new toy on the floor where she spends most of her time. where all her#toys are. very similar to the two soft items she's allowed to play with (my socks)#she's fucking 3 months old she doesn't understand the difference between my socks and his socks#and i keep telling him i know what im doing i was doing all the research while he went to buttfuck nowhere on his midlife crisis motorcycle#but he just wont fucking listen to me#and hes like oh youre at that age where you think youre right about everything and are so stubborn like fuck you actually#first of all im stubborn about this because its a living breathing puppy and his actions will affect her behaviour as an adult#and bc i know what im fucking doing. ive been an animal person my entire life. i did all the research. i did this exact same thing with#parrots for five years.#and hes like you cant just put her in her pen every time shes being a dog like no i fucking dont. i only put her in her pen when it's time#for a nap and she's getting overtired. you can't just let her run around until she collapses bc for one she never fucking will#second that's only going to make her energy threshold higher and then she'll be absolutely impossible to handle#and i told him that and that i read that on like every professional dog training source i read#and he said that might be true or might not be#like it fucking is bitch omfg#and then he tried to one up me like um i actually raised you guys for a long time i know what im doing#like a child is not a fucking dog. also my mom raised us lets be fucking serious. and look how well adjusted i turned out#and he told me to relax and calm down like i wasnt even arguing with him but i sure as hell will now#like dont tell me to fucking relax. when has telling anyone to relax ever made anything better. especially a teenager. especially a (for#simplicity's sake) woman.#and i told him dont tell me to relax and he got all pissy and stormed off#like literally fuck you#im my fathers daughter. im just as stubborn as he is.#rambles
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i think i might actually start mauling people. i think i should be allowed to hunt toshiro haters for sport.
#dungeon meshi#the fact that this is written in that goddamn eggman piss copypasta also adds. an interesting layer. to this post#need to put toshiro on a shelf above all these dunmeshi fans bc clearly they can't handle it#'bitch made weaboo shit' about a japanese man is. a telling choice.#this is not even the entire post there's at least three paragraphs of this nonsense#and it's all written in this excessively aggressive internetspeak type lingo#every single toshiro hater that likes the attached post owes me 300 dollars effective immediately#going to stop going through the dungeon meshi tag i think. going to let my following list vet the tag for me#this post reeks of like. someone who has never tried to interact with east asian culture outside of anime and other pop media#anyways. im going to go buy soju and calm down. i am an adult with responsibilities and a 9 to 5. the world has every kind of person#going to give them the benefit of the doubt and say they're a very young person enjoying fandom. ok. hope they learn. bc im not teaching#(checks bio) oh they're an adult. hm.
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hey just a couple things bc my step-dad really pissed my off yesterday and I need this to he out there:
People mature at different rates
And it's hard for autistic people to mature (quickly) because autism is a cognitive disability
Autism is a cognitive disability
#he- in a nutshell- told me to get my shit together that I'm a fucking idiot and I need to grow the fuck up.#okay first off what I did was an honest mistake. And I handled it for the most part.#second off I'm a teen and autistic. Quit expecting me to be a fucking adult when I'm not#and let me learn the hard way if I fuck up! Stop riding my dick!#Something I should also mention is that he's a bit of a hypocrite (I won't elaborate here)#It's really hard for neurodivergent people to remember simple things. Yall know this#And he basically told me that bc I forgot this simple thing that it wasn't important (I need to get a ride for today)#IF ITS NOT CONSTANTLY BROUGHT UP IM GOING TO FORGET. AND ALSO I FORGWT SIMPLE THINGS. ITS THAT FUCKING SIMPLE.#my step-dad is great when he's not a dick and most of the time he is.#bear rambles#vent
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I have baked two 9x13 carrot cakes which I shall ice tomorrow morning, and I have begun the process of dry-brining three chickens which I shall roast with lemons and thyme tomorrow afternoon (yes it would be better with more brining time but some time is better than none). My mother's 70th birthday lunch is the day after tomorrow.
#it's starting to get to me that she is 70#based on her mother she's probably going to live into her 90s#I just can't see how I am going to handle her getting really old#let alone her dying#I've never got to be a real independent adult apart from a few years when I was teaching (and we saw how that ended up)#(nervous breakdown)#when she was my age she had two children a career and was a homeowner#but I can't do anything about that so I believe I'll focus on these cakes and chickens
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seems like so far the #1 enemy of the bg3 modding community has been... *checks note* age. just like... any signs of age whatsoever.
#bg3#bg3 mods#fandom critical(?)#modder critical#when i started seeing these i tried to give people the benefit of the doubt#because i remember when i was in my late teens and early 20s the concept of being past my 30s/40s/etc felt so far away#and therefore people in those other age ranges seemed to exist in a different world from mine with different life experiences#and back then i would have created ocs that felt and looked as young as i was#and maybe would have felt uneasy romancing a character who seemed to have a large age gap with my oc since that's not my personal preferenc#and maybe SOME of the modders doing this are young and have similar reasons?#so i Sorta. Kinda. understand that thought process.#but i'm skeptical and would bet most of them are actually just adults who cannot handle age. period.#not to mention we're at the point where mods try to de-age npcs for no reason or straight-up ''''yassify'''' companions#or deprive them of their unique physical traits#and that's just. so frustrating and borderline gross.#let the characters in this game exist as they are. they have LIVED and they look like it!!!! that is good and their world is richer for it!#btw i'm talking about age and cosmetic changes exclusively. i'm not even including the racist whitewashing mods in this discussion because#those can go fuck themselves and i hope it goes without saying they deserve no benefit of the doubt. like zero#anyway. rant over for now#auri rambles
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