frost after the icarus armories people present her with 3 fancy new SP-34Rs
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I should be giving out selfship agony aunt advice sometimes I feel a little too unserious and unbothered by it all and am very secure in and quite internally validated by my own selfships. however I am thankful for my biggest fans xxx like you do not have to follow my goofy silly fictional boy chronicles. But you do and hopefully part of this is you enjoy my vibe and personality even without the selfshipping. I'm just here to broadcast my massive crushes on guys and fantasise and virtually scrapbook in my e-shrine. me and my fictional boyfriend who loves me forever and ever cause I dreamt us up perfectly :)
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hi all, thank you for all the very, very sweet comments, reblogs, and asks about prof geto :) <3
i'll be responding soon to them after lunch probably because i'm very touched by all of them and i'm trying to process since i have a hard time accepting praise (don't stop doing it, i do want it - i just get very flustered lol).
i'm already thinking about part two lol - and also about the professor gojo and nanami and hiromi fics i wanna write - this is gonna be a whole au at this point. but anyway - first 2k fics!! i'm making progress on the bodyguard! reader x rich boy! gojo fic :) hopefully will be out later next week :)
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all rounders
thinking about trad wives this morning
I'm not one. I have a full time career job. I was barren and couldn't have kids, even if I had fervently desired them. I married a guy who is a true feminist who was made to drink the Respect Women juice (tm) by his mother, who herself appears to be a trad wife on the surface but put all her stat points in cleaning and used cooking as her dump stat (trust me, I've eaten it, the only thing she gets right is a boxed carrot cake. Everything else she cooks from the freezer section of the grocery store, and she usually burns it.)
But I still spent my Saturday morning mending my husband's jeans, because I can still do that despite having a career outside the home, you know? Nothing precludes a woman (or a man, for that matter) who has a career from learning to do very basic home economics crap like mending a pair of blown out jeans or making baked goods from a recipe.
Much like nothing precludes a man (or a woman) with a career from learning to do lawn maintenance or basic home repairs.
No one's goal should be traditional anything. Our goal in the 21st century should be "all rounders" - learn to do the things that we can do that make economic sense to do on our own. By spending that hour messing with that patch this morning, I salvaged my husband's favorite pair of Levi 501 jeans, saving us at least $40 for another year.
My husband, tired of paying an electrician for what he perceived to be 5 minutes of work, learned to replace light switches on his own.
True professionals/career executives making a million dollars a year in NYC don't have time for that stuff, so they have to outsource everything.
The rest of us can make sure we've got a career that allows for enough of a work/life balance that we can spend an hour on a Saturday morning fixing a rip in the butt of some jeans or doing the edging on a lawn (also what I did this morning, right after my husband finished mowing) and we can afford to hire a professional when it's outside of the scope of basic DIYability or the time-money equation no longer makes sense (like hiring painters to come in and paint the whole house, which we did a few years ago.)
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