#23F

[cerise-apple]

i am curious.

are there any cis males out there who ship tododeku and/or bakudeku from my hero academia.

if so please reply/reblog this shamelessly thankssssss

[aplaceforthesoul]

Anonymous submitted:

[23/F] I first stumbled upon your blog when I was a teenager and it's been years, but it popped up on my mind just now and I was wondering if it was still active. I think it's divine timing that I remembered this blog because I realized I've been holding onto a lot of heavy feelings for a while now lol and maybe I do need a place to just breathe and let go, so here goes...

I've been working nonstop since I graduated from university at 20 but it feels like I have nothing to show for it. I see a lot of my peers and people I went to school with getting promotions, pay raises, going on lots of nice vacations, falling in love, etc. and even though I'm still pretty "young", I can't help but feel like I'm getting left behind. I know that I could afford all those things too, but I have obligations to my family and I end up using more than half of my paycheck on our rent, plus I shell out some money for other household expenses too (my parents are both living and my dad is employed), so I'm left with nothing at the end of each month and barely have any savings. I don't mind helping out because I know that my family went through a lot just so I could finish school, but I just feel so defeated sometimes when I see how far most of my peers have come. (It also wouldn't hurt if my family stopped relying on me financially as much as they do...) And I also know that my parents (my mom, specifically) made some really poor financial decisions that really drove us to financial ruin - her failed business ideas left us bankrupt and in debt. We lost our home, we lost our stability, and the worst part is she used up whatever savings we had left on a house downpayment and she ended up getting scammed. From time to time, she would urge me to take jobs or study abroad (we're from Asia) but I don't think she realizes how hard that is for me because of my financial situation (that she sort of put me in) because applications are tedious, time consuming, and costly. I just can't afford it, and I don't have the headspace to do it because I'm too worried about paying the bills and staying afloat, and keeping up with the demands of my job. I don't want to blame her for what happened, but I just can't seem to shake the resentment sometimes because I know that a lot of this could have been avoided, that I could be living a more comfortable life and I could do nice things for myself like my peers do, if she had made better decisions. If she had stopped to think about what she was doing, and what would happen to us if everything fails. And it feels so awful when she makes "suggestions" like that which feel more like she's dictating what I should do with my life, when she isn't really a success story herself... I don't hate my mom. I love her and I appreciate everything she has done for me and everything she continues to do for me, but living like this is so hard and it's really taking a toll on me, and I don't know how much longer I have to put up with this. I love her, but it's difficult to just look past what she's done (my dad isn't really a model parent either but that's a different story). I want to help her out as much as I can because I hate seeing her having a hard time (she can't even afford to get check-ups and go to the doctors even though we both know that she needs to), I just want her to live a good life. I want us to have a good life. It's tearing me apart because I just feel so stuck.

Right now, I don't have much of a choice except to work harder and maybe take on more jobs, but all I want to do is spend some time by myself, not worrying about anything and just... existing. I just want to breathe and exist and not worry about my obligations and "catching up" with my peers. I can't remember the last time I took a break to just recover and give myself space. :-( *sigh*

Sorry if this ended up being a whole ass novel lol. Regardless of whether this gets posted or not, I want to thank you for holding space for people like me. Special thank you to Bonnie, who I remember from the very first time I visited this blog. Sending much love <3

I know we’re answering this a lot later than intended, my sincere apologies for that. however you’re always welcome to write into the blog -- it might not always get posted right away, but it’ll always be a space of no judgement :* 

I can’t say that I know a lot about having parents that are financially dependent on me? but I can relate a lot to feeling like you’re constantly playing ‘catch up’ with your peers. I am currently 29 yrs old and I don’t have my drivers license, I don’t have a university/college degree (or any kind of tertiary education qualification), I have basically no savings to speak off?! and most people my age are buying their first home and about to have their first baby after being married for a few years while having completed their university double degree and just overall looking like they’ve got the whole ‘adulting’ thing working out very well for them. 

however -- they say that ‘comparison is the thief of joy’, and it’s honestly very true. you don’t necessarily need to look at your own life with joy?! but it can be a good start to stop comparing yourself to others. everyone is on their own path! the key, the goal, is to aim for being content -- and that looks different for everyone. maybe the people you see are getting pay rises or going on nice-looking holidays etc, but that really doesn’t mean that they’re happy with life or stress-free and free from their own problems. take notice of when you engage in ‘comparison’ thinking, when you compare yourself to others, and try to make an active effort to stop that train of thought. remind yourself of all that you’ve achieved so far, that your set of circumstances are different to others and you’re trying your best to make the best of the position that you’re in. 

take me for example: I was 23 yrs old (almostttt 24) when I moved halfway across the world to London, and now I’m living my best life! I don’t mean that in an ‘in your face’ way at all, just that life really takes some unexpected turns and you never quite know what’s around the corner. when I was 23/24 yrs of age, there’s no way I could have ever imagined that this is where I’d now be. you’ve got so much time to work things out and to start living life for you, I really mean that :)

where possible? start to spend time by yourself, carve out small moments in the day that are just for you. maybe that’s a nice long hot bath at the end of a busy work day, maybe it’s half an hour of yoga/meditation before bed, maybe it’s organising a catch-up with a friend? give yourself something to look forward to! living in London has given me a whole new outlook on the phrase “not having enough time” haha and I know that time really is a privilege and a luxury, but seriously try to actively make time for yourself where you can. 

this is just as long and rambling (apologies!), but I hope it’s helped a little bit friend. you’re not alone in feeling like you’re ‘behind’ at all, most of us are just trying to work out how to ‘adult’ properly and really don’t have it all put together. there’s no linear path to getting where you want to be, success looks different on everyone. xxx

- tash

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Tal día como hoy (23 de Febrero) Intento de golpe de estado en España (1981)

El 23 de febrero de 1981, se produjo un intento de golpe de Estado en España, conocido como el 23F. El golpe fue liderado por el teniente coronel Antonio Tejero, quien junto con 200 guardias civiles irrumpió en el Congreso de los Diputados mientras se votaba la investidura del nuevo presidente, Leopoldo Calvo Sotelo. Los diputados se encontraron secuestrados 18 horas, en Valencia general Milans…

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DERECHO DE GRACIA | @nachocorredor : “Yo era muy pequeño pero cuando se perdonó a Alfonso Armada en el 23F se justificó por motivos de conveniencia pública. Aznar perdonó a terroristas porque formaba parte del pasado” #xplicacrispacion Video publicado por laSexta Xplica @laSextaXplica

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23F. POR MUCHO QUE ESCUCHÉIS, NO ENTENDERÉIS…

Entre pícaros y juglares, funámbulos y trileros, se mezclaban unos aprovechados mensajeros que vendían o intercambiaban sus indecentes propuestas amparados en lo que decían representar. Aprovechando los festejos en algunos pueblos leridanos, adecuada cobertura para no llamar la atención, tanteaban al personal a la vez que medían sus capacidades. Se intercambiaban informes personales y hubo…

[natasxd]

CREAR MEMORIA A TRAVÉS DE LA RADIO

UN PEQUEÑO Y EMOTIVO HOMENAJE HACIA LA RADIO.

La radio tiene la necesidad de comunicar, informar, entretener al oyente, es la memoria, el recuerdo de la historia. A diferencia de otros medios, la radio mantiene un contacto mucho más personal y natural.

La radio, como dice el podcast, nace para acompañar al ciudadano, es una lucha contra el olvido, son las cicatrices de nuestra historia.

Ángeles Afuera presenta su nuevo proyecto "Tener voz: memoria, radio y política" Un podcast de cuatro episodios de 30 minutos.

En el episodio 2 “Crear memoria a través de la radio” habla sobre la importancia que fue la radio en España para los ciudadanos, cuenta sucesos históricos importantes por los que pasó como el 23 F y cómo hasta el presente nos ha acompañado, sobre todo aquellos oyentes que nacieron con ella.

El episodio está compuesto por varias voces: la presentadora, que habla más formal, con un guion preparado y personas invitadas que cuentan sus vivencias con la radio y su sentimiento hacia ella de forma más espontánea, también aparecen importantes referentes de la radio como Iñaki Gabilondo y Luis del Olmo donde cuentan sus testimonios. El Tono de las voces por lo general son más cercanas, los efectos sonoros te sitúan en el ambiente en el que se encuentran, también añaden grabaciones reales en los que la radio fue testigo como el 23F. La melodía de fondo es extradiegética y va acorde con el estilo del tema empatizando y dando más emoción a la narración.

Me parece un proyecto muy personal y bonito, creo que eso se ve en la forma que lo han compuesto y desarrollado. Se nota esa pasión por la historia de la radio, recoge esa nostalgia y educa a las nuevas generaciones la importancia de este medio que ha acompañado a la humanidad desde su creación.

[prawniscuous]

had to ask if I could write queer on things. real ally manager said go crazy

[english-mace]

i interrupt your scheduled goncharov-posting to say: STOP!

forest time!!

okay you may now continue

[klaudia2646]

It’s been so quiet this morning. Last day of class was last Thursday for most students. Tomorrow we’re expecting many CNA students coming in for testing.

I don’t understand why when people are such with what we assume it’s a cold, they come behind MY desk and stand talking to me, no mask, no nothing. No ma’am, I do not want you to stand so close to me when you have something as simple as a cold. I don’t want to get sick. Why is that so difficult to understand? It makes me so mad.

[jackredfieldwasmyjacob]

oh abascal really wants to stage a coup huh

[solradguy]

Ok so tomorrow the high is 80f and then this weekend the high is only going to be 48f which means I need to haul ass cleaning/preparing my swords and leather jacket for winter tomorrow. Soltober 02 will be a simple HOS but I haven't planned further than that

[badboneszone]

Self insert fanfic but written like a Reddit post so instead of (Y/N) it’s (Y/N)(Y/A|Y/G)

[toytulini]

why is it so common for aita submitters to give ppl in their asshole scenarios Letters. can you just make up a fake name. please god?

[chloreen]

it's all based on real events

[thegingerjedi]

Happy First Day of Spring from the kittens!!

[blackmoldmp3]

lmao