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holyshit · 4 months ago

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#'sorry for barging' anon #sorry gonna answer this in the tags since it's such a loaded topic #but yeah exactly- i think a lot of it comes down to people wanting them to perform their (very real) grief for an audience #and getting mad when they don't. which is wildly unfair and unrealistic and just... extremely entitled #and very much coming from a lack of understanding of grief and that it's not a perpetual state of uncontrollable crying #a massive part of grief is continuing living with all its up and down moments with a new heavy weight in the background #living in a perpetual state of sobs is not something any human can sustain. it involves adapting and continuing to live.#and that involves doing regular everyday things AND experiencing happy moments still. that does not mean you aren't still suffering.#to question whether they're 'truly' grieving is.... kinda evil and completely ridiculous lmao #and shows a massive lack of basic empathy and understanding of how human emotions work #we see less than 1 percent of their lives. to actually feel like you have the ability to judge someone's grieving process in general #is wild and weird but especially when you literally have seen nearly none of their lives in the past few months #i'm sure all of us have laughed and seen a friend and had other happy moments since october #that doesn't mean we do not miss liam and that we aren't devastatingly sad at other points.#and to somehow think that zouis reconnecting and being happy about it after such a tragic event would be somehow anti-liam is insane #i've even seen people judge zayn for not cancelling his entire tour which is so.....#if they for a second think that liam would have been petty enough to enjoy the idea of all of his friends stopping in their tracks forever #they clearly didn't really know him since he was clearly always SO supportive of everyone in 1d #and probably would have been very happy to see zayn and louis mend their relationship #it feels like a very weird way to make a fucking death and real life grief from his friends into a stan war which is......... beyond gross

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brainrotcharacters · 6 months ago

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Babe realized they were in love with Asher when they first heard him belly laugh

#redacted headcanon #do i say this because camden sutkowski's laughter is contagious? absolutely #babe heard what everyday for the rest of life could be like when it's asher talbot being happy #that mating bond fucks hard #redacted shaw pack #redacted #redacted asmr #redacted audio #redactedverse #redacted fandom #the other men in Babe's life who are monsters in practice but not in name have little to no sense of humor #babe adapted and absorbed that as a survival mechanism #and then realized that asher is just like them except with the choice of being trusting and positive and sweet #and realized how much more diverse a personality can be #and realized what they feel for asher is different

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kdramaxoxo · 6 months ago

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EMERGENCY

Dramacool and subsidiaries are closing!! Where will I watch dramas now?!?!? This is genuinely sad, I hope that something else pops-up. I don't want to be left hanging, hoping for dramas I find interesting to be licensed

Ugh. It's true...THANKS WE HATE IT.

I will say that Kissasian was working for me the other night so it's possible that it we can survive on that if it is not related? Hopefully someone else will pop up behind them!

Also the biggest loss for me is asianwiki. I use it multiple times a day!

Hugs everyone xoxo

#we can't have nice things #IS everything in life getting worse and worse #or is that just me getting older?#it literally feels like everyday I think WOW this used to be better #it's actually made me question my life choices lately #like how can I contribute or help build something that hasn't been stolen or distorted by end times capitalism #yup me at the end of the year #this is what my brain does #kdrama #it's a loss #dramacool #lets also take a moment to remember drama fever before westernization of kdramas #happy holidays everyone

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aliki-is-an-hellenist · 7 months ago

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If you're going through a rough patch, keep in mind that the pain is only temporal. The Gods don't want us to suffer endlessly or punish us. Everything They put in our way is for a reason, usually to help us grow into the best version of ourselves.

Remember that no matter how hard and difficult things feel right now, it's part of the trip. Think of it as a trial from the Gods, and that once you've passed it, happiness awaits for you in the end.

Trust me. It'll all be worth it.

#the Gods know what They're doing #i have to repeat myself these words everyday #when i feel i can't hold it anymore i remind myself that the Gods are looking out for me and They want the best for me #They want us to flourish as people and be happy #sometimes They put obstacles in our way to make us stronger and teach us how to adapt #nothing that's worth it is ever easy #hellenism #hellenic polytheism #hellenic pagan #hellenic deities #hellenic worship #pagan

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dispositionn-for-waakeme-up · 9 months ago

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#happy the loyal pin day #this is how I'm feeling everyday #Prik is the best #also #can someone have a burning desire on me please? no? ok #the loyal pin #thai gl

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napoftustar · 5 months ago

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your_home_숩 ☆

#thank you for coming home before the year ends and giving us update on how you’ve been🖤#you have no idea how much that means and how happy i am to hear from you🥺#our captain‚ our forest and our warm home🤎🌳🏡 we love you and we’ll wait for you as always so take all the time you need‚ okay?!#i knew that he was home with his family probably having good time with them but hearing it from him really did gave me a relief😭#like hearing from him that he sleeps well‚ eats home cooked meals‚ takes a walk everyday‚ looks at the sky and feels #spends time with his family‚ hearing from him that he’s healthy and happy and putting efforts to be healthier🥺nothing could make me happier #i missed you sOooOooooo much my love🥺 but i can wait you as much as you need and the passing time only makes my love grow bigger🥺#i hope he keeps having healing time with his loved ones‚ hope he never stops taking walks and looking up to the sky..♡#sighs the fact that he immediately brought happiness and brightness to my day...! and this will keep me going till they come back as 5 🙂‍↕️#love you soobie boobie doobie foobie🥺✨️💝💖💗💓🌟💞💕#tu’s moa diaries (tu’batu wari wari) 🌟

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lemonynuggets · 3 months ago

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(Guy that always has awful days voice) man I can’t believe today was awful

#lemon man talks #Fucking hell I wore my DHMIS shirt and my bracelets and my hairpin and my mushroom earrings #And I thought well I’m wearing things that make me happy then I’ll at least feel normal today right!!#The nice things I’m wearing will balance out the everyday awfulness!!!!!!#*wakes up sick as fuck* *feels lightheaded the whole day* *can’t pay attention in class and is prob gonna fail Friday’s exam*#*girl I hate switches to art class which is the ONLY class I didn’t hate and could just exist*#*has psh about gender stereotypes and just realizes even further how ignorant everyone is and how they’d treat me like shit if I was out*#*cant draw on art class because im feeling like shit and on the verge of tears and it makes me even more frustrated*#*realizes anyone from staff that seems so want to help me even minimally only pities me and don’t truly care or understand*#*loses respect for the only teacher I thought I could trust*#*girl I hate that switched to art class takes my seat so I have to sit somewhere else and I can’t handle change so I feel uncomfortable the #Entire class*#Man. Whatevwr #There’s only so much my bracelets and cool shirt can do for me #I hope I get run over by a car when I go to town this weekend

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jils-things · 3 months ago

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my nonnon ueeewiwiw

#my husband <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 #i love him i love him i love him sm #to my new followers... this is the man of the hour. week. month. Year.... 6 years omggg omgomgomgomg #everyday im earnestly watching the day pass by until it turns 19th #i tell him. hello. i know life has been incredibly cruel to u but youre here now and i wanna say happy birthday n thank ufor existing mwa #ouugohohguhuhuhhh #ive been a little tired lately but im ok!#i think about him and i feel better #looking at pics n silly edits of him makes me soo giggllyygrgrrggrrg eeekkkk #guysguys did u know i like him so much i have a big fat crush on him but im also his wife wait guys dont tell him that thats so embarassing #dont tell him becuz i will be so embarassed then ill have to tell ur fo u made me cryyy /silly silly #OUUGHHAHH i cannot put into words how much i love himmmhmm ;;_;;#EXPLODES im SO excited to post my birthday art for him (its my pfp but Bigger) u guys have no idea i havent showed anyone the full pic yet.

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sweet-loverboy · 3 months ago

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my single dorm, my senior year, 2024-2025

#i wanted to take a moment to cherish my room #this space is my pride and joy #it may not be large but i fill it with so much love that i #i love when people come to visit and the first thing they comment is how nice it smells #they compliment my walls that my friend so generously put together for me because i was too overwhelmed by the white walls and endless #posters and papers and art and scraps but she simply saw it as a puzzle and did it happily #she occasionally asked my opinion or i asked if she could make an adjustment and it was just such a breather because it felt nice to be #taken care of in some way yknow?#anywho i also like to make sure everyone has a place to sit #ive got a bean bag and my desk chair but i always offer my bed as long as theres no outside clothes in my sheets #my lights took AGES to put up because i did it myself #i was standing on my bed and then my desk and then a chair and then spidermaning the wall putting up thr wires with command strips and #then wrapping them on plastic hooks around the room ONLY FOR THE COMMAND STRIPS TO FAIL ANYWAYS #so like im glad my backup worked but i worked so hard 🤧#i (almost) always wanna have something on the tv or i’ve got a speaker that places music and i always offer a snack and UGH #i just love making people feel seen and cared for and GOOD when they’re with me it makes me feel so fulfilled and brings me so much joy #i realized when i was with my friend the other night i cooked her dinner and let her just enjoy herself and she was like this is really nice #i love quality time and acts of service #those are my favorite #and i think i try to cultivate a space that reflects that #i hope it’s inviting and makes people feel safe #i love when people ask questions about things on my walls or if they can look at my shelfs #my room is a museum of myself <3 i couldn’t be happier than for you to look at it and get to know me through my things and wow #i just love being a safe space #and this is my last semester at my school so i feel like my room today is an amalgam of my experience over the four years of who i have been #and who i became and how i GOT here. wow. heavy on that shit #it’s just really beautiful though #cause i carry my experiences with me everyday and i’m learning to build from them instead of let them sink me and it’s taken SO LONG to get #but im happy and i love my room and i wanted to share it

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zackcharine · 6 months ago

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I need to try harder to get out of bed but augh

#🤖.txt #aghhfjg i really need to catch up on sleep. but i also want to do stuff but idk. this is dumb but nothing i do really feels worth the effor #anymore. Thinking like this is sad bc drawing is one of the few things i like doing and make me happy but idk #i might just go back to the way things were before. Just wait for the weekend and spend as much time drawing then #genuinely dont want to do anything at all this is so frustrating and im so tired and sad all the time #i know i should be using my break to focus on studying but with what time #Idkkkk i just really hate living like this #thinking about dropping out again but that would just mean house chores + babysitting full time while job hunting and idk if i can handle #that. I cant handle anything anymore and this is making me so sad . I want to be useful and do so many things but i reached my limit months #ago. I just wanted a week or two to just rest its all i need . But i know im never gonna get that again and at this point i might as well #just die but i cant do that neither bc i have shit to do #Everyone is always talking about how i have it so easy and how things are just gonna get worse bc they think me being home = me not doing #anything and idk. I cant take anything anymore and i think the most upsetting part of this is that i know theyre right #im not doing barely anything and i dont know. How to do more im just useless and ungrateful for the things i have #Really stressed and tired and literally nothing happened. Its gonna be 2pm soon and im supposed to wake up Earlier #But yeagh. this wasnt supposed to be this wall of text i just wanted to say that i might give up on art again for a while #aughhh i dont know how to do anything right idk how to live or take care of myself how am i supposed to raise someone .#this is. too much i think. I reallyyyyy need to relearn how to just talk to myself . I cant keep dropping these everyday and being . This t #evsryone around me. Everyone in my life deserves so much better than ill ever be #vent

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yabusunny · 7 months ago

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alice yabusame art marathon 2024 has ended early.........it's okay there's always next year

#alice yabusame art marathon 2024 #i feel upset that i couldn't finish a goal i set for myself but also i feel a little relieved #got off to a bad start then i started missing the other deadlines.....i'm too far behind to catch up #was working on another art piece and realised i wasn't happy with it at all and was like. yeah i should probably call it quits #also maybe drawing everyday to improve only works when you're actively trying to learn instead of trying to just get an art piece out asap #especially when you're still bad at anatomy and have stiff drawings....and you've forgotten how to draw faces #i'll study and relearn everything in the new year and will come back stronger #i want to work on my artstyle too....#in the meantime i will finish my wips #+ alice's birthday....it's sooner than i thought oh god #i also have mvs to plan out. i've been stalling for too long no one animate [REDACTED] to [REDACTED] by [REDACTED] until i'm done okay #thank you to everyone who liked and reblogged and supported and everything ILOVE YOU☺️☺️☺️YAYYY #i'm really scared of talking to people directly but please know i appreciate all of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#i can't put anything into words i feel like that's not enough. telepathically sends my thoughts directly into your mind #i'm going to rest now.... oyasumimir everynyan

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larek16 · 8 days ago

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hello i think i might actually be trans

#help #i think after few years of feeling that way i can finally say this but i still might change my mind yk im only 15 #i came to that conclusion after trying to imagine myself as a 30 year old and I can't imagine myself being happy as a woman so #it's not that big of a deal because already people thought that im a guy but yeah #but it's only worsening my life quality and i pray everyday to just wake up in a male version of mine body #I can't be in military and im in military school so I'll have to go to my plan b job which is gas station worker or a piercer #i think I won't tell this to my class mates (even though i really like them and have good relations with them) till the end of highschool #or they will find out themselves idk how #idgaf that much tbh because if I don't tell anyone it won't change my life even a little bit because i already get mistaken as a man and #i don't really care about pronouns and all that stuff so good for me ig #transgender #trans #coming out #i feel stupid because all these years when somone asked me if im trans i was like “no i just like to look like a guy and sound like a guy”💀#EVEN ONCE MY PARENTS ASKED IF I'M TRANS AND I SAID “no... i think” LMFAO

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jjcocker · 4 months ago

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and also also I nearly cried during math class for a reason Complete ly Unrelated to math. I'll only brrak down transmasculine style when I get home tho

#i um ummm #basically my clas wants to do a Funday thing.#and one of the Fundays was like.. a “genderswap day”. the boys dress Like a Girl and the girls (and me) dress Like a Guy.#it was tbe only one of the turned down ones and the math teacher actually did mention why-#“lets say theres a girl who doesnt identify as one. this type of stuff is treated as a joke- imagine how the person would feel. like their i #dentity is a joke.” which shewas right for #and it already got me ☹️☹️☹️☹️ing. But the thing that made me nearly fuckin Die is like #she herself knows a trans guy #and like. she knew him before he transitioned and would ser him everyday. she mentions that bc of a major fuckup she said shed done— which i #s calling him “princess” after not sering him for a while (she constantlu calls ppl princess/prince idk if thatmajes much sense). and like #idk hte facf shee knwos she fucked up and she did literally say “I dont ser anything wrong if anything I just want people to be happy” is so #me shit my psrents would Nevrr saysnd it fucked me up. it fekt like i was beeing seen and Cared about.#the boy not the vessel

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lovelybelladonna · 29 days ago

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my boyfriends tumblr dms are my place of solace

#knight in shining armour 𝜗𝜚˚⋆#I don't get to talk to them everyday so #this is how I cope with it #it actually really helps #second time I've dmed them but like..#telling them how I feel #how my day was #it makes me happy #it makes me happy knowing they'll read that one day #they are a great listener #I only really tell them sad stuff at the moment though #my hormones have been a mess #I'll have to start telling them about the good things happening lately #I love them. so much

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dreamgirlevil420 · 1 month ago

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the only redeeming quality about being super congested is my low notes are fucking great right now, I've never sang "I'll make a man out of you better" if I had a YouTube channel I'd be filming like fifteen song covers

#can you tell i lost my voice last week and am just super grateful to have ut back now #cause legit anytime i lose my voice i feel like im in hell #im like a funny little bird i NEED to sing #im bored? singing #sad? singing #angry? singing #happy? singing #people sometimes ask me how to get better at singing but like ive been singing everyday of my life since i was a toddler #also just learned that tags have a character limit #lame

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codecicle-archive · 11 months ago

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Congratulations on figuring out there are multiple people in your brain btw. I saw a while ago you posting about it being unsure so, YAY YOU FIGURED IT OUT!! LETSGOOOO!!! HELLO CHARLIE AND OTHER CODECICLE ALTERS!!!! YAAAYYYY!!!!!

FIGURED IT OUT!!! It really is crazy I didn't figure it out sooner, but I just assumed I was weird and didn't talk to anybody about it. Made a joke about it after multiple years of hiding it from everyone (and myself) and got told by multiple people "Hey yeah you're not normal go research stop feeling scared" and I did and now I'm friends with the people in my brain 🔥🔥 huge wins all around! LETSGOOO WOOOOOOOO CHEERING YAAAY!! Everyone rattling around up here says hi back!!!

#i make yet anothet post just for me 👍#we have mail :]#actually insane i didnt figure it out earlier.#[guy with a disorder he doesnt know about voice] yeah man idk i feel like my body is being controlled by other people a lot of the time #and i talk to completely real people in my head everyday and others think im entirely insane because of it so i have to hide it #and i have memory issues and feel like going by multiple names #and my personality keeps changing and my likes and wants flip flop around #and im ALWAYS dissociated. wonder what all thats about !#surely not something ive been well aware of for years . SURELY not #IT COULDNT BE!#<- i may be stupid #it didnt help that they could subconsciously mess with me too. i didnt know why i felt scared of people finding out i was multiple #BEFORE i figured it out myself #then i sat down with charlie and had a conversation and quickly figured out ah. its your fault #motherfucker #anyway rambling over #its just really funny to me just how long i lived like this without thinking twice about it #and im really happy to slowly accept it and learn to live in harmony now ^_^

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