Me forgetting i have a Tumblr:
Y'all plz accept some fish tiddies as an apology for being gone for so long
Skull necklace ver under cut
My first time drawing a skull 😀
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I have a lot of unfinished projects, but here I am drawing my favorite Duck because my mom and I wanted to rewatch DuckTales (2017) in full order. I can't express how much I love this show, but I can say back in the day I made an entire AU based on this single moment from s3
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Look at all those pathetic twitter refugees crawling back to tumblr... including me, hello, I’m back and I’m making a sad attempt at huevember this year :^)
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A bunch of random art has been deleted. It's like Tumblr went through my bookshelf of collectibles and memories and just started tossing shit out the window. Good shit. Thanks Tumblr. Now the song to art ratio and page layout dynamic is fucked.
Hello to anyone that's still here. I love you all.
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Thanks for the tag @bigfunnywords! We can get more active On Here together!
Last song: According to Spotify it was Dear Reader by you know who but I’m still too heartbroken to speak of her right now. Also haven’t listened to music in dayyyys because podcasts exist.
Last show: The Good Fight, which is really weird and I’m not sure I like it but I’ve watched 4 seasons in just over a week.
Currently watching: South Carolina is beating Tennessee by two touchdowns!!! (To be clear: Go Dawgs)
Currently reading: A Beautifully Foolish Endeavor by Hank Green. I’m about 36% into it and not that hooked but curious how it will play out.
Current obsession: I don’t think I have one right now tbh! Which is a real downer. Feel free to rec me your obsessions.
Going to skip tagging since I don’t really know who is around these days! But feel free to do it and say I tagged you!
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So.
I found my own account.
By accident.
I am both glad and terrified.
Gladified, if you will.
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As of today I've officially read every post in the transandrophobia tag for an entire year--in addition to running a discord server on the topic for six months--so I feel I have some amount of insight into the term and the little community we seem to have been building around it.
I've seen people stumbling into the discussion and having their mental health immediately wrecked, so I want to share a few quick and basic reminders/lessons I needed to hear a year ago.
You're not a transmisogynist for using the word transandrophobia. You're not an MRA or a TERF either and it's messed up to call you those things. I used to question myself constantly about these things, but I've also now spent hours looking at what real MRAs and TERFs believe and it is nowhere near my beliefs.
You're allowed to take up space. In physical spaces of course--your presence isn't a threat just because you're a man/masc--but also in discussions of feminism and transphobia. It isn't talking over women to share your experiences as a trans person. You experience gendered oppression and it's okay to talk about it.
People lie about us constantly. I'm always hearing things like we think trans women oppress us or so and so in the discussion said something transmisogynistic; do not take these claims at face value, look into them yourself or ask someone who has done so.
Stereotyping us is bigotry plain and simple. That includes considering us more aggressive, annoying, self-centered, toxic, attention-seeking, and misogynistic compared to other groups.
Sexism can very much target men and mascs. If you've been defining transandrophobia as solely an intersection of transphobia and misogyny, I implore you to just look up sexism to see how it can affect nonnormative men. I can give examples.
We have allies! When I found the discussion and saw the vitriol and violent threats directed at us I felt hopeless and alone, but now I know there are plenty of trans women and fems who support me having language. You'll find your people.
I have more to say and I'd be happy to talk to anyone new to the discussion, just reach out.
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