#Setbacks Happen
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I’m going to be so hot this year but more than that I’m going to be so intentional w my time
#I am sooo ready for 2025 like actually#ppl are probably so sick of my hopecore posting but why do you guys not want me to hype myself up#For 2025#like SO much will be happening I literally need to post these affirmations daily to keep it together#I’m going to be sickeningly hopeful this January#January 2024 I was negative asf and that’s what catalyzed a mediocre year#I am sinking my TEETH into 2025#Going to be so type A ab this#<- to clarify I will be positive but not toxic positive like I will also accept setbacks#But I am also going to shoot high this year#Literally nobody cares anyway HAPPY new year .
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#2025 must be better i don’t know how much more i can handle from 2024#i just feel so lost and so behind and everything i tell others not to feel#but every setback just makes everything feel so out of reach and meaningless#i don’t know im just so tired of not feeling good enough for myself#when will life get easier when will circumstances get easier things just keep. happening#when will i get back to loving myself again lmfao#** and i’m not posting this for sympathy or w/e i just genuinely have nowhere else to vent about it#i just feel so caged in
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setbacks do not mean you have lost all of your progress. it is part of the healing process to go through ups and downs. as hard as it is, it will never be straight sailing—but the wonderful thing is that’s why we have other people to walk through it all with. it is okay (preferred, even) to lean on someone you trust when you are hurting or when you feel like you’ve failed yourself.
healing does not mean you will never experience that hurt again. healing means learning to cope and strengthen yourself for the hurt you know will come. healing means finding the courage to endure it. healing means asking for help when you need it and learning to even know when you need that help. healing does not mean just surviving—it means learning to live, too.
you haven’t failed. you are growing. it is okay to start again with the knowledge that you’ve acquired in your setbacks, so that each time you do start again, you make it further and further until eventually, those setbacks are so few and far in between that they are no longer your default state.
your hurting won’t always be your default state.
#cathy says words#comfort#i never thought i’d have a fullblown panic attack again#but i did today#and thats okay. i did my best to cope and accommodate myself through it#and i made it through and i am okay#setbacks happen and thats inevitable#you must learn to take care of yourself and be kind to yourself instead of being angry with yourself when they happen#it is okay
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I finally got a prescription for Testosterone btw :)
#after the initial setback in January i am like FUCKING FINALLY#big excitement from my coworkers who are curious to see what happens ahejshdhdj#cautious excitement from me cause I'm not good with big emotions#absolute neutrality from the mice who have no concept of gender#quack
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I need daniel to get over himself actually.
#like you're going to let that all happen and just be done????#fuuuuck that#you had a setback and licked your wounds by going to every major American sporting event on offer#and drank more budlight than I did my entire college career#time to get over yourself and fight to end your career how you’d want to#and not let redbull be the last association you have in motorsports#because they’re about to pull in lindblad and everyone’s going to be up their ass again about how cool they are#setting this feeling free in the special liminal space of the dash#you’re just going to let it end that way? and do nothing?#when the uk + Europe is mostly still sleeping and north and south america are winding down for the night#literally ignore this I’m going through it all over again apparently#also not looking to argue about this and his perceived happiness or whatever#he’s done. fine. I still get to stay mad about it forever and yell about it occasionally. thanks.
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The last (and only time) I made a New Year’s Resolution was back in elementary school, and that was mostly because it was for an assignment. But I think I’ll make one now.
💗 Create some handmade/traditional art again (painting/sculpting/sewing).
💗 Be more active in the Discord servers I’m in instead of only interacting when I’m pinged at.
💗 Work more on my original characters and stories, hopefully create some sort of comic about them.
💗 Save up enough money to get that desktop computer so I don’t have to just rely on my tablet for everything.
💗 Volunteer somewhere or just get out of the house more and actually interact with people in person.
💗 Overall just allow myself to enjoy what makes me happy and not stress over other’s opinions of me and not be a people pleaser.
#I really never have new year resolutions because I’m mostly spending my time just trying to get through the day/year#and even if these all don’t happen it won’t be the end of the world for me#like I had A LOT of setbacks in my life or just end up having to start things late#but that’s life#💬 chy chatter 💬
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My comms are finally open again !!
Prices are set for USD, and I can only accept Paypal for now!
I'm happy to negotiate prices, settings, etc!
Extra characters are an extra 3$—5$ each, depending on detail level!
Feel free to DM me if you're interested!! 💕💕
#commissions#open commissions#camp camp#cc david#cc gwen#my art#A setback happened and I need about 25$ ahhh#hopefully I can make it!
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shout out to my university administration (specifically 2 people apart of it including our university president) for copying the mass government firings tit for tat bro. they've fired so many positions of core importance to student life or different departments because they didn't pay attention to who the fuck they were firing at all 😭😭 they fired our ONLY PHYSICAL THERAPIST who has worked here for fucking forever, effective immediately, and then everyone was like YOU FUCKED UP BIGTIME, ASSHOLES (because our campus has a HIGH NEED FOR PT) so they hired her back- wish i could say the same for other important positions like ones from literally where i work. i get that it's some sort of bullshit prep for the higher ed budget cuts we're looking at but FUCK bro. this is not the way to go about taking care of the university moving forward
#also... before the immediate firings happened staff were notified that theyd be told who would get laid off by the end of the month-#and the layoffs would be in july so the people and departments would have time to prepare#AND. the university was not clear with our faculty+staff unions what tf was happening#theres a whole bunch of whack ass shitty shit rn#hi my non US friends heres a status update ITS DOODOOSHITASS#witnessing a lot of the passport fuckery too- mourning the setbacks so many of our peers and siblings are facing#ive been getting pretty involved with my union though and its been awesome#good to work for better things
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Hey, everyone!
I'm currently working on a very basic implementation for short stories to be read in the actual game, but I encountered something that I wasn't aware was an issue.
For some reason, dialog popups that exceed a certain length are overflowing off the page, and this happens even when I go into the style sheet and change the dialog overflow property accordingly. (And, yes, this happens on both PC and mobile.)
Thankfully, I don't think any of the dialog boxes so far exceed the length of the box, which is doubtless why no one has ever reported this issue to me before. But it does mean that, until I can figure out why that's happening, there is a possibility that future dialog boxes will have this problem.
As for short stories, I wanted to implement them with dialog boxes because I think it looks nicer that way (on mobile specifically), but instead I'll be doing the more simple (and probably expected) implementation of making passages with the <<return>> macro.
The demo update this week is going to be pretty sparse on account of the holidays, but it will have the first four "Snowed In" snippets of the bunch. The last four will be released with the January 4th update, which will be the last day of the free month of ko-fi benefits.
#bug report#status: open#i reported it to myself so it counts#i don't know if there is something more that i need to add to the style sheet#or if there is a conflict between the template css and what's already built in to sugarcube#and unfortunately i'm not on the most recent version of twine because of the problem that occurred when they updated earlier this year#which i know people have released walkthroughs of the fix for#but i just haven't done it yet#coding is not my strong suit#i have to do so much research when setbacks like this happen#i guess it's like that for experienced coders too tho 😂
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wtf just got jump scared by hermione/theodore nott 😭 this is why u tag ur side pairings
#*clutching desperately to romione* what’s happening??? 😭#lolol#anyway its also a abo au lmfao so there u have it#just such a unexpected turn of events LOL#ive been coddled too much by drarry & romione that any other pairings of ron or hermione throw me off balance#minor setback
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can i say i feel like people saying stuff like swansea would be republican or curly or daisuke would be casual dudebro misogynists or that jimmy is just insufferable to everyone constantly AND people who say daisuke or swansea would've killed jimmy if anya told them both kind of miss part of the point of the game being about a group of normal people who you would expect far better from in a stressful situation behaving in ways ranging from heart-breakingly disappointing to downright horrific
#mouthwashing#mouthwashing analysis#many miss the fact that jimmys character is meant to be like the darkest version of an everyman#honestly all the characters are in a way. they're meant to be people you could very well know irl. they could be you#and i think that is part of why people are so quick to shun a lot of complexity and sort them into either good or bad#beyond like. poor ability to understand nuanced situations#cause it hits way too close to home#like swansea could be your dad. you dont wanna think he would act the way he did#curly could be your abusers friend who never protected you or stood up to him. of course you hate him when he did nothing for You#jimmys the abuser. the shitty ex. you dont wanna think people could like him as a person more than tolerating his presence.#but the thing is. ultimately these are characters in a video game. you do not know them personally and they are not the people in your life#and sometimes things will not go the way that would be most cathartic. in fact usually that is not what happens#the whole game shows that. nothing there happened for good reason. no one acted or reacted how they shouldve. everyone failed each other#and themselves. what was it that swansea said about how he always wanted to believe he was never one setback away from his worst self#but the thing is. he was wrong. that is an assumption made by a lot of people#that they are far away from doing Bad. from being a Bad Person#whether they were one once or not#and its absolutely terrifying to think that you are less far from it than you think#but thats what the games about. jimmy and curly are the player characters.#sorry if the tags are a little soapboxy i got excited#ive had this in drafts since february so the complaining part is probably a bit dated by now but who care
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I finally went for Ren's bad end reveal~ Also had to wipe his memory to start a Oops All Glitches playthrough. And the Kitsune Easter egg is fun. It's been a good time!
#14dwy vn#But I'll need to put Ren and Sol down for just a bit - staring at them won't make anything new appear lol#Let the creators cook and pray they return some day#Even if not life happens I get it#I know Chp 1 of Act 2 of NOCBY won't be out any time soon with my IRL setbacks#Always glad for good stories - WIPs - abandoned - hiatus - IRLstompedonit#FandomScorchedEarthedTheAuthor#you name it#I'll treasure what people shared
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Bit of a setback today- I usually keep the vacuum in the bird room and I moved it in there today- first time I’ve seen her totally freak out, had to put the vacuum out and calm her down bc she was flying into the cage walls absolutely freaked :(((
She was really scared of me for quite a while after that and it took a long time to get her to calm enough to even approach. She’s been pretty jumpy and nervous even after leaving her alone for several hours, but she seems mostly okay with me now, I just feel really bad 😭
#rhubarb#my birds#I know setbacks are gonna happen but it sucked to see I felt awful#I had no idea the OFF vacuum would create that reaction though and I’ll be was more careful moving forward
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look if time wasn't a thing and i was responsible for directing any the witcher series, either books or the games, first of all i would do everything in my power to mostly cast polish actors or at least eastern european. idc if it's not featuring the latest hollywood pretty boy/girl, i'm aiming for quality not for tiktok reels
let's say now for example that the company is throwing a tantrum bc it must be spoken in english bc god forbid subtitles be a thing. nothing in my plan would change, i'm going for as many polish and/or eastern european actors/actresses that can speak english.
all this just to say that i would chase milla jovovich until she agreed to play ves bc i won't accept anyone else



#as far as i'm concerned michał żebrowski would always have a job playing geralt#/only/ if some major setback happened that would prevent him from playing geralt i would consider someone else#nikolaj coster waldau could be an option for example#etc etc i have some other characters in mind#jakub gierszał could work as cahir maybe he can pull a look between 16 and mid twenties#'sayu ves is not in the books' you say. i know that's why i said games as well
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its been 7 hours in the poll so far and i saw the who ppl want to win coming but i wasnt expecting the who they think will win ngl, like i was expecting it to be a little more even but nope lol
#< jic#wanted to keep my opinion to myself until the poll ended to prevent influence or whatever but realized that was stupid so here it is#personally i want zam to win but i think theyll come to a stalemate#i want zam to win causeas cute as it would be to give zam a redemption arc and esp by minute of all ppl i just dont like that idea very muc#i want his redemption arc if he ever decides to have one to be long and gruelling and full of setbacks and last for seasons#i want him to keep failing and building himself back up and all over again through the influence of multiple ppl and experiences#i dont want it to start and end all cause of one guy#and with ppl as stubborn as those two it would not surprise me if they reached a stalemate#esp since they seem to have completely incongruent mindsets regarding the nature of lifesteal#identical yet opposites those two#zam may think hes more determined than minute but i dont think thats true i think theyre a lil more even#like not to bring up kings but they both went looking for nether fortresses for hours in the first session#they both kept farming and grinding even when the odds are stacked against them#even when they lose hope they keep going anyway for that tiny sliver of a chance that Something happens#like theres a reason minute looked up to him in s3 and i think its cause he saw a lil bit of himself in zam#or at least what he could be if he set his mind to it#but honestly i dont really care who wins or loses that much#all i ask is that the season ends in an interesting way regardless of if its in peace or chaos#characterwise; plotwise; possibly even metawise#just give me something to chew on and ill be happy#lifesteal spoilers#mine.txt#my posts
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my mom: so did u email ur teacher yesterday
me trying to explain to my mom (without making her feel sad and guilty) how i was fully hyped yesterday morning to start working on my homework, but as soon as my mom started nagging me about it i became inexplicably anxious and depressed for the entire day, and that i eventually broke down crying as i realised this was some kinda leftover ptsd response, after which this left me utterly exhausted for 3 hours (as ptsd episodes are wont to do): mom could you maybe leave me alone abt the whole thing
mom: no i will NOT stop nagging you, because it is literally impossible for me nagging you to cause you to not send your emails. so no
me: *looks at the camera as if im on the office*
#WHY DID SHE SAY IT LIKE THAT. WHY DID SHE SAY IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE FOR THAT TO HAPPEN. HUH???? 🤡🤡🤡🤡#also i lied. i didnt look at the camera i just started crying lol 😎✌️#ok. welp! small setback! putting 'convince my mom (hard mode)' on my task list too! no biggie! :)))))))))))))))))))))))))#mine#GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR why are even good parents Like This#siiigghhhh...... well i suppose its not necessarily hard mode. but that completely depends on if my mom like. mulls over her response or not
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