#abusivebehavior

[jmsdear]

Tagged by @abusivebehavior :)

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[heartstoppermybeloved]

charlie deserved better // FW // #heartstopper #abusivebehavior #edit #fypシ゚viral via YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T17SX67hrvI

[sovietunion]

@abusivebehavior this one like no matter the translation it's crazy. 😭

What Leorio said to Kurapika on the ship to the hunter exam was actually fucking crazy. 😭

[mae-chelle]

....while others are so mean,,, #workplace #abusivebehavior #abusivelanguage #abusiveboss https://www.instagram.com/p/ClppMnNJia1omY6pe0M5lxJgTw0ROciwOOhcMM0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[jmthomas95]

Unfortunately this man is the creator of Justice league, the avengers and the Buffy universe shows like Buffy and Angel….. he’s abused every female in these….. buffys actress Sarah M Gellar, Carisma who plays Cordelia, wonder woman’s actress and black widows actress THESE ARE ALL MY FAVORITE FEMALE CHARACTERS and he abused them 😡 this isn’t the first time I’ve read this. The woman who plays cordelia in Buffy and Angel did not wanna be killed off

But just because she was pregnant and it wasn’t “convenient” to his ideas on the show he had her character sleep with and seduce a teenage boy character the son of her lover which is something this character would never do.

So that in tell with many fans behind me I’m resurrecting Cordelia and I’m giving Carisma and the character Cordelia what they deserve ❤️❤️‍🩹 but this isn’t just for Charisma Carpenter and her character she was devoted to for almost a decade this is for Sarah Michelle gellar (Buffy) , Gal Gaddot (Wonder Woman), scarlet Johansson (black widow) and all the other favorite female heroines I love. I used to LOVE joss shed on I mean he has my dream job and career and he’s AN AMAZING WRITER

Joss she’s on had Buffy seasons 1-12 already written and planned out he’s so devoted to his work…. TOO DEVOTED to where it makes him abusive and a bully it’s not just towards women the man who plays spike was fans idea love interest for Buffy and joss verbally assaulted him over it this man needs to get help. Sometimes as a writer your fans should be listened to and he got abusive anytime someone went against HIS plan. I will not be like this. So I’m publishing something for the character Cordelia chase in the buffyverse 💕

[beadyeyes]

I was tagged by @abusivebehavior for this, name 4 of your favorite movies from your birth year:-) it was fun but hard because I have not seen a lot of 1999 movies... I will tag you if you want me to

@clonepa

[yuja]

i was tagged by baby angel @deftonesdyke to answer some little questions and then tag ten mutuals who i want to know better 🤍🗝🌻🐇⭐️🤎☕️

thank you for tagging me!!!

relationship status: single, zero energy to date anybody but i also want to be married, category five woman moment

favourite colour: i love green, black, warm brown, cream, and white, and i’m a silver jewelry gal

favourite food: it is so deeply silly that i have the same favorite food as i did when i was a catholic school weeaboo but it’s sushi, especially just a really simple fatty salmon nigiri

song stuck in my head: bye bye love by simon & garfunkel

last thing i googled: synecdoche new york and i want to be very clear that i spelled it correctly on the first try

time: 12:13 a.m.

dream trip: ugh i really want to go to italy because my brother is moving to florence for a few months... i’m so jealous i never did any of that cool stuff when i was in college!!! if you’re in college take advantage of that stuff

sum cool kids i wanna get to know better are @sophiedahl @icedoolong @statechemist @briarhips @angelhilt @irlbogbody @areolae @commedesgarconsliketheboys @abusivebehavior @slurmclassic yaaaayyyyyyyyyayaya la lalalala of course you don’t have to do it unless you want to though!!!!!

[d4ro]

Top 5 songs on repeat (excluding pose lol) tagged by @kimlipse

1. Girls generation - genie

2. Kwon eun bi - glitch

3. Bladee (dg archive) - 2beloved

4. 11ai - point ambient drum n bass mix

5. Yoshinori sunahara - earth beat

Tagging @badmode @abusivebehavior @800lbhammer @valespin ✌️😇

[winchflat]

Tagged by @oldblood .... thank u stina!! We 🤝quite a lot but i want to listen to the ones i did not cross. Also ur sheet makes me want to put on a black sheer garment and dance 🍷🦇

Havent been listening as much stuff lately but these r the ones i have in mind.. I want to get into more heavy metal and noise cos those help my brain to work better somehow

Tagging @cnnrp @enjoyurself @headfullofnails @steveholt @abusivebehavior @scarylook @hif @xxibuprofenxx @passionfruithandsanitizer @dogsongs – hi, lets hear it if u want to >:-)

[kippconfessions]

When I start to miss you, the good parts of you. I look at these screenshots and I remember how horrible, controlling and toxic you could be and how I’m better on my own.

[cynnmiedo]

Done Dating

I woke up to a was up text not a good morning like regular people. See this set an alarm off in me. Red FLAG was my first thought as minor as this text may seem to most it was the final straw for me. 

#POF that app is a pail of garbage it houses thousand maybe even millions of people and grants them VIP access to the vulnerable who are in a real search for love. But I don’t blame this app completely for my horrific dating history. Many of us begin to blame ourselves. What is it in me that attracts the worst of the worst is what most of us think to ourselves!

Back to the was up up text will name him Mc-Shorty because he claimed to be 5′9 when in fact he was my height 5′7 haha and had the nerve to accuse me of lying about my height lol... Straight up GASLIGHTING me in the first few minutes of meeting... fukin sighhhhhh 

It was awkward as hell Mc Shorty and his sarcastic attitude and grandiose sense of self truly disgusted me. I thought to myself how in the fuck did I end up here again FUCK! See people like him are everywhere. The ultimate victims the Coverts Narcs and even blatant Narcs. Besides this current #pandemic we have an epidemic killing us all softly... And I don’t mean gentle I mean like a thief in the night it creeps up. Those little red flags you ignore... I just can do it anymore. 

I woke up today to a pitiful txt from a man who for certain had some type of Napoleon complex. He then proceeded and insisted to ask me what time we would hang out today and I replied with no intent of following through (yes fukin coward move) #LOVEMEMORE... I say later this evening. He responds... “PICK ME UP BECAUSE I DONT FEEL LIKE DRIVING TODAY”

WTF.....

IS THIS FUKIN FOOL TRIPPIN 

I mean who talks to someone like that after meeting them 1 time. I thought to myself NO FUKIN WAY ! I cannot do this anymore I cant date anymore I rather be ALONE then to fukin deal with this kind of behavior anymore. It was the type of wake up call I needed a fukin slap to the heart. 

So to ALL MY LOVERS. If someone shows you a little red flag run the opposite way. Love your self more. So today is the day I declare that I am done dating. I want to fall in love with myself. XOXO Cynnmiedo

#Dating #BreakCycles #YouDeserveTheBest #CynnMiedo #Narcissists #DatingRedFlags #AbusiveBehavior #AbusePrevention #KnowledgeInSelf #Analyze #AskQuestions #ShareYourTruth

[niftysodomy]

Make 2018 the year of not treating your children like property 👌 #emotionalabuse #abusivebehavior #abusiveparents

[chamrocka]

#EmotionallyAggressive #EmotionalAbuse #AbusiveBehavior

[cajunscabinet]

Kristian Daniels: Stolen hearts

#KristianDanielsAuthor #Druguse #abusivebehavior  #selfharm

https://www.amazon.com/Stolen-Heart-Kristian-Daniels-ebook/dp/B092PMC2P1/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1640814495&sr=8-1 Life is better with you.As a teen, Elliott Denison grapples with life, love and sexuality. His heart had been shattered every time his parents pushed him away. Life had forced him to be strong enough to endure Stanstead’s biggest bully and strong enough to come into…

[girloncouch]

@abusivebehavior and anyone else interested: here’s a list i found the books from a good amount look a bit stupid but here are the ones that sound good to me/had some promising reviews: 

The Gilda Stories by Jewelle L. Gomez 

Carmilla: The Wolves of Styria by David Brian, J. Sheridan Le Fanu 

Carmilla and Laura by S.D. Simper 

A Dowry of Blood by S.T. Gibson (description’s slightly eye roll worthy but lots of positive reviews)

Neck Deep by Sophie Lack (short, just sounds fun) 

i have like 4 gay vampire books i want to try reading as well as carmilla frothing at the mouth 

[traumaanddissociation]

Like http://www.facebook.com/TraumaAndDissociation for more Gaslighting - It is not okay for someone you like to treat you poorly and then pretend it didn’t happen, making you question your own grasp on reality. This dynamic is called gaslighting. It’s a common tactic of abusers to shift the focus of the blame from their bad behavior onto the person they are victimizing.. You may start to internalize the idea that there is something wrong with you and that you did something to provoke the situation as you’re increasingly beaten down and confused. - Shannon Weber #gaslighting #gaslight #psychologicalabuse #emotionalabuse #crazymaking #abusiverelationship #abuse #abusive #questionyourreality #questionyourself #amicrazy #mentalhealth #abuserecovery #mentalillness #abuseawareness #domesticviolence #intimatepartnerviolence #ipv #abusivebehavior #denyingreality #quote #shannonweber https://www.facebook.com/TraumaAndDissociation/photos/a.357820054319427.1073741828.357814604319972/1088659931235432/?type=3