Wanted to see what other people’s thoughts were on the album so went on Twitter. And. Do I not learn my lesson?
It is literally just people talking about her relationships and which song is about whom rather than. You know. The actual album.
And Twitter is also home to the dumbest people who’s ever lived. Someone is asking if Taylor has been to a psych ward and people are agreeing that the songs indicate that. There’s someone else convinced her and Joe were secretly married because the songs mention marriage and wedding and all that.
Y’all need to pay more attention in literature class I swear to god
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Hey Babygirls.
I'll be away from home for a while and will be taking a little break from Tumblr during that time. The anon function will be switched off too.
It won't be long I promise. I will be back asap. 😉
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I feel like gender nonconformity is often taken to mean like. presenting as the opposite of whatever your assigned gender is. like as an afab lesbian if I want to be gnc that means I have to dress super masc. but I think for me at least gender nonconformity is more about completely divorcing yourself from any expectations of gender presentation one way or the other. I can dress masc or femme or androgynous, I can wear makeup or not and shave my pits but not my legs, I can be whatever I want to be on any given day without regard for what I’m “supposed” to wear. when I first started really thinking about my relationship with gender there was a period of time where I felt to be valid I had to dress really butch or it didn’t count, and if I wore a skirt that meant I’d been faking it. but I didn’t WANT to dress super butch all the time. I didn’t want to be butch or femme or androgynous or or or or, I wanted to wear what I wanted when I wanted. ultimately I gave up trying to pin down and put a name on my gender identity. I said to hell with it all. my pronouns are what they are and I dress however I dress and I don’t owe it to anyone to define any of that. my gender nonconformity isn’t a nonconformity with femininity specifically; it’s a nonconformity with any sort of gendered rules of presentation. and that was a really freeing thing to figure out. and I think that in online queer communities there’s really this pressure to put a label on everything and to identify as a specific thing and to prove your validity within your identity. non-binary doesn’t have to mean androgynous. gnc doesn’t have to mean butch. and I guess this pride month I’m just really thinking about that, that really all that being queer is about is saying a big fuck it to it all and just…existing, however you want to exist. wear what makes you feel good. be whatever makes you feel good to be. to hell with it all.
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