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#always be safe with yourself <3
matchbet-allofthetime · 7 months
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I love asshole people thinking they get to dictate how other creators face a serious and harmful issue on the internet on THEIR OWN FUCKING ACCOUNTS
As if it's their business
"I followed for the memes"
Then unfollow if you don't like when they speak out against trans misogyny, bitch.
Come the fuck on now. Curate your own experience online you miserable fuck
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hacked-by-jake · 7 months
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I don't know how or why but I think I have a girl crush on you you are so cool
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Wahhhhhhhhh! 😭 I'm so sorry my answer took so long but tbh, I had no idea what to answer because I wasn't able to find words that would really show how freaking happy your ask made me. Like seriously, you're so kind and it's just such insanely huge honour for me to read this. When I hear people saying they like me it's just so mind blowing for me. I can't describe how much it means to me. 'Everything' would be an understament. Just a big thank you for taking the time to leave those words in my ask box and for making me so happy with it. I wish I could give this happiness back to you somehow. I appreciate so much. People just randomly leaving kind asks is unbelievably wonderful and the world really need more people like you. 🥹🫶🏻
And I can tell you're fucking cool as well! I mean it! 💚💚
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danielslaw · 2 years
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WILLIAM ZABKA AS JOHNNY LAWRENCE TANNER BUCHANAN AS ROBBY KEENE COBRA KAI SEASON 3 EPISODE 10
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causenessus · 2 months
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hi lovely ness! i hope you’re having a great morning afternoon or evening!! i’m sending this one early because i’m going on a road trip and i’m not sure when i’ll have signal or wifi again SO here’s your daily reminder to eat and drink water!! today i’m having just something small for the road and ill probably stop by somewhere to get lunch later? we’ll see how it goes!
a little appreciation post but i honestly look up to you so much like you’re literally the sweetest and cutest person ever and you care so much about your friends and your fans it’s so admirable, your humbleness and your passion really shows through the way you write and interact with others !!! and like yk those things that are like “that one person you genuinely can’t say anything bad about” ITS U !! i think of you !!! because like you’re everything good put into one person!!
anyways i hope your day is amazing today and you take care of yourself!! xoxoxo!!
AAA FORGIVE ME FOR ANSWERING TWO OF THESE IN ONE DAY JUST KNOW I LITERALLY GOT ON MY COMPUTER JUST NOW SO I COULD ANSWER THIS ONE SO I CAN TYPE FASTER BC I ALWAYS GET SO EXCITED TO READ YOUR MESSAGES!!
omg have so much fun on your road trip!!! i hope it's fun and the car ride isn't too long or hot and that you just have an amazing time <33 and i hope you get to eat at some cool places while u guys are driving!! thank u and i will make sure to drink water <3 AND MAKE SURE U DO TOO!!
I LITERALLY SLAPPED MY HAND OVER MY MOUTH AT THE APPRECIATION POST thank you so so much :(( it warmed my heart to read that omg i literally don't even know what to say but thank you so much and i hope you know that i appreciate it so much!! i'm so happy to hear that and thank you for all of your words!! i've had so much fun interacting with you and i just know you're the sweetest person ever <3 you deserve all the love in the world and thank you for how much you care for others!! thank you for all my reminders to eat and drink water AND I'M SO THANKFUL FOR YOU!! have a wonderful wonderful day i love you sm mango anon!! take care of yourself too <3
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I think that bpd is the worst diagnosis I have, sometimes I can feel such overwhelming joy and the world looks absolutely beautiful, I feel myself flourishing and I can see such perfection and beauty in myself. I feel like I’ve finally found myself, I finally feel WHOLE. And I convince myself that I’m better and I’m like yes this is what a normal person is supposed to feel like, everything just looks beautiful and I find beauty everywhere.
And then I switch, I can feel it coming. It’s like a darkness that I can’t escape from no matter what I do, I try to carry on with loving myself but I can’t, everything becomes distorted and I can’t control my thoughts anymore. And everything looks so fucking dull and boring, there is no more joy, I am just empty. The loving happy girl I knew disappears somewhere and I can’t find her, she is lost inside of me screaming at me to stop destroying everything. I just hide, I can’t bare it. I can’t control it.
I hate that I can feel it coming, and I can’t stop it. I try so hard to stop it. The only way out when I feel sad is suicide, that is how painful bpd is :(
i completely and whole heartedly agree with you, bpd is such a bitch.. it’s like you go from experiencing some of the best moments of your life to completely losing hope in everything and everyone you ever knew and wanting to end it all because you feel like nothing will ever get better again. yes i definitely agree with you 1000%. just know you are very valid and i love you and you will get through the rough patches even if it doesn’t feel like it at the time. <3
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s-ccaam-era-crepe · 1 year
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what are bap characters going as for halloween?
oh this is such a good question :))
hmm sophia i think would go as like one of eyes fans bc they think its funny or she goes as a "cult leader" as a 'joke' and all eyes fans are like "man they are really committing to the bit lol" they have no idea :/
blair would probably go like full out SFX gore and blood bc they really like the horror aspect and stuff, they scare a Lot of kids
i think sunni and david, when they were younger/friends still, went (w/ carter) as like a squad costume so like all characters from the same media or costumes that matched and had a theme. But since Everything happened etc. I think sunni would go as his favorite character (like full cosplay) and david might put on an easy like from the closet costume or just go as "himself" (lame /lh)
for rebecca she would probably forget its halloween until last minute and then throw something really simple together and saying its a costume
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sophielovesbooks · 2 years
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Almost every time I talk to people about my wedding dress, they mention weight loss. They ask me why I am buying it so early and I tell them that it is custom-made and I am in fact *late* for a July wedding, as most places recommend buying it a year early. And almost invariably people respond by either hinting at or saying outright that they expect me to lose weight until July and "it won't fit you anymore then, will it?"
And honestly, it is so triggering for me, because what I hear is that they believe I should lose weight for my wedding, that I can't get married looking the way I do right now. And that is so incredibly hurtful to hear.
Stop assuming people are planning to lose weight for their wedding day like that's a given! Stop diminishing a future bride's joy about having found her wedding dress by talking about diets and making her hate her body more! Stop assuming that weight loss is normal or possible or safe for everybody! It is honestly so shitty. Diet culture has done a number on the majority of people and it needs to change.
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inkykeiji · 1 year
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Totally mundane and nobody else but me cares but when Touya-nii and reader go out to eat at restaurants does he sit across from her like a normal person or does he sit next to her because she’s easier to touch that way and touch is one of his love languages.
And I pinky promise I’m working on that project, I just moved so it’s taking me way longer to make any reasonable headway worth showing! But the very first one is gonna be him in his plaid PJs >:3
i actually love this question so much HAHAHA omg like if he can he absolutely sits directly beside her like a psychopath, thigh slotted up against her own and hip pressed firm and flush to hers, with an arm twined tightly around her waist, palm resting on her other hip. this will usually happen if they’re eating somewhere with a booth, which he will always automatically demand request (and he obv doesn’t take no for an answer—oh, there’s none available at this current moment? that’s okay, they’ll wait until one becomes free). if the restaurant has no booths and it’s only like tables n chairs then he’ll sit across from her with their ankles tangled together beneath the table, so tight and close that their knees bump together, and the fingers of their free hands knotted and resting across the surface as they eat <3
omg please take your time!!! i swear to you there’s absolutely no rush or obligation so please don’t feel pressured or stressed <3 take as long as you need!!! i hope the move went smoothly hehe c: OOOOH that’s so fun i love it!!! i’m so excited to see!! <33
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rosylamb · 2 years
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Your sweetness,kindness and love is everything I needed at this point in my life, You're so refreshing! Thankyou my Angel <3
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Aw . . . thank you, my friend!
I can’t say how much it fills me with joy to know that I’ve made a difference. ♡
But I’m hardly an angel! (Though it would be nice! I mean, I would very much like wings!)
I think I’ve just seen enough hurt in my life. I grew up in an environment that would be frightening for any child honestly.
This can be a very unkind world. There’s just no need for any more of that. :c
I want to give love, caring, kindness, compassion, and be friendly and ready to help the world around me. ♡ ♡
I’m sure some might laugh or roll their eyes, but I know I look silly! I’d just rather look silly, and try than do nothing. :’)
‘Cause people matter, and any little bit helps!! ♡
I pray that you know more of that kindness and support soon, my friend! I know that sometimes it can look like the world has very little of it, but it is out there and you absolutely deserve it. :D
Thank you so much for this ask! ♡ ♡
It genuinely touched me to see this, and made me so excited to know this blog brought some light to your day!
Sending lots of warm well-wishes, and hugs! I hope you have the sweetest of days, and that you take care ~ !
XO 🎀 .。.:* ·̩͙♡ 🌸
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marinehero-a · 2 years
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     once again thinking ab au’s where garp actually acted during ace’s execution </3
#{ ooc }  ✗ 「 WENP reporter 」#[ just#[ shakes fist#[ do i think it should have happened   emotionally yes realistically no#[ i absolutely adore garps character and how marineford rly reflected his conflicts (coughs at this entire blog---)#[ but just. what ifs.... what /ifs/ for real#[ in helping to save ace he loses Everything   and he Takes so much#[ just   already talked ab everything b4 from consequences as the marine hero to betraying his closest friend sengoku etc etc#[ but just. thinks ab it still#[ when you throw away your entire life legacy relationships and more for your grandsons#[ and you cant bring yourself to regret saving them because you do love them but how do you cope with the fact you uprooted#[ and stabbed in the back Everything and everyone you've stood for and also loved#[ by simply avoiding it ofc but also shakes peepaw#[ there is no world where garp doesn't lose and i think thats neat of his character <3 its ab the tragedy in a bastard clownshaped old man#[ and just#[ always thinking ab how he wanted for ace n luffy to be strong marines so that they would be safe despite their blood#[ even when he Knew that it would've suffocated them and they wouldn't have been able to thrive but at least they'd be safe#[ at least he could protect them#[ he doesnt Know or Understand how to be a good guardian so he does things his way and he is So bastard for it!! he tries but its not enough#[ and instead of trying something else he tries harder and he rly needs to be shaken like a rat but he cant tell anyone ab it so he wont#[ simply!#[ thinks ab him a normal amount real
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ajaegerpilot · 2 years
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when my dying dad told me that i didn't have to lose weight to fit some arbitrary standard. like legitimately still thinking about that one dad, you had an opportunity and you didn't miss.
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basshole-astard · 1 year
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PSA: i keep seeing posts about staying cool in extreme heat that include advice like "gatorade is bad actually!" and "don't drink fruit juice it'll just dehydrate you!" and neither of these are true!
regarding fruit juice: there's apparently a misconception that Any Sugar At All will dehydrate you, and that's simply not true. yes, sugar will make you pee more when consumed in large amounts, but 1) the natural sugar in fruits won't do this to you 2) great news! a lot of fruit juices exist without any added sugar in them! 3) honestly even having a glass of the fruit juice with added sugar won't completely dehydrate you as long as you're also drinking water throughout the day. if its hot you deserve a cold treat of a drink!!! can't go wrong with fruit juice!!!
regarding gatorade: maybe this isn't an every day drink, but guess what: if it's 110F/40C or hotter outside, and you don't have AC, or you're moving around a lot outside of the AC, and you're sweating buckets: that's when you drink a gatorade.
gatorade exists to replenish all the electrolytes (salt) and glucose (sugar) that you sweat out. YES it is meant for athletes to drink during intensive work outs and not necessarily for people who aren't doing that kind of exercise. BUT GUESS WHAT! when you're sweating buckets because you had to walk to the bus in extreme heat, that's intensive exercise. please feel free to drink a gatorade after that! that's its intended use case!!!!
no: neither of these drinks should be a total replacement for water. but drinking a lot of water and then treating yourself to a fruit juice with lunch is a good idea!!! drinking a gatorade becuase you just had to walk for 20 minutes in the heat is a good idea!!!
Please Stop Spreading Misinformation About Drinks!!! It's fine if you drink things that aren't water!!!! Yes you should probably always be drinking water but drinking something else As Well isn't going to hurt you!!!! okay!!!! its fine!!!!!!
honestly so long as you are consistently getting Any (non-alcoholic) fluids in you, you're doing great!!!!!! okay!!!! i love you stay safe <3
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Loustat short comics - There is nothing else until the storm is over - Interview with the Vampire TV Series
text transcription under the cut ⬇️
Fake magazine illustration
Page 1 Daniel : So, tell me... Did you see Lestat again?
Page 2 Louis : When he's not on Tour, he would occasionally visits.
Page 3 Daniel : So you're what, now? Friends?
Louis : [Hello Lestat.]
Lestat : [Hello Louis.]
It would be too simple. You know us.
Louis : [ That's new. Still enjoying the glitz and glamor?]
But there is this arrangement we are both fine with.
Page 4 When two people hurt each other so deeply, what is left afterwards?
Page 5 Things like that, it seals doors once still unlocked at the time. Can time really heal everything?
[Mets moi dans mon cercueil, Louis, Louis...]
Page 6 [Stay down chéri, I don't want to fight like this. I'll stay. I'll stay, I'll never leave you ever again. I promise. I'll be happy. For you. For her. Please please please please]
Some things were flipped over to show the truth. Others, I learned to see differently. I faced my wrongs.
[I'll be anything please please please please please please. I didn't know it was a gift. I wore it like a curse. I was selfish. I wanted you to suffer. Because I was. Suffering. I came to thank you.]
Page 7 Do we love each other still? Yes. Can we live under the same roof, share the same spaces, the same bed, for an extended period of time, again? No. But this raging, all devouring passion, it is now replaced by something that can never be altered. Is this the price we had to pay to finally be equals?
Page 8 We have never been more understanding of each other. A shadow of something that could have been from the start. Friendly jokes. Bickering I will never admit enjoying. Respect. And then, the always surprising softness. So eerie after all that happened. Yet, we always welcome it.
Page 9 Daniel : [How dramatic. Not ready to live together again, yet he's all over your coffee table.]
Louis: [I didn't buy these.]
Daniel : [Sure. Will you let me know the next time he passes by?]
Louis : [Well I can't. This is his safe place. You will have to find him by yourself I'm afraid.]
Daniel : [Of course. He can't make anything easy. As if he didn't have enough safe places with his ten properties.]
Page 10 Louis: [Nice chat. Bye, Daniel.]
Lestat : [Only when I'm not on Tour, hm?]
Louis [Approximately.]
Lestat : [Thanks.]
Louis : [Did you really just say thank-]
Lestat: *kisses Louis* [...too soon?]
Page 11 Louis : Almost a century is enough waiting.
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in-class-daydreams · 1 month
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Imagine you're still furious with ex-husband Gojo over his behavior regarding the flowers from your "secret admirer."
You put on a happy face for the Sister School Exchange Event, however. For the sake of sportsmanship (and safety), your son, Sen, is heavily restricted. He's a great asset to his team all the same and the Tokyo team have two of their strongest students ready to intercept him.
"The brat's showing off too much. His form's sloppy," Sukuna says from the seat beside you.
"He's been telling me how the two of you have been doing some brutal conditioning lately," you comment with your eyes fixed on the screen.
Sukuna scoffs. "Not brutal enough, apparently."
And it's that attitude that secured Sukuna's place as your son's favorite teacher a long time ago.
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Imagine that in-between the major conflicts of the event, you and ex-husband Gojo get to have a longer conversation without your son jumping to your rescue.
For once, Satoru isn't trying to flirt with you. He's watching the image of his son running through the woods battling curses without breaking a sweat. They may have vicious, gut-wrenching fights at times, but one could not deny how in awe Satoru was of his son.
"He's so talented," he murmurs more to himself than you. He leans back in his seat, gaze hidden by his blindfold. "You did a great job," he tells you softly.
You put your hand over his - the first tender contact you've initiated with him in perhaps years.
"So did you," you reply.
"Please. The kid hates me."
"He doesn't see it now, but I know that you did what you thought was best for him." You give his hand a little squeeze. Romance or not, divorce or not, you and Satoru have always understood each other unlike anyone else. You knew he had to choose between being in Sen's life and keeping him safe.
By the time team battles ended, you'd forgotten what you were even mad at him for.
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Imagine you and ex-husband Gojo proceed with the Sister School Exchange event on good terms.
Which is why you feel so guilty when while Satoru is occupied with catching up with Yuji during the transition between events, your gaze falls on the man you've been avoiding eye-contact with all day.
You see him tapping away on his phone. When he looks up, he smirks and hits send on whatever message he was typing. Heat creeps up your face and you quickly avert your eyes.
A moment later, your phone vibrates. It feels like it's burning a hole in your pocket, but you force yourself to wait a minute so it's not obvious.
After what feels like ages (but is really only about a minute), you allow yourself to check your messages.
[11:27 am] Hope you liked the flowers, beautiful. Rika helped me pick them out <3
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Edit: Reader and Gojo are approaching their 40’s in this, Sen is 18, Yuta is approaching 30. Just to make that clear.
Click [here] for more of Sen being mean to his dad | Ask stuff about Sen and the fam [here]
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duncebento · 3 months
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agh i know it can be rally difficult but especially if you are a marginalized person especially if you are a woman ESPECIALLY if you are trans please make sure that you’re not signaling insecurity to ppl via your dating app profiles or what have you. it can literally be a matter of your own physical safety.
as an example, i often see trans girls on hinge liable to put something like “i’ll fall for you if you show me any affection at all <3” on their profiles…and i know u just think it sounds quirkily self-deprecating and i KNOW that’s the way you really and truly feel but if i am someone who whether consciously or not is searching for a dynamic in which i have power over another person, a statement like that will make my ears perk up!!
furthermore, and especially for younger people, there are a lot of things that are very necessary to discuss with a partner that are ALSO very necessary to not reveal for a little while. if you have been abused in a certain way or if you are inexperienced, those are things that are unsafe to talk about with people you don’t know, no matter how honest and upfront you pride yourself on being. i’ve had someone tell me about all the sexual assault they’d experienced on a first date— and luckily for them i wasn’t interested in harming them or really into them at all— but again, imagine if i were someone who wanted power over another person! all their truthfulness and vulnerability would do is reveal them as an easy mark for my manipulation.
if you do encounter a critical situation with someone you haven’t spent enough time with yet, it should always be possible to say what instead of why: e.g. “i’m sorry, but i’d like to wait before having sex with you” or “i’d rather not hang out in that park, can we pick somewhere else?” instead of “i’d like to hold off on having sex BECAUSE i’ve never had sex before” or “i’d rather not hang out in that park BECAUSE that’s where i was assaulted.” again, both very important things to talk about with a partner, but unfortunately potentially dangerous things to discuss with someone you’ve not yet gotten close to! and anyone who seems to be sniffing around for signs of your inexperience or victimhood is not to be trusted anyway (note that sniffing around is different from a polite “oh, would you like to talk about it?” interest.)
i know it can be difficult to come across as more confident than you feel, but it is really necessary that you’re projecting a desire for something healthy and safe that will make you happy instead of saying outright that you’ll be fine with crumbs.
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