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hi there! im a fan of your page 💕
can you give me the best studying techniques?
hi angel!! @mythicalmarion tysm for asking about study techniques 🤍 i'm so excited to share my secret methods that helped me maintain perfect grades while still having a dreamy lifestyle + time for self-care!! and thank you for being a fan of my blog, it means everything to me. <3
~ ♡ my non-basic study secrets that actually work ♡ ~



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the neural bridging technique this is literally my favorite discovery!! instead of traditional note-taking, i create what i call "neural bridges" between different subjects. for example, when studying both literature + history, i connect historical events with the literature written during that time. i use a special notebook divided into sections where each page has two columns - one for each subject. the connections help you understand both subjects deeper + create stronger memory patterns!!
here's how i do it:
example:
left column: historical event
right column: literary connection
middle: draw connecting lines + add small insights
bottom: write how they influenced each other
the shadow expert method this changed everything for me!! i pretend i'm going to be interviewed as an expert on the topic i'm studying. i create potential interview questions + prepare detailed answers. but here's the twist - i record myself answering these questions in three different ways:
basic explanation (like i'm talking to a friend)
detailed analysis (like i'm teaching a class)
complex discussion (like i'm at a conference)
this forces you to understand the topic from multiple angles + helps you explain concepts in different ways!!
the reverse engineering study system instead of starting with the basics, i begin with the most complex example i can find and work backwards to understand the fundamentals. for example, in calculus, i start with a complicated equation + break it down into smaller parts until i reach the basic concepts.
my process looks like:
find the hardest example in the textbook
list every concept needed to understand it
create a concept map working backwards
study each component separately
rebuild the complex example step by step
the sensory anchoring technique this is seriously game-changing!! i associate different types of information with specific sensory experiences:
theoretical concepts - study while standing
factual information - sitting at my desk
problem-solving - walking slowly
memorization - gentle swaying
review - lying down
your body literally creates muscle memory associated with different types of learning!!
the metacognition mapping strategy i created this method where i track my understanding using what i call "clarity scores":
level 1: can recognize it
level 2: can explain it simply
level 3: can teach it
level 4: can apply it to new situations
level 5: can connect it to other topics
i keep a spreadsheet tracking my clarity levels for each topic + focus my study time on moving everything to level 5!!
the information architecture method instead of linear notes, i create what i call "knowledge buildings":
foundation: basic principles
first floor: key concepts
second floor: applications
top floor: advanced ideas
roof: real-world connections
each "floor" must be solid before moving up + i review from top to bottom weekly!!
the cognitive stamina training this is my absolute secret weapon!! i use a special interval system based on brain wave patterns:
32 minutes of focused study
8 minutes of active recall
16 minutes of teaching the material to my plushies
4 minutes of complete rest
the specific timing helps maintain peak mental performance + prevents study fatigue!!
the synthesis spiral evolution this method literally transformed how i retain information:
create main concept spirals
add branch spirals for subtopics
connect related concepts with colored lines
review by tracing the spiral paths
add new connections each study session
your notes evolve into a beautiful web of knowledge that grows with your understanding!!
these methods might seem different from typical study advice, but they're based on how our brains actually process + store information!! i developed these through lots of research + personal experimentation, and they've helped me maintain perfect grades while still having time for self-care, hobbies + fun!!
sending you the biggest hug + all my good study vibes!! remember that effective studying is about working with your brain, not against it <3
p.s. if you try any of these methods, please let me know how they work for you!! i love hearing about your study journeys!!
xoxo, mindy 🤍
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Dumb Elf couple about to kick some ass, protecting their home in the Fade.
Two variants because the magic effects are a tad bit overwhelming.
#dragon age the veilguard#inquistor lavellan#solas#solavellan#dragon age#my drawings#lavellan is a knight enchanter#and despite not having the anchor still has the barrier spell from JoH#so all her barriers have weird green Fade effects#i love how Solas's face scrunches up when he's mad#the Inquisition promo poster of him lives in my head rent free
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Headcanoning that my Inquisitor joins the Shadow Dragons at some point post-trespasser
#dragon age#da fanart#lavellan#dragon age fan art#da i#da veilguard#rhydian lavellan#lo art#oh yeah + freaky anchor side effects#as a treat
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Had a terrible dream that my DnD character almost died for real forever in our DnD session last night.
....... Wait.
#spazzcat barks#the fight last night was ROUGH#real surprised poor Ash hung on as long as they did#was at one point tied to a spike-covered anchor by chains of blood and strangled there above a hoard of ghouls#after being hit by a 30 damage necrotic arrow that made it so they were unable to heal themselves#went from 94hp to 22 in one round#opted to use their next turn to heal the party instead of trying to break free of the restraint in an attempt to keep one paladin up#[celeste the other paladin was also already down to 20ish health]#managed to survive the next turn to misty step away from the chains#killed one big monster#[bodak]#ran to save Wiley from another big monster [the demon archer who shot them round 1]#gets shot by fucking canons#goes down#fails their first death save#only for the demon archer to casually walk over and kill them while theyre down#celeste revivify clutch as soon as the fight ended <3 but hot damn#oh yeah and the reason for the focus down#was because Ash has a fear effect Channel Divinity#that first round EVERYONE failed#20+ skeletons and ghouls#two wights#and Pietra the Dark Lord#who was forced to burn a legendary save#the only one unaffected was the demon archer who was too far away at the time#it took out Pietra's entire army#and she was forced to burn another legendary action to kill and ressurect her minions#so they could come back unaffected#and then decided to kill Ash before they could do it again :'D
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growing pains, of the nontraditional variety. - a girl, a curse, a snake, and a fire.
or: 2,000 words of headcanons about what talulah's childhood with kashchey was like.
content warnings: child abuse, canon-typical violence.
#arknights#talulah arknights#talulah artorius#sorry for posting fanfic in the tags ik thats cringe but i am kinda proud of this :heart_hands:#i didnt really get into it here but i think that talulahs memories were rewritten around kashchey for him to be#her only clear memory as an anchoring point#and also the way that denying him rather than accepting his effect on her contributed#to her downfall. ok. i love you all.
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there's no Shepard without Vakarian
this is from 2021 but i never posted it here so, happy n7 day! in many small ways i will always care about these characters and their journey
#mass effect#n7 day#shakarian#femshep#my art#siobhan shepard#shep hallucinating her best friend and anchor at her last moments when she most needs his support? more likely than you think#i think i painted this after the summer of playing the legendary edition and losing my mind all over again#idk if i will ever play another bioware game again lmao but yknow.#this world and characters really hit different and im thankful for the people who created them#truly happiest n7 day to people suing bioware
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the way i draw my characters is so inconsistent LOL like it truly just depends on the fucking day I GUESS
#i honest to god thought cosmo (who i invented) had a bulbous smurf nose#a beautiful bumpy cloudlike honker#i go back and read my first comic. IT WAS SKINNY??? AND POINTY?!?!?!?#what the fuck is going on. mandela effect is real#i think its because when i draw him i always draw the nose first#so like… it just happened… because its like the anchor point#so it became more pronounced over time#my fan theory
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everyone behold my fucked up mindscape
#minecraft#main tagging sorry. bear witness#this was supposed to be. a 5 sec diagram to demonstrate my portal anchor theory. and then i blacked out#btw if this is far fetched or doent make sense or is self indulgent. idgaf. my world#i was just trying to muse over herobrine hcs LOL. then i had to write the whole timeline out#ok next mission tho is to draw my hb/steve/alex hc designs [smiling evilly]#i have definitely missed stuff btw.#also in terms of timeline for hero. ender in my mind live to hundreds of thousands of yrs old anyways#but he becomes undead at a few thousand yrs old. hes fairly young when he becomes outcast#and then he is effectively unaging. lollll#this whole thing takes place over at LEAST hundrds of yrs . not including the timeskip after the wither incident#also sorry to surprise no one but im furrifiying my ender designs. idgaf. give that thang fur and a tail#ok i cant remember anything else i missed rn. sure ill remember soon
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I read that article about [redacted] and I sort of need to talk about it but also I do not want to talk about it.
#dredged up some personal shit for me but not on the obvious immediate levels.#I don't know.#Something about the morass of excuses and enabling and condemnation but not useful condemnation.#Offering yourself as an emotional anchor to someone dealing with trauma that you were instrumental in causing. Keeping them stuck.#the way you can massively destabilize people by offering them too much emotional connection too fast#And how people who do this routinely think it's emotional honesty and that it's good and healthy - even exceptional and healing -#but it gets so fucked.#the weird black hole effect around people who are so caught up in sharing hypercharged emotional interactions that it warps#their perception of everything.#and any attempt to reestablish contact with reality can be derailed by someone bringing in a counternarrative with enough emotional weight.#and how even at the point where you're seasick with it and you just want it to stop#It's hard to leave because the intensity of that emotional connection is so hard to match. Because it's too much. But it makes everything#else pale in comparison.#This is all sort of a tangential thread.#But.... the reoccurring patterns of social entrapment.#Not why or how people do terrible things to other people.#But how you can get stuck there letting it happen. Too spun around and dizzy to see the way out.#Ugh. Anyway.
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✧ ━━ 𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐃 ♡ 𝐓𝐎 𝐒𝐄𝐄 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐌𝐘 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐊𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒 @windchaser 𝚂𝙴𝙽𝚃 ♡ 𝙵𝙾𝚁 𝙼𝙾𝙳𝙴𝚁𝙽 𝚅𝙴𝚁𝚂𝙴
●●●●● | ATTRACTION ⤷ Haru has Yone as "Peppermint Daddy" in his phone. ●●●●● | AFFECTION ●●●●● | INTEREST ●●●●● | LOYALTY ●●●●● | TRUST
HIGH | ●●●●● | LOW
━ Haruko is pretty pretenseless as a person, a lot less worried about people hurting him than Robin, and due to this he's been able to really grow and expand his horizons and relationships. Haru has never had issues making friends, he never bullshits or lies to people ━ and has a very warm, inviting aura. This extended naturally when he met Yone in their youth, and they both hit it off right away in terms of chemistry and bonding. I think Haru was the exact level of brash to ignite the flame under Yone's ass to get him to not give up, and he's genuine enough for Yone to read and tell that Haruko means every word he says, and that he isn't planning on leaving him in this difficult time ━ or after if Yone will still want him around. I like to think that Haruko might have even housed Yone at some point while Yone was waiting for his own apartment's move in day, since Haru already lived in the city. He would 100% offer that. He adores him, he loves the dynamic of their relationship ━ and given he's Robin's foil it acts in a mirrored way for Yone too. Haru had a different upbringing and different trauma compared to Robin, not only that but a total 180 trauma response; and he's mentally healthy enough to let Yone in, which makes a safe environment for Yone to unmask and relax a little too. I need to think about Yone being invited to holidays and him having to adjust to how loud and informal the Nakasone family is comparatively. At least Yvonne and Hinata ━ Ren, Haru's father, is a lot closer in his actions to what Yone might be used to. But I do wonder if upon meeting Haru's father, though, and if seeing his stuck, stiff, cold personality and how Haru dislikes him might worry Yone about how Haru actually feels about himself. Thankfully though, I think this worry would, again, unlike Robin and Yone, push them closer as I can't see a world where Yone would not accept the responsibility of his own feelings AND where Haru's intuition wouldnt't tell him that something is wrong. Not to mention the sincerity of both of their personalities ━ Haru wouldn't hesitate to confront Yone and clear up the misunderstanding, thus resolving the issue. While Robin and Yone's relationship fails in the sense that they've skipped fundamental steps in knowing eachother but still are kindred spirits ━ Yone and Haru's relationship flourishes because they are so different that they can't possibly understand eachother without being proactive about it, which they both are. Robin and Yone are kindred, but know nothing. Yone and Haru could not be more different than eachother, but have a deep understanding because they opened up and allowed the other in. It was risky, sure, but I think in the end for both of them it was so worth it. I don't get to discuss them a lot and I'm really excited to grow their interactions, so I'm probably writing a lot; but it's just ... I don't know, nice? I love that Haru is the sun and the sea, he's bright and wide reaching and loves the freedom and wild of being alive ━ and I love that Yone flourishes in that light and explores new experiences he might have not otherwise if he stayed in the dark or on the shore. I love that Yone can ground Haru and act less as an achor for his more flighty ambitions when he needs to be, but moreso is like a buoy ━ carried by Haru's current, but there if he needs to rest and stay put, and maybe if he's gone too far and needs a way home. I'll shut up for now, but they make me happy.
#── 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐍𝐄𝐄𝐃𝐍’𝐓 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑𝐍 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐀 𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐏𝐒𝐄 … 【 ᴀꜱᴋ ᴍᴇᴍᴇ 】#windchaser#ive never been a fan of yone being perceived as an anchor solely#yeah he's full of control and efficiency and is prorductive and effective in his methods but#I dont think he's permanently stuck in the sand#or maybe he was#and haru's current was just a bit too powerful :)#so now he has to be swept out and experience life and the world#me: ill shut up about them#also me: and then I didnt#Now that I'm exploring more with haru in modern?#idk i feel#way more than I expected about them tbh?#so sweet#so healthy!! so easy!!!#WAH#not saying they dont have spats ofc#but#they are mature and accountable enough to fix it#[ 𝟎𝟐 ] — ✧.* 𝐇𝐀𝐑𝐔𝐊𝐎 𝐍𝐀𝐊𝐀𝐒𝐎𝐍𝐄 ...【 𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝙲𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚛 𝙱𝚕𝚞𝚎 𝚂𝚔𝚢 】#➤ 𝘮𝘰𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘯
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this is a formal apology for every time i've read ur fnaf theories, gone "ah... of course! yes!" and then forgotten to respond
This is a formal apology for every time I've read one of your asks, not immediately had a TQ&/E, and forgotten to respond
#The box can wait my questions that need to be answered are why there is already a body in a Fredbear suit before the Bite#and what can 'I will put you back together' mean solely within those four games#like yeah it's robot kids but it wasn't then#that isn't 'four games; one story' that's using the next game in the series to elaborate on the previous one#(and the then new addition of books)#also what the hell was Fnaf World on about but I think I'm the only person that's thought about Fnaf World in years#yeah yeah Happiest day it's about CC I got that WHAT DO YOU MEAN THE PLAYER WAS ONLY CREATED FOR THIS PURPOSE!!!#Okay yeah that's probably just an explanation for why the game exists but what the fuck is glitchy Fredbear#and why do *we* need to be told to rest#It's fucking important that they're clocks goddamnit#As of the Halloween update the story of Fnaf 4 still remained 'completely hidden'#So (I think) what Sister Location (AND THE SILVER EYES) tells us about it is the version of Fnaf 4 that the version of it that the communit#''''would accept''''#But the pieces didn't vanish into thin air after the custom night update for sister location dropped#And I think their being put together is reliant on the constant separation put between the GF kid and the rest of the MCI#And the body in the parts and service room#Could not tell you what CC saw though since I should hope that that kid's body hasn't been there for weeks#When I was talking about 'what if this isn't the first time CC had died' I mean basically dream theory with extra steps#I don't think I'm right but in literally every part of this franchise what is hammered in over an over is going into memories#and setting past events right to rest their soul#Happiest Day + Into the Pit being the biggest examples#And tangentially spirits not being fully anchored or aware after death#and reminding them of what happened to them involving crayon drawings and/or being shown their body#(The Fourth closet + Coming Home + the movie)#(and maybe Give Gifts Give Life....? it'd be stretchy)#Regardless of whether the Fnaf 4 gameplay and minigames are CC reliving the events leading to his death over and over as a wandering spirit#or pre-mortem nightmares or the effects of sound illusion disc gas on Micheal(/CC?) or any combination of the three or whatever else#I don't think the Crying Child's spirit was settled and aware until Happiest Day#(that being the first and only time a spirit is shown wearing a Fredbear mask and the kid has to put it on while the other four are already#And if for some godforsaken reason I am right about nightmare spirit journey Fnaf 4 then post Silver Eyes/Fourth Closet
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KATATOKI Teaser | Yojiro Noda x J.I.D Listen to WONDER BOY'S AKUMU CLUB here !!
#katatoki#野田洋次郎#yojiro noda#j.i.d#wonder boy's akumu club#音楽#gif#my gifs#this may only be a teaser but we do indeed have a full version of katatoki now !!! >:)#i'd been looking forward to this collaboration for so long !#it's better than i could have ever expected#the transition between their verses is so smooth & when yojiro starts singing it's like i can feel all the tension leaving my body#which is interesting considering the loneliness at the center of the song#his voice is equal parts haunting yet breathtaking & really captures that lonely feeling#so good !! it's songs like this one which reaffirm how his voice is my fav to listen to#then we've got full hyper toy !!!!#holding out on us once again i see#when the trailer dropped with a smaller glimpse into hyper toy i was like oh?! but still not the entire scope !#such a banger !!! the build up! that effect that happens right at the end of the 1st verse!#ahhh it makes me want to dance more than any other song on the album#and i think it embodies a kind of love and determination present in so many of the songs#tbh i was a little worried when i saw the track list for the 1st time#bc so many of the titles contained words with negative connotations#denoting sadness & pain & real struggle#and yeah the songs do go all in on those things!#but there's a resounding truth & resilience to them as well#a love for life & music in the face of those hardships#it's really anchored me to the present & i'm not exaggerating when i say this release has made my entire year <3#also the photos/videos coming out from the solo show & afterparty are such a joy to behold 🥹#my heart is swelling with pride & happiness for him 💗
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thinking about atticus my inquisitor again. and all the lore i uncovered yesterday,,, im allowed to have one [1] very powerful mage i think. as a treat
#who's going to stop me!!!!#listen. ok. he tried keeping his powers a secret for Years. which eventually failed and he got sent to the circle#where they decided they were gonna make him tranquil bc he was Not. a good mage at all. worried he'd get possessed or whatever#decided to send him to the conclave instead Just In Case something bad Were to happen for whatever reason#and then. well. he can close rifts now!!!#which i feel would most definitely have an effect on his magic moreso than the game shows#yes there's that one. veil. magic. spec thing i cant remember the name of that you get at skyhold#but even without that. i feel like being that in tune with the fade on account of the anchor mark Would make the magic more powerful#i am not explaining myself well. you understand 🙏
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That's also why this meme exists. (comment courtesy of @firedragon1321)
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They have a certain worldview, and accepting information to the contrary would require them to re-examine everything they believe to be true about the world, which would be immensely destabilizing and devastating. #yknow speaking for a friend who knows people like this (comment and tags courtesy of @softness-and-shattering)
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As Robert Heinlein wrote, “Man is not a rational animal. Man is a rationalizing animal.” The words “confirmation bias” also float through my head. People make decisions based on many things besides the facts of the case. Yes, even you. Do pause every now and then to check your assumptions. And don’t be so convinced that you are right that you start acting hateful to those who disagree. #adulting #confirmation bias #check your assumptions #true that #Robert Heinlein (comment and tags courtesy of @76ello)
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This is a fantastic description of what the term "confirmation bias" can actually mean. People generally don't make choices based on logic. We act based on our emotions, then our brain comes up with logic to justify it. (comment courtesy of @captain-acab)
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The phrase " (you also do this) " is such a raw, essential thing to read. Everybody should encounter and process that in a true context. - regularly. #self-reflection#humility#relativism#the moment anyone truly thinks they are unbiased and marinated in only truth they should shut up and re-examine (comment and tags courtesy of @breathing-chaos)
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Something I’ve always said is that it helps to think of good or bad actions rather than good or bad people. Everyone is capable of evil, just as everyone is capable of good. It’s a choice rather than something innate about ourselves. Always. #I was gonna elaborate on this but wow I can not find a way to word it properly #so #there you go #anyways yes I agree with all of this #text #politics #sam says #for queue (comment courtesy of @moonshine-angels)
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These are all good points, but in the US, it's not nothing that 25% of the population are part of an extremist religion that actively teaches you *not* to use critical thinking or examine your beliefs, so "raised in a cult" is a lot closer for a lot more people than I think OP realizes (comment courtesy of @sparrow-in-the-sea)
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ive read this list like four times and if it mentions "they were wrong because figuring things out is hard" I can't tell. which is bonkers, because that's the main reason like, it lists a lot of Social Reality reasons why people might be wrong, but it very notably excludes "actually they tried their best, they didn't make any obvious biased mistake, it just turns out it's hard to evaluate evidence" like damn imagine if the thing being discussed was, like, why do people get the answers to math problems wrong and you gave this list as a reason why. my guy it's because math is hard. and everything in the real world is way harder than math. Nevermind all the biases and emotions etc etc that get in the way: even if you were the Perfect Neutral Observer you would still fuck up constantly because figuring out what's true is fucking hard. the fact that we're not perfect neutral observers makes it harder but it would be an incredibly difficult problem anyway. (comment courtesy of @just-evo-now)
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We get it in the abstract. We all know everybody in this room makes mistakes. The human species, in general, is fallible -- okay fine. But when it comes down to me, right now, to all the beliefs I hold, here in the present tense, suddenly all of this abstract appreciation of fallibility goes out the window -- and I can't actually think of anything I'm wrong about. And the thing is, the present tense is where we live.
We go to meetings in the present tense; we go on family vacations in the present tense; we go to the polls and vote in the present tense. So effectively, we all kind of wind up traveling through life, trapped in this little bubble of feeling very right about everything. I think this is a problem. I think it's a problem for each of us as individuals, in our personal and professional lives, and I think it's a problem for all of us collectively as a culture. So what I want to do today is, first of all, talk about why we get stuck inside this feeling of being right. And second, why it's such a problem. And finally, I want to convince you that it is possible to step outside of that feeling and that if you can do so, it is the single greatest moral, intellectual and creative leap you can make. (emphasis mine) #ted talks #on being wrong #people are complicated #being wrong is part of life #I don't know; I might be wrong #we're all just stupid little blorbos toddling our single braincell down the road to disaster #my addition to a post (comment and tags courtesy of @krakenartificer)
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Also those last set of things (random luck, right place right time, natural environment) led you to recognise when you were having those natural doubling-down, confirmation bias type responses and, even if they felt good, question if they were stopping you from making a choice based on your own values (which are resultant of the abovementioned natural environment/random luck/right place right time etc. anyway, but a lot of people share theoretical values who believe in extremely different things). And lots of the time you find that your knee-jerk reaction was justified, but you keep asking those questions so when something comes along that makes you think Wrong! Bad! Gross! You actually parse it out and go, 'Actually, this isn't hurting anyone, it just gives me the ick. It isn't me cup of tea, but morally, it's fine.' That's a thing about figuring out how to be a better person. It involves a lot of actual figuring out. And sometimes that doesn't feel good because your instinctual feelings were off the mark and we don't like being wrong. (Or at least, I don't like being wrong. Maybe I'm wrong about that.) But it stops us becoming people we don't want to be. #I think of this a lot when I write villains #which is very fraught anyway because so many bad guys have been racially or sexually coded as other #but I always think a genuine no-redemption-for-you bad guy shouldn't always be sympathetic but should always be in some way relatable #so when the heroes have that knee-jerk reaction of 'Oh I don't like that. That should stop!' like the bad guy #They can then have a Mitchell and Webb 'are we the baddies' moment and try to make better choices #not perfect choices but better ones #because making bad guys completely unrelatably evil bears no resemblance to most of the bad guys we see in the real world #or the bad guys we could so easily become if we didn't actively try to make better choices (comment courtesy of @glasscatowl)
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I'd like to submit one that doesn't seem to match those above (and it might, actually, it's possible I've misinterpreted something,) but just in case and because I think this is all important: They were taught an incorrect "fact" by a source they trusted (a teacher, a professor, a doctor,) and have never had a reason to question it / are not being given a reason to question it by a source they trust. (You also do this.) To give a (somewhat) benign* example of this: the extremely common misunderstanding of wolf behavior. Many, many, many people were taught based on Mech's original publications at relatively young ages. Though people who are specifically into that subject are aware that Mech himself refuted his own work, the misinformation was already spread into the public psyche and there are many people who, to this day, earnestly believe that version without any kind of ill will or intent. And yes, those same people will often push back against being corrected. That can be for a lot of reasons, including the ones above, but also--possibly--because the person who is correcting them may be, ironically, less overtly credentialed than the person who told them the wrong information in the first place. Plenty of people who should know better are still pushing that narrative, after all. It's tempting to say that anyone being given a hint that there is different or conflicting information should just automatically go seek it out, but also consider that... there's only so much time and energy in anyone's day. Is someone who doesn't deal with wolves, has no real interest in wolves, and doesn't write an inordinate amount of wolf-related porn really going to go out of their way to delve into the mess of who is telling the truth about wolf behavior? Not likely. They're probably going to go with the version taught to them by the person they trust. *"Benign" : I'm aware that this specific bit of research has led to some seriously gnarly beliefs about human behavior (somehow) and otherwise dove-tailed into a lot of weird manosphere and tradwife nonsense. Not to mention animal abuse. That's actually part of why I picked it. The root belief here is fairly benign on its face, but when you know the evils that it's propping up it can be easy to have a knee jerk reaction to anyone who holds to that root belief. But they aren't the same. Treating them like they are can be heinously detrimental to everyone. But even if one does follow the other, being condescending or making bad faith assumptions about why the person believes what they believe will generally only make the situation worse, not better. #I agree with OP though I can't help but notice that all of their assumptions are somewhat... negative seeming #That doesn't make them wrong but there are also more... neutral things that people do. such as this #i really hope i don't regret speaking today (comment and tags courtesy of @cursedwithgloriouspurpose)
when the subject of "why do people believe things that are seriously wrong and harmful" comes up it feels like you kinda hear one of two perspectives:
"oh, that's easy! it's because they're fundamentally Bad people who want to hurt others and choose their beliefs to justify that! :) hope this helps"
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"they just don't have access to the same information we do. look at this person who was raised in a cult! don't you feel sorry for her?"
and like, yes, fine, some people were in fact raised in cults, but what i wish people would understand is that the bulk of it is just normal human flaws, like:
they want to believe stuff that makes them feel smart and cool and like they've figured everything out (you also do this)
they want to believe stuff that makes them feel like their emotions are justified and grounded in reality, and that the people they want to hurt deserve to be hurt (you also do this)
they form conclusions before they've processed all the relevant information, and cling to that first impression even when new info comes to light (you also do this)
they pick up beliefs from the people around them because they want to be liked and fit in, not because the beliefs are good or true (you also do this)
they come up with reasons that the stuff that benefits them (and the people they like and identify with) is actually overwhelmingly best for everyone and obviously the right thing to do (you also do this)
they pay more attention to stuff that supports what they already believe and avoid looking in places that might show them otherwise (you also do this)
they listen to people who talk like 'one of them' and ignore others (you also do this)
they come up with reasons to dismiss people with conflicting viewpoints as obviously in bad faith or ignorant or a shill or evil (you also do this)
they fail to take their own beliefs seriously sometimes, and take their beliefs way too seriously other times, in a selective way that lets them do the things they already wanted to do (you also do this)
the very ways they construct the ideas of 'knowledge' and 'wisdom' and 'belief' and 'understanding' are biased so that what they don't want to believe comes under lots of scrutiny and what they do want to believe receives less (you also do this)
you, dear reader, are presumably right about everything and were correct to die on every hill you've ever died on, but the difference between you and someone who's wrong about important stuff doesn't look like "well they're inherently evil and i'm not", it probably looks like a combination of:
natural environment (they would have been exposed to different information than you regardless of their choices)
being in the right place at the right time (your particular profile of flaws and virtues happened to be what was needed to lead you to the right conclusions, they had the opposite experience)
random luck (you doubled down on what felt right to believe but wasn't, but it turned out to be inconsequential, or even right for different reasons, while they doubled down on what turned out to be a horrible mistake distorting their entire worldview)
you do less of the things in the previous list, and over time the difference between you and them adds up
and, look, i also do these things. the nicest and most thoughtful people i've ever met do these things. if you meet someone who never does any of these things, i dunno, give them a fucking medal or something.
i know you're doing your best. we're all doing our best.
#i copy notes#psychology#no such thing as monsters#cults#cult tactics#fallacies#conspiracy theories#cognitive biases#cognitive dissonance#recency bias#anchoring bias#bandwagon effect#false consensus effect#confirmation bias#affinity bias#appeal to motive#bulverism#psychogenetic fallacy#nature vs nurture#resultant luck#moral luck#you are not immune to propaganda#our blessed homeland#their barbarous wastes#tom gauld#robert heinlein#you also do this#self awareness#humility#relativism
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