#badehotellet

[thehmn]

I wanted to make this post because we don’t see a lot of asexual characters in western media and despite him being from a hugely popular show (Seaside Hotel) you’re unlikely to know of his existence if you’re not from Denmark.

His name is Hjalmar Aurland and he’s one of the more sympathetic and realistic asexual characters I’ve seen. He lives in a time and place where asexuality as a concept doesn’t exist yet so he’s never labeled as such but rewatching the show made me realize that he acts exactly like the asexual people I personally know. Asexuality can mean a lot of things but his specific brand isn’t naive to sex nor is he repulsed by sex, sexual desire or thoughts simply doesn’t come naturally to him.

He can be convinced to have sex with his wife Helene but only if she appeals to their emotional bond. Just so you don’t get the wrong idea, he’s not being forced or emotionally blackmailed to sleep with her. It’s simply that he understands sex is a way to show emotional love too and he wants to express that love for Helene when it’s important to her, and seeing as sex isn’t unpleasant to him, just kinda boring, he’s willing to do that for her.

Unfortunately that isn’t enough for Helene and despite her love for Hjalmar she starts an affair with the dramatic and emotional actor Edward Weyse. He has a string of relationships, marriages and divorces behind him because despite what it may look like from the outside Edward doesn’t really want shallow sexual relationships. He just can’t help himself and keep falling in love with women left and right, fully and wholeheartedly, only to be dumped or dump them once the initial excitement has passed.

So Helene and Edward’s affair that was only meant to satisfy their carnal desires quickly becomes romantic. Helene feels torn between him and Hjalmar who she still loves and Edward understands the difficult situation they’re both in while also feeling jealous of Hjalmar. And Hjalmar? He doesn’t catch on for years. He’s not stupid but his brain just doesn’t jump to sex. He just assumes they’re good friends and why shouldn’t his wife be allowed to have friends, even male ones? Things get really complicated when Helene gets pregnant and she has to have sex with Hjalmar so he won’t wonder how it happened. Edward even has to join in on the seduction, reminding Hjalmar how much Helene loves him, even though it breaks Edward’s heart to do so.

But like I’ve said Hjalmar isn’t stupid. He saw the signs but chose to ignore them until one night when Helene accidentally says Edward’s name. It breaks the dam in Hjalmar’s denial and he has to face that deep down he always knew. Overcome by sadness and betrayal he wanders off into the night in nothing but his nightgown and gets a room at a different hotel where he can think in peace. Eventually he agrees to return to the first hotel with Helene and Edward and decides to take control of the situation.

He sits them both down and tells them that he understands that the three of them share a bond and that there are things he can’t really do for Helene so from now on he wants their relationship to be open and honest. He wants Helene and Edward to keep seeing each other and Edward is welcome in their house, but Hjalmar wants to be allowed to call Edward by his first name and makes it very clear that Helene and Edward’s children “belong to him” because he still thinks of himself as their dad and loves them as his own children. Both Helene and Edward agrees to it, though the emotional Edward is very flustered and confused by the acceptance and love he’s being shown by Hjalmar.

This is obviously a very tv drama situation but I was so stuck by how much Hjalmar acts like my asexual friends. Having a lover for your partner isn’t the most common solution but it’s an idea I’ve heard a lot of asexual people be open to under the right circumstances and of course that’s the most dramatic solution for a romantic tv drama.

Hjalmar is defined by so much more than his sexuality though. His main characteristic is his passion for social justice and equality, and other than some early show weirdness before they really cemented the characters, Hjamler is the only character who floats freely between the men and women. He’s just as likely to sit with the men as he is the women, often appearing in otherwise entirely female spaces. It’s never questioned or even brought up, not because he’s a “safe asexual” but because he cares and think their worries are as important as the men’s. He’s often called a pessimist by the other men when in reality he is determined to be hopeful and compassionate and spread the love he feels the world is lacking as WWII draws closer.

So yeah, I just wanted to share this sweet ace guy with you because you probably wouldn’t have known about him otherwise.

[daddy-laszlo]

Fie/Amanda Badehotellet / Seaside Hotel (2009-2024)

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[pastlivesandpurplepuppets]

I will miss them!

[theworstbear-nights]

Watching a new show and I can't go into the tags yet for fear of spoilers.

[lingeringmirth]

finding herself

Written for day 3. attic of @sapphic-september!

Fandom: Badehotellet | Pairing: onesided Trine/Lily | Rating: G | Tags: spoilers for season 10 (minor), angst, drabble, lesbian awakening, coming of age.

Also on AO3!

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That summer in the attic of the Seaside Hotel is the best and worst of Trine’s life.

The reason for both is Lily. Bubbly and lively Lily, who is so pretty and makes Trine feel things she shouldn’t. She’s tried denying that part of herself, the part that looks at girls like a boy would.

But she can’t be sorry for it, as that summer she finds herself, even if she doesn’t find what she’s looking for with Lily. She still has the memory of smiles and laughter.

She will find love, now she knows where to look for it.

[sigelfire]

tagged by @astromechs ; thank you! 💖

my top 15 shows (in no particular order):

1. Andor

2. The Mandalorian

3. Ahsoka

4. Cobra Kai

5. The Big Bang Theory

6. New World Zorro

7. The Chosen

8. Robotech

9. Big Little Lies

10. The Last of Us

11. Narcos / Narcos Mexico

12. Queer as Folk (UK)

13. Sabrina, the Teenage Witch

14. Badehotellet (Seaside Hotel)

15. Wizards and Warriors

Bonus: An Argentinian Show!

El Encargado (The Boss)

Tagging (no pressure!!): @galacticstar @septimaseverina @javierpenaispunk @coffee-and-uhg @ninsletamain

[sotiriabellou]

when i was younger i used to watch a danish tv series(badehotellet?i think) that aired on greek national television in the summer and i always thought that the language they spoke sounded so nice and unique and i was dead set on learning it when i got older but when i started like watching language related videos on the internet most ppl made fun of danish and said it sounded funny or silly and that kinda discouraged me.i think im gonna try to learn it tho

[rabbits-of-negative-euphoria]

To quote Hjalmar in Badehotellet, the Jews are not a race, they are a people.

[mirai-desu]

I was tagged by @lovelikewildness! ❤️

Last song: “I Want To Spend My Lifetime Loving You” from The Mask of Zorro soundtrack

Last show: Watched the first episode of Secret Invasion last night

Last movie: Shazam: Fury of the Gods. It was... eh... lol

Currently watching: Besides Secret Invasion, the new season of Outlander. I’ll start on S9 of Badehotellet (Seaside Hotel) this weekend.

Currently reading: I’m actually between books at the moment, but I have a few to choose from that I have checked out from work.

Current Obsession: Miss Scarlet & The Duke really is my top hyperfixation at the moment, heh heh

[once-a-lurker]

Thanks for the tag @thepatchycat! 💖

Favorite color: green

Currently reading: I'm 2 or 3 chapters into False Dichotomy. Force sensitive Cody + engaging narrative voice + body horror = I'm hooked! I plan to get To Kill a Mockingbird from the library soon because I'm going to be ushering at the play in March and I want to know the story beforehand.

Last song I listened to: "Dinle," sent to me by an Iranian guy I met in an English language discord. I usually only listen to English language music, so it's fun to hear other styles!

Last movie I watched: The Godfather. The local orchestra was doing the thing where they play the movie score while showing the movie. So good.

Last series I watched: Currently watching Badehotellet, season 9 and All Creatures Great and Small, season 3. Still meaning to watch Andor because I KNOW I will like it.

Currently craving: Nothing? For now? Having a good mental health day so far 💖 As a general rule I'd always love to see an MCR5 announcement hahaha a girl can dream

No pressure tags! @coruscantguard, @crystalshard, @redminibike1, @morriganbia

[mercurygray]

This isn’t needing anything, just hoping that your day has gone well and you’re cozy considering the rain!!!!! xx

It has gone well, Kind Anonymous Friend, and I am very cozy. Just having a cup of tea and digging into the latest season of Badehotellet (Seaside Hotel) this delightful little frothy Danish period drama on PBS.

[badehotellet]

Welcome to Badehotellet: Your Home Away from Home

🌟 In June 2021, we joyously opened the doors to Badehotellet, a cozy haven where history meets hospitality. Nestled in Holmsbu, Norway, our boutique hotel radiates charm and warmth, lovingly cared for by owners Monica and Rolf Vidar Grønvoll Aaen. Together with our dedicated team, we strive to ensure every guest feels cherished and well-attended from the moment they arrive.

Our Commitment to You

At Badehotellet, hospitality isn't just a service; it's a heartfelt promise. With 17 thoughtfully designed double rooms, our intimate size allows us to provide personalized attention to each guest. Whether it's a special request or a unique preference, we're here to make your stay exceptional.

Meet Our Team

Behind the scenes, our passionate team members are the heart of Badehotellet. 🌿 Sandra, our assistant hotel manager, ensures seamless operations and oversees our delightful restaurant. In the kitchen, talented chefs Niklas, Argesh, and Patrick create culinary masterpieces that tantalize the senses.

At the reception and in the restaurant, you'll be warmly welcomed by Marie, Maria, and Stine, who ensure every detail of your visit is perfect. Together with Monica and Rolf, our entire team works tirelessly to create a welcoming atmosphere where guests are not just visitors but cherished friends.

Your Experience Matters

Whether you're here for a relaxing weekend getaway, a romantic retreat, or a business trip, Badehotellet offers more than just a place to stay. Explore scenic beauty, indulge in gourmet dining at our restaurant, or simply unwind in the comfort of our elegantly appointed rooms.

Explore Situated in the heart of  Holmsbu, Norway, Badehotellet is the perfect base for discovering the charm and allure of the region. From pristine beaches to cultural landmarks, there's something for everyone to enjoy.

Book Your Stay

Ready to experience the warmth and hospitality of Badehotellet? 🌊 Plan your visit today and discover why our guests return time and again to create lasting memories in our little slice of paradise.

Join Us at Badehotellet

Whether you're seeking a tranquil escape or planning a special occasion, Badehotellet welcomes you with open arms. 🌞 Experience genuine hospitality where every detail is crafted with care and where you arrive as a guest but leave as part of our extended family.

Contact Us

Visit Our website for more details: https://badehotellet.com/

Have questions or ready to book your stay? Reach out to us today at Storgaten 8, 3484 Holmsbu, Norway || Phone: +47 32 79 40 00 . We can't wait to welcome you to Badehotellet!

[dugiskoven]

på halvanden uge har jeg set fra sæson 1 af badehotellet og er nu begyndt på sæson 6.

[larsen71]

#badehotellet

[thesimplyluxuriouslife]

It just doesn't get much better than this after a full week - a homemade apple tart, a hot Cuppa, good books, my first @trudon candle, fresh flowers and my pups to snuggle in with and relax. Oh! And also discovering that a favor Danish series is now available to stream! Yep! Badehotellet (translation: Seaside Hotel) Season 9 is available through @masterpiecepbs . Wishing you a lovely evening and Bon week-end! #tsllfrancophilefind #tsllsimpleluxuries #tsllmynorman https://www.instagram.com/p/CnYIybwu5cR/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=