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Most Trans-Attracted Men Don’t Know What They’re Doing. Forgive Them.

If you’ve read posts here before, you get a sense of our perspective. Humans create everything in our experience. Including other people. But nearly all of us are doing that unaware that’s what we’re doing. So we blame the world around us, and other people, for our troubles. All the while not realizing when we do that, we create more trouble for ourselves.

Tremendous amounts of power lie hidden in that very true synopsis of our perspective. 

Trans-attracted men (and transgender women) are no exception to this. Most of us think the world around us some objective thing. It’s separate from us, not springing out of us as a reflection of our inner state. So it’s not a wonder trans-attracted men will react to inner awareness with fear. Their basis for self understanding is external, as it is for most of us. It doesn’t matter that that basis is flawed, which it is. When they notice something about themselves, they will consult the world around them for what’s true.

Transgender women do this too.

Unfortunately, the world around them will tell them they are the problem. Then, trying to fit in, they’ll hide this new awareness, or try changing it. Social ostracism, for the uninitiated trans-attracted guy, is a terrible thing. Familial ostracism is even worse. Ostracism from one’s manliness is an even morefearsome thing. No wonder such men struggle accepting what they are. Just like many transgender women.

It’s meant this way

But the world IS a reflection. And like all reflections, it’s an illusion. The paradox of this world though, is, if you walk onto a freeway, cars zooming toward you will kill you. So we must all contend with the powerful “reality” we put ourselves in that feels so real…when it’s, at the same time, not at all real.

After all, if we knew it wasn’t real coming in, the benefit of life would not be ours, would it? So we hypnotize ourselves into this “kill you” part of the paradox.

Meanwhile, the reflection serves us all. It aids in our becoming better versions of ourselves. “Better versions” look like increasingly pure expressions of divine intelligence. More direct expressions of All That Is, in other words.

“Trans” and “trans attraction” represent this purer, more direct expression. What do you think Divine Intelligence, or All That Is, looks like anyway? A grey-bearded white guy?

NO!

All That Is is “TRANS gender”. It comprises both genders while simultaneously rising above them all. It is more than the sum of its (infinite parts).

And so are we.

^^Physical reality is an illusion…that can kill you. (Photo by Chris Barbalis on Unsplash)

Back to the guys

Trans-attracted men are identical to transgender women when viewed from this perspective. They are on similar paths. You could say they are on different aspects of the same path. No one’s murdering these guys, sure. But again, it’s not the SAME path! It’s a DIFFERENT ASPECT of the same path. We could even call it a COMPLEMENTARY aspect.

In other words, while transgender people need no protectors, trans-attracted men can complement them in off-the-chart ways. But these men first must know what they’re doing with their trans-attraction. Their journey from Chaser to Transamory IS THAT PROCESS.

If transgender women were willing to change their view of such men, they would find powerful allies there. Yes, it takes a profound willingness to change one’s mind in the face of so much evidence to the contrary. And I know most transgender women won’t do stop looking at the contrary evidence long enough to do that. It’s true: self-loathing is a powerful elixir.

But some do. Some like my clients.

Every story can change. Even self loathing ones. A powerful figure with tremendous global influence once said of his tormentors “Forgive them Father. They know not what they do.” There’s great power in forgiveness. That and asking questions.

A simple question can change the course of even the most vile person. And in that way transgender women can become catalysts for trans-attracted men. If they choose to.

So, transgender women, the next time you get a dick pick from some online dating app you’d do better not being on, perhaps instead of getting mad, forgive the sender. He doesn’t know what he’s doing.

Then, maybe, ask them a question. Like: Why do you think sending me this picture will get you what you think you want?

Then see what happens next.

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Top Ten Things Not to Do in Your Spouse’s New Car

Photo by Chris Barbalis on Unsplash This post was originally run on May 8th, 2017. I think the advice still holds true. * * * The inspiration for the list was the rotation of an old car for a new car for The Producer. Yes, it was her turn for a new vehicle and brought to mind some of the things that I will never even think of doing in it. Top Ten Things Not to Do in Your Spouse’s New Car 10 In…

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Nama Produk : Tempat Pendingin Minuman IDR : ask || Harga Chek Inbox || - Bahan Material Dari : ( Tembaga, Kuningan dan Alumunium ) - Melayani Pesanan partai besar atau partai kecil. - Melayani pesanan berbagai macam bentuk peralatan masak dan catering. - Melayani pesanan berbagai macam desain interior ataupun exterior. - Kami memberikan kwalitas terbaik dari bahan terbaik. Workshop ada di : 1. Wonosari RT 01/ RW 10, Cepogo, Boyolali Catatan : ● Melayani Costum desing. ● Tidak ada minimum order. ● Proses pengerjaan tergantung tingkat kesulitan. ● Transaksi Mudah dan Aman. ● Produk di kami ada yg PO ( Pree Order ), ada yang READY. ● Setiap ukuran produk yang kami posting tergantung permintaan pembeli. ● Bingung cara pasang produk dari kami ? Team SAMPRAS ART siap melayani jasa pemasangan dengan biaya yang di bebankan oleh pihak pembeli. Phone Number Pemesanan : - Phone : 082213193989 - Whatsapp : https://wa.me/6282213193989 - Telegram : https://t.me/SamprasArtStore Rekening Pemesanan: - 💳 : BRI. No rek : 666301000467509 AT : Heru Setiawan Email kami : samprasart1945@gmail.com Pengiriman Produk / Ekspedisi Yang Kami Percayai : 1. J&T 📦 2. INDAH CARGO 📦 3. Travel 📦 4. Pengiriman pribadi dari SAMPRAS ART 📦 Keterangan : - Original craftsmen, Quality 💯 - Melayani kerja sama dengan PT atau Cv dengan ketentuan bersyarat. - Produk Hand Made bisa bersaing dengan bentuk dan kwalitas pabrikan, dengan persentasi 99% sama!! ( barang tidak sama persisi bisa di kembalikan ) Korespondensi / Penangung Jawab : - Heru Setiawan - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - #beercooler #beercoolers #caffe #caffebali #interiorbali #interiorbalikpapan #barbali #hardrockcafe #hardrockhotel #hardrockstadium #hardrockcasino #hardrockmusic #hardrockcafé #hardrocklive #hardrockcancun #hardrockbali #hardrockrivieramaya #hardrocklasvegas #hardrockband #hardrockhotelbali #hardrockpenang #hardrockpanama #hardrockorlando #hardrocktampa #hardrockibiza #hardrockhotelibiza #hardrockcafecuritiba #hardrocktshirt #hardrockers #samprasart (di Sampras Art) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bypd75eDQ-t/?igshid=1rgyvumsmdkzt

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Feb 2022: I believe that practice makes perfect BUT practice without learning is useless. You won’t progress if you are doing things just for the sake of doing it. Keeping that in mind, it should be “Practice with Concious Learning makes Perfect”. This month I am applying that in my art exploration and learning about textures.