#transamorous

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

GayLTM Pride Flag

Gayltm (GLTM/G4TM/Gay4TM): similar to gaylm (GLM/G4M or gay4m) and MLTM (M4TM)/NBLTM (NLTM/N4TM/NB4TM), a term describing gay attraction to trans men and/or transmasculine individuals; being gay for transgender men and/or transmasculine folks (transtidals); a veldian (gay mlm/nblm/nlm/qlm/mlq) attracted to transmasc and/or trans male people.

MLTM Pride Flag

MLTM (man loving trans man or masc loving transmasc): a term for masculine folks and men attracted to and/or in a relationship with trans men and/or transmasculine folks; transamorous vincian or homoamorous/equaric transmascic.

This can be useful for T4T people and individuals in such achillean/vincian relationships

[bups4freak]

Transamoral

A term for those who think they should be / identify as being amoral.

Requested by @permamasked

[ecstasaxx]

Slaying the day always ❤️❤️

[daybreakthing]

Transamoric

(pt: Transamoric /end pt)

Transamoric; a term for relationships that include at least one trans individual!

etymology; trans, amoric!

for anon!

tagging; @radiomogai!

[alicethruthelookingglass]

"The hardest role to cast was Dylan’s. We were conscious we needed an actor brave enough to go there – play this transamorous, abusive pimp. It was hard on page, because it could have been played a number of ways. He’s definitely the villain. But I always pictured a character rooted in this traditional suburban, small-town mentality. Of wanting to be a father, wanting to ‘provide’. Which, in and of itself, is a noble quality. But you mix it with toxic masculinity – it presents a specific breed of man that’s horrible. Dylan, instantly, we were cut from the same cloth. I was like: ‘This is like a guy I went to high school with!’ He brought so much humour to the role. Dylan’s one of the funniest humans alive. Dylan’s affability, and ‘charming-ness’ made you, like, hate the character, but also want to fuck the character, too! It’s just the right combination of charm and disgust. "

[perestroika-hilton]

Ever notice how male bisexuality really only expresses itself through transamorousness

[ciphervessel]

ONE OF MY TRANSIDS THAT BRINGS ME THE MOST DYSPHORIA IS TRANSAMORAL

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[pascalishere]

I need to get caught up in either a transamorous cuddle-fuck fest or a jewel heist. Either works

[plainwaterpdf]

I actually want to make the T&C's zine (tgirls and their lesbian chasers). Been having so many interesting conversations about trans girlhood with the dolls and transamorous desire with the chasers I think it would be very cool to formalise it via a series of mutual interviews. We could do a secret Santa type draw to decide who interviews whom.... this idea is getting more and more epic the more I think about it.

[t4transsexual]

this. the issue with chasers is they weaponize a position of power over us and also dont view us as human or anything beyond pornographic consumption. the trans community has been made distrustful OF ITS OWN COMMUNITY, BY THESE CHASERS. somebody dating trans people (yes, even exclusively) isnt necessarily a chaser unless they meet the criteria of not seeing us as human and having a position of power over us

to display the difference in an example:

on the app "threads," a woman made a comment on a trans mans post saying "we need more transmascs on this app -a cis woman who thirsts over transmascs." i mentioned that this was inappropriate, unnecessary because this wasnt that kinda context. she said "oh, alright! im sorry for everyone i made uncomfortable, ill watch myself next time." she is not a chaser. she is transamorous, albeit a little socially awkward, but because she was able to respond to me in a way that she heard my concern as a transmasc, i wouldnt consider her a fetishist, because fetishists are INCAPABLE of that.

on the other hand, i have a nsfw reddit, and i posted a quip about people disrespecting my boundaries, and a cis man commented something sexualizing me. i told him that was inappropriate for the context, and he proceeded to hurl insults, put my male gender in quotations ("i cant mansplain to you because youre a "man""), talk about my "dick envy" that i dont have, and ultimately be disrespectful. it would have been very easy for him to understand that sexualizing me (and other "ftms" as he put it) in that context was inappropriate, but because he was used to only seeing transmasculine people in porn and not calling him out on his micro/macroaggressions, he failed to see that i was a human with boundaries just like him, thus making him a chaser

an interaction with a chaser is inherently dehumanizing. they degrade us, whether they mean to or not. i have only felt seen, appreciated, and loved by other t4t people. i can also have good interactions with cis people who date/have sex with trans people who arent chasers! but theres a BIG DIFFERENCE in the way a chaser will interact with you vs a t4t or even just a transamorous cis person.

ultimately, i think its very unfortunate when trans people knock t4t because they think its a fetish, because in my experiences, t4t is the safest way to date as a trans person, and also the most comfortable, and just i think the right way to go about it. i think in a better world, ALL trans people would be t4t. its been a lifesaver for me

trans people who are anti t4t make me so sad. because beyond just not knowing what being t4t means, the fact that they believe that t4t is just being a chaser is indicative of a deeper issue, being that cis people have ingrained the idea that we are unfuckable and unloveable, disgusting by nature, and that anybody who would voice attraction to us, a step further, ONLY CHOOSE TO DATE TRANS PEOPLE, would be a pervert with a disgusting fetish who wont see them as equal.

thats not what t4t is.

t4t is the rejection of the idea that we are inherently disgusting, just because we are in the eyes of a cisnormative society.

t4t is the understanding that we are safer and stronger together as a community than apart.

t4t is seeing your trans boyfriend try on clothes from your old boy wardrobe that you hated growing up but now your least favorite shirt is your favorite because its the perfect shade of red that brings out his eyes.

t4t is teaching your trans girlfriend that has been scared to do her own makeup how youve learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women.

t4t is doing your testosterone shots together and kissing each others sticks after you put the bandaid on.

t4t is holding the door for your trans girlfriend and showing her the chivalry she didn't get from her dad growing up, but its ok because you can show her now.

t4t is being on the phone with your partner who just came out as trans/nonbinary after seeing you, YOU, live your truth, and them asking you to help them find a new name, the perfect name for them, and you hope theyll carry that part of you forever.

you are trans and that is beautiful. your transness is beautiful. trans love is beautiful. dont let ANYBODY make you feel unworthy of sex or love. THATS what being t4t means.

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

WLTW/FLTF Pride Flag

WLTW/W4TW (woman loving trans women), FLTF/F4TF (fem who likes transfem or fem4transfem), FLTW/F4TW (feminine liking trans woman), or WLTF/W4TF (woman who loves transfems): equaric transfemaric (including homoamorous) and/or transamorous sapphic (transaffectional wlw/flf/flw/wlf); a term for feminine folks and women attracted to and/or in a relationship with trans women and/or transfeminine folks.

[transamorousnetwork]

This Trans-Attracted Man’s Life Gets Better And Better

Every time a client texts me with evidence their life is getting better, I delight in the receipt. That’s because I know when they send me such messages, they’re having the time of their lives. It’s also delightful because their improved life amplifies my knowing in this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business, aka (by some) as “Wishful Thinking”. LOL.

When some people use that “Wishful Thinking” moniker, they’re being pejorative. They don’t believe this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business is real. They believe that because this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business is working for them. It’s just reflecting back to them the manifestation of their belief: that this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business doesn’t work, or it’s pseudoscience or new age quackery.

The jokes on them though because this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business isworking, just like it does for me and all my clients. I love that!

But I love more when clients text me with their wonder. That’s what I’m writing about today.

Beliefs defending themselves

This past week a trans-attracted client finds himself as wonder-filled as I am. Except, he’s finding himself so dumbfounded by his manifestation results, he sometimes slips into disbelief.

I love when that happens too because it means that client finds himself in a Belief Confrontation. A Belief Confrontation is when All That Is shows us something at odds with our beliefs. When that happens, the juxtaposition of our belief, and the reality we’re experiencing at that moment, is so jarring, our belief “defends” itself.

Our belief doesn’t put up its dukes and gets into a fist-fight with the reality. It’s not human after all. But the energy and momentum comprising our belief is strong. And that strong momentum, when confronted with another strong momentum of energy or vibration, experiences a kind of polarity shift. Kind of like when you try put two magnets together and they repulse one another.

When that polarity shift happens in a human, the human feels an emotion. Typically the emotion is negative. That negative emotion comes on instantaneously and can feel so strong it can compel the human into a psychologically defensive stance. They’ll resist that which doesn’t accord with their beliefs. Or they might willfully ignore it. 

Our civilization is full of examples illustrating this process underway. And it’s underway all the time, everywhere.

It really works

After clients produce evidence that “you create your reality by the stories you tell” is accurate, force accompanying Belief Confrontations ease, allowing the client to feel the force without it taking them over. That’s what happened with this client. He deserves some praise because he’s significantly soothed his Belief Confrontations around the fact that he’s in the driver’s seat of his life, no one else, and that he can create any life he wants.

So when he texted me, he briefly expressed some disbelief, but followed that up with a string of evidence showing this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business works. And that balance – between the brief disbelief and the litany of evidence – amplified within him his growing momentum aligning with the belief “this ‘you create your reality by the stories you tell’ business really works!”

Here’s what he texted me:

^^A trans-attracted client amplifying his belief in this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business by sharing his powerful results.

There’s no evidence proving this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business doesn’t work. Again, even for those who think it doesn’t work, it’s working. It’s working by showing those people a reality in which the belief “this ‘you create your reality by the stories you tell’ business doesn’t work” doesn’t work!

But for those willing to soften that belief, those people’s worlds will increasingly show them that this “you create your reality by the stories you tell” business does work. And as that evidence grows, the person will consciously come into their own power. The power they knew they had when they first incarnated as human.

The Charmed Life

We all came here in our human experiences to enjoy our creative power. That includes trans people. We all are incipient gods becoming more in a structure we have created as a part of the consciousness of All That Is. That sure sounds like a circular argument. But that’s only because All That Is is circular in its awareness and purpose.

All That Is is all about one thing: knowing itself through expanding its awareness of itself. That’s its purpose. And it joyfully prosecutes that purpose. We are physical expressions of All That Is seeking to expand its self-awareness. As such, we too can joyfully create our experiences as we move through our human lives.

We don’t have a choice about the expansion or the experience. But we do have a choice in how that experience happens, what’s included in it, what’s not, and how much we enjoy that experience. That’s our innate gift we give ourselves.

And when we choose to deliberately create experiences which bring us joy, then that experience of human life just gets better and better. Just as my clients are seeing in their lives. And as I’m seeing in mine. It’s the Charmed Life. And it’s available to everyone. Even trans people.

[positivlyfocused]

How A Client Quitting Manifested A New, Better One

TL;DR: The author shares how a client’s exit sparked the effortless arrival of a better, higher-paying one—demonstrating how vibrational alignment, not forced action, brings ideal outcomes in perfect timing. No magical spending required.

Earlier this year, a client decided to quit the practice.

She’s an artist who creates beautiful handwoven pieces from recycled fabric. Of course, one of my roles in client sessions is to perceive the alternate future reality in which the client’s dreams lay manifest, then inspire the client towards that reality. For this client, that dream is owning a business based on her artistic expressions. One that would replace income she gets from her day job.

When she showed me one of her creations, I felt inspired by my Broader Perspective to buy it as a gift for another client—someone I knew would appreciate the artistry and meaning behind it. The price wasn’t firm yet, nor was the shipping cost known, but I trusted the inspiration and paid what the artist quoted.

Later, after she finished the piece and shipped it, she came back to ask for more money—the shipping cost was almost as much as the item itself. I told her I’d cover it, but not until after tax season. I had underestimated my tax bill this year due to a surprising (and delightful!) increase in client income—proof in itself that my practice is thriving.

She didn’t take that well, however.

The fun begins

In our final conversation, she told me I wasn’t truly living the Positively Focused practice. I should “just pay what you owe me,” she said, and “trust the money will show up.”

But here’s how I responded: That’s not how this practice works. It’s not about reckless spending wrapped in spiritual platitudes, I told her. It’s about inspired alignment, trusting timing, and honoring your clarity.

My response moved me so much, I wrote a blog about it: The Myth of Magical Spending. But my response didn’t move her. She didn’t like what I told her. After our next session, she left the practice. That meant a $150/month client was gone.

And that’s where the fun began.

The fun began there because I knew the Universe would handle this. I knew the timeline I’m aligned with always brings me what fits. It’s happened over and over. When one client leaves, a new one replaces them. And not just any replacement—but one that’s better, cleaner, more in tune with who I am now.

Fast forward to the last week of April.

I didn’t worry or chase. I knew.

A new person booked a free 1:1 through my Transamorous Network website. Because he’s a trans-attracted man (and those clients often ghost), I required a $25 refundable deposit as part of the free 1:1 booking process. He paid it. That told me he was serious.

But then he rescheduled his session for late June. Now, I could have fretted. I could have worried this guy was a flake like so many others. But I didn’t do that. I stayed chill, detached. You could even say I remained indifferent to what would happen next. I wasn’t grasping, needing a new client. Insecurity found no match in me. I just remained open.

Then, just days later, I got a new booking…from the same guy. We hadn’t even had the free 1:1 yet and here he was booking a full client package at $200/month.

Later he told me he couldn’t wait for June. And he didn’t want to wait for a trial. He knew what I offered offered value for him, he said. In other words, this new client said YES to himself — and to me — before the original session ever happened. That’s divine orchestration!

^^The new client not only is willing to pay me more, he’s a better match to what I offer.

Here’s What That Means

Not only did the Universe replace the departing client, it replaced her with one willing to pay $50 more. What’s more, he started his sessions in May, meaning there was no income gap at all. Further, our connection was energetically clean – no drama, no demands, just a client ready, willing, and eager for the transformation I offer. That became clear after our first two sessions. Especially when he said, after session one, “I’m so glad to have met you.”

The Universe didn’t just patch the income leak, in other words, the Universe upgraded the income plumbing.

This proves to me that we don’t have to chase money. Make our intentions known to the Universe and relax into the knowing that it’s done and the Universe will do the rest. Again this isn’t the first time this happened. As far as I’m concerned, it’s happened so often I’m convinced this is reality.

The challenge is, we can’t just go from disbelieving to knowing it’s possible, to having what we desire. Practical evidence nurtures knowing. Producing that practical, nurturing evidence takes a while and it’s not intuitive. Not at first. That’s why it’s helpful to have a framework such as the Positively Focused approach and someone like me who knows the path.

No magical spending required

The path is the same on any subject. It works every time, but does require clients’ compliance and devotion. Clearly, the client who quit wasn’t ready to go the distance. And yet, this experience is a crystal-clear example of how this practice works, and what she could have walked into:

Act when inspired

Honor your boundaries without guilt even in the face of others’ doubt

Trust divine timing instead of forcing outcomes

Know that the Universe has your intention in mind always

Then watch as reality rearranges itself to reflect that knowing

It’s not about magical spending. It’s about vibrational integrity. And when you hold that? The manifestations flow in—better than before.

Want help aligning your life with this kind of precision and ease? Book a session and let’s show you how effortless reality can become when you live from your Broader Perspective.

[ecstasaxx]

Good morning 😍🌅

[shuristaffling]

Alice & Zero Alter Packs!

🗡 | NAME: Alice Marie Jackson, Allie, Al, Allison

🗡 | PRONOUNS: She/her, he/him

🗡 | AGE: Chrono 23, PermaTeen 

🗡 | SPECIES: Human

🗡 | GENDER(S): Bigender, Paragirl, Paranoiabodiment, Sketchgender, MusicCopic, Fictcomfic

🗡 | SEXUALITY: Bisexual, Masochist

🗡 | ROLE: Subsystem Host, Trauma Holder

🗡 | TRANSIDS: TransHarmed, TransHikikiomori, PermaVictim, TransPossessed, TransFinalGirl, TransMarySue, Permabruised, TransUGSM, TransBullied, TransBloodShot, TransSelectiveMutism, PermaControlled, TransManipulatedKiller, TransPeaceful, TransChronicallyOnline, NullColorBlind, TransRealityShifter, PermaDayDream

🗡 | SOURCE: Creepypasta

🗡 | EMOJI SUGGESTIONS: 🕸️, 🎭, 🪞, 🥀, 🎐

🗡 | NAME: Zero, Null

🗡 | PRONOUNS: She/her, he/him, it/its, they/them, stab/stabs, ske/skele/skeleton, bone/bones

🗡 | AGE: Chrono 23, AgeNull

🗡 | SPECIES: Human Non-Conforming

🗡 | GENDER(S): Agender, Sickfuck, Uncangender, ManiaFemme, Lovbessesyanjoyix, Worthlesslovevoid, Deadlovegender, Staticgender, Jealousbodiment

🗡 | SEXUALITY: Greyromantic Lesbian, Sadist

🗡 | ROLE: Persecuter, Protector

🗡 | TRANSIDS: TransHarmful, PermaControlling, PermaManipulator, TransYandere, TransAmoral, TransSkeletal, TransVessel, PermaJealous, TransMania, TransEcho, TransParasocial, TransValentine, NullCringy, TransPathologicalLiar, TransReality, TransColorBlind

🗡 | SOURCE: Creepypasta

🗡 | EMOJI SUGGESTIONS: 🔨, 0, 0️���, 🦴, 🩻, 🦷, 🎲, 🕳️

[perestroika-hilton]

When will transamorous men get through their heads that 20 minutes on Google will rid them of stupid questions for perspective partners like the bar is underground come on