#beingwhole

[therealsacredslut]

𝖂𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝖎𝖋 𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖑𝖔𝖛𝖊 𝖘𝖙𝖔𝖗𝖎𝖊𝖘 𝖆𝖗𝖊 𝖓𝖔𝖙 𝖆𝖇𝖔𝖚𝖙 𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖑𝖔𝖛𝖊𝖗𝖘 𝖇𝖚𝖙 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖙𝖆𝖑𝖊𝖘 𝖔𝖋 𝖍𝖔𝖜 𝖜𝖊 𝖋𝖔𝖚𝖓𝖉 𝖔𝖚𝖗𝖘𝖊𝖑𝖛𝖊𝖘?

ᴡᴇ ɢʀᴏᴡ ᴜᴘ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜɪꜱ ɪᴅᴇᴀ ᴏꜰ ꜰɪɴᴅɪɴɢ ᴏᴜʀ "𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕙𝕒𝕝𝕗", ꜰɪɴᴅ ᴜɴᴄᴏɴᴅɪᴛɪᴏɴᴀʟ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜɪɴ ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴇʟꜱᴇ. 𝔹𝕦𝕥 𝕟𝕠𝕓𝕠𝕕𝕪 𝕥𝕠𝕠𝕜 𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕚𝕣 𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕥𝕖𝕒𝕔𝕙 𝕦𝕤 𝕥𝕠 𝕝𝕠𝕧𝕖 𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕧𝕖𝕤 𝕦𝕟𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕚𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕒𝕝, 𝕥𝕠 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝕣𝕒𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕟 𝕥𝕣𝕪𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕖 𝕙𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕕 𝕤𝕠 𝕞𝕦𝕔𝕙.

ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ꜱᴛᴜᴄᴋ ɪɴ ᴀ ʟᴏᴏᴘ, ᴛʀʏɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ꜰɪɴᴅ ꜱᴏᴍᴇʙᴏᴅʏ ᴛᴏ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴜꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴡʜᴏ ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ʙᴜᴛ ꜰᴀɪʟ ᴛᴏ ᴀᴄᴋɴᴏᴡʟᴇᴅɢᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏ ᴘᴀʀᴛ ᴏꜰ ᴏᴜʀꜱᴇʟᴠᴇꜱ. ᴏᴜᴛ ꜱᴇᴀʀᴄʜɪɴɢ ꜰᴏʀ ᴘᴇᴀᴄᴇ, ʜᴀᴘᴘɪɴᴇꜱꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ꜰᴜʟꜰɪʟʟᴇᴅ ᴡɪᴛʜɪɴ ᴛᴇᴍᴘᴏʀᴀʀʏ ᴄᴏɴɴᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴꜱ, ɴᴏᴛ ʀᴇᴀʟɪᴢɪɴɢ ʜᴏᴡ ᴡʜᴏʟᴇꜱᴏᴍᴇ ᴡᴇ ᵃˡʳᵉᵃᵈʸ ᴀʀᴇ.

ᴛʀᴜᴇ, ᴜɴᴄᴏɴᴅɪᴛɪᴏɴᴀʟ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴄᴄᴇᴘᴛᴀɴᴄᴇ ꜱᴛᴀʀᴛꜱ ᴡɪᴛʜɪɴ ᴏᴜʀꜱᴇʟᴠᴇꜱ. ᴡᴇ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ꜰɪɴᴅ ᴏᴜʀ ᴅᴇᴍᴏɴꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴇᴀʀɴ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ɪɴ ᴏᴜʀ ꜰᴀᴠᴏʀ. ɪᴛ'ꜱ ᴠᴇʀʏ ɪᴍᴘᴏʀᴛᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴀᴄᴋɴᴏᴡʟᴇᴅɢᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴀʀᴋɴᴇꜱꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴛᴀʀꜱ ᴡɪᴛʜɪɴ. ʀᴇᴊᴇᴄᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ɪᴅᴇᴀ ᴏꜰ ɴᴏᴛ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴡʜᴏʟᴇ. ☯

ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ꜰᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜱᴏᴜʟᴍᴀᴛᴇ, ʟᴏᴏᴋ ꜰᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜱᴏᴜʟ ᴍᴀᴛᴇ. . .

ᴇxᴘʟᴏʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴅᴀʀᴋ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇꜱ, ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴜɴᴛᴏᴜᴄʜᴇᴅ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇꜱ, ɢᴏ ʟᴀᴜɢʜ ᴀᴛ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇꜱ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄʀɪᴇᴅ ʙᴇꜰᴏʀᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴏ ꜰɪɴᴅ ɴᴇᴡ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇꜱ ᴛʜᴀ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ᴍᴀɢɪᴄᴀʟ. ᴛᴜʀɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴏᴜᴛɪɴᴇꜱ ɪɴᴛᴏ ꜱᴍᴀʟʟ ʀɪᴛᴜᴀʟꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴛʜɪɴɢ.

ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴀʙʟᴇ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏᴡɴ ʜᴀᴘᴘʏ ᴀɴᴅ ꜱᴀꜰᴇ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇ ɪꜱ ꜱᴏ ᴘᴏᴡᴇʀꜰᴜʟ ᴀɴᴅ ʜᴇᴀʟᴛʜʏ. ɪᴍᴀɢɪɴᴇ ɪꜰ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡᴏᴜʟᴅ ᴛᴜʀɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴍᴀɢɪᴄ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴀʏ ᴜᴘ ✨

ꜱᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ᴏᴜᴛ ʟoᴠᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴜᴘʟɪꜰᴛɪɴɢ ᴠɪʙᴇꜱ

𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖘𝖆𝖈𝖗𝖊𝖉 𝖘𝖑𝖚𝖙 - ʝᵃᵉ

[rebekahmarie20-blog]

You're never less when you're not feeling whole, as the moon is still a moon when only half

[jksejour]

Another day in the books!!! Pray for me y’all. It’s been a long weekend, I’m tired and still at the park with the boys!!! Kids need fun too in a pandemic. Day 4 #blogtober let’s do this!!!! #magnets #fragment #bloggerlife #findingpurpose #beingwhole https://www.instagram.com/p/CGgwEtFl56y/?igshid=1rbx6oso3thyb

[marisadonnelly]

I used to be so obsessed with perfection. I loved knowing I was on the right track, I had my life in order, everything made sense. I tried so hard to always do the ‘right’ thing, or never make a mistake (like that’s even possible). I spent so much time and energy pushing myself, only to feel like I failed when things didn’t work out perfectly. And how toxic is that?!⠀ ⠀ But lately, I’m working on embracing the messiness of my life. I’m surrounding myself with people who challenge me and not always think or live the way I do. I’m accepting that I don’t always have set plans or answers - sometimes I just have to wait. And I’m pushing myself to be more real about things in my life as they’re happening - not worry so much about how 'weak’ or 'weird’ (insert any negative adjective) that makes me appear.⠀ ⠀ This morning I sat down to write a piece about love - it’s geared towards women - encouraging us to push the men in our lives to be better lovers, to love us with the same tenacity, to step up or to leave. And I realized that in each of our relationships (and especially me, as I did some introspection) we bring our past baggage to the table, our past fears, our ways of thinking. And this isn’t bad, but when we accept who we are and have been and acknowledge that we’re imperfect but still worthy - then we discover that it’s okay to be messy, it’s okay to be human, it’s okay to be imperfect.⠀ ⠀ “I am just a messy collection of cells that make up a whole."⠀ ⠀ This phrase came out of that piece and it gives me so much comfort - not only in the way it speaks truth to myself, but for each of us. We’re so damn imperfect. But that’s okay. We’re still whole.⠀

[jetohu]

[spiritualhustleuk]

Do you feel guilty or 'bad' a lot of the time?⁠ ⁠ This used to be the story of my life.⁠ ⁠ When we start setting healthy boundaries for ourselves we can expect pushbacks.⁠ ⁠ Especially, when said boundaries have been too porous, not clearly communicated/non-existent in the past.⁠ ⁠ We don't want to be seen as selfish, too strict, odd, a bit weird and oftentimes prefer to avoid confrontation altogether.⁠ ⁠ Guilt is connected to the notions of 'should' and being a 'good girl/good boy' and doing what 'seems' right even to the detriment of your own mental/emotional health. ⁠ ⁠ The seat of guilt is deeply embedded in our sacral chakra going back generations.⁠ ⁠ Sacral wounding is very common in women and often passed down through the maternal line.⁠ ⁠ This has become a big topic in my private practice and also amongst friends and in my own life.⁠ ⁠ I have to remind myself...we teach best what the most have to learn.⁠ ⁠ Here a few suggestions of how to claim your power back, rebalance your sacral space and not be consumed by guilt.⁠ ⁠ - You are always, always in choice. Ask yourself honestly, how is this guilt serving me?⁠ ⁠ - You are darkness & light incarnate. Make friends with your shadow.⁠ ⁠ - You give guilt all its power. Channel your energy into happier pursuits.⁠ ⁠ - Cultivate a sense of movement in your body. This invites the notion of letting go & impermanence. No need to latch onto anything.⁠ ⁠ - Create time for nurturing, self-care and allow unexpressed tears to fall freely.⁠ ⁠ If you would like to explore more and feel you could do with some assistance on your healing journey, do get in touch.⁠ ⁠ #guilt #sacral #sacralchakra #healing #energyhealing #love #me #instagood #psychology #spiritual #spirit #spiritualpsychology #codependency #powerful #sacredfeminine #womb #wombspace #whole #beingwhole #grounding #followme #follow #instamood #instagram #trust #authenticity #honesty #forgiveness #ancestrialhealing #presence⁠ ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/p/CPguweXpGgq/?utm_medium=tumblr

[wherethefireisburning]

19. Nån stark eller svag - bild från high school reunion 2003. När jag åkte som utbytesstudent till Allentown, Pa. så visste jag inte så mycket om varken mig själv lr världen. Det året har präglat mig och gett mig perspektiv jag inte vill vara utan. Situationer jag aldrig trott jag skulle vara stark nog att klara av, men som jag gjorde. Och de svaga sidorna jag inte vetat att jag hade. Upptäckte en helhet i att vara både och 🙏. #februarifoton #someonestrongorweak #beingwhole #parklandhighschoolreunion2003 @daveveal - look in the upper left hand corner 😊

[ronovanwrites]

The truths

The truths #shadowandlight #selfawareness #beingwhole

“Just as there exists in writing a literal truth and a poetic truth, there also exists in a human being a literal anatomy and a poetic anatomy. One, you can see; one, you cannot. One is made of bones and teeth and flesh; the other is made of energy and memory and faith. But they are both equally true.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

I know enough about Trauma, being a psychotherapist. About…

[marisadonnelly]

It’s human, and often natural to search for love in other people, thinking that their affection and attention towards you will fill this void within your heart. But when you stop looking to others for answers and seek them within yourself, you see that love is already and always within you. You see that love is you, in every single part. And you understand that you deserve love—from others yes, but most importantly, from yourself.⠀ ⠀ ____⠀ Excerpt: “11 Things That Happen When You Search For Wholeness Within Yourself"

[eventhoughidontknowyouyet-blog]

Today is the second real day of spring here in Chicago, and for the first time in a long time I feel whole. Which is such a complicated thing to really explain, but it's in part due to moving on and accepting myself and knowing what I want and what I won't accept. I feel whole and happy and I won't lie, I cried when I realized it. I've realized a lot about myself and about love this semester, obviously a culmination of my previous eighteen years, but it just really hit me. I used to be so afraid of commitment because I didn't know how I would know that it was right. But I realized, that I'm not going to put up with someone who is wrong, who doesn't treat me how I want to be treated or someone who I don't love. And that's not only ok, but it's so good, just because someone is there for you doesn't mean they are the right one (although the right one will be there for you.) I've been asking how my friends have been getting married and how they can be happy settling down and having kids at 18, 19, 20, but now I understand. Because I feel like if I had the right one the timing isn't that big a deal, if you know it's right go for it. 

Love isn't about finding someone to complete you, you need to be whole on your own. Your love should simply compliment you, never be the thing you need to be whole.