#unconditionalselflove

[deceptiveones]

[myownflowsblog]

The symbol for unconditional love.

[poetic-psychic]

Finding The Child Inside By: Psyche~

That voice

Damn that voice

The little one in the back of your mind

You can just always hear it above everything else

For it to be so small it shouldn’t be so loud

If you listen, it stops for a while

You get a moment to yourself

But then you remember there are consequences for everything; good or bad

To listen to that voice you’d wish you never had

You just wanted some peace and quiet

The devil inside would only get louder the more you’d ignore it

It’s temperamental in that way

But it’s really a lost child stuck out in the wild

They just wanna go home

But have no idea where to go

In desperate need of direction

That’s dangerous

They’re lost and scared

Anyone offering a solution seems like a friend

But a lot of times that friend will lead you closer to your end

Home is where the heart is

That voice is your heart

You are always meant to listen to it

Not necessarily obey it

You mend a broken heart not obey it

You obey a healthy heart

When it’s strong enough to beat for you in any situation

Listen to when your heart beats

That’s the way home

Even if it’s just part of the way

You follow one

Then look for the next one

The closer you get the quicker your pulse

You’re running back to yourself

You’re choosing to be your best self

Chosen by you and no one else

[ontheringsofsaturn]

Understanding and deeply caring for your own soul allows understanding of another’s.

If I were speaking directly to you, I’d say: I understand your fear of love. I understand your fear of abandonment. I understand your push and pull, your need to feel, then reflect. I see you because I am that too. But I can’t speak directly to you because we need space to feel, to reflect and decide what we want and need. I’m trusting the process.

[wanderinginsomniac-blog]

[artemisesbitch]

Sometimes I forget to control my audacity in my hopes to receive even conditional love from my parents, how stupid of me to forget 🤦‍♀️

I'm a woman and what's more I'm their child! How could I even expect them to remotely care about that kind of abomination, what a ding-a-ling I've been ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯

[d-o-s144]

Being true to yourself will not guarantee you success, going against who you are will always ensure your failure. ✨💕🦋

[nervousdreamlandturtle]

/unconditional love --

A few hours ago it was mother's day, a day the appreciate the incredible woman who raised you, took care of you, and loves/ed you. Need i say mother's day was not created for every woman who had birthded as child, it was created for the ones who worked in any possible way they could to make sure that the ones they are good.

The mother's who did anything to make sure their children had food to eat every night, had a roof over there head, a place to sleep, clothes on their backs and always felt loved. Even when we might not always feel by our mothers we know that we are.

So shout out to all my mother's outhere who would die before seeing their child suffer, for the mothers who do everything they can for their child.. and off course sa babaeng nasa litrato na ito, thank you for unconditional loves mumu.

Nag-iisa ka.

Walang katulad. Walang kahambing.

VM

[texancomics]

[hijab-proudness]

[deceptiveones]

Feigning ignorance is an effective tactic that manipulates the person confronting the behavior into having doubts about the legitimacy of the issue they’re trying to bring to the other person’s attention!

Many times, when your gut is telling you that you’re being taken advantage of, played for a fool, or simply being mistreated, and you confront a disordered character about it, they’ll act like they have no idea what you’re talking about. They’ll pretend to be totally unaware and in the dark. Sometimes, when you have received information from a reliable source about something you suspect they’ve been doing, they’ll pretend they have no earthly idea where anyone could have come up with such an idea about them.

[the-dragon-u-saw-on-acid-1-time]

This sun-kissed Goddess invited me into her depths //

She took me by the hand // we took a step off the land//

Landing on the ocean floor // can I reach her door//

So many before couldn't handle her depths // but fuck it I'm taking a breath//

Her essence entered me so gently // coddled me intensely//

When I breached her heavens door// gave her my love and forever more//

@polaris-the-light

[awaisnbahar]

Nobody loves us for who we are, we are most often loved for reasons as what we do and like.

There are certain actions if we do, we wouldn’t receive love either from parents or loved ones. For instance, for some it can be making a tattoo on their arm, or say neck. For others it can be doing what they truly want and believe is their heart’s calling. But because of chasing approval either from a group of friends or more importantly parents, one does not become him/herself and tries hard to be what the parents/loved ones want to see in him/her.

When people who live small, want others to live small too doing the same shit they have been doing decades ago. Most people (who are most likely stereotypes) live so small with shitty customs that they ruin someone else’s life by approving and loving them only when they do what they have wanted them to do.

This makes so many young people to be people pleaser, result oriented and always chase something outside him/herself. This also makes the person trust people around him/her that he/she has got problems to solve and need to be cool. Cool of course means the hookup culture which is self destructive (mentally and emotionally).

Most parents love you based on what they believed you would be doing taking reference from either what they couldn’t do themselves or what majority of people do.

Majority of people live shitty lives. Majority of people know nothing about loving oneself within, because if one says that to majority that suddenly becomes a mumbo jumbo to them. Most people have identities, identities that they are so much attached to with painful history, what wasn’t given to them emotionally in the past and feeling mentally empty.

Mental fatigue is the result from lack of love within. The lack exists because it wasn’t given love within by oneself but held the love with a belief that love is earned outside.

If you want love outside of you, then you may get it to feel good or say feel great but how long, until the person leaves because he/she hasn’t taken an oath to love you forever, because you don’t own people, you cannot make them accountable for making you feel bad.

Simply put, your body does not need the love from someone else but from you, within you, by you not because someone else’s love isn’t love, but is the kind of love that does not go to the depth of your heart which your own love can go, that’s why, your body needs your love, only yours, because only your love from your own heart within you knows your depth and parts that outside is incapable of knowing.

The need for love outside makes people stay daydreaming about life, being anxious about stuff that they think may happen in future, and be past oriented to derive every evidence to why they shouldn’t experience moments in present moment so to avoid that thing happen again just like it happened in the past.

Your mind gives you past reference points to put you in the safe zone every time you think about moving out of it and doing something that your heart and body feels excited about it that may eliminate you from safe zone to the open world where there is love within, but since your mind has no experience of getting love unconditionally, so your mind puts conditions for you, to do certain acts to gain particular results and not do what your heart tells you. The mind outlines conditions and ranks them based on who gives you most love (makes me feel good) and who doesn’t (does not make me feel good.)

We have always needed unconditional love from the ones who we cared about, but more importantly, as we have been through it, know it, we think we don’t need it and will figure out a way to give it to ourselves.

That is a perfect insight to bring to love ourselves, but this loving yourself mostly stays in speech and hardly ever manifests internally. It is because we ask How to love, other than loving ourselves. Anyhow, here is how it looks like loving yourself.

Loving yourself means, putting no effort to what goes within you. Whatever your mind brings (past traumas, mistakes, stupid decisions) all exists within you with their reference in your mind who likes and dislikes you, approves you and disapproves you, let that all be, let that rest and life take care of it. Loving yourself more importantly means, feeling everything there is to feel and not escape a single feeling when our judgemental mind calls it bad feeling or heavy feeling, you can meditate to release it, because meditation is giving yourself to life fully and letting it do the work for you other than you doing it and never succeeding it. Everything that exists, let that be within you, when you do not have mental pressure for your own emotions of why they should disappear and how you should fix yourself to feel good all the time, then you go on a flow with life, a flow that if experienced takes your tears out because that state releases(almost) everything in you. When you love yourself, you will no longer ask how to love myself. You will no longer live justifying why what happens why happens but instead laugh when it happens, because you love it. Simply put, when you love yourself (your existence) not the self itself or identity but your existence as part of everything, then you give yourself to life and once you give yourself to life, you just allow to be life itself.

Such a thing for some people is wishful thinking, but sure it come in rarity and know the greatest things in life are rare not common, and those who go through such experiences are rare too.

The lesson is, we need love from us, for us, within us. It is only when we love ourselves that we truly expand beyond comprehension.

Your body needs you, only you, do not do the risk of relying your heart for outside to fill it with conditional love, but rather love yourself within and see how once the inside being loved transforming the outside with love and joy.

[beyourownsexy]

The only thing that limits what we do in life is our ability to believe we can. Our minds will continue to show us the same results until we change how we see ourselves. Believe and you will see. 

[themoonseye]

You: What makes you happy?

Lover: You.

You:

[darulove2-blog]

Dear Human