#borderpolar speaks

[borderpolar]

"you don't look autistic" "you don't look ADHD" "you don't look depressed" "you don't look bipolar" "you don't look BPD" "you don't look-"

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Hey guys did you know that (GASP) people with personality disorders are not a hive mind, and each person’s experience with their particular diagnosis is unique? And that folks with pds are not inherently bad people?

Also, shocking news, if a friend or a family member is being shitty to you, no matter how much you think their behavior lines up with a “typical” (aka demonized) diagnosis of a pd, you still have NO ability to clinically diagnose them with a personality disorder.

Fascinating stuff folks, even my mom hasn’t found this out.

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✡⤷ hound

mirror prns [no she/her] + 17yrs old + omnisexual (male pref) + agender + mono + cupidromantic

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— songtive , co-host , trauma hldr , anxi. hldr , borderpolar hldr , hyprsx hldr [other roles not added due to privacy]

— signoff is -hound

— age + pet regressor , both voluntarily and involuntarily

— therian (dog , wolf , dragon , raccoon , possum and more)

★★ notes

anyone under the age of fifteen do not interact with me. bodily or headmate wise. not that I have anything against you, I tend to make sexual jokes/comments/etc and dark jokes/comments a lot and I don't want to be the reason you have heard stuff like that. "Well just watch what you say around them" I tend to speak before I think, especially if I'm comfortable. If you are uncomfortable with comments related to this content inform me please.

like I said dark/sexual humor, I also use humor to cope.

interact with me if you are a juggalo , horror fan , rock music fan , satanist or pagan

do not interact if you bring up any topics regarding trauma(without permission) , religions other than satanism or paganism esp Christianity , you cannot read typing quirks. will not use tone tags and if you are uncomfortable by tone tags(being uncomfortable and not understanding them are two diff things)

do not use female nicknames or petnames on me. [girl , princess , bbg/babygirl , etc] do not use the petnames baby , babes , dove , or kiddo on me.

touch ; yes/no/ask

flirting ; yes/no/ask

petnames ; yes/no/ask

personal blog,, none and do not plan to make one

[borderpolar]

There will be good things! There will be joyous moments! There will be things that make you go "it's great to be alive!" And they may not be happening right now, but you have to stick around to see it.

[borderpolar]

Listen, sure, recovery is important to celebrate and romanticise. But if you're at rock bottom, if it's not getting better, just the fact you're here is enough. I'm proud of you, even when you're at your worst.

[borderpolar]

Good grounding technique for me, I've found, is to eat something really spicy. It won't work for everyone, but I know it makes me feel more in the moment when my mouth is on fire, and I don't have to resort to anything that causes any long term harm!

[borderpolar]

Sometimes self care really is as superficial as you'd think! Burn that nice smelling candle! Listen to a musician you haven't listened to for a while! Have a long shower or bath! It won't fix things but you deserve little bits of joy.

[borderpolar]

When you experience a good day, a proper good day, you'll be glad you stuck around. Keep going, you can do it 💪❤️

[borderpolar]

Hey so when I'm upset (like I am now) something that helps is to infodump about my special interests so anyway here's a spot where you can talk about your special interests in the tags!!!!! Go ahead!!! Have fun!!! I'm jumping in the tags right now as we speak!

[borderpolar]

Sometimes, one of the side effects of mental health meds can be a lowered libido, and for some people that's fine, and for others that might be really frustrating. If it's really bothering you, it's okay to talk to your doctor, a good doctor will help you weigh up the pros and cons and will take your sex drive into account. Recently I stopped a med because being unable to masturbate was actually causing me mental distress and I talked to my doctor and we agreed it wasn't worth staying on it if this side effect was causing me more upset than it was helping me. It's an okay reason to want to stop or change over a med, don't be embarrassed to talk to a professional about it! You deserve to have a sex drive if that's what you want!

[borderpolar]

I'm proud of you for the little wins that no one else has noticed. Just because people don't see it, doesn't mean it isn't meaningful!

[borderpolar]

Let things happen slowly but surely. Don't let yourself stagnate just because you can't blast through things quickly. Just let yourself do things in your own good time. You can do this, but you don't have to do it all at once.

[borderpolar]

You don't have to complete a mammoth task to have succeeded with your day. Did you have a funny conversation with your friends? Did you discover a new song? Did you eat a really good meal? Did you cuddle your pet? Anything that makes you happy is a win. Doing things that make you feel good makes your day a success!

[borderpolar]

HEY so mentally ill people that use drugs or alcohol deserve the same amount respect and support as mentally ill people who are sober!

[borderpolar]

When you're going through a mental health hurdle and you don't know how to handle it but you're determined to develop healthy coping mechanisms rather than give into self destructive habits

[borderpolar]

People who headcanon characters as borderline with genuine sympathy/empathy for said character? I love you.

People who headcanon characters as borderline because they think that character is bad or evil? Go fuck yourself.