#butch lilaen

[caeliangel]

NOT HCS!! I just felt like making a reminder to my old layout <3

IMAGE ID. 3 rectangular flags with 6 stripes. The first flag is, in order, dark pink, pink, light pink, almost white pink, yellow, brown. The second flag is, in order, dark purple, purple, light purple, greyish white, pinkish light red, dull red. The last flag is, in order, dark green, turquoise, light blue, almost white purple, purple, dark purple. The other row is 3 zelda icons with respectively the femme, futch and butch lilaen flag. END OF ID.

୨୧ • femme, futch, butch lilaen

︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ explanations :

୨୧ • butchfemme lilaen ! For when you're on the butchfemme spectrum but also lilaen, lilac lesbian, etc!

Here are the butchfemme violaen flags I made

︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ meanings :

୨୧ • 1. Being lesbian/lilaen in some shape or form! 2. Being butch, futch or femme. 3. Complex relationship with gender presentation and/or identity. 4. Women, women-aligned enjoyers!! 5. Trans, pocs, disabled lilaens! 6. Pride, proudness, queerness, history!

PT. femme, futch, butch lilaen. explanations. butchfemme lilaen. for when you're on the butchfemme spectrum but also lilaen, lilac lesbian, etc. meanings. Being lesbian/lilaen in some shape or form. Being butch, futch or femme. Complex relationship with gender presentation and/or identity. Women, women-aligned enjoyers. Trans, pocs, disabled lilaens. Pride, proudness, queerness, history. END OF PT.

[genderstarbucks]

hihi! so for some context I’m trying to collect terms that include attraction to women, could I get a list of some terms that fit this description? :3

Womasexual, or womansexual, is a sexual orientation describing exclusive attraction to women. This includes attraction to binary women and may also include attraction to female-aligned non-binary individuals.

Femaric is an umbrella term to describe any attraction to women or feminine-aligned individuals, and a standalone term as a non-straight identity. It was made with non-binary individuals in mind but can be used by anyone who experiences non-straight attraction to women. This includes all sapphic women as well as bisexual and pansexual men, as well as any other men who are attracted to women but are not straight.

Azalean / QLM is an orientation where one is queer, in any form, and loves women. They can also love any other genders.

Liersian / Liersic is a term for anybody who feels gay attraction to women, regardless of one's own gender.

Reilian is a term for anybody who feels straight attraction to women, regardless of one's own gender.

Lesbian is a term that defines queer attraction to women. This attraction is most commonly used as exclusively wlw/nblw attraction, as communities surrounding exclusive wlw/nblw have become the primary part of the lesbian community. However, there is no one perfect definition that encompasses all experiences of lesbianism. This term includes butch, femme, non-binary, anonbinary, cusper, and multigendered individuals.

QLW Terms:

ALW / XLW

AGLW - Agenirian

AGLW - Azalian

AGLW - Ablateric

BLW - Blank Loving Women

GVLW - Gendervoid Loving Women

KLW - Kenochoric Loving Women

MLQW

MLW - Romeric

NBLW - Trixic

QLW Omni

WLW - Sapphic

XLW - Xenirian

Carnian - NBLW / QLW

Harian - Multigender Men Loving Women

Queer MLW

Loving Women:

Femique

Hibarian - Queer Love for Women

Lilaen

Mspec Lilaen Flags

Platonic Attraction to Women

Sophian - Queer + Straight for Women

Sapphic Flags:

Mspec Sapphic

Pan Label Sapphic

Sapphic Bisexual

Sapphic Omni

Sapphisensual

Sapphoplatonic

Lesbian Flags:

Aurora Lesbian

Bi Lesbian

Dawn Lesbian

Dusk Lesbian

Flowerbed Lesbian

Moth Lesbian

Nightfall Lesbian

Trixic Flags:

Bi Trixic

Mspec Trixic

Mspec Trixic Flags

Omnitrix

Smoke Trixic - Mono Trixic

Trixic Bisexual

Vaporic - Mspec Trixic

Neptunic Flags:

Bi Neptunic

Mspec Neptunic

Omni Neptunic

Abro Flags:

Abroconsbian

Abroconswoman

Abrofem

Abrosapphic

Abro Lesbian

Abro Neptunic

Finabro

Womabro

Mono Flags:

Rosaean - Exclusive* WLW

Skyian - Mono Sophian

Mspec Flags:

Lunian

Lobelian - Mspec Lilaen

Mspec Aurora Lesbian

Mspec Lesbian Flags

Queer Mspec Lesbian

Sabrinian - Mspec Sophian

WLW/MLW/NBLW Pref - Bi Flags

WLW/MLW/NBLW Pref - Ply Flags

WLW/MLW/NBLW Pref - Pan Flags

Combo Flags:

Darcian Lesbian

Enbian Lesbian

Enbian Neptunic Lesbian

Feminamoric Lesbian

Finsexual Lesbian

Mestric Lesbian

Neptunisaph

Neptunitrix

Neptunitrixbian

Noma- Lesbian

Sapphixic

Trixenamoric

Trixen- Sapphic

Trixic Lesbian

QLW Lesbitrix Enbian

Misc:

Darcian

Faunic

Feminaesexual

Feminamoric

Femmesexual

Finsexual

Iridian

Lydian

Meadowian

Minwomasexual

Neptunic

Percafabqueer

Umbalian

Venusic

Violettian

Womquallian / Womquall

This only took 3 1/2 hours to put together but wtv 💀

[eldorr]

Flowerbed Lesbian

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Lesbian flag, however anyone who is Q4W (Queer for Women), WLW/NBLW/WLNB/NBLNB, or identifies their attraction to women as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. (Basically anyone who feels like a lesbian, but may not 100% identify with the lesbian label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Flowerbed Lesbian/Q4W flag. You could call yourself Flowerbed Sapphic/Bi/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Lesbian community, and between the Lesbian community, other Q4W communities, and other non-primarily Q4W Queer communities (Vincians/Enbians/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Deep Purple: Aspec Lesbian, Monospec Lesbian, and Mspec Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

The Flowerbed Lesbian flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec lesbians, due to exclusionists in the community attempting to push them out. Monospec Lesbians should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec lesbians.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Velvet Magenta: Multigender Lesbian, Genderfluid Lesbian, Genderflux Lesbian, Monogender Lesbian, Xenogender Lesbian, Agender Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood from general lesbian spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. Monogender Lesbians should stand with Lesbians with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Cardinal Pink: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Lesbian, Gender-Non-Conforming Lesbian, Pronoun-Conforming Lesbian, Gender-Conforming Lesbian Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is obviously here due to the whole “masc = bad” mentality that is rampant in lesbian and otherwise queer spaces. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of he/him, they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself lesbians, and lesboy, masc, transmasc, carnatian, lavenderian, kiwi, transneu, transxen, xenic, amaranthian lesbians. Gender and Pronoun conforming lesbians should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming lesbians.

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Fourth Stripe/Hot Pink: Lesbian and Non-Lesbian Q4W inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-lesbian Q4W in lesbian spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for women, and doesn’t primarily identify as a lesbian. This includes sapphic, neptunic, lilaen, trixic, faunic, etc. This stripe can also include lesbians who are not explicitly Q4W, and may be NBLNB lesbians. Non-Lesbians are not the enemies of lesbians, and lesbians should included and have solidarity with other Q4W.

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Fifth Stripe/Dark Violet: Femme Lesbian, Futch Lesbian, Butch Lesbian, Twink Lesbian, Otter Lesbian, Bear Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a lesbian “looks like”. Futch and Butch lesbians (Ursulas) are not the enemies of Femme lesbians, and Bear lesbians and just as valid in their lesbian identity as Otter and Twink lesbians. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other lesbians, even if they don’t “look like” a lesbian. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Dark Blue: Otherwise Marginalized Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being a lesbian. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized lesbians, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other lesbians, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

[moonshinedyke]

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-Asteria/Eris (+)

-Mixed Black/Indigenous

-Intersex genderfluid multigender transmascfem

-Alloaro bisexual lilaen lesbian.

-Stud, butch, (bull)dyke, faggot, tranny, freak, bulldagger

This is my blog for venting and just talking about bigotry. I didn't want to clog my main too much with these types of posts since a lot of them involve discoursey topics. This is not a blog that I plan to use to argue with other people under most circumstances. I'm using this blog to vent about my experiences, no matter how big or small they are. Check below the cut for some of my beliefs.

Just because I reblog from someone doesn't mean that I agree with everything they say and do. What it DOES mean is that I think they made a good point in that specific post they made.

-Many white queers have a problem with using their queerness to try and avoid accountability for their white privilege and racism. There is a HUGE racism problem in both online and real life queer spaces.

-Gender criticals are enormous pieces of shit with a very flawed view of sex and gender.

-The hyperpolicing of lesbianism on here is super lesbophobic. Stop obsessing over lesbians not conforming to your neat little cis fem white woman centric boxes. Let lesbians have some gender fuckery without frothing at the mouth.

-Bi lesbians/gays do not hurt mono lesbians/gays by existing. We are not responsible for homophobic cishets harassing you guys and saying that we are is violently biphobic. Stop being a narrowminded cishet bootlicker, assholes.

-Straight passing privilege does not exist. Invisibility and erasure is not a privilege.

-Lesbian separatism as an ideology is transphobic, biphobic, lesbophobic, and racist. If you defend lesbian separatism or pretend that it was even remotely okay then you are a bad person, straight-up.

-Intersexism is rampant in trans spaces. We are not your transition goals, we are not your gotcha to use against TERFs, and we are not nonbinary icons by default. The diversity of the intersex experience is unfathomable because of how many intersex conditions there are and how intersex conditions are viewed across the globe.

-Slur discourse is pointless at best and a straight-up psyop at worst. Let a bisexual call themself a dyke, let a transmasc call themself a tranny, let a lesbian call themself a faggot. I promise that it's not hurting you when other queer people reclaim slurs. Quit your victim complex.

-Butch and femme have always belonged to the whole queer community and have NEVER been lesbian exclusive. Denying that is spitting on ballroom culture- in other words, you're racist and transphobic as hell. Furthermore, Black non-lesbians have more claim to butch and femme than ANY white lesbian does. Read more here. It's a Carrd, yes, but it's a Carrd with actual sources, which is more than you can say for literally every Carrd written by exclusionists that you all choose to use anyways.

-Queer is not a slur and it's up to you to avoid people who use the word if it makes you that uncomfortable.

-Flag discourse is ridiculous. If you hate a flag that badly, just don't use it.

-You don't owe anyone an explanation for why you blocked them.

-I'm very wary of anyone who is against non-traumagenic systems. I don't really understand endo systems or other non-traumagenic systems, but I've seen tons of fakeclaiming and racism coming from the anti-endo community, so I tend to avoid them. I'm not interested in getting into syscourse and I generally keep my system life private.

-Well-researched self diagnosis is good, especially if you can't afford to get a professional diagnosis. Ultimately, you are the one actually experiencing what's in your brain.

-Shipping discourse is ridiculous and literally all of you need to go outside.

-Anti-transmasculinity as a form of oppression exists and to say otherwise is antiblack and transmisogynistic, since it often goes in hand with transmisogynoir.

-Nonbinary people do not owe you androgyny, let alone any change in appearance once they come out as nonbinary.

-Nonmen and nonwoman are not just terms that are super hostile to multigender people, they're also racist due to their hostility towards Two-Spirit people as well as how they've been used to degender Black people.

[caeliangel]

WOOHOO REQS R OPEN

romeric gaibian (gai + lesbain:3)

fagdyke lesbian

butch futch femme lilaen ? :3

All queued :3333