#cowboyjen

[cowboyjen68]

Happy Solstice and holiday season from this old butch and old mare, Lady.

[lostryu]

thanks for saying something about cowboyjen. i appreciate seeing someone else notice her transmisogyny. people have been defending her for so long, it makes me feel crazy sometimes.

honestly it has made me incredibly bitter on how much transmisogyny and transphobia people are willing to excuse as long as someone wears a 'but i have trans friends and i like trans people' mask. like it does not take away the harm done to trans women!!

[shynerdwantscuddles]

Friend don’t let friends follow cowboyjen and heritageposts

[speedlimit15]

Fav thing about iowa so far

crossing the bridge back into illinois

[fatcowboys]

gotta b honest sometimes it makes me sad how often i see the word butch replaced w masc lately like. butch is one of my favorite words. i love butch. butch is so special to me. and i know so many butches who would really just want you to say butch and not masc please. which i am not saying masc does not have a purpose either! its a good word! but more and more i see masc used places where i would use butch and maybe especially when we are talking abt lesbians we should still use butch actually please maybe

[dykefaggotry]

also the fact that you get hate anons is incomprehensible to me. to combat that: i’ve been following u for a while and i think ur a very cool dyke and i aim to be somebody like u someday!!

urs, transmasc baby butch

aww thank you so much 😭 that is so so sweet. and you absolutely will get there & find the type of butchness that suits you. you'll do some great stuff :)

[babydarkstar]

every day i see cowboyjen posting on her little tumblr blog and every day it gives me the will to keep going

[placid-styles]

omg wait guys i literally saw that “famous” older lesbian tiktoker at the lesbian bar tonight

[butch-stag]

re: the cowboyjen asks, this is also pretty disheartening

[thelesbianpoirot]

power imbalances in lesbian relationships will never be as bad as straight ones bffr. let us lesbians live and have our corny romance. it's not hurting anyone.

The one group of people lesbians can hurt is each other. What are you talking about? I need to find that Cowboyjen post where she divorced her ex-wife because she wouldn't get a fucking job. Big power imbalances are one thing, the other thing is it's not attractive, you're all living with Mommy and Daddy, haven't tasted pussy in your life, 24/7 lusting after celebrities never flirting with women, wondering why, it's because you're stuck at home, romanticizing dummier and dummier roleplay relationships instead of getting out in the world like grown women and making yourself appealing. And stop thinking of lesbian relationships as playground relationships where no one can get hurt no matter what you do. That isn't reality. We are more complex than that.

[cowboyjen68]

Getting stuff done on my birthday and trashing my new shirt. If the image can hold up to me it’s great quality. Today is the last day to buy them. Also available with just my logo.

[lostryu]

Leave cowboyjen alone, she's a sweet person and she's done nothing to you.

she is transmisogynistic as fuck and refuses to acknowledge that. bigots can be sweet to other bigots while being terrible to the people they deem inferior. and while i may not be a trans woman, i can sure as hell recognize harmful rhetoric unlike you.

[blazingstar29]

will be angrily writing aging icemav tonight because if i see one more forsaken video about queer aging and shit like “ew i don’t want to be an old butch” or “twink death” where the joke isn’t about growing up but about aging and looking older. and i’m calling out this rhetoric on lesbian tik tok right now that’s trying to phase out butch because the ‘need for it has passed’ and we’re in a ‘new generation where masc is just more popular’

(i’m getting side tracked but i’m not saying every lesbian has to be butch or masc but do not try to erase butch history or ‘phase it out’ when you never had a ring of keys moment)

we get to fucking look older. i don’t know how many fucking times i’ll have to say it but getting older is a fucking privillege to anyone, let alone minorities and people with mental health issues. i have seen countless fucking posts about people saying “i didn’t expect to see this age” and i’m proud of everyone of you who made it because when you are so certain that you won’t, and yet you do, that is a huge thing.

i’m just really bothered by videos of people getting the ‘ick’ about growing old, especially from the butch and masc lesbian community and it’s why people like cowboyjen are so important to see.

i did not grow up seeing older queer people. i remember being 14 and outed by my brother, told it was a phase and having no clue what my life was going to look like. i was planning on graduating high school, coming out to my family and just running away. that was my plan. i thought it through with extensive detail.

can we normalise being old and stop fearing age like it’s some kind of disease? because it really fucking sucks to see it.

[menalez]

is cowboyjen really with a 25 year old? thats disgusting

i think she was like 5 years ago but that ended no? idk i dont keep up with her

[babydarkstar]

god does every dyke go through a ‘wants to be a park ranger’ phase??? like that was a fundamental part of my career development i wanted it sooooo badly and i knew i would slay in the uniform

[positive-radfem-confessions]

Nansheonearth, kittyit, fernstream, cowboyjen, and weary4u have probably done more than anyone else I can think of to bring young lesbians to feminist events and womyn’s lands. They do so much to start feminist projects and support what other women are doing. I think so many women have gone from radblr lurkers to IRL feminists because of their blogging. They help young women learn their herstory and know they’re not alone. True community builders and activists. This goes out to everyone who keeps the dream of women’s liberation alive.

@nansheonearth @kittyit @fernstream @cowboyjen @weary4u ⭐️