#dsed

[obscurelocalstranger]

Draw Something Every Day 2024 | Day 31: graveyard

🦇 Happy Halloween! 🎃

[crownquill]

Starting to slowly realize you have an attatchment disorder and it's not normal to

feel like youd do anything a person asks after 3 days of knowing them or to never save anyones phone number because theyre all the same to you or to fight the urge to ask REALLY intense questions during a first conversation or try to analyze people and see how to make them like you or to feel the same amount of pain and rage at disappointing a stranger as disappointing your parent

Moodboard

[cerev1ty]

🧠 Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED) can cause children to become overly friendly with strangers due to early trauma. Learn more about its causes and treatments with CEREVITY.

[killer-fun-podcast]

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[energ00n]

After reading the post about Prima's issues and his attachment to Orion, I just wanna ask, that maybe on a psychological note in his processor, does Prima have some sort attachment disorder to Orion that he cannot explain or fully understand? I feel like on a psychological note, he definitely has some form of Dissociation or perhaps Reactive Attachment Disorder(RAD), or maybe Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)?

Idk, blah, I'm probably making myself sound stupid and overthinking it, lol

I am soooooo under-qualified to talk about this but I can tell you nothing he feels about Orion is irrational or unexplainable to him, he is not extreme about Orion maybe except for the cuteness aggression he feels here and there.

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[obscurelocalstranger]

DSED OCTOBER 2023 | Day 17: wreck

[slasher-central]

> I do not own any of the slashers/fandoms that I write for (except my Yautja oc's)

> Works that do not feature a gender neutral reader will be labeled

> Order of works is from oldest to newest

Get To Know Butcher

Butcher's Character Profile

The Air That You Breathe Masterlist | Female Reader

When you first heard that the Captain and crew of the spaceship designated as the Titan had been picked by the higher-ups of the Deep Space Exploration Department (DSED is what most of the employees on the department’s payroll shortened the mouthful of a name to) for an experimental alliance with the beings known to humans as Predators, to say you were surprised would've been an understatement.

[psych-disability-polls]

* RAD stands for Reactive Attachment Disorder, and DSED stands for Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder

[therpistlr]

A Superbe Must Have Tool for DSED

[wakanai]

Red Flag Reblog Game (?) but also a rant lol.

in honour of 'cutting off' a friend I didn't like (not really cutting off but more like. being honest about how I feel and both of us mutually deciding to not be as close as before as a result),

let me make a list of my red flags.

Because this is the second time I've cut off a friend like this 😭

Okay here we go...

🚩 Gets drained easily. High need of alone time.

🚩 Seen zones and late replies. Does not like people who can't understand my seen zones and late replies even after I've explained to them this habit before hand.

🚩 Deletes messages. I delete messages and then send a new message when I feel like the OG message could have been better phrased. I delete messages randomly sometimes for other reasons too.

🚩 Does not like clingy people who need to talk to me or be with me 24/7. This friend I 'cut off' (ughh cut off isn't rlly the right word. maybe, 'demoted friendship'? IDK 😭. Yeah lets just call it DS).

This friend I DSed once followed me w the intentions of dropping me to my driver. I told her, "I feel like being alone right now."

She said "No." and continued following me so I ended up talking to her. It was a good convo but I didn't like that she didn't take me seriously.

Next day, she tried to follow me again but I said "No I'm serious" sternly and started walking fast away from her

🚩 Acts light hearted during confrontations. When I confront someone abt something they did that bothers me, I say it in a light tone as to not 'hurt' them too much. This leads to them sometimes not taking me seriously.

🚩 Good at pretending that everything's fine. In 2 of my friendships, I have ignored their grieviances against me until the point it piled up, I had harbored too much hidden dislike against them and the next time I confronted them abt it, it was when I was already cutting them off.

Both friendships were shocked and did not expect that I had harbored things against them

🚩 Sensitive. (not really a red flag but you know, the thing w my friend I just DSed - - she said she just had satirical humour. She told me (not actual words) , 'I told you many times not to take my words at face value. If you haven't learned that, then clearly you aren't learning.'

In truth, I did not find her 'humour' funny and I found the things she said to me while we were still friends extremely discouraging 😭

🚩 Does not say everything that's on my mind at times.

🚩 Not pushy. In some situations - you NEED to be pushy. I am bad at being pushy but every day is progress ig

🚩 Might be socially awkward <<sometimes>>

🚩 can be rough w friends sometimes. <<sometimes>> (never with ill intentions though!! I don't do it to hurt them, it's just my hands are kind of heavy ig 😭)

🚩 Not confident in self.

🚩 Does not talk much about myself.

🚩 procrastinator

🚩 Dense. Dense. Dense. Dense. Do not give me 'hints' about how you feel. I might not interpret them properly.

🚩 People get attached to me because I listen to them. In fact, I LIKE listening to them. If they're my friend, I comfort them and am there for them.

It's when they start hurting me that I start hating them.

As mentioned above, I have a tendency to tolerate A LOT before deciding I don't like them as my friend.

Since I tolerate a lot, and act normal,

They usually get caught off guard when I tell them my feelings.

By the time I explain that I dislike them and/or want to 'take a break' or 'cut them off' they get shocked and sad

because they've been sharing intimate things to me and now they're about to lose me.

A lot of times I'm the 'listener' friend or 'the therapist' friend.

If I had to put it in words, sometimes I'm a machine that absorbs the rants and troubles of other people and gives them comfort. I use the word 'machine' because to SOME people (some not all) - I feel like a tool that they use when they need to express their emotions. Just a tool. Nothing more. They don't treat me well.

When I dislike the person, that machine runs out of battery and suddenly dies. But while it's still alive, this machine may not give a sign that it's running out of battery.

So the person continues hurting it and using it. And it suddenly dies on the person.

So the person is left feeling sad, confused, angry, and maybe regretful..but they probably understand. because the machine gives them an explanation.

If they don't understand, not my problem 😭

Yeah I think that's all my red flags. IDK.

Another thing

I guess it would be interesting and fun to see other people reblog this with their own red flags. So if u want to, feel free. feel free to rant ur experiences as well ig.

[cleverhottubmiracle]

There comes a point in everyone’s life when we pause to reflect—on our choices, our patterns, and the way we respond to those closest to us. Perhaps after a heated exchange with a loved one, a wave of anxiety rises, prompting a deeper question: Why do I react this way? Is it unresolved trauma, a personality flaw, or something else entirely? More often than not, the roots reach farther back than we realize. Beneath the surface emotions lie the imprints of our earliest relationships—specifically, the bonds we formed with our caregivers in childhood. These early emotional connections quietly shape how we love, how we cope, and how we see ourselves moving through the world.When those early emotional bonds are unstable, absent, or marked by trauma, they can leave behind invisible wounds that quietly shape our adult lives. This is where attachment disorders enter the conversation. Although often discussed in the context of childhood, the ripple effects of disrupted attachment can extend well into adulthood, impacting emotional regulation, mental health, and the ability to form or sustain close relationships. Understanding reactive attachment disorder in adults isn’t about labeling complex behavior; rather, it’s about uncovering the unseen forces that influence how we connect, cope, and communicate.What is reactive attachment disorder in adults? Photo: Polina Shirokova/UnsplashAttachment is the deep emotional bond that forms between a child and their caregiver, typically within the first few years of life. This connection offers a foundation of security, helping children feel safe, understood, and valued. However, when this bond is disrupted—whether through neglect, abuse, frequent caregiver changes, or emotional unavailability—it can lead to lasting attachment-related challenges.In childhood, these disruptions may develop into diagnosable conditions such as:Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD): Marked by emotional withdrawal, resistance to comfort, and difficulty forming meaningful relationships.Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED): Characterized by overly familiar behavior with strangers and a lack of appropriate social boundaries.Although these disorders are typically identified in children, the emotional consequences don’t simply disappear with age. In fact, many adults unknowingly carry the weight of early attachment wounds into their present lives. These wounds often present as insecure attachment styles—anxious, avoidant, or disorganized—which shape how individuals behave in relationships, regulate emotions, and perceive themselves and the world around them.See how reactive attachment disorder manifests in adults…Moreover, attachment-related difficulties rarely stay confined to just one area of life. Their impact is widespread, often influencing everything from romantic dynamics to workplace interactions. Let’s take a closer look at how reactive attachment disorder in adults can manifest:#1. Interpersonal RelationshipsAdults with attachment wounds may struggle to build or maintain stable relationships. They might crave closeness yet push people away, fear abandonment while clinging too tightly, or avoid intimacy altogether. These conflicting patterns often lead to toxic relationship cycles, whether in romance, family, or friendship.#2. Emotional RegulationAnother hallmark of adult attachment issues is difficulty managing emotions. Minor setbacks can feel overwhelming, triggering intense or unpredictable reactions. This emotional volatility often brings on shame, guilt, or a persistent sense of isolation.#3. Self-PerceptionAn insecure attachment style can distort one’s self-image. Adults may wrestle with low self-worth, impostor syndrome, or chronic self-doubt. There’s often an internal voice questioning whether they are lovable, capable, or deserving of care.#4. Communication and ConflictAttachment issues can also complicate communication. Some adults may misread social cues or struggle to express their needs clearly. In conflict, they might either avoid confrontation entirely or respond with defensiveness and blame, both of which hinder resolution and deepen relational tension.#5. Parenting and CaregivingUnfortunately, without self-awareness or intervention, attachment wounds can carry into the next generation. Adults may find themselves parenting in extremes—overly controlling, emotionally detached, or inconsistent—unintentionally recreating the same unhealthy patterns they experienced as children.#6. Mental Health ImpactsFinally, it’s important to note that attachment disorders in adults often coexist with other mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, borderline personality traits, and PTSD. Unresolved trauma continues to activate stress responses and undermine emotional stability.Check out helpful strategies to help foster healthier emotional patterns…Photo: Marea Wellness/UnsplashHealing from these kinds of wounds is not only possible—it can be profoundly transformative. While it’s often said that time heals all wounds, the truth is: it’s what you do with that time that makes the difference. Growth begins the moment you choose to understand yourself and take intentional steps toward change. Here are some meaningful strategies to help manage attachment disorders and foster healthier emotional patterns:#1. Seek TherapyWorking with a qualified therapist—especially one trained in trauma or attachment theory—can provide a safe, structured environment to unpack early wounds and reshape relational habits. Therapeutic approaches like Attachment-Based Therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), and EMDR have all shown powerful results in helping individuals heal.#2. Know ThyselfSelf-awareness is the cornerstone of change. Begin by identifying your attachment style and paying attention to emotional triggers. Practices like journaling, mindfulness, and open, reflective conversations can reveal unconscious patterns that may be sabotaging your relationships.#3. Build a Foolproof Support NetworkHealing doesn’t happen in isolation. Surround yourself with emotionally mature, supportive people who can offer consistency, empathy, and understanding. These relationships can act as “corrective emotional experiences” that help retrain your attachment system.#4. Learn Emotional RegulationAttachment wounds often come with intense emotional responses. Grounding techniques, deep breathing, somatic therapy, or even movement-based practices like yoga can help regulate your nervous system. Emotional stability creates space to respond, rather than react.#5. Set Healthy BoundariesBoundaries aren’t walls—they’re bridges to healthier, more respectful connections. For adults dealing with reactive attachment disorder, clear boundaries can prevent emotional burnout, reduce miscommunication, and foster a sense of trust and safety in relationships.#6. Relearn How to Care for YourselfGive yourself the kind of care you may not have received as a child. This might look like affirming your worth, honoring your needs, or simply being gentle with yourself during tough moments. Empower yourself through books, podcasts, and resources that deepen your understanding of attachment and trauma.ConclusionAttachment disorders in adults are not a life sentence. They are the lingering echoes of early pain, but those echoes can fade. With time, self-awareness, and support, healing becomes more than possible—it becomes inevitable.You are not defined by your past. You are not broken. You are becoming—someone more aware, more empowered, and more capable of building safe, stable, and fulfilling connections. This is the brave journey toward emotional freedom. And it starts with the belief that you are worthy of love, just as you are.Featured image: ilyaliren/iStockMedical DisclaimerAll content found on the StyleRave.com website, including text, images, audio, video, and other formats, is created for informational purposes only. 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There comes a point in everyone’s life when we pause to reflect—on our choices, our patterns, and the way we respond to those closest to us. Perhaps after a heated exchange with a loved one, a wave of anxiety rises, prompting a deeper question: Why do I react this way? Is it unresolved trauma, a personality flaw, or something else entirely? More often than not, the roots reach farther back than we realize. Beneath the surface emotions lie the imprints of our earliest relationships—specifically, the bonds we formed with our caregivers in childhood. These early emotional connections quietly shape how we love, how we cope, and how we see ourselves moving through the world.When those early emotional bonds are unstable, absent, or marked by trauma, they can leave behind invisible wounds that quietly shape our adult lives. This is where attachment disorders enter the conversation. Although often discussed in the context of childhood, the ripple effects of disrupted attachment can extend well into adulthood, impacting emotional regulation, mental health, and the ability to form or sustain close relationships. Understanding reactive attachment disorder in adults isn’t about labeling complex behavior; rather, it’s about uncovering the unseen forces that influence how we connect, cope, and communicate.What is reactive attachment disorder in adults? Photo: Polina Shirokova/UnsplashAttachment is the deep emotional bond that forms between a child and their caregiver, typically within the first few years of life. This connection offers a foundation of security, helping children feel safe, understood, and valued. However, when this bond is disrupted—whether through neglect, abuse, frequent caregiver changes, or emotional unavailability—it can lead to lasting attachment-related challenges.In childhood, these disruptions may develop into diagnosable conditions such as:Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD): Marked by emotional withdrawal, resistance to comfort, and difficulty forming meaningful relationships.Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED): Characterized by overly familiar behavior with strangers and a lack of appropriate social boundaries.Although these disorders are typically identified in children, the emotional consequences don’t simply disappear with age. In fact, many adults unknowingly carry the weight of early attachment wounds into their present lives. These wounds often present as insecure attachment styles—anxious, avoidant, or disorganized—which shape how individuals behave in relationships, regulate emotions, and perceive themselves and the world around them.See how reactive attachment disorder manifests in adults…Moreover, attachment-related difficulties rarely stay confined to just one area of life. Their impact is widespread, often influencing everything from romantic dynamics to workplace interactions. Let’s take a closer look at how reactive attachment disorder in adults can manifest:#1. Interpersonal RelationshipsAdults with attachment wounds may struggle to build or maintain stable relationships. They might crave closeness yet push people away, fear abandonment while clinging too tightly, or avoid intimacy altogether. These conflicting patterns often lead to toxic relationship cycles, whether in romance, family, or friendship.#2. Emotional RegulationAnother hallmark of adult attachment issues is difficulty managing emotions. Minor setbacks can feel overwhelming, triggering intense or unpredictable reactions. This emotional volatility often brings on shame, guilt, or a persistent sense of isolation.#3. Self-PerceptionAn insecure attachment style can distort one’s self-image. Adults may wrestle with low self-worth, impostor syndrome, or chronic self-doubt. There’s often an internal voice questioning whether they are lovable, capable, or deserving of care.#4. Communication and ConflictAttachment issues can also complicate communication. Some adults may misread social cues or struggle to express their needs clearly. In conflict, they might either avoid confrontation entirely or respond with defensiveness and blame, both of which hinder resolution and deepen relational tension.#5. Parenting and CaregivingUnfortunately, without self-awareness or intervention, attachment wounds can carry into the next generation. Adults may find themselves parenting in extremes—overly controlling, emotionally detached, or inconsistent—unintentionally recreating the same unhealthy patterns they experienced as children.#6. Mental Health ImpactsFinally, it’s important to note that attachment disorders in adults often coexist with other mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, borderline personality traits, and PTSD. Unresolved trauma continues to activate stress responses and undermine emotional stability.Check out helpful strategies to help foster healthier emotional patterns…Photo: Marea Wellness/UnsplashHealing from these kinds of wounds is not only possible—it can be profoundly transformative. While it’s often said that time heals all wounds, the truth is: it’s what you do with that time that makes the difference. Growth begins the moment you choose to understand yourself and take intentional steps toward change. Here are some meaningful strategies to help manage attachment disorders and foster healthier emotional patterns:#1. Seek TherapyWorking with a qualified therapist—especially one trained in trauma or attachment theory—can provide a safe, structured environment to unpack early wounds and reshape relational habits. Therapeutic approaches like Attachment-Based Therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), and EMDR have all shown powerful results in helping individuals heal.#2. Know ThyselfSelf-awareness is the cornerstone of change. Begin by identifying your attachment style and paying attention to emotional triggers. Practices like journaling, mindfulness, and open, reflective conversations can reveal unconscious patterns that may be sabotaging your relationships.#3. Build a Foolproof Support NetworkHealing doesn’t happen in isolation. Surround yourself with emotionally mature, supportive people who can offer consistency, empathy, and understanding. These relationships can act as “corrective emotional experiences” that help retrain your attachment system.#4. Learn Emotional RegulationAttachment wounds often come with intense emotional responses. Grounding techniques, deep breathing, somatic therapy, or even movement-based practices like yoga can help regulate your nervous system. Emotional stability creates space to respond, rather than react.#5. Set Healthy BoundariesBoundaries aren’t walls—they’re bridges to healthier, more respectful connections. For adults dealing with reactive attachment disorder, clear boundaries can prevent emotional burnout, reduce miscommunication, and foster a sense of trust and safety in relationships.#6. Relearn How to Care for YourselfGive yourself the kind of care you may not have received as a child. This might look like affirming your worth, honoring your needs, or simply being gentle with yourself during tough moments. Empower yourself through books, podcasts, and resources that deepen your understanding of attachment and trauma.ConclusionAttachment disorders in adults are not a life sentence. They are the lingering echoes of early pain, but those echoes can fade. With time, self-awareness, and support, healing becomes more than possible—it becomes inevitable.You are not defined by your past. You are not broken. You are becoming—someone more aware, more empowered, and more capable of building safe, stable, and fulfilling connections. This is the brave journey toward emotional freedom. And it starts with the belief that you are worthy of love, just as you are.Featured image: ilyaliren/iStockMedical DisclaimerAll content found on the StyleRave.com website, including text, images, audio, video, and other formats, is created for informational purposes only. 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DSED OCTOBER 2023 | Day 9: prejudice

[harkerspitt]

started crying over miles and his brother. he was 16 and his brother ( murray ) was 14, miles having been diagnosed with dsed would've had trouble really forming close connections so him having a close relationship with his brother would be fairly unexpected but welcomed. he probably barely scraped through school after his brother died, there was recession in his progress with therapy, he easily finds that to be the lowest point in his life and it's such a push factor for the way he treats people now, like he's stuck trying to be everyone's older brother which he doesn't see as much of a problem but he's definitely gotten into a few heated arguments about his behavior ...

[lesbiantiresias]

sigh. and yes i found out about the lack of research on how dsed symptoms manifest in adulthood because i was researching it for Spencer Reasons. but now it's personal