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"The Child Who is Not Embraced by the Village Will Burn it Down to Feel its Warmth "

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#FullMooninGemini 12.12.19 at 12:12am . Yesterday in group I finally shared there were physical altercations in my relationship. It was easier to accept the mental & emotional abuse than the physical. Telling a room of people was distressing. Saying it out loud was even more so. I've stuffed down the feelings so much & stayed in denial for so long #trauma was just normalized plus my brain's inability to remember things made it easier to repeatedly deny the experiences. Thanks, #CPTSD! . The onion layers that get peeled off around full moons are intense. I've been guilty of #toxicpositivity to force oxygen into a dying relationship. Coming to terms with my own rage & how much I blamed myself & him gave way to the even deeper sadness of the grieving child within. I acknowledge & recognize my part in the #codependency, #traumabonding, & unconscious #generationalcycles that played out. 2019 heightened every trigger to force me to look & feel so much of what I denied & was scared to see & accept. . This full moon, I release self-judgment & continue to trust my path wherever it may lead. Still working on self-compassion though. #PhoenixRising ✨🌕♊✨ . #denialisahellofadrug #RelaxRelateRelease #accountability #shadowwork #moonchild #FullMoonVibes #1212 #theshift #fullmoons #fullmoonnight #moonlight #moonmagic #fullmoonritual #healingenergy #crystalcharging #fullmoonenergy #fullmoonmagic #fullmoonenergy #fullmoonrituals #fullmoonmeditation #fullmoonlight #fullmoontonight . Reposted from @theurbanhighpriestess - 12:12 Portal 🕊✨ https://www.instagram.com/p/B59c9K9nB5P/?igshid=1dk3rtdd3h5d6

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For generations, emotions have been misunderstood. These days, we are becoming more and more aware of the impact our emotions have on our lives and how important it is for us to feel; how important it is to give our children space to feel. Many of us though are still stuck feeling overwhelmed, stressed or afraid of certain emotions, especially when we first experience them coming from a child. Society teaches us emotions should be ignored; children teach us emotions should be expressed, however both sides tend to go from one extreme to the other. A child's experience of an emotion is usually loud, aggressive and/or seemingly dramatic. An adults experience (by societies standards) of an emotion may either be the same as a child's, denied, stuffed or forgotten. Most of us become obsessed with feeling happiness, and will try anything in order to experience that emotion on a constant basis. It's understandable. I mean, who wouldn't want to be happy all the time? And of course, we all want that for our children, right? But the truth is, it's just not attainable, especially when we run from all the other emotions that show up. Just like any other emotion, happiness too comes and goes, and although we can absolutely achieve happiness for the majority of our lives, we usually wind up experiencing mostly suffering instead. I'm sure it comes as no surprise to hear that life is all about balance. Well, the same rule applies for emotions and it just so happens that in terms of emotions, happiness is overruled with 'negative' emotions. That's just how our anatomy works. All emotions serve a purpose and our brains are designed to keep us alive, which means it's hardwired to look for threats, and therefore it also predominantly runs on automatic. Thought requires time, and time is a hindrance when it comes to survival.

Now, we cannot change our emotional reactions, however, we can let our emotions guide our physical actions in a responsive manner by becoming conscious. We have no choice in what actually makes us feel joy, anger, fear or sadness; it either does or it doesn't, but we can control what we allow into our lives and influence how often we feel these emotions. We may choose to immerse ourselves in what makes us experience happiness, or to punish ourselves by surrounding ourselves in negativity. Emotions we dislike cannot necessarily be avoided, but we can do our best to steer away from unnecessary harm. Over time what made us once feel scared may leave us, but it is not something we can simply just wish away. Doing so will in fact make it stay (with substantial consequences), but sometimes what happens with fear, is we can overcome them by proving to our brain (the part which is in charge of our survival), that there is actually nothing to be afraid of. Now that's not to say the fear was not real or it's invalid, I'm simply saying that just because it is there, doesn't mean it needs to be.

There's a difference between what's rational and what's irrational. Rational serves us, irrational does not. If you're standing in the middle of a road and suddenly a car comes speeding towards you, anyone would feel a rush of fear because a crash might result in death; your life is in danger, and so your instincts may instigate you to flee, which will lead you to safety. However, if you are standing in the middle of a stage about to recite a piece of writing for the first time, you may feel a sense of fear because the audience may not like what you have to perform. That experience may humiliate you, which of course won't kill you, but it may cause you to freeze. Your body freezes to protect you from being able to take a risk; if you don't take the risk, rejection is impossible to happen. From one perspective, community rejection can in fact lead to death because being a social creature, we need a community in order to survive. However, from a more likely perspective, being rejected won't lead to this extreme and therefore, this kind of reaction is no longer needed as it was for our ancestors, which makes it irrational. Despite drastic human evolution, our bodies haven't yet caught up and it often tricks us into thinking we are unsafe, when in fact we are not. This is exactly why it is so important to be conscious of our emotions, so we can make rational decisions in relation to them. When we notice an irrational reaction to an emotion, we can make a reflective decision to let it continue to consume us or to face it. We can choose to let our emotions hurt us, or whether we use them to help us grow. Emotions are never permanent; they frequently come and go. We can choose to let emotions linger or we can let them go.

I invite you to reflect upon a situation where you experienced a reactive emotion, one of which caused you to take an action automatically. Was this reaction necessary for your survival, or was it a false alarm? How could you prepare to take back control if this situation were to happen again?

~ Authentic Bloomers: Soulful Parent Revolution

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Stormy Faye The Christian Runaway Reposted from @godlycourting – #regrann If this is part of your prayer then you know why how important the person you marry is || They should understand that your marriage can be used against principalities || . . . #godlycourting #godlymarriage #godlycourtship #godlycouples #relationshipgoals #godlyspouse #husbandandwife #husbandmaterial #thewait #Married #Relationships101 #GodlyRelationships #verseoftheday #LifeGoals #RelationshipAdvice #relationshipwisdom #RealMenStillExist #RealMarriageGoals #GodlyMarriage #RealRelationshipGoals #baegoals #RelationshipCoach #TrueLove #HappilyMarried #proverbs31woman #AllowingLifeToFlow #Couplesgoals #generationalcurses #generationalcycles https://www.instagram.com/p/B_8q7ZzJUa0/?igshid=14qlpdwcewadt

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Love sharing light rather than of fear, racism, & lies. #HIStory vs #Truth #generationalcycles #generationalhealing #generational #genetic #memory ✨ Yesterday, I came across @hausofhoodoo Jessyka Winston's HuffPost interview on YouTube. My fave parts (besides the historical accuracy of the devil, demons, & all that scary Hollyweird "movie magic" originated from European culture, yet it served to keep many of us away from knowing ourselves & connecting with our #ancestors for generations) was how she pronounced her motherland Haiti (Ah-E-Ti). Of course, Jessyka isn't the first or only. It just served as another reminder it's not just what you say, but how you say it that also matters. Intention is everything. ✨ I also admired the fact that bc she grew up with her culture all around her singing invocational prayers is as natural to her as breathing. It's far more difficult having all these questions from a young girl, asking your parents & watching them exchange silent eye communications & have it still be a mystery, but still feeling like you don't quite fit or something is missing. I still feel like I'm putting Ifa puzzle pieces together. Spirit/DNA comes through the bloodline regardless. And a child will lead... ✨ Huff interview https://youtu.be/uwpqsxm4iHI ✨ My fave: Jessyka's "Wild Women Healers" interview https://youtu.be/JH5zpao4jIY ✨ High Priest Robi's "Free Tours by Foot" interview: https://youtu.be/aksVg8mNtPg ✨ Reposted from @thevoodoolovegoddess Catch the full video on YouTube... by Free Tours by Foot, NewOrleans Voodoo (a virtual tour). ——— Look em up: vieux dieu, vodou, voodoo ------ 𝕀 𝕒𝕞 𝕡𝕦𝕣𝕖 𝕝𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥! @highpriestrobi 💙 #voodoo #vodou #vieux #dieux #oldgods #purelight #love #ancestor #ase #ayibobo #congo #spiritualnotreligious #congosquare #neworleansvoodoo #haitianvodou #ancestralhealing #ancestralwisdom #iamthatiam #bethelight #lovelife #healing #peace @thevoodoolovegoddess https://www.instagram.com/p/CQEQFr3B0xD/?utm_medium=tumblr

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There have been so many shifts happening within & without. Been practicing #selfcaredaily. Take care ❤ . . Happy #Juneteenth & #WorldSickleCellDay 💪 #WarriorMode . #HonorYourAncetors #love #SickleCellAwareness #sicklestrong #sickledlife #fuckdepression #blackfathers #warriormothers #warriorfathers #warriorfamily #mentalhealthwarrior #redblackgreen #redcell #trauma #energyhealing #therapyiscool #HSP #clairsentient #claircognizant #clairaudient #generationalhealing #generationalcycles #fuckchronicillness #fuckanxiety #growingpains https://www.instagram.com/p/CBoo54rls2p/?igshid=q0miny86my87