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bigothteddies · 21 days

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oh and btw, that 39 year old telling you how mature you are for your age is a manipulation tactic. It’s not a compliment.

#unimportant thoughts #and I know if you’re the girl reading this right now you’re thinking ‘oh but I can tell he means it! he’s not manipulating me!’#you’re right #he does probably mean it #he thinks you’re mature #but he thinks that you’re mature because you’re of similar emotional maturity to him #HE’S the one who’s not mature and he doesn’t understand his own actuons and he will be abusive and manipulative for it #because the only thing that matters in his thought processing is what He Wants and what He Feels #he will say and do anything to get what he wants and to feel good about himself #and You are something he wants #Do Not Fall For It #remember: it feels good to get the attention of them #and its hard to deny that and remind yourself that THEYRE the pathetic one for trying to hit up a 19 year old #but you really really need to. for your own safety #I don’t know! i have a mutual i talk to I have a little bit of an age gap with #honestly? it’s noticable. they have feelings and emotions and thought processes that i havent had since i was 19 #and if i feel that way at 25? why the fuck is your 39 year old ‘admirer’ telling you you’re mature for your age #you’re not. you’re 19 and thats awesome. being 19 is awesome.#don’t let a 39 year old take that away from you.#(ages are specific for no reason insert whatever ages you need)#(yes im a little ragey tonight)#delete later

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jemmo · 1 month

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i didnt watch unknown as it was airing bc i knew it would consume me so i decided to binge it all today. i was correct. it has consumed me.

#i am so unwell #and the thing is there is no specific moment or ep i can point to or rewatch to get out out of my system #there is something about the all consuming atmosphere of the show that’s so dense and heavy it’s impossible to escape it I don’t know how #and i find it incredible how they managed to established that atmosphere and built it so well and reached these peaks of emotion that you’d #think would break all that tension but it just returns 10-fold #like this is how you do storytelling this is how you plot a 12 episode drama #bc you get the peak in ep 6 that is the crux of the story getting revealed but you’re only halfway #there’s still so much story to go and they show all of it #they show that this is a thing that takes time and thought and it perfectly demonstrates how stuck in his ways wei qian is #and i find it incredible how both the actors were able to convey the passing of time and their growing up through their performance you can #really feel how wei yuan matures and how what’s perceived as this childish crush or obsession never leaves bc it was never that it was #always more serious and concrete but in his maturity he can show that #and there’s something so crushing about watching wei qian i swear i choked up so many times watching this show bc they both got to me so bad #but wei qian’s story and his outlook on life is so universal and so true to that older brother role that so many people have #i am rambling so bad i just wanna like… exist in the vibe of this show forever #bc the heaviness of it makes you feel the weight lift in the moments of joy it’s beautiful #unknown

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kicktwine · 26 days

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anon had a much different message I’ll try to get back to But it spiraled off in my brain and I think like, a character note about the twins especially in the beginning is that they’re very uncomfortable with (if not with most loud emotions) crying. exactly like my brother and I tbr alisaie is not comfortable with it even if it sometimes happens to her without her consent, so she stuffs it behind being snappy so it’ll stop. as the story goes on she doesn’t necessarily get more comfortable with it, she just gets around people who make her feel more okay about it. alphy just seemed unused to it in general - nothing in his life has ever caused emotion like that to overwhelm either reason or ego or logic, and so it just never happened, and even when he was upset he always always distanced how he felt about things from what his role was in the real world. like as a ten year old they were doing this. after hw it kind of starts happening to him wether he wills it or no, mostly around bittersweet or moments of stress release. which rly leads me to believe in the space between arr and hw was a lot more unmentioned (or obliquely mentioned, they kinda leave it to you) awful attempts at feeling really harsh emotions by someone who’s just genuinely never done it before than we hear about directly. he’s just never cried since he was tiny, and it probably sucked. anyways alisaie understands the emotional weight of events instantly and gets to react to them even if she dislikes it later and becomes determined to fix, while alphy still retains the habit of quickly separating himself from an event until it’s like, done with and either fixed or nothing we can do, and then falls apart. they both kinda try to hide it anyways

#I’m not sure where to put these thoughts but I have them. And now you have them #ffxiv #kipspeak #I just think about them. and also the scene where the remaining braves are all encouraging and happy. ;w;#also also the scene where fourchenault (REDACTED FOR SPOILERS)#the short stories… I haven’t read them all but I read the ones about the twins. and estinien bc he’s funny #I just feel very strongly about the dichotomy of how they act vs how they feel vs how many emotions are stuffed into too small bodies #vs how mature they can actually be like a lot . Never on purpose do they do something childish except with each other. which is a shame #Because I want them to. get cat snuggled idiots #Sharlayan in general gives off a very oh you’re feeling? I thought you were working type vibe. of a city #You know who else gives me the same vibes as the twins. Krile #how many times does krile emote loudly. ok then how many times does she say I wish you didn’t see this or something #stress is constant and obvious but we are not going to see it! There’s work!!!

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seraphdreams · 5 months

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something about being ran’s girlfriend at the start of him coming out of prison with that buzzcut and seeing him grow himself, both in hair and in job and in appearance as well as emotionally, as you continue dating throughout the years. though ran might have changed, the only thing that’s stayed constant is the way he loves you. even how much he loves you has changed because it’s so much more than at the beginning.

watching ran grow in status… knowing him from when he’d spontaneously run around with street gangs for fun to seeing him now, an empire built upon his shoulders ,, he’s still the same old ran :( the same man that peppers you in kisses when he senses a shift in your mood, the same man that comes home with loads of gifts as an apology for being gone from home for the past two weeks — the same man that knows exactly how to make you docile and malleable through a series of scant touches and brushes against your thighs, over your neck where the cold metal of his rings cause goosebumps to rise at your skin ; you never had to do much to get him to love you and that’s okay. his love for you exceeds all actions, tenfold.

#sorry was thinking about smitten ran n his sweet little wifey #just a vessel for his love #something about watching ran get even more mature is just…#he’s so sexy UGH #you’re killing me dior #seraph.replies!#dior.dreams!

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calsvoid · 8 months

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have a sebastian line of a scene i might never write because i never write in general

“I don’t think you’d like younger me very much.”

#glee #sebastian smythe #seblaine #writing #in my brain sebastian was even worse when he was at 15 #just all lashing out and ignoring guilt and being mean without thinking about it #and like i know that’s he was shown in canon #but i think it was real fucking messy before #and hey he’s better now he knows to apologize #because you can mature even if you’re a shitty person while continuing to be below the desire level of goodness #because growth is not perfect and fast #also yes this is seblaine because this is a seblaine scene #it’s kinda just like blaine wishing he met sebastian earlier so they had more time together #and then this line #so yeah

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callixton · 11 months

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hey remember when people got mad at red white and royal blue, an adult romance, for fetishizing gay men by having gay sex scenes. in the adult romance novel.

#i will never forget the tiktok that was like. i wasn’t expecting this and it made me so uncomfortable to read #maybe you shouldn’t have read! an adult romance!#he like. specifically felt like the inclusion of sex in a gay romance made gay people seem sex-obsessed i think. like do you HEAR yourself #those were also really not that graphic in my memory. it was mature content for sure but they weren’t overbearing or intensely detailed?#i don’t think the book is perfect or anything btw this is just a wild issue to have with it. imo #sure hope this isn’t Still a popular opinion #also if you think that any time a woman thinks or writes about gay men she’s fetishizing them. you’re wrong ❤️ hope this helps #(casey mcquinton is also not a woman)#ted talks #rwrb

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mymelodyisme · 2 months

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You are burgundy to me my love 😘

Burgundy: I’m in love with you /platonic

🥺🥺🥺 you know it’s right back at ya. But I also wanna add black which is:

Void: Idek how we became mutuals but I’m ride or die at this point

But with some corrections! 😌 I do know how we became mutuals and friends :3 because we both love the same man 🐓🍻🌶️🍕and you’re super kind and funny and a person to look up to 🫡 you and Eliza are truly some staples in not only in our friend group but the sdv fandom here on tumblr. 🥺 you’re just so easy to approach and you take everything with pep I love u and I hope more people look into your works ♥️🩷♥️🩷♥️

♥️ Ask Game Colors ♥️

#😌 I was this close 🤏🏽 to linking your ao3 but I’d rather they just go click your actual blog #they’ll get the maturity warning and a glimpse of Libby herself 💅🏽#I loooooooveu #🗣️ go read Libby’s writing if you’re old enough. 🔞#Asdfghjkl and follow her for more Shane Stardew a valley content he lives on her blog #idk how she trapped him but I think he’s cozy #mys mail 💌#🍕

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presdestigatto · 2 months

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can we please stop with the “lewis is going to teach charles how to stand up for himself 😤😤" because i wasn’t even watching the season full time in 2019 but im pretty sure charles’ issue was that he wouldn’t stop racing seb (and vice versa)???

#he came in as a feral child this hehe peace love dimple persona is a result of maturity not his original form #not directed to anyone here just an annoying trend to see in general on twt #cl16 #like do yall think when seb said he saw his YOUNGER self in charles he was talking about like good second driver material #no it was the ‘i was racing i was faster i won’ spirit #he’s just not as reckless now… and we’re safely p2 in the standings thanks to it #and now that im thinking of this. the prev anon if you’re reading this perhaps u have a point #seb needs to give charles a call and remind him of who he is #wtv wtv the sample size rn is too small it was not a good idea to try to overtake anyway!!#more races where they’re fighting for positions this year then i’ll speak #ru.r

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suth-sardian · 4 months

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V-Day! D-1

yeah, you could make him better, but why would you want to?

#stone dance of the chameleon #sdc #nirxa mimetus #naranith sei #they have a very fun and great relationship in my heart 🫂 very balanced and passionate and mature #i think what’s funny is that their House names both start from N 😭 maybe in some AU they become bfs bc their rollnos in class are together ✍#i actually had a design for Sei already—i still like that one a lot #but i feel like it was a bit of a youthful style? by the time he got w Mimetus i think he’d quite a bit more mature #idk i feel like the version of him that got with Mimetus would already be a father. idk #i actually first developed Mimetus for my GATSD concept 😭 he was one of Sardian’s bfs. my notes only said:#‘does drugs and gambles’#which is a bit amazing i guess #but i think he would be extremely clever and cunning—something that would attract Sei a lot #also Mimetus is iirc a couple of years older than Sei and even became RL earlier? 🫂#i like to imagine that he started to pursue Sei when he became RL—his fave thing would be forcing Sei to unmask #i do also think their natures would match a lot—they would be fierce allies #though i can’t decide if they’d let everyone know—they wouldn’t *hide* it #but i think there’s something to be said about a hidden power couple that fucks everyone else over #anyway->one day #Sei: i’ve told you not to smoke so much if you’re going to meet me—your entire mouth tastes of ash #Mimetus: ok don’t kiss me #Sei: i didn’t say /that/—by the twins i’m so sick of you #[this art]

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dovedrangeas · 1 year

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sorry for continued pjo posting but. man so many people in that fandom are so fucking allergic to people pointing out problems in the books and the fandom lmao

#rr crit #‘s0langelo isn’t a bad ship and it’s not a bad thing that will is nico’s doctor and oversteps his boundaries #it’s not ableist you’re just reaching’#can you people. gather up one (1) braincell and realize that literally so much of s0langelo’s canon moments are bad at best #idc if it makes you upset to think about your precious gay babies being an ableist ship but that doesn’t mean you can just ignore disabled #people and their very valid criticism of the ship #like. i do not know how some people can look at that ship and not even briefly go ‘huh there’s a weird power/maturity imbalance and will is #kind of a dick and constantly ignores nico’s boundaries and bosses him around’#you can still ship it by all means! but i think it’s important to address these problems and themes!!!#esp because the books are for a younger audience #i personally don’t think that having one of the only queer couples that gets significant attention be……. Like That #nothing as romantic as almost gaslighting someone about their mistreatment and then getting mad at them for not hanging out with you #when you didn’t even say anything about wanting to see them #or constantly ignoring their agency #and also again it Sucks to pair the disabled character off with a healer im sorry. it just sucks #dove talks #also the age gap is bad #rick’s timeline and canon ages are #so fuckin messy #and he retconed will’s age #hes supposedly like 14 while nico is 13 (think he turns 14 at some point in toa but i never read it)#but he established will to be like. 15 #and usually a 2 year age gap is fine but the difference between 13 and 15 is uhhh very large #so there’s that.

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jemmo · 2 months

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i finally got the time to watch love is better the second time around and im not at all shocked that im obsessed with the adult second chance at love jbl - have you met me.

but it also needs to be known that shiraishi is my beloved, the actor plays this role so perfectly and i want my bitchy sad gay to find true love

#love is better the second time around #also i adore the mains a whole fucking lot #iwagawa is the perfect mix of pathetic and desperate veiled in cocky and sophisticated #and miyata’s character is just a gem like the way he has transformed from his younger self is so refreshing to see #like this is a kid that was so pure and sweet and open and when he believed that all got trampled on he didn’t let it go to the extreme of #becoming hard and emotionless instead he really has just matured into an adult that actually cares for and values himself #like that hurt made him feel worthless but now he knows he isn’t worthless #like he internalised it through the way he protects himself from others but he does it both to not feel that hurt again but also bc he #thinks well of himself and i just adore the fact we get to see a timid kid grow into someone with self-respect it’s so cool and refreshing #and even when it comes at his detriment bc he won’t let himself believe iwagawa is being honest or that he’s ever been - that it’s all just #a joke or teasing or whatever it’s not frustrating bc you both get where it comes from but also feel like you can support him pushing him #away bc he does it for himself and for the person he’s become #so like… to watch a show where you’re both deeply rooting for the couple but also support when they push each other away… idk how they did #it but they did. the premise is simple and the show is simple but every moment and interaction is electric and thrilling and that’s the kind #of show i love. one that can convey how seemingly interactions are full of tension and stakes for these people. it’s so hard to convey that #but this show nails it and i just can’t get enough now.

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chirpsythismorning · 1 year

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📝 💐 🛼 💔⏪️💭🧊🌄❤️‍🩹

It’s Too Late by Carole King

previous ⏪ now playing ⏩ next back to playlist

#stranger things #bizarre love triangle playlist #el hopper #el's pov #that defeated look el gives mike in the back of the squad car?#it’s truly too late dude #like it’s too late and you’re still in denial bc you STILL CANT SAY IT #EVEN WHEN YOU'RE BEGGING HER TO TRUST YOU #YOU STILL CANT SAY IT!!!!#you can tell in this moment she’s done #she’s done with the excuses he’s hiding behind #she’s done pretending that they’re okay when they haven’t been for months #el is arguably more emotionally mature than mike #let’s have that conversation #el is heartbroken but I also think that she knows that something isn’t right #her and mike are on completely different wave lengths #nothing is clicking for them and there is a reason…#‘one of us is changing— or maybe we just stopped trying’#‘though we really did try to make it’#‘i cant hide it— I just can’t fake it’#bizarre love triangle bizarre love triangling in that last shot I’m sick #4x03 #gif

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watanabes-cum-dump · 11 months

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Tw grooming

Man it’s kinda fucked up that my classmates saw I was being groomed but instead they all joked about my coach raping me and getting me pregnant (bc I was a fat kid they would always say that) I wasn’t expecting them to stop him but holy shit you’re joking about sexual assault???

Raise your kids, especially your boys better

He never actually did anything with me, but he was trying to get me alone with him more and more. My more mature friends thought it was weird too. I tried to defend my coach bc I liked him.

I’m still so mad abt this. Even though it happened years ago. I liked my coach because he was nice to me, he was a good coach! I felt like I improved so much and we went to finals with him!! But looking back he was a creep and it hurts man :( He liked me because I was “mature for my age” and I defended him. I fucking hate men

#Vent #tw grooming #How do you look at a little girl and think “yeah I want that one”#What the fuck is wrong with you #I was at most twelve years old this man was my coach for three years #I’m so mad bc i felt safe talking to him I was like “oh he gets me” but how could a man ever understand a little girl #Girls if any man ever says something along the lines of #“Oh you’re so mature for your age” or he tries super hard to align himself with your interests #Be wary of him please

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bistaxx · 2 years

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There are times when k!Quackity just reminds me SO MUCH of early/s1 c!Quackity and it hurts my heart because all I can think is that this is how c!Q could’ve been had life been kinder…

#sorry I’ve been having a lot of feelings over c!Q again recently #obviously Karmaland isn’t all rainbows and butterflies it’s chaotic AS FUCK-#but ( rn at least) is a lot more lighthearted then dsmp #k!Q is wisening up very quickly to how life in kl works but he’s still so… ‘bright’#childish and cracking jokes and just… yeah… it’s reminds me of early c!Q….#it’s like… it’s seeing him act his own age that gets me the most #c!Q acts so mature and serious and I just think to myself ‘god you’re only 21… and you started acting like this at 20’#‘no- at the tail end of you being 19…’#like it just hurts idk

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aquarri · 11 months

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#anon #idk what you’re trying to say #but harry still stayed with 1d till the end #i’m not going to fault him for having a backup plan #i also think the azoffs were a bit groomy with him and that’s gross #that can play a huge factor into it but whatever #not faulting zayn either because i think he talks about it very maturely #the best i’ve seen as of now

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chryzure-archive · 2 years

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i legitimately don’t care about evangeline’s feelings on love because she’s so childish??? like her understanding of love changes so frequently and i get the feeling that she is obsessed with romantic love that she doesn’t need. i really feel like she’s such a CHILD, and yet we’re giving her, like, four love interests (that are all awful, barring the one that’s currently cursed). i really think she just needs to figure out herself before she starts going on soliloquies abt how love is actually a battlefield, but ACTUALLY it’s a house, but rlly it’s about whatever or this or that. i’m sorry, but i want to take her by the shoulders, look her in the eye, and tell her, “you are still a kid. you don’t need a man to be fulfilled. figure yourself out before you start getting into any of these relationships. you’re not mature enough for them yet.”

#memorie.txt #that’s the most annoying part #like i can tell this protagonist is a fucking KID #i feel like her older sister—desperately being like ‘HES NOT GOOD FOR YOU. GO TO MATH CLASS AND HANG OUT W UR FRIENDS.’#she’s so obnoxious….. tbh i want to write something where she’s saying what she thinks is best #and chrysi—who is ten years older than her—is jst like ‘you’re SUCH a child.’#because evangeline is!!! she’s so entitled to certain things and seems to believe her feelings on the matter are the end all be all #which is very childlike behavior #that’s why i can’t rlly get behind her #she’s young and immature and doesn’t take initiative and doesn’t understand consequences and doesn’t think anything through #ever read a book where you’re like ‘this chara can’t b 17–they’re too mature’? this is the opposite #i 100% believe evangeline is a 17 year old KID #stop trying to tell me she’s anything but a naïve foolish girl #.bookthoughts #also her description of love is so stereotypically childish and i was rolling my eyes the entire time

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