like honestly if i have any good life or relationship advice i am as close to certain as i ever get about it’s:
1: don’t make a complete joke out of something you mean sincerely and/or are really having issues handling (jokes about those things, sure: but acknowledge when something is bothering you and treat it appropriately)
2: allow room for error and fault in others and yourself. this doesn’t mean being a total rube or failing to have a shred of self-respect or self-protection: it simply means allowing that you will not be perfect to those you love and those you love will not be perfect to you, and that’s actually a pretty healthy generic baseline to start from.
64 notes
·
View notes
i should have never dated an iranian person like i told myself i would never do it bc it would be too much intensity all in one place and i was RIGHT now that i've experienced it (smn who can engage in poetry in a similar way, talk in the same language, making all the cultural stuff gay and hot, etc) i feel like without those aspects things will just be missing Something like from now on . idk . let's drink black tea w saffron and then make out . i've never celebrated the solar new year or leapt over a fire the wednesday before or read romantic hafez poetry w someone who loves me romantically and now i crave it . so much
42 notes
·
View notes
i’m obviously incredibly biased but i do think it’s kinda more interesting if the courier isn’t mad that benny shot them. for whatever reason! but especially if they come from similar backgrounds where it’s like “well it was respectful. he clearly didn’t want to kill me specifically it was business. and he basically threw me a funeral while i was still alive” and then their bigger issue is figuring out what to do now that they’re not dead. do they get revenge out of principle, do they try to solve the mystery of it all, do they hunt him down just to ask him to apologize, do they get roped into it by victor, or just general events? idk i obviously understand the revenge angle is very motivating, i just think a courier who doesn’t hate benny is really interesting and fun to play with. and not just because he’s my favorite guy and i could never hold it against him
33 notes
·
View notes
So. Daphne du Maurier's Rebecca
49 notes
·
View notes
watched "doomsday" tonight and uh.
did i enjoy it immensely? yes. did i sustain a nasty bruise to my ankle by walking straight into a barbell on my floor while ranting desperately and brokenheartedly to my friend about the episode? ...also yes.
31 notes
·
View notes
List your top 9 characters
tagged by @bebx, thank you!! <3 (Sorry it took me so long to play. Life, you know... )
Peter Burke (and Neal, and El, and Moz, and Diana... Sometimes I feel like the whole WC gang should fill the top.)
John Reese (and Harold, and Lionel, and all the ladies!)
Aziraphale (and Crowley, cause really, they're a team, a team of two)
Henry Morgan (not to sound too mono-maniac, I picked only one of Ioan Gruffudd's roles, but really, Horatio and Harrow aren't far behind. And let's not forget William Wilberforce!)
Diego de la Vega/Zorro (he's basically a superhero but with style)
D'Artagnan (the book version more than any real film version as none as ever really been satisfying to me. Though you know, Gabriel Byrne...)
Obiwan Kenobi (the only thing I like about Star Wars LOL)
Doug Ross (George Clooney, 20 years of fannish love)
Paul Weston (Speaking of Gabriel... In Treatment. That show that marks my descend into TV addiction)
tagging @silverfoxstole @theancientvaleofsoulmaking @amalthea9 @donfadrique @penna-nomen @thesymphonytrue @ascreamintothevoid-blog and whoever wants to play! I always love seeing other people's tops :)
25 notes
·
View notes