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y'all my relief for work called me at 3:45 in the goddamn morning to tell me she cant make it to relieve me at 5am
and now i, the new hire who has only been here like 3 weeks, has to find somebody to cover her shift so i can go home on time/close to on-time
girl has started a blood feud and she doesnt even know it yet
ive been up since 11am yesterday and i am running entirely on spite and one (1) can of monster, if i'm stuck here to cover her fucking 5a-12p shift i'm straight up gonna make her wish they hadnt hired me
fucking
i dont mind working over, i mind finding out im working over an hour before i was supposed to go home
#personal#vent#work vent#straight up struggling to hold back tears at the register rn#like dude i wanna go home i have no idea who to call to cover that shift#i dont know any of my coworkers!#except like. 2.#as opposed to miss 'i cant make it i have a bad cold and have since yesterday sorry xoxo'#who has worked here for THREE YEARS#just. ugh.
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the girlbossification of ruth bader ginsburg has to be one of the most just plain annoying aspects of white liberal feminism. like it's not as actively harmful as a lot of other shit obviously. but it is soooooo annoying. if I never see another notorious rbg tote bag as long as I live it will be too soon
#her opinions and amicus' in many cases were iconic! not denying that certainly. she is absolutely AMONG the better justices in us history#HOWEVER her record on policing/the carceral system is very bad! genuinely bad!#and she just would not hold the conservative justices accountable. her and kagan are way too placating#and then she refused to retire in 2009 when there was a sitting democratic president and a fucking DEMOCRATIC SUPER MAJORITY#saying basically that no one else could do the job as well as her which is insane because sotomayor and KBJ literally are better :/#its also unbelievably conceited and just incredibly fucking selfish to knowingly doom the country because you think youre hot shit#started ranting abt this at work bc literally any talk even adjacent to the supreme court will set me off abt all of us court history#and my coworker was like 'well i dont think its very fair that she had to have that much riding on her decision to retire'#it literally is fair because that is the fucking job that she signed up for. this has literally always been how it fucking works#its a lifetime appointment. you either die unexpectedly or retire strategically#she accepted a position in which the entire country would depend on her but its not fair for the entire country to depend on her???#bullshit#im not fucking buying it. she did this knowing roe would likely be struck down as a result#she should absolutely be held accountable for that lmfao. you can know that she had a hand in a lot of great decisions for this country#while also knowing that she did a fucked up and extremely selfish thing
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WAIT i never complained abt my scheduling lol. still have not seen my actual boss more than that one five seconds and me and main coworker are supposed to work coverage out amongst ourselves bc thats more relevant fine and okay. but i ask her about what i should switch to going more part time and off of being Fulltime In Training and she says oh ill talk to [boss] about it. and then does and tells me oh [boss] wants to talk to u about that today or tomorrow.
she never does and shes never in her office so i dont hear anything by friday when i work w my second coworker. who i dont really think either of us vibes w the other lol weve been nice but im happy not to work w her. and the feeling is mutual bc she told me oh is this ur last friday i didnt think u were working [boss] told me u were going to be switching to mon-thru-thursday. OKAY? thats really funnily pointed but WHY DID SHE TELL U AND NOT MEEEEEEE. why cant i just know what im working more than two days in advance lolllllll. i am not made for this pwease.
#ITS ALSO ONE DAY MORE THAN I WAS PREPARED TO WORK. its fine but#another thing i havent been told: how long my shifts are supposed to be??? i just stay till the end of my main coworkers shifts bc#eventually ill have days by myself so i want to be used to what the last hour is like#but second coworker kicked me out early first time i worked w her (again: lol) bc i 'already worked my eight hours' WAS I SUPPOSED TO#KNOW IM ONLY SUPPOSED TO WORK EIGHT HOURS. no ones been stopping me but if i stay the last hour mon-thru-thursday#thatll put me over the 20-30 hours. like. halftime employment classification im in. am i getting anyone in trouble for that am i#wasting labor hours or something lol. I DONT KNOW. NO ONE TELLS ME ANYTHING#BWAHH!!!!!!!!!#i really wanted to be all set to like. approach my assertive communication properly from the start here lol i want to start#acting like im thirty but ive been thrown for such a loop since the first surprise shift and then had zero time to catch my breath and#a million other stressors that take up any energy or fucks i would have for chasing down answers kjsfg WHATEVER!!!!!#give me overtime and extra pay then <3 until anyone tells me otherwise
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love it when parents, esp mothers, feel the fact that I, a woman in my 30s, am child-free, gives them permission to rant about what mean little bastards their kids are. 100% self-sacrificial complex, 0% self-awareness. oh, your child is rude and disrespectful? my sister in christ, you raised them.
#one of my coworkers was complaining about her daughter yesterday#apparently shes about to do a gap year abroad and she (the mother) cant wait for her to leave#and of course i was sympathetic and all because theres nothing i love more than other people's problems#but also. kind of a self own innit?#like. idk. have you thought about teaching your child decency respect and empathy? through leading by example mayhaps? no? alright#yes i know its hard. this is why i dont have kids#well and also because i am so ace i have negative sex appeal & am generally unsuited to any kind of relationship#but still! wouldnt have them even if that werent the case yk
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Bloody exhausted ! Want to scream ! But am determined not to let my emotions get the better of me this time :)
#do you ever. work with someone you love but you dont like the person they are when theyre Working#or rather to be more specific i dont feel so much belittled as i feel dismissed and somewhat patronized#but anyways thats a minor quibble i think im just cranku because my coworker and i are filling in a leadership role#for someone who is out of town for a few days. and we did a GOOD JOB. we did SO good actually#and she didnt acknowledge it in any way#which was a bit of a blow because she knows we work hard and have never done this role before#(she being the friend at same work. not the one out of town)#healing girl era summer '24
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i love my friends so much. i feel like yesterday i had a lot of shit going on in my head and i woke up to my friend explaining things in a way that put my mind at ease. i dont feel as anxious anymore because i know i was overthinking. i think my dad said it best when he told me that he thought my wonderful brain of mine just wants to think problems are bigger than they actually are. he is right! im just inexperienced in life and half of the time im scared im doing something wrong but- HEY. i need to be more confident in making mistakes. making mistakes doesn't define me as a person!! i need to stop worrying about doing life right and just live for the sake of living and doing what makes me happy!!!!!!!
#thank u blake. u really helped#also nessa!! thank u for that reblog about your perspective on my one post about feeling lost career wise#it helps me to know im not the only one living this life because holy fuck i can feel confused sometimes because.. am i doing this right?#and you know what? theres no correct path that i think there is but im just not good without a direct direction. it makes me a little#anxious about things#i dont know if its because i have some form of a disorder but i function better when i plan stuff out and give myself something to#decompress the problems and thoughts because in my brain theyre just all stuck and clumped together#and that can get a bit scary and overwhelming!!!#im just glad i have people that care about me. it means literally everything to me#so even if i dont 100% reply dont think i dont care because literally any ANY advice or kindness you show to me means the world#we're all just living this little life and we might as well make the best of it#people care..... thats just.... its good... it makes me feel less alone that people do#i love my friends so much#evennnn if we dont talk every day or are only mutuals in passing!!! it literally means a lot if people show me kindness#like holy shit!!! your older than me? and your dealing with a similar experience??? and your telling me that its okay??? and that itll be#okay?????#like#just the reassurance that things will be okay and work out and that im not the only one dealing with a feeling like mine#idk sometimes i just feel like im crazy and like my thoughts make no sense?? you know?? but yall get it#im glad that i have people who are older than me in my life cause yall have experienced stuff that i can use to be better#like your life experiences can help me in a way that can make a difference on my perspective on things#its why i like talking to my coworkers. because theyve seen things and done things i havent and their perspective can teach me potentially#i just dont feel so overwhelmed with life when i talk to people who understand#i feel so young and yet old enough to know but even the people who are older dont know so im sort of on the right track i suppose depending#on how you look at it#so- im just gonna live my life and smile because!!! you gotta.#you gotta surround yourself with people who can enrich you and teach you things for the better and make you want to grow#some of you are like that#you may not know that#but that kindness means so much
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If you want to hear something really wild I’m pretty sure my cousin doesn’t get any PTO or benefits (including health insurance!!!) at her full-time job. Which like. I would say is completely wrong (and it is lmao) but she could totally work somewhere else if she wanted to, but she likes the ~vibes~ of this place and thinks they’re good people (it’s a really small, new business). They brought cake for everyone once which my cousin thought was great and I said “I’d rather have insurance than cake” 🤦♀️. I wasn’t popular for that one. Anyway that’s my rant lol
this is a reply to something I reblogged several weeks ago but I forgot to respond. anyway yea the job market in the US is appalling in many ways. no PTO for full time is horrendous even by our standards though. I hope she gets out of there
#i also work for a small business and i keep waiting for us to hire enough people to be able to legally unionize#i dont know if we will ever get there. if we keep growing the way we do then we should but. we just had a guy leave#and have made no move to replace him at all. and then they wonder why we're just barely keeping pace#during one of the slowest times of year#but at least I have insurance!! and a meager amount of PTO#but changing jobs won't make the PTO situation any better#and i otherwise do really like my job and my coworkers a lot. turns out liking ur coworkers is huge for preventing mental fatigue#but anyway i'd have never taken the job if it didnt come with benefits#the benefits are just so scarce compared to elsewhere in the world. it's rough out here#anon#thank u kind friend#may 2024
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Having a job where i have to interact with coworkers all day has really made me notice how bad my social skills are
#like i like focus HARD on the work and i find it really hard to talk at the same time#which is interesting because i know my family/friends probably think i talk TOO much but its totally different depending on who im around#like if im with friends or people i feel really confortable with i can infodump for half an hour on shit they dont care about#but with my coworkers who are all adult men mostly 10+ years older than me and im laying i completely forget to talk#so with me its either non stop bullshit or just that fluoride stare#i know some coworkers are ok with it but i have at least one who clearly isnt a fan of long silences and tries to make conversation and#i realise i CANNOT hold a conversation with him so i probably come off as super boring#and even went prompted (asked a question) i usually just say Okey like ness and then go silent again#i dont mind that much but then sometimes i think back and im like wow. He was trying to talk to me and i probably came off as really boring#or shy or a stuck up bitch. which i dont think im any of#anyway im the 😐🧍autistic for real
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I hang out with men for the drama
#2 weeks at the new job I already know exactly who dislikes who and why#did not at any point seek out or encourage this knowledge coming to me#I don't necessarily mind but its sometimes weird bc I can't give the same energy back LMAO#since I left wyrmwood I've been following that policy of 'dont say anything to a coworker that youd mind seeing in a company-wide email'#i just tell all my cunty thoughts to Audrey and the group chat instead#.txt
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im honestly tired of the male attention at work, and i know its literally because my hairs been getting longer, and this frustrates me because while i do love having short hair the most, i actually feel really confident styling with the length i have now and i like having the back of my neck be warm.... and i like being able to dress more masculine but still have a couple more "feminine" attributes, it suits my genderfluidity the most. but then i feel conflicted with my butchness, especially with the type of attention i get from guys, even though i know that attention isnt my fault and i cant control how people perceive certain facets of mine. and in a way, it honestly makes me feel like no one really values my butchness or masculinity. i wish people weren't more kind to me depending on how feminine they perceive me to be. anyways, all this to say, my coworker made some comment, and then explained it to me saying it wasnt a joke, and i was like "no yeah i got it." and he was like "sorry, sometimes i over explain things to the other people here but i think it goes without saying that youre a cut above the rest when it comes to intellect"....... and then he had the gall to try and get me to agree with him........ i really hate guys like this that try and express how they value you by putting others down. UGH!
#he was like 'right?' and i just said 'i think itd be very unkind for me to agree with that statement'#even though i do find the people i work with dumb..... its the principle of the matter.#anyways later on same guy was like jumping to do some of the orders for me and stuff#and its like... i understand hes trying to be kind in the way he knows how but i seriously dont care and i dont want to be perceived by him#or any of my male coworkers!!!!!!#theyre so annoying recently... all because 'longer hair = cute girl!' to them i guess.#i know i sound jaded and i wish i could take his kindness at face value#but theyre all so misogynistic constantly at work that it really means nothing to me
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giving up on going to bed proper tonight i am Not getting everything i need to do done in forty minutes [adjusted for time it took to write this post. 30 minutes]
#and it took me so long to fall asleep the last two nights i might as well have just stayed up [shrug]#this isnt even representative of what working is going to be like!!!! i didnt know i was going to be working this week!!! until monday!!!!!#the night before!!!!!!!!! i couldnt prepare anything or pre-do any chores!!!!!!!!!!!#<- the job is really genuinely great so far but my position has so little to do w literally anything else in the building that im#super falling thru the cracks about every single thing me and my single coworker arent a squeaky wheel about lol. im a little#irritated about it but whatever <- i didnt have access to anything i needed half my first day even tho they had the whole month#to get the ball rolling on that 😭😭 i still dont have access to some stuff#i may or may not have to work friday. wont know till tomorrow. idk what im doing next week. im taking verbal 'yeah probably'#permission to not come in this weekend bc i dont want to lol#AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH#anyways. [keyed up] [why its been taking me so long to fall asleep]
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I can't believe I walked into my first (ish) day of work at a new part time job today and basically said "why are you all so white" 💀💀💀
#i'm working in a forensic hospital#and the first thing they did was bring me to rounds#which was a meeting with like all of the psychiatrists and nurses and stuff#and literally everyone there was white (or perhaps white passing- i dont know everyone's ethnicity)#and afterwards my boss asked me if i had any questions or thoughts#and the first thing i said was that everyone in that meeting was white#WHY DID I DO THAT???#I mean. I was trying to call attention to the fact that maybe they should be employing more diversely#especially given the fact that they're treating a highly racialized population#(black and indigenous peoples are incarcerated at higher rates in canada)#But. it really wasn't my place to say really.#i'm just there as a research assistant to help them build their database#my opinions on the people they hire really have NO weight#though. it was bugging me in particular that one of the nurses was talking about a patient being agitated#and calling another person names#and the nurse was like 'and he called him everything other than a white man!'#and i'm just there like 'okay why does that matter? 😭'#i didnt bring that up though. not good to complain about your new fucking coworkers#i also dont think i explained my reasoning for mentioning that we had a really white group very well#i started fumbling when i acknowledged that there could have just been white passing people there#and then he asked me to explain what that term meant 💀💀💀
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one of the conflicts in this fwb fanfic im working on is so stupid and funny im obsessed with them. i wish i could post it on the aita reddit because im sooo curious what people would think about this situation i feel like the response would just be this
#like AITA for sleeping with another consenting adult and hurting the feelings of my platonic male friend/coworker#im (45f) pregnant with my friend/coworkers (46m) baby we went on a date a few years ago but it didnt work out. we're still fwb#and we sleep together but it is NOT exclusive. i hooked up with another guy i met on a dating app and he's angry and says i shouldve told#him since we live together/sleep in the same bed/are having a kid together but he's not my bf so it isnt really his business?? am i crazy?#he seems really upset but i dont think he's entitled to knowing about all my relationships#<- she leaves out that she only hooked up with a stranger cuz she realized she still had feelings for her fwb and was Not about to unpack#any of that. he's still extremely in love with her btw which was mostly why he was upset cuz he likes her#i feel like the response would be “do you two ever communicate with each other about literally anything” which is a fair question tbh#and the answer is NO!!!!!!#shout out to anyone who could possibly figure out which pairing this is about (???) since it is not entirely ooc for them#they're so stupid and fun to write. Obsessed#txt
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STORYLINE:
Coworker friends forever (CFFs) Kydd and Felixx are top detectives at the paranormal spooky investigation agency Psi Cops, where they solve mysteries and supernatural crimes using their overly competent incompetence.
so............basically an animated destiel comedy as goofy yet effective paranormal detectives why is nobody talking about this? which heller is responsible for this?
LOOK AT THESE TWO
#psi cops#spn adjacent#destiel#supernatural#i have no idea if its any good but ive seen the commercial a few times now and for fucks sake its too obvious#somebody wrote and or drew these two into another spinoff nobody knows about#well nobody on tumblr it seems anyway#CFFs COWORKER FRIENDS FOREVER#sd;lgjskdfgbjsdfbglsdfbgldfngkld;fjgkdfngjklfdjgndsf#one of these guys is unmistakeably cas even the collar of his detective suit is turned up like it wants to be a trenchcoat instead#the other one has a prn stache dean would be envious of and is also a debatable-blonde#OKAY SO ACTUALLY 2 of the actors on this show have been on an ep of spn (i dont remember or recognize them tho)#and none of the producers seem to have any spn credits on imdb so... my question stands#who is responsible for this animated AU fanfic on canadian television???#premieres tonight!!!! too bad i don't get the channel :///#i will however make a gifset of one of these trailers from youtube ;lksjfdgksfdhgdjkg
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Dude some areas are saying their estimate of when they'll have power again is a fucking WEEK away 😩 I'd honestly fucking die. Like it took EVERYTHING in me to not kms when the power was out for 4 days out of an expected 5. And that was in the early springtime so while we were cold, we were okay
85 degrees and MUGGAY today oh and it's gonna rain again
#im very grateful that the tornado didnt form til the storm was juuuust east of us but also i feel so fucking sad#like when things like this happen and i get survivors guilt i dont think like 'oh well at the very least i should be grateful it didn't#happen to me' no my brain goes '[all that] ... YET.' like i know inevitably im gonna be in a loss of power for a week situation knowing how#fucked up the power grid is and climate change so i dont feel like i can rest and relax like well it didnt happen to us better not think ab#it! bc with my shitty luck if i say something like that out loud it WILL happen to us for sure now soon#any ways im really sad bc it just feels unfathomable just bc it was so close like just a few cities away like god that couldve been us#my coworker lost his whole roof and a tree landed in his bathroom#like i think that would break me honestly like idk how many life changing events i can survive without killing myself...#like i keep telling God i aint Job! i WILL kms! don't fucking taunt me fucker!#anyway anyway idk where im going with this#marquilla
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God I just can't deal with any of this shit. I feel like I'm gonna explode I just want to go home so bad right now I want everything to go away. I know it's only been a couple weeks but every time I think things are gonna be okay for me here and that I'm happy to be here some other shit goes wrong and it's too much and I can't take it
#venting#im so embarrassed about accidentally texting my host i dont know if i need to go apologize#or if that will just make it worse#im running through everything i said with my coworkers yesterday and beating myself up for not being normal enough#im fuckin terrified of the trains now#im at a total loss on how to get my phone data to work reliably. ive exhausted my options there#im not sleeping well. havent been for a while#and i have several more weekend trips on the to-do list#and i can't deal with any of this
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