Literally every official survivor resource will tell you that ADULTS can groom OTHER ADULTS. You're literally choosing ignorance and to ignore the experience of survivors. Wtf is wrong with you? Get offline.
My brother in Christ it's not like I don't respect what abuse survivors has been gone through. You think I don't know how abuse felt? You think I didn't bear self harm scar?
Or when my father manipulated me when I was 13 to hate on my mother?
I was groomed by creeps online when I was a teenager on Instagram to send sexually charged text and pictures of my breast, I was groomed by straight men who claimed to be lesbian on a dating app because I was desperate to understand my own sexuality
I refuse to use the word grooming to describe abuse and manipulation against adults because it has been proven that malicious people and morons are using this word to attack innocent people particularly queer people.
Look at what happened when the mainstream populace suddenly aware of this word
This is why I insist people only using the word 'grooming' to describe abuse and manipulation against children to minimize the harm that has been done by malicious people and idiots
Just because I insist that the word grooming should be used for situation that involve children, it doesn't invalidate the abuse that adults went through when you use the word 'abuse' and 'manipulation' to describe what they went through!!!
Why it feels like people are seeing the usage of the word 'grooming' like a competition? Like if you don't use the word for adults somehow you feel like the situation won't sounds bad??
By Allah Tumblr is full of idiots...
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OC DNA for Monster Researcher Eclair!
Her original characterization was a lot more subdued and demure. Nagato Yuki-esque. Eventually she sort of ended up being much more proactive and earnest.
Anyway you can find the original template here!
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