#isuggestplural

[bookwyrmonastring]

Thank you, @isuggestplural

For saying those words that changed our life:

"There's never anything wrong with looking at yourself with a plural lens"

I can't find the exact post, maybe we paraphrased it in our mind.

But was the last push we needed. I don't know if words can express how much joy our systemhood has brought us. I love my headmates, I love how much they've helped me, how much we've helped each other. I love them all. We are companions closer than flesh. I'm so glad to know them. And I will carry on the mission that brought me to them.

So, dear reader(s), try it! Talk to yourself, love yourselves, name your 'parts'. Write notes, delegate tasks, talk to a trusted friend about it if you can. You are hurting no-one by thinking of yourself as plural. If it helps you to identify that way, then do it. When I worry we're faking, or that I'm not really plural, I think "if I wasn't plural, what would I be? A person who hears other voices in her head and works with them to live our life/lives together? I think there's a word for that." So, go for it. You have nothing to lose by learning who you really are. Look through that lens, and maybe, things will look clearer than they ever have before. Whatever truth you discover, we want you to know: you are not alone.

[the-haiku-bot]

We hit our head

today and had to check if

anyone fell out.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

We hit our head today and had to check if anyone fell out.

[catgirltoes]

Hm, I could split off an alter if I keep typing like that.

[undeadly-uncomedian]

Reading some literature on the topic, there is good likelihood that I(?) am plural seemingly? Not too sure yet, but there's something going on here that seems to align with what I've(?) read.

Some of it doesn't though. Now that more knowledge is possessed, notation will be taken of things.

As an additional note, referring to "myself" singlely caused some discomfort while writing this, but this may be due to the psyching out of the self. Decided to write with as little singular reference as possible to alleviate discomfort.

[isuggestforcefem]

Actually, I'm gonna make a whole post about it and be done with it, for now.

The stance of this blog is one of showing transfems-to-be and transfems a better future. It is here to help crack eggs and help new or struggling girls (and girl aligned) along.

As such the focus of this blog is obviously transfems. There is a secondary focus on plurality, though it is much lighter. For more, see my husband, @isuggestplural.

The name and theme of forcefem is one done in jest. I realize there are girls who would like a blog focused on forcefem as a kink but it is not this blog. Forcefem, here, is a bit, or a bait, that allows us to unite onto a banner of help.

As such, AFAB people are no target of this blog (though are still welcome to interact), as they are not concerned directly in trasfemininity. I say "AFAB" here as many a trans girl starts of believing she is a cis man.

We also see it fit to educate about transmisoginy and such matters relating to the issues transfems face. We ask that this blog be interacted in good faith, and with one's best knowledge of those issues, though good faith is the only thing demanded. This means notably that centering men's issues, or sexualizing women unwarrantedly in one of our posts will be in very poor taste.

I will not speak in length on "forcemasc" as I do not wish to be harassed again, though I will say that my stance, though having evolved, has little moved, as I believe that "forcemasc" as promotion of masculine ideals (as opposed to a more kink approach of turning a feminized subject into a masculinized subject) can hardly be divorced from the patriarchal elevation of masculinity as an ideal, and misoginy (though hardly does not mean never).

[mordcore]

i have a suggestion

[wakraya]

Discord Stickers we made parodying the icons of @isuggestforcefem and @isuggestplural! Sometimes... Your Headmates have a suggestion or two.

Shoutouts to this post in particular, which actually describes pretty accurately how Sakura came to be in the headspace, after a particularly intense night of playing Slay the Princess, and dwelling on the phrase "The Pristine Blade That Makes You Plural."

[i-suggest-aro]

I want to say that I enjoy your blog so much. Yes. Spread the aromantic agenda. Spread it far and wide. Soon the whole world will know.

I’m really really tempted to make a blog inspired by this, but for being afamilial. Do you I have your blessing to do so? Or would you not like that?

you can do whatever you want forever

no but on a genuine note, go for it!! the idea for this blog wasn't original either, i was taking inspo from the likes of isuggestforcefem and isuggestplural and the countless other blogs with this general premise that are out there lol.

go forth, my soldier. forge a path of afamilial representation never before seen.

[kittygaykitty]

idk what trans, lesbian, and poly is,, but what does plural mean? :3

it means kitty isnt the only one in kitty's head!

Often (but far from exclusively) caused by the likes of Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) or other, related conditions - tho again, nyot exclusively - it's where there's myore than one identity sharing a body!

kitty's system has about 18/19, depending on how nyu count it. kitty is the "host alter" - host meaning kitty is the one that usually fronts, and alter being the term we nyuse fur members of this system

something to nyote tho is every system is different! some refer to members of their system as headmates, or nyuse different terminology fur different things, or dun have a host alter at all. systems can be as small as two, or as large as hundreds or thousands.

if nyu want myore info, maybe look into @isuggestplural or @plural-detector! also, keep in mind that kitty isnt an expert (and is actually quite stupid /pos), so pawlease look into resources!

[isuggestagere]

I know a way you can watch the movie

[cyber-newtype]

is isuggestplural run by one of you btw

[k1nky-r0b0t-g1rl]

"ok everyone i know i can just start wearing glasses but what im saying is it would be way easier and cooler and hotter if a pretty girl just gave me some and made me wear them ya know"

Hmmm, I'm gonna toss it to an expert

@isuggestplural do you have any ideas that might help her with this? Any way she might have a pretty girl *very* close by able to give her some and make her wear them?

im gonna need a lot more time and space to work on my trauma before that one becomes possible :3

[isuggestplural]

So, I have a feeling I may be plural, to the point where some headmates talk to me, but I’ve talked about this to my bf and he says I can’t because I haven’t experienced trauma. I’m a bit confused about this, what do I do?

See this post:

Your boyfriend is dead wrong, anon.

[euniexenoblade]

hello, before actually going and blabbing a whole bunch I was wondering if you were felt comfortable about helping someone identify whether or not they are plural? I just heard you talking about it some and you tend to be good with advice and while I know something I'm experiencing is at least adjacent, I've been having trouble figuring out if it counts as plurality (one distinction not going into too much detail is that this second person doesn't share a body with me, but she lives in my head if that makes sense?)

I'm more than willing to listen but for plurality I may not be the girl to talk to. Might I suggest @isuggestplural ? But yeah if you wanna talk I'm more than willing to listen

[kinda-pushy-fem]

hey can you tell the “singlet” anon to check my most recent reblog and also @isuggestplural please

if you can’t that’s fine

You heard your fellow Tumblr user, anon. And also know that I fully send my own encouragement too

[dullahandyke]

Get struck by the thought 'the body doesn't represent us necessarily, it's like a video game avatar that we want to look cool', go ⁉️ bcos that's the first time I've had a thought like that, scroll down and see ISuggestPlural in my recommended blogs. Yeah yeah I get it