#like girl GET UP !!!!!!!!!!

[veryberrybad]

my entry for bornasin’s 10K DTIYS over on instagram!! a clothes swap which turned into a palette swap which turned into throwing random ideas at a dartboard, but i had such a blast with this!!! please check out the original drawing, i’ll forever regret not giving vox the cat ears

some closeups that aren’t as crunchy i hope

[bellysoupset]

I'm going to answer this too, lol, because it's a fun one, but where is the most interesting place each of your couples have (1) had actual sex, and (2) fooled around something up to but not actually including "traditional" sex? You can answer for Max too, but for the others I only want the answer with their current partner, lol. Also, not that I reread your old stuff all the time, but you once wrote about Wendy telling Vince that he was her "first" but then you added in a note that he was literally her first. Were you talking about her first time with someone she cared about? First time since transitioning? Something else? Thank you!

Lis, I'm loooving all the Spicy Asks lmao. This should be a staple around here, I'm making it tradition now.

Alright, let's GO:

Luke/Bell: fooled around it's honestly everywhere? When they first started dating they were unstoppable lol. Dressing room in stores, the locker room of the university, the IT office of the university, in Bella's dorm bathroom while her roommate was outside studying 😭, every surface of Luke's apartment, behind Bella's old high school bleachers in New Mexico.... Most unconventional place they had sex was in the plane's little private room when they flew back from honeymoon and Bella, thankfully, didn't get airsick. Mile high club, baby!

Jonah/Leo: These two are very boring when it comes to this, neither of them wanna risk getting caught. They've fooled around in the locker room (once, because Jonah quit the team right after they started dating, there was a very small window), in the college bus while everyone slept 😳, but that's about it. Sex only at home/their room wherever they're stay at, every corner of their apartment, but only there. They're cautious men!

Vince/Wendy: Vince is VERY cautious, Wendy not so much, she's a bit of a hellcat who's been tamed. She's jumped Vin in all sorts of places, his old childhood home, a restaurant's bathroom, his classroom in the new job, his bike, her car, behind her building, in the pool, in more than one hotel balcony... But she can never get too far, Vin is too catholic to have sex in public lmao. Red a fucking tomato and dying, but always stopping her. Most unconventional place they've had sex is definitely in NYC, in one of the horse carriages. Vince tried to shush her, but Wendy won this one out.

Max: the most boring fuckboy out there, he lives in Doveport give this man a BREAK. Fucked a nun once, tho, likes to brag about it. Vince would slap him if he heard Max bragging this 😂

[cherrygarden]

I SAW HIMMMMM 😭😭😭 shitty quality and he didn't stop for pictures but. oh my god oh my god

[padawankestis]

having a crush on a man really disturbs your peace

[coverednstars]

was trying to find my jin x reader hcs and accidentally found my old sui note ... >< yikes

[stood-onthecliffside]

me declaring my love for a random man with chipped nail polish silver rings curly hair and who looks as if he hasn’t slept in ages !

[notoriousandnasty]

I’m sorry blue gets on my nerves so badly I need her gone

[chloesimaginationthings]

The Vanessas and Mikes if they met sooner in FNAF..

[cidnangarlond]

[cookiedough77]

ok like you know those things where they have ladybug and chat noir dress nice to go "undercover" or something at an event like a fancy part or something-

yeah so ladynoir.... but its dress chat noir and suit ladybug

[dancefloors]

Right now Israel's bombing Rafah, the last refuge for a million Palestinians, where they were previously ORDERED to evacuate to and are now trapped in while the US news cycle is dominated by Big Football Game And Celebrities In Attendance (at which Israel also aired a million dollar propaganda video). I wish I could say this is unbelievable.

[dapper-lil-arts]

One of my many arguments as to why Equestria needed 2 rulers

[inkskinned]

even 2 years ago people still said autism with a whisper. it was also how people sometimes whisper lesbian, like they're afraid of uttering a slur. autistic was either an insult or it was something terrible, a horrible burden only select people endure. "select people" were usually 9 year old boys and skinny white men.

they are not hispanic young adults with a dog and a life and friends. i can make (sustained, calculated, painful) eye contact. with certain people, i don't even have to count how many seconds i am holding their vision - i can just look at them. i can wear clothes that bother me, i will just have a worse day than usual. i might cry about any changes to my schedule - but change is scary! this is normal!

when i was 16 it was OCD. i mean that was the thing everyone said. i totally have ocd. they would arrange 6 colors of gel pen in rainbow order (no worry for indigo feeling left out) and they'd be "so ocd" about it.

if you struggle with intrusive thoughts, be careful at this next paragraph, but. at 16 i developed a compulsion that involved self-harm. my ocd was convinced i was simply forgetting that i'd hurt someone terribly - a thought that persisted for no clear or delineated reason.

at some point i will probably write about how the idea of "morally pure thoughts" was hell for me and others with ocd, but this was the odd dichotomy for many of us: they liked our "aesthetic", but were genuinely repulsed by our lived experience. "intrusive thoughts" now means "cutting your hair in the sink" instead of talking yourself down from believing horrible things. "so ocd" is a label without any true understanding.

it's something i've talked about before - in multiplicity - but i firmly believe in the veracity and necessity of self-diagnosis. i think it saves lives and it saves tragedies from occurring. as someone raised in a house that wasn't safe, self-diagnosis was, for many years, the only viable option. 15 and honestly googling: am i depressed or there demons affecting my behavior.

but it is not genuine self-diagnosis anymore, most of the time. it is a strange, blanched version of that whispered word autism. now certain traits are constantly seen as "autistic" - any passing intense interest. any flubbed social interaction. people say it while laughing - a touch of the 'tism.

and i like the acceptance! i do. i like that people are talking about it. i like that if i self-identify, more people speak up and say me too, bitch. but there is something-else quietly happening, the way it happened to OCD. the quirky, "fun" parts have been washed and sanitized and removed of all suffering. now it is just something that makes you "a little bit silly."

it took me 27 years on this planet before i learned to make friends. something about me just seems incredibly odd, i guess, some kind of radiation monitoring. someone once (in a way that was almost friendly) told me i am doing the right things, but in a way that's off-putting. i have scoured myself raw attempting to be charming.

someone on tiktok does a deep dive into their particular passion. the top comment says "what kind of autism is this lol". like we are a breed of animal. like it has no influence on our experience. like our life is a fresh breeze, an open meadow.

more often for me, life was a drowning.

[mourn-and-watch]

just want to remind y'all of some kirkwall-related details that are not at all relevant for the possible events of datv:

meredith stannard is alive and kicking and is also planning a war against tevinter

red templars are in control of the gallows; it's hard to tell what's going on in the city itself, but with varric absent it might be left with no viscount again

there's an elven graveyard on sundermount where ancient elves entered uthenera; it is also possibly dedicated/related to mythal

there was also a demon contained in an idol on top of sundermount who supposedly possessed a great knowledge about arlathan and eluvians

the veil in kirkwall has always been remarkably thin and tevinter magisters were weakening it on purpose during their reign; the whole city was built as an enormous blood magic ritual site

if the veilguard squad is going to travel through the eluvians there's still one in kirkwall. the one that has been plot-relevant since dao

[wardingshout]

Zelda goes mushroom girl

[ravenpureforever]

On one hand, Young Justice is kind of neglected by the actual superheroes that should be looking out for them in a lot of crucial ways and very much failed by the adults around them

But on the other hand Red Tornado straight up hosts a parent-teacher conference where their respective legal guardians all show up, barring Batman who’s in traffic so Nightwing fills in instead because Robin’s dad does not know he’s a vigilante which is objectively hilarious