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mamawasatesttube · 4 months

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you guys i have so many thoughts about tdr. i have so much to say. like i don't want to be super mean but dude that comic fucking sucks and i can't lie i think it made me kind of homophobic actually

#my stance up to now has been that i don't really care about tim/ber but now that i have read this. dude...#it sucks that they gave a canon queer tim narrative to someone who uses homophobia as shock value and virtue signaling points #and who actively tears down characters who don't like her special little uwu flawless oc (kate im so fucking sorry)#there's no substance to this relationship i don't see why they even like each other #bc she keeps just stating oh they're perfect they make each other so happy but she doesn't like. show that at all #and i HATE the shock value homophobia like i cannot overstate how much i hate it #oh these random cops are homophobic (that's how you know they're BAD!)#oh bernard's parents are homophobic (that's how you know THEY'RE bad too!)#it's so hamfisted and it reads like such. cheap storytelling #especially bc tim as narrator doesn't even get to have ANY thoughts on his own queerness or seeing this homophobia in the world around him #and then she can't go more than two pages without being like BTW BERNARD IS THE BEST EVER AND TIM CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM #while against this ugly backdrop of shock value homophobia #there's no substance to this relationship. why do they even like each other. it just falls apart if you examine it at all #because she just is fundamentally incapable of writing either of them as people with character flaws #for fucks sake she can't even be consistent with tim's BASIC character tenets. ''i always dreamed of being batman'' false lmao #but then to follow it up with ''i never wanted to be batman i always wanted to be my dad''#and then on TOP OF THAT to make the Only mention of Jack drake and his impact on tim's life ABOUT BERNARD AGAIN.#yeah sorry im a hater now. this was shit tier #rimi talks

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daily-hanamura · 10 months

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#persona 4 #p4 #persona 4 golden #p4g #hanamura yosuke #satonaka chie #ok but this scene #chie goes on to butter him up before revealing that they had charged teddie's clothes to him #but aside from that it does capture something very essential about yosuke's character #and that is that his words are frequently a mismatch for his actions #he complains about teddie but he still looks out for him like an older brother HE TAKES HIM HOME and hell #convinces his parents to give teddie a place to stay and i guess to some extent it's contrived plot reasons but really #its really not an easy thing at all to do #he makes homophobic comments towards kanji but it doesnt stop him from looking out for kanji either #for all his remarks in the bathhouse hes the first to volunteer taking kanji home after they rescue him from the tv world #he complains about chie sponging off him and showing up whenever food is mentioned but he treats her to his best ability anyway #yosuke is very bad at expressing himself most of the time #hes impulsive and prone to saying things without thinking them through and hoo boy can they be so bad #but i think the people aurrounding him; the people who really understand him like chie is in this moment #understand that about him and that his words cant always be taken at face value #he's good with his queue

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fuck-comphet · 6 months

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Hey mom, if you really wanted your house to be a safe space for me, you wouldn’t invite a known homophobe over while I’m here, and then call me sensitive when I tell you that I’m uncomfortable interacting with this person

#I cannot deal with being in this house much longer #like seriously wtf #this homophobic person is not actually coming over but the only reason is that there’s been too many other friends of my parents over #so their roster was already full #and she just casually mentioned this to me like it was no big deal???#how can you be comfortable with the idea of inviting a homophobe to your house while your gay daughter is also there?!?#how can you even be friends with that person while you have a gay daughter you say you ‘respect and accept’?!?#im just venting because Im so mad right now #watch she’s going to call ME intolerent for this #like yeah Im INTOLERENT TO HOMOPHOBIA IM LITERALLY GAY????#cw homophobia #tw homophobia #just fucking reminds me that Im not safe here and I have to constantly be on my toes because my safety is never considered

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fiapple · 1 year

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for such a small fandom, the moral orel community really does have a huge fucking problem with woobification of the adult cast.

it's gross.

#this isn't about liking characters this is however about using that as an excuse to pretend they are not horrible people.#like literally the only decent adult in moralton is stephanie- others may have their moments but overall? just her.#& that's thematically fucking important! like the fact that the only good person in a town suffocated by it's own rigid adherence to WASP #social norms is a visually non-conforming lesbian? yeah that kinda fucking means something! that was a pointed writing choice!#also before anyone mentions officer papermouth hes a cop. moreover he's a cop in a town where several characters are canonically racist.#& its a town where people are known to mostly hold the same views on social issues due to the aforementioned strict adherence to WASP norms #do not “officer papermouth seems like a good guy.” me i will chuck your kneecaps into a river.#but enough with the uwu cutesy headcanons about characters who are canonically racist/homophobic/abusive/misogynistic!#enough with the blaming literally every character except your personal favourite for the climate of the town!#enough with blaming only one parent for the puppington family dynamic!#enough with acting like characters don't have faults because you happen to find a clay figurine unreasonably attractive!#you're missing the fucking point!#enough enough enough enough! learn how to actually analyze & interact with the media you consume please!#moral orel #also:#proshippers dni #you lot are the worst of the fucking bunch & your approach to media as a group is horrific. fuck off.

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sanduchengjiu · 3 days

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Rip jiang cheng you would’ve loved Dogs 101, cognitive behavioral therapy, melatonin, and the decenter men movement

#honorable mentions: athlesiure /mma / the homophobic dog meme/ parenting books/ takis/ big 90’s scrunchies/#jiang cheng #I love him so much wish he was real #wait I forgot #compression socks #and memory foam

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dreamsicle262 · 9 months

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why does my mom keep spamming me with gifs of dazai

#dream's textposts🖋️#help #it's probably becuz i only talk about a select few characters around her becuz i can't be bothered to explain everything #especially not dead apple #not becuz it's confusing becuz it kinda isn't #but becuz both of my parents are raging homophobes and will freak tf out if i mention THAT one scene. you know which one.#so yeah i can't say much about skk either unless im misleading her into thinking they hate each other just so she won't question things #i think she found skk ship art once and i had to awkwardly explain that no these men aren't gay. it's just art that ppl make yk #obviously i was lying. but that was necessary for survival in my case. this impulsive lying for survival happens a lot more than it should.

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cepheusgalaxy · 4 months

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Nex Benedict was murdered in a stupid bathroom because of a stupid fucking bill and Palestine and Sudan and I don't know how many more places are under tons of shit and now the fucking KOSA and Im frraking out

#swearing #rambles #vent #and im fucking annoyed because im planning to come out this year as both trans and aro #and im still figuring out my stupid goddamit fucking identity and a BLODDY bill was passed in my country #and now the education system is being actively boycotted AND my parents are still not speaking to each other #AND THE STUPID CEO HAD TO BE A TRANSPHOBE TOO FUCK OFF #AND this year i have classes with my bolsonarist and homophobic teacher #AND i know i said id shut up but its getting me crazy that i cant speak up in english class about neopronouns and singular they/them #because i know it will just get a stupid argument started #but it HURTS because they/them and it/its are literally my pronouns because i speak this language!!!!!!!!!#AND i have to schedule a STUPID haircut because THIS ONE is getting me crazy and i need. a. mullet. NOW #on top of that #next week we get back to the fucking stupid 8h long school day and i will have time for N O T H I N G #i was gonna carry my education on the internet but NOO #FOR GODS SAKE EVERYBODY JUST NEEDS TO FUCKING EXPLODE WITH CAR HAMMERS ALREADY #death mention

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xxxamerican-psychoxxx · 2 years

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#tw abuse mention #so #I am living with my parents and things are;;;bad #both of my parents are verbally mentally and emotionally abusive #they constantly bring me to tears #make me feel bad about myself #and judge me for my choice of friends #my parents are both extremely transphobic and homophobic and I am trans myself #i wouldnt be surprised if they start physically abusing me now #i have been told by my father he would punch me so hard in the stomach i would vomit blood #they have (jokingly) threatened to kill me #at this point i am scared for my life

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pinkshgum · 1 year

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whenever i see people talk about the steven universe fandom just makes me glad i had THE best steven universe fandom experience. i was a kid (the target audience) i didnt speak english. so 80% of the fandom drama was already gone. the only social media i used was youtube, so all i did was look up theories, fanart and wait for the next steven bomb to drop in the USA so i could watch it pirated and subbed. i even drew the characters in a little sketchbook i had

#also this show made me literally not homophobic #my parents are homophobic but they never mentioned the existence of gay people to me when i was little #so some of my first exposition to queer people was through this show #and it was positive!! very positive!!#so yeah lgbtq+ representation in cartoons for children DOES matter btw

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mamawasatesttube · 4 months

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you guys i have so many thoughts about tdr. i have so much to say. like i don't want to be super mean but dude that comic fucking sucks and i can't lie i think it made me kind of homophobic actually

#my stance up to now has been that i don't really care about tim/ber but now that i have read this. dude...#it sucks that they gave a canon queer tim narrative to someone who uses homophobia as shock value and virtue signaling points #and who actively tears down characters who don't like her special little uwu flawless oc (kate im so fucking sorry)#there's no substance to this relationship i don't see why they even like each other #bc she keeps just stating oh they're perfect they make each other so happy but she doesn't like. show that at all #and i HATE the shock value homophobia like i cannot overstate how much i hate it #oh these random cops are homophobic (that's how you know they're BAD!)#oh bernard's parents are homophobic (that's how you know THEY'RE bad too!)#it's so hamfisted and it reads like such. cheap storytelling #especially bc tim as narrator doesn't even get to have ANY thoughts on his own queerness or seeing this homophobia in the world around him #and then she can't go more than two pages without being like BTW BERNARD IS THE BEST EVER AND TIM CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM #while against this ugly backdrop of shock value homophobia #there's no substance to this relationship. why do they even like each other. it just falls apart if you examine it at all #because she just is fundamentally incapable of writing either of them as people with character flaws #for fucks sake she can't even be consistent with tim's BASIC character tenets. ''i always dreamed of being batman'' false lmao #but then to follow it up with ''i never wanted to be batman i always wanted to be my dad''#and then on TOP OF THAT to make the Only mention of Jack drake and his impact on tim's life ABOUT BERNARD AGAIN.#yeah sorry im a hater now. this was shit tier #rimi talks

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edducard · 2 years

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I don't think enough people talk abt the fact tom would absolutely have insane religious trauma from being a jehovahs witness as a kid I'm just saying

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merrysithmas · 2 years

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the inherent homophobia of cishet ppl who outright reject obikin

and i mean this in the way that: they have every media clear cut and catered to them for eternity, it's a cishet smorgasbord. whereas queer ppl are left to pick through the bones of media for scraps of rich canon dynamics.

and then a dynamic comes along as fascinating and multifaceted and frankly undefinable (in a space wizard diff Universe forcebond manner) as obikin and the first thing straight ppl do is go "ew the idea of them as gay is gross and wrong"

they do this without thinking why queer ppl are thrilled to finally see such a rich & multilayered dynamic (because: we never get anything, especially never something so completely ambiguous and thus undeniably applicable to shipping) that can be see as eternal and beloved in the way obikin can. the context of their adult bond can, through any individual POV of a literal different Universe, be seen as friendship, familial, romantic, etc.

ppl who dont like obikin for just simple reasons like they see the dynamic differently, sure, ship whatever you want, nbd! but other ppl have a distinct ignorance of their cishet media privilege and it shooooows

just because you choose to see obiwan (who is like 14 yrs older than anakin and was a grieving barely-knighted jedi) as anakin's -literal- dad is not my problem lmao

maybe youre the one w daddy issues

#like no one is out here shipping them as anything but two grown men who fancy each other once theyre both adults and have their brains #get over your selfish selfes homophobes #and try seeing things beyond your miopic cishet catered-to brains #and understand that when youre queer you often have to pick through and apart unfriendly canon to just enjoy certain things bc we never get #anything straight out #and i say canon loosely bc nothing is canon its all up to the viewer anyway #*selves #making this unrebloggable bc i just wanted to fume for a second #i dont want to discuss it w anyone lol #not to mention the jedi master padawan teaching dynamic is also up to the view (friendship or parental or sibling like or work focused)until #they grow up and are adults and life goes on from there #just bc your choose to see obiwan (who is like 14 yrs older than anakin&was a young barely knighted grieving jedi) as anakins -literal- dad #isnt my problem lmao #maybe youre the one w daddy issues #honestly

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thebreakfastgenie · 2 years

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Natives don’t have to be nice to whites considering you people just love swooping up kids that have been stolen from us en masse to feed your savior complexes ❤️

if you think "not being homophobic" is about being nice to whites idk what to tell you

#the post wasn't even specifically about 'white gays'#it mentioned white gay parents #but the main post was just about 'the gays'#which is a group that includes all race #unless you think homosexuality is a decadent white people thing or whatever #that's a homophobic trope you don't see much anymore #anyway I highly doubt this anon is Native but I won't make assumptions

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suttttton · 2 years

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me 🤝 my mom undiagnosed anxiety disorders

#the older i get the clearer it becomes that me and my mom catastrophize about things very similarly #difference is i found healthy coping mechanisms while my mom found homophobic death cult evangelical christianity #of course this realization makes me feel very bad for my mom because like. i get it.#she tells me that she worries about me and i know she doesn't mean the normal way moms worry about their kids i know she actually means #that she has a creeping suspicion that my life choices are going to send me to hell and she feels powerless to stop it #and her brain will not let her think about anything else so 24/7 its just alarms blaring #and because she's constructed her entire belief system around having anxiety she's like. this fear i feel is a message from god.#and i have no idea how to help her #like????#she's literally believed these things fro her entire life giving them up feels like the end of the world #and her WHOLE FAMILY is there with her so even if she could realize she'd be happier without these beliefs #she'd immediately have a dozen trusted voices telling her no actually. your anxiety is correct and you're right to afraid all the time #for awhile when i was like. 18-19. the major question i had about my childhood was WHY didn't my mom never take me to therapy #because yeah okay she came from a culture where therapy isn't trusted and god is supposed to fix all your mental illnesses #but she read all the parenting books and universally took experts' advice over what she'd learned from her own parents #(because she knew her parents hadn't done a great job and didn't want to repeat their mistakes)#and she KNEW i was REALLY bad. i was crying all the time having her drive me to the bookstore to get books i thought might help #sending myself into anxious spirals if anyone mentioned death around me #not a fun time in my life or her life #and she DID take me to talk to my pediatrician about it so like??? why did we never see a therapist???#i was 9 i though there was just nothing that could be done but????????#but now i realize that what happened to me back then didn't really scan in my mother's head as something wrong with me #because she was the same way #:/

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vaciena · 2 months

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I make a joke out of it but sometimes it really, really sucks to be the cartoon evil that “turned their kids gay” in my friends’ parents’ heads

#like I give my friends permission to blame me instead so their parents get 80% mad at me and only 20% at them bc I’m not at risk by that #but when you can see my childhood best friends’ parents blaming me even if it’s not said it hurts a bit yknow?#they outright said it when I was 14 and my friends still thought they were straight then just stopped mentioning it #but I was a kid too?#I’m just a person. my friends are queer because they’re queer. it hurts that I’m blamed and it hurts that they have to find someone to blame #because they’re so resistant to seeing their children as people and acknowledging that they have their own traits #homophobia #that’s the cost of being the first openly queer person in your age group I guess #people who grew up with me get their identities blamed on me #people I went to college with also do because I was the first obviously openly queer person they made friends with #my family isn’t homophobic but I constantly want to punch other people’s families for it and get blamed anyway

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toastsnaffler · 7 months

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my brother is always SO vague abt his personal life w me I need to sit him down and grill him if I see him next month in person 😡

#my mum said he had a new gf and they must be serious bc he wanted to bring her to dinner to MEET my mum which hes never done before #and apparently hes planning on staying in his uni city after he graduates and working there so they can stay together #but he hasnt said a WORD of this to me except just now he randomly dmed asking me for pics of our dog dressed up in xmas gear #and was like '[girl] wanted pics of her shes basically adopted her :)' and i was like damn is that ur new gf u didnt tell me abt her???#and he replied 'not quite but yeah' QUIT IT W THE CRYPTIC SHIT IM NOSY!!!!!#maybe theyre not actually dating dating ik my mum gets carried away w gossip sometimes #wish he would stop dodging my questions tho.......#altho tbf im equally bad i had a gf for almost 2 years and didnt tell him so LMAO #but im justified bc he has a big mouth and would immediately tell my mum. but im not actually 'out' out to my parents #not in a closeted way like they MUST know im gay bc my brothers def mentioned it around them before + idk. general vibe innit #my mum literally asked me for my pronouns last time i went home..... she mustve had some trans clients #and she 'just thought shed check :)' like okayyyy....#but yeah more that i just dont see the point of doing a whole coming out song and dance i literally dont care enough for that #next time i date someone if im serious abt it ill probs tell them. and if they're surprised im gay thats on them #the main reason i didnt w my ex was bc their family was crazy homophobic so they didnt want them catching wind of it #+ also bc i was living w my family some of that time + i didnt rly wanna find out what my catholic stepdad thinks abt gay ppl lmao #anyway..#.diaries

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