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[minygscrybaby]

Sexualizing the members of NCT Dream (and Lucas), Stray Kids, and just underage idols in general: An Honest Talk

Hello, fellow NCTzens, and fandom of Stray Kids, and any other group who has underage members! Leah here, back at it again with the tea and not the white vans. This is just my PSA and also an honest request based on my personal moral compass. I’m not asking for your negativity, I just really want to consider the well being for the boys I support. Today, I have found out one of the blogs I used to follow was in support and was sexualizing the dreamies. She had written a Mark and Haechan smut piece and I was automatically disgusted. Now, I realise birds of a feather flock together, so upon further investigation I found another blog that had a masterlist that wrote full on smut pertaining to all members of NCT Dream. That means, yes, Mark, Haechan, Renjun, Jeno, Jaemin, Chenle, and Jisung. If you don’t know who they are, Mark was born in 1999, Haechan, Jeno, Jaemin, and Renjun were all born in 2000, Chenle was born in 2001, and Jisung born in 2002. This isn’t okay. I don’t care how old you are, sexualizing them is a full on “fuck no.” They are underage. Jisung is sixteen years old. Chenle is turning seventeen. It has been a little over a month since Haechan turned eighteen. Jaemin is still underage. I’m only nine days older than Jaemin. In my mind it’s borderline predatory behaviour if you’re waiting for them to turn 18 so you can start sexualising them. You can have your own opinion on that, but honestly, I don’t think that it’s okay for anyone to be doing that to them. As someone who is their age, I can confidently say we’re still figuring out what being an adult REALLY is. I lost my virginity at sixteen years old. I was no where near as ready for sex as I thought I was at that time. Of course, teenagers are curious, there are hormones and all of that stuff they should’ve explained in health class. Sexual urges and curiosity exists. But, sex is such an adult thing, in my opinion. There’s a lot of responsibility that isn’t always really talked about. I didn’t even know who I was or what it meant for me to take that step. We’re still learning how to be independent, we’re in preparation for becoming independent. Even now, a year, almost two years later, I can still with confidence say that having sex now is still such a no-no for me because I am still not able to be independent, to be the sole person responsible for myself emotionally, mentally, and physically. With that in mind, do onto others as I want done onto me and don’t sexualise minors. With this being said, report and also spread and educate. s-smutty and thesoundofpurple are the blogs I have found. Please report their content, and also, if you know of any other blogs that also support this, please share so we can hold a firm no-tolerance of this. If you need help with this, please feel free to talk to me so I can do my best to point you in a good direction! Lets support our underage boys by keeping them safe so that they may continue to try their hardest without being sexualised. While I don’t know if there’s sexualisation of underage members in all groups listed, I just want it to be there as a reminder. I really want this community to honour our hardworking boys with the respect and love they deserve because they really do deserve a safe environment. Thanks, guys. EDIT// This is not me saying to send hate to these people. I’m not asking you to attack these people, I want it to be as constructive as possible!

[kyoonglight]

hi! so i am here for the shipping thing if that's alright. uwu. i am 17 years old, 5'6, on the chubby side, pale, brown to black ombre shoulder length hair, bright green eyes that sometimes look blue. i'm really extroverted and i like having fun with people and making people enjoy themselves and i'm flirty and sassy! i enjoy dancing despite being clumsy, and writing! thank you for opening this up to astro and nct, they're both in my top three! uwu thank you lovey! xx

greetings my dude!! it always makes me sososo happy to see people who stan both astro and nct QuQ

you remind me of a blue bird!! an eastern blue bird is apparently what google calls them OuO you sound like you have rlly pretty eyes and when you look at the blue bird it looks so squishy n fluffy and cute!! also because you being extroverted and having fun reminds me of a bird that is just flying around trying to have a good time being free!! 

and i would ship you with myungjun our boi mj!!!! i think he would love how extroverted you are because you both will always have fun together! you’re both full of energy and are ready to go out and face the world with a smile QuQ he also would love how you’re a lil flirty and sassy because he is also a lil bit sassy and he would like someone on his level ohoho plus i think he would find you absolutely adorable because he would love to pinch your cheeks all day OuO you two would make everyday an adventure with each other ahh it would be so cute 

[sugakookiesbutbadass]

🎵~

send me a ‘🎵’ and I will put my music on shuffle and make you a 10 song playlist~

whalien 52 // bts

so far away // suga, jin, & jungkook

all i wanted // paramore

boston // augustana

i’m waiting // the all-american rejects

kissing in cars // pierce the veil

end of an era // marianas trench

here’s to us // halestorm

the bird and the worm // the used

ocean and atlantic // mayday parade

i hope you enjoy!! feel free to send me any song recommendations back!! :)

[kihyuklovbot]

I saw you got that ask earlier about assigning mutuals as bts members, so I am just gonna see if you would do the same haha 😁 have fun

hello yes!!!! that sounds like fun !! i’m also really bad at picking up on people’s personalities so i might just go by bias dfgdfg

namjoon:

@ddaeng-joon @knjysl @baby-boy-joonie @koyacushion @owls-and-stars @joonslov

jin:

@daeloveblog @just1day @bbyjin @xantiiiiiiiii @namstarluv @solsticememoir @anyhao @gamjin

yoongi:

@moongiii @aliluv @bangtansugaminyoongi @threepreludes @02fakelove @raplinesgf @yoongiminccino @rmyoongis @vampiwre @awgawgawworld @yoongist @raplin-e @minyggi @yccnmoon @sugafromthed @blue-yoongi @agustddaeng @raplinesbitch @agustwink @nobodyoongi @minsquerade @anpanshan @the-killingmoon @iloveyoongiverymuch @yoongisolostan @bloomingyoongi @stubbornthot @mingummysmile @i-am-min-yoongi-trash @ghostieeeeeeee @hayleykiyokoo @nappingsuga @sky-suga @2oongi @milkorsuga @calicoyoongi @myoonji @so-ver-saucy @sugaloved @dt-minsuga

hobi:

@arctichopeworld @24-7-heav-n @oyehobi @bangtqn @queenyoonji @hobifulvibe @hopeworldbts @heartbreak-oclock

jimin:

@silverhairjiminn @softstpjm @jiminwlw @thegingeregg @cottencandymochi @serenenight @world-of-fantasy @hearteyesjmin @sevenducklings @jiminiparks @jimin-spotting @mindios @sydmochi @velvetjm @latioss @1oveling @kaiddict

taehyung:

@once-upom-a-deurim @sick-of-this-fake-love @plutostear @youreenemyvenus @taehyungs-vodka-aunt @goldenboysgoldenhearts @artistaehyung @kiwitaes @yeontansstrongbrows @subtaelity @stigmz @shimmeringtaehyung @bangtostart @bunjunggukie @sftae

jungkook:

@fake1over @introsgf @rosegoldje0n @cherryhairkook @jeonsbaby @shroudofclouds @jeonnings

[minygscrybaby]

To put it simply, Seo Jong-gil is Voldemort but Laura Oh is Umbridge. So Bong and Young-hoon need to figure their lives out and maybe realise that my boy can always hold a separate identity that isn’t Shin’s placeholder, and that in reality, my boy is actually a deviant from Detroit Become Human and has real feelings and stuff. He’s a real boy like Pinocchio and all I want is for his happiness. Grandpa and David are the true OGs of this series, they know what the fuck is up. Stay woke, you two. So, simply put, run Jong-gil over with the M car, and Laura is the most selfish, ugly human being on that show. I can understand the whole motherly love part, but that’s ya whole “son” too, boo boo despite you not treating him like it. I don’t give a fuck. You wild and it’s time to pipe down. I hope my sweet new son finds your kill switch, destroys it in front of your eyes and does what the fuck he wants to do because you betrayed him you bitch. We got grandpa, Young-hoon, So Bong, and David on our side. If you ain’t with us, you against us and whatever happens in retaliation sounds like a you problem. You and Jong-gil can both take this fat ass L. I don’t give a fuck. In closing, may Shin be able to form his whole separate identity and go through life doing things the way he wants to without Laura Oh fucking everything up like she seems to be the queen of doing. May she end up lonely and miserable while my son is out here living his best life.

[minygscrybaby]

Tea about K-Pop Toxicity

It might just be me y’all, but I can’t really be the only one thinking the k-pop community is one of some straight toxicity. Everyone is out here showing their ass and wildin’ in these k-pop streets and I’m just not here for the fuckery. Apparently, //TW// Mino’s a p*dophile, Hobi got a death threat, BTS got mobbed at an airport. Listen y’all. I came for the bops and to give my love, affection, and support to a couple boys in exchange for their said bops. Not for all this toxic shit that a higher percentage than necessary likes to shove down ya girl’s throat and deep throating ain’t so easy on me and my gag reflex. So, while y’all continue to be wild, I’m gonna sit here, drink my boba tea, listen to my boys, and look at cute photos of them because that is literally all I’m here for. If y’all want to continue dragging Mino or Winner or if some heavy shit goes down, just put a tag or a TW on it of some sort so I can continue down my dash without feeling like I worked a twelve hour shift. It’s tiring. It ain’t healthy. It’s burned me out. Ya girl is stressed the fuck out about shit that doesn’t hold any impact on my real life but it feels just as ultimately suffocating. It shouldn’t have to feel like this. People should be allowed to casually enjoy BTS without having to stream. Y’all don’t need to be so heavily worked up about losing to EXO. Y’all deadass act like they mean mug each other on sight at award shows. I don’t know what the fuck is going on with Mino. But I’m on a hiatus from WINNER and MOBB because it’s honestly just too much for me. BigHit, ramp up your security. There are more people than you realise in your fan base that would let a crazed fan catch their hands if they got within 5, 10 steps of any member. Myself included. We got five planets in retrograde and I am just not about involving myself in any of the fuckery that ensues while it’s still in retrograde and even when it isn’t. If anybody feels similar to this. I understand that feeling. Just do what is necessary to take care of yourself. If that’s taking a break from the k-pop community, so be it. You never have to place anyone above you. Take a nap, breathe deep, eat something, drink a glass of water, take a bath, cry, listen to music, draw, write, look at pictures of your bias, do whatever it is that is healthy and will help you recharge. As has been said to me before, you can be a supporter, you can be an advocate, but you don’t have to be a martyr. You don’t have to pour all of your energy and sanity into this community. Love myself, love yourself, ARMY, EXO-L, iKONICS, Carats, AHORA, NCTZENS, Monbebes, and any and all other k-pop stans.