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lily-s-world · 1 year
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Disney really loves to spit out "we care about representation" but when it comes for them to actually do something they fail miserably.
Ariel and Tinkerbell where great castings to add diversity to movies where all the main characters where caucasian. I'll give them that.
But why on earth do they need to ignore the representation that has been there just for that racism and fear of casting a dark skinned actress??
Nani was portrayed as dark skinned Hawaiian, and the actress (I will never go against her, this is full Disney fault) is clearly not that.
The same thing happened when they casted Xochitl Gomez as America Chaves, completely disrespecting the dark skin of the character.
As I say, is nothing against the actresses that portray these characters, they obviously got the role for a reason. I'm really mad cause this exclusion of dark skinned characters by big Hollywood companies is ridiculous. You can't call yourself a company that cares for representation when your are clearly excluding the same people you try to represent.
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youngjusticeslut · 2 years
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Hi Ariel! I hope you're ok! I just wanted to mention something. I've seen talk online of unsubscribing from HBO Max - and I think I saw that you mentioned this too - because that would be a form of protest against the current regime. However, I really really want to put it out there that cancelling HBO Max subscriptions and not streaming YJ on there hurts the royalties for those who worked on YJ, and also goes against Greg's KeepBingingYJ advice. This is something that I think needs to be said!
Hi Paul! I'm doing alright, I hope you're doing well yourself 😁
What you're saying does have a valid point. However, a couple of notes: with streaming services, cast and crew don't really make royalties-- not like they did on Live TV. This is a big way that streaming services fuck over actors, writers, directors, etc. They're usually paid a flat rate for their work, and the only ones who make any money after the fact are the streaming companies. This, obviously, is bad.
Yes, cancelling your subscription goes against the KeepBingingYJ advice. But look at it this way-- YJ was one of the top-binged shows week after week, and HBO Max/WB still didn't see/feel a need to renew it. At this point, I'm tired of giving money to a service that butchers animated shows and disrespects them at every turn-- and this goes beyond YJ, who got the good end of the stick when compared to shows like Infinity Train.
So, at the end of the day, do what you feel is morally right. I am not the moral compass of anyone, I'm just not comfortable supporting HBO Max (and by extension, watching YJ on their platform) until they seriously reform. I also don't wish to give money to a streaming service that is actively taking measures to reduce minority voices, and who only view me as a demographic. I feel like there's a stronger message in withholding your money from a streaming service rather than blindly continuing to pay them and watching a show in the slim hopes that maybe, just maybe, they'll renew. Maybe they'll renew and then 3/4 the way through production, cancel it like they did Batgirl. Or worse, refuse to air the completed season, like they did for Summer Camp Island. No thanks 💅🏼 I'll watch YJ through other means until HBO Max shapes up (if they ever do).
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Can’t any responsibility be put on Alex? Like okay Louise is very desperate but that’s totally a reflection of low self esteem. Isn’t Alex taking advantage of that? Can’t it be possible that he is the bad guy here? Because regardless of his past relationships he is the common denominator. Even when he respected his girlfriends a little bit more, he would still blindside them by dumping them. With Ariel he even tried to get back with her even after dumping her. Obviously it’s her claim but it’s not that hard believe because in every relationship after Alexa, he doesn’t seem to compromise and likes to dwell on the past. But it’s a lose-lose situation. Either they drop their individual lives and get consumed by his inner circle or he gets cold feet/bored and dumps them but goes back and forth if they allow it. To Ariel’s credit (if true) she put a boundary and didn’t allow him to disrespect her. The expectation of the devotion to be at arms length distance when he expects it yet not be too devoted to ever expect any commitment in return is also plain insane on his part. The fact they give him any devotion while he supplies nothing but materialism shows how devoid he is of truly connecting with them. There is no reason other person to blame but Alex.
I recommend you read a bit back here before accusing us of not giving any responsibility to Alex. That's really not what this blog is about. We've been over all of this. Yes, Alex is responsible BUT all his girlfriends stay no matter what. That's on them!
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airasora · 3 years
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Ok, so, this is something I've low-key wanted to openly discuss for a few years, but I've been hesitant to cause people can get really defensive or offensive when it comes to subjects like these. But this was something I discussed in depth about with one of my many psychology teachers.
She, like me, loved to explain psychology through movies. Anything from movies based on real life like Die Welle to, you guessed it, animated children's movies.
She was a social and developmental psychlogy geek like I was, so we'd often have discussions about Disney movies. And there's one movie in particular we talked a lot about.
The Little Mermaid.
Obviously, I can't repeat every single thing she said (though what a treat it would be to have someone who's studied psychology for 20 years to go in depth about a Disney movie) I want to talk about the part of TLM we talked the most about.
Triton.
My teacher, with zero hesitation, called Triton abusive. Me, being a teenager and less hesitant to throw such harsh words at anything, asked her what she meant.
Keep in mind that I'm repeating what she told me to the best of my memory.
It was important for my psychology teacher that I understood through this discussion than people can be abusive or toxic despite good intentions. Triton has good intentions, he fears for his daughter's life. We're never explained WHY he thinks that (not in the original movie anyway) but that is his intention.
But intentions don't matter when the way you convey them is toxic.
A common way for abusers to manipulate their victims to act the way they want them to is to devalue their opinions. From the beginning Triton dismisses Ariel completely. He's unwilling to listen to her and, despite his intentions being good, that really isn't how you should communicate with someone you love. Especially not your child whom you already have implied authority over.
Being told that your opinions, that your passions, are bad or stupid is a good way to slowly break down someone's self-esteem. You're slowly convincing someone that they don't know what's good or right, so they have to turn to you whenever making a decision. If that type of abuse continues, the victim can be broken to such a degree that they can't function without their abuser.
It's called gaslightning. Gaslightning is when the abuser starts to question the memory, sanity or even intelligence of their victim to such an extend that they start to doubt their own memory, sanity and intelligence.
When Triton destroys Ariel's collection, things she has collected probably since she was a kid, he disrespects not just her property, but her as a person. People like to make fun of Ariel because her hurdle to overcome is that her daddy is mean and doesn't want her to date the hot human boy. But that just shows how poorly some people interpreted the movie.
Ariel is so passionate about the human world that Eric is just another part of it. From the beginning, the movie bangs our head with it.
She misses the concert because of it, she goes out of her way to get Scuttle to tell her more about the human world, she has a huge collection HIDDEN in a cave, she's willing to risk her life (as her father claims she is) just to get more glimpses. Her entire "I want" song is about the human world and it's BEFORE she meets Eric.
And when she does become human, she's amazed by her legs, she's playful with the bubbles, she's bending behind the horse carriage to look at the street, she is gawkind at the chickens, she goes to the puppets, she wants to dance because she sees other people dance, she rides the horse so happily.
People completely forget that Ariel was obsessed with the human world WAY before she even saw Eric. And that is such a disservice to the movie. Ariel falls in love and immediately nothing else matters but that. People reduce her to some stupid love-smitten child when in reality, Eric was just another part of the world she so desperately wants to be a part of.
And it's not her love for Eric that makes her go to Ursula. No. It's when her father destroys the cave. He destroys her one and only passion, he destroys years of effort, he destroys a part of HER. And that's why so many children grew up loving and looking up to Ariel; because they can relate to her.
Most people have experienced loving something that most people just didn't understand or even bullied them for. And it's even worse when it's your parent. You parent is supposed to love and support you and Ariel never got that from her father. Him destroying her collection is the last drop. She has no reason to stay, she doesn't feel loved, she doesn't feel supported, Triton is literally the one who pushes her away.
And you know what? The movie actually DOES show him feeling remorse. After he destroys the collection and he sees Ariel cry? He is sad. He realizes he's hurt her, but he still leaves her instead of consoling his child. And when Ariel has disappeared? He goes: "What have I done...?"
He REALIZES something that some people don't; that he was wrong. Is Ariel perfect? No, but to dismiss her entire character as some air-headed idiot who left her family behind for some hot dude she saw once is horribly unfair.
Remove Eric from the story. And let's say Triton finds out about her cave for a different reason, and he still destroys it. Do you really think that Ariel wouldn't leap at the opportunity to get away from a person who treats her so horribly? Love interest or not?
And that's the thing, removing Eric from the story wouldn't make that big a difference. Or, hell, having him showing up AFTER Ariel has become human, would still have resulted in the same first act.
Eric wasn't what made Ariel leave her father, her FATHER was.
Imagine yourself as a child or teenager. Imagine whatever your hobby may have been. Now imagine your parent(s) telling you you can't love something, no matter the reason.
You're a boy, you mustn't love ballet, it's for girls.
Why do you keep drawing? It's a waste of time, and you can't make a living out of it.
There's a million stories about this exact set-up for a child loving something their parents disapprove of, and every single movie with that subject has the parent realizing their mistake. THAT'S the goddamn message; to let your child follow their passions.
"But Triton thinks Ariel is gonna get killed, so it's ok!"
Sure... but that collection wasn't gonna get her killed. Look how much she collected, she's still fine. Destroying her collection doesn't stop Ariel from loving the human world, it only serves to make her resent her father.
"Triton didn't think of that when he destroyed the cave!"
So? His intentions means squat. He STILL destroyed the cave, he still destroyed something that belonged to his child, something she loved.
Intentions mean nothing if the behavior is abusive. It's an evil circle if you keep defending abuse by claiming good intentions.
I don't necessarily agree with every argument my psychology teacher made. And given that it's a Disney movie, it's limited in depth with this type of abuse. And Triton is by no means the most "abusive" character in Disney history, not by a long shot.
But my pshychology professor said, and this time I quote, cause this in particular stood out to me so much that I remember what she said so vividly.
"Triton is one of the examples of abuse in a Disney movie that no one wants to admit to. People defend him, saying that his good intentions means he can't be abusive. Everyone can be abusive, even the best people, as long as they convince themselves they have a good reason. That doesn't make abuse any less abuse."
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emilyofjane · 3 years
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Why the Disney Princesses definitely need therapy: a Hot Take
Snow White
Losing her parents as a child and having to learn to take care of herself at a very young age (Snow White is 14 in the movie, and judging by her work ethic, she appears to at least have some experience with living independently before moving in with the 7 dwarves)
Lack of socialization due to isolation
Depression due to isolation and loneliness. This makes the whole “Someday My Prince Will Come” thing much more believable, because Snow White really isn’t in any sort of immediate danger and doesn’t need “saving” or whatever; she’s just tired of being alone and wants human companionship. (And tbh who can blame her? The poor girl’s literally talking to birds and moved in with the first group of humanoid creatures she could find ffs)
This one’s a bit of a stretch, but I’m pretty sure Snow White would also have an unhealthy fear of strangers and/or an irrational fear of being poisoned after the whole apple fiasco
Cinderella
Being raised in an abusive home environment for most (if not virtually all) of her life
The complete lack of positive social interaction throughout her life has probably led to problems with social withdrawal and isolation at some point, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she has repressed symptoms of chronic depression due to loneliness.
Her closest emotional confidants are literally two talking mice, and that just screams “My only friends are animals because their love is unconditional I’ve been invalidated and unloved by every human being in my life” (aka extreme emotional neglect)
She probably has tons of questions about her biological parents that were never answerd because, again, her stepfamily hated her, which would obviously lead to some emotional baggage
If we consider Cinderella III: A Twist in Time to be the new canon, she definitely has some unresolved PTSD from her near-death experience (the “almost getting crushed to death in the carriage because it was transforming back into a pumpkin” scene)
Aurora
Existential crisis because the three fairy godmothers basically rewrote her entire identity as “Rose” and hid the fact that she was a princess
Never knowing who her real parents were as a child, leading to emotional baggage similar to that of Cinderella and Snow White mentioned above
Either the emotional burden of having to make up for 16+ years of lost time with her biological family, or the grief of losing her biological family without ever getting the chance to know them (idk whether Aurora actually got to meet her parents by the end of the movie or if they died before she woke up, because I don’t remember exactly how much time had passed while she was in the coma)
Speaking of the spindle prick-induced magical coma (which is a really long-winded and inefficient way to kill someone honestly, idk what Melificent was thinking), Aurora also has to deal with the emotional burden of how much time has passed while she was in a coma, which would only further feed into the existential crisis and emotional trauma in bullet points 1 and 3.
(Also, off the record, but Aurora’s entire life post-movie is just a hot fucking mess and she really deserves a second movie exploring that concept imo. I know that Sleeping Beauty has already gotten a live-action villain spinoff, but the story of Aurora herself really deserves to be reexamined under a modern lens also. Aurora is easily one of the most overlooked Disney princesses and tbh she deserves more love.)
Belle (feat. the expanded lore from the live-action movie)
Witnessing her mother die from the plague in their own home
Being forceed to move from the more culturally progressive city of Paris to the unnamed “poor provential town” in the movie, where she is clearly the odd one out and is subject to gender inequality on a daily basis (in the form of being publically shamed and socially ostacized for being an educated woman)
Being regularly sexually harassed by Gaston, which is further exacerbated by the villagers and their close-mindedness. Not only is Gaston’s behavior enabled and encouraged by the villagers, but they even go so far as to idolize Gaston — as shown during his namesake song — despite his obviously predatory actions, simply because he is a cishet white man that they find conventionally attractive
Watching her father get arrested despite being 100% innocent...TWICE
Also being arrested when her father is wrongly convicted a second time, by none other than her abuser
Watching her lover — who besides her parents was the first person in her life who truly loved her and respected her intellect despite being a woman — nearly die in her arms, as well as everyone else in the castle (who ALSO respected her regardless of her gender) nearly die at the same exact time.
...And you know, Stockholm Syndrome or whatever. (But tbh, given how everyone in the castle was very kind and respectful and how the Beast was a tsundere at best, Belle would probably suffer far more from PTSD brought upon by Gaston and her previous environment than from “Stockholm Syndrome” in a castle where everyone actually treated her like a normal fucking human being. Unpopular opinion I know but as a sexual assault survivor this is literally a hill I will die on.)
Jasmine
I’ve actually never watched Aladdin all the way through, so unfortunately I can’t give a full analysis of Jasmine’s conflicts...but I have seen that gif of her saying “I am not a prize to be won” and that just screams “I’ve suffered a lifetime of female objectification and gender inequality despite my social status, and not even in the highest position of authority possible am I allowed to have a voice” and idk about you but that is really fucked up man
Ariel
PTSD from being manipulated by Ursula to give up her voice and nearly losing everything (both her previous life in the ocean and the promise of a new life on land with her love interest) because of it
Near-death experience from *vague hand gesture to whatever the fuck that was at the end of the movie*
Inevitable depression from abandoning the only home she’s ever known (the ocean) and leaving her friends and family behind
She’ll probably also need some form of behavioral therapy to help her adjust to her new home on land, whose culture is still extremely foreign to her — and maybe even additional therapy for social anxiety, given how her first 3 days of human interaction were so mortifyingly embarrassing that she’ll probably be laying wide awake at 3 AM and thinking “oh my god I can’t believe I looked Eric’s parents dead in the eyes and brushed my hair with a dinner fork” for the next 10 years.
Tiana
PTSD from literally being turned into a frog
Overworking herself to the point of near burnout, and being unable to fully live out her prime adult years because of said burnout
Constantly dealing with shitty customers, bosses, and other white-collared people disrespecting her and treating her as subhuman because of her career choice, which is unfortunately a common shared experience among restaurant workers and those who work hourly wages
Since this movie takes place in the United States presumably before the 1960’s, it’s probably safe to assume that Tiana also probably had to deal with segregation, Jim Crow laws, and other forms of racism off-screen on a daily basis, which would obviously take a toll on her mental well-being and further exacerbate the issues mentioned in #3
Grief from losing her dad, which has likely been repressed due to her workaholic tendencies denying her the ability to properly take the time to mourn
I don’t even know what to categorize the whole witch doctor shenanigans as, I just know that she and Naveen are both going to need some SERIOUS therapy after going through all that shit
Rapunzel
Being raised in an emotionally abusive and controlling environment for her entire life
Being completely isolated for 18 years with no social interaction whatsoever with anyone except her own abuser
Existential/identity crisis from discovering that she’s actually a princess, that her “mom” was actually the one who kidnapped her as a baby and tried to cut her hair, and that everything she knew about herself and the world she lived in was essentially a lie to keep her obedient to Gothel
Near-death experience (the drowning scene)
Internalized fear and mistrust in strangers — and quite possibly in people in general — due to Gothel’s lifelong warnings that people in the outside world would only want to take advantage of her
Watching the woman who raised her MERCILESSLY STAB THE ONLY OTHER PERSON SHE EVER KNEW AND LOVED IN THE GODDAMN CHEST
Watching the woman who raised her LITERALLY CRUMBLE TO DUST IN FRONT OF HER VERY EYES
WATCHING FLYNN, THE ONLY OTHER PERSON SHE EVER KNEW AND LOVED BESIDES HER GODDAMN ABUSER, FUCKING DIE RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER before she miraculously healed him
Because Flynn’s revival was such an uncanny revival that not even Rapunzel knew how she did it, she obviously thought he was gone for good...and since Gothel was gone also, there must’ve been at least a split second before she healed Flynn where, for the first time in her entire life, she was completely and utterly alone. That alone deserves to be a bullet point because holy shit
I’m not even going to get into Tangled: the Series man this list is getting too long as it is
Elsa
Losing her parents at a young age
Abandonment and isolation issues (mostly self-inflicted due to her own fear of hurting others, see #3)
Internalized fear and self-doubt of her powers — and, by extension, fear and self-doubt in herself
Guilt from nearly plunging Arendelle into an eternal winter
Guilt from almost losing her sister (twice!) due to her own direct actions
(Coinciding with #3) Guilt from isolating herself from her sister to protect her, only to nearly get her killed by the very thing she was trying to protect her from
Anxiety. Just lots and lots of general anxiety.
(Omitting Frozen 2 for Elsa because I haven’t seen it yet and this list is getting too long)
Anna
Also losing her parents at a young age
Abandonment and isolation issues, but hers are moreso due to Elsa “shutting her out” as a kid and having no one else her age in the castle to interact with
Lack of socialization in general for much of her childhood, as well as any social anxieties/lack of social knowledge and etiquette/etc. that would come with it
Abusive relationship with Hans (I know it was only one day, but holy fuck that was a trainwreck. What Hans did to Anna is a literal breeding ground for PTSD and trauma)
Coming to terms with the fact that the trolls fucking erased her memories of Elsa having ice powers and that Elsa isolated herself to protect her (and not, you know, because she hated her or something)
Leftover guilt from holding a grudge against Elsa for most of her childhood for shutting her out, because NO ONE BOTHERED TO TELL HER THAT IT WAS FOR HER OWN GOOD and she never knew why
Basically Anna and Elsa both need joint therapy or family counseling or something because holy shit their parents did NOT handle this situation properly AT ALL
(Also omitting Frozen 2 for Anna because I haven’t seen it and this list is also getting too long)
Moana
Surprisingly, Moana’s movie was relatively tame — in fact, because her tribe returned to voyaging and she is now exploring the seas/following her passion, these events were arguably beneficial to Moana’s mental health rather than detrimental. The only emotional baggage I can really imagine Moana having post-movie is leftover grief from her grandma dying and maybe the stress of having to put up with Maui’s shit
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drariellevalentine · 3 years
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Medically Inevitable
Chapter 13- Surprising Scenerio
Characters:- Arielle Valentine, Ethan Ramsey, Liam Mercado, Ava Day, Sienna Trinh, Elijah Greene, Bryce Lahela, Danny Cardinal
Pairing:- Ethan Ramsey x Arielle Valentine
Warnings:- Slight angst, PTSD
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Arielle’s PoV:-
You’re woke up by a loud thud sound. “Huh!” You sit up and rub your eyes until they adjust to the very little sunlight streaming from the windows.
“Well look who’s up!” You would know this voice anywhere. Looking around, memories of last night slowly recollect in your head when you spot her.
“Ava!” You’re one step away from engulfing her in a bear hug when you remember she’s pregnant.
“So I see Liam’s let the cat out of the bag, huh?”, she laughs as she wraps you carefully in a hug. “You of all people should know it’s safe to hug pregnant women.”
You snort out of laughter. “Says the woman who has an MD in gynaecology.”, you retort. Both of you giggle. “Oh, it’s sooo good to see you Ava! It’s been so long! Way too long that you didn’t tell me one, you’re engaged and two, you’re pregnant!”
“I see the two of you have gotten acquainted already.” Both of you give him a look.
“Need I remind you that Arielle was the one who introduced us? We were best friends way back.”, Ava says.
“Ok, I get the point. It’s obviously not a fight I’m going to win with my fiancée and my childhood best friend against me!”, he says raising his hand in mock surrender as he heads inside.
“We need to catch up sometime! I would love to right now but I have work in about…”, you scan the room for a clock, “...an hour. Shit, an hour! I have to go!”, you say.
“Residency’s kicking your ass, isn’t it? Don’t worry, it’s kicking mine too!”, she replies.
“Anyways, what are you doing here in Boston? I asked Liam but he was all”- You gesture your hands wildly.
She laughs. “I’ll tell you, on one condition.”
“What?”
“Brunch.”
“I have work.” You give her a look as she rolls her eyes. “I see pregnancy hasn’t changed your personality one bit.”, you joke.
“I meant later this week, what do you say?”
You smirk, “I’ll have to check my schedule.”
“You’re not the only one who’s an intern, you know that right?”
“I know! I’ll call you, I promise!”, you say as you gather your things.
“In one month or two?”, she pokes.
“Okay, that’s just unfair. It was one time!”, you retort as you slip on your shoes.
“Where are you going already?” You turn around to see Liam dressed in work attire.
“She has work in an hour. Don’t worry, I made her promise to meet us for brunch later.”, Ava says.
“In a year or two?”, Mark asks sarcastically.
“Ughhh…. not you too!” All three of you laugh.
“Did you even eat anything?”, Liam asks.
“Nope, I’ll get something on the way.”, you reply.
“Nuh uh, sit your ass down. I’ll make you a breakfast bagel.”, Liam says.
“But”-
“Nope, you’re eating or else I’m not giving you your car keys.” You turn around to see your rose gold car keys dangling from Ava’s finger.
“Hey! I’m late for work and my boss is going to kill me!”, you say as a certain someone crosses your mind.
“Ooh! Who’s your boss?! ….is he hot?”, Ava asks with a smirk. You feel a slight blush settling on your cheeks.
“Ava! I’m right here!”
“Oh please, we’ve already established that you’re the only man in my life. Well maybe one of two…”, Ava says as she gestures to her stomach.
“Okay, now sit down, Arielle. I know you can’t resist my breakfast bagels. And I’m sure you need an aspirin for that hangover….”
One delicious bagel later, you’re in the locker room at Edenbrook with Sienna, Bryce and Elijah.
“So where’d you run off to yesterday?”, Elijah asks.
“Wait, she didn’t go back with you guys?”, Bryce asks.
“Nope!”, Sienna replies.
“I stayed at Liam’s house last night, and no Bryce.”, you respond as you grab your towel and shower gel.
“No to what? I didn’t even ask a question!”, Bryce asks.
“Exactly, keep your mouth shut.”, you reply while slipping into the shower. After pulling on a pair of scrubs, you head towards the nurses’ station.
“Hey Arielle, here for the PITA’s tests?”, Danny asks.
“Huh? Who’s PITA?”, you ask.
“PITA is a name the nurses gave Mr. Platt. It stands for pain in the ass.”, he says as she laughs.
You groan. “Ugh, you’re right about that. That man just loves to call my credentials in question! If he wasn’t a patient, I would just”-
“Woah, woah, woah. Take a chill pill. Heard that Dr. Ramsey assigned you this case, wouldn’t want to blow it if I were you.”, he says as he hands you the tests.
“God, nurses are like spies these days. They seem to know everything!”
You look through the test results as you walk up to Mr. Platt’s room.
“Damnit! These are negative too! Ughhhh…”
You take a deep breath before entering Nigel's room. You fake a smile as you enter.
"Good morning Mr.Pl-" you start to say as nicely as possible before he interrupts.
"Know what's wrong with me?" He asks angrily.
"No, not yet," you say sympathetically, " You recent tests came back negative as well."
"This is absurd," he burps, " I’m calling consumer affairs. I'll have you demoted before you can blink!”, he rudely barks at you. Your anger is starting to flare.
“Keep your cool, Arielle. He’s still a patient.”, you say to yourself.
"Why don't you get some rest while I figure out how to help you, Mr. Platt?" You reply as nicely as you can.
"Why don't you send someone worth listening to?", he says. The utter disrespect in his voice makes you want to sock him in the jaw. But instead, gritting your teeth you walk out of the room.
"Turn the A/C down while you are at it, will you?" He calls out from behind but you decide not to shout back, your hands curling into fists.
You make your way towards Dr. Ramsey's office. Your steps are slow and unsure as you question your abilities.
“Maybe father was right? After all, he always believed I wouldn’t be able to help people, at least in this way.”
You shake your head, as a futile attempt to throw the self-doubts outside your head. Bad memories surface, past fights and conversations arise. Words repeat again and again until you find it hard to breathe.
“Damn it!” Taking a few deep breaths to center yourself, you continue to his office.
“Come on, Arielle. You are capable of anything. You’ve come this far. What’s one patient?”, you try and convince yourself. That's when you spot Ethan. Anger boils up inside you, seeing his nonchalant face look over charts, assigning you this case for “a reason”? And when you ask, “figure it out”! What the hell does that mean?! You need answers, everything else can wait.
So you run up to him. "Dr. Ramsey, we need to talk!”, you voice louder than you expected.
“Yes?”, he asks with a questioning look, surprisingly ignoring your raised voice.
You steel yourself. “Mr. Platt is rude, belligerent and always questioning my credits. I would like to be taken off of this case.”
He looks at you for a second, straight in your eyes and says, “No.”
You’re taken aback, completely forgetting that you’re talking to your boss. “What?!”, you gawk.
“No. What part of that did you not understand?” Without waiting for your reply, he swiftly steps into his office and closes the door in your face. The anger gets to you, and against all common sense you pull open the the door and storm into his office. Ethan’s face betrays him, portraying his imminent shock.
“What do you think you’re doing?!”
“I’m trying to know why you’ve assigned me this case!”, you say a little loudly.
“I already told you to figure it out.”, he says coldly.
“Well I tried but the only reason I came up with is that it’s a joke.”, you say completely burnt out.
His face turns deadly serious. “Do I look like someone who uses patients as a joke?”
“Well I don’t know! It feels like you’re punishing me!”
His face is slightly red as he suddenly gets up, his chair tumbling down to the floor. “And why would I punish you, for God’s sake?”, he asks as he takes long strides towards you.
“I don’t know, maybe because you enjoy it!!”, you shout completely out of your mind.
"You need to keep your personal feelings sperate from your professional life, Dr. Valentine." He shouts, hurting you more.
He doesn't even let you say anything, " I'd think very carefully before you say something to embarrass yourself even more." He slams his hand on his desk.
You can feel tears welling in your eyes, you close your eyes for a second in a attempt to make them stay there.
"Would I be saying anything that wasn't true?" Anger can be still hinted in your voice. "You told me you have me that awful patient for a reason! But you won't tell me what the reason is! You won't even take me off the case! Why?"
"Because I assigned you to the case to challenge you! To push you!" His voice bellows.
"To push me?" You let out a humorless laugh. " To push me to what?" You shout.
"To be the best doctor you can be."
"I selected you for a reason. I selected you because I saw something special in your application."
All the wind is knocked out of you. Shock and embarrassment taking your anger‘s place." Wait… you selected me?"
"Yes. It was my evaluation that got you matched here. I believed I saw someone who could be truly great," he says his voice filled with disappoinment.
"It's very rare that I am wrong, Rookie. But I'm willing to admit when I am," he paused," And I was wrong about you.”
“I was wrong about you…”, the phrase triggers something in your mind, it being played on a loop inside your head.
The words are like acid poured on you, making memories surface, memories which you buried deep inside you a long time ago.
Your father’s voice takes over your mind. “I thought you were mature, and understood the importance of what I’m talking about! Turns out, you are just a disgrace to this family. I had such high hopes for you, but I was wrong about you. Don’t ever tell anybody that you’re apart of this family, you’ll bring nothing but shame and bad luck to this family. After all, ever since you were born everything went downhill…” The words your father spoke, each feeling like a knife embedded deep inside your heart, are playing in your head again and again. You shout, not being able to take it anymore.
Ethan’s PoV:-
Seething, you look to your side seeing the young resident gasp as she takes in the shocking information you just relayed. You’re about to shout again when instead you turn around, pinching the bridge of your nose and sigh. You turn around, ready to reprimand her when you notice her pale face. She’s on her knees, hands around herself in a protective way and having a difficult time to breathe.
“Fuck!” You bound towards her calling her name but she doesn’t hear you. Her small whispers turn into agonised shouts.
“No, no, no, no! Stop! Please, no!”
You sink down to your knees and try to calm her down. “Arielle, look at me…Arielle!” She finally looks up, violet eyes wide and breath ragged.
“Listen to me. To my voice. I want you to take a deep breath, five times.” She nods and tries to take a breath.
“That’s it. In and out, five times.” Her breathing and heart rate start to normalise when you notice your pulse racing. As she collects herself, your mind puts the pieces together. You lead her to the small loveseat in your office and hand her a bottle of water.
“...you’re suffering from PTSD, aren’t you?”, you ask.
“I was. My last attack was 4 years back.”, she replies softly, the usual melodic tone of her voice completely gone without a trace.
“4 years? Then why”-
“My last attack was when I had gotten a really bad score on one of my midterms because I was sick. Luckily, my professor allowed me to retake the test though. The attacks started after the big fight with my father. Sometimes I would feel like whatever my father said was right or sometimes events would instigate it but they haven’t happened for a while.”
“So why suddenly now?”, you ask.
”I’ve just been feeling a little unsure of myself, with the fellowship competition and Naveen… All the tension probably just built up…”
You nod. “Residency can be stressful, especially the first year.” Suddenly she looks around and abruptly gets up. You realise you’ve been holding her.
“Uh, I should get going. My lunch break is almost over.”
“You should.” You walk towards your desk to pick up another one of Naveen’s tests when suddenly Arielle swivels around, almost colliding with you.
“Sorry! I didn’t know you were behind me…” She stutters. “Um…uh I just wanted to uh.. thank you. So, thank you, Dr. Ramsey.” You look down, her violet irises cauciously peering into yours. Her face slightly tilts upward as her perfectly pink lips slighly apart. You stare at her eyes, like inevitable magnets, attracting you even closer when her pager suddenly beeps, pulling both of you back into reality.
Her eyes widen as her cheeks turn a shade of pink. She says something extremely rapid which you can’t make out as she rushes out the door. You slump down in your desk chair, raking a hand through your hair.
“Damn it…”
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Authors’ Note:- Hey everyone! So, you guys are going to hate us even more cause guess what?! We’re going on a two-week break! Aurora has exams and I just finished mine (well, I when I post this I would have) and we found it convenient cause it’s a cliffhanger...of a sort. But don’t worry, we will be posting Character Moodboards and Aesthetics for all the characters and pairings instead for the next two weeks so stay tuned for that!
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The New Heiress Chapter 2, Part 3
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“Food’s ready, kiddos!”
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“Dad said he’s working late tonight, so it’s just us for dinner.”
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“Thanks for the food, mom.”
“Haha, very funny, Hal. Once I go back to campus, you two will need to learn to cook on your own.”
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“Uuuuuh, this is burnt, Miranda!”
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“It’s not that bad, Ariel. But I’ll cook it better next time.”
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“Shut up, Hal.”
“What? I’m not even saying anything here!”
“You’re doing that annoying smirk that you do. Stop it.”
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“I’m so happy to see you in the office again, Kent. I know it’s more important for you to look after your father these days, but I really missed you.”
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“I’m very happy to be back too, Al. I missed you too. And I’ve been feeling so guilty for leaving all the work to you. I’m so grateful for all that you do to keep the business afloat.”
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“Ah, well, of course I’ll do everything to keep it running smoothly, just as your father said. And it’s a common thing that happens in the workplace, you know. When employees get sick or get pregnant so they take weeks or months off, so their work is given to their co-workers. So some days you work more, some days your work less.”
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“And I appreciate you so much. Thankfully, now that Hermia is on her term break, she’s told me that she’ll look after Father, which means I’m free to go back to work. I just can’t trust some stranger to look after him, you know?”
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“Yes, it’s much better if he’s surrounded by family. Sick people are much livelier and happier if they’re surrounded by family.”
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But you know, I can take double or triple the workload if it means I get to see you every day...”
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“...and touch you...”
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“...hold you at night...”
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“...and--”
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“Yes, yes, I get the message. Here you go again with your flattery and flowery words...”
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“But you like it.”
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“And how do you know that?”
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“I know a lot of things that you like...”
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“We should finish our dinner.”
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“But before we do, there’s something I’d like to ask you first... and I’m still nervous even though it isn’t my first time to do this...”
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“Kent, I’ve been waiting for the right time. We’ve been really busy, you had to prioritize your father, and I, my children, so I held off for so long... but I feel so ready now. And I hope you are too.”
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“I love you, Kent. I don’t say it all the time, but I hope that as I say it now, you will know that it’s sincere... so, please, marry me.”
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“.................”
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“And? Yes, or no? Or what?”
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“Can we... before I give my answer... you know, ask the children first? Because they’re involved too... if we get married, it’s not just going to be the two of us. And even if I say yes, and they don’t approve, then it’d be useless, won’t it?”
“Why... of course. God, I though you were going to turn me down for sure.”
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“Okay, everyone... we have an announcement to make.”
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“Who’s ‘we’?”
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“It’s obviously Daddy and Uncle Kent, Miranda.”
“Yeah, yeah, Ariel. Of course I know that.”
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“Yes, well, you know that Uncle Kent and I have been together for quite some time now...”
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“Oh yes, and now you two want to get married.”
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“...right. And we want to know if you all approve before we make it final.”
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“Are you sure about this, Uncle Kent? Do you really want to marry our dad? I mean, look at his wrinkles. You don’t want to marry someone younger and more handsome?”
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“Hey. Just because you’re an adult now doesn’t mean you get to disrespect me, Miranda.”
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“Just teasing you, Dad. I was testing to see if you’d lose your temper in front of Uncle Kent, ‘cause you need to know that before you marry someone, ya know?”
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“It’s okay, Miranda. Your dad’s age does not matter to me. And I’ve already seen his temper too. I can say I know him well already.”
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“D’awwww. Well in that case, it’s fine by me if you get hitched.”
“Do I get to be flower girl, Daddy?”
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“Of course, my darling Ariel. You can be anything you want to be. How about the others, no objections? Hermia?”
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“Oh, no. I’m very happy for you two! And it would be wonderful to have a wedding soon.”
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“Thank you, Hermia. Hal? Desdemona?”
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“Yes, Dad, it’s fine with me too.”
“Yeah, it’s cool, I guess.”
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“Thank you, my dears. Uncle Kent and I are so delighted to have your blessing.”
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“You’re welcome! Now please don’t be gross in front of us.”
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“So now that we’ve got their blessing, do I get an answer?”
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“Yes, Albany...”
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“I’ll marry you.”
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Instagram whistleblowers reveal California College Republican hate speech in chatroom
Screenshots from a Discord server attributed to a statewide California College Republicans (CCR) chat exposed misogynistic, racist, antisemitic comments and threats of violence from various CCR members, including members from Cal Poly Pomona’s chapter.
A fallout within California’s collegiate Republican Party due to differing opinions caused CCR chapters to de-charter and form a new organization in 2019, the California Federation of College Republicans (CFCR). The split came after CCR published a 10-page platform that attacked university funding of birth control and abortion, the legitimizing of transgender people, and institutional support of Mexican and Muslim student organizations. The extremist platform claimed that members of the LGBT+ community were “murderous and degenerate.”
This bled into CPP’s own College Republicans and in Spring 2020, Aaron Santana Ruiz, president of CPP’s College Republicans switched the campus’ charter from the CFCR to CCR.
Instagram user, “abusiveccr,” who wished to remain anonymous for fear of retaliation, reached out to The Poly Post on Feb. 4 with screenshots of messages including two accounts alleged to belong to Santana-Ruiz and fourth-year chemical engineering student, Baron Boghosian.
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Many of the user “Boghosian’s” posts include selfies of Baron Boghosian.
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The same account, under a revised name “Big Gorilla”, also posted a video with the accompanying comment, “watch this you Jews” to the Discord server.
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The video shows Baron Boghosian and others driving around during Halloween 2020, including on the empty CPP campus, shouting statements supportive of former President Donald Trump and ending with the group eating pizza.
On Nov. 6, 2020, the same account, posted numerous comments inciting violence.
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According to the CPP Republicans code of conduct, “Grounds for removal and/or suspension of an organization member(s) are appropriate if and only if student behavior is not consistent with the California Polytechnic University of Pomona student conduct and discipline code.”
When asked why more reports had not been made, user “disenchantedccrmember” said, “I don’t think anything through CCR would happen just because most of these guys are in their minds, at least, all on the same side. They all share similar beliefs. They don’t like Jews. They don’t like people of color. They think women need to just be at home in the kitchen, so I think if any sort of action was to come, it would come through the schools. Probably through a mission of conduct at the very least…People who have brought up concerns have either been kicked out or they’re blacklisted, and they basically cannot climb up the ladders.”
User “abusiveccr” responded similarly.
“I do want to have a career in politics, and they wouldn’t like this … a lot of the people have connections with all the offices so that could spread.”
Instagram user “_alxlcastilo” commented under every photo “abusiveccr” posted.
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Alex Castillo, CPP student and alleged user of “_alxlcastilo”, did not respond to requests for comment.
CCR member, Stephen Miller, had multiple screenshots leaked with his name attached. Because of this, he reached out to user “abusiveccr”.
According to Miller, he was invited to join CCR by Loyola CCR president and CCR state chair, William Donahue.
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Miller said that many of the screenshots are old and, at his request, the individuals were “purged from the chat” by William Donahue. He added that even though the messages were his, the photos of the chats are “taken out of context.”
“I know that a lot of things were recently deleted on our discord because a lot of people were scared that their comments were getting leaked out,” Miller said. “People started talking about it, and then other people started running to delete certain messages that they were afraid could be construed the wrong way. Some of them, I wouldn’t blame them. They had no context and they were 100% wrong.”
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According to Miller, CCR holds individuals accountable and that a decision to remove someone from the Discord server depends “on the severity of the comments they made.”
“We try to be nonconfrontational and not hostile about it,” Miller said. “Often times you can tell when someone is joking about something. They wouldn’t joke about something that was serious, obviously.”
According to “abusiveccr”, on Nov. 10, the user “Boghosian” was removed from the server after disrespectful comments toward Arielle Spotswood, a student at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo and current co-chair of CCR.
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Spotswood did not respond to The Poly Post request for comment.
When asked for comment, Boghosian said he has “no connection with CCR at all,” and claimed to vote for the Democratic Party. He added that he never had a Discord account and the profile depicting his name, along with the chats, are “completely false and fraudulent.”
Additionally, sources say the account named “Chancellor Santana”, allegedly that of Santana Ruiz, frequently posted in Discord endorsing Nick Fuentes, a 22-year-old far-right podcaster known for pushing white nationalist and anti-Semitic views onto younger listeners. Followers of Fuentes and Patrick Casey, the leader of the United States neo-Nazi group American Identity Movement, are called “Groypers.”
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In January 2019, Fuentes compared the Holocaust to a “cookie baking operation.” According to Instagram user “disenchantedccrmember”, the icon next to Santana’s name is in reference to these statements. When reprimanded for the action, Santana Ruiz changed the image to a pizza.
User “disenchatedccrmember” added that they felt the need to create the whistleblower account to shed light on the controversy.
“We’ve reported them to even their advisor. We’ve reported to Michael Donahue … who is their advisor at Cal Poly Pomona and he said nothing, he’s done nothing,” said “disenchantedccrmember.”
Initially, Michael Donahue agreed to meet with The Poly Post, but on Feb. 10 rescinded the interview in an emailed statement.
“Due to your inquiry, I have investigated this matter with the concerned Cal Poly students and state organization. I have spoken with the Cal Poly Pomona College Republicans President, Aaron, and Baron, (who is in my senior design class at Cal Poly). As it stands, both Baron and Aaron have categorically denied these allegations. Furthermore, Baron is not a member of CPP College Republicans, nor is he a member of CCR,” Donahue stated, “I have found no evidence to support the claims that you have purported. As you know, anyone can change their name and picture on Discord. Anyone can create a new account or server with any name associated to it. Due to this design, as I understand it, there is no way to determine the identity of the person(s) who authored these posts.”
In a Feb. 8 emailed statement to the Poly Post, Santana Ruiz wrote, “While I do have an Instagram, I do not have a Discord. When I looked into these supposed chats that were ‘leaked’ it appears that they come from some social media application called Discord. I have never used Discord and the account is obviously fraudulent. The images registered to the account are not me and it’s frustrating that someone would use my name and an image of a cookie to slander me. (I’m not sure if that’s an attack on me for being mixed race).”
According to Kyle Shulz, former president of CPP Republicans, during the end of his term and under the administration of Santana Ruiz, a mass email subject, “College Republicans at Cal Poly Pomona: Hangout Meeting (Fri. 1/29/21 @ 6-9PM)” was sent to all members with links to both a private CPP Republicans Discord as well as the CCR Discord.
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The CPP Republican Bylaws’ article H states that the president, “Shall be the official representative of this organization at all club involved events and activities.” The bylaws have since been removed from CPP Republican’s MyBar, but can be found here.
The server violates Discord community guidelines. The comments may also violate the student code of conduct policy at CPP under item 7, “Conduct that threatens or endangers the health or safety of any person within or related to the University community, including physical abuse, threats, intimidation, harassment, or sexual misconduct.”
In an emailed statement to The Poly Post on Feb. 9, CCR’s communication team wrote, “On behalf of the organization and alleged affected members, we can unequivocally say that these alleged Discord leaks are either doctored, edited, or manipulated. No records of these conversations or members exist, and there is no evidence they belong to CCR or any chapter. The alleged names/nicknames are not even in our Discord, and there is no evidence they ever existed. This is simply the nature of Discord.”
Before Feb. 9, the Discord’s link could be found publicly on the CCR web page masthead and included the lobby of members active within the attached server.
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The link was pulled off its website on Feb. 8 for a short period of time, and then again permanently by the morning of Feb. 9.
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Beginning as early as Feb. 5, the Discord server was purged of chats by moderators, until on Feb. 7 when the server was completely wiped clean. Members within the server were not informed and questioned the removed messages and chatrooms. While it is unclear who is the official moderator, both William Donahue and Dylan Martin, communications director, responded to their complaints.
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The CCR Discord server contained student members from universities across all of California and there is no record of action to regulate, prevent or discipline comments that could escalate to threats of violence like user “Boghosian’s” had.
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Shortly after Santana Ruiz’s email to The Poly Post, the account “Chancellor Santana” changed its name to “Mad World Mad World” and left the CCR Discord server and used the same meme that the account claimed to use when its chapter departed from the CFCR charter.
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New University, University of California, Irvine’s campus newspaper reported on similar allegations on Jan. 12.
Additionally, this is not the first time CPP Republicans have been accused of hate speech and discrimination. In fall 2020, popular Instagram account CPP Confessions, an account where the CPP community can anonymously submit community news, reposted several controversial CPP Republican posts for its followers to see.
“This chat is an echo chamber for these people to have these vile, sick beliefs and they hype each other up,” “disenchantedccrmember” added. “One of my biggest concerns is that if they hype each other up enough that they will actually go out and commit acts of violence.”
As of this report, both “disenchatedccrmember” and “abusiveccr” accounts have been terminated. “I plan to continue until the end of the Unity election,” disenchatedccrmember said.
This unity election between CCR and CFCR was dated for Feb. 20, but the results have not been announced nor any news on the election been disclosed. More can be found at https://www.americafirstcr.com. William Donahue is running for chairman.
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User “abusiveccr” cited that they would continue the account “as long as it takes… for all of this to hopefully end soon.”
Additional screen grabs with corresponding documents can be found here.
If students are facing harassment, they can reach out to the Office of Equity and Compliance. For reports on threats of violence contact the University Police Department. If students need to report a breach of student conduct, the Office of Student Conduct and Integrity can be found at https://www.cpp.edu/studentconduct/staff.shtml.
Edit 4/6, 7 p.m.: The names of individuals within the screenshots that The Poly Post did not reach out to have been redacted for privacy.
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All the Disney Princesses Ranked From Worst to Best.
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(Sorry, no Vanellope.)
14. Merida
I know Merida has really badass archery skills. She’s also outspoken, strong willed, and clever. But she’s still my least favorite princess. I just didn’t like her. Maybe it’s the fact that she wanted to change her mom. And she actually went through with it. Of course, she didn’t actually know what was going to happen, and the journey brought them closer together. She grew as a character and that’s good. But just seeing her disrespect her mother, especially publicly in front of all the clans, is hard to watch. It doesn’t help that I thought Brave was one of Pixar’s weaker movies and essentially Brother Bear all over again.
13. Anna
Not gonna lie. I hate Anna. She’s so damn pushy and combative. I know, it’s all her parents’ fault. All of it. But still. She doesn’t listen to Elsa at all. She pushes and pushes triggering Elsa’s ice outbursts, which become more visible as they build along with her anxiety. Every uncontrolled “accident” Elsa has in the first film is because Anna didn’t listen to her. Of course, she also didn’t listen to Elsa’s warning about marrying Hans either. She foolishly left the kingdom in the hands of an outsider, someone she didn’t even know.
She definitely shows improvement in the second film. She becomes more sensitive towards Elsa’s feelings and her powers. She’s also very loyal and brave, risking her life for Elsa, yet again. She’s still very clingy and desperate for people’s love. It manifests in her fear of losing Elsa and Kristoff. I do not like her humor or awkwardness. I don’t find them relatable, but rather annoying. But I do appreciate that those insecurities are real and that’s what makes her more relatable. Her relationships with the other characters, especially Olaf, is what saves her from being last on my list.
12. Tiana
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There’s nothing wrong Tiana. I think she’s great. She’s hardworking, determined, and a realist. Those are great qualities that I’m glad Disney decided to focus on too. The downside of this is that she comes across as rather boring. The film relies on other more colorful characters to bring the personality and charm. I think that’s a shame. She also suffers from starring in a weaker film.
11. Aurora
I like Aurora. What little we see of her anyway. We can tell by the way she interacts with the fairies, woodland creatures, and Prince Philip that she’s smart, sweet, shy, kind, cautious. She’s a dreamer, but not foolish. It’s too bad we didn’t get to see more of her.
10. Snow White
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Snow White, in my opinion, does not get the respect she deserves. Was she stupid to take that apple from the very obviously evil hag? Yes, she was. But people have forgotten all about the really great qualities she possessed too. When she walked into the dwarfs’ cottage, it was a disgusting, unlivable nightmare. The dwarfs were pigs. They didn’t clean their home or themselves. They bickered all the time. Snow White changed all of that. She created order where there was disorder. And she didn’t do it alone. She delegated chores to each of the animals and made sure they did them right. That’s some managerial skills! She got a bunch of unruly little men to wash, sleep at a decent time, and behave. That’s authority. Those are some real life skills I wish I had more of. Yes, she cooked, cleaned, and sewed, but Snow White wasn’t a servant. She was in charge.
9. Cinderella
Like Snow White, Cinderella has gotten a bad rap over time, but I will defend Cinderella anytime anywhere. Those who say she “needed a prince to save her” lack compassion and are completely missing the point. Cinderella was a young woman who was abused by what family she had left. At a young age she experienced loss, grief, then neglect and emotional abuse. But Cinderella was resilient. That abuse didn’t stop her and it didn’t change her. She could’ve become mean, bitter, and jealous. She could’ve continued the cycle of abuse like her stepsisters. But Cinderella didn’t allow their mistreatment to define her. She remained kind, empathetic, patient, humble, and hardworking. She also didn’t allow herself to become a victim. She didn’t mope or give up on herself. When the ball was announced, she worked hard and believed she would go. When she got help from the fairy godmother, she accepted it and rocked that ball gown. She didn’t go to the ball to be rescued. She went because she wanted to, and she did. Moral of the story is do not let others’ treatment of you determine who you are or what you’re worth. Cinderella had awesome inner strength.
8. Ariel
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I will admit that as an adult, Ariel’s appeal fades. She made really bad choices and sacrificing her voice for a boy is a terrible message to sell to kids. But for a 5 year old girl, only two things mattered. She was a mermaid and she could sing. The Little Mermaid kick started Disney’s renaissance and set a new precedent for its movies. Unlike previous princesses, Ariel was the first princess full of life, passion, and adventure. She had an exciting and lovable personality and a Broadway singing voice. Credit goes to Jodi Benson for bringing Ariel to life and the writers for getting the world to fall in love with her. She made a huge impression (hello, mermaid craziness everywhere!), even if she was a total idiot teenager.
7. Jasmine
What’s great about Jasmine is she can see through people’s BS and she doesn’t put up with it. She isn’t impressed by the superficial suitors that come her way. She stands up to Jafar. She catches on pretty immediately that Prince Ali is actually Aladdin. She sings like Lea Salonga, Disney and Broadway legend, and she has a pet tiger. What’s not to love?
6. Pocahontas
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Pocahontas was the first Disney princess to not go after her dreams, but instead chose family, community, duty, loyalty. That’s incredibly mature and selfless. She taught a racist, arrogant, ignorant man to love and respect others different from him. She followed her intuition, was one nature, and dove off cliffs. The only minus is falling for John Smith over Kokoam. I don’t know what she was thinking!
5. Moana
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Moana is not qualified for her mission. She has no experience and no skills required for sailing across the sea, finding Maui, and defeating a lava monster. But it’s her purpose. She was chosen. So she sets out and figures it out along the way. That’s an inspiring example. It’s not until the end that we find out why she was chosen. She sees Te Ka for who she truly is. Te Fiti. The image above is one of the most powerful moments in all of Disney’s films.
4. Rapunzel
Similar to Cinderella, Rapunzel has been abused throughout her childhood. IMO, Rapunzel had it worse because she believed Mother Gothel was her mother. Their relationship was nonstop manipulation, infantilization, and gaslighting. But Rapunzel was brave enough to go after what she wanted and smart enough to find a way to do it. On top of that, she was creative and artistic, incredibly strong from years of hauling Mother Gothel up the tower, and had magical hair with healing powers. In the end, she does what we didn’t get to see in Cinderella. She stands up for herself and confronts her abuser. She’s a real survivor and victor.
3. Belle
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I love Belle because she is a true introvert and a true individual. She’s not very social, doesn’t gossip, doesn’t fawn over Gaston, doesn’t follow the townsfolk’s way of life. She literally just does her own thing. For that, she’s misunderstood and judged by the village. I think that’s very relatable. But she’s also intelligent, curious, adventurous, honorable (she keeps her promise to stay with the Beast), and stands up to the Beast when he’s out of line. She’s the only one that truly challenges the Beast and he grows because of it. And she saves him.
2. Mulan
Similar to Belle, Mulan is a bit of an outcast, because she’s individualistic in a society that values conformity. She’s socially awkward, clumsy, but brave. That bravery saves her father and all of China. She’s a true badass warrior.
1. Elsa
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Elsa is technically not a princess, but a queen. She still counts and she tops my list. Out of all the Disney princesses, she is the most real and fully developed. She’s beautiful, kind, brave, strong, but also very flawed. Many people have identified with Elsa in different ways because her flaws are so real and so relatable. The LGBTQ community has adopted her as a symbol of their own. For me personally, I see a mental health issue. I think she’s a highly sensitive person with anxiety. Her ice powers are a beautiful symbol for that anxiety and the struggle over her mental health. Her journey to accept herself for who she is, to embrace herself for who she is, and to find her place in a world that deems her different is truly beautiful and empowering.
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"Magneto’s Jewishness is central to his character
His experience as a Jew – as a survivor of the Nazi death camps and a member of one of the most despised ethnic groups on Earth (not just in the United States, but in the entire world) – is the main impetus for Magneto’s actions. It’s why he is who he is." - Dani Ishai Behan
According to recent rumors, Marvel intends to give Magneto – the iconic Jewish supervillain – a fresh coat of paint. But what exactly is meant by “fresh coat of paint” here?
Put simply, it is alleged that they intend to cast a “POC” actor – or actors – as Magneto in any future appearances.
Why is this a bad thing? Well, it’s not. Or at least, it shouldn’t be. So what’s the problem?
The problem is that Magneto is a Jewish Holocaust survivor. He is already a POC, at least insofar as indigenous Middle Eastern populations are considered to be such (which Marvel undoubtedly does), and they arguably should have been using Jewish (or other Middle Eastern) actors from the get-go. However, since it’s highly unlikely that Marvel actually considers diaspora Jews like Magneto to be Middle Eastern (even though they are Middle Eastern, by definition), and since there are no other notable anti-Jewish genocides in the past 50 years to draw inspiration from, the implications of this rumor could not be more clear: they may very well end up erasing Magneto’s Jewish origins.
I’m deeply bothered that Marvel is even considering this – that the thought of it has even entered their heads, let alone their board room discussions. And I’m even more bothered that it’s being framed as a bid for “diversity”, as if this is really “no different” than changing Ariel’s race. It absolutely is different. In fact, these scenarios couldn’t be any more different if they tried to be.
There are many reasons why changing Magneto’s origins would be damaging and oppressive to Jews, especially in light of anti-Semitism’s meteoric rise and resurgence in mainstream culture. For starters…
Magneto’s Jewishness is central to his character
His experience as a Jew – as a survivor of the Nazi death camps and a member of one of the most despised ethnic groups on Earth (not just in the United States, but in the entire world) – is the main impetus for Magneto’s actions. It’s why he is who he is. Magneto is an extremist because he sees the way mutants are treated as parallel to the way Jews are treated. His realization that humans will never accept mutants also parallels Herzl’s realization that Europeans would never accept Jews. And Magneto’s proposed solution, while certainly 100x more extreme than Herzl’s (whose solution was to repatriate Jewish exiles to their indigenous homeland, to liberate it from foreign rule, and to regain sovereignty therein), is borne of a similar distrust and cynicism towards those who hate his kind.
Magneto is a Jew. That’s who he is to most fans, especially to Jewish fans who grew up with him and identified with him for much of their lives. Why take that away from us? Especially now?
Magneto embodies Jewish anger, fear, trauma, and pain like no other character, before or since. You can’t just treat that as if it’s some trivial thing, or if it’s just “white” people crying about their “privilege” (which, it must be emphasized, Jews do not have). Changing him now would be horrifically insensitive and immensely disrespectful to Jewish fans, especially to children/grandchildren of Holocaust survivors.
If it’s Magneto’s age people are worried about, I’m certain Marvel could come up with something. If they can prolong Wolverine’s life for as long as they have, there’s no reason why they can’t do so for Magneto.
And if there’s another minority out there whom they feel is “more deserving” of representation, they can simply create a new character. Problem solved.
Jews deserve representation too
Like it or not, we’re minorities too. And we don’t exactly have stellar representation, contrary to common belief.
We’re all but invisible outside of some very stereotypical characters. I mean, what else do we have besides lonely nerds, gold diggers, terrorists, bankers, and eccentric rabbis?
We have this…
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Yup, that’s right. Gargamel, the main villain of the Smurfs, is supposed to be Jewish. And if his Levantine features didn’t make that painfully obvious, he also had a mezuzah in his house in his first few appearances.
There are exceptions to this rule (e.g. Gal Gadot as Wonder Woman), but that’s all they really are: exceptions.
I know what people are going to say next… “But what about these Jewish actors who’ve done characters like Indiana Jones and Jackie Kennedy? They even did blackface back in the day.” Well, here’s the thing: they weren’t Jewish actors playing Jewish characters. They were white-passing Jewish actors (and usually only half or even 1/4 Jewish, like myself) playing white characters. That’s not representation, and referring to it as such is essentially tantamount to whitewashing. It is every bit as absurd as saying Indians are “white”/”well-represented” because Ben Kingsley played Adolf Eichmann (yes, that Adolf Eichmann), or that Arabs* are because Lebanese actor Danny Thomas (to name one example) did blackface and other white roles, or that Latinos are because Cesar Romero did The Joker.
*Speaking of Arabs, Jewish actors who are more obviously/visibly Jewish (particularly those who aren’t half or 3/4 non-Jewish) are very frequently cast in Arab roles. And no one even notices. Why is that?
It’s because…
Ashkenazi Jews are not white people
Non-Ashkenazi Jews exist, of course. That is undeniable. But since Magneto was born in the Jewish diaspora communities of Central Europe, it is quite obvious that he is Ashkenazi.
And Marvel’s assertion that they intend to rebrand Magneto as a “POC” is a pretty clear indication that they have a piss-poor understanding of (if not utter contempt for) who Jews are.
Magneto isn’t white. He’s a Jewish Holocaust survivor. Jews are an indigenous ethnic group and nation of the Levant, so it makes little sense to refer to Magneto as white unless A ) he is a convert (which he’s not) or B ) one views all indigenous Levantines as white, which is highly unlikely (at least in Marvel’s case). Ergo, Magneto has always been a POC.
However, all of his live-action portrayals were done by white actors, and this suggests that whoever was responsible for their casting sees Jews as nothing more than a religion. And for someone whose view is that Magneto is an “ethnic Pole” or “ethnic German” whose family “just so happened to practice Judaism”, it’s not too far of a leap (or even a leap at all) to cast white actors in that role. This view is, of course, patently absurd.
This popular narrative that Ashkenazim are “white”, and that we are therefore already “over-represented” and don’t “need” characters like Magneto, is the reason why things like this keep happening. Were it not for that, the idea of replacing Erik Lensherr with a “real” minority would have never entered their heads.
Just because we’re not black, doesn’t mean we’re white. And you can’t treat this as if it’s somehow akin to rebranding Ariel as a black woman. It’s just not comparable.
It indicates that Marvel does not see Jews as a “real” minority group
Marvel is a politically progressive company. And the progressive left has been infected with its own form of Jew-hate – distinct from its right-wing counterpart, but similar in many ways. One thing they both have in common is that they both feel Jews are “hyper-powerful” and absolutely swimming in “privilege”, and are therefore not oppressed or marginalized in any meaningful way – and that if anything, we’re the oppressors. And for this reason, it is argued that we do not “deserve” the same respect or consideration that other oppressed outgroups do, and this argument naturally extends to representation in media. After all, this isn’t the first time Marvel whitewashed a character’s Jewishness (Scarlet Witch, Quicksilver), and it likely won’t be the last.
And it is precisely this line of thinking that facilitates antisemitism and contributes to its growth.
Bottom line: Magneto is Jewish. He is a Holocaust survivor. He is an ethnic Middle Easterner. And despite his (typically) villainous portrayal, he has done more to give Jews a human face than any other character. And if there’s anything we need right now, it’s for people to see our humanity.
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Hiding: Chapter 3- (BrookexYvie)- Imposterzoe
Apparently there was a plan to go out tonight that no one even sort of told me about. It might've been because they knew I would've said "Hell no."
Or at least that's what I said to Scarlet when he showed up at my door demanding I get ready. But as I've learned many times with Scarlet, resistance is futile and I'm being shoved in an Uber before I knew it.
It's a short ride but it feels like an eternity with Scarlet bitching at me for taking forever getting ready. I just stare out the window and try not to check my concealer job in the reflection.
Then he's yanking me out of the car, yelling about how everyone's probably drunk already. I just follow, mumbling half-hearted apologizes.
The second we get inside, I part from Scarlet, too tired to deal with my other sisters without a couple shots already under my belt.
After a few good shots of gin, I find everyone else and promptly almost shit my pants. Because damn the way Brock is dressed is just disrespectful.
His pants are sinfully tight and the jacket he's wearing isn't helping. And did I mention he's wearing my shirt? Or that it looks better on him? That's just unfair.
I know I'm ignoring everyone else as I give him the once over and slide in next to him.
He smiles evilly at me and I fight a whimper as his hand finds my very upper thigh.
"Thanks for lending me your shirt," he purrs in my ear and I have to remember to breathe.
"No problem," I manage to squeeze out, hoping the dark lights in the bar hide my blush.
"What are you guys talking about?" Nina stage whispers to us. That's when I realize everyone's staring at us.
Brock shrugs. "I was just telling Yvie his concealer isn't hiding his hickeys as well as he thinks it is."
Without thinking my hands snap to my neck as I cry, "It isn't?!" Would you be surprised to know that was not the right response?
Immediately everyone's laughing and Brock's rubbing my thigh as if to apologize for the barrage of questions that'll be coming my way in a few seconds.
"So," A'keria starts because it's always A'keria isn't it? "Who'd you fuck last night?"
Brock's hand is still moving and my concentration is so not there.
"Uh…."
"Oh he sounds hot," Scarlet drawls setting off another round of laughs.
I grab Brock's hand and shoot him a look. He just smirks and interlocks our fingers.
I turn my attention back to everyone else. "He was just some guy who happened to be a biter." I squeeze Brock's hand as hard as I can at this part.
His smirk doesn't fade as he whispers in my ear. "Didn't hear you complaining." Then he nips my earlobe.
I don't even know what color my face is at this point and frankly I don't wanna know. I do want to get out of this booth.
Thankfully Ariel appears from God knows where and grabs my free hand and yanks me towards the dance floor. Normally, I would take my hand back and yell at him to ask first.  But since I'm desperate, I release Brock's hand and follow Ariel, much to his pleasure.  
We disappear in the crowd and I feel Brock's gaze on my back.
We dance for awhile and I manage to push all thoughts aside as I shout along to whatever song is on. At one point I see Brock dancing with Vanjie and I'm pleased at my lack of reaction.
It's not like they were doing anything me and Ariel aren't. So why stress? Eventually Ariel gets tired but there more than enough guys willing to take his place.
I change partners every song and it occurs to me I'm haven't seen anyone I came with in awhile. I politely extract myself from the guy I'm dancing with and walk over to the table.
Very few are left and I realize that I've been dancing for about 2 hours. Nina leaves next and I ride back to the hotel with him.
After a nice long shower, I'm sprawled on the bed in my underwear scrolling through Twitter. Then A'keria texts me and for some reason my heart drops even before I read it.
From A'keria: Hey did you fuck Vanj tonight
Confusion sweeps through me. I'm pretty sure Vanjie left the bar about 20 minutes before I did.
To A'keria: Not a chance in hell. Why
I see that he's typing and my palms are sweating.
From A'keria: Well he obviously just got fucked and your shirt is in his room
My vision blurs and the next thing I know, I'm knocking on Brock's door with pants on.
He opens the door and smiles at me. The smile turns to concern and he reaches out to wipe my cheek. That's how I realize I'm crying.
I shove the phone at him and he takes it. The concern turns into alarm as he reads the messages.
His head snaps up and the guilt in his eyes is all I need.
I've snatched my phone and walked halfway down the hall before he finishes saying, "I can explain."
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So, last month of high school I met a guy and we instantly connected, keel hanging out with him all summer. But like 3 weeks before starting collage he stared showing things in his personality that I didn’t like , such as telling his friends every detail of what we would do ( and tbh I like privacy for that kind of stuff ) and all that so I told him to be friends , he got mad and stared saying things like “ anyway I got a date this weekend and she’s everything you’re not” it hurts and I’m angry
Hello.
Can I just say that what you are feeling at the moment is totally valid and i’d feel exactly the same in your situation (or have felt because I have been in a similar situation myself). If the relationship wasn’t working because you saw things you didn’t like then you have every right to end it and none of that is your fault.
I understand you feel hurt and angry because obviously you liked this guy and probably still do and you feel so upset that he moved on so quickly or attempted to move on when you have only been broken up a short amount of time. I’d be angry as well because it seems a complete lack of respect and regard to your feelings dating others so soon especially for him to just rub it in your face. If he is moving on quickly and has shown you no respect in doing so then it just proves why you ended the relationship. It seems he had no respect for you then never mind when you have broken up.
I personally think that he isn’t dating anyone or going on dates he is simply saying that because he is angry and hurt. People who have been broken up with always pretend they’re not hurt and they don’t care, they just tell their ex that they’re dating someone else as a way to hide their feelings. The chances are he isn’t seeing anyone knew and is just trying to upset you or get a reaction from you. If I was you however hard it is I would either ignore him or pretend you don’t care. If he knows you’re hurt or upset he will carry on doing it so I wouldn’t rise to it.
I know you care for this person but do you really want to be friends with someone who shows you so much disrespect? I know he is entitled to move on because you’re not together but the way he is going about it isn’t nice. Right now for your mental health and feelings I think it would be best not to talk to him or remain friends because it’ll be harder for you to move on and he will just keep telling you about all the new girls he is dating to upset you which is unfair. It is very hard to be friends straight away after a relationship ends and I don’t think its a bad thing to give yourself some space from him.
As mentioned above it is okay to feelings that you feel it is normal, but soon those feelings will pass once you move on! They are a normal part of breaking up with someone. 
Take care.
Ariel xo
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hey brig, if one was to start writing ramm slash, what are the do's and don'ts in this fandom? how close to canon and timelines do people prefer their fics to be? any tips?
Hey there!! I’m thrilled to give you some tips, I hope you do start writing for Rammstein because we dearly need more!!
A lot of it is based on opinion and personal preferences, so really, it comes down to you. But since you’re asking for my opinion welllllll
do not write Paul as a submissive ‘smol bean’….please………..
do not constantly emphasize his height because it’s not his oNLY DAMN FEATURE
do not write Richard as a two-faced whiny diva
do not write Till as a depressed hurt fragile teddy bear that is so sad and emo
basically don’t focus on the one trait/persona of each member that most fans seem to have given them, and fixate on. it’s old and quite frankly, demeaning of them as people.
study each of the members and take notes of their personality (e.g Schneider is awkward and dorky, but also bold and wild in certain circumstances; Richard is a sweetheart, but he can also be quite opinionated; Paul may be excitable and talkative and bubbly, but that doesn’t mean he can’t be serious/intelligent/upset)
don’t go over the top with drama
personally, i feel it’s important to keep note of their relationships. it adds another sense of realism to your fics, if you want to keep it true to life. don’t sweep their relationships under the rug; embrace them, almost. schneider’s wife, ulrike, and his two sons, richard’s ex-wives and his two daughters and single son, paul’s wife arielle and his daughter and son, flake’s wife jenny and their daughter, till’s kids (however many lol i know for certain he has two daughters), ollie’s wife marie and his daughter (idk if he has more than one child). obviously, some people will say it’s invasive to know this kind of information, but that’s the internet for you. i feel it’s more disrespectful to neglect their relationships. when i’m writing a ship at a certain era where i know they have girlfriends/wives at the time, i don’t just pretend they don’t exist. 
overall, i think people will love to read whatever you write as it’s not a) badly written b) laughably farfetched (e.g an AU where Richard is hunting Bigfoot who turns out to be Till–yes, I’ve seen a fic like this before) and c) disrespectful/of poor taste (e.g Richard dumping Caron for Schneider). personally, i love fics closely linked to real life as long as they’re actually written well/the author doesn’t butcher the hell out of their personalities. but go nuts with AUs, too!!
also, extra points if you mention little things about them other authors seldom do: paul’s freckles, till’s dimples, schneider’s goofy little giggle, richard’s squishiness, flake’s sunshine smile, ollie’s gracefulness. the gray in their hair, the lines of age on their faces, the softening of their muscle; basically, the signs of their age. ollie’s laid-back attitude and quiet affection for the ones he loves, paul’s enthusiasm in enjoying life to the fullest, richard’s workholic tendencies, till’s adventurous nature, schneider’s family sense, flake’s commitment to rammstein and his passions.
but most importantly: have fun with writing rammstein, and please don’t hesitate to share your works!!
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The Antisemitism that Keeps Me Up at Night
What is the type of antisemitism that keeps you up at night? For me, believe it or not, it isn't the violence. It isn't Pittsburgh. Pittsburgh is scary, but -- rightly or wrongly -- I continue to think that this sort of antisemitism is and will remain a rare occurrence in the United States. The antisemitism that gives me nightmares is a different sort, and requires some explaining. But the short version is that it's the antisemitism of negative partisanship (or "the politics of hurt"). Here's what I mean by that. Antisemitic acts are sometimes done by people who don't conceive of themselves as antisemites. In such cases, we'd expect that the reaction of Jews to those acts -- the declaration that "this was antisemitic" and "this hurt us" -- to count as a negative. The actor would not have desired that result, that his or her action elicited such a response would count against it. And even if the actor isn't so chagrined, we'd hope that this would be the impact on social observers. If people see that Jews reacted negatively to something -- that we thought it was scary, or unjust, or antisemitic, or what have you -- then they'd be less favorably disposed towards whatever it was that caused us to react so poorly. But this isn't always what happens. Sometimes, in some cases, a poor Jewish reaction isn't viewed as a negative. It's viewed as a positive. It shows that you're poking the right people. It shows you're standing up to power. It shows that you haven't been cowed. "If you're taking flak, that means you're over the target", as the saying goes -- a saying which assumes that those firing the flak are also the enemy to be targeted. Consider Tamika Mallory's infamous remark, in response to Jewish criticism of alleged antisemitism, that "If your leader does not have the same enemies as Jesus, they may not be THE leader!" Obviously, in context there was a specific antisemitic valence to the "Jesus" reference that has been much remarked on. But even if you strip that part away, there's a deeper problem: Mallory is casting it as a point of pride that the Jews are critiquing her -- are her "enemies". It's one of the ways she knows she's on the right track. The victim-blaming template Ariel Sobel attributed to the Women's March -- where largely progressive Jewish criticism is transformed into a coordinated right-wing assault (itself an antisemitic maneuver of deep vintage) -- is in the same vein. The goal is to make it so that when people hear these sorts of criticisms from these sorts of people, their instinct is to pull closer towards the object of critique. If they're taking flak from Jews, then they must be over the target. This is what keeps me up at night, because it subverts any possibility of effective Jewish political action in response to perceived wrongs. If it is a perk that Jews are upset, if it is a positive political sign, then it's counterproductive for Jews even to try and communicate "this hurt us." Expressions of Jewish hurt end up redounding to the benefit of those causing the hurt. What are we to do? Particularly in political contexts, this can yield dangerous feedback loops. I have no doubt that Jewish dislike of Jeremy Corbyn cost Labour votes in some districts, particularly heavily Jewish neighborhoods. I also have no doubt that, on a national level, the perception that Jews dislike Corbyn gained him at least as many votes as it lost him. There are definitely people for whom the chasm between Corbyn and the Jews is how they know Corbyn is "THE leader". The reason why Labour under Corbyn has so much trouble "quitting" antisemitism is because Labour is, in very real ways, aided by the perception that Labour under Corbyn antagonizes the Jews. This has effects here at home too. Consider how Minnesota Jews might react to the Ilhan Omar doubletalk controversy I wrote about yesterday. Right now, the way I feel towards Omar, and the way I imagine many Minnesota Jewish community members feel, is something like the following:
We have serious problems with BDS, which for us has deep associations with antisemitism and antisemitic exclusion targeting Jews around the world. But beyond those substantive problems, it's especially upsetting and disrespectful for you to come before a synagogue, say you find BDS 'counteractive', and then once the election is over say 'actually, I've always supported BDS' and pretend like you weren't blatantly misleading us. The moderator "didn't ask a yes or no question"? Don't insult our intelligence. And add this to the 'hypnotize' tweet -- which you've still never acknowledged has antisemitic resonances -- and we've got some very serious concerns right now.
In a healthy political environment for Jews, this sort of sentiment would be viewed as a negative for Omar. It would be damaging, if Jews in her community were reacting this way, that would be a sign she'd done something wrong. I'm not saying it should necessarily be fatal or unrecoverable -- indeed, I think the opposite. In a healthy political environment, the fact that this would be viewed as a problem would motivate Omar to try to heal the damage and mend the rift. It would be bad for Ilhan Omar to be in a state where Jews were upset with her. But does anyone have any confidence that, if such above sentiments were expressed, it would be viewed as a negative for Omar? Is it not possible, even likely, that such a reaction from Jews instead would be evidence that Omar was "bold", was "independent", was "unapologetically progressive" (even though, of course, the base of the controversy was actually that Omar had engaged in a pretty classic case of political weasel-wording)? Wouldn't the Jewish reaction very quickly be recast as a right-wing reaction, even though most Minnesota Jews are quite consciously progressive? Wouldn't many people be even more positively inclined towards Omar than they already were -- proud to see her stand tall against the Jewish onslaught? Again, this is speculative -- we don't know how, if at all, the Jewish community in Minnesota plans to respond to Omar, nor how Omar plans to respond to her Jewish constituents. And the possibility of turning converting Jewish opposition into political support doesn't mean it's a path that would be taken. A genuine ally would resist the temptation; even if the prospect of adulation for "standing up" to the Jews presents itself, she would not indulge because of her own accord she would be unhappy that Jews were unhappy with her. Nonetheless, this prospect -- and my fundamental lack of confidence that this prospect isn't actually reality -- keeps me up at night. David Hirsh wrote worryingly that -- more than BDS, more than school or synagogue security, more than the future of relations between Israel and the west, more than anything else -- "what really frightens me is that a generation of left-wing activists are being taught that the enemy is the Jews." Even if you think that's a little overwrought, I would endorse the notion that a generation of left-wing activists are being taught that if Jews are angry at them, that means they're doing something right rather than something wrong. Naively or not, the cornerstone of my resistance to antisemitism -- what gives me the confidence that it can be resisted -- is a firm belief in the possibility that empathic dialogue and open communication can change minds and alter behavior. I believe -- again, perhaps naively -- that most people don't want to see Jews hurting, and hence that when we express hurt, people will be at least more inclined to change their ways. If that's wrong, if people -- including the people in my community, including the people that supposedly are my most essential allies against Pittsburgh-style antisemitic violence -- are excited, thrilled, empowered by seeing Jews in distress, then my entire edifice for fighting antisemitism crumbles. And that keeps me up at night. via The Debate Link https://ift.tt/2DkuZCm
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I agree. Reverse Racism doesn’t exist. 
Racism exists. There’s no ‘reverse’ or cute little terms to replace it like Racial Prejudice. Hell, Racial Prejudice falls under the definition of Racism in every single dictionary I could find on a quick google search. I’m sorry, but if you provide any sort of Racial Discrimination, Prejudices, or Racial Superiority Propoganda you’re 100% racist. There’s no if/and/or ‘but’s about it. I don’t care what skin color you are. 
If you say that you can’t be racist because you’re a minority you’re delusional or brainwashed. If you discriminate or are prejudiced against anyone based on their skin color, you are no better than or different from a White Racist. None. You are BOTH equally wrong and I will treat both as you should be treated. As racist scumbags who don’t deserve to breathe the same air I do for being such braindead human beings that shouldn’t have the right to procreate.
Black person expressing Racial Prejudice = White person expressing Racial Prejudice
There’s no difference. They are both equally shitty people and if you defend that Black Person then you are literally advocating for Black Racism. You are actively defending racist behavior. It would be NO different than me defending a White Racist.
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I’m going to clear up my position on this subject. If you do not believe me on here, then look through some of my other posts regarding Ariel. 
I believe that if a character was created a specific way with specific traits that those specific traits should stay the same with every depiction of the character onward. Now there can be adaptations of the character, and there is nothing wrong with that, but you can’t take a character named Jimmy and make him a woman and still call him Jimmy. You can’t take a White Character named Jimmy and make him Black and still call him Jimmy. That’s not how that works. Jimmy, if he was established as a White Character, is, well, White. Jimmy isn’t Black. The same goes for a Black Character. Let’s say that Micheal is Black. You can’t take Micheal and make him White and still call him Micheal. That’s not how that works. Micheal ISN’T White. Micheal wasn’t established as a White Character. 
So if you established Cinderella as a White Princess, then she is a WHITE Princess. If you establish Snow White as a White Princess, then she’s a White Princess. If you establish Belle from Beauty and the Beast as White (eventually a White Princess) then she is WHITE. If you establish Tiana is a BLACK Princess, then she is a BLACK Princess. If you establish Mulan as an Asian Warrior Princess, then she’s an ASIAN Warrior Princess. If you establish Pocahontas as a Native American Princess, then she’s a Native American Princess. If you establish that a character is Gay, then that character is a GAY character. If you establish that they are a lesbian, then that character is a lesbian character. 
If you establish Ariel as White with Red hair and Blue eyes, then she is WHITE with RED HAIR and BLUE EYES. 
Ariel does not have dark eyes, african hair, and dark skin. Pocahontus doesn’t have pale skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes does she? No. She doesn’t. Therefore if I changed Pocahontas to have pale skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes would she still be Pocahontas? I want to answer this. Like. Legit. Would she, or would she not, still be Pocahontas? If she isn’t then you are racist just like how you’re trying to point me out as racist.
“Her story revolves around her being Native-” Oooh, okay. So that means I can go and make Falcon from the MCU into a pale skinned, brown haired, blue eyed White guy? After all, his race doesn’t matter too much to his character. It should be PERFECTLY acceptable for me to change his race then. Oh, what about Colonel James Rhodes? AKA War Machine? You know, Don Cheadle’s character. I can go and change his race right? That’ll be perfectly acceptable, right? After all, him being Black does nothing to story and isn’t important to HIS character. 
Oh, I can’t do that because it will be Whitewashing? Then why is it okay for a Black Person to take the role of a White Person where the race doesn’t matter then? Isn’t that Blackwashing? Oh, so Blackwashing isn’t a thing because there’s been oppression in the past that no one alive today has the power to do anything about yet somehow we have to pay for something that neither you or I was a part of? Silly me. (Yeah, all that was sarcasm) 
Either it is okay for everyone to disrespect culture, established characters, and the authors original intent and depict any character however they want to treat them no matter what race they are, or no one should be allowed to do any of that and they should respect source material and author intent. 
I will be 100% convinced that if you continue to play around with words and weasel your way into justifying the erasure of Classical White Characters that you are 100% trying to establish a double standard and perpetuate a double standard. You will be trying to say that it is okay for POCs to do something and White people can’t. That you are trying to say that POCs can take whatever role they want and if White People say anything in protest that they’re immediately somehow racist. I’ll COMPLETELY ignore the fact that if you, yes you, did the exact same thing about a White Person taking a POC role that you somehow aren’t racist when I would be when it comes to White Characters. 
Do you not see how fucked up that is? I am not racist. I don’t care about skin color. I have lived in Italy, Japan, and multiple different states in the US. Hell, I’ve actually experienced racism as the victim in Japan (it could have been xenophobia though), and I have experienced racism in a Black Majority town that I used to live in. (There were 3 Black People to 1 White/Other person. I was lucky to get a job in that town according to my Black Coworkers. The GM of the company I was working for didn’t like White People. A lot of companies there were like that.) However, I learned about other cultures by witnessing them first-hand and came to respect them. 
My mother and father taught me that people were people. It didn’t matter what they looked like. My mother and father told me that racists were disgusting and slavery was completely wrong. The told me that hat if they ever caught me picking on someone because of their skin color I was going to get the beating of my life. (My Dad told me that one actually.) My Dad went into the US Military and that is where I met people of all sorts of ethnicities and nationalities. I NEVER experienced racism until I got back to the US after being overseas collectively around 8 years. In DODDs Schools (Military Schools), which I was in for nearly all of my education, my classmates were the children of Military Parents like I was. In the Military, the US Military anyway, you can be punished for something your kid does. You can get in severe trouble. That’s why I feel a majority of my classmates were well behaved. I rarely saw fights, everyone was very chill, racism was nonexistent (We could openly make race jokes with each other and we’d all be chill pretty much. None of us gave a fuck.), and the teachers were badass af. Obviously a majority of them had been prior Military individuals themselves. 
Besides that, when I was overseas a majority of my friends were people of color. Black People, Asians, Middle Eastern Kids, etc. Hispanic. I had friends that came from all over the place. Yet, if I was racist, why would I want anything to do with them? If I was racist why would I condemn Whitewashing? If I was racist why would I advocate for a Disney Princess from Africa based on Afircan Culture? If I was racist why would I condemn the Alt-Right, the KKK, Nazi’s, Hitler, and the Ayran Brotherhood? If I was racist then why would I, if I had the power, go back and try to prevent slavery from even happening? If I was racist why would I be wanting Marvel and other Movie Studios to be making MORE POC movies on characters like Borther Voodoo, Static Shock (LOVED that show as a kid holy fuck), John Stewart, Steel (Henry John Irons. He looks cool af), SPAWN!!! (I heard they’re supposed to be doing a new movie but I dunno. I’d be excited either way.), etc.? 
Why would I want any of that? Tell me. I REALLY want to know how I’m racist.
Is it because I want a classical White character to STAY WHITE?! Wouldn’t you want Black characters to stay Black?! How are YOU not racist for that when I AM?! The double standards are REEEAAALLLY starting to piss me off here. 
Bottom line is that I’m not racist for wanting a character to stay true to their source material. 
If I am racist for wanting Ariel to be White, when she was depicted as White in both the 1839 Publication in DENMARK and the 1989 Disney film, then you HAVE to say that Black People who are racist for wanting Blade to stay Black as he has been since the ‘70s… Fair is fair or there’s a double standard… Or you have to admit that White people, oh, I dunno, are just getting pissed because they’re having every single character that they love systematically replaced by POCs, essentially altering the characters they love completely. 
I also want to point out that people were mad about this stuff too. 
Hunger Games got the cat wrong in the movies. People made such a huge deal out of that they went back and fixed it. Here’s the cats. 
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People were also about the Percy Jackson movie when they got Annabeth’s look wrong. Annabeth is a REALLY tan girl with really bright blonde hair and gray eyes. This is who they cast as Annabeth… 
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 A majority of us are feeling THIS way about Ariel. It’s not because she’s Black. It’s because she looks NOTHING like fucking Airel. Where’s her red, full, flowing hair? Where’s her bright blue eyes? Where’s her pale skin? Where’s the fucking resemblance to ARIEL??!?
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I can destroy that entire article with just a few observations. 
Aladdin (1992) - There were quite literally no white people in this film and it is still one of the most widely celebrated Disney Films of all time. Jasmine, Aladdin, Jafar, and even Genie are not Whitewashed at ALL. I’m talking appearances here. Voice Actor skin color is meaningless. People who make a big deal out of that have mental issues. Jasmine is still portrayed as extremely beautiful and she IS a Princess! It states that in the movie. The Princess and the Street Rat. Honestly, it was one of my favorite movies as a kid! And I’m WHITE! Sure, this movie taught people that WASN’T beautiful and valuable because she wasn’t white and that she WASN’T a Princess because she wasn’t White. 
Pocahontas (1995) - LITERALLY showed a White Man falling in love with a Native American. Pocahontas who is an actual Princess as she’s listed as one of the Princesses in Disney's Princess Lineup. Guess what… Pocahontas is NOT White! -Gasp- A WHITE man fell for a Princess that WASN’T White?! I thought that in order to be beautiful and full of value as well as a princess that you HAD to be White?!
Mulan (1998) - Another one of Disney’s top most celebrated movies of all time with not a SINGLE White Person on screen! (It’s almost as if White People in general aren’t racist or something.) It was a story about female empowerment at this point and that you can be a badass Warrior Princess AND be beautiful as well! Oh, and guess what, she wasn’t white either and she’s a princess too… Weird… I thought that Disney was trying to indoctrinate young white people that only White Women could be Beautiful Princesses. 
Tiana (2009) - ….. Do I even need to say anything here? 
Yes, the power of Folk Tales is their adaptability over time, but, again, if you’re doing, you know, a REMAKE and not a fucking ADAPTATION then why the FUCK would cast someone that wasn’t ACCURATE to the fucking REMAKE?! I’m literally losing braincells here trying to dumb myself down to understand this stupid ass shit. 
 White Culture
Culture / cul·ture /ˈkəlCHər/
noun
1. The arts and other manifestations of human intellectual achievement regarded collectively.
"20th century popular culture"
Synonyms: the arts, the humanities
2. ------> The customs, arts, social institutions, and achievements of a particular nation, people, or other social group. <------
"Caribbean culture" 
Synonyms: ----->civilization, society, way of life, lifestyle; More<------
Tell me. What were English, Scottish, Russian, Polish, French, and Scandinavian People were before they began their colonial eras? Hmm…? Oh, that’s right… They were White. How many Ethnicities of Europe are there? Well from what I can tell there’s White People and Mediteranean people. A majority of the continent, though, is inhabited by White People while Mediteranean people tend to be situated, obviously, along the Southern Coast of Europe. 
Generally when you think of a region you associate it with its people. In Asia you immediately think Chinese, Japenes, and so on. Why? Well look at the populations and their culture. They inhabit a majority of the land nearly, except Russia as it spans both continents, and have the largest population on this planet. You don’t typically think of Middle Easterners and Indians as Asian even though they are. Are Asians now guilty of what White People in Europe are then? They had too many kids and established themselves as a Majority in Asia? The horror! Look at Africa now… When you think of Africa you don’t tend to think of White People or Middle Eastern People. You think of Black Africans with rich culture and lands. Even though the VERY South and North African regions of the continent are White and Middle Eastern looking. (White in the South. Middle Easter in the North.) You don’t tend to think of Egyptians as Africans either when you think of Africa. 
With that being said, every culture on this Planet and its people tend to group together. White People, Black People, Native Americans, Asians, etc. You tend to group with who you’re familiar with and who look like you. You’re more empathetic with them. I’m pretty sure you could have a Korean and a Japanese person in the US and they’d gravitate towards each other because of their similarities. Same with White People. Collectivism happens. When people identify themselves they say they’re Asian, White, Black, Latino, etc. What do you associate with when it comes to White People? Oh, that’s right. Americans and Europeans. That’s where a majority of White People are located. White People also have their own cultures like Asians and Africans do. Therefore if you can say that something is a part of African culture, then you can say that something is a part of White Culture as well. 
This is how that works. “Whiteness,” is its own topic. It has no standing in regards to the topic at hand as it has nothing to do with what we are talking about. We are talking about collections of peoples and nationalities. White People are a collection of, you guessed it, White Individuals and their cultures. 
England, Scotland, Russia, Polish, Scandinavia, Germany, Switzerland, France, Ukraine, Austria, Hungary, etc. All of these countries are essentially White Populations. White People. They ALL have their own cultures and beliefs… The bottom line, though, is that they’re White. They LITERALLY are White People. Collectively they are White People. Therefore, White People are a thing. I am white. I consider myself a White American with ancestry from Northern Europe. I consider them, as well as other White People as part of my kin. MY people. WHITE PEOPLE. Therefore, White People have culture. Hell, we have a fuck ton of cultures. In America it may not be this way because America is a bit complicated to explain, but there you have it. 
This is exactly how Black People look at themselves and their ancestors from Africa. Same with Asians, South Americans, etc. 
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“When whites talk about reverse discrimination, I feel that they are making a silly argument because what they really want to say is that we, people of color, have the power to do to them what they have done to us from the 13th century.
But If you think about it, reverse racism is actually kinda great. Because if it did exist, it would mean we lived in a society in which all racial groups have an equal amount of power. But we don’t.”
Quick question. How old are you? I assume you’re not 800 years old. Do you know anyone in your family that is 800? No? What about 500? Any friends or family? No… hmm… what about 200? No? What about 100? Maybe? Interesting. Well… I’d like to personally tell you that no one in your family, or your friends, have experienced slavery, oppression, unless they’re basically 60 to 100 years old, and that you’ve lived a pretty privileged life. (If you do not believe you’re living a privileged life here, in 2019, I swear I will not be able to take you seriously. Even the poorest people in Modern Countries have it better than nearly every Human in History. That’s not an opinion either.) White People haven’t been doing anything to you or your family. If you’re scared of the people that came before us, don’t be. They’re dead now. Everything’s fine. 
In all seriousness there is no such thing as reverse discrimination. There is ONLY discrimination. Also, I refuse to be held accountable for what my ancestors did. I have no control over that and I should NOT be fucking forced to pay for their mistakes. If I am to pay for their mistakes then I should be fucking praised for my ancestors that faught against Slavery and Oppression. 
Also, really? No POC alive has felt anything remotely as bad as it was at LEAST 150 years ago. No one alive has been a slave. Now there may be some older people out there that witnessed oppression that was protected under the government, but can we look at who was marching along with MLK..? Can we also look at who fought in the Civil War? Can we also look at the people who were slogging through Europe to kill Nazis? 
As for the reverse racism comment… Jesus I’m not even gonna really touch that. 
I would touch on power, but I am having a strong feeling that you’re one of those types that believes in White Privilege, and how the US Govt. is still skulking around the shadows being racist allowing young Black People to be killed and that they DiDn’T Do AnYtHinG WroNg. That the cops literally just want to shoot Black People just because they’re Black and blah blah blah. I won’t even get into that subject because… holy fuck that’s going down the rabbit hole. I’d NEED to do some drugs to stay sane if we talked about that shit. 
 The Most Important Point!
 You’re right. They’ve already cast the wrong actress to play Ariel. It blows… I wish that they would have actually made a film based on ACTUAL African Culture while also taking place off the coasts of Africa itself. You could have had extremely accurate casting choices, no white folk (cause we all know how White People are racist White Devil Colonizers.), and an original story to tell. What would seriously be the best part about ALL that would be the fact that Black Kids would have an ACTUAL tale about their ACTUAL historical culture that would be THEIR OWN! It would be ABOUT them! It wouldn’t be a tokenized White Character you know? 
Also, do you not understand how Tokenizing and Pandering is insulting to POCs? Why casting Ariel this way is an insult to you? 
Do you realize that by doing this Hollywood is essentially telling you, POCs, that this is all you’re ever gonna get? That you’re never going to get any roles or movies that are really YOURS… You’re not going to get original Black Stories, you’re not going to get Original Black Characters, and that all you’re going to get is what White People hand out to you? That all you’re ever going to get is second-rate characters? Doesn’t that piss you off? It would piss me off. Why would you even defending a casting choice like this when you should be DEMANDING an original story with original characters about LEGITIMATE BLACK CULTURES?! 
Oh, is it because of the whole FUCK WHITE PEOPLE thing? An entirely petty, small minded, mindset focused on prolonging racial tension and racism rather than ending it? Cause, you know, you don’t solve hatred with more hatred. You don’t fucking solve culturual appropriation with MORE cultural appropriation. You don’t solve racism with MORE racism. You don’t solve sexism with MORE sexism. To be honest, you would have thought Black Panther would have taught you that lesson…. That’s Ironic. You do know Killmonger was wrong and T’Challa was right, right? 
I dunno. I ranted a lot longer than I thought I would have and got a lot deeper than I thought I would have. Oh well. It’s gotten to the point that I feel like we’re both talking to brick walls while each of us think we’re right while the others wrong. I personally feel that I’m living in reality, but that’s just me… mostly because I haven’t been reading propaganda pieces but… yeah… The signs were when you started bringing up reverse racism… I kinda shoulda back off at that point but yeah… 
Lastly, you literally can’t whitewash a character that’s been white for 200+ years to begin with… so… 
Oh well… I’ve given this my last horah… Oh well… 
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