jesus fucking christ the mind numbingly stupid shit sophie is spewing is beyond words. this has to be up there with the time she called anti endos a hate group but said she’s fine with them existing because she’s fine with Actual hate groups existing. i just wish people had just a fucking crumb of common sense. like has she ever thought “hey, i’m talking about an extremely stigmatized and extremely severe mental illness that i don’t have, maybe i should stay in my lane unless i’m positive i know what im talking about, or at least listen to the people who do have that mental illness.” her response to being told she’s wrong and hurting us is to keep insisting she’s right. it’s so fucked up but i can’t say i’m not used to it as a DID system, and not just from her but from society in general 🤷♂️
what i really hate about sophie is her inability to compromise or understand that she can be wrong about things. she always has to be right, and assumes herself as some kind of pillar of truth when sometimes she can't even read a paper and understand what it's talking about correctly.
like, i don't care about arguing with her about endo shit because i don't care about endos. but when she's spreading misinformation about DID and comparing animal alters with zoophilia, her idea, when corrected, is to insist she's right and apparently say that she and i agree on a lot more things stated in the discussion than i actually believe we do.
we agree that harassing zoophiles for existing and not hurting any animals is bad. we also agree that respecting the autonomy and identities of animal alters/headmates, in some capacity. but that's kind of about it.
like, she never said anything about confronting trauma or trauma processing when healing, she literally just automatically assumed that because i was talking about "healing" as a DID system, that i was talking about therapy/fusion, and in the anon ask, completely skipped over the fact that i said they could still appear as animals internally completely healthily. and then said something about "who's to be the judge of the healing process?" like girl did you read the post.
not to mention she and other people came onto the post and said that animal alters can still healthily exist as animal alters, and implying i said that they have to be human, like girl stop. at that point you're cherry picking and can't even understand what i'm talking about when i talk about an animal alter healing from their trauma.
she did this repeatedly until she stated that we allegedly agree on everything and now she's confused as to why i'm pissed when that wasn't even the original thing i was trying to argue, (but i guess that part is a little bit my own fault, haha).
and once again, using a vague definition of zoophilia that i have never seen used in a positive context. like, has she ever thought about the fact that the definition of zoophilia doesn't include mentioning therians/alterhumans/furries because they just weren't on the radar, and/or because of the fact that they're not biologically non-human animals, and therefore can consent?
and especially not talking cartoon animals *because* of the fact that they are anthropomorphized (in the literal use of the word) to the point where they could theoretically consent to sex, and also do not resemble real-life animals in the same way that a photograph of an animal does?
like, i really don't feel like the definition is as muddy as she thinks it is when you bother to think about why it is the way it is across the board. sure, different definitions use different wordings, but in my opinion they're all coming to the same core concept of zoophilia: an attraction to real life, non-anthropomorphized animals.
it's just stupid, lmao.
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The first time I saw kabru I was disappointed that he has blue eyes like :/ but I realized it’s perfectly consistent with how he’s laios’ opposite physically symbolizing how he’s his foil and opposite in general. Others have already mentioned it but
Laios: light skin, blond hair, droopy yellow/brown eyes, bigger build
Kabru: dark skin, black hair, sharp blue eyes, smaller build
Like if he had dark eyes everything else would be the opposite except that. Makes sense
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