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i have to change my header image bc it's no longer christmas and we're in the new year... but me who was stubbornly hanging onto the wanggaeparkgae header image of 'do you wanna eat ramen and go' for the past idk 6-7 yrs? is sitting here 'should i put that back up or find sth else' and it is not at all what two mos ago me (past me in general) would have said- so i have some thinking to do
#turn and face the strange ch-ch-ch-changes (every time i update my blog or give an update of what's to come- i think about this song)#i fear some people may not know who makes up wanggaeparkgae- and that's not a topic of conversation i wish to have#am i thinking about making it a kyunyubbang one... mayhaps- but like- no matter what it's gotta have lighter colors in it bhehbea#kate rambles#possible blog update
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Mod Tow: How would y’all feel in I added Five Nights at Candy’s to the AU? It won’t interfere much with the main plot of Welcome to Fazfuck’s, it’s just a fun bonus thing and you could possibly ask the characters shit as well.
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Five Dollar Fridays!
Can you spare $5 this week? If not, please reblog this post so it reaches someone who can!
Otherwise, please donate $5 to one of the following verified fundraisers for families in Palestine and then reblog this post:
(verification) Musab's Family (£141/£10.000) [1.41%] *new goal and campaign, see here.
(verification) Mohammed's Family (£4.460/£50.000) [8.92%] *new campaign and reduced goal, see here.
(verification) Sohaip's Family (£1.136/£10.000) [11.4%]
(verification) Basel's Family (CHF 9.493/CHF 60.000) [15.8%]
(verification) Nabila's Family ($8.353/$30.000) [27.8%] *new campaign, see here.
(verification) Muhammad's Family (€25.618/€82.000) [31.2%]
(verification) Malak's Family (€8.011/€25.000) [32.0%]
(verification) Samer’s Family (kr 152.518/kr 450.000) [33.9%] *alternate campaign, see here.
(verification) Nadaa's Family (£10.142/£25.000) [40.6%]
(verification) Laila's Family (€33.933/€55.000) [61.7%]
(verification) Mohammad's Family (€33.315/€50.000) [66.6%]
(verification) Abdelrahman's Family (€22.154/€30.000) [73.8%]
(verification) Youssef's Family (€17.880/€23.000) [77.7%] *new reduced goal
(verification) Asmaa's Family (€45.754/€55.000) [83.2%] *new goal
(verification) Amira's Family (€33.350/€39.000) [85.5%]
(verification) Yousef's Family (€49.444/€50.000) [98.9%] *new goal and campaign, see here.
Time stamp: June 20, 2025.
More information and campaigns under the read more.
(Conversions: $5 = kr52.36, €4.66, £3.89, CHF4.30)
If a GFM was closed or deleted before reaching its goal, the funds are not distributed. Request a refund for deleted or terminated GFM campaigns here. Select ‘The funds were never delivered to the intended recipient’ as your reason for requesting a refund. Submit an equivalent donation to the new or remade campaign if available.
Daily Campaigns @writing-prompts-for-palestine
Match Me Monday
Ten Dollar Tuesdays
Do Something Saturdays
Completed Campaigns:
(verification) Nada’s Family (€16.040/€16.000) [100%]
(verification) Wafaa's Family ($99.375/$85.000) [100%] *new goal and campaign, see here.
(verification) Fadi's Family ($52.813/$50.000) [100.0%] *new goal, see here.
*** the follow campaigns have been terminated by GFM/are no longer accepting donations. I am looking for an update from the vetters or organizers.
(verification) Moamen's Family ($396/$30.000) [1.32%] *new campaign and goal, see here.
(verification) Tala’s Family (€13.967/€40.000) [34.9%]
#check the original post for updated goals and campaigns!#ra speaks#palestine#fundraising#mutual aid#free palestine#palestine gfm#palestine fundraiser#five dollar fridays#<- this post will be reblogged every Friday until the goals are met and Palestine is free. i will reblog it in the evening with updates.#i have personally donated at least $5 to each of these. please spare what you can if you can this week.#every dollar helps!#but please reblog so this reaches as many people as possible...i feel weird tagging the big blogs but i might
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Its viscerally upsetting that our preferences are apparently respected but we’re all automatically opted in for tumblr’s AI 3rd party “partners” to supposedly scrape our posts and content? L O L
BLOG SETTINGS -> VISIBILITY -> ENABLE “PREVENT 3RD PARTY SHARING”
If you’re on mobile *you must first update the tumblr app*
THIS MUST BE DONE FOR EVERY INDIVIDUAL PUBLIC BLOG YOU HAVE
#ever heard of the phrase confusopoly?#coined by james stephanie sterling (jimsterling on youtube etc)#they’ve made very poingent observations about how the video game industry operates to exploit players into becoming whales#confusopoly is the concept of a company making something as confusing as possible#to maximise the chance that people wont bother to look into it#and pick whichever option is easiest.#which in this case is not knowing HOW to do this#or that you NEED to do this#a public post on the staff blog is not how you get the word out#update#just straight raving over here
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This question may be a bit silly, but I'm curious to know from Mr!Mychael. Would he have difficult to understand the thoughts of someone who thinks in another language?(like, the person can speak and understand his language perfectly but their thoughts would be in their native language, like Portuguese, Spanish or Japanese)
I hope it is clear for you to understand 😅
Hm, interesting question! I'd say since his mind reading ability works like reading a book of sorts, if he doesn't understand the language, then he doesn't understand the book!
Suppose it's up to you to decide if he can understand English like the game, or your native language! Considering the language barrier he'd be even more on guard since he's finding it harder to read your tone in a different language. Are you angry, or are you just panicked? It's hard to be sure...
#mushroom oasis vn#mychael ask#MR!Mychael#its been a hot minute since ive talked about him#i neeeed to update the qna masterlist soon as always#also theres been talk of tumblr possibly shutting down?? i hope not#id definitely wanna archive the blog if so and move it elsewhere if anyone has suggestions#also thank you to dudefromwormhole for the kind messagee!!! <3
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gonna keep this 'brief' for once in my life:
blanket statement i think it's crappy to publicly post private DMs clearly sent to you in confidence In General. this is true no matter the person or situation! i think it's deeply shameful that anyone would think that having personal DMs publicly shared is remotely okay, let alone something to be supported or sympathized with and not like, a huge violation of trust, privacy, and feelings of personal safety. even if i hadn't broken away from OP for other reasons, this alone would've been enough to make me go wtf is wrong with you and, provided they couldn't be convinced to treat the other party like a human being deserving basic respect, block them flat out. it's absolutely abysmal behaviour towards anyone, but but especially private DMs of someone having a breakdown and being so overwhelmed they couldn't stop shaking (both things you were explicitly told after the fact but well before posting). that's not to say everything was expressed perfectly, but i think we can all agree that having a breakdown does, generally, impact your ability to communicate.
with that out of the way, more under the cut bc i also don't put my weird fucking personal bullshit in the main tags
moreover, shaming people with a social communication disorder asking for social communication accommodations (i.e. can you tell me what i did wrong with specific examples so i can have a model to base future interactions off of in terms of doing better, esp since when i've guessed/tried on my own in the past i've gotten it wrong? something i've often been too scared to do with people bc i don't know them well, and asked you bc even if i no longer self safe with you, i thought i owed it to you to try) you then refused to do and said i was using my autism as an excuse (which partially triggered the breakdown in the first place because then i couldn't explain, ask for help, or advocate for myself in any meaningful way) is also not great. especially when what happened is pretty goddamn textbook autism vs everyone else communication in the first place.
assuming that every time someone blogs about a relationship on their own tumblr blog after blocking you everywhere is vagueblogging is also like... weird to assume you're the only relationship i have in my life that could be in conflict (another friend recently had some conflict, so i was commiserating) and also weird to circumvent and step over a block boundary on a routine basis to begin with bc we've definitely never had a troll do that to harass us on a regular basis, no sir. i came This Close to not seeing the post at all bc i've insulated myself so well and don't have people running to tell me the second someone maybe breathes wrong in my direction, and i honestly feel bad you've spent a Lot more time thinking about me than i have you. or that when calling ppl stupid you've also told them to shoot themselves in the foot but sure. it was silly to feel like your behaviour was contradictory and confusing and to ask for clarification, or to assume you'd leave me and my blogs the fuck alone after i'd made it clear i wanted nothing to do with you; i honestly wish you'd done the same, i can't imagine anyone going into the fandom tags wanted to see any of our shared crap.
last but not least: i think it's slightly bananas to look at someone who left a space because they realized they weren't a good fit for it because their best efforts weren't good enough at keeping things smooth, which was entirely on me, and then a relationship, where it wasn't entirely, bc they realized you really struggled with communicating things in a mature manner (ie. ghosting my partner who was also friends with you despite them not being involved at all and without a word because you just Assumed we were shit talking you, i guess, when in reality i was asking them for advice about how to apologize and they had to point out to me you were being mean because i was still taking everything in good faith) and figured out that whatever i did you wouldn't take it well so it was better to cut my losses and block (after days/weeks of agonizing over what, if anything, to say to you that wouldn't possibly make things worse)... only for you to then not take any of it well and do This?
This, from nicely saying i needed more space from you (only telling you so you wouldn't think i was ignoring you bc that would be cruel out of nowhere to just not respond to messages at all), and then you took it poorly (the way you apparently take everything) and then when i apologized/clarified that it was to work on myself and not an ask of you in any way, you were still aggressive if not downright cruel. even Before doing this, which is really the cherry on top.
if i had a nickel for everyone time someone 1) lost their shit about me blocking them, 2) routinely checked my blog or had had someone keep tabs on me on a regular basis for them (bc that's not creepy or invasive at all) even on my non tdp related blogs, 3) posted a callout post while not actually naming me but making it exceedingly evident that it was about me and 4) publicly aired personal dirty laundry in all the main tags so hard 5) that you couldn't have played the victim more, i'd have two nickels. this is a playbook i have seen before from someone who in some ways did far worse to me (it was an emotionally abusive relationship) and far less in comparison, but it's the same playbook of someone who cannot and does not respect boundaries & cannot handle feeling any negative emotion without lashing out for... what? the last laugh? to make someone a pariah or to punish? i can't imagine being that cruel. i can't imagine being that petty and disregarding another person as a person so deeply. after all, i withheld sending any messages because with each one i drafted, i asked myself it was to help or to hurt, and realized if i couldn't do the former, i shouldn't be sending anything at all.
it's safe to say that not sending more messages was the right decision made to protect myself from accidentally giving you more ammo. in some ways i'm admittedly relieved bc this exact sort of thing was something i was anxious about for weeks, but was entirely keeping to myself bc it was 1) nobody else's business and 2) wanted to believe OP better than that as someone i once loved and trusted; surely, they'd be a mature reasonable adult and while we'd both wounded each other, they wouldn't twist the knife; i certainly wouldn't. in many ways, though, this was even worse than whatever nightmare scenario i'd come up with. i've never had my privacy so directly violated, and i wouldn't wish it on anyone. i still wish i'd been wrong about my inclinations when i stepped away after facing repeated aggression no matter how much i apologized or betrayed myself till i couldn't anymore, and had a select few loved ones reaffirm to me that you were never going to see that maybe you'd made some, even one, mistake along the way, like sitting on your resentment i was unaware of till it reached a boiling point. clearly, they were right.
that said, i hope publicly humiliating someone and violating the trust and privacy of another human being, a friend who trusted you, who never would have done this to you, got you whatever you needed. at least one of us should get something productive out of this, and for me it was shreds of certainty that you've chosen to behave exactly as awfully and pettily as i feared, and honestly that's really unfortunate. you were/are really talented. i'm sure, despite our history, you can be an amazing friend to others. i'm sure you can incredibly understanding and kind; you just chose to be cruel and defensive instead, and i hope you never burn a bridge you regret being unable to repair
cause fuck, while i am far from perfect and am the first to admit i've made plenty of mistakes i have sometimes been unable to adequately atone for (i'm sure plenty of people will rightfully unfollow and/or block me and they absolutely should — whether they find me unsavoury, annoying, condescending, or anything else i've had thrown at me — in order to make their internet experience a better, more positive place) i sure as hell have never done and will never do you've done to me, and i can find a solid ground in that if nothing else.
#fandom nonsense#fivorce (fandom divorce)#fandom drama#jelzorz#jelicatessen#bc she changed her blog url i guess which 1) had to update my tumblr xkit blacklist and 2)#uncovered bc i was updating my sideblog blocklist#i have enough real life crap in my life to deal with (like my partner's health concerns) rn#so thank you for nothing#this is the one & Only post im making about this#good god man#also think it's weird and gross to treat another autonomous human being like just an Extension of someone else#to likewise throw away for doing. Nothing. just the assumption/possibility of something Bad#also like. could/should i have stepped away when i was getting overwhelmed? absolutely.#was i worried it'd be used against me if i did? also yes.
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((Stay Tuned for next week.))
#The Saga of Your Brightness!#tnbc fanart#the nightmare before christmas#tnbc#lock shock and barrel#tnbc barrel#not an ask#comic#blog lore#((The last chapters are STILL not 100% done yet so updates on this are going to be only once a week on fridays with a possible hiatus))#((But thank you so much for your patience with me yalllll))#tnbc oc: nectarine
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Halloween Movie Recommendations
Well it's October so I guess I can make my horror movie rec list. It's nothing fancy or arteur or anything they're just horror movies that actually scared me or I thought were cool.
Classics:
The Invisible Man
Dracula
Invasion of the Body Snatcher (1954)
Cheesy 50s
13 Ghosts
The Screaming Skull
The Blob
Camp
Malevolent
Thirteen Ghosts
Hellraiser
Scream
Actual Legit Fear
The Ring (American version is the only one I've seen unfortunately)
Sinister
Insidious
The Blair Witch Project
The Shining
Talk to Me
Invasion of the Body Snatchers (1978)
Smile
Other?
The Thing
Event Horizon
Re-animator
Evil Dead
The Taking of Deborah Logan
#blogging#I'll probably update this as the month goes on but here you go!#Feel free to ask about possible triggers and stuff I don't mind#And still feel free to send me recs if you think#you might have something to rec based off my above tastes lol.#horror
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GARDENCLAN TAG MASTERLIST
#our garden under heaven // #moon update - the comic itself, moon by moon.
#gardenclan ask - any and all asks i've answered
#gardenclan extra - extra art, supplemental material or assets, and any bonus character stuff that isn't the comic itself. this includes asks, written work, refs, and anything else that isn't the actual comic but supports it. probably lots over overlap with other tags but it will consolidate them all in one place.
#gardenclan lore - anything relating to how the world works or backstory. some comic pages may end up in here alongside extra material.
#gardenclan refs - reference sheets of the characters. i try to keep refs of everyone who appears frequently and as long as they don't have huge spoilers, do intend upon sharing them. you can always send asks for characters who haven't been uploaded yet too.
#gardenclan sprites - in-game sprites and screenshots of the characters. if there's anyone you'd like to see, please send an ask.
#gardenclan fanart - art from YOU of these fellas. i also tag comms i've paid for with this, just to put all non-jj art in the same place, but i will specify in the tags what's paid art vs fanart
character tags - characters will be tagged with just their names (( #angelwing, #imptail, ect. )). you should be able to find all art and appearances of a character under their tag.
#gardenclan#text#tag masterlist#will probably update this a few times depending on what i like#i do not know how to use tumblr#send me an ask if there's something you feel like i should add or change#i want this blog to be as easy to navigate as possible
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This is the bully list after what happened to @abby118 . It comes from a famous Loki GIFS creator on tumblr who is also getting harassed & showed in the toxic behavior of this person behind these many alts accounts. Share it with everyone !!
lokilaufeysondiaries strangegodsloki queenofstarsign85 dreamingofimpalas hereitgoesagain067 buckybarnes-winters0ldier themoonsmaven nerdconpp crackships-r-us69 lokisimp89 lowkey-lokid souls-for-fandoms cassius-blackwood fandemoniumfantasies ladylovelyfan2014 lokismilkshake goddessofvictoryy
PSA for people being targeted by any or all of the above blogs.
personally, I am agnostic on the topic of preemptively blocking people (and sharing block lists, for that matter). I don't usually block people myself unless I'm getting directly harassed and they're becoming a distraction/it's the only way to get them out of my notes. with that being said, that's a personal choice of mine, and I fully support the rights of any blogger to block any other blogger for any (or even no) reason. nobody is entitled to read or interact with anybody else's blog.
this should also go without saying in this day and age, but I do not condone nor encourage anyone going to any of the above blogs to counter-bully them. do not spam their posts' notes, do not send them anon hate, so on and so forth. just block (or don't, if you prefer) and move on. not only for your own sake, but because from my limited direct interactions with/knowledge of a couple of them, it's clear that they crave the attention and it only feeds into their self-pitying view of themselves as the perpetual victim (despite them being the aggressors in each instance I've borne witness to). don't feed the trolls, etc etc.
stay safe out there and do what you need to do to take care of yourselves, loki fandom. 💚💛🖤
#barring further updates to the names on this list#(in which case i will likely just edit this post to avoid this nonsense taking over my whole blog#rather than publish any additional asks on the subject)#i do not intend to address this topic any further#frankly it's bullshit high school drama that i'm way too fucking old to engage in#but just a reminder once again#that you are perfectly entitled to block anyone at anytime for any reason#there's absolutely nothing wrong with curating your own tumblr experience#to provide the greatest joy/least amount of stress possible#whatever that means for you#doing so is normative and healthy actually#ok /psa back to our regularly scheduled nonsense#fandom wank#send me asks
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guys I stayed up to watch Doctor who and I have thoughts
SPOILERS FOR THE FINALE, EMPIRE OF DEATH
SO MANY OF THEM ARE RELAYED TO THE PARALLELS TO ROSE, it's so many I'm going to miss a few definitely, but just a few:
- The finale having the line "We bring life" I immediately thought of Bad Wolf for starters
- Oh and having every episode have a face/phrase somewhere leading them to this finale, where the companion helps bring life to the universe using the tardis? yeah okay let's pretend that didn't already happen s1
- The "Will I ever see you again?" whilst in tears?? I had flashbacks to the beach. I had to physically pause the episode
- Ruby after hearing the doctor say "Of course I'll see you again" saying "your own granddaughter, you left her" is so similar to Rose comparing herself to Sarah Jane saying "But, Sarah Jane- you were that close to her once"
- And most importantly, RUBY SAY I LOVE YOU TO THE DOCTOR, THE DOCTOR DIDNT SAY IT BACK, AND AS SOON AS RUBY COULDNT SEE HIM ANYMORE, TEARS WERE FALLING DOWN HIS FACE, AND HE WAITED A MOMENT, BEFORE TURNING ON THE TARDIS AND FLYING AWAY
I'm actually going to lose it. First Ruby is a blonde northern working class companion, 19 years old, with a name that begins with R, is 4 letters long and is a shade of red. Then Ruby also happens to be without a parent/dad, and contemplates asking the doctor to go back in time to meet said parent.
NOW ALL THIS?!?! either I'm delusional, or this is Rose 2.0, except there's no romance with the doctor
#chr post#doctor who#doctor who spoilers#dw spoilers#empire of death#empire of death spoilers#dw empire of death#i am trying to think of all the possible tags to prevent people from being spoiled#dw#15th doctor#ruby sunday#rose tyler#adding that tag because i love her and i want this post to come up when i search my blog for her#i have lots of other thoughts but the rose similarities i simply had to get off my mind#this isnt even mentioning the Ood which (when they were first mentioned) i jokingly went “omg rose and donna mention”#will update in the morning with more thoughts#because im have more thoughts its just 2am and im not thinking straight
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Just finished reading Steel Ball Run for the first time. 🐎
#Verdict?#Pretty sure the once unknown reason I chose to be alive in this body in this space and in this time was to read that story.#I'm gonna be thinking about this one for a while. Possibly forever.#My and bf and I have been reading and voice acting it and I cried like a baby so many times which works well when you voice Johnny LOL#ALSO KINDA CRAZY I CALLED THIS BLOG A SHRINE WITH OFFERINGS AND PRAYER CONDERING SOME OF THE LINES SPOKEN...#Literally had no idea LOL#I wish [REDACTED] had a happier ending but cosmically I understand it and it's beautiful.#God I'm excited to finally make friends and do google searches now. Feel like I've been hiding in a cave avoiding spoilers!!#updates
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Hiatus announcment!!!!
Well this was a long time incoming.
I haven't been really active lately. Barely posting and just not interacting much with the kind community....So I figured now was the right time for me to tell you,I'm taking a break!
It's been a rough 2 months for my mental state. My motivation has been pretty down and that's why I haven't been quite active. But now it just happened that I got a lot of irl problems. This year of school just happens to be full of practical work which takes a lot of my time,I been a bit behind in my classes cuz seasonly flu🥲 and lately I started to....not like my friends??? Annoyed might be a better words.
I feel like I'm turning into a more cold person and I don't like that! So I'm taking some time off to clear my head,get some relaxing hobbies that could get my writing back to rolling,you know the healthy lifestyle. So I won't be active on tumblr for awhile,at least until I get myself in check.
I don't wish to give people that still follow me false hope. If I'm interacting here,I want to be the best version of myself and make someone smile!
So what does that mean for this blog?
Offically..... the sword is on an indefinite hiatus!
#blog update#hiatus#I'm sorry#I have to admmit whb fandom helped me more than I thought was possible#I been able to met so many wonderful people who I hold great respect for#I feel so helpless lately#maybe a bit empty even#But I don't want it to stay that way#I want to get stronger!#I want to feel the thrill of writing again and the excitment of thirsting over handsome man
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Heyo~
How's everyone doing? I'm sorry for being so quiet, but I kind of got sucked into another fandom. I'm thinking of making a whole new blog of Hunter x Hunter and perhaps do an imagine blog. I haven't decided yet, but I did complete a rough draft of the first chapter of a story I plan on uploading on AO3.
If you guys are interested, let me know! I'll make the blog sometime tonight or tomorrow to get things started.
Thanks for reading~! I hope you guys have an amazing weekend! ♥
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hey did you know there's an album loosely adapting moby-dick that has wlw starhab specifically starbuck being ahab's secret admirer while ahab and fedallah (who is also a woman) are lovers apparently. yeah just thought i should let you know you'd seem interested (the album makes a LOT of weird choices and is not a Good adapation at all... but the music does slap and also we get canon doomed lesbian starhab hello). just to let you know
HEY WHAT THE FUCK. ANON PLEASE SAY MORE RIGHT NOW I AM PRESSING MY FACE TO THE GLASS???? CANON FEDALLAHAB AND STARHAB???? PLEASE TELL ME THE NAME OF THIS I AM BEGGING 👁💙👁
#i have already consumed so many bad adaptations i'll sit through anything for canon starhab#AND WLW STARHAB? WHAT THE FUCK? WHAT THE FUCK?#IS IT POSSIBLE TO KNOW THE NAME OF THIS ALBUM 👁👁👁👁#anonymous#moby dick#answered#i havent been able to find this on Google pls help me anon 😭😭who is she#UPDATE for anyone seeing this post now: theres follow ups on my blog!#album is kill the whale by daniel emond and i have notes/reviews on it in further posts#kill the whale
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i reread my rules every now and then to make sure that i’ve worded things well enough to be understood and straightforward, and i realize that maybe i’ve worded something in a way that could be misconstrued.
listed under things to tag for me , i have ‘usfw, jumpscares, and infidelity’. i didn’t want to have to line break all that and i have it directly following how i tag triggers. i never want to minimize what being triggered means and i also don’t want to exaggerate how these things makes ME personally feel and in order to interact more fluidly, here’s some clarification.
- while everyone here is excellent with tagging usfw, to be clear, what i ask to be tagged primarily is explicit sexual imagery (gifsets, photosets, etc.). i have it blacklisted so it doesn’t pop out all over my screen when i’m browsing in public or around family/friends.
- i will note that when it comes to discussing sexual themes within headcanons / our ships / muses, etc. — i will say that i am open to it and if it ever veers into territory i’m uncomfortable with, i’ll say so. but generally if i’ve started to ship with you, i have reached a comfort level where i’m cool discussing those genre of headcanons and ship material.
- i just really don’t like jumpscares, lmao. it doesn’t happen often at all but just in case.
- now, i’ve been going back and forth in my mind over whether infidelity is a trigger at this point. some personal traumatic events in life that have been the result of infidelity have really made me intolerant to it. i’ve been outspoken about my opinions on it in media/used as plot points in the past, and it really puts a damper on my enjoyment of a relationship (esp when that relationship is like the main thing of a series). i understand it can be a nuanced situation in certain settings, but i prefer to keep myself at a distance from it. as such, this is the one that veers closest to triggering. it can be highly upsetting to me and uncomfortable. i have it blacklisted but i’m going to be so real— and this is NOT an attack on anyone’s preferences or what they personally don’t mind writing but because of how i feel about it, if you tend to write infidelity plots or enjoy it enough to be a constant on the dash, i will softblock.
- however, having it as a backstory to a character or in some part of the background is not something that bothers me too much. ex, your muse was cheated on in their last relationship, or their parents have a history of infidelity.
#this post got away from me 😱#and this isn’t sparked by any recent issues#just like ive said — i recheck my wording from time to time#and if i feel the need to explain i want to be as#communicative as possible !!#if anything is confusing pls always ask < 33#psa.#blog update.#this has been a scheduled post.
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