#proship self shipping

[hardmangoshipping]

💙 proship/neutral safe 💙

imagine your f/o waking up from a wet dream with you in it.

theyre moaning in their sleep, muttering your name, grinding into the mattress.

do they wake up after cumming in their sleep, covered in sweat and muttering a cute little "f-fuck.." before they head to the bathroom to clean up the mess they made, embarrassed?

or do they wake up before they cum, needy and flustered, having to jerk off at the thought of you, embarrassed but unable to help themself?

💙 proship/neutral safe 💙

[socrateslasgalen]

Repeat after me:

It is OKAY to have content preferences and to be uncomfortable with certain ships or topics, controversial or not. It is OKAY to distance yourself from such content and block certain tags or creators.

It is NOT OKAY to actively hate and harass real people for creating content of fictional characters that features things that make you uncomfortable.

[true-autistic-tales]

oh boy when my fictional man hears about what you did you are all done for

[luvstruckmutt]

he (fictional) wants me so bad

[tyrianludaship]

me, on my selfship blog: god this is so self-indulgent. embarrassing. don't perceive me.

[nimue-hidden-lake]

F/O holding you tightly. F/O nuzzling against one of your cheeks. F/O squishing you like a stuffed animal. F/O chuckling into your ear. F/O getting cozy with you. F/O being all snuggly with you.

Do not start imagining it or you might not be able to stop picturing F/O cuddles!

Proship/Comship do not interact please!

[baitustudios]

i love it when other selfshippers follow me because i get to be like "yes girl get that fictional old man he DOES love you!!" over and over again and it makes me so happy <333

[hardmangoshipping]

💙 proship/neutral safe 💙

imagine walking in on your f/o jerking off.

you hear noise from behind a door while walking by. it sounds like your f/o might be talking aloud to themself, but its quiet enough that you arent sure what youre hearing.

youre curious. the door is open a crack... so you gently push it open, not wanting to disturb. you dont open it enough to be noticable, but enough that you can see and hear better.

your eyes widen as you realize whats happening - their hand is in their pants, little noises keep slipping out, and you hear your name being moaned out. theyre obviously trying to keep quiet, and you realize that maybe you should do something.

you debate with yourself for a split second - do you leave and not mention this, or... should you be honest and let them know youre here?

you decide to be honest.

maybe your f/o gets embarrassed upon noticing you, all flustered! trying to cover themself, nervously asking "h-how much did you hear?", blushing profusely.

or maybe, your f/o isnt really embarrassed at all. maybe, they invite you over, teasing you for watching, and flustering you instead.

both ways? you end up doing more than just watching.

💙 proship/neutral safe 💙

[xxdreamersdesirexx]

Soft OTP or Self Ship Prompts

An ask game for your OTP or self ship! Answers can be as short or as long as you care to make them. Don't feel bad about answering with a tiny snippet, and don't feel bad about going ham! 

1- Write about your ship cuddling into bed together after a long and tiring day.

2- Write about your ship helping each other to prepare a special meal.

3- Write about your ship holding hands in a tense moment.

4- Write about your ship holding hands in a happy moment. 

5- Write about a casual kiss between your ship.

6- Write about an intense kiss between your ship.

7- Write about one member of your ship asking the other to dance with them.

8- Write about one member of your ship giving the other a compliment. 

9- Write about your ship getting dressed up in fancy outfits together. 

10- Write about your ship helping each other get ready for the day in the morning. 

11- Write about your ship waking up together. 

12- Write about your ship going somewhere new together for the first time.

13- Write about your ship celebrating one of the members birthdays. 

14- Write about your ship celebrating their anniversary.

15- Write about your ship spending a lazy afternoon together. 

16- Write about a hug between your ship. 

17- Write about your ship sharing hot drinks together.

18- Write about how each member of your ship smells. 

19- Write about your ship going on a casual date.

20- Write about your ship sneaking a romantic moment together.

21- Write about your ship showing each other physical affection. 

22- Write about a member of your ship giving the other a special gift. 

23- Write about your ship supporting each other through a hard time.

24- Write about your ship cuddling.

25- Write about your ship bathing or swimming together.

[side-self-shift]

Shoutout to selfshippers whose f/o only get new content every so often

Shoutout to selfshippers whose f/o get new content everyday

Shoutout to selfshippers whose f/o hasn't gotten new content in months

Shoutout to selfshippers whose f/o hasn't gotten new content in years

[profictiontheatre]

How i sleep knowing there’s no rules to selfshipping, I can create as many aus as I want, I can selfship with whoever I want for whatever reason, I can use my self inserts however I want, and I can create any content I want because we’re all just having fun and nobody irl is being affected:

[carlosoliveiras-wife]

a bit of a personal post. taps chin. because i've been feeling highly insecure for an unspecified amount of time and so i thought i'd make an appreciation post !

putting this in big bold letters: PROSHIP DNI

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shoutout to selfshippers with bottling problems and/or tendencies. to those of us who keep our feelings locked up inside until it pops and pours out when we least want it to. to those of us who bottle so much to keep others feeling happy. to the selfshippers who are so scared to voice anything about how they feel because they've experienced negative reactions from those they've trusted, just by voicing their emotions.

shoutout to selfshippers who can't properly gush because they often feel like a nuisance to others. whether it's the kinda gushing that's about your f/o's lore, your f/o in general, your selfships— to those of us who find it weird and at times a bit uncomfortable to gush because we're so used to feeling like a nuisance. or that we won't even be given the time of day to have our stuff acknowledged.

shoutout to selfshippers who are genuinely not understood. who's reactions at times are viewed as unnecessary or overdramatic or illogical for reacting the way we do when we're scared of opening up.

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your f/o(s) wouldn't treat you like that. they'd listen to you oh so intently, to whatever you'd have to say.

if you've been bottling for so long, whether it's emotions or interests, your f/o(s) wouldn't let you keep that up. they'd gently encourage you to express yourself, even if it starts out small. they reassure you that they won't get mad about speaking your mind, that're you're not an asshole for how you feel, especially if your f/o(s) understand what cause your reactions and why you keep things inside.

your f/o(s) will do everything in their power to make you feel safe in being you, you who expresses yourself, just like every human should be allowed to.

[selfship-confession-box]

for a while, i ran two selfship imagines blogs: one strictly against proship and one that caters to proship to see how the two communities actually treat each other. I posted similar imagines on both blogs, none specifying the f/o's age, gender, etc, and nothing nsfw.

the proship blog's notifications were disgusting. people talking about the things they want to do to underaged characters, people fantasizing about feral animals, and one guy who pretended the imagines were about his irl sister he wanted to bang. I received the occasional "you need help" anon, but no threats or anything like that.

the no-proship blog? I received constant threats from the proship side. death threats. rape threats. one person made it a point to describe how he would "ruin" me every single day. another tried to doxx me (but ended up sending the address of a TJ Maxx halfway across the country). people talking about how I was "censoring the internet" and I need to "try reading some noncon to lighten up".

both blogs were deleted after a month, and I will never trust a proship person saying they're the ones being treated badly.

Dear god

[nimue-hidden-lake]

Ok hear me out... Being carried by your f/o if they can manage to lift you up. How would they carry you? Would it be in the classic bridal style carry perhaps? Their arms grabbing you around your back and legs, lifting you up like this with ease.

Or they wrap their arms around you while lifting you up as you two face each other, your legs wrapped around your f/o's waist so you don't fall off while enjoying your f/o's embrace.

Or maybe they pick you up by carrying you piggyback style? A classic but certainly great to hold tightly onto your f/o and nuzzling against them.

Then again, maybe your f/o is the type who would just grab you and toss you over their shoulder, carrying you like a sandbag.

Then again, maybe your f/o is the weaker or smaller one. So you get to carry them! Now I need you to truly ask yourself... How would you carry your f/o then? And would they enjoy it, be too embarrassed and blush like crazy or perhaps even protest? Either way, you two end up in each other's arms somehow, don't you?

Proship/Comship do not itneract please!

[paranormalsylvi]

Shoutout to all Selfshippers.

Shoutout to the women who selfship, to the men who selfship, to the intersex people, to the nonbinary people and other trans people who selfship. Shoutout to the Xenogender Selfshippers and those who prefer to stay unlabeled.

Shoutout to the black Selfshippers, to the white Selfshippers, to asian Selfshippers and to all the other people of color in the community. Shoutout to those of you who speak english, those who don't, those who only speak one language and those who speak multiple.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who don't use she/her pronouns, to the ones who use she/her pronouns! Shoutout to the he/him, they/them, it/its, neopronouns and no pronouns using Selfshippers.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who date men and those who date women. And Shoutout to Selfshippers who date both men and women, or even anyone that isn't either. Shoutout to the Selfshippers whose F/Os have no canon gender or are canonically genderless.

Shoutout to neurodivergent Selfshippers, to those of you who have personality disorders and dissociative disorders. Shoutout to those of you who struggle with social interactions, who need a constant reassurance, to those who feel safest in their relationship with their F/Os.

Shoutout to disabeled Selfshippers, to those who don't always need their aid and to those who do always need them! To Selfshippers who have learned to live with their disability and embrace it the best they can, and those who struggle daily with their disability.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who are Aromantic or Asexual, to Selfshippers who are Fictosexual and Fictoromantic. Shoutout to the staight, gay, lesbian, bi, pan, omni and poly Selfshippers. Shoutout to the Selfshippers whos Orientation can't be tied down with those words and to Selfshippers who refuse to label themselves.

Shoutout to monogamous Selfshippers, to polyamorous Selfshippers, those who are ambiamorous and those who don't label themselves in this regard.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who are also Plural or Otherkin, to the Therians and Fictionkins. A Shoutout to the Selfshippers who are IRLs of Characters and those who heavily identify with certain characters for any reason whatsoever.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who ship with their F/Os for fun, and to those who take their relationship with their F/Os serious. Shoutout to those whose F/Os have saved them and to those who save their F/Os.

Shoutout to Selfshippers to ship with popular characters, to those who ship with unpopular characters. Shoutout to those who ship with main characters, those who ship with side characters, to those who ship with villains, and those who ship with background characters. Shoutout to those who took their F/Os and made them an OC to save them from their source.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who accept all of their F/Os canon, to those who only accept certain aspects as canon and those who refuse all of their canon.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who have interacted with, watched and read all of their F/Os sourcematerial. Shoutout to those who haven't watched everything, regardless of if you plan to or not. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who have not once interacted with their F/Os source.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who draw Art of their F/Os, who draw Art with them and their F/Os, to those who write about their F/Os and to those who don't do any of this. Shoutout to those who daydream about their F/Os and those who dream about their F/Os at night.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who only have one F/O, to those who have multiple. Shoutout to those who have only romantic F/Os and to those who have not one romantic F/O. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who ship platonically, queerplatonically, romantically, familial or any other way.

Shoutout to the young Selfshippers in the Community, to the teens and the adults. Shoutout to those who only started selfshipping now and those who have selfshipped for years on end.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who feel as though selfshipping saved their life. Shoutout to those who use it as a coping mechanism, to those who beat loneliness and to those who use it as a means of getting through their daily life.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who date someone next to their F/Os, to those who love both their Significant Other and their Fictional Other. Shoutout to those who don't want to date someone in real life because they feel content with their F/Os and to those who can't date someone in real life due to being so committed to their F/Os.

Shoutout to Selfshippers with F/Os from popular media, to those with F/Os from their childhood media and to those with really unknown or obscure media.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who go to school, who work or who are at home. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who struggle with life and those who are secure and happy.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who would give everything to have their F/Os be real and to those who are fine with them being fictional. Shoutout to Selfshippers who struggle to understand that their F/Os are fictional.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who have found their family in their F/Os, to those with two families now, to Selfshippers who have a friendgroup of F/Os.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who are comfortable sharing their F/Os, to those who feel uncomfortable with sharing them. Shoutout to Selfshippers whos boundaries around their F/Os change, to the Selfshippers who feel guilty for their boundaries. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who feel embarassed about their F/Os or feel embarassed about gushing about them.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who see themselves as pretty and those who don't. Shoutout to those of you that are insecure, that feel embarassed about certain aspects of their looks and those who love themselves fully.

Shoutout to skinny Selfshippers, to chubby and fat Selfshippers. Shoutout to those of you who love their body and those who don't. Shoutout to those of you who have stretch marks, those who have body hair and shave and those who don't shave.

Shoutout to Selfshippers with dyed hair and those who keep their hair natural. Shoutout to those with tattoos and those with piercings.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who own a bunch of merch of their F/Os and shoutout to those of you who don't have any merch at all. Shoutout to those of you who have F/Os that have no merch and to those of you who don't have the money to buy merch. Shoutout to those of you who make their own merch of their F/Os, those who commission others and those who buy their merch online.

Shoutout to all and any Selfshipper. Know that your F/Os love you - because you're the definition of perfect to them.

[grotesque-butler]

antis are so rude to proship self-shippers for no reason. i'll see a post talking about "oh your f/o loves you and thinks you deserve everything in the world for just existing🥺🥰" then at the end they're always like "PROSHITTERS DNI YOUR F/O WISHES YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD" like ??? honey self-shipping is a proship thing. stop trying to drive us out of our own community.

putting this on the main tags bc y'all need to see this.