Stop putting so much weight on "love languages". Males will always say it's physical touch and women will always say it's quality time & acts of service and so on. Because we're different. And what differentiates us is that males are supposed to win our love. Our love language from now on is Effort.
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Remember Her
Remember her, with tears in her eyes as she begged him not to get drunk again.
Remember her, with bruises and cuts trying to make excuses for him.
Remember her, as she had to walk home because he left her as his form of “punishment”.
Remember her, when he said she was psycho, crazy, and insecure for not trusting him.
Remember her, as she cried on the bathroom floor because he cheated… again.
Remember her, when he said she was nothing without him.
Remember her, when he said no one would ever want her, that her and her son were too difficult.
Remember her, when he said she deserved it and it was all her fault.
Remember her, when he said she couldn’t leave because she’d have no place to go.
Remember her, when he slammed on the breaks going 80 on the highway because she was too quiet.
Remember her, when he laughed at her fear.
Remember her, when he pulled his gun on her after he took her out to the middle of nowhere.
Remember her, when he slapped her in the face for saying sorry.
Remember her, when he jerked the car into on coming traffic while her son was in the backseat.
Remember her, as he dragged her by the hair throwing her out onto the porch to remind her of her place in HIS home.
Remember her, when he pulled his knife out and pinned her to the couch.
Remember her, when he shoved her face in the bed while applying his entire weight on her back just so she’d “shut the fuck up”.
Remember her, when he threw her into the cabinets breaking her watch then throwing it at her leg.
Remember her, when her hand got smashed as she fought to take the gun away.
Remember her, when he found someone younger so he simply up and left her that day.
Remember her, when he told her she wasn’t aloud to move on.
Remember her, as he waited drunk on her porch till she got home.
Remember her, as she got the unknown/no caller id phone call, after phone call because he wasn’t letting her go.
Remember her, when he told her she wasn’t as good of a fuck as the other girl.
Remember her, when he got her pregnant and left her all alone.
Remember her, when he promised to change then did the same shit over, and over.
Remember her, because she deserved so much better.
Remember her… to remind yourself….
She went through hell, but we are a survivor.✊🏽
Sincerely yours,
B.
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