#sorry that it’s just trans masc people

[mushed-kid]

characters that are trans in canon imo and in what direction:

- jake peralta (ftm)

- ron weasley (ftm)

- dipper pines (ftm)

- chase davenport (ftm)

- jonathan byers (ftm)

- pidge holt (ftm/non binary)

- romelle (mtf)

- klaus baudelaire (ftm)

- isadora quagmire (mtf)

- klaus hargreeves (nonbinary/genderdluid)

- viktor hargreeves (ftm, actually canon)

- jeff winger (ftm)

- stiles stilinski (ftm)

- peter parker (ftm)

- enola holmes (mtf)

[fleapit]

can we pleasee please please stop fucking fearmongering and blaming trans men for the predstrogen situation. please god. posts about "trans men teaming up with terfs to get trans women banned!" with zero sources all over my dash. blaming "transandrophobia truthers" for all the transmisogyny. have you all lost your fucking minds?? what the fuck happened to t4t??? what the fuck happened to trans solidarity??? why is "transfem separatism" even a subject worth entertaining????

anyone who says other trans people are the enemy is a fucking fed. jesus christ

[a-polite-melody]

“Maybe the people who sent the anons were trolls, but the transandrodorks are defending the sentiment so actually…”

Are the “transandrodorks” defending that transmisogynistic copypasta in the room with us? Or are you just upset that trans men/mascs are speaking up and saying we aren’t okay with being labeled as untrustworthy because of there being an anon copypasta and simply our being trans men/mascs?

[whitehairedanimeboyfriend]

Conversations on here will basically be like

"Hey these new reproductive rights issues are affecting trans men too so let's make sure we include them in the conversation, instead of calling it women's health issues."

"Would you stop complaining? Trans women have it worse than trans men. TERFs want to kill us but only detransition you."

"If living as the gender you are not is so easy why would you transition in the first place? Obviously trans people transition because they can't live with existing as a gender they are not. Obviously "just going back" isn't an option because we often fail to behave the way we're expected to anyway. Forcing any trans person to detransition is a death sentence in and of itself."

"Why are you always speaking over transfems when we talk about transmisogynistic violence???"

[mothbeasts]

i miss posting and making and engaging with ieytd content but I will be honest sometimes it feels alienating. as a lesbian.

[canisonicscrewyou]

I just think some of you don't actually care about trans rights and liberation for everyone. I'm starting to think some of you believe YOU personally should be left alone and respected.. But you also get to be the bully who's mean to other trans people and justified, encouraged even to do so, because oppression.

[sleepysuburb]

I'm rlly worried that people are gonna think me exploring my gender and presenting differently is coming out of nowhere or me being "faddy" bc I don't really talk to anyone about it apart from my gf for fear of not being taken seriously. why can't I wear a placard saying "this was a long time coming"

[oneofthosecrazygirls-mp3]

why is presenting and passing as masc so hard. I hate this stupid world can we like remove gender please and thank you

[angryscreeching]

i love life so much

[alltimefail-sims]

You know what? I think we all need to start gatekeeping some townies and premades a little harder lmfao

[soliddaddy96]

i think every trans poc person should be allowed to get treats whenever they want and be able to kill 1 person free of consequences a year

[joligarcon]

i think that a lot of the discourse re: pronouns ("it's bad to ask for someone's pronouns but it's also bad to use they/them as a default" and so on) comes from an insecurity that binary trans people who are gender-conforming (by this i mean binary trans women who have a very feminine gender presentation and binary trans men with a very masculine one) in that they think if someone asks what their pronouns are, even in good faith, it means theyre not "passing" and that its just a polite version of the ol "are you a boy or a girl" and i totally see where these people are coming from because i feel this insecurity too but my honest opinion, and im sorry if this harsh, is that we need to get over ourselves and understand that many people ask us that question in genuine good faith, or default to they/them, simply because they know better than to assume what our gender is based on our appearance lol. hot take but ive been working on alleviating my dysphoria in ways that dont involve upholding the gender binary or cisnormative ideas such as the one according to which a persons gender always correlates to their gender presentation 100% of the time, and i think yall should too lol. it baffles me to see posts from other trans people, with hundreds of other trans people in the notes agreeing with the op, saying that if someone chooses to be very feminine its because theyre "clearly trying to communicate that theyre a girl" like where the fuck did we go wrong as a community that weve ended up upholding the very gender essentialist bullshit ideas weve been trying to combat for ages. no im not going to address every single nuance of this topic right now because this post is already super long and convulated as hell im sorry please dont yell at me. but one thing i will say is if youre going to ask about peoples pronouns dont just single out the one person whose gender is ambiguous to you because that feels shady and not unlike the "are you a boy or a girl" shit i mentioned earlier

[ofdreamsanddoodles]

most of the time i see someone complaining about like, “no one ever talks about THIS trans issue” its about something that could very easily be explained by the fact that like. most people online just talk about what effects them & the more indepth you talk about an issue with your body the higher chance there is that someone think its gross. for example it’s very easy to talk about binders because it’s essentially just, like. clothing. however less people are going to spread your post about vaginal atrophy because that would require them to have both a genuine vested interest in other people’s health, and for them to not consider talking about trans people’s vaginas as tmi. the second part can be especially hard because most people consider private parts in general as tmi which means trying to educate anyone about bodies is just an extremely uphill battle. basically what i’m saying is that trans people who talk about their dicks are probably one of the strongest groups known to man

[sunnywalnut]

This pride month I would like to remind you that:

Only supporting short trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting hairless trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting long haired trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting publicly out trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting visually feminine trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting post op/medically transitioning trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting "attractive" trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting popular trans women is not supporting trans women.

Only supporting long term/women who've known their gender since they were little is not supporting trans women.

If women have to fit a criteria for you to respect them, you don't respect women. You just want to be valid in your hatred.

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[scary-ivy]

Nonbinary AMAB people I love you so much. I'm sorry everyone acts like you're "basically just a trans woman" if you're feminine and then gets confused when you tell them you're not a woman, or else treats you like you don't exist at all if you're masc or fluid. I love you and I see you.

[everymlmhybrid]

also last night i was hit with stronger gender envy than i've had in my entire adult life so far like "fuck it and have hope that someday i can come out" levels of envy it was kinda scary frankly.