#tbotd

[haydenigmatic]

Members of House Parovus 🦚

House Parovus is the ruling noble house of the fertile kingdom of Praives, known across the realm for its abundant harvests, thriving trade, and showy displays of wealth. Though once kings, they were the first to have bent the knee to the Dragon Conqueror and have since ruled as dukes. Their power flows from the great river that feeds their land and economy—but beneath the prosperity lies a family tangled in vanity, ambition, and carefully concealed dysfunction.

The Duke of Gaart, Lord Andros Parovus

FC: John Malkovich

He’s the kind of man who wears a twelve-button cloak to a two-minute walk. Would rather pose in portraits than prepare for war. Takes credit for every success and blames servants for every failure. Utterly overshadowed by his wife, tolerated by his peers, and mocked behind his back.

So easy to dismiss — but that’s the problem. No one sees him coming. And maybe, just maybe, he plays the fool on purpose.

The Duchess, Lady Yseldra Solvard

FC: I kinda see Veronica Lake in her

She's vain, vicious, and radiates passive-aggressive menace like it’s a fragrance line. Protective of her daughters, especially Nesrin, whom she sees as her legacy. Thinks Seline’s scandal was a tragedy — not for morality, but for wasted political capital. Andros and Yseldra: Not love — more like a performance of a marriage. She tolerates his foolishness, pushes her own agendas, and rules the real Parovus court through mirrors and smiles.

The Heir, and the Youngest Child, Ser Genady Parovus

He wants to be a protector of the people, a noble lord his people can cheer for—but he’s never commanded a garrison, never ridden into a real skirmish. His sword is polished, but not blooded. He is gallant, yes—he idolises knights, stories of glory, and the old codes of chivalry. He wants to be good. He wants to matter. But this is Parovus, and nothing stays pure forever. He looks up to Nesrin, but she intimidates him. She’s sharper, older, and plays the game like a born player.

The Disgraced Daughter, Lady Seline

Once the crown jewel of Praives pride, this poor lady had one wild ride and fell for someone she shouldn't and her life turned to ash. Fell for some lowborn dreamer, got pregnant. Out of wedlock. Andros was one tantrum away from vomiting in his peacock robe. Her child was “handled”—either hidden, fostered, or disposed of depending on who you ask. She was quietly shipped off somewhere "for her health."

The Middle Child and The Jewel of Praives, Lady Nesrin Parovus

Dutiful, radiant, calculating. She knows what’s expected and she plays the role perfectly. Holds a hate-on for Odette Lavone so intense you could use it to fuel a war machine. She thinks Odette’s whole “sweet little saint” act is a damn farce—and maybe she’s not wrong. She’s tight-laced and ambitious as all, but hides it behind a demure smile and expensive perfumes. Has a secret, that if it ever got out, could harm her reputation, she’s not stupid. She knows what’s at stake.

[oh-my-damn]

The person, the actor and the art. Seems like some people can’t see the difference here. Even if he used his sm to call out politicians now and then, he isn’t obligated to do that further as the person that he is. I see the person behind those tweets, not the actor and definitely not his art./

He’s not obligated to tweet about anything, for sure. But he has publicly gone out of his way to display actions that are in conflict with his former brand (yeah I said it 😂). We’re not only talking about him going inactive on SM. We’re talking about his active choices that he decided to share and how it doesn’t match up with the way he was being super passionate in his political and social commentary. I know he already had problematic friends but now he’s even gone and added to it. 😂 This is similar to what’s happening with Taylor/Matty but also way different because Chris was faaar more vocal than TS and gained a whole lot of glowing publicity as his result.

To give him TBOTD, in regards to his current inactivity, the level and frequency of conversation surrounding social justice was very intense between 2016-2020 and frankly not sustainable imo. But that doesn’t mean he couldn’t have settled into a more measured pace or hey, maybe even picked up an acting gig (the “art”) that explored those kinds of topics. A tweet here or there, a link to something interesting he read is not a huge ask, but he would rather post about dogs looking at sunsets and tattoos. Is that an unfair characterization?

For eg, Beyoncé and Kendrick Lamar are not constantly tweeting but they address progressive ideas in their art.

☝️

Another good way for Chris to show his support is also by not dating racist women 😌 but apparently thats too much to ask, according to his Defenders 😂

[discourse-by-candlelight]

FYI, ADN actually got the word tulpa from the Tibetan book of the dead, punished two years earlier than her book by some old friends of hers, including Dawa Samdup. The TBotD called it tulpai, but ADN wrote it the way she pronounced it, losing the final i. It was published in 1927 and can be found online, and you can read about Samdup and ADN's relationship just by googling them together.

You're missing a big step in your argument on whether it's appropriation and how closely connected it is.

We scanned the Tibetan book of the dead 1927 edition and found no such word inside it. We already know of her connections with Samdup though as it is referenced in Tracking The Tulpa.

If you could provide more evidence for this claim we would appreciate it, but for now we shall stick with what we have currently verified in it's transliteration.

[ajtorres0]

I know I promised to show some of the art books I own. Don't worry, I'm getting to it, I just wanted to show off some different books first. Like this one here to show you another way to see dragons. Honestly, when I first picked this book up back when I was in high school, I did it because dragons. Who knew that the art within was just so amazing and so inspiring that I wanted to draw dragons like this ... Haven't been able to yet, but I'm working on it lol. I only took some of the pictures from within, but trust me when I say that if you're a fan of dragons, I highly recommend picking this book up. It shows you a take on european dragons, magic, and tales that I found interesting at the time. I don't know now because I haven't read it in so long lol. Oh! Fun fact, this book definitely helped shape how to create dragons after reading Eragon. This book was just so fun to read and look at. Just get this when you can, you won't be disappointed. QOTD: What color do you want to see on a dragon? #KimmersBooks #Bookstagram #Writergram #Read #Reader #Reading #Book #Write #Writer #Writing #AmReading #AmWriting #HighFantasy #UrbanFantasy #Fantasy #Dragons #TBotD #EpicFantasy #Ciruelo #PortalFantasy #ScienceFantasy https://www.instagram.com/p/CGiU7RkAJLb/?igshid=1kkew8you2wvz

[shittytokudetails]

YOU'RE TOKUBOY OF THE DAY????? you are singlehandedly feeding this fandom

Indeed I am, what else would I do with this endless amount of screenshots? I'm the baddest bitch in this fandom for a reason.

Tokuboy of the day and shitty toku details are two halves of the same coin.

I also used to have a shitposting one called overquartzer and a parody one called toku character of the day, the idea for this blog came from the later.

[giresthoughts]

”There will be a grey twilight-like light, both by night and by day, and at all times.” TBotD. ’In the mist’, 2013, Stokkum, ph Erik Gigengack

[tokuboyoftheday]

it's official, tbotd is in indefinite hiatus

so hi, how long it's been, it's sad that we got reunited this way

one persistent question while running tbotd was if I was contributing to the fetishization and sexualization of the asian ppl, mainly japanese, and while I can talk about my intentions, that does little to the change the actual content or how ppl interacted with it. Bc as small as I am in the grand scheme, I have to still consider my actions.

If I can't find an answer if I'm contributing to the spread of dehumanization of asians through "look at how pretty he is" I just can't continue, and that is an answer I haven't found yet.

there's a post about some of the infantilization and dehumanization in the western toku fandom, for any anyone thinking it doesn't apply

and a post with links to support the stop asian hate movement

[kate-mccannon]

About the author:

Hi! You can call me Leah! I am in my mid twenties, residing in rural Midwest USA.

My time zone is American Central Time!

What I write:

I’m a pretty devout follower of all things “A Song of Ice and Fire,” so most of my works are within that fandom!

I am a Ewan Mitchell girlie so jot that down.

Requests:

Requests are open!

• I will only take 5 requests at a time

• I will not write physical characteristics of the reader

• I will not write underage characters

• I will write any of my OFC if it’s a request compliant with the story.

• I will write depraved fics, they’re my fave.

Completed Requests:

She’s an Angel - Osferth x Fem!(unnamed)OC - Teen

Tooth Rotting Bliss - NSFW/+18, Modern Aemond x Wife (Reader/Third Person)

Dangerous Games - NSFW/+18, Modern Aemond x Girlfriend (Reader/Third Person)

Series Masterlists:

False Dragons - Aemond Targaryen x Fem!OC, Dark fic, NSFW/+18

Greater of Two Evils - Dark!Aemond Targaryen x Fem!Reader. NSFW/+18.

The Lost Children - Osferth x Fem!Reader. Mini-Series. Not completed. NSFW/+18.

The Blood of the Dragon - Aemond Targaryen x Fem!OC, Fluffy Dark Fic, Explicit

It’s Only Forever, Not Long at All - Goblin King!Aemond x Fem!Reader - Not Completed. NSFW+18, Mini-series

The Green Wolf - Dark fic! Aegon Targaryen II x Fem!OC x Aemond Targaryen, Explicit

Ruined- Mini-Series, Aemond x OFC (Cerenna Lannister), Explicit

One-Shot Masterlists:

Aemond x Alice - (from TBOTD) - Non-Plot Explicit Drabble

My Fiancé’s Little Brother - Modern AU, Aemond x Aegon’s Fiancé Reader, OneShot, NSFW/+18

The Art of Intimacy - Aemond x Wife (Reader) x Brothel Madame, One Shot, NSFW/+18

He Stopped Loving Her Today - Modern AU, Aemond x (Third Person) AFAB Reader, One-Shot, Mature

Something Wicked This Way Comes - HotD Big-Bang Entry

In The Woods Somewhere - HotD Big-Bang Entry

Desecration of Peace - Will (Salad Days) x Unnamed Female Character, Angst

I Wish I Was Still My Mother’s Daughter - WIP

For You Did Murder Alys Rivers - WIP

[vancouvery]

Have gotten my lifetime fill of works of art by (mostly, not always) Boomers derived from the Tibetan Book of the Dead.

I know you old hippies blew your mind on it in yr youth, mostly because it wasn’t dusty Ancient Greek or Roman mythology like the squares shoved down yr throats in school, but could you pleeeez cool it already? Us yr artsy kids got so sick of it we wholesale went with sci-fi/fantasy to get away, & our kids just went & swallowed Japanese media whole so, just, you know, just stop? No new Boomer works that deal with the TBotD?

[haydenigmatic]

Members of House Oursbar 🐻

(Beware this family is numerous) Old as the frost and just as stubborn, House Oursbar oversees the kingdom of Rodkall from their carved-wood-and-ice stronghold, Greyrim. Born of forest chieftains and hardened by centuries of winter, they value resilience over razzle-dazzle. They're the kind of people who outlast you, not out talk you.

The Duke of Greyrim (Rodkall) Lord Caloghero "Cal" Oursbar

“The Laughing Bear”

He’s a mountain of a man, with a wild beard that somehow makes him look even more friendly than he already is, which pisses off his own advisors. He’s clever, kind, but not soft—he cracks jokes at council meetings, drinks with fishermen, and will smile before breaking a traitor’s jaw with a punch that sounds like an avalanche. Tired of the north’s squabbles but loyal to it still. He doesn’t want power. He wants peace—but if you try to take from him, you’ll find out what a peacekeeper with a war axe looks like.

The Duchess, Lady Orissa Winterbourne

Commanding, calculating, and fiercely intelligent. Doesn’t waste words unless they’re meant to wound or win. Devoted to her children, but won’t coddle a single one. She’s the only person who can shout Cal down and live. Whispers claim she has northern witch blood—and that she still bleeds by choice under the full moon. Her marriage to Cal: Arranged, of course. But the gods—or maybe just fate—made it work, and have seven kids, each one madder or more charming than the last.

The Heir, Ser Helios Oursbar

Firstborn. Dutiful, grimly handsome, and carries the weight of the north like a damn yoke on his back. Basically Cal 2.0, just less hairy and more exhausted. Fights because he must, not because he likes it. Secretly dreams of giving it all up to live as a fisherman. Engaged to some noble daughter he barely knows—but he’s low-key in love with a stable hand's daughter.

The More Suited Second Born, Ser Willard Oursbar

Obsessed with runes, stars, and strategy games. At 10, he outplayed one of Gerard’s war-captains in a war table exercise and then calmly said, “You would’ve lost 3,000 men.” People are low key terrified of him. Cal believes Will sees too much—but protects him like a sacred relic. Second son, but a better mind than Helios by a mile—and it messes with both of them.

The Life of the Feast, Ser Frederick Oursbar

Third in line, first to start a tavern brawl and the last to leave the bed of someone else's spouse. Charismatic lunatic with a love for fighting and living too hard. Would make an incredible warlord… if he didn’t get distracted by every shiny object or ass that crosses his path. Cal alternates between cursing his name and laughing like a madman every time Fred survives something stupid.

The Wonder Twins, Ser Raylon and Ser Jaylon Oursbar

(Yes, they were born minutes apart. But it is not probable they'll inherit so no one knows who's the eldest twin)

Shared a girlfriend once. Still argue about who she liked better. Gerard fucking hates them. Sleep back-to-back when on campaign. Fought their first skirmish together at fourteen. Never lie to each other. Ever. Jay once broke a noble’s nose in court for mocking Ray’s quietness. They have a whistle code from when they were boys—still use it during combat. Currently being considered for a diplomatic mission—or exile, depending on who you ask.

Ray: Keeps Jay out of trouble more often than not. Would kill for his brother without hesitation.

Jay: Tells Ray everything. Brags about conquests, schemes, and when he actually feels something, it’s Ray he confesses to.

The Eldest Daughter, Lady Jasira Oursbar

Former tomboy turned bow-wielding northern goddess. Used to wrestle her brothers, now shoots faster than most men can blink. Grew into stunning beauty around 17—but it pissed her off. Has matured into a walking contradiction: beautiful, deadly, and no one can control her. Her arrows are known to whistle like ghosts—they don’t miss. Ever.

The Youngest Child, Lady Glissandra Oursbar

Sweetest soul in the entire cold north. Tames beasts, sings to crows, once made a snow bear cub follow her home. Her voice can quiet drunken soldiers, and even Cal listens when she speaks. People say she’s the heart of Rodkall. She’s everyone’s favourite—even Fred lets her braid his hair sometimes. Loves animals, flowers, and whispers to things in the woods that whisper back.

Lord Torvin the Red – Older Brother (Deceased)

Cal's elder brother and original heir to House Oursbar. A warrior-poet, known for his battle fury and his strange obsession with old songs. Died heroically during a fucking doomed raid on a Lonkalt border outpost, when he stayed behind to hold a mountain pass alone so the others could escape. His death haunts Cal. Some say Cal keeps Torvin's axe above the hearth not just for memory—but because he hears it whisper in the night.

Lady Elska Oursbar, Eldest Sister (Deceased)

The pride of the Oursbars—clever, radiant, fiercely loyal. Married to a noble in the southern reaches of the north, meant to be a diplomatic peace stitch between Rodkall and a Lonkalt-leaning border lord. Poisoned on her wedding night. The entire keep burned down a week later, and no one ever found the killer—but Cal was gone for four days, and returned with frostbitten hands and blood on his boots. The family never speaks of her death without rage.

Cal's Twin Brother, Lord Vornghero (Missing, Presumed Dead),

The wildest of them all—untamed, violent, charismatic as the abyss. Looked just like Cal, only meaner. Vanished during the Great Hunt of the Iron Pines, where a storm buried half their party. Some say he went mad, survived, and now roams the mountains as a beast. Rumours persist that Gerard may have captured him years later, kept as a chained berserker in some secret Lonkalt pit. Cal refuses to believe it… but his eyes always twitch when the name Vorn is spoken.

Commander Joren Oursbar, Younger Brother

Cal's war-hound and blunt hammer, the one who always stood behind him, shield raised and axe ready. Commander of the coastal watch—he runs the Frostshore garrison and keeps pirates and smugglers in check with brutal efficiency. Doesn’t smile much, doesn’t talk much, doesn’t fuck around unless he’s drinking. Rumours whisper that Joren knows something about Vorn’s disappearance… but hasn’t told Cal everything. Maybe he’s waiting. Maybe he's afraid. Maybe he saw something in the ice that changed him.

Syllene Oursbar, Younger Sisiter

Always preferred words over war, and courts over cold—the only Oursbar who left the North without regret. Married off to Lord Vane Sarpe, a Count and younger brother of the Duke of Rouge Lake. She loves her family, sure—but from afar. She’s not interested in politics, war, or reclaiming the North. She just wants to enjoy being important without doing anything. The Western nobility plays slow, silent politics like a goddamn religion—and she’s clueless. She might be used someday. Or worse… her children might be pulled into something she doesn’t understand.

And that's it, I didn't include Syllene children because they are not so releant to the story.

[tomcuddlesfic]

Throw back of the day: I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus

Hey guys! I thought it would be really fun if i do one of these things where I give a throw back of the day since I have so many stories from the past and in my archives. Hopefully, you can see the difference in my writing from then and now and hopefully, praying to jesus right now, that it's for the better.

I might do one for submissions too! So, send in some of your lovely stories and maybe you can be the throw back of the day later on next week <333 

TITLE: I saw mommy kissing Santa Claus

DATE ORIGINALLY POSTED:  December 16 2012

GENRE: Fluff / Romance / Christmas

AUTHOR: tomcuddlesfic

******READ HERE*******

[tokuboyoftheday]

Hey wait didnt you repeat belial at one point?

well yes, but actually no. Let me explain

that’s a piece of the masterlist, my spreadsheet that contains tbotd past and future, the first column is the number, when the first event started (shirtless tb month), it switches to ex to indicate that doesn’t count for the no repetition rule, and goes back when the event ends.

belial was posted during the villains month, that doesn’t count, then again normally. But keep in mind that sometimes I refuse normal requests for those posted in events bc I didn’t watched the show yet, and plan to do so in the near future. And in some special occasions I accept repetitions.

[concreteheartscollective]

Throwback Video Of The Day: Kanye West - Can't Tell Me Nothing

Back in 2007 off one of his earlier albums, Graduation. Enjoy!

[haydenigmatic]

All wives of the named family heads are awesome and then there's Mom....

Guys Merindah is not that bad, I swear it, besides I'm saving the more challenging ones for later, just Nesrin's mother lol

[haydenigmatic]

You are the King’s third child, a Princess/Prince third in line to the throne of the eight kingdoms,Third in line to the throne, you have nothing to worry about , well of course you have your lessons but not as extensive as your brothers because your older brother is the heir and even if something happened to him, there is your other big brother.

Maybe you will be a pawn for your father in a marriage alliance, However, who knows what the future holds, something or someone could ensure that your dynasty will be nothing more than dust and you will have to fight for the throne as the heir apparent, or maybe you won’t have to fight at all…

DEMO ✸ MOODBOARDS ✸ ASK ME ANYTHING YOU WANT ✸ FORUM ✸ PLAYLISTS ✸

RO's intro post: ✸ Aurelia/n✸Damon✸Doria/n✸Hanniel✸

               ✸ Jasira✸ Nesrin ✸ Odette ✸ Sorin ✸ Verena ✸  

Play as a Princess/Prince of a powerful dynasty.

Variety of dialogue depending on your gender

Find love among nine characters of whom two are gender selectable

Manipulate, or genuinely care for your people

Bond with creatures that used to be extinct

Blurry the line between good and bad

Form alliances to win the crown

Do anything to survive at court

♢ Lady/Lord Aurelia/Aurelian Mezzei (She/her - He/him) 2 years older than MC

Aurelia/n is a proud and skilled adventurer with a free-spirited nature, always yearning for new experiences and the freedom of the open road. Beneath their composed exterior, they possess a kind heart and a rational mind, but can become a formidable force when provoked.

"The world is a tapestry, woven with threads of wonder and complexity. With each step, I strive to unravel its mysteries and add my own vibrant colors."

♢ Lady/Lord Doria/Dorian Muriel  (She/her - He/him) 3 years older than MC

Doria/n is a complex and enigmatic individual, shrouded in a veil of cynicism and guardedness. Their ruthless actions and lack of remorse paint them as a hardened figure, while their hidden heart of gold and capacity for loyalty reveal a deeper layer beneath the surface. They navigate life with a cautious scepticism, harbouring deep-seated wounds and a relentless desire for self-preservation.

"There's no room for sentimentality or second chances in my life. Once you cross me, there's no going back."

♢ Hanniel (Connell) Almlinger  (He/him) 4 years older than MC

Hanniel is a chivalrous and principled knight, driven by a strong sense of justice and an unwavering dedication to doing what is right. Despite the shame he feels as a bastard, he possesses a warm and compassionate heart, and his experiences have shaped him into a resilient and empathetic individual.

"The measure of a person's worth is not determined by their birthright, but by the content of their character."

♢ Lord Damon Lavone (He/him) 4 years older than MC

Damon is a charismatic and ambitious knight, driven by a relentless pursuit of glory and recognition. His privileged background as the heir to the second wealthiest man in The Eight Kingdoms, combined with his natural talent and captivating presence, has made him a captivating legend and a force to be reckoned with. Beneath his confident exterior lies a fiercely loyal and protective nature, willing to go to great lengths for the ones he loves.

"To be ordinary is a fate worse than death. I was destined for greatness, and I will leave my mark on this world. Remember my name, for it will be whispered in awe and reverence."

♢ Lady Jasira Oursbar (She/her) 2 years older than MC

Jasira is a fiercely independent and outspoken individual, unafraid to challenge societal expectations and fight for what she believes in. As the daughter of a northern duke, she defies the traditional role of a lady, embodying strength, determination, and a rebellious spirit. With a background rooted in nobility, Jasira carries a deep sense of loyalty and a strong connection to her heritage, guiding her actions and shaping her unwavering pursuit of justice.

"I'd rather live a life of freedom and danger than one of safety and confinement."

♢ Lady Nesrin Parovus (She/her) 1 year older than MC

Nesrin is a cunning and intelligent individual, skilled in the art of manipulation and strategic thinking. Born into nobility as the daughter of one of the seven dukes, she exudes grace and elegance while harbouring a hidden depth of ambition and determination. With her background of privilege and a mind shaped by political intrigue, Nesrin is a formidable force, always three steps ahead in the game of power.

"There's nothing more satisfying than outmaneuvering someone who thought they had the upper hand."

♢ Lady Odette Lavone (She/her) 1 year younger than MC

Odette is a compassionate and idealistic individual, driven by a strong sense of empathy and a desire for justice. With her noble background as the daughter of one of the seven dukes, she possesses elegance and grace, often regarded as the epitome of a court lady. Her genuine kindness and unwavering devotion make her a steadfast ally and a beacon of hope in a complex and sometimes treacherous world.

"Love is not just a fleeting emotion; it is a profound connection that binds us together. With each beat of my heart, I choose to love fiercely, fiercely enough to change the world."

♢ Sorin of Soirsa (She/her) 2 years older than MC

Sorin is a resilient and resourceful individual, shaped by a challenging past as an orphan and a former courtesan. With a guarded demeanour and an independent spirit, she navigates the world with a keen intellect and a knack for survival. Beneath her tough exterior lies a tender heart yearning for connection, a hidden vulnerability that only a select few are privileged to witness.

"Life may have dealt me a difficult hand, but I'll play it with audacious grace, turning adversity into art."

♢ Lady Verena Sarpe (She/her) Same age as MC

Verena is a captivating and ambitious noblewoman, known for her seductive allure and calculated strategies. Born into a distinguished family, she carries the weight of her tarnished reputation and navigates the intricate web of political power with cunning and determination. Behind her enchanting facade lies a complex soul yearning for genuine love, battling her own insecurities and the shadows of her past.

"Love is a delicate dance, and I have perfected the steps. But be warned, for the fire that burns within me is as treacherous as it is enchanting."

[haydenigmatic]

who currently rules Soirsa

Soirsa is not ruled by a single person, as it is made by 12 mini countries or principalities, each with their own representative, but the ones who control it, I would say are the members of The Concord of the Twelve, basically a council by 12 powerful members from Soirsa