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trans-xianxian · 2 years
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hmmmm I drafted an email to my boss abt how her text regarding my time off request after my mother's death made me feel very uncomfortable and how I felt like it was unprofessional should I send it
#obviously I did not go to sleep after that reblog kshdmudksb#anyway I want to but also like I work closely w her every day and I don't want to eternally feel uncomfortable because I confronted her#but at the same time like her text made me feel bad enough that it completely altered how I feel about my job#like I was going to come back next year and for summer camp but how she handled the whole thing just made me feel Bad#and like if in the future something else happens where I need extended time off she will be equally as not understanding#idk it just put a rlly bad taste in my mouth that she tried to make my co workers work life my responsibility during my time off#I feel like thats something she needs to be confronted about#but like. what outcome will that have other than making it uncomfortable to be around her for the foreseeable future#idk and also like. everyone else in my life including co workers has been so understanding and kind and compassionate#but even her My Condolences tm text was kind of cold and rude#and its like. okay maybe I'll calm down about this once I'm not In The Throws Of Grief but at the same time#I am in a very emotionally vulnerable place and someone intentionally took advantage of that to make me feel bad#thats kind of a big deal?#idk its just weird. she'd been so understanding until I actually needed something from her#I'd also sort of been getting the impression that she was growing tired of the whole broken foot thing#but I was hoping that that was just me projecting cuz I feel bad about not being helpful#now I am nawt so sure...#anyway this really sucks I really loved my work environment and then it was ruined with one (1) text#ghost posts#text
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frobby · 27 days
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rin 1000000% has a list somewhere of things hes good at that yukio is bad at
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mcybree · 5 months
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the server wide traitor blacklist is so so interesting to me… The only reason everyone has stayed alive so far is because the community as a whole acts as a safety net. When someone dies, everyone chips in. Now that it’s established that you can get rejected from that community safety net for making enough people angry… ooh. social exile as a direct threat to a player’s survival. if they stay committed to this shit could get real
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starbiology · 1 year
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i still to this day do not understand that gay men can call each other queens, lady, or girl but the second a lesbian uses masculine terms ppls heads fucking explode
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skunkes · 11 months
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might sound weird to say as a person with a couple ocs who have Big Horrible Event(s) in their backstories or as a person who has like 3 ocs total bc he sucks at writing and as a person who hopes their ocs arent too Boring with [the thing im about to mention] but the thing about writing [characters] and [people] is that like.
any little thing a person experiences can take up their whole existence... its actually something "fun" to experience as i meet new ppl and do more things. My friend had something happen that she'll be talking about forever. I had several things happen last year that ill never stop talking about, some of which other ppl think werent that bad actually. In the same way I'll forever remember about the way my sister accidentally insulted me almost 10 years ago, it's really interesting and Fun to find and assign smaller things like that to characters...its really Real. some people's dealbreakers are other people's solvable problems etc etc
#(as well as the opposite: Big Event that maybe shocks everyone around em but they genuinely werent shaken by)#though this one is more common and leads to those ''ohh i didnt know that was normal oops'' moments#talkys#inspired by recent me and friend events#and also recent events where i told sum ppl more stuff about Thing and they responded as if it wasnt a big deal. but it was to me.#and also how i thought a part of al's childhood backstory was kind of maybe dumb and not realistically as impactful as id expect#but i saw someone on reddit almost word for word write that as their experience and how its shaped em as a person#and thats it like... the small things are boring and hard to keep track of sometimes#its not like you'll include every single little event your oc was shaped by in their bio#but idk. its like Fun to piece together for fun. to mold a human being#ykwim? wld be silly to tell everyone ''oh my oc struggles with self image due to many instances like... when their sister called em ugly''#or write it anywhere but it is fun to Know and have in your head. and its real !#just like if a friend told you about something that happened to em#long post#delete later#sorry i keep saying stupid obvious shit lately ive always been bad at oc making AND socializing so im learning everything late#but anyway yes. idk even as i keep making ocs that are ''similar'' its like. every person so different#people can react to anything in any way for any reason. i love people#this is why i struggle a bit with keeping ocs to archetypes i guess bc like. what is ooc for an oc. people contain contradictions all the#time. you can change yourself at any time.#ok nobody will read this far so ill go to the real insane rambling#part of this has been a part of my chats with talon while trying to get him to share more info#like. yeah ok you're 400+ years old the things that happened to you were such a comparatively small part of your life#but humans dont live as long and think about small things until they die. i dont think time would heal all wounds actually. not all of em#some thoughts just always come to gnaw at your brain. its ok to not be over things. i feel ill never be over some things#and also complainerism can be fun but thats something else entirely wee hee ^_^
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bellamyblakru · 2 months
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i will never understand how some people can actively shit on something they know someone loves and finds joy in right in front of them. how can you hate something that makes someone else happy in this absolutely fucked world in front of them.
its the passive aggression for no reason i will never ever understand or do to others. if you have a passion, fucking LIVE it. if nothing else, passion gets us through every shitty day, and i will always support it.
have passion in spite of those who hate.
#its absolutely mind boggling to me#and genuinely makes me so fucjinf upset#i was sitting next to my sister who has been nicer to me than usual as she is talking to her online friend and im doing my nails silently b#its her polish and i didnt wanna take it out of her room. but i look up and shes ranking music genres which is all cool. but without#hesitation as the first one at the most bottom tier she put kpop. like i understand its not her cup of tea but i was like okay thats#something that actively makes me wanna keep living yaknow. and she knows that. so i was like#‘interesting placement for kpop’ and she didnt say anything so i said ‘im not sure youve listened to it enough to have such a violent#opinion on it’ and she immediately got angry saying shes ‘heard enough’ and then got mad at me for saying that saying why was i being ‘like#this what the fuck’ and my heart genuinely sunk into my ass but i couldnt leave even though i felt like crying bc i only did one hand and i#was drying at that moment plus i didn’t wanna make it a big deal. but this is not the first time she’s actively hated on my music without#prompt from me and it just makes me ????? like. music taste differs with everyone i understand this and i respect it. if something brings u#happiness then i would love to hear and listen even if i wouldn’t choose it myself. but being a bitch about it. idk#ultimately its the fact of being mean for no reason over someone else’s passion makes u a fucking asshole#:)))) im not crying bye#ashley rambles#to delete later#my mom and brother do it too btw. hating on it and making sure i hear it.#my mom was doing it the other day and my 7 year old nephew kept saying ‘pook i love it. i think its cool’ and it made me cry because kids#have the capacity for such unaltered kindness as the world has yet been cruel to them#idk man
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wine-dark-soup · 7 months
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thinking about how the social status of half elves - at least in the fantasy media i am familiar with - is never expanded upon in a satisfying way.
For a long time i was dissatisfied with this state of affairs but i couldn't exactly pin WHY (aside from the obvious lack of research put into fantasy racism). So i just kept playing my games as a half elf because despite everything i still like playing a character that is just like me...
... WAIT A MINUTE!
This is it! Half elves are supposed to be *special*. They're like the result of a forbidden union/a relatively frowned upon union ("what you married this guy? But you'll outlive him by a millenia!") And so they are victims of racism in their world. BUT THEY ARE ALSO MEANT TO BE THE SPECIALEST BOYS (gn) IN THE UNIVERSE. Probably because of tolkien's influence. They have a longer lifespan than humans. They mature quickly. They have the qualities of both races. They are hero material. Something something "only by uniting humans and elves will survive" made flesh.
So now we have half elves that are technically a vulnerable minority hated by a lot of people but also their own overpowered race.
I'd argue that's because (white?) people want to have their own little fantasy where it's fine to be biracial and only suffer minimally from racism and if they do it's ok because well. SUPERPOWERS
That would also explain why half elves' racial issues are rarely explored. What do you mean they don't have a community of their own? Have they developed a culture of their own? What do you mean they are seen as bizarre but also don't seem to be targeted more than that (SPECIALEST BOY momence)? What happens when THEY have children? How are the children percieved? Do they fight for more recognition? Etc etc please fantasy writers i want to KNOW MORE
Like i want to believe so much that - especially in recent years - there's no in depth analysis on this because whatever, it's fantasy you can be green and have horns blablabla, but when writers keep having this layer of fantasy racism about half elves it's really hard to. Well. Believe
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emilyartstudio-s · 1 year
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Everytime I saw your art (on twitter) it makes me wanna draw. It makes me want to go back to drawing because it made me happy. I just wish that I would have/find more time for myself to draw things that makes me happy again. College has been biting me in the ass and I'm slow af with my hw
Anyway I love your art a lot and I hope you never stop making them, but also please take care of yourself and don't push yourself too hard. Thank you for putting a smile on my face :) (and for making me squirm sometimes cus 💙💚)
Have a good day/night!!
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OMG YOU ALL ARE SO LOVELY THANK YOU FOR THESE MESSAGES!! I reread these and others so much you guys literally fill my heart with so much love!! Thank you <333!! IM SAVIGN THESE FOREVER TO LOOK BACK AT :,))
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mythicalpoolnoodle · 8 months
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Hey guys guess what part of the match were in right now 🙂🙂🙂
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Olena being pissed af after yet another Monday morning with Russian missile / drone attacks and roasting people on Twitter is the kind of Queen energy I love.
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She woke up and choose violence.
Good for her.
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suenitos · 19 days
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potgate?
so basically sapnap posted this tiktok during his cheezits sponsorship era and theres a part where hes cooking up his cheezits and gets salt in his eye (he didnt hit his head my bad) and someone behind the camera has a little giggle. the reflection of it felt pretty obviously like george wearing his white shirt and black shorts and i thought it was george but some people didnt think so which is fine youre entitled to yOuR oWn OpInIoN but im 10 million percent confident it is him due to process of elimination but also who the hell else has this gay laugh like him that dteam know of. like hello guys this is occam and his razor. so thats potgate and i dont sound insane
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butterscotch-brigade · 3 months
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i think a lot of you need to do some introspection whenever something or somebody makes you uncomfortable and ask yourself WHY and if its really even a big deal in the first place. of course you have the right to feel however you want, but its important to assess your own point of view instead of assuming that youre always right. has this person actually done anything wrong, is this piece of media actually "irredeemable," or do you have personal biases that are influencing your judgment? are you making that callout post to "spread awareness," or are you doing it because that person was kind of mean to you 5 years ago? do you really want to "protect your community," or do you just want to bring pain and misery to a specific person? are there any specific patterns in your behavior/reaction toward certain people that may indicate something More than just discomfort with their actions? are you holding a grudge? are you interpreting everything they say/do in bad faith out of spite?
i dont know. just some questions for ppl to take into consideration
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unnonexistence · 4 months
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idk if there's anything in stories i get more petty about than poorly-written "main character shows up to a new place and meets everyone" character introduction scenes
#personal#they make me SO ANGRY ahglkmsfkl#it isnt just the trope of showing up and meeting everyone either#like it works for me in some things!#i think pacific rim does a really good job with characterization for example#and it's got a sequence of scenes where raleigh arrives and the audience is introduced to the shatterdome & important characters basically#my working theory until i do some more analysis is that stories that do it well leave some mystery#like in pacrim you don't find out mako's whole deal immediately upon meeting her#pentecost doesnt go ''this is mako mori. one of our brightest. her whole family was killed by a kaiju and she wants to be a pilot''#he says she's in charge of the mk 3 restoration program#and she doesn't immediately offer up her backstory because why would she. real people dont do that#the russian pilots dont show up and go ''hello we are russian''. pentecost just tells raleigh briefly who they are#etc. newt & hermann's intro scene is one of my favourite bits of characterization Ever and you don't learn that much about hermann during i#all the info you get is from newt being chatty and ridiculous and mocking hermann and putting his foot in his mouth. i.e. newt being newt#and that's what makes it good!#when chuck and herc are introduced you learn absolutely nothing about chuck. hes just there in the background#he and raleigh look at each other for a second and you kinda go ''who's that guy''#AND THATS ENOUGH TO ESTABLISH HIM AS ''PROBABLY IMPORTANT LATER''#idk idk but so many books do this kind of scene so badly that it pisses me off#so many POPULAR books too. like i either am uniquely annoyed about this or other people are way more willing to overlook it lol#as far as examples go. the house in the cerulean sea and every heart a doorway were the books where i got so annoyed i immediately DNFed#i feel like the long way to a small angry planet does it a little bit but not as bad. i cant remember for sure it's been a while#i did finish that one but i had extremely mixed feelings about it#and now im reading a big ship at the edge of the universe and. once again it is happening#aaaargh
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daddy-socrates · 5 months
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i think my interview this morning went well!!
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mikuhats · 3 months
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Batman arkham asylum kind of makes harley a bit dumb which is kind of lame
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piplupod · 3 months
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really wish people would be kinder about preventative measures. i am tired of being treated like I am paranoid for wearing a mask, for wearing tick repellent when hiking, even for simple shit like wearing sunscreen ??? 😭😭😭 can people just be like... chill about other ppls choices. esp if theyre preventative measures that will keep you and your body safe from shit that makes ur life worse? just be cool idk goddamn :[
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