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terranceholdsapencil · 9 months ago
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I sometimes think its weird that everyone must have a 'favourite doctor'. I get the appeal, but how its so wide spread baffles me.
Theyre all one person, in the end, with each regeneration being all that came before and more, and a little different due to the experiences they had and the people theyve met, just how I am different from when I was 15 years old, but still the same.
I have a favourite doctor for conveniency reasons, mostly, 12- but even then, whats a 'favourite doctor'. My favourite performance? My favourite to have a fun time with? My favourite to make me aspire to be better? My favourite to laugh, my favourite to cry for? Theyre all different. I love 12 as much as I love 1 or 2 or 3 or 4. Maybe I have incarnations I dont feel as strongly for, but thats usually out of unfamiliarity with all they went through and by such an inability to truly grasp who the doctor was when they wore that face (e.g. my only experience with 8 being the tv movie) or because they amplify parts of the doctor Im less fond of (e.g. six being a little mean).
But in the end, theyre all of it anyway? All of the Doctor is mean, whether its the first doctor or the sixth or the tenth, all doctors are kind, whether its the second or fourth or 12th or 14th, all of the doctor has experienced grief, all of them is strong willed, brave, afraid.
I like the idea of having a 'favourite'. To me its a little like your favourite actors role, I love david tennants hamlet more than I like his alec hardy, but I still love his acting, period.
But this obsession of needing a favourite doctor, of needing to love one part of this beautiful, incredible character more than others, often it feels unfair to who they are. This grand person being reduced to a few years of their endlessly long life. To a single face.
Maybe that's what feels so real about thoschei. Companions tend to get attached to a face. To this one part. To the master the current doctor's body is secondary.
"Doesn't matter which face he was wearing, they're all the Doctor to me."
And they are, in fact, all the Doctor.
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yourstardarling · 1 year ago
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Beauty Is Intimidating
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I was thinking about this earlier, that beauty creates a lot of mixed reactions in people. There is no one way to define beauty and what is deemed beautiful is personal interpretation. What I have noticed though is that oftentimes people who look good can easily intimidate other people. Their beauty creates a barrier that makes it hard sometimes for them to be approached. Like in popular Highschool movies for example, beautiful people are often seen as untouchable. They hold a lot more power than others and only other beautiful people can easily be around them.
The reason I brought this up is because it made me wonder about the nature of beauty. What better planet to look at than beauty herself, Venus. Venus the planet of love, femininity and beauty rules over the way we view attraction in our lives. However, the nature of Venus is to face scrutiny and conflict for her beauty. Her signs are opposing forces that don’t like Venuses beauty.
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Taurus & Scorpio: This first axis shows the point that beauty will often cause intimidation. People who are beautiful have a way of bringing up the shadows of other people. They are ideally secure within themselves and their appearance. This in turn creates an effect where they’ll face scrutiny for others insecurities. “I wish I had hair like hers” “Why aren’t my arms as muscular as his” This demonstrates how beauty, will bring about underlying feelings of others to light. It can garner jealousy and envy for your appearance. So the intimidation itself does not come from the attractive person, but from the insecurities others may have inside. It’s a feeling of unworthiness to even talk to someone they believe looks better than them. Oftentimes people make the assumption that a beautiful person won’t like to talk to them. Sometimes if these feelings are not evaluated, it can cause deep emotional resentment towards good looking people.
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Libra & Aries: This next axis shows us how beauty can often cause conflictions within other people. Beautiful people are susceptible to face hatred for their appearance. A lot of aggression can be thrown towards them just for the fact they look good. With the Aries influence on Libra, people will want to physically fight them. Some have faced bullying and harassment growing up which motivated them to improve their appearance. At the same time beautiful people can easily get other people to fight for them. Like Helen of Troy, a whole war was waged in her name because she was considered the most beautiful women in her time. So beauty here becomes a form of protection, which intimidates others from messing with you. However, the air sign nature of Libra shows how conflict will instead arise in the form of gossip. A lot of rumors can be made about them, which are usually lower Aries quality traits, such as being a b*tch, explosive, mean and narcissistic. For example, my friend has been told multiple times that other people thought she looked mean so they did not approach her. When in reality, she's a goofball and is far from being mean. Beauty here creates intimidation, by people either wanting to fight you or stay away in fear of being attacked by you.
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Pisces & Virgo: This axis is between Venus’s exaltation and fall placements. In Pisces, Venus love knows no bounds, they are able to find beauty in everything and everyone. Virgo though reminds us of what beauty means in our society. It signifies facing constant scrutiny. Instead of being loved for their whole being, beautiful people will often face a lot criticism on their looks. They will get shamed for any slight changes in their appearance such as their weight, face and complexion. Criticism on why they are wearing this outfit, why does their hair look like this and a need to bring them down for not being perfect. Pisces reminds us that this is a reflection of what you find imperfect within yourself. The beautiful person is just mirroring the insecurities in other people. That is why you can find something within them to always critique because it’s the criticism you have about yourself. The exaltation of Pisces teaches us to let go of trying to pay attention to every little detail about other’s appearance. Instead it's about appreciating the whole, which includes the fact that they are a regular person. There is so much more to them than just their physical looks. A reminder that before making all these assumptions about them, it is important to get to know who they are behind the mask.
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This is just my theory and observation on beauty. So next time people think you’re unapproachable and scary, just know it’s probably because you’re so sexy 😏. Lmfao, hope yall enjoyed.
- Your Star Darling
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coochellati · 1 year ago
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We all know how much we love our Bruno smut and how hot he can be in them 😩
Which leads me to ask, how much experience do you think he has? Do you think he’s had past partners or flings? Or is he a virgin who’s learned techniques to please his partner motivated by his want to please them? And for funsies, what do you think is his length? 👀
Hi!!! First of all, I wanted to thank you for sending me this ask, because now I get an excuse to talk about my thoughts surrounding his love life!!! This is a topic I am very passionate about.
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I'm very excited to share these headcanons because they’re something I’ve heavily discussed with @phosphor-escent / @cornerfortherats (Maggie) at random times during the past few months. She is a lovely person to hold a deep, analytical conversation about Bruno with. (And a lovely person all-around.)
Discussion is under the cut!!
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Bruno Bucciarati has never been in a relationship, nor has he slept around. (He doesn’t strike me as the type to have one night stands—loyalty is one of his defining character traits.)
As for why he lacks experience, I believe that Bruno would be very hesitant to let someone into his dangerous life.
Whether you like it or not, being associated with Bruno Bucciarati means being tied to Passione, a reality he's well aware of. Having connections to the organization can be dangerous—Bruno's enemies could use his loved ones against him. Being someone who prioritizes the safety of those he cares for over his own, the fear of loved ones becoming harmed due to his affiliations is enough to prevent him from forming deep relationships.
After the events of Golden Wind, I imagine Bruno would have been promoted to either Underboss or Consigliere within Passione. Passione is an immensely powerful organization, especially under Giorno's leadership. (If you consider Purple Haze Feedback to be canon, you'll know that Giorno's Passione has power beyond anything Diavolo could have ever imagined, surpassing even that of any president.)
With such a high-ranking position, Bruno would undoubtedly have a significant target on his back—not that he wasn't already in a highly sought-after position as Capo.
Being an existing member of Passione may make it easier to form a relationship with Bruno, but it certainly doesn't make it easy. If Bruno holds a higher rank, (which is almost certain if Giorno is boss, and still quite likely even if Bruno is a Capo,) he'd know that the person he's involved with would become an even more significant target than they already are.
Naturally, that raises the question: what if this person holds the same rank as Bruno or even higher? Given Bruno's serious approach to his career, he would likely maintain professionalism, trying to avoid letting personal feelings interfere.
(I would also like to note that if the person he cared about wasn't in Passione and expressed a desire to join, Bruno would do everything in his power to keep them out of the organization, likely outright forbidding it.)
At this point, you may be thinking, "Why does Coochellati think getting into a relationship with Bruno would be so difficult? Other mafiosos get into relationships--just look at Tiziano and Squalo!" While yes, it is true that typical mafiosos aren't afraid to form close relationships with others, we know Bruno isn't your typical mafioso. To begin with, "typical mafiosos" don't become career criminals at the age of twelve. (This leads nicely into my next point.)
So, what's the underlying reason behind my belief that Bruno would have a hard time getting into a relationship?
Childhood Trauma.
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At the ripe age of seven, Bruno Bucciarati experienced his parents' divorce. Divorce can be traumatizing--according to the University of Illinois Chicago, "Children of divorced parents are at an increased risk of [having] interpersonal relationship difficulties."
While not every child of divorce struggles in forming and maintaining relationships, evidence from Golden Wind suggests that this could be a factor for Bruno. His actions and behaviors indicate that his upbringing has left a lasting impact on the way he forms and maintains relationships.
The moment he was made to choose which parent he wanted to live with was likely traumatic, especially with the high stakes he was presented with. Despite knowing that living with his mother would provide him the opportunity to attend a good school, he knew his father needed his presence. He chose to risk the strong possibility of a bright future for his father's sake, and at just seven years old, Bruno had already learned to prioritize others' needs over his own. This only intensified over time--by the age of twelve, Bruno was willing to murder to protect his father, quick to throw away any hopes of having a good future.
Throughout Golden Wind, we repeatedly see Bruno sacrificing himself for the needs of others. For someone with a pattern of this behavior and is acutely aware of the danger his associations present, it’s more likely he would jeopardize his happiness to ensure his potential partner isn’t affected by his actions. Bruno would most likely push them away or cut contact entirely, depending on how closely connected to them he is.
OKAY, WITH ALL THAT DEEP STUFF OUT OF THE WAY, LET’S GET TO THE FUN PARTS!! ;)
How good is Bruno in bed?
Despite not having much experience, he’d be pretty damn good, I’d think. Why?
Being good in bed requires understanding what your partner needs, which can be achieved through communication and reading body language. Being able to read someone well is a highly valued skill in the bedroom, and Bruno is well known for his intuition.
Remember his lie-detecting ability?
Bruno can discern a liar by the taste of their sweat, but he doesn't need that ability to detect deception. He knew Giorno was lying long before tasting his sweat—why else would he have placed Leaky Eye Luka’s eyeball in Giorno’s hand? So, how did he know Giorno was lying? Although Bruno mentioned that Giorno wasn’t perspiring, (which he might have lied about,) he must have figured out Giorno was lying through other means. While the exact method is unclear, it’s evident that Bruno can read people like a book. Therefore, it wouldn’t be hard for him to understand your needs.
Additionally, to be good in bed, keen confidence is essential--this is another trait Bruno is famously known for. The Grateful Dead arc is a brilliant example of how well Bruno can act under pressure. In his fight against Prosciutto, Bruno quickly and confidently made the decision to throw himself and Prosciutto off the train to negate The Grateful Dead's aging effects, ensuring the safety of his squad and Trish. If Bruno can keep a cool head while jumping from a speeding train, it wouldn't be a stretch to believe that he would be confident in the bedroom--especially as he becomes more comfortable with you sexually.
During your first time together, he may feel pressured to ensure that you're enjoying yourself. Though Bruno typically maintains a good poker face under stress, his attempt to project his usual confidence may feel slightly off. Perhaps he isn’t speaking as often, or his hands feel more clammy than usual—small details like this reveal his nervousness. Regardless of whether you notice these signs, he’d focus so much attention on his partner that they wouldn’t perceive his anxiety. After all, this is about making his partner feel good.
(I like to imagine that Bruno would let out an unintentional whimper the first time he slides in.)
Another thing to note: as mentioned before, Bruno prioritizes the needs of those around him over his own. Golden Wind also shows us that he’s more comfortable when he's in control of a situation. These traits suggest he’d initially prefer taking on a dominant role in the bedroom, as it gives him control over ensuring his partner is feeling good.
Now for the best part.
I'm going to do you one better and give you a whole d!ck headcanon.
7.3 inches long, 2.625 inches wide. slight curve up. Uncut. Lion (CCA279) at the base, softens into Peach (F0C49C) mid-shaft. Tip is Atomic Tangerine (DF9C86.)
Here's a gradient for reference:
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(As for cut or uncut? 2.6% of Italians are circumcised, so I’m willing to bet money that Bruno isn’t one of them. [This statistic was found in a study done in 2016.])
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WHEW, I think that's everything--I hope at least. I'm sure I will have more to add to these thoughts in the future.
Before ending this, I wanted to quickly say that even though I (sometimes) state my headcanons as if they are fact I understand that this just is my interpretation of Bruno—everyone has differing opinions. It’s important to note that others’ headcanons are just as valid as mine. (I just happen to really like writing in an argumentative essay style, and this post is written in a style akin to it.)
Again, thank you for sending me this ask; I had a ton of fun writing my response. :)
If you enjoyed this and would like to check out other things I’ve written, you can click right here!!
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By: Christina Buttons
Published: Apr 14, 2025
The claim that transgender status is immutable and biologically based was raised in the recent case of Talbott v. Trump. Eight plaintiffs—six active-duty service members and two individuals seeking to enlist—are challenging President Trump’s January 27 executive order barring transgender individuals from military service. The plaintiffs’ filings refer to “gender identity” as a deeply ingrained and involuntary characteristic with a biological basis—language that can be used to claim constitutional protections. The plaintiffs allege that the ban amounts to unlawful discrimination under the equal protection clause of the Fifth Amendment.
During hearings in February 2025, U.S. District Judge Ana C. Reyes pressed Department of Justice attorneys on the administration’s justification for the order. She instructed both parties to brief the court on “questions of biology,” prompting the plaintiffs to submit a five-page brief arguing that transgender identity is both innate and immutable.
This claim carries implications far beyond military recruitment. Activists have used it to justify medical interventions for minors, inform education policies, and establish civil rights protections for “gender identity” comparable with those for race and sexual orientation. There’s just one problem: the plaintiffs’ brief—and the immutability argument more broadly—doesn’t withstand scientific scrutiny.
Though the plaintiffs’ filing never defines gender identity—commonly understood by its proponents as a person’s “internal sense of being male, female, both, or neither”—it nonetheless describes it as “innate,” “deep-seated,” and “impervious to change through external influences.” The brief also claims that a “scientific consensus” exists supporting the biological basis of transgender identity and asserting that transgender individuals constitute “a discernible class.”
The brief’s claim that transgender identity is both innate and immutable appears to rely on a misreading of the evidence. While “innate” typically refers to traits present at birth, “immutable” implies that they cannot be changed. Even early researchers who believed gender dysphoria might be innate did not consider it immutable—particularly in children. Decades of desistance research suggest that 85 percent to 90 percent of children with gender dysphoria who do not undergo medical transition eventually outgrow those feelings, with most going on to become gay or lesbian adults. The growing visibility of detransitioners—individuals who once identified as transgender but later reversed course—further challenges the idea that transgender identity is invariably fixed.
Even if biology plays a role, transgender identification does not arise from a single cause. The heterogeneity within trans-identified populations makes it unlikely that one universal explanation applies across the board. Research instead points to several developmental pathways: a homosexual pathway, historically seen primarily in boys and linked to childhood gender nonconformity and same-sex attraction; an autogynephilic pathway, primarily in adult men, involving sexual arousal at the thought of being female; and rapid-onset gender dysphoria, a pattern that has recently emerged mainly among adolescent girls and shaped by social and psychological factors. These distinct profiles challenge any effort to define transgender identity as a singular, biologically determined condition.
To a layperson, the plaintiffs’ brief may appear persuasive. It employs technical language, cites scientific studies, and references earlier court rulings that treated transgender status as immutable.
But none of this holds up under closer scrutiny. The rulings cited failed to examine the underlying evidence, instead reinforcing a kind of circular legal logic. The studies—focused on brain structure, twin concordance, genetics, and fetal hormone exposure—can give the illusion of a solid scientific foundation, but they are fraught with limitations. They often rely on small, non-representative samples, produce inconsistent results, fail to control for key confounding variables, and lack reliable replication. What remains is a patchwork of inconclusive findings, frequently overstated to support broad claims.
To assess the plaintiffs’ scientific claims properly, it helps to understand that, while sex itself is binary, many sex-related physical and psychological traits exist along a continuum. Some individuals naturally display traits more commonly associated with the opposite sex—often referred to as gender or sex nonconformity. Evidence suggests that prenatal hormone exposure can shape such traits in both boys and girls. Childhood gender nonconformity, a term used in clinical research, has also been strongly associated with same-sex attraction.
Social and cultural influences shape how these traits are understood and expressed. For some, these traits may cause distress, leading to a diagnosis like gender dysphoria. In today’s environment, where transgender identity is often conflated with gender nonconformity, individuals who don’t conform to traditional sex stereotypes may interpret their experiences as an internal “mismatch,” rather than as natural variations in behavior, personality, or sexual orientation.
Sex-based differences in brain structure are well-documented, and, as neuroimaging techniques advanced in the early 2000s, researchers began searching for neurological correlates of gender dysphoria. This sparked a wave of transgender brain studies, many of which received enthusiastic media coverage. Many have referenced these studies to support the idea of a “neurological sex”—that the brain possesses an internal sex separate from the body.
Building on this idea, the brief claims that “research shows transgender women and non-transgender women have similar brain structures,” citing five studies. But these findings are complicated by confounding variables. The use of cross-sex hormones—commonly used among those who medically transition—can alter brain anatomy. And sexual orientation can independently influence brain structure. When studies control for these factors, the results often show that the brains of trans-identified individuals more closely resemble those of their biological sex.
The brief also cites a review of numerous twin case studies to suggest a genetic basis for transgender identity. While identical twins in the review were more likely than fraternal twins to identify as transgender, this does not constitute strong evidence of genetic causation. The research relies on case reports of twins raised together, making it difficult to separate genetic influence from environmental and social factors. Identical twins often share closer emotional bonds, which can influence belief systems and reinforce shared identities.
In nearly every case where both twins identified as transgender, both were also homosexual. The one exception involved a pair of identical twins described in the literature as exhibiting “transvestic fetishism”—a condition now more commonly referred to as autogynephilia. This raises the possibility that the studies are not capturing a genetic basis for transgender identity, but rather a shared predisposition for same-sex attraction.
The study’s findings also diverge from what would be expected if transgender identity were strongly heritable: concordance rates between identical twins—that is, how often both twins in a pair identified as transgender—were modest, while fraternal twins showed no concordance at all. For comparison, twin studies on homosexuality show a more typical genetic pattern, with fraternal twins exhibiting about half the concordance rate of identical twins.
The brief references a study of genetic variants—differences in DNA sequences—related to sex-hormone pathways. These pathways influence how the body produces or responds to hormones like testosterone and estrogen, which may in turn affect behavior patterns traditionally associated with masculinity or femininity. Atypicality in these traits reflect gender nonconformity—not transgender identity itself. While these variants may be more common in trans-identified populations, they are neither unique to, nor predictive of, transgender identity. The authors of the study explicitly caution that “none of the studied variants could hence be assumed to be a primary cause of this condition.”
The brief also cites research on congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH), a disorder of sex development in which female fetuses are exposed to elevated levels of testosterone due to adrenal gland dysfunction. This excess androgen can lead to masculinized physical traits and more traditionally male-typical behaviors in childhood. While the brief interprets this as evidence that prenatal hormones shape “gender identity,” what the research actually shows is an association between prenatal androgens and masculinized behaviors or interests—that is, gender nonconformity, not identity rejection. Most girls with CAH continue to identify as female, despite these biological effects.
Taken together, the studies cited in the immutability brief do not establish that transgender identification is biologically determined. Instead, they more consistently reflect patterns of gender nonconformity and same-sex attraction. Ultimately, transgender identification is an individual choice made in response to gender-related distress—not the result of a hardwired biological condition.
Misinterpreting the findings of these studies as evidence of a fixed transgender identity risks narrowing society’s understanding of gender nonconformity. Rather than encouraging individuals to alter themselves to fit a prescribed identity, we should create space for a broader range of expression—recognizing that many gender-nonconforming children grow up to be gay or lesbian adults.
As courts and policymakers weigh the arguments in Talbott v. Trump and similar cases, they should treat claims of scientific certainty with skepticism. Decisions with profound personal and social consequences demand clear evidence, honest interpretation, and restraint in drawing conclusions that the research cannot support.
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I love how "sex is a spectrum," yet somehow an MRI can test for and reveal a "brain sex" binary of a male brain in a female body, or vice versa. And yet also we should trust "self ID," because people can just feel the results of an MRI innately.
"Gender identity" is "innate" and "immutable," except that it's also a "social construct," "not a simple fixed binary construct," "fluid" and a "journey."
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Mind-body dualism is a deranged Wonkian boatride.
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microlearningplatform · 2 months ago
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Unlocking Critical Thinking with Double-Loop Learning: The MaxLearn Advantage
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Double-Loop Learning for a Thinking Workforce: A MaxLearn Perspective
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coleas97 · 1 year ago
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Wednesday, the 21st of February
As expected, it is confirmed to be not a good thing for me to be completing the prompts early. It gives into my anxiety and need to be structured and in control. My challenge for the rest of the year is to be "looser," or to learn to simply go with the flow. The idea of that frightens me. So until then.. structure.
In March, I am meant to speak of green emotions also known as: envy. I would like to believe that I escape feelings of jealousy but unfortunately, I find that it takes over me in unconventional ways. Within interpersonal relationships, I am not one to engage in long lines of questioning. My best mate speaks of his head spinning and blood boiling during jealous fits, I am unfamiliar with those feelings. However, in being brutally honest, I am wildly possessive. I wish for what's "mine" to be "mine." When in love, I give my all and expect the same back. I find that I am attracted to those who are wild and free-spirited and although exciting, it is absolutely terrifying when they wish to live a life that doesn't require the need to be physically around me often. I believe my form of jealousy is a fear of missing out, a fear of rejection, and perhaps a fear of not being needed. I also tend to reflect behaviours a partner may be demonstrating towards me. If my phone is being looked through, I am likely to look through phones. If I am being restricted, I am likely to restrict others. I am unsure of why this happens. The mother of my son often labels me as petty, and says I am talented in pettiness. Those labels make me sad and ashamed. However, I find there is lack of choice once my emotions take over. To work on controlling my emotions if and when I am hurt by something or someone, perhaps more time to reflect would help or more direct communication. I probably fear appearing as weak since I am often labelled as sensitive. Sensitivity, in my opinion, is a strength.. but others see it as overwhelming and I try very hard not to overwhelm others. Fear of being a burden is an underlying struggle that I often choose not to face head-on.
My last relationship resulted in infidelity on their part. Infidelity triggers my abandonment issues, my childhood trauma, my anxiety, and much more. I have forgiven infidelity within the relationship in the past, and so badly wish I hadn't. I was overcome not so much by jealousy, but a deep-rooted pain and a desire to inflict that pain back onto her. That may also be a form of jealousy, maybe? If a one-off situation (although it may still be painful) I am likely to sulk or take a break. But the repeated instances.. the accumulation of pain and the frustration of being involved with someone who believes that they can do whatever the fuck they want with absolutely no regard for my feelings or loyalty, is what drives me to make petty, impulsive decisions. I do not think of how my retaliation affects others in the moment, but I always do after the fact. I often put myself down for allowing myself to feel regret, as I'm not sure that those who hurt me regret doing so. In writing this, I am becoming increasingly aware of the fact that I treat others how they treat me.. I believe in hopes of "showing" them their behaviour.. as if to make them realize that it's harmful. I thought maybe that was the smart and mature thing to do but I am quickly realizing that it isn't. It may be a waste of time and energy and moving forward, I hope to stop that and instead, immediately leave a negative situation. There is no need to prove a point: an "Aha!" moment.
When it comes to material things or physical or personality traits, I believe I never feel jealousy. I think of this as unhealthy, as I believe it's more human to compare yourself than it is to be totally content with what you have or what you look like. I do not necessarily think of myself as intelligent or handsome or anything. However, I was raised by a mother and eventually a step-mother, who would reassure me of those things often. I am lucky in never feeling insecure about my abilities and always believed that I could do what I put my mind to. With the exception of my son, I am concerned about things that cannot be held in your hands or seen in a mirror, such as love, kindness, respect, perseverance. I genuinely rarely think about the rest. I don't believe I have ever wanted something that someone else had or thought I my life would be better if I possessed something I didn't have already. I am extremely grateful for that.
I suppose that's all I have to say, really. Work in progress, to sum it up.
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rawmeknockout · 3 years ago
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who's your fave character to write for? 👀👀👀👀
my fave character to write for changes all the time i used to do a TON of swerve and have a lot of swerve ideas and im not really 'burnt out' on him per se but ive explored his character so much in terms of romance/smut that i feel im rehashing the same ideas and i think a fresh perspective would help
im a sucker for rodimus i have a soft side for arrogant people irl and crush hard on anyone who is just way too confident but i love how he is soft and really cares about people too bc i can relate to that i have so much love for rodimus even if he is a shallow bastard and makes poor decisions for his own ego, i feel like theres a lot of room for improvement there esp if he had someone as his opposite (cough rival cough) to push on him and force him to think outside his own worldview im a big dork for rivals to lovers tho its like enemies to lovers but enemies generally start off VERY antagonistic and rivals are generally antagonistic yes but have room for an underlying respect and admiration and wiggle room to how they could interact as friends
someone i never get requests for but love immensely with my whole heart is bumblebee all bumblebees (i even have a soft spot for bayverse but i will NEVER touch those movies i dont want them within the bi county area stay away from me) i have loved bee since i was a kid bc the first transformers i watched was tfa and i loved characters like jack spicer and bee and other such overconfident jerks with a soft side as ive explored other series that love for bee has only grown i love him when hes a bold leader who wants to earn respect but treats even his enemies with kindness and i love him when he's a scout who gets into trouble bc hes just too gentle and weak i have so many thoughts about bumblebee i love him lots i could go on and on about the different bees (and their relationships with starscream ill die on this hill) hes always such a gentle good guy and deserves the whole world i dont care if transformers is overrun with bumblebee content i want MORE
i also love to write cheetor but strictly beast wars and cyberverse cheetor i feel only terror with beast machines cheetor im a big sucker for anything that has a likeness to cats and the fact that his alt mode is a cheetah i think is so cool im a cat lady through and through i love cat mugs and posters and slippers so ofc one of my fave robots has to be the cat one which also brings up ravage whom i adore in a different way than cheetor they are complete opposites in many regards but they are both loyal which is a quality i treasure in any character or person i think the most interesting thing about ravages story (particularly idw here) is that he is essentially a man with a body that makes others see him as a creature rather than a person i like that the writers took the time to think about all the altmodes the decepticons have and how their original functions made them sympathetic to megatrons cause
i also like writing for rumble and frenzy (all the cassetticons really) although i have a hard time bc two of my friends are big cassette fans and i want to portray them in a way that they would when it comes to transformers or any fandom imma be honest and say,,,,,,,,, ive hardly looked at the source material i havent read much and i havent watched much i saw big sexy robots and i was hooked and i love the story but,,,,,,,,,,, theres no way my attention span would allow me to read a full range of comics man i dont have that in me
other than that i dont want to say that im clinical in how i approach characters but im technical and i know them in a general sense and expand upon them in a way i feel a real person with specific personality traits would act i want them to feel more in depth than just a one or two dimensional character i want to write them in various situations bc deep down we all are just,,,,,, love creatures we all love and we all love to be loved
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astro-syd · 5 years ago
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Min Yoongi - A Modern Hades
I’ve seen many ARMYs compare Yoongi to Hades before, and there’s definitely good reason for it from an astrological perspective! I wanted to create a special post featuring his natal Pluto to bring some insight into the inner world our mysterious dark king, Min Suga. 
First of all, Yoongi’s natal chart is naturally very well balanced. He’s got planets spread out amongst many signs, elements and modalities. Upon first inspection of his chart, something caught my eye. He’s an Aries rising, which aligns each house under its natural ruling sign. His Pluto, the planet named for the Underworld king, resides in Scorpio in his 8th house. This is the most powerful placement the planet could have in a chart. This isn’t exactly uncommon to see in the charts of those born within the Pluto in Scorpio generation (in fact, Hoseok also has this placement in his natal chart). What caught my attention was the fact that Pluto is forming an aspect to every other planet in Yoongi’s chart, a feat which can definitely be contributed to the balanced nature of his chart, but is also quite rare to see. Without further ado, let’s look into some of his Pluto aspects.
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Pluto in 8th House Scorpio: The depths of the Underworld
To understand Pluto, we must first be aware of what it stands for in a chart. Pluto is the Roman equivalent of the Greek God Hades. In astrology, it rules over endings, transformations and new beginnings, secrets and hidden realms, mines and caves, the financial world and investments, psychology and the subconscious mind, the occult, death, and anything society considers to be taboo. To put it simply, Pluto rules “all that is beneath the surface.” This is true in both the literal sense, beneath the Earth, but also beneath the mask, persona, or conscious mind.
Pluto rules over Scorpio and the 8th house, making this placement in Yoongi’s chart a very strong one for the planet. There are no conflicting energies here to thwart its power. This automatically tells us that Yoongi is willing to go deep into these hidden and misunderstood realms when need be. He’s not the type to shy away from intensity in his life. Introspection is a strong trait of his, and he has an innate need to know his demons, his dark side, and his traumas in a very intimate manner. He has a natural talent for “getting to the bottom of things.” He sees past the veil and has the capability to dredge these subconscious ghosts up to the physical world, which shows in his talent for the arts. He’s able to summon the collective subconscious into his work, writing music that reflects themes of common struggles and can support others through moments of darkness.
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Pluto Trine Sun
This aspect gives Yoongi great power and magnetism on stage. People are naturally curious about his mysterious nature and are easily drawn into the depths of his personality (where he’ll allow them in). 
This aspect is known for giving natives the capability to command large audiences, but without being egotistical about their power. Yoongi is well aware of the presence he has and this subtle underlying strength, but he’s not interested in using it to boast about his status (aside from the occasional rap verse, haha). He actually takes a very humble approach to leading the masses, preferring to put himself on the same level as everybody else and viewing those around him as individual people with their own unique stories and backgrounds. 
This doesn’t mean he doesn’t have an ego, though. Pluto trine his Sun will simply cause a constant transformation of his ego. He’s never fully grounded in the image of himself he’d like to portray in the spotlight, and he’s never certain which aspects of his personality are best to show to the world. 
He grows and transforms into the image he wants for himself over time through positive feedback and support from his fans and admirers. It’s this process of slowly exposing hidden parts of himself to the spotlight and shaping his self-image based off of the response that allows him a more humble approach to fame. Whereas others will find a public image that they’re comfortable with and which they know will give them power over the audience’s response, Yoongi constantly morphs his, allowing different facets of himself to expose themselves over time. 
This keeps him in a constantly vulnerable position in terms of receiving feedback from his audience. You can even see his tendency to sort of “try on” different images or personas in his lyrics, particularly in his mixtape tracks. Part of Yoongi’s soul purpose is to grow through this ability to constantly transform himself.
Yoongi carries the “genius” nickname for good reason! Pluto aspecting his Sun in this way will give him a rather extreme approach to researching the things he cares about. His intelligence comes from his diligence, along with this inherent need to fully understand the subjects he’s interested in. 
I’m not at all surprised to see him picking up new instruments and methods of composing on a regular basis. Music is one of his biggest passions and he’ll constantly feel a hunger to learn more about it. He’ll never reach complacency with his songwriting because he won’t ever feel satisfied so long as there’s still new information to learn and digest. It’s this intensity in how he goes about his studies which allows him to learn so much in such a short amount of time. And again, because he rarely boasts about it (at least not in a serious manner), much of his knowledge is likely overlooked by audiences. This goes for his career as well- he’s very likely to succeed at anything he’s interested in pursuing, simply because of the work ethic he puts into everything he loves.
With both his Sun and Pluto in water signs, he brings an inherent emotional quality to his music. He doesn’t know how to keep control over his feelings. He can hide them, yes, and he can suppress his responses and reactions to his environment, but he can’t put any kind of a limit on his feelings or keep them within his grasp. Yoongi feels everything DEEPLY. Even the smallest of pains can feel as if it has cut through his very soul, especially where his loved ones are involved. 
He keeps up the “cold” image as a defense tactic to keep himself protected, but he’s anything but cold-hearted. When Yoongi does open up to others, there’s no denying the depths of the feelings he experiences. It’s why his music and his raps are some of the most intense to listen to, but sometimes also the most healing. His emotions spill over into his work whether he wants them to or not, and this likely has a very healing, transformational affect on him (as well as his audiences). If you don’t believe me, go and watch some of his live performances of First Love.
This aspect gives Yoongi a great sense of self-awareness and a strong love for helping others. As I mentioned before, he’s unafraid of intensity. He’s not the type of person to run away when you’re struggling because you’re too much to handle or the situation has become too “messy.” 
Yoongi and Jimin both tend to thrive off of this sort of intensity in their relationships, and they enjoy the process of gaining others’ trust and being there to support those they love when their help is most needed. As much as it hurts Yoongi to see those around him suffering, he’d be MUCH more upset to know that they were suffering all alone. He has some issues around trust himself, so he understands just how big of a deal it is for others to open up to him and rely on him. Give him a little bit of your trust and vulnerability and Yoongi would go to the ends of the earth to try to make things better for you. 
Yoongi is fearless in the pursuit of his goals. It’s easy for him to find his interests and to create a sense of destiny for himself within them. He has a unique ability to simply trust the process. Even when it seems like there’s no hope of success and nothing is going right, he has this innate ability to trust that he’s learning and growing and will eventually get to where he wants to be. 
That’s not to say that he doesn’t stress about these things or feel anxiety when his life doesn’t go as planned, but simply that he has an intuitive sense that things will work out for him if he continues to work hard and grow from his losses. He knows that no matter the struggle, he can’t give up. His persistence is one of his strongest traits.
Yoongi is very, very perceptive. He doesn’t miss much of what’s going on around him. I’ve seen ARMYs talk about how Jimin seems to have a sixth sense for what the other members are feeling (and he does- we’ll get to his chart later) but Yoongi’s intuition and perceptiveness is often overlooked. He doesn’t always act on this knowledge immediately or obviously, preferring to care for his members and loved ones behind the scenes, but he’s absolutely very much aware of the moods and feelings of those around him. 
It’d also be next to impossible to lie to him. He can see right through people and he values authenticity over keeping up a particular image. If you were trying to fool him in any way, he’d definitely know something’s up and he’s going to call you out on it.
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Pluto Sextile Moon 
Yoongi’s Pluto also forms a major aspect with his Moon in Virgo. Remember my previous statement about him being deeply emotional? Yeah. 
Yoongi is highly, highly sensitive to his feelings. I honestly don’t know how he’s managed to hide this quality of his so well that the whole “cold-hearted Suga” label could even be thought up. Not only is he very perceptive to others’ moods, he’ll often feel them as if they’re his own. This is part of the reason why he’s so motivated to help and heal others (and with a positive aspect, he’s very good at doing so). He projects the image as if he’s very shy and awkward about comforting others, and I think the only reason for this is because the intensity of emotions is very overwhelming to him. In a close relationship with someone else (and when not in front of cameras) he’s very good at comforting and even healing those around him.
As overwhelming as these emotions can be, Yoongi loves the intensity and vulnerability involved in sharing them. Pluto thrives off of the deepest connections, and Yoongi might even find himself subconsciously creating drama or throwing himself into intense situations because these Pluto aspects will seek out depth and growth from uncomfortable or challenging situations. It’s a good placement to have for the line of work he’s in.
Pluto is the greatest detective. It loves a good mystery, and it has a way of getting to the very bottom of a situation and uncovering it. In aspect with Yoongi’s moon, he has this effect on others’ emotions and traumas. 
He’d be drawn to those who are quiet and secretive like he is, and he’s very good at reading others. He has a talent for understanding even the subtlest of expressions. His energy and personality are naturally soothing, supportive and safe to those who are struggling. This could be another reason why he keeps up a colder, almost harsh image in the spotlight- simply to keep others from taking advantage of his sensitivity in this way. 
His presence creates the sort of loving and encouraging environment in which others would feel comfortable sharing their secrets without judgment. He’d make you believe that he struggles to help others in this way, but this isn’t a harsh aspect. Yoongi truly has a natural ability to heal those around him. You wouldn’t leave a serious conversation with Yoongi the same as when you came to him.
He also has a way of understanding of what’s no longer serving him in his life, and this greatly aids his ability to transform himself. He’s perfectionistic even in the way he handles himself, his life, and daily schedules. If something isn’t strongly benefiting him anymore, he has no problem dropping this habit and restructuring his life to make room for more efficient and useful habits.
These intuitive understandings of others, their motivations and intentions, emotions and potentials, are all reasons why Yoongi has such a strong influence over an audience. It does cause him some struggles with making new friends, though. He’s naturally a bit intense from the get-go because of all of this sensitivity, and this is often intimidating to others. That said, a strong connection with Yoongi is a very loyal one. 
I should also note that Yoongi’s 6th house Virgo moon explains his struggles with OCD, which we’ll discuss in more depth in his natal reading. You can get a glimpse at the workings of this aspect in his work ethic and tendency for transforming himself. He’s in constant pursuit of his own personal perfection- occasionally to his own detriment.
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Pluto trine Mercury:
This aspect definitely aids Yoongi in his songwriting. It adds a seriousness and a depth to his writing that allows him to touch audiences on a deep and personal level. His lyrics can make others feel as if they know him and are close to him, even if you’ve never even heard his name before. He makes others feel seen and understood. His inherent understanding of human nature allows him to understand what others want and need to hear, and he definitely has the power and compassion to authentically deliver these messages.
Yoongi’s determination is aided by his strong concentration skills. He’s able to take in a lot of info quickly because he’s able to focus on a topic very intently for long amounts of time. If he’s writing, he’s very likely to lose track of time, working for hours before he’s even realized that 20 minutes has passed. 
Remember that Pluto is a great detective. Yoongi’s mind would love a good mystery. In fact, he probably finds many people/movies/books/etc to be quite predictable. He’s very good at figuring things out before everybody else does, and usually this manifests as a great understanding of human nature. He loves a good mystery, a great challenge to wrap his head around. He also tends to like dark humor and probably a bit of sarcasm here and there. 
Mercury also rules the hands and arms, so this aspect could very well have something to do with his precise piano (and more recently, guitar) skills. This Pluto aspect will also explain his supposedly cold and bony hands. The Underworld planet aspecting his Sun & Mercury (in the 12th house, might I add) would definitely give him a more pale, bony, and sometimes even ghostly look about him. It also generally just makes him appear very ethereal, as if he’s not of this world.
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Pluto Bi-Quintile Venus:
The bi-quintile is a minor astrological aspect as compared to the last 3 major aspects, but it’s still very much worth discussing in Yoongi’s chart. This aspect is known for creating a desire to organize things, recognize patterns, and perfectionistic behaviors. Aspecting Venus, this definitely applies to Yoongi’s art and image.
It makes a lot of sense that he would become a composer and songwriter with this aspect. He likes order and patterns which can be found in music, and he has a natural artistic eye (or ear) for beauty and expression. 
This aspect gives the ability to be aware of problems and tension, along with the skill and intellect to solve them. I think this would also benefit his songwriting simply in the sense that he knows how to build tension. He knows how to use chords and harmonies to create tension between notes, and he has a strong understanding of how these sounds will affect people. 
His perfectionistic tendencies and intense focus allow him to foresee problems and mistakes within a song or performance. He likes to get everything right on the first try. When problems do arise, however, his intuition and intelligence work well together to problem-solve any issue. He can truly handle just about anything, it seems. It’s another reason why he feels so safe to be around, because he won’t panic in the face of challenges.
Yoongi wasn’t lying when he said he really doesn’t have a “type.” Pluto aspecting the planet of attraction and relationships shows that he doesn’t at all care about surface-level things. He’d be completely willing to be friends with or date someone from a different race, status, or background than himself. Image doesn’t matter to him. He likes someone who is very passionate about their interests, and somebody who is both strong but gentle and caring for those around them (much like himself). 
If he were drawn to a particular style or aesthetic, it would be rather similar to his own. Anything black and somewhat edgy would probably appeal to him. That said, he really isn’t very focused on appearance. 
It’s possible that this aspect would make him a little bit afraid of love (of any kind, not just the romantic sense). Yoongi is incredibly passionate, and he seeks out others who can match him on this level. He’s learned that love for him can be a little bit dangerous. He’s drawn to power, and he’ll sometimes get himself into rather controlling or even codependent relationships because of these intense, powerful connections. I don’t think he strongly fears being treated badly by others (he’d probably understand their intentions from the start and therefore would have the upper hand), but he’s probably at least cautious of forming close connections because he knows how emotionally intense it’s bound to be. He, by nature, can’t help but connect deeply with those he involves himself with, and this leaves him with a much higher likelihood of getting hurt.
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Pluto Sesquiquadrate Mars:
Yoongi’s Mars is already in its fall in Cancer in his chart, which weakens the planet quite a bit. This is a complicated aspect for him, but I’m going to try to give you an overview of it.
Mars by nature rules aggression, motivation, anger, power, and impulsive action. It’s a very instinctual energy in our charts. In water sign Cancer, this fiery planet doesn’t know how to function with its highest power. It does show up as a trauma aspect in Yoongi’s chart, and in his 4th house, these pains probably stem from his childhood.
This aspect between aggressive Mars and intense Pluto can cause some very powerful energy. Yoongi’s instinct is to fight his way to the top. He’s naturally inclined toward power, self-assertion, domination, even serious rage at times. Pluto buries this nature, though, and he likely experienced a lot of trauma around these natural feelings being suppressed when he was younger. 
Many children with these intensely powerful aspects are not taught how to redirect this energy in healthy and helpful ways, which leads to a stifling and suppressing of it altogether. He is very good at saving this side of himself for the stage. You can hear the power and aggression in his voice when he raps, and I think you can get a good sense for this energy from a lot of his Cypher and mixtape songs/performances. 
He’s usually quite withdrawn and docile around others, but on stage, he truly goes for everything he wants and asserts himself in a powerful (and sometimes even shocking) way. It’s also one of the best ways he can express his anger and emotions, through his work ethic, dancing, and performing. He seems to do a very good job of channeling this aspect in a healthy and beneficial way.
During moments when this energy gets too much for him to handle, he’s much more likely to turn this destructive nature inwards toward himself than to take it out on others. He knows what it’s like to hurt, and he’s so sensitive to others’ emotions that it would kill him to know that he was the cause of their pain and suffering. If he feels too greedy, power-hungry, aggressive, angry, or impulsive, he could turn to overworking to try to stifle these feelings himself, or otherwise turn this aggression toward his own mind. He associates these underlying traits with shame, fear, and possibly even abandonment from those he loves. It’s important that he accepts this side of himself and continues to find healthy outlets for it, which I do believe he’s done a very good job of as he’s matured.
We’ll talk about his Mars a lot more in his natal reading, as it’s a very complicated area in his chart.
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Pluto semisquare Jupiter:
Remember that Hades also rules over mines, caves, and wealth. All gold and gemstones are mined from the Earth, after all. Jupiter is an amplifying point in the chart, and it rules over luck, abundance, and expansion.
Having these two planets in aspect with each other definitely can indicate Yoongi’s wealth, but not in the way you’d think. This aspect in particular can cause extreme blocks within the psyche. Yoongi struggles with the concept of wealth (which we’ve heard him discuss many times within his lyrics) and whether or not it’s benefitting (Jupiter) or is detrimental to (Pluto) his life. 
Yoongi comes from a poor background, during which he likely believed that money would solve a lot of his stresses and problems. But now that he’s gained everything he could ever want in the material world, he mentally fights with the repercussions of reaching this level of fame and abundance. 
This aspect will cause this mental tension between the two planets, and when Yoongi is unable to resolve this tension, they’ll only continue to manifest events in his life that will further these tensions. This is why Yoongi has managed to become so very wealthy, because these planets might never come to a resolution. They’ll continue to grant him wealth and status so long as he’s fighting with the concept. 
Many would consider this to be a very lucky aspect because of its ability to constantly grant wealth, but it’s important to remember that it’s a tense aspect. Yoongi will probably actively struggle with this push and pull for the rest of his life, certainly for the remainder of his time in fame and the spotlight. 
Yoongi’s initial hard-working lifestyle and determination to succeed was also probably born from this aspect. Initially, when the tensions between these planets were blocking him from wealth (in his younger years before BTS), it forced him to form a very dogged determination to fight for what he’s earned. Now that he’s “defeated” that block from wealth and achieved these great earnings, he must struggle with this new perspective of supposedly “having it all.” The planetary tension doesn’t end, it only moves and transforms. See the pattern?
I should also mention that the power born out of this aspect has been known to create a sort of “God complex.” We’ve discussed that Yoongi is very humble about his achievements in his daily life, but I think this is an interesting theme to keep in mind when taking in his art and music. *cough* daechwita *cough*
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Pluto square Saturn:
This is another tense aspect which is known to create an incredibly persistent determination to succeed. I don’t mean to get repetitive, but I do want you to know just how many times this theme comes up in Yoongi’s chart.
This persistence isn’t very flexible with this aspect, though. He has a very set idea of what must be done and what he must achieve, and he rather stubbornly sticks to those ideas. This can apply to his routines and work ethic as well. He doesn’t like any sort of change that could affect his career or image. He could stick to some very unhealthy patterns simply out of stubbornness, and it takes many painful experiences to get him to let go of this standard or idea that he holds himself to. 
It’s very possible that he struggles with authority figures dictating his work or career path, which would stem from childhood issues around being controlled by his family (most likely his father). The position he’s in can make him feel very out of control of the results of his work, and his controlling attitude toward his career gives him a slight sense of security in regards to how the world responds to him.
A lot of the reason behind this resistance is due to the responsibility he carries. He doesn’t take the position he’s in very lightly at all. He knows the importance of his work and the impact he has, and he carries this weight very heavily upon his shoulders. He’s aware that even his personal life decisions will affect his entire team due to their position in the spotlight. 
Yoongi’s stubbornness can be attributed to his fear of jeopardizing their success, and he prefers to stick to the routines that have brought him success in the past out of the fear that change will result in unforeseen challenges or failures. 
This aspect is also the cause of his “cold” demeanor. He’s afraid to let others see within his psyche, worried that whatever they see within him will change their relationship or his public image. Learning to be a little bit more open and trusting in this area would be a beneficial risk for him to take.
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Pluto sextile Uranus- (10th House):
*house noted because this is a generational aspect amongst outer planets
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: he doesn’t call himself “genius Min Suga” for no reason. Pluto in aspect with the planet of revolution can grant highly creative insights and ideas. These sorts of placements are common in the charts of inventors and revolutionaries.
Yoongi doesn’t take the industry standard as a guideline for his career path. He truly prefers to create his own path to success and self-expression. If something isn’t working for him it’s quickly cast aside, whether it’s something expected of him or not.
These two planets in tense aspect with each other will often create controversy around a leader who promotes radical new ideas to the world. However, in positive aspect (like in Yoongi’s chart), these planets hold the power to guide people more gently into new concepts. Yoongi has a strong understanding of how to approach a wide variety of topics in a way that others will understand and be more likely to accept- or even embrace.
Yoongi is a strong and powerful leader in our modern world, but he doesn’t take a standard approach to leadership. He wins people over through his actions, not his words. He prefers to lead by example and to show his intentions rather than making empty promises to his fans and audiences. His strongest moments of leadership often happen behind the scenes, carefully dictating BTS to even greater heights while the majority of his followers are none the wiser. Remember Hades’ helm of invisibility? Yoongi takes a similar approach to leading his “kingdom” from within the shadows, whenever possible.
Yoongi feels a deep desire for change around humanitarian topics, such as inequality of any kind. This makes him a brilliant leader for our time period while also shaping his music to promote new ideals. I don’t think I have to explain this one any further for these themes to make themselves obvious in his work.
Pluto sextile Neptune- (10th House):
*house noted because this is a generational aspect amongst outer planets 
Neptune has a very boundless and limitless energy to it. The planet of transformation (Pluto) tied in with Neptune in his house of career is the reason for Yoongi’s worldwide success.
Neptune and Pluto together have the potential to break boundaries. Similarly, Yoongi’s band has broken through language barriers, stigmas, and cultural limits to deliver worldwide messages. These messages inspire healing and change within their fanbase, while bringing people from many different walks of life together in a force toward change. His power and his influence could truly be described as limitless.
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Yoongi, our modern Hades: a summary
Much like the Underworld king, Yoongi has been through a lot, has seen a lot, and isn’t much fazed by themes of darkness. Hades guards and protects over the dead and our dreams, and similarly Yoongi has always been the keeper of dreams, both dead and alive. Much of his music revolves around themes of dreams, dark & light energies, and the pursuit of power and riches. Hades doesn’t take his job very lightly, and neither does Yoongi. It takes the same kind of effort in guarding the souls of the dead as it does to resurrect the dreams of our youth in today’s society. We live in a transformational period of time during which much of what we’ve known must be left to pass away, leaving space for new patterns of life to emerge. Yoongi is a guiding leader in pushing the younger generations toward these new ideals, while also giving space for our past hardships to be laid to rest in a way which gives respect for all we’ve been through. Both lead incredibly important jobs, and yet both are often misunderstood. Peer closely into Yoongi’s personality and work, and you’re certain to see the ghosts of the Underworld alive within our dark King. 
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iamanartichoke · 4 years ago
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(This post was inspired by a recent post by @kayura-sanada​ that I was going to reblog, but my own addition became so long and, frankly, off-topic to the original post’s content that I figured it was fairer to create my own post. But theOP I’m referring to can be found here and is a good read.)
Okay, so: this is a wonderful analysis of Tony Stark, @kayura-sanada​, and I agree that it’s concerning seeing this written by a psychologist (although I think there has to be a little wiggle room in the fact that said psychologist is basing their diagnosis on their own interpretation, and - I would hope - it would probably change if Tony Stark were a real person who was their patient. I gotta hope that).
I agree with all of your overall points regarding Tony, but I wanted to reblog this specifically because this post is such a perfect example of a larger problem within fandom and fandom wank. The problem is that fictional characters can be interpreted any way you want, sure, but there’s a line between supporting your interpretation with evidence from the source, and supporting your interpretation with stuff you just kinda made up. There is a right and a wrong interpretation. 
Here’s what I saw happen with this post: your response to the OP is lengthy because it dissects the OP bit-by-bit; it responds to the claims made in those bits with evidence from the films that supports a completely opposite interpretation of the character. And the response you got largely ignores all of that evidence and analysis in favor of a surface-deep response about open interpretations and how it’s “all just fiction anyway.”
And I see the same pattern repeat itself over and over in fandom:
“Character A is Trait B and that’s why they do Actions C, D, and E.”
“Actually, character A is more Trait F, and examples of Trait F are shown in Action G, H, and I.”
“Okay, but when they do Action H, they’re responding to Event J, but with Actions C and E, they clearly demonstrate Trait B, along with Trait K and L.”
“Well, but, saying they are/have Trait K is kind of a reach, and when they did Action H it was out of character, because in the same situation in previous films, they responded to Event J in a different way. For example, .....” (long post)
“I’m not reading all of that, it’s open to interpretation, and it’s just fiction anyway.”
Later, rinse, repeat.
And it’s like, look, yes, you can interpret the characters however you want. Fandom is supposed to be a fun, engaging space where fans are inspired to create new works and discuss all aspects of the source. Headcanons exists because of open character interpretation. Shipping exists because of open character interpretation. Rarepairs and alternate universes and ‘there was only one bed!’ and lots of tropes exist because of open character interpretation. 
Without that open freedom to engage with the source/characters in whatever way makes you happy, fandom wouldn’t be what it is, and I would never want to discourage that. 
That all said, it is possible that someone’s interpretation is wrong. That the way they imagine the character or the way they’re interpreting the character’s words and actions is a contrast to what’s really supposed to be going on in the scene or with the overall arc. The wrongness can come from any number of things - interpreation being colored by personal experience, preferences, projection, whatever.
In the case above, the psychiatrist is viewing Tony Stark through a lens of what they already decided the character is: a case of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They took that lens and picked out (vague) examples of how the character portrays those traits.
This is fine. If that person wants to think Tony is a narcissist and that’s how they want to engage with the character and subsequent works (pretending that this was a meta post instead of a published article), then that’s their prerogative.
But upon closer analysis, the original interpretation kinda falls apart. The contrasting analysis takes a deeper look at the material and says, I don’t think what you’re saying is going on here is actually what’s going on here, and this is why.
But people don’t want to be told they’re wrong, especially in a fandom space, especially with something they hold dear to them (as interpretations can be intensely personal, and I know this). When the two interpretations clash, and one interpretation doesn’t really hold up to closer analysis, then suddenly, being critical of the source equates to disliking the source, and analysis is reduced to people just being negative and wanting to find things wrong with the source. Disagreeing with someone’s interpretation is taken as a personal attack. People get offended personally. The discussion devolves into ugly rhetoric, insults, or simply dismissiveness (”that’s nice but whatever,” “it’s just fiction,” etc).
And you might say, well, if you think someone’s interpretation is wrong, why are you trying to rain on their parade? Why are you trying to prove them wrong? Let people enjoy things! Let people fandom how they want! Let people write and create and be inspired in their own way!
To which I say, absolutely! Please, continue to enjoy the Thing and your interpretation of it. Continue to create through the lens of that interpretation. Create what makes you happy, fandom however you want to. I am a big proponent of “fandom and let fandom.” What other people like and dislike makes very little difference to me, and I’m certainly not under any illusion that everyone must see things the way that I see them or else they are Doing it Wrong. Nor do I take it personally if someone doesn’t agree with my take. 
None of that is my point. My point is that it becomes an issue that splinters and fractures fandom spaces when criticism and discussion are discouraged, when long analysis posts are mocked, when threads are hijacked, when it gets to a point where disagreeing with someone’s take on a Thing cancels them - to you - as a person. Because you miss out. You miss out on discussion, and on engaging with creative fanworks, and widening your fandom circle.
Instead, the circle just narrows, and there’s an underlying sense of hostility that colors every interaction you have. And it makes it not fun for anyone.
People need to be more open to the idea that there is, in fact, a right and a wrong side to most arguments. They need to be willing to defend their argument in a way that holds up and, if they don’t want to defend their interpretation, that’s fine - more power to you - but they need to then stop making fun of and being generally shitty to those who disagree.
People need to stop pretending that analysis and critical thinking don’t matter. They need to stop pretending that “fiction” is this vague concept that has no bearing on the real world and shouldn’t be taken seriously. Fiction shapes our world, and art imitates life. Being unable to think critically about fiction indicates a larger issue of being unable to think critically about the things that do matter in the real world, like science and poltiics. 
Just look at what this country has become. Each side believes it is the correct side, the “winning” side, but one of them is supported with verifiable facts and evidence and one isn’t, and when the one that isn’t is confronted with the fact that they are wrong, they either dismiss the argument entirely or go and find “alternative facts” from unreliable sources they can point to and say, see? A, B, C, D, and E may say I’m wrong, but F says I’m right, so fuck you.
I’m certainly not saying that fandom should be taken as seriously as politics, but I am saying that if people were more amenable to changing their minds or even just recognizing that criticism isn’t an attack and it’s not personal if someone dislikes a Thing that you feel passionate about - or vice versa - then maybe we’d have a better fandom space for all to enjoy. 
And I do try not to be a hypocrite. I am open to changing my mind on positions I’ve taken in fandom - if the analysis and the evidence convince me that there’s another way to look at it. If someone is telling me I’m wrong, and they tell me why it’s wrong (yes, in detail), then I’m more than happy to take a second look. Maybe it will change my mind; maybe it will simply be something I’m cognizant of while I continue to enjoy the material in the way that’s most fun for me. Either way, I’m not trying to hold fandom as a whole to any kind of standard I wouldn’t also expect myself to meet. 
That being said, this post is 90% me venting. Ironically, I don’t expect this to change anyone’s mind. I’m not saying there’s any one solution that will work for everybody or even that everyone sees a problem that needs solving. I’m just saying that I don’t enjoy fandom as much as I used to, and this particular pattern of "wank” (for lack of a better word) is the reason why. 
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jiangwanyinscatmom · 4 years ago
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1- you know JC stans always try to deflect claiming LQR LXC LWJ and NMJ are all equally at fault bc they didn't stand for trhe wens either but JC and WWX are literally the only two people who know the truth about the wen sibs and he decided not to tell anyone so the public has no means of knowing everything they did and risked for him, they literally committed treason to save the jiang sect and protect them from the wen army but in the eyes of the public they are known as loyal disciples to WRH-
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Thank you for the question anon!
Relevant passages in regards to this issue posted first since a lot of it gets very misconstrued with what blame lies where with the Sect Leaders before the events when it came to the massacre at Nightless City and the deaths of the Wen Remnants. This is not necessarily clean cut after the fallout with Jin Zixuan and Jin Zixun's deaths. This is also still with the underlying plot of Jin Guangshan aiming for the Yin Hu Fu. There is a lot of political intrigue that goes ignored with this by manipulation of the Jin Sect and Jiang Cheng being blinded by his own jealousy.
“… Four inspectors were harmed. Around fifty of the remaining Wen Sect members escaped. After Wei WuXian led them into Burial Mound, he summoned hundreds of fierce corpses to patrol the base of the mountain. Our people still can’t get any further.”
“… Four inspectors were harmed. Around fifty of the remaining Wen Sect members escaped. After Wei WuXian led them into Burial Mound, he summoned hundreds of fierce corpses to patrol the base of the mountain. Our people still can’t get any further.”
When he finished, silence filled the Golden Pavilion.
Jiang Cheng only spoke after a few moments, “What he did was indeed a bit too much. Sect Leader Jin, I apologize to you in place of him. If there’s any way at all to help the situation, please let me know. I’ll definitely compensate for things however I can.”
What Jin GuangShan wanted, however, wasn’t his apology or his compensation, “Sect Leader Jiang, at first, for your sake, the LanlingJin Sect didn’t intend on saying anything. However, some of these inspectors weren’t from the Jin Sect. There were a few from other sects as well. This makes it…”
Jiang Cheng’s brows were knitted. He rubbed the vein that throbbed at his temple and soundlessly took in a deep breath, “… I apologize to all of the Sect Leaders. Everyone, I’m afraid you don’t know that the Wen cultivator whom Wei WuXian wanted to save was called Wen Ning. We owe him and his sister Wen Qing gratitude for what happened during the Sunshot Campaign.”
Nie MingJue, “You owe them gratitude? Isn’t the QishanWen Sect the ones who caused the YunmengJiang Sect’s annihilation?”
Within these few years, Jiang Cheng insisted on working late into the night every day. That day, just as he decided to rest early, he had to rush to Koi Tower overnight because of the thundering news. He’d been suppressing some anger under his fatigue since the beginning. With his natural competitiveness, he was already quite agitated since he had to apologize to other people. When he heard Nie MingJue mention the incident of his sect again, hatred sprouted within him.
The hatred was directed at not only everyone who was seated in this room, but also Wei WuXian.
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Using the atmosphere, Jin GuangShan turned to Jiang Cheng, “He’s been plotting for a while to go to Burial Mound, hasn’t he? After all, with his skills, it wouldn’t be too hard to set up a sect of his own. And so, he used this as a chance to leave the Jiang Sect, intending to do whatever he pleases in the bright skies outside. You rebuilt the YunmengJiang Sect with so much work. He’s got a few controversial traits in him to begin with, and still he doesn’t restrain himself, stirring up so much trouble for you. He doesn’t care about you at all.”
Jiang Cheng pretended to stand his ground, “That probably isn’t that case. Wei WuXian has been like this ever since he was young. Even my father couldn’t do anything about him.”
Jin GuangShan, “Even FengMian-xiong couldn’t do anything about him, huh?” He chuckled a few times, “FengMian-xiong just favored him.”
Hearing the words ‘favors him’, the muscles beside the corners of Jiang Cheng’s mouth twitched.
Jin GuangShan continued, “Sect Leader Jiang, you’re not like your father. It’s just been a couple of years since the reestablishment of the YunmengJiang Sect, precisely when you should be displaying your power. And he doesn’t even know to avoid suspicions. What would the Jiang Sect’s new disciples think if they saw him? Don’t tell me you’d let them see him as their role model and look down on you?”
He spoke one sentence after another, striking the iron while it was still hot. Jiang Cheng spoke slowly, “Sect Leader Jin, that’s enough. I’ll go to The Burial Mounds and deal with this.”
Here the sect leaders were aware of the Wen Sect remnants as prisoners of war and saw it as a justifiable reason to keep the remaining Wens imprisoned regardless of age status etc. When Jiang Cheng is asked by Nie Mingjue for clarification on the matter of the debt owed by the Wen siblings it is deflected by Jin Guangshan and Jin Guangyao with clever wordplay to rile everyone up. This leaves those who either asked for more information, Lan Xichen who is shutdown by not having enough information by the majority and Nie Mingjue distracted by his hate of the Wens already, and Mianmian and Lan Wangji who argued that Wei Wuxian was protecting innocents and was not trying to cause a coup ignored as being irrelevant opinions. Wei Wuxian is eventually labelled a defector and danger due to Jiang Cheng exasperating what they had actually planned in the staged fight.
After this several months pass until Lan Wangji comes to tell Wei Wuxian of Jiang Yanli's marriage in a week's time. Several days later the Jiang siblings arrive with the same news and Jiang Yanli is the one to extend a peace branch to try keeping the three connected with the courtesy naming or Jin Ling. Almost a year's time later Wei Wuxian is in fact invited to the one-month celebration as another peace branch by Jin Zixuan who was the one to extend the offer. Jin Guangshan, Jin Zixun and Jin Guangyao planned the murder of Wei Wuxian in Qiongqi Pass against Jin Zixuan's knowledge. This leads to the mess of his murder and Wei Wuxian being hunted down as well as all of the remaining Wens on order of Jin Guangshan in retaliation after Wen Qing is killed as the remaining leader of the Wens and Wen Ning secretly suppressed. This leads to days later to the Pledge Conference at the city which holds Jin Zixuan's body and Jiang Yanli who is there to keep the death vigils (Shou Ling) as family. It's also why her and Madam Jin are wearing the white robes when Wei Wuxian sees them and by bad luck comes across the sect leaders pact when he tries to flee.
After the the wine had seeped into the dirt, Jin GuangShan stated, “No matter the sect, no matter the surname—this cup of wine is to the soldiers who have died.”
Nie MingJue, “May their souls live on.”
Lan XiChen, “Rest in peace.”
Jiang Cheng, however, still had on a darkened expression. He didn’t say anything even after he poured the wine.
Afterward, Jin GuangYao walked out from the LanlingJin Sect’s array and presented with both hands a square box made of black iron. Jin GuangShan took the box with one hand and raised it high in the air, shouting, “Here lies the ashes of the Wen Sect’s remnants!”
After he spoke, he sent forth his spiritual energy and shattered the box with his bare hand. The iron box broke into pieces, and white dust drifted alongside the cold wind.
A scattering of the ashes!
A series of cheers exploded through the crowd. Jin GuangShan raised his hands, signaling for the people to be quiet and listen to him talk. When the cheers slowly died down, he continued, raising his voice, “Tonight, the ones whose ashes had been scattered were the two leaders of the Wen Sect’s remnants. And tomorrow! It will be the rest of the Wen-dogs and—the YiLing Laozu, Wei Ying!”
Suddenly, a low laugh interrupted his grand speech. The laugh was too untimely, sounding both stark and jarring. In unison, the crowd turned to look at where the sound came from.
The Palace of Sun and Flames was a rather magnificent palace. A total of twelve ridges made up its roof, and at the end of each ridge were eight heavenly beasts. Yet, right now, the people realized that on one of those ridges, there were nine. The laugh from before came from over there!
The extra beast shifted slightly. The next moment, a boot and a corner of black clothes dangled down from the roof, swaying softly.
Everyone placed their hand onto their sword hilt. Jiang Cheng’s pupils shrunk. Blue veins lined the back of his hand.
Jin GuangShan was overcome with both shock and hatred, “Wei Ying! How dare you show yourself here!”
The person opened their mouth to speak. What came out was indeed Wei WuXian’s voice, but he spoke in a strange tone, “Why should I dare not show myself here? Do you people here even add up to three thousand? Don’t forget that back in the Sunshot Campaign, let alone three thousand, I’ve fought against five thousand on my own before. And by appearing here, haven’t I granted your wish? No need for you to come all the way to my home tomorrow to scatter my ashes.”
A few of the QingheNie Sect’s disciples died in the hands of Wen Ning as well. Nie MingJue spoke coldly, “What arrogance.”
Wei WuXian, “Haven’t I always been arrogant? Sect Leader Jin, how does it feel, having slapped yourself in the face? Who was the one that said he’d let the matter go if the Wen siblings went to Koi Tower and gave themselves up? And who was the one that just said he’d scatter my ashes and the ashes of the rest of the Wen Sect’s remnants tomorrow?”
Jin GuangShan, “Let’s consider things as they stand! At Qiongqi Path, you slaughtered over a hundred of the LanlingJin Sect’s disciples—this is one thing. You made Wen Ning kill at Koi Tower—this is another…”
Wei WuXian, “Then let me ask you, Sect Leader Jin, at Qiongqi Path, who was the one being ambushed? And who was the one to kill? Who was the main schemer? And who was the one being schemed against? In the end, just who was the one that came to provoke me first?”
Keep in mind none of the other sect leaders were privy to the scheme between Jin Guangshan, Jin Guangyao and Jin Zixun. And they believe they are certainly fighting off a crazed Wei Wuxian and what they think are his fodder Wens meant for corpses. After this Wei Wuxian desperately fights against Lan Wangji who is trying to calm him down before it's too late which is unsuccessful leading to Jiang Yanli also trying to calm him down enough to get him away and talk some sense to get him out of there to run and get to the Wens. After her death he mentally blacks out and Lan Wangji is left trying to take him away to safety close enough to Burial Mounds. Lan Wangji then fights off his elders as Lan Xichen gathered the Lans to find them. Immediately after this is in sequestered secrecy Lan Wangji is punished. Lan Xichen presumably stays with his own brother while Lan Qiren is the acting Sect Leader for the actual Siege that the other three are part of as support. That leaves Jin Guangshan with the ulterior motive of getting the Yin Hu Fu, Jiang Cheng who wants revenge for the death of Jiang Yanli, and Nie Mingjue left to think he is killing what he considers disgraceful Wens.
So, in short, each of them had different motivations for actually being there, and different accounts for those reasons. The Jins for more power, Jiangs for revenge, Nies for justice and the Lans in solidarity. And the fault of it isn't meted out equally as all had misunderstandings and manipulated by Jin Guangshan's pull to each of their morals as cultivation sects. In the end each of the four were there to kill the Wens and Wei Wuxian aside from Lan Wangji and arguably Jiang Yanli when she was caught up trying to get Wei Wuxian to run.
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lakmesalon · 4 years ago
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Which are the best beauty products for oily skin?
One of the most frequent skin problems is oily skin. It comes with its own set of problems, such as glossy skin and acne breakouts.
What's the good news? These problems can be alleviated with the appropriate skincare routine and products.
We turned to a handful of skincare specialists to figure out how to care for an oily complexion. We especially asked them to provide their best advice for building an oily skin daily skincare routine.
For those with oily skin, this may seem all too familiar: By midday, everyone seems to be able to see their reflection in your brow. The radiance is real! Then there's the fact that oily skin is more prone to breakouts due to an overabundance of sebum, which can lead to clogged pores, blackheads, and outbreaks.
That's why the best skincare products for oily skin maintain your complexion fresh and healthy while reducing shine. It's typical for people with oily skin to believe that they can do without moisturizer, yet oily skin can be both greasy and dry at the same time.
Furthermore, a dry complexion might increase oil production even more. That's why it's so important to discover the appropriate skincare routine. These are the best face care products for oily skin, including mattifiers, moisturizers, and cleansers.
Here are the best beauty products for oily skin:
Lakme 9 To 5 Naturale Day Creme
If the pollution is causing your skin to look dull, then this cream is a must for you. It is enriched with the goodness of pure Aloe Vera known to be soothing and nourishing the skin.
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The non-sticky and light texture of this day cream can also help the skin to breathe while keeping it protected against external aggressors. This face cream also contains SPF 20 which protects the skin from Sun's Harmful UV Rays keeping it naturally bright every day.
Lakme Absolute Perfect Radiance Skin Lightening Fairness Day Crème
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The formulation gently polishes the skin revealing its illuminating appearance. It has a sunscreen with SPF 30 that can protect the skin from sun damage. Along with luminous, glowing skin, it will provide an even skin tone preventing dark spots, blemishes, and breakouts.
Lakme Absolute Hydra Pro Overnight Gel
Wake plump skin with an instant rush of hydration from Lakme Hydra Pro Range. It can help to boost the skin’s hydration ability while sleeping. Its luxurious gel formula is infused with advanced HA-PENTA complex & Hyaluronic acid which is a revolutionary water bank molecule.
Dermalogica Daily Superfoliant
This highly active Resurfacer can provide the smoothest skin ever and helps you to fight the biochemical and environmental triggers which can increase aging. When this formula comes in contact with water it releases powerful Enzymes, skin-smoothing Alpha Hydroxy Acids, and Anti-Pollution Technology which can help to absorb environmental toxins deep within the pores.
Dermalogica Skin Perfect Primer
This make-up primer from Dermalogica can provide sunscreen and treatment for anti-aging. It has a velvety formula with Soy protein that helps to even out the skin texture, creating a smoother surface. It also helps in making the skin firm because Broad Spectrum sunscreens help shield against sun damage.
What causes oily skin?
Have you noticed that your skin is a touch shinier than usual? The truth is that everyone's skin contains oil. A sebaceous gland produces natural oils called sebum under each of your pores. It aids in the hydration and health of your skin.
The sebaceous glands, on the other hand, can create too much oil in some persons. It results in greasy skin.
If your skin is continually glossy and you go through multiple blotting sheets every day, you have oily skin. Within hours of cleansing, oily skin can feel greasy.
Because sebum mixes with dead skin cells and gets caught in your pores, breakouts are more likely.
Genetic, environmental, and behavioral factors all contribute to oily skin. While you won't be able to completely eliminate oily skin, you can take action to make it less greasy.
One or more of these seven underlying reasons must be identified.
Genetics
Oily skin is a trait that runs in families. You're more likely to have overactive sebaceous glands if one of your parents has oily skin.
Age
While oily skin does not necessarily go away as you get older, it does produce less sebum. Protein, such as collagen, is lost as skin ages, and the sebaceous glands slow down.
This is why so many people with dry skin also have aging skin. Because of the lack of collagen and sebum, fine lines and wrinkles are more visible at this time.
One advantage of having oily skin is that you may not age as quickly as those with dry skin.
You may have oily skin now, but as you get older, you'll need to examine your skin. Even in their 30s, people's skin composition may differ from that of their teens and 20s.
Every few years, you can consult an aesthetician to assess your skin type and see whether any adjustments to your skincare program are required.
Where you live and the time of year
While the fundamental causes of oily skin are largely determined by genetics and age, where you live and the time of year can also have an impact.
In hot, humid settings, people's skin tends to be oilier. During the summer, you're also more likely to have oil on your skin than you would in the fall or winter.
While you may not be able to pick up and move away due to your oily skin, you can alter your regular routine on days when the temperature and humidity are high.
Throughout the day, have blotting papers on hand to wipe up any extra oil. Excess oil can also be absorbed with a matte moisturizer or foundation.
Enlarged pores
Because of age, weight fluctuations, and previous breakouts, your pores might sometimes extend out. Pores that are larger tend to produce more oil.
You won't be able to minimize your pores, but you can take extra precautions during the day to blot parts of your face with big pores.
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sterling-silvers · 4 years ago
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Star Wars: The High Republic #2 Review
Ultimately a 7.5 out of 10, this installment was slightly better because of how Cavan Scott decided to advance the plot. While there some are nice nuggets of good-story telling and character interactions, even worse than last time, it’s bogged down with cardinal errors that truly make me question Scott’s competency as a writer for this story.
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The issue comes right off the back end of Keeve being promoted to a Master Jedi and chronicles her first mission in the position. She is still dealing with the growing pains of what it means to be a Jedi which is depicted with her ongoing internalized self-doubt as well as her difficulty expressing certain Jedi mantras, such as “May the Force be with you.” Arguably exacerbating this bottled up uncertainty are the Keeve-proclaimed legends of Jedi Masters Sskeer, and identical Kobati twins Terec and Ceret. These twins are Bond-twins and as so are able to share the same mind and experiences of each other.
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As they exit “hyperspace” (more on that later), the four masters come across the leftover demise of a ship that has been attacked. The Jedi were tasked with responding to the scrambled distress call that the ship had sent out sometime ago but, it seems as if they arrived too late. Both Keeve and one of the twins, using the Force, are able to sense survivors within the ransacked ship. As so, they board and enter.  Almost as soon as they are inside, they are met with poisonous Nihilian ovax gas and utilize a device called “rebreathers” to mitigate the effects.  Fully aware that the Nihil have raided this ship, they continue their investigation and split up to cover more ground. Traversing in groups of two, Terec – who is accompanying Sskeer – can sense the Trandoshan experiencing extreme trauma which means that Ceret can feel it as well via their bond; specifically, Sskeer is having flashbacks to the exact moment he lost his arm in the Battle of Kur.
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On Keeve’s side of things, she and Ceret come across the corpses of a Hutt and Gamorrean guards. Upon further examination, it seems the Hutt was killed via an amalgam of stab wounds, blaster bolts, and nagnol poisoning – the latter being a toxic natural gas, capable of disrupting starship sensors, poisoning beings based on dosage, and a key element in the Nihil smokescreen.
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On Sskeer’s end, he comes across a barley crop and together the Jedi deduce that the Hutt was capitalizing on the grain shortage that has occurred thanks to the Great Disaster. As the twins work on trying to ascertain where exactly the crop came from, Ceret is attacked by a Nihil that has been left behind; this causes both twins to feel the pain but, the wounds are not fatal. Sskeer charges ahead and chases after the Nihil raider, who is already suffering from serious injuries previously sustained in the raid. While Sskeer is perturbed that he cannot sense the attacker he is able to fatally strike down the assailant; coming to gripes that he has just killed, Sskeer goes on a rampage and continually slashes the bifurcated carcass only be brought back to his senses when Keeve addresses him.
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Afterward, the Masters relay their findings to Marshall Avar Kriss and with the analysis from Master Maru, come to the conclusion that the barley – specifically Vratixia Renanicus – is a key ingredient in bacta; moreover, the shipment likely came from the Sedri System – principally, Sedri Minor. With this in mind, Kriss assigns Sskeer and Ceret to got to Sedri while she and Jedi Master Rwoh convene with Keeve and Terec to collect the Hutt ship that is breaking trading sanctions. Keeve moves to go with Sskeer but, Sskeer stonewalls her to stay with Terec.
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Arriving on the planet, Sskeer is met with unwecolmedness by a citizen, Kalo Sulman who makes it clear that the Jedi’s presence will interfere with the colony’s independence. As the two are discussing, Ceret sees a Rodian in the crops motioning him to come over – as Ceret goes deep into the brush he is attacked by Drengir.
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Back on the ship, Kriss and Keeve are discussing the remains of the corpse that Sskeer has left; Kriss reprimands Keeve for not telling her sooner but, also admonishes herself for not looking deeper into the signs the Force were giving her – such as not being able to hear Sskeer’s “song”.
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As this happens, Terec – who is being medically assessed by Rwoh – screams out in pain feeling his brother’s anguish and relays this to Kriss. Kriss immediately contacts Sskeer and asks if Ceret is with him; when Sskeer realizes that the twin is gone rushes into the fields only to find his lightsaber.
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What I liked:
A growing plot pivoting off of the bacta manufacturing that was touched on by Jedi Grandmaster Veter; this is much welcomed world building within the parameters that is the High Republic.
A very competent and aptly written investigation, analysis, and deductive reasoning done by the Jedi as a whole. The way the Jedi got on the ship, looked for clues, relayed their information to the data analyst/forensic expert, and hash out a plan to go to the planet where the clue originated from was great and definitely resonated with the idea that these Jedi are analogous to Texas Rangers. They certainly seemed like proto-Jedi investigators, not unlike future Jedi Master Tera Sinube.
The continued delving into Jedi Master Sskeer. I like the balancing act that is being conducted with his character. He’s a virtuous being that is dealing with trauma but, that doesn’t, ultimately, stop him from being a Jedi – it just tests it. He is still a “knight” and applies that chivalry when it needs to shine. Witnessing his accident and how it is affecting his psyche, ability to use the Force, and his morality is the highlight of this issue. This is what should be focused on to establish WHY Keeve looks up to him – give her these thoughts in accordance with herself doubt.
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The dynamics of Ceret and Terec as interconnected Force Twins (could be seen as “Dyad Force-bond” inspired). Their link is a double-edged sword that reminds me of the Tomax and Xamot Paoli from Cobra Command. The original Star Wars was centered around Force sensitive twins and it’s nice to see that element played with more here – haven’t really seen that since the Mikkian twin sisters – Tiplee and Tiplar – in Clone Wars.
The holster to the lightsabers – it’s a nice, subtle way to convey how the Jedi of this era are more in a time of peace and reservation. To have a weapon holstered means that they have to take the extra moment to consider brandishing it. This underlying detail syncs really well with the time period considering that most of their enemies would be lifeforms and could be reasoned with – “life is precious.”
This can be seen as succinct yet distinct dichotomy between this era Jedi and the Skywalker Saga Jedi, as their sabers were without a holster and normally fashioned around the hips allowing for both instant access and draw in an age encompassed by war with droids – “droids are replaceable.”
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What I disliked:
The application of Keeve’s personality traits continues to feel like a mismatch for the particular time period and volk she supposedly has been training and studying with; Ezra Bridger – who by the High Republic’s standards would not even be a Jedi – acts more like a Jedi than Keeve does. If anything, the uncertainty, quirks, and misapplication of Jedi traditions would have fit Ezra WAY more than it does (or really doesn’t) with Keeve. The concept itself is fine but, the iteration is what is flawed. Keeve is fast feeling more like a Jedi from post revenge Revenge of the Sith – like Kanan Jarrus – that a High Republic Jedi.
The sloppy fan service – there is a scene not only of a Hutt but, the Hutt is dead with its tongue out, surrounded by dead Gamorrean guards. It would be one thing if we just had a dead Hutt, I can even look past the Gamorrean guards (even though it would be nice if we saw this race in more roles than guards – there are some but, it does seem like guards is niche as far as the universe is concerned) but, to also have the Hutt dead with its tongue out to me just screams “DO YOU REMEMBER THAT ONE SCENE IN RETURN OF THE JEDI WITH JABBA?!!!” Just, how much are you going to dilute a reference? Make the fan service substantive and or just not in your face – the Rodian luring Ceret is a good version of fan service; present, notable, but not impeding in terms of the narrative.
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What I Marked Off:
The completely wrong depiction of hyperspace; Star Wars Hyperspace is blue and certainly not immersed in stars when one is traveling through it. This error is on the very first page of the issue. This shook me to my very core and yanked me out of the immersion. IT’S THE FIRST PAGE! HOW DOES ONE MESS UP ON THE FIRST PAGE?!!! To add grave insult to mortal injury, hyperspace is a FOCAL element of the High Republic Era – you CAN NOT mess this up. Ultimately, it’s a team mess up but, Scott gets the brunt of this reprimand because this is his story and arguably his script is the one that should be guiding the artist.
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The fact that Scott continues to fail to make the necessary references about crucial dynamics, events, and positions within this era. I had to learn from a YouTube video (link below) that Sskeer is actually the “Steward” to Kriss’ Marshall role. As of issue #3, this position is still not established to be held by Sskeer which is a real shame as it adds more substance and weight to his plight as a perturbed Jedi. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPeRcyJE5dk&feature=emb_title
In summary, this issue was a 7.5 out of 10; slightly better than issue one because of how the writer decided to advance the plot and who he decided to advance the plot with. The genuinely good moments of story-telling are bogged down by ineptitude that can literally throw one out of the immersion. Nonetheless, if you can tolerate the faults there are elements to enjoy, especially when it comes to the characters. I hope those elements promptly become prominent.
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By: Ryan Ruffaner
Published: Aug 10, 2023
Most research on demographic diversity in the workplace revolves around the diversity of age, sex, race and ethnicity. The scientific literature calls these differences “surface-level diversity” because they are immediately observable, biological in nature, and generally immutable. Some people believe these characteristics are reasonable proxies for underlying psychological characteristics and in some cases this may be true. For example, older people tend to feel more satisfied with their lives than their younger counterparts, and women tend to rank higher than men on the personality trait of agreeableness. However, given the huge variation within individual psychology, there are also many instances where you can’t judge a book by its cover.
Furthermore, not all diversity research is equally valuable. For example, some of the literature on surface-level diversity includes organizational tenure and functional background in the same category as age, sex, and race/ethnicity. This is a mistake. It is not possible to determine how long someone has worked in an organization just by looking at them, especially considering how frequently many people move between jobs and companies these days. Nor is it possible to guess a person’s functional background in this way—a uniform can be worn and removed, but this is not possible with age, sex, race, or ethnicity. Functional background is more closely related to deep-level diversity, not surface-level diversity, because it influences characteristics like opinions, beliefs, attitudes, and values more than our age, sex, or race/ethnicity.
Why does this matter? Because including deep-level variables in experiments designed to measure the effects of surface-level variables like diversity in age, sex, race, and ethnicity inevitably skews the results. For example, an academic article’s abstract may say that surface-level diversity is positively correlated with team performance. Activists and media outlets may therefore assume that the variables responsible for this correlation are sex, age, or race and ethnicity, and encourage race- and sex-based hiring/promotions. In fact, it may be that diversity of organizational tenure (mixing seasoned professionals with newer people with fresh perspectives, and vice versa) or functional background was responsible for higher performance. Consequently, we must treat diversity research with caution.
The research that focuses purely on true surface-level diversity isn’t much better. As David A. Harrison, Kenneth H. Price, and Myrtle P. Bell point out in their literature review and experiment on these two types of diversity (more on this later), the effects of commonly studied surface-level diversity characteristics have been inconsistent across studies, and even within studies. In fact, the findings of surface-level diversity studies have been so inconsistent that they differ on whether or not surface-level diversity has any effect on other variables. Some studies even show that surface-level diversity has negative impacts on factors like organizational commitment and job satisfaction, while others show a positive impact. Curiously, these inconsistencies are particularly strong on the effects of race and sex, the two variables that people tend to be most vocal about.
Harrison et al. suggest that some of this inconsistency may arise from the mistaken belief that demographic differences among employees are highly related to differences in attitudes. They are not. There is no correlation between a person’s race, ethnicity, age, and sex and their attitudes. People of diverse races, ethnicities, ages, and sexes can vary in their opinions, their values, their beliefs, their hobbies, and their priorities. And yet, the diversity train keeps chugging along. Why?
Part of this comes from America’s history of discrimination, particularly along the lines of race and sex. The Emancipation Proclamation sought to correct some of this historical injustice, which the Civil Rights movement and the Civil Rights Act of 1964 sought to further rectify. And because America’s past discrimination was mostly justified with reference to citizens’ surface-level differences, these have been the overwhelming focus of the diversity movement. The problem is that modern diversity initiatives seem to be driven, at least implicitly, by two hypotheses with which many DEI advocates are unfamiliar: the similarity-attraction paradigm and the contact hypothesis.
The similarity-attraction paradigm holds that the more similar we perceive other people to be to ourselves, the more attracted to them we’ll be. However, it is wrong to assume that important similarities are only skin-deep. Before designing their experiment, Harrison et al. conducted a literature review on theoretical perspectives from the fields of organizational behavior, sociology, and social psychology. They found support for the idea that while we initially categorize people based on stereotypes, we modify or replace these stereotypes with “deeper-level knowledge” of these people’s psychological qualities once we get to know them better.
The similarity-attraction paradigm also holds that “similarity in attitudes is a major source of attraction between individuals.” Not race, not ethnicity, not sex, and not age. So, while it’s true that we may use a variety of physical, social, and status traits to try to infer similar attitudes, beliefs, or personality traits in other people, our superficial judgements don’t stay superficial for long. As Byrne and Wong remark in their 1962 study, “subjects initially perceived greater attitudinal dissimilarity between themselves and a stranger of another race,” but when these same subjects learned more about these stranger’s attitudes, “perceptions of attitudinal dissimilarity decreased and interpersonal attraction to the stranger increased.”
Other researchers have found the same thing: over time, as people acquire more information, their perceptions become based more on observed behavior and less on the stereotypes they infer from overt characteristics. In other words, simply spending time together, rather than diversity training, is the catalyst for resolving surface-level diversity conflict. This makes sense when you think about it. Whenever diverse Americans went to war against a common enemy and had to rely on each other to survive and succeed, they came to love and respect each other naturally, regardless of their age, race, ethnicity, or sex. No diversity training was needed.
This feeds into the contact hypothesis, which holds that interpersonal contact between groups can reduce prejudice. This may explain some of the well-intentioned pushes for surface-level diversity as well. Diversity activists may believe that diversity initiatives in every organization will encourage interpersonal contact across groups and diminish intergroup prejudice (even though racial relations have never been better). But this demonstrates an incomplete understanding of the contact hypothesis, which only works if four conditions are met: equal status, common goals, cooperation, and institutional support. And under many diversity initiatives, these four conditions are not only unmet, they are actively sabotaged.
How can people engage under conditions of equal status and cooperative contact if they are taught, especially at a young age, that white people and men have an inherent advantage because of their race and sex? How can people engage in equal status and cooperative contact if they are taught that all white people are inherently racist, ignorant, or evil by virtue of their skin color or that all men are inherently sexist, domineering, and oppressive by virtue of their sex? How can people feel they have fair institutional support when diversity initiatives incessantly push for hiring and promoting people based on immutable surface-level traits, even going so far as to segregate workers into so-called “employee resource groups” based on race, ethnicity, sex, and sexuality?
DEI initiatives that teach people you can judge the content of a person’s character by the color of their skin, their ethnicity, their sex, or other immutable characteristics, are an affront to both morality and science. The science shows that it is our deep-level differences or similarities that truly matter, and we cannot derive one from the other. Scientific research on diversity supports the importance of deep-level similarities, especially in attitudes. As Harrison et al. point out, “the few studies that have examined the consequences of similarity in attitudes and values in work groups” found that the more similar supervisors and their subordinates were in their attitudes and values, the higher the supervisors rated their subordinates on performance reviews, regardless of age or education, and the more accurately they rated their peers.
Harrison et al. also cite other studies that found similarity in attitudes to be associated with higher group cohesiveness. Perceptions of attitude similarity, meanwhile, were “uniquely and positively related to subordinates’ satisfaction, performance ratings, and pay ratings,” meaning that no other factors could explain the positive relationship between attitude similarity and these other variables. This shouldn’t be too surprising because attitude similarity is one of the most important predictors of attraction and friendship in general, and there’s no reason to think it would be any different in the workplace.
Harrison et al. point out that when people share the same attitudes, they tend to fight less and communicate more, which reduces stress and leads to lower role conflict and role ambiguity. In their study, they collected two samples from two very different workplaces. One sample included 39 groups of people in a medium-sized hospital for a total of 443 people, and the other included 32 groups of people working in the deli-bakery sections of a regional grocery store chain with an average of 13 people per group. For surface-level diversity variables, they measured the participants’ age, sex, race, and ethnicity. For deep-level diversity variables, they measured each employee’s overall job satisfaction, supervisory satisfaction, work satisfaction, organizational commitment, time spent in their groups, and group cohesiveness (how “psychologically linked or attracted” group members feel toward “interacting with one another in pursuit of a common objective”).
The results of this study reveal a truth that contradicts the current diversity narrative pervading the United States: the longer group members work together, the less impact surface-level diversity has on how well they work, and the more deep-level diversity matters. Contrary to what many diversity activists claim, for both groups of employees, it is not the diversity of race, ethnicity, sex, or age that matters, it is the opportunities for team members to engage in meaningful interactions with each other over time.
The authors’ preliminary analysis undercut the importance of surface-level variables too. They found:
A significant correlation between perceptions of personality differences and how committed the subjects were to their organization and how satisfied they were in their jobs.
A significant correlation between perceptions of differences in value and how satisfied the subjects were with their supervisors.
A significant correlation between perceived differences in interests and supervisor satisfaction and work satisfaction.
Group cohesiveness—how well the group works together—was significantly correlated with the subjects’ perceptions of differences in their personalities, values, and interests. The only criteria that did not significantly correlate with group cohesiveness were surface-level characteristics like age and ethnicity. This was especially true over time. The researchers found that deep-level diversity “has steadily stronger consequences for groups than demographic diversity as group members spend more time together.” They suggest it might not be time itself that matters, but information:
Demographic factors are often a poor surrogate for the deeper-level information people need to make accurate judgments about the similarity of attitudes among group members. Time merely allows more information to be conveyed. Indeed, it might be more appropriate to think of the richness of interactions as the conduit for information exchange (cf. Daft & Lengel, 1986).
The more time people spend together, the more opportunities they have to learn about each other, especially if they work interdependently on a variety of meaningful tasks. These exchanges “allow group members to learn deeper-level information about their psychological similarity to or dissimilarity from their coworkers, where before they would have used surface-level demographic data as information proxies.”
So, why haven’t we heard about all this before? And why hasn’t other research shown similar results? The answer, according to the authors, is simple. Previous research may have discovered different findings because previous researchers did not compare the “relative contributions of surface- and deep-level variables” with “rich interactions among group members.” In other words, diversity researchers were only looking skin-deep, so their conclusions were skin-deep. It may sound like a trite cliché, but what truly matters is on the inside and “the relevant deep-level variables . . . that bear directly on the fundamental purposes of the group”:
In a jazz band or a marketing team, the consensus on the value of creative freedom might be paramount. In a day care center, the critical values to share might deal with nurturance and patience.”
And in academia, we want to ensure that everyone is committed to freedom of inquiry, freedom and encouragement of honest and civil disagreement, and the value of critical thinking. It may not be as easy to measure as simply asking people what they believe, but it is a far better starting place than mistakenly using surface-level variables as proxies for deep-level characteristics as many DEI consultants, activists, and ideologues suggest.
If you’re thinking about hiring a diversity “expert” to help your diverse teams function better, think again. Your employees don’t need help seeing their surface-level differences. They already notice them and they probably don’t care. Whatever conflict there is in your teams most likely has nothing to do with their surface-level traits, and if you call attention to it, you will simply reinforce surface-level divisions rather than creating deep-level harmony.
To make your diverse teams work well together, simply allow them to engage in meaningful, interdependent tasks, and give them plenty of time to get to know each other on a deeper level. It’s that simple.
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"Diversity" is racism and sexism thinly veiled as virtue.
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Pisces Compatibility – Finding Your Perfect Partner
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Pisces Compatibility – Finding Your Perfect Partner
A person born under the zodiac sign of Pisces is recognized as being sensitive, caring, and having deeply romantic feelings for a partner they can trust.
This trust may take time to build but when it has, Pisces can make a loyal loving partner for life.
Pisces compatibility with a linking zodiac sign in a relationship is the bedrock to a successful long-term partnership, and we can learn a lot from how astrology can influence our lives.
The sun signs are the primary indicator for this article, yet every one of us is more than just our sun sign astrology reading.
Throughout the ages, humans have looked heavenwards to understand the ever-changing star and planetary positioning in the night sky.
Astrology links these positions to a person’s time and date of birth, giving each of us not only a zodiac sign but also a controlling sun or moon sign.
Pisces Compatibility – Best Matches
It is widely accepted in astrology circles that the best Pisces compatibility matches are Scorpio, Cancer, Virgo, and Capricorn.
However, in practical terms, it must be accepted that this is a quick way to compare as each person’s personality can vary depending on the planetary position.
Understanding the traits and characteristics of a potential partner can give a good indication of future compatibility within a relationship.
The following list will give you a broad idea of the compatibility between two zodiac signs.
Pisces Compatibility With Scorpio
The combination of Scorpio and Pisces has the power to create a deep physical connection, which could culminate into a strong emotional bond, with each having qualities that can complement the other in a relationship.
Given time, this combination could feel so comfortable with each other that they could seem to communicate on a telepathic level, each knowing what the other is thinking.
However, Scorpio has a tendency to be over suspicious and could become needy which may, in time, cause friction.
The underlying differences between the Pisces / Scorpio partnership offer a good projection for a contented future relationship.
Pisces is recognized as having a loving and forgiving nature. Capable of great kindness and compassion which can sometimes border on self-sacrifice.
Scorpio, being of more extrovert characteristics will feel happy as being regarded as a protector.
Pisces Compatibility With Cancer
A person born under the zodiac sign of Cancer tends to become a heavenly companion for Pisces. Both signs are known to be considerate and caring.
Both also share a craving for intimacy and are capable of creating a deeply emotional connection.
They both have a natural intuitive ability to be able to understand what the other is thinking.
In most cases, this seemingly psychic power can divert and placate any future upsets or misunderstandings.
Although these two signs seem alike in many ways, they also have inner differences that lead to a compatible balance with each other.
Cancer is a sign that can be viewed as being the homemaker, with the natural tendency to nurture and create a solid foundation within a relationship.
On the reverse side, Cancer can become a worrier which could make them moody and irritable in times of crisis.
The gentle characteristics of Pisces provide a seemingly mystic ability to overcome and soothe unfounded emotional situations.
The easy-going nature of this sign has a natural ability to adapt to most circumstances, which blends well with Cancer.
Pisces can be oversensitive in some situations but generally relaxed and accepts and adapts as any upsets arise.
Pisces tend to have a spiritual aura about them which may lead to them facing problems of material nature.
Cancer’s stability can help Pisces face upsets in the material world and Pisces will be always available to help Cancer control any erratic emotions.
Pisces Compatibility With Virgo
In the world of astrology, Pisces is the opposite sign of Virgo, but this makes these two signs a natural partnership.
On a theoretical level, this is true, but in practice, the saying ‘opposites attract’ is more than true with this pairing.
It is the polarities of each zodiac sign that can make them appear opposite even though they have similar characteristics. This can make them appear as being the same but viewed differently from two sides.
The over-riding theme between Pisces and Virgo is of humility and service. These two signs are capable of giving, yet both, in different ways.
Pisces tend to provide emotional and spiritual support and Virgo is always big in offering practical help and assistance.
The two main differences between these signs are that Pisces is able to view and understand the big picture, without noticing the details.
Whereas, Virgo is more detail-oriented but sometimes misses the overall picture.
Each of them is strong in their own way, and they complement each other where they are weakest. Overall, these two seemingly opposites can become a secure combination by relying on each other’s strengths.
Pisces Compatibility With Capricorn
Pisces and Capricorn have the makings of an excellent partnership, again based on their opposite characteristics.
While Capricorn tends to be one of the most practical, Pisces is seen as the direct opposite. However, as above, in astrology two opposing signs can make the strongest relationship.
Similar to the combination of Scorpio and Pisces, the domestic role with this couple will be taken on by Pisces. Capricorn can be driven by status and is noted for being hardworking and career-focused.
Although Capricorn can be devoted and loving they always seem to have the goal in mind of practical advantage in the relationship.
A Capricorn will tend to look at future stability rather than get swept away by physical attraction.
A Capricorn woman for instance may not see a relationship with a Pisces man progressing seriously unless he has the foresight and work ethic to provide a stable future.
However, a Pisces man has the ability to soften the conservative Capricorn woman with the potential of his creative ability.
The drive of the Capricorn is sometimes all that is needed to bring out the flair that is lying dormant in the steady Pisces.
A more traditional relationship can be easier formed between a Capricorn man and a Pisces woman.
This combination should create a more amicable partnership due to the support and strength of the other partner.
The Least Pisces Compatible Matches
As seen above, some zodiac signs are more compatible together, but below we can look at the signs that tend to fare least together. These are Gemini, Aquarius, and Leo.
Gemini With Pisces
The differences between them are what generally, make two signs incompatible. However, Gemini and Pisces tend to be the exception to the rule.
Gemini has a tendency to be more intelligent and has a curious nature. Where Pisces is intuitive and can be emotional.
Yet, problems can seem to arise from their similarities rather than their differences. Pisces is Mutable water which is a sign that has minimal boundaries.
Gemini is Mutable air which tends to disregard or be oblivious to any boundaries.
This tends to leave the pairing with no one party providing balance within the relationship.
They may have difficulty in agreeing on a household arrangement if they decide to live together, but the consoling factor is great sexual chemistry between this pairing.
Aquarius With Pisces
Aquarius is a fixed air sign and Pisces is Mutable Water. Both tend to be unconventional in their thinking and also a different approach to life generally.
Pisces has a tendency to float along with little sense of boundaries being largely unaware of problems until forced to face them.
On the other hand, Aquarius is more than aware of conventions and the boundaries that encircle them.
However, they would rather choose to ignore them and hope things will resolve themselves.
This rigidity in Aquarius is alien in Pisces which may cause disruption in any long-term relationship or upheaval on the domestic front.
Leo With Pisces
In the majority of cases signs that have little in common with each other rarely get together from the outset.
To form any sort of relationship there needs to be a degree of common ground to spark an interest.
This is the situation especially with a Pisces man and Leo woman. Leo soon discovers the dreamy Pisces outlook on life and sometimes sees this as a weakness that loses her respect.
The Pisces male has an inner strength which is not necessarily connected with masculinity as perceived by the more dominant Leo woman.
Yet if she can see through her own misconceptions this could result in a happy and contented pairing.
This does not follow so much with a Leo male and a Pisces woman.
Although on the face of it they have little in common, he will be flattered by her attention, and she intrigued by his versatility and showmanship.
As the initial novelty of attraction wears off a realization may surface as to how different their characteristics really are.
In time the Pisces woman may become disillusioned with the Leo man and cease to give him the attention and admiration that he needs.
As the relationship becomes strained the Leo man may withdraw within himself depriving his partner of the emotional support that is important to her.
The Pieces Man
A characteristic, that is also shared with Cancer is the craving to be connected, which is the reason these two signs can make an excellent match.
The Pisces male is also compatible with Scorpio which is another water sign and can usually share an emotional relationship that is intense and demanding.
These two signs, along with Capricorn, Virgo, and Taurus all earth signs, have the capacity to create long-term relationships.
Understanding, and making allowance for each other’s variable characteristics is the key to a balanced and happy relationship.
Pisces is recognized as having one of the most open characters in the zodiac. They tend to love to talk to someone they can trust especially if they can open up and share their emotions.
Cancer and Scorpio particularly have a connection that can make Pisces completely at ease with himself.
If you have been seeing a Pisces man, but you’re not sure if it’s really going anywhere, then you can see our article here to discover the signs Pisces man is in love with you to discover his true feelings.
The Pisces Woman
The fellow water signs of Scorpio and Cancer blend well with the Pisces woman’s craving to be a best friend as well as a lover with her partner.
Women born under the zodiac sign of Pisces are also compatible with Taurus, Capricorn, and Virgo which are earth signs and can supply the structure and security that they need.
Pisces women are most content in marriage or long-term relationships with Scorpio or Cancer as it seems to create a more open relationship.
As for sexual relations are concerned, compatibility with Cancer or Scorpio is best, probably due to the Pisces woman being completely confident with the emotions they share.
Pisces women seem to easily connect with anyone through conversation due mainly to her open and generous nature. Cancer and Scorpio are the signs most likely to offer this in return.
Final Thoughts
The fellow water signs of Cancer and Scorpio provide the best compatibility with Pisces. There seems to be an invisible bond and understanding that these signs will provide the security that Pisces craves.
After these, Pisces also seems well suited to Virgo or Capricorn.
The two signs that may create the most trouble for Pisces is Aquarius or Leo. Both these signs have little in common with the water sign of Pisces and may find it hard to create a connection.
Pisces may also find things difficult with Gemini, but this is more to do with their similarities rather than anything else.
The most important thing to remember when trying to assess compatibility, that it is not everything in a relationship.
The success of any relationship is reliant on both parties understanding the characteristics of the other and possibly making allowance.
We are all individuals and we all have something to offer to make a relationship work. This article is based on Sun signs only so should just be used as a guide.
Pisces is renowned as having a kind and gentle nature, and understanding how strong these emotions can be will lead you to bridge any natural compatibility.
Want to know more about the compatibility potentials between the other zodiac signs? Is so then you can read our article on the best love match pairings according to the zodiac.
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KARMA FILES: XOXO 2020
ARIES
The Full Moon/Super Moon on April 7th, will most likely end a personal relationship that had potential to be longstanding.  If some type of agreement for change can’t be reached between you and your significant other, it’s best to part company and move on.  
When Mars enters your sign for a long cycle, June 29th - November 14th, you won’t be in your most diplomatic, harmonious or banned frame of mind, especially when Mars retrogrades, September 9th - November 14th.  If you’re not able to think before you speak, there will be “fireworks” .  It won’t be easy to be selfless.  Therefore, keep your temper on an even keel and listen first before taking action or saying anything.  At least, you should be able to preserve relationships that matter.
Venus, the planet of love, moves into Gemini (communication),  April 4th - August 8th, during which time there’s a likelihood of “head-games”  being played int he area of love, which won’t end well, especially when Venus retrogrades,  May 13h - June 25th.  Tact, tolerance and understanding won’t be easy, plus the fact thoughtless words spoken in the past could come back to haunt you.
Mercury retrogrades in Scorpio, October 14th - October 28th, indicating past intimate relationships could reappear, but not for the best.  it would be wise to stay clear of this altogether, because the intent will not be in your best interests.  In addition, the desire to “wander and explore” sexually will be strong.  Caution is advised if this is acted upon.  Outcomes will be very different from expected, most likely detrimental and probably create more karma in this area of life.   Avoid getting involved in other people’s relationships completely.
Mercury will retrograde all the way back into Libra, October 29th - November 2nd, an indication past relationships will return temporarily.  Unless a major change has occurred with the person/s in question, anything from the past should be dealt with very carefully, exercising discernment.
Love in 2020 for Aries will be  “mine-field” of potential “blow-ups” if caution isn’t used.  Therefore, putting one foot in front of the other with calm and balance, will be the best way to have a successful year of positive, harmonious love relationships.
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KARMA FILE:
You carry a karma from the past, in which you found it difficult to express emotions in the area of love, through words or actions, which then manifested in a psychosomatic manner. As a result, now, especially in 2020 you must find a way to express your emotions in a healthy way that doesn’t have negative repercussions to you or the person you love.    This also applies to feelings of guilt. Guilt must not be projected onto your significant other, or even harbored internally.  Perhaps, by finding a way to write thoughts/feelings down first, you can then heal the karma of the past.    Most of all be careful of attracting people into your life that magnify or exacerbate this karma..
TAURUS
The March 9th, Full Moon/Super Moon in Virgo, greatly affects love and how you interact with your partner.  If you’ve been feeling that somehow your needs are not being served and you haven’t discussed this with your significant other, the stars are not aligned for the relationship to continue in the same format.  
Mercury enters Scorpio September 28th -  October 28th, then again, November 11th - December 2nd.  In-between these dates there is a retrograde in Scorpio, October 14th - 28th.     This is the time to be most careful, because the aspect affects long-term love.   There is no room for undermining, secrets or jealousy, because once the transit is in forward motion, everything hidden will begin to be exposed.
The Universal planetary nodes of the Moon will also be changing May 6th - January 19th 2022.   Even though the aspect affects everyone on a broad scale, individuals will still feel it. Communication, truth, justice. learning, expansion of  consciousness are character traits are going to be of importance, the transit falls in your house of intimate relationships, the past and karma.    Once the cycle begins, or even close to it, the emphasis will focus on being honest, straightforward and verbal clarity.      You have to be wiling to lay the foundation of love that makes both you and your partner happy.  This means having the courage to speak up and decide what type of relationship you both want and a commitment you can both agree on.  
The New Moon Solar Eclipse in Sagittarius on December 14th, should, if you’ve been on a positive relationship path, open the door for new close intimate partnerships, that will be eep and more fulfilling than anything you’ve yet to experience.
Love relationships  can work if both people involved are able to  agree on what it’s going to be, then problems and unnecessary upset will be avoided. in 2020 and the future.
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KARMA FILE
The karma you’ll be facing in 2020, stems from lifetimes in  ancient Rome during the Christian era, in which you carried both beauty and/or wealth.  In these lifetimes you viewed and mocked the struggles of others in various scenarios, that brought great physical and emotional pain to the participants.    In this lifetime, as a result of these experiences, those that enter your life in the area of love may have some “disability”, in mind, body or spirit, which you must not look down upon, otherwise they may do the same to you being your back or openly.   Therefore, be careful of entering into a love-relationship without knowing the full details of the other person, then you can decide if it’s something you wish to participate in or not.  This way you won’t feel that you’re being misled, used /manipulated negatively in any way shape or form.   Accept others for who and what they are, because everyone has faults.    
GEMINI
The Full Moon/Super Moon in Libra, April 7th, will be in your house of long-term love, an indication that how you love will change and perhaps even partners.  This wile a time to let of of everything that you’r not happy with, having the confidence to let your partner know, then hopefully try to bring resolution.
With Jupiter in Capricorn until December 20th, karma in the area of intimate relationships will come to the forefront for your attention.  This will place an even greater emphasis, with the New Moon Solar Eclipse in Capricorn, July 5th.  This will be the tie to lay down the law and a new foundation to support growth and stability  between you and your partner, even though this could be uncomfortable in many ways.  Pluto remains in Capricorn until January 22nd 2024, and retrogrades April 25th - October 4th.   Saturn is in Capricorn unto March 23rd, when it moves into Aquarius briefly, then return to Capricorn, July 2nd December 17th.  Al this major Capricorn activity is a sign from the Universe, urging youth “clean house”, getting rid of lingering karma with people you’ve outgrown or who just don’t have your best interests at heart.   This means you may have to repeat certain situations again in order to be clear about what they are, confront and then remove them from your life.
Venus in your sign, April 4th - August 8th, highlights self-worth with your ideas, perceptions and communication of them to others.  However, when Venus retrogrades,  May 13th - June 25th, you’ll have to rely on Self, if and when no-one is interested in what you have to say or even understands.   Your perception of love could be misunderstood  and cause friction.    Writing things down will prove to be beneficial during this cycle, at least putting pen to paper fist will provide the clarity/understanding needed before you convey your thoughts.   Throughout Venus retrograde in Gemini, be careful of circular thinking  that get you nowhere except more confused.
When the Universal Nodes of the Moon switch to Sagittarius and Gemini, you’ll feel a strong urge to be forthright with others and the truth be known - at least your version of it.   Courage, self-worth and confidence will be needed, which can only come from introspection on a deep level, to strengthen self-awareness. The New Moon Solar Eclipse in Sagittarius, December 14th, ushers in a new beginning of long-term love, that will have all the component parts for growth.  It may even bring people from other cultures into your life, so you can have different experience and broaden your love horizons.
2020 love can be one of working harder to create relationships that are fairly based on mutual understanding of growth  and honesty.
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In previous incarnations in the area of love you were always very  generous to  your significant other.  However you carry the karma of giving material things, personal possessions to your partner but being very judgmental about their conduct, criticizing, finding fault.  The result of doing this creates self-doubt, self-worth and lack of confidence, within your partner, which leads to later conflict.   In 2020 you must try to overcome this karma and be more sensitive  to their feelings, bearing in mind that ‘as you give out, so you receive” will manifest in other areas of life too., with people treating you the same way.
CANCER
Capricorn rules your house of long-term partnerships, therefore with so many astrology aspects in this house, namely, Pluto,Saturn and Jupiter, in addition to the New Moon Solar Eclipse, July 5th, this area of life will not be the same by the end of the year, major changes are in the stars.   Saturn briefly moves into Aquarius, March 23rd - July 1st, during which time it’ll important to establish more independence when it comes to intimate relationships, the karma being, the tendency to be too dependent and/or smothering. Learning to be your own person in the context of a relationship will be of importance. Saturn moves back  into Capricorn for the last time, July 2nd - December 17th, activating karma that keeps love stagnant, unable to grow or move forward.   Whatever underlying problems still remain, now will be the time to confront them once and for all.   Especially, issues concerning the foundation and strength of the relationship overall.  Commitments will have to be changed or at least given serious re- consideration, taking responsibility for what you want/don’t want. Saturn moves permanently into Aquarius, December 18th - March 8th 2023 also joining Jupiter in Aquarius,.  A time of perhaps being single or at least with more time for Self, will be more of an issue with Jupiter with Saturn in Aquarius, The question, how do you become a friend and lover will be of importance.
Pluto  stays in Capricorn until January 22nd 2024.  highlighting fear, insecurity and doubts that you keep to yourself but aren’t positive attributes for a successful love relationship.    Whatever the fears are let them go and learn to deal with the rough and smooth cycles of love.  This will be especially true when Pluto retrogrades April 25th - October 4th, during then you’ll be confronted with those fears as a result of “upheavals” that take place.   At the same time, if single this retrograde is not a good cycle to start a new love relationship, because most likely something will be hidden from you that isn’t in your best interests.
Past lovers could also return when Mercury retrogrades in Aquarius, March 5th - March 10th.
While Mercury is in Scorpio September 20th - December 1st, the possibility of jealousy, intense emotions and jealousy are likely,  in particular the retrograde cycle of Scorpio, October 14th - 28th.  Staying alert and aware will circumvent negative scenarios occurring that would be hard to resolve.
2020 will be a challenging year for Cancer and love, but with a strong desire to overcome lingering karma and create the best possible love relationship, outcomes will be positive.
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In several previous incarnations, you chose to not use your instincts when it came to love, seeing the person of your affection in their true colors, because of this you experienced great pain and sorrow, when you discovered who they really were and their true i intent towards you. This year, you’ll be faced with this karma again and must therefore be careful of giving people qualities they don’t have, seeing what you want to see, hearing what you want to hear.   Trust your instincts, as much as you maybe attracted to someone.  This will empower you with the ability to avoid creating more karma of this type, in love and unnecessary hurt.
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LEO
The activity in the house of permanent love is emphasized with Saturn moving into Aquarius March 23rd - July 1st, briefly.  During this cycle, you’ll be in the position to decide whether you want a permanent love relationship, a relationship that involves seeing other people or no relationship at all.    Saturn is in this house to teach  you about love and happiness.  What does that mean to you?  Saturn moves back in to Capricorn, July 2nd - December 17th, into your house of  work, health, service to Self and others.   Another question, can you make time out of y9our busy schedule for love?
Neptune in Pisces, affects your house of karma, the past and intimate love,  indicating that you have a “blind-spot” in this area of life.   You must learn there are “consequences” for a person’s actions, if they’re not in harmony with Natural Law and cause hurt, pain and sorrow, without regard.  Learning to follow the Golden Rule, treating others in the way you wish to be treated.    When Neptune retrogrades, June 23rd - November 28th,  how you treat others will be a very major factor of which to be aware.  Plus, things that are hidden may well be revealed, for better or worse.    Neptune will be in Pisces until March 31st 2025.
The new Moon Solar Eclipse, December 14th, denotes a new cycle of change in the area of love/happiness,  Opportunities could present themselves that have significant affect on current love-relationships and ones in the future. If you’re willing to take a risk and initiate significant changes in  job/home, these changes could have positive affect on love.
2020 is a year of allowing the Universe to guide you forward, paying attention to how you treat others.  Ultimately, in the long-run you’ll discover that Cause and Affect are real and we all reap what we sew, sooner or later.  Therefore, being mindful of this fact will spare you a lot of difficulties/problems laying the foundation for positive outcomes in personal relationships.
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During 2020, tread carefully in the area of love and how you treat your partner/s.    You have come into this life disbelieving there is Cause and Affect, in that a person’s actions have consequences.  If you find yourself in situations this year, when love doesn’t seem to be going quite as you expected positively, stop for a second to give thought to past actions.   The Universe has all the time in the world to put things in balance, when, where and how, are questions that can only be answered when karma manifests itself.  Ego will always step in the way of consideration of another’s feelings, but to do this will only make it harder for healing of the karma to happen.   Therefore, throughout the year, practice the Golden Rule, especially in love-relationships, so that healing of past karma can take place.
VIRGO
In the house of love, Pluto, Saturn and Jupiter all reside in the 5th house at the same time, in the sign of Capricorn.   Pluto, highlights all the fear, insecurity, doubt and past issues that are in the way of love being successful and positive.  Saturn is about stagnation, commitment, structures that  no longer serve a positive purpose. Jupiter is the magnifying glass that shines a light on everything that is good/bad in love and in particular from childhood, because the house with all this activity is the house of childhood, happiness, love, risk and creativity.   Jupiter being in this house adds a layer of protection to everything the house represents at this time.  Jupiter is the protector of the Zodiac.
As all these points are converging in this house you have to possess a certain amount of self-awareness to be able to be introspective enough to notice when the Universe is confronting you with issues that need your attention.  Issues that you’ve outgrown and no longer  support a positive love relationship.   The Universe requires that you become more of your own person and let go of the “child” that still aligns itself with that particular time-frame, has yet to move forward into the here and now.  Have toe confidence to create “rules” that are in alignment with relationships that make you and your partner happy, not the rules of others.
Saturn retrogrades, July 2nd - December 17th  for the last time before it moves into Aquarius permanently.    Pluto retrograde April 25th - October 4th, Jupiter retrogrades may 14th - September 12th.  Throughout these cycles all the above issues will be in the forefront for you to confront, so don’t be surprised if you feel overwhelmed with feelings that are memories of the past, good/not so good. The New Moon Solar Eclipse in Capricorn July 5th will bring a revelations and opportunity to really embark upon a new path of love /commitment with your partner, which,  if mutually agreeable will bring positive results by the end of the year.
Neptune is in Pisces until March 31st 2025, in your house of long-term love.    This is a blind-spot area to be aware of.  You must be able to take-off the “rose-colored” glasses to see clearly the needs of your partner and avoid assuming things that are not real or true, which can cause conflict and unnecessary criticism.  At the same time being wiling to do the “work” necessary for love to continually grow/evolve.    Most of all, by applying an element of spiritually to love relationships, you’ll bring in a higher vibration of protection and union for the two of you.
When Neptune retrogrades, June 23rd - November 28th, all the above issues will be more in focus for you to deal with.  Meditation or similar modalities will help to uncover and discern what you need to learn and understand.  Neptune is the ruler of Pisces, the sign that it’s in at this time.  Pisces rules spirituality, so this is the key to obtaining the information needed to bring immense happiness into your love-life.
2020 is na year of letting go, growing up, realizing you have your own life to live with enough awareness to learn from the past, and your mistakes, using them as “stepping-stones” to achieve your hearts desire.
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You may or may not think it possible, but there is usually an answer for many of life’s problems and such is the case this year in the area of love.   In previous lives, there was an intolerance towards others who were different in some capacity and as a result, whether it was obvious or not, caused pain and sorrow.  Now, you ‘re faced with people being intolerant/insensitive toward you and your needs.  It may seem that, regardless of how hard you try, or seem to be trying to be kind and tolerant, the same is rarely given to you, especially in love, where you need acceptance the most, or it is given but you feel it just  isn’t enough.    Positive affirmation is the key.   If you repeat to Self before going to bed at night and during meditation that you’re a good, kind loving human being who will reach out to help others in need and deserves love in your life, with someone who has your best interests at heart, these affirmations will affect positive healing and change internally/externally.
LIBRA
Saturn moves into your house of love March 23rd - July 1st. for a brief stay, before it moves back into Capricorn for the last time, July 2nd - December 18th. While Saturn is in your house of love, happiness and risk, frustrations and anxiety over wanting love, security, rest, freedom and excitement, could cause erratic behavior that isn’t well thought through.   Saturn will keep you stable secure and centered, holding you back from going off on tangents with certain individuals, as much as this may seem tempting. The task that Saturn brings is to build a solid, formidable structure for love and avenues of expression that bring happiness.  Nothing less will do.   If you try to “cut corners” Saturn will bring in Cause and Affect very quickly, so that the “lesson” is learned.
In addition, you may become aware of small faults/weaknesses that need to be strengthened, that are not favorable for a successful love relationship.  Love that doesn’t have some type of commitment/structure will be problematic.   It’s irrelevant what the commitment turns out to be, as long as you and your partner both agree.  Lessons from past relationships that need to be confronted will also come to the forefront, in order for an understanding of what/who makes you happy, to be established.  Self-image will also become an issue, but has to be addressed from within on a deep level.   At the same time a parent may experience health issues, most likely the father, while Saturn is in Aquarius, so be prepared for visits home, love  and childhood memories coming to the surface.
Personal growth and well-being, although not necessarily attributed to love will need to be looked.  Diet, health, taking caef of Self, dental issues (Saturn), will all be at the top of the attention list, in order for you to transform from a caterpillar into a butterfly.
Jupiter will move into Aquarius, December 2020 - May14th 2021, during which time there’l be plenty of new lovers wanting your attention.  As Jupiter is a magnifying glass, weaknesses in this area of life will be very obvious and need to be looked at.
Mercury retrogrades in Aquarius,  very briefly, March 5th - 10th, a transit which could bring unexpected contact from a former lover.  However, here today, gone tomorrow, their stay will be even briefer and  would make better friends than lovers.
With Mars being in Aries and your house of long-term love, June 29th - January 7th 2021, it will seem as if nothing goes right in this area of life, especially when Mars retrogrades in Aries, September 9th - November 13th.  It’s not wise to begin  (Aries), any new relationships of meaning during this particular retrograde a lot of conflict will be the outcome.
Mercury retrograde in your sign, October 29th - November 2nd, therefore communication will be at its worst, unfortunately.   Better to say little or nothing, rather than risk unnecessary disruption that could be irreparable.  
With Uranus in your house of intimate love, until July 2025, the Universe will be bringing lessons of learning how to be an individual in the context of a sexual relationship.    Deep intense relationships may start suddenly, then leave just as quickly, which maybe upsetting, but the Universe is sending  a “message” to choose carefully who you want to be  intimate with.  
Overall, for Libra 2020 is gong to be a year of challenges with relationships and Self, realizing that love isn’t a romance novel, it takes hard work, commitment, respect and self-worth, for happiness to be attained.
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Realize this year, that many of the loves you’ve experienced, you’ve known before in some capacity.  Interaction with these individuals wasn’t/isn’t always necessary  for long periods off time, but merely for healing to occur of certain karmas.    In 2020 when you come into contact with new people you feel affinity or attraction, give thought to the “lesson” that needs to be learned.  If you ignore this fact, the karma will increase and prove to make partnerships with another harder than it needs to be.   If you can also develop greater inner strength and fortitude to meet life’s challenges overall, dealing with love karma won’t seem to be such a daunting task.   Great happiness can and will be the result of overcoming the past.
SCORPIO
Neptune in Pisces, February 12th  2012 - March 31st 2025, stays in your house of love, happiness, creativity childhood and risk throughout the entire cycle.   The purpose of this transit is to help you open your eyes when it comes to love-relationships, so that you’re clearly aware of whom you’re getting involved with.  This clarity will be the motivating factor to stop giving people qualities they don’t have, or seeing what you want to see or hear.   Delusion in love has led to many disappointments, when you come to the realization that the person you’re with doesn’t fulfill expectations.   The reality being, maybe they can’t.  You have to be able to see this too.
If you live in a fantasy world of how love should be that isn’t even close to the har truth of what is actually going on, you set yourself up for tremendous heartbreak.  Plus being a Scorpio, you would most likely blame the other person for the downfall of the relationship and harbor resentment, without looking at Self for the answers.   It won’t be easy to learn this lesson, but you have quite some time to give it a try.
The time of the year to be on guard is when Neptune retrogrades, June 23rd - November 28th.  This is when you’ll  be at your most vulnerable and likely to slip up.    Not a great time to start a love-relationship or take risks even with an exiting one because it won’t be based in reality.  Instead, just go with the  flow and don’t make any promises that could be broken later.
Uranus is in Taurus, March 7th 2019 - July 7th 2025, resting in your house of long-term  love.    During this transit new potential love interests will come and go just as quickly, but your love-life certainly won’t be boring.  Beware of impulsive urges to explore, because these urges could create a lot of problems that would be hard to resolve.   If you’re in an existing long-term relationship, it will be “tested” by the Universe to see if you appreciate its worth/value and whether the foundation is strong to remain in place during turbulent times.   You’ll probably have to redefine the boundaries and freedoms of the relationship to avoid misunderstandings.   The most difficult time will be during the retrograde, August 25th - January 14th 2020.  Communication will be an important factor, in order for both you and your partner to be on the same page.
Finally, when the Nodes of the Moon switch to North Node in Gemini, South Node in Sagittarius, May 6th - January 19th 2022, the highlight will be on understanding and communicating your needs with your significant other and not hiding things that should be shared and made known., especially when it comes to intimate relationships.  If you’re going to be involved with someone on an intimate level, it’s important that you make your intent very clear.  Because this particular aspect falls in your house of karma and  the past, therefore, in order to avoid creating more karma in this area of life, it’s wise to be honest (Sagittarius), allowing the other person to decide what they want to do.
Venus will also be in this house, April 4th - August 8th, motivating you to think you understand what a person wants intimately, without necessarily asking for there input and then wondering why everything falls apart quickly.  Even more of an issue when Venus retrogrades in Gemini, May 13th - June 25th.
Mercury retrograde in Pisces,  February 16th - March 5th, is a time when your “vision” maybe impaired and the fantasy side of love will be at its strongest.  If you can keep your feet firmly on the ground, you should get through the cycle in one piece.
Mercury retrograde in Scorpio briefly, October 14th - October 28th, is a cycle when “tall tales” could be told.   The past could come back to haunt you for better or worse, but it would be wise to make any deep interactions temporary, because of potential negativity that could be caused.   Beware of undermining resentment and jealousy whether from you or others.
2020 is really about being the better person when it comes to love, not assuming things that aren’t true or real and  treating others with the respect you expect from others.
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When you ask yourself this year in the area of love, why am I going through this? Give thought to the fact that current experiences are but links in a chain of events that started long, long ago.  A small piece of a huge puzzle of life.   Therefore, when you’re faced with frustrations/irritations in your love-life this year,  try to look beyond them to discover the common thread of each scenario that has occurred.  If and when you’re able to do this, the healing can begin to take place,  opening the door for a new more positive perspective of personal relationships and how to make them work.
SAGITTARIUS
The Full Moon Lunar Eclipse in Cancer January 10th, probably brought about a change in deep feelings towards another, creating a situation where new rules had to be applied, or the intimate relationship relinquished.    When Mercury retrograde occurs in Cancer, June 18th - July 10th, some aspect of the events in January will occur again, for a final clean-up.  However, it’s important to keep emotions from getting out of control, or allowing Self to be emotionally wounded/manipulated.
Aries rules your house of love, happiness, childhood and risk and with Mars entering this house June 29th - November 14th, you’ll find yourself fin the position of dealing with aspects of love that are reminiscent of childhood experiences.   In particular when Mars retrogrades in Aries, September 9th - November 13th.  During this retrograde the focus will be on avoiding major conflict with family, parents or loved ones, as you feel your voice must be heard and certain feelings brought out into the open.  This is true, but with gentle consideration for the feelings of others.   Ultimately, you’ll have to differentiate between persona desire, true will or purpose, in order to get through this very turbulent transit.
The Nodes of the Moon switching to North Node in Gemini and South Node in Sagittarius, May 6th - January 19th 2022 affects your house of long-term love.   The Nodes of the Moon represent major karma on a Universal and individual level, therefore, the emphasis would be on being honest in your communication with your long-term partner and being in action about making sure they know you care. Discussing each other’s wants and needs so you’re both working towards the same goal.
When Venus enters Gemini, April 4th - August 8th, love will be very much on your mind, but more from the intellectual perspective.   This is not a time to overthink what is or isn’t happening in love, but write down what you think/feel  in order to have clarity.  Venus retrograde in Gemini, May 13th - June 25th, will really get your mind in turmoil causing you to be more scattered  than rational.  If you have contact with past loves during this time, don’t allow Self to get too caught up with those in question, because it’ll end up in a confusing mess.   Be polite, straightforward, keeping a healthy distance.
2020 will bring to the surface many past memories that need to be confronted in the area of love and happiness, leaving room for a new attitude/behavior that is more conducive for love to grow between you and your significant other.
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When faced with making important decisions in love this year, do so from a perspective of integrity, asking Self, what is the right thing to do? If you can approach each decision, knowing, for every Cause there is an Affect, it’s unlikely you’ll cause pain and sorrow to those you love.   In past lives you didn’t do this and caused tremendous hurt to others.  At the same time, understand the “grass isn’t always  greener over the hill”.  It’s often better to work out existing problems firsts so they’re not carried forward with you to the next situation.   Use this knowledge as a guide in the area of personal love and you won’t go off on tangents that lead to negative situations.
CAPRICORN
The house of love, happiness childhood and risk is highlighted by Uranus in Taurus being there until July 7th 2025.   Throughout this transit you’ll feel the urge to separate Self from things you learned about love growing up and the experiences that followed.  You have to learn to stand on your own two feet, demonstrate independent thinking  and confront old karma connected to this area of life, still holding you back from really experiencing happiness with your partner.   If you can understand that it’s possible to be friends with your significant other and that it’s an important factor in the success of the relationship, you’ll be on your way to experiencing the love of your life.
Mercury retrograde in Cancer, June 18th - July 10th, will bring back memories of past loves that were emotionally draining, loves from the past may reappear.   The best course of action, learn what you can and use the lessons to empower you in current love-relationships.   Being tempted to stray may also be an issue, especially if involved in a long-standing relationship.  The question to ask of Self, would you be happy doing this and if you’re not happy should you let  your partner know? Self-worth plays an important part in getting the right answers to your questions and doing the right thing.
2020 is a year to put energy and time into creating a happy fulfilling love relationship, in which both you and your partner work together harmoniously to make things work.
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Current problems in love  and through 2020,  with certain family members/friends, are  due to the fact that  in previous lives the roles of you and these individuals, was different.  What you perceive as interference into your love-life, seeming jealousy/criticism is not imagined.  These individuals were part of your love-life in the past, whether as friends or giving healing in some capacity,  or interfering with your love-life because of jealousy.   They want to maintain control of this area of life, but you cannot let this happen.  In the past the outcome was never positive and led to tremendous deep-rooted animosity each time.  Hence the undercurrent of negativity you often feel.     The solution, is for you to speak up and draw boundaries when it comes to personal relationships.  Only you and your partner should be the two people involved in decision making and the success of the relationship, no-one else.
AQUARIUS
The Full Moon/Super Moon in Virgo, March 9th, indicates that how you serve others and Self in deep intimate relationships will change, if it hasn’t by the time this aspect comes into being.    Instead of being critical and irritable for one reason or another, ask your partner what their needs are and how you can fulfill them, maybe.  At least you can try. By doing this, you show your partner you care about them beyond a physical level and you’re interested in what they think/feel.   This will open the door for a new beginning in how you interact on an intimate level.
The next big aspect to affect love is the Nodes of the Moon changing May 6th.  The North Node will be in Gemini and the South Node in Sagittarius.  The Nodes of the Moon highlight, major karma that has to be learned and integrated Sagittarius - truth, honesty, justice, growth, expansion, travel, higher consciousness to be integrated, to be in harmony with the higher side of Gemini - communication, learning, travel, understanding, versatility, flexibility, intellect and writing.    If you can integrate some of these attributes in the area of love, applying a more balanced approach to love by being understanding, tolerant and adaptable., it’l be easier for love to grow and evolve to higher levels.  This aspect falls in your house of love, childhood, creativity, risk and happiness.
The Venus in Gemini aspect also  affecting the same house, will give you plenty of choice of potential lovers, some will be good prospects, some not so good.   The danger here is of wasting time/energy with people who have little or nothing to offer, especially when Venus retrogrades, May 13th - June 25th.  Throughout this cycle you’ll be more inclined to rationalize love than feel it.  Mind-games are likely.
Throughout 2020, you’ll learn that love-relationships don’t have to be so hard if you’re willing to meet your partner half-way.  In turn, they’ll be open to working with you to improve what you already have together.  
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Infidelity is the karma to be faced in 2020, Instances you face are from events that occurred before in this life or another.   Now that you understand the Cause of the Affect, that brings this into your life to confront, you must not allow yourself to put up with this kind of situation, or for it continue without verbalizing your expectations of love. Most of all understanding you do not deserve this treatment.  in the event that you’re the one who decides to wander outside of love, you would be wise to let your partner know first. They have a right to know you’re not happy and wish to end the relationship before embarking on a new love adventure.  Problems with infidelity can be avoided if, from the beginning a foundation  of love is agreed upon between you and your partner.  It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as you both agree.  By doing this you avoid creating more karma in this area of life, because in the end no happiness who manifest if infidelity is continued.
PISCES
The Full Moon/Lunar Eclipse in Cancer, January 10th, marked the end of what you once perceived would make you happy in love.  This change of heart was necessary for you to not let your emotions overwhelm you or the relationship, to the degree it becomes stagnant or suffocating.  The Full Moon/Super Moon in Virgo March 9th, signifies, how you serve Self and your partner will change.  If you give too much, boundaries will be set, if you don’t give enough or tend to be critical, sensitivity to their needs will make a big difference. The next Full Moon/Super Moon in Libra, April 7th, changes your interaction on an intimate level.  bringing a more balanced harmonious, loving vibe between you and your significant other, beyond the physical.
Mercury retrogrades in Cancer, June 18th - July 10th,  highlighting a resurgence of emotions from the past and/or past life memories that may cause you to retreat into yourself for a a few weeks, while you sort them out.   Make sure your partner knows you’re not ignoring them.
When Mercury retrogrades briefly into Libra, October 29th - November 2nd, issues of long-term love that haven’t been discussed come to the forefront.  What do you want from the relationship is the question to ask of Self, something deeper or superficial.
2020 is  year for a lot of soul-searching, attaining a deeper understanding of Self and personal needs when it comes to love.  This is important so that you don’t waste the time of your partner because you’re not interested in what they want, or can’t provide what they’re looking for in a love-relationship.    By digging deep within, you’ll find the answer to these questions.
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This year you may find yourself fluctuating between being helpful to the person you love or being cold and distant.   This behavior stems from previous incarnations of giving and giving to the person you loved, but being used and taken for granted, only to be eventually abandoned for someone else, leaving you heartbroken.   Now, in 2020 this karma will be strong.  However, the key to healing it once and for all, is to learn to have boundaries, learning not to give more than you can afford to lose.  This means you can still be helpful, supporting and caring, but not to the degree you’re being taken advantage of and misled.    Use the powerful Pisces instinct to “read” a person/situation on deeper levels, a gift carried from previous lives. This will empower you to have “clear sight” and to know what is the right thing to do in each situation.
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Tsurune Flower Analysis—the Twins and Shuu
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Senichi & Manji
アマリリス/Amaryllis (JPN)
Amaryllis have quite a few meanings in hanakotoba, with one of them seemingly contradictory to the other meanings. First, we have ‘splendid beauty’: the twins, like much of the cast, are definitely attractive (perhaps them being twins give them an extra boost?) so that speaks for itself.
Next up are ‘pride’ and ‘talkativeness’, which one could very easily relate to Senichi and Manji given the way they act about themselves and towards most other people. Particularly with their no holds barred way of speaking and how they seem to intentionally rile up some that they know can’t say much against them due to their difference in ability. In both the novel and anime we can see their pride in their technique as archers (at times to the point of haughtiness), so much that they’re not afraid to go toe to toe against someone they feel they can best in archery. This is particularly best illustrated in the novel (book 2, chapter 1 part 2). The twins were unmatched at their current middle school until they saw Shuu perform at a competition, which at the time they saw as a challenge. It’s very much known the both of them admire Shuu’s skills, but their underlying motive was to initially get close to him to ‘steal his skills’. However, their intentions changed not too long after.
Which brings me to the last, 内気 (uchiki). Most translations would give you ‘timid’ or ‘shy’ but the word also means ‘unsure’ or ‘diffident’, hinting at a lack of self-confidence. I feel the latter meanings apply better to the twins, though the anime understandably hasn’t touched up on contents from book 2 as much, but we see a better hint of this early into it. In the same chapter Senichi, describes himself as a ‘cheap, insignificant existence’ against someone like Shuu especially after the prefectural tournament, which is quite a blow to himself considering that between the brothers, he idolizes Shuu more. As for Manji, the same feeling comes earlier than his brother’s, dealing with his bout of hayake which—as we’ve seen with Minato—heavily derails an archer’s confidence. During the finale, he’s even shown crying, the weight of Kirisaki’s loss and his own frustration about contributing to it likely coming down on him.
Amaryllis (Western)
The Amaryllis flower with its unique design is simply eye-catching; it’s no wonder it holds the meaning of beauty and attention. In the Victorian Era, they considered these flowers as a symbol of one’s vanity and strong pride. To this day, people have associated these flowers to these meanings. Considering these messages, it’s accurate to match them with the twins. When they first appeared on screen, they’re shown bickering with each other about hitting the other’s target. Motomura comments on their fast shooting and anyone watching would clearly be entranced by the speed of their release, wondering how anyone could hit at such a pace. How they talked with Kazemai upon meeting them and insulted their team as well as made fun of Minato’s hayake shows them to be prideful and cocky.
Their ability to shoot faster than anyone and manage a hit also captures the attention of the viewers, much like the flower itself with its unique design. Being prideful also means they strive for attention, and we can see how the twins seem to do just that for Shuu. Their trait of firing insults to their enemies also raises their potential for having enemies, and that can be considered as getting their opponents’ attention as well. However, despite their prideful acts, no one can deny that the twins also have a sort of beauty in them. Appearance-wise, their similarities also make them unique from others. But under all their cockiness, they can also have a soft side to them as shown by how their character improves as the story progresses in the novel. We also get to see a difference in their personalities which can make them distinguishable after Manji develops hayake, and that can be considered a beautiful development for these two.
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チューリップ/Tulip (JPN)
In hanakotoba, white tulips can signify “lost love”. When we mention love, people immediately consider romantic or passionate love, but in this case, there is a difference when you consider the kanji (失われた愛) where the character for “love” is read as “ai” and can be translated in the general sense of love. Associating this with Shuu could mean the love he had lost from his mother. In the novel, it was explained how Shuu’s mother never treated him as her own son with the excuse that she’s no good with children. Shuu was taken care of by nurses and his grandparents as he grew up. From this background, we can grasp the idea that he was unable to obtain the love of a mother since childhood. Another thing we can consider about lost love could be his love for kyuudou. In the last episode of the anime, Shuu missed his final shot because he wasn’t “looking at the target”, unlike Minato. This means he was more focused on his opponent than on his own form. His insecurity grew and little by little as he had lost the actual meaning of doing kyuudou.
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In the OVA, Masa-san compares kyuudou with falling in love and stated that Shuu had never been in love. He says that doing kyuudou involves entering a state of ego-annihilation, where one exists with only an awareness of themself and the bow. Shuu may have loved kyuudou, but he has yet to reach this state as Minato and Masa-san have, and we have yet to find out if he will anytime soon.
The flower also holds another meaning: Fame. This we can easily associate with Shuu considering how he’s known in various schools as the unstoppable Young Prince. With his skills in kyuudou and the beauty of his form and shots, everyone is easily enthralled just by watching him. His record of being unbeatable also makes him well-known.
Tulip (Western)
Tulips have a rather romantic meaning in the English world. General meanings are fame, charity, declaration of love, perfect lover, perfect/deep love, and rebirth. Meanings specific to the color white include worthiness and forgiveness. “Fame” can possibly allude to Shuu’s reputation in the archery world and as the Young Prince within Kirisaki due to his immense skill, as it’s been implied that he has some level of popularity at Kirisaki. “Declaration of love” could point towards Shuu’s feelings towards archery or that famous scene in Episode 8 at the end where Shuu told Minato to ‘take responsibility.’ “Perfect and/or deep love” may be alluding to Shuu’s deep appreciation of archery. “Rebirth” in the metaphorical sense could likely refer to Shuu’s slowly changing attitude about kyuudou; in the anime, he says that one shouldn’t shoot for the sake of someone else, though it sounds more cutting than what Shuu actually means. The director mentions the particular line in their interview in the fanbook and says that when Shuu says this he does recognize Seiya’s skills as an archer, however, as someone who strongly cares about kyuudou, he’d like if Seiya cared more about improving himself because he cared about the sport rather than just for Minato’s sake. Ultimately, at that point Shuu regards kyuudou as something you improve at for your own sake, the members of Kirisaki noting that he doesn’t really give advice or offer help unless you approach him. But in chapter 1 of book 2, he voluntarily asks Minato for advice to help with Manji’s hayake, later even joining Sase and Motomura to ask their coach to let Manji remain in the team as both the twins would quit should Manji have been dropped from the main team. He even says (in chapter 2) that he’d like to remain in a team with them.
sources under the cut
Sen/Man (JPN) (1, 2, 3)
Sen/Man (Western) (1)
Shuu (JPN) (1, 2)
Shuu (Western) (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
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