themelaninshadesroom repost via @thereclaimed - We need to have an honest conversation about romantic partners, success, and insecurity.
Halle Bailey, our dear sweet Ariel, is dating a young man who, in his new song, made more than an idle comment. He essentially said in his song that he could tweet something that would ruin Halle’s career, just because he was insecure.
I’m going to be honest, I know nothing about this young man outside of that he currently dates Halle. But the comments in his newest song make me nervous for her. Same way I was nervous for Keke.
Partnership is about love. It’s about support and communication. It’s about being your partner’s biggest supporter, fiercest ally and loudest advocate. It’s not a competition. It’s certainly not destructive. Yet, this young man essentially shades Halle, publicly embarrassing her in a way I don’t believe she even deserves. Because she’s more successful, and he, admittedly, is insecure.
1) insecurities are NORMAL. They are best worked out with a therapist, a journal, a good mentor or a trusted friend.
2) when your insecurities make you want to sabotage your partner’s success, that’s a massive red flag.
I’m nervous for these women, and anyone partnering with people who take their own insecurities to a destructive level, all because while their partner shines, all they can do is shade.
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