#there is no ‘biological sex’ when there are a thousand and one sex variations

[mxtxfanatic]

There’s something to be said about how gender is weaponized in tgcf. Like, the gods can transform between different physical genders, but their powers aren’t divided into “girl weak, boy strong.” Ling Wen is more powerful in her male form because her followers worship her as a male god. The Brocade Immortal forces her into her male form when she wears it not because that affords it more martial skill and power but because it can’t handle being pressed against the female form of the woman it loves. Shi Qingxuan is the opposite: his female form is more powerful because he is worshipped as a female god, and he enjoys that. The gods go between their forms depending on which one brings the most benefit, making gender into a weapon.

Then we have Xie Lian who, though never physically transforming into a female form, repeatedly and successfully uses people’s gender assumptions as a shield. He makes himself into a bride as to not use an innocent civilian as bait to catch a ghost, and he later disguises himself as a mother to hide from the crowd of cultivators. Because his enemies in both cases perceived women as weak and fragile, the ghost bride did not think to see if Xie Lian was a threat, and the cultivators were embarrassed at having barged in on a “defenseless woman” dressing with her “child.” The shield of “woman” allowed Xie Lian to fool his enemies and complete his goals in both cases.

Anyways, just thought this was cool.

[simonalkenmayer]

Outraged I'm not having my revelations on how patriarchy chose to identify and police the oppressed while scrubbing your juices off a silicone gummy worm?

This phrase made me giggle. I really like this post and the one before. It raised really interesting and valid points. It hopefully makes some people stop evaluate their thinking. In no way did a perceive your comment as anyway transphobic, you just pointed out that those who were AFAB get put in a box because of that destination regardless of how they actually identify. This also occurs for those that are AMAB.

Precisely. But here let's break my definitions down again, so that my pestilential troll can make sense of it:

Sex: Your biological parts. Sexes include Male, Female, and Intersex

Gender: How people identify or the sets of behaviors from which they sample. A person can gravitate toward socially coded "masculine" "feminine" or a mixture of both.

Sexuality: What you prefer in bed, and while some people may argue that it's not alright to discriminate against someone based on how they look or the parts they have, people have their preferences, and trying to control those is oppressive. I will hear discussion on this, but I think people have a right to decide what they want to rub against themselves or potentially in themselves.

AMAB or AFAB: people who have been sex typed into one of two binary physiological types and then socialized into gender role behaviors deemed appropriate for their sex

Trans: Everyone has a different definition for this, but my personal definition is someone whose gender identity is not dependent upon their sex characteristics and the roles society has ascribed to those with similar sex characteristics. A trans person can identify as a gender that society has attached to a different set of body parts than they themselves possess, or...some variation or mixture.

You may read my first book and think...huh, they talk about it differently there. Yes. Because that book was written more than 11 years ago, when most of you were in grade school. I learned that people had begun seriously investing time and thought into these concepts, and that I was behind the times, so I educated myself. I educated myself because I was here, learning from all of you and humble enough to share that process with thousands. It infuriates me when ignorant fucks sully that delightful process by twisting, or purposefully misreading things I say, because they are obsessed with me and love stalking me. MORE THAN 1400 times they've been to my blog. I haven't even been here that often.

They really must be interested in a night of sexual congress. I mean, fair. All the humans I've tussled with usually return and seem satisfied, if not giddy. They may think of that admission whatever they want. Chiefly though, I hope they are disappointed they've been disqualified for being a nitwit.

[transthaumaturge]

Queer Zelda Theory

The Legend of Zelda universe has some interesting lore about the Gerudo Tribe and today I’d like to argue that one of the prevailing theories about them, namely the one about how they have children, isn’t as likely as the one that I’m about to propose.

The Gerudo Tribe was introduced in Ocarina of Time as a desert tribe comprised entirely of women. They have persisted in later games along more or less the same premise. We know that they have children, because 1) they need to keep making new Gerudo, 2) we see adorable Gerudo children (all girls) in Breath of the Wild, and 3) there’s that weird BS patriarchal prophecy from Ocarina of Time that the first boy born to the Gerudo in a century will grow up to be their king--that boy ended up being Ganondorf.

The prevailing theory seems to be that the Gerudo have babies with men of other races, namely Hylians, and that they integrate any girl babies that they have into their tribe while leaving boy babies with the father. The primary evidence put forward for this is the fact that a Sheikah Stone in OOT says they go to Hyrule Castle Town to look for boyfriends, and the fact that if you go to Gerudo Town in BOTW, many of them have plans to depart from the city and meet a voe (”man” in Gerudo) to fall in love with.

But I’ve always had a big problem with this theory: if the only way that Gerudo women can have babies is through interbreeding with males of other races, how are they not getting shorter and lighter-skinned over time? How do they look different from the other races that they’re having babies with after thousands of years of interbreeding? One possible explanation is that for all of the physical characteristics that we know the Gerudo for (dark skin tone, tall, etc.), the Gerudo genes are dominant to any of the other races they have children with. But that seems like a long shot. How would all of the genes coding for their characteristic body type, hair type, face shape and skin tone be dominant when genetics itself is so random? I think there’s a more likely theory.

The Gerudo women are genetically isolated from other races in Zelda because they’re having babies with each other.

Hear me out. First off, the Gerudo are not the only race in Zelda that’s all one presumed sex. We have no problem accepting that all Gorons are born male, or that they at least look male to the races like Hylians who have a sex binary. Maybe that’s because there aren’t any other races that Gorons could plausibly interbreed with, but still. They’re a race that only produces “males”. So what if the Gerudo are the same way? There are no Gerudo men because all the Gerudo are born looking female to races with a sex binary. That’s just what their species looks like. We further infer, because there’s an false but automatic assumption that sex and gender are synchronized for everyone, that all Gorons are men and all Gerudo are women.

Some Gerudo want to fall in love with men from other races, but that’s not unheard of for non-Gerudo either. Before the Great Calamity, Link and Mipha were basically a couple. And they’re not even the only instance of Hylian-Zora romance in that game! All we know is that Gerudo women sometimes get romantically involved with men from other races, full stop. We don’t know anything about their genitals, so why would we assume? Some Gerudo women have penises or don’t bear children, get over it. Maybe they can reproduce with each other and other races, or maybe their genitals and reproduction don’t look anything like what you would see on a Hylian. It doesn’t matter, because that’s not what determines how they look. It’s just us attempting to apply a cisheteronormative framework to a species that doesn’t fit those constraints.

Gerudo women call themselves women because that’s the closest approximation in common tongue to what they look like, at least in terms of what races with a gender binary can understand. Gorons do this too when calling themselves “men” and referring to their close friends as “brothers”, and they’re a notable exception to the “no men” rule in BOTW Gerudo Town. The Gerudo recognize that, like them, the Gorons are a race where everyone has a similar body type and no gender binary.

Some Gerudo have relationships with men from other races, but it seems impossible that some Gerudo wouldn’t also have relationships with one another or with women from other races. We don’t hear about these “same-sex” relationships either because we’re shown the game’s narrative through a biased lens, or because the Gerudo know that folks from other races can get homophobic and they don’t want to deal with any of that shit. You can’t tell me that Gorons, a race made entirely of rock, really have any need for clothes. They wear the bare minimum needed to not offend the other races. Us only seeing Gorons with clothes across all of the games they’re in doesn’t necessarily mean that they have anything under those clothes, so why should we assume that Gerudo only have “heterosexual” relationships because Link only sees them romancing men across the different games?

This opens the door to a lot of exciting genderqueer analysis of Gerudo culture. Are they agender? Do they have gender variation, but it’s based on things like personality types or aesthetic preferences? After all, if they all look similar to one another they would have an understanding of gender that’s different from ours and unbound from what their bodies look like. Finally, what does it mean for Gerudo to have a “male child”, like they did with Ganondorf? Was he a particularly rare genetic phenotype? Are there trans Gerudo, who identify with the concept binary races have of ‘men’ and identify as men themselves? Do the concepts of ‘Vai’ and ‘Voe’ just exist to appease the other races and define the Gerudo relative to those races, or do they mean something different in the Gerudo native tongue than what we think they mean?

There’s a lot to unpack here, but this solves the issue of why the Gerudo are still genetically isolated after so many thousands of years in a way that the prevailing theory doesn’t. The only reason more people aren’t thinking about it this way is because it doesn’t fit into a gender binary framework, and Gerudo look enough like Hylians that we want to use the gender binary to define them. Plus, Nintendo isn’t going to risk the controversy of implying that the Gerudo have babies with one another or don’t experience gender the way we do.

Some clarifications so you know where I stand on things, because sex and gender analysis is often a touchy subject:

1) Sex isn’t a binary for any species, neither is gender. Anytime that I referenced a ‘sex binary’ or ‘gender binary’, I was saying that some races act in a way throughout the series that suggests they believe there’s a binary for sex, gender, or both. In reality, I’m sure there are plenty of nonbinary Hylians, intersex Sheikah, trans Zora, and a whole slew of other gender identities and biological realities that don’t fit within a binary construct.

2) The goal of this theory wasn’t to “make The Legend of Zelda about genitals”. If that’s what you got out of this, then you’re missing the point. I’m just taking one theory about how the Gerudo have babies and suggesting a likelier alternative. If you’re unhappy with that, you’re probably also unhappy with the fact that BOTW show us what Gerudo children look like or that we see a pregnant Hylian woman in Twilight Princess.

Do you agree? Disagree? I’d love to hear your thoughts, especially if you have anything to add about how this might fit within queer theory. Thanks!

[xxladylovexx]

By anotherwomaninhell

April 2, 2020

Male parasitism of women

Currently the world is in turmoil from an illness ravaging the worldwide population due to male enforced overpopulation from thousands of years of slavery and rape, while sadistic and inept men hold all the necessary tools to be able to protect ourselves and prevent our societies from descending into chaos. It seems like the perfect time to talk about how we’ve came to here through many generations of violent restrictions on women’s natural abilities to use tools and shape the world around them.

I want to first emphasize that the main point of what I am trying to convey right now is that the ritualized mutilations groups of men do to girls = handicapped women unable to use tools and so made to live in a less developed state while men use female energy for their own advancement. The dynamic between the sexes is at root a parasitic one where they do great harm to us in order to access our energy so they can reproduce themselves, have someone to raise their offspring, and feed off our physical labor and every idea and invention we create. The way they do this is by leaving us in a crippled and depleted state unable to perform higher tasks with the necessary tools and physical abilities. This leaves us dependent and them able to proclaim how great they are and how much we need them.

Men like to torture us for sadistic purposes and get off from our suffering, seeing us in pain is often their goal in and of itself. Many women have written in depth about this. But in the big picture all that is just an added bonus for them for handicapping us to prevent our physical technological advancement of tool use. Left with only rudimentary tools and a broken body that struggles to properly utilize them, we are made to work much harder than necessary. This drains all our time and energy on pointless endeavors while they are free to spend their time how they want.

I no longer have any hope that men as a whole are fixable or teachable at all, I believe this is pretty much the best we can do with them. Some are able to do good things, of course there are decent men here and there, though the question remains will they drop their good nature as an act if the situation allows for it? Overall it doesn’t matter at all whether individual men can be good as the power for change lies only in the group, so what is relevant to our understanding is how they function as whole since that is how all this has come about. The ones who do dissent and side with the women are generally given the same treatment as women, the stakes are high for them to side with us fully and the rewards are given freely if they just don’t rock the boat.

When we look at the whole it’s very clear they have specific ways in which they act towards us which are constant through time and place with only relatively minor variations. Clearly it’s just their normal biological state to rape, mutilate, and murder us. If it wasn’t why would we see these behaviors everywhere? Why would we see male animals act in the same ways? No one socialized the male animals to act in violent rapey ways towards the females of their species and in human males socialization only taps into what is already there. They often behave as wild animals hunting us down and when they get into a pack they are especially dangerous.

Mutilation, tool restrictions, and the division of labor

In Hands, Tools, Weapons, Paola Tabet analyzes the origins of male domination and division of labor which is typically dismissed by male anthropologists as just the “natural” state of humanity where women take care of child care and small tasks around the home while men assert control over everything else. Through examining different cultures tool use she is able to present an explanation for why this division persists in the vast majority of cultures and it is because men do everything possible to limit the tools that women have access to and are able to use with their bodies.

It is common practice for men to mutilate little girls when they are young, to create pain and disability that has no natural origin, it’s only because men choose to do this. This takes an endless variety of forms. The most commonly talked about today is female genital mutilation and this itself has many different forms ranging in severity from something similar to male circumcision all the way to the most extreme version where the clitoris and inner labia are cut out and the painful wound left is sewn up into a tiny hole to leave the women in constant suffering.

The example Tabet uses in her writing is of men cutting off little girls fingers so they are left with only a few on each hand, leaving them only able to do basic tedious tasks with simple tools. Almost all of the girls are subjected to this so the few women left with functional hands are not a threat on their own. The men are able to use their unharmed hands to perform complex skilled tasks with advanced tools and maintain control over the women.

The mutilations take many other forms as well, from the “giraffe neck” women that have their necks elongated by a series of rings as they grow, to the women with large plates put through their lips. One of the most severe forms of inflicted disability was the practice of Chinese foot binding that left the women there teetering around on feet wrapped into a tiny grotesque monstrosity that barely resembled a foot. It was common for their toes to fall off from the lack of blood flow and they were left with putrid festering stumps, which men found extremely sexy.

Aside from directly removing or damaging body parts, there are many ways we are left crippled due to their actions. Clothing and other fashions are commonly used to restrain us, and some, such as high heels, can disfigure from their continued use. But the most widespread way they make us disabled today is through severe poisoning along with medical torture that has kept a vast number of women struggling to get through life through immense sickness and pain.

Societal norms are used in many ways to further prevent functioning of the body and access to tool use. Religious prohibitions against women using specific tools are a common strategy to keep the advanced tools only in men’s hands. The ability of religion to proclaim divine reasoning makes it a powerful tool to wield because it can’t be defeated by logic or empathy if God said so. Even the simple tools that women use are often made by men who claim control over the materials necessary to make the tools to keep them completely dependent. Restrictions on married women performing specific duties and pressures to marry to survive further create compliance from women with no other choice.

The answer in what we need to do to make things better, I believe is very simple given what we know. First we need to limit our interactions with men greatly and be very cautious of which ones we do interact with. What we need in our lives is not to work so hard to be part of their evil system but rather to obtain land and design tools made for us to use to shape this world how we see fit. However as simple as these these things are, obviously implementing them is extremely difficult given that we already live in this evil system they’ve set up for us.

Part two- further analysis of specific mutilations of the female body with sources

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Gender and the CDI: How Committed Are Countries to Gender Equality in Their International Policies “Beyond Aid”?

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Gender and the CDI: How Committed Are Countries to Gender Equality in Their International Policies “Beyond Aid”?

table border-collapse: collapse; width: 100%; margin-bottom: 20px; th background-color: #00677F; color: #FFFFFF; padding: 15px 10px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; font-weight: bold; tr:nth-child(even) background-color: #ede7de; td text-align: center; padding: 10px; td:first-child, th:first-child text-align: left; ​ Earlier this year, we launched the Commitment to Development Index (CDI), after commissioning a holistic two-year review to reassess which policies from the world’s major economies matter most for global development. One major area of feedback in the review discussions was that we should assess policies that support gender equality in development. As the CDI approach is to look mainly beyond aid, we did not focus on how much ODA is allocated to gender-related projects, but instead on other policy areas. Our colleagues, Charles Kenny and Megan O’Donnell, have previously looked at how migration channels, trade policies, and defence efforts can more effectively promote gender equality, not just at home but also abroad. Guided by this evidence and the available data, we focused on four gender-disaggregated indicators, which fit within the Security, Migration, and Technology components of the CDI (described in more detail below).

In this this blog we refer to women (gender, the social construct) rather than females (sex, which is biological), though for the indicators we refer to the data as described by the source. Even so, in both the OECD and UN data we draw on, gender and sex are used interchangeably.

An overview of results

Overall, we find that Australia and Norway rank highest on the gender indicators we assess, while Turkey and India lag furthest behind—a result generally consistent with their ranks in the overall CDI. However, if we zoom in, we can see that there are some large variations between a country’s overall commitment to development, and its performance against these gender indicators. Notably, Germany, which comes in the top five countries on the overall CDI for its strong commitment to trade, investment, and migration, also comes in the bottom 10 countries when we assess performance only based on gender indicators. Meanwhile, Argentina, which comes 33rd out of the 40 CDI countries outperforms on gender indicators thanks in part to the large proportion of foreign women students it accepts. Fig.1. Top 5 Countries’ Performance on Gender Indicators in the CDI

Country Rank* on Gender Women and Girl Migrants (%) Women Students (%) Female peace-keepers (%) Resolution 1325 (%) Rank on CDI (of 40) (%) Australia 1 53 48 18% Ratified 8 Norway 2 49 54 17 Ratified 3 Argentina 3 47 60 10 Ratified 33 Belgium 4 48 58 9 Ratified 11 United States 5 54 44 13 Ratified 18

Note: *The ranking is based on the mean of the four indicators after their values are standardised. This differs from the average of the percentages - the effect is that countries receive more credit where an indicator value is further above the mean

Gender indicators: What they are and why they matter

Based on the advice from our CDI review, including discussions with policy-makers and specific input from a London School for Economics and Political Science consultancy team, we included four indicators on gender in the CDI: These are:

the share of women in overall migrant inflows;

the share of women in foreign students;

the share of peacekeepers sent to UN peacekeeping missions that are female;

whether or not a country has signed UN Resolution 1325 on Women, Peace and Security.

Migration

As the International Organisation for Migration notes, gender plays a critical part in shaping both the reason why someone may migrate, as well as their experiences of migration. Through migrating, women widen their access to gain better skills and employment. But migration is not only an economic opportunity — social remittance effects are an important part of the story when talking about migration as a driver of development. These effects have been observed to be stronger when it is women who migrate. In this way, returning women migrants contribute to changing social norms in their origin countries, for example through pushing for better political accountability and transparency or for more gender equality. While the average share of women migrants in the 40 countries we look at is 46.7 percent, there remains large variation between the CDI countries—and even a gap of 3.3 percent from “equality” at 50 percent is significant, given the absolute volumes of migration flows every year. This means that hundreds of thousands of women every year are not granted the same opportunity as men. While 54 percent of the migrants the United States accepts are women and girls, the figure is under 40 percent of migrants to Germany, Poland, and the Slovak Republic. Of course, this is only one part of the story: it takes no account of the quality of work women migrants are able to access, for example, or their overall integration, safety, and security within host countries.

Foreign students

Likewise, by accepting women foreign students, countries can widen educational opportunities for women in low- and middle-income countries. This fits with the idea of “brain circulation,” whereby skilled professionals generate benefits to their home countries through, for example, establishing transnational knowledge networks. Of the countries we assess, women students can constitute as much as 60 percent of the foreign student body in Argentina, or as little as 34 percent in Turkey and India.

Women as peacekeepers

When it comes to security, having more women as peacekeepers is linked with reductions in sexual misconduct by peacekeepers and more sustainable peace. Recognising this, the UN Security Council has set targets to achieve at least 20 percent female police deployments by 2020—but progress has been so slow that these unchanged targets have now been pushed back to 2028. On average, across the 40 countries we measure, only 7.7 percent of peacekeeping troops sent on UN peacekeeping and humanitarian missions are female. Australia and New Zealand, which come out on top of this indicator, send the highest share of women peacekeepers at still just 18 percent.

Support of international commitments

Finally, the landmark UN Resolution 1325 signals countries’ commitment to strengthening women’s roles in humanitarian response and in post-conflict reconstruction—and we reward countries who have signed on. Twelve of the 40 countries we assess have not signed the resolution, including China, India, Russia, Greece, and Mexico. These four indicators provide only a partial picture, and we’d welcome further suggestions as data improves—but we feel it gives a robust evidence-based starting point to reflect countries’ prioritization of gender equality ‘beyond aid.’ But with 52 indicators in the CDI in total, collectively these four matter to a countries’ performance.

Is a “feminist foreign policy” enough?

Although countries’ development-related policies may appear “gender neutral” on the surface, they may nonetheless present barriers for women’s participation. In fact, when the effects of policies are not disaggregated based on gender, a resulting “gender data gap” can undermine efforts: what does not get measured does not get managed. Where the data does exist, and we are able to include in the CDI, the variation we see in outcomes on women students, migrants, or peacekeepers across countries suggests that their policies play a clear role in either driving inequalities or widening opportunities for women. It highlights how even countries that have announced “feminist foreign policies”—like Sweden, Canada, Luxembourg, France and most recently, Mexico —still have a long way to go. These commitments are admirable, but our results suggest other areas of domestic policy can still accelerate progress. As with any assessment in the CDI, the goal is to inform debates on what constitutes good development policy and to encourage improvements. We welcome suggestions for how to better measure countries’ commitment to gender in development policy beyond aid in future editions of the CDI.

See full gender rankings here

Country performance on CDI 2020 and gender indicators

Country Rank* on Gender Women and Girl Migrants (%) Women Students (%) Female Peace-Keepers (%) Resolution 1325 Rank on CDI Australia 1 53 48 18 Ratified 8 Norway 2 49 54 17 Ratified 3 Argentina 3 47 60 10 Ratified 33 Belgium 4 48 58 9 Ratified 11 United States 5 54 44 13 Ratified 18 Canada 6 51 46 15 Ratified 14 New Zealand 7 48 47 18 Ratified 15 Spain 8 52 52 6 Ratified 20 Netherlands 9 50 54 6 Ratified 20 Ireland 10 50 54 6 Ratified 19 France 11 49 52 7 Ratified 2 Sweden 12 46 48 14 Ratified 1 Czechia 13 41 54 7 Ratified 10 Denmark 14 48 51 7 Ratified 10 South Korea 15 47 57 4 Ratified 26 Portugal 16 48 51 6 Ratified 16 United Kingdom 17 46 54 7 Ratified 4 Austria 18 46 53 4 Ratified 9 Chile 19 45 54 5 Ratified 23 Switzerland 20 47 50 4 Ratified 13 Mexico 21 48 50 15 Not Ratified 32 Italy 22 42 57 4 Ratified 17 Israel 23 52 56 0 Not Ratified 38 Greece 24 47 52 11 Not Ratified 28 Luxembourg 25 46 50 0 Ratified 6 Russia 26 47 50 11 Not Ratified 36 South Africa 27 47 44 17 Not Ratified 25 Indonesia 28 47 44 3 Ratified 34 Finland 29 44 45 7 Ratified 12 Japan 30 47 45 2 Ratified 21 Brazil 31 47 44 2 Ratified 30 Poland 32 38 51 8 Ratified 31 Hungary 33 41 50 16 Not Ratified 24 Slovak Republic 34 39 58 8 Not Ratified 27 Germany 35 39 48 4 Ratified 5 UAE 36 47 50 0 Not Ratified 40 China 37 47 45 3 Not Ratified 35 Saudi Arabia 38 47 45 0 Not Ratified 39 Turkey 39 48 34 3 Not Ratified 39 India 40 47 43 1 Not Ratified 37

* The ranking is calculated by the mean of the four indicators after their values are standardised. This differs from the straight average of the percentages - the effect is that countries receive more credit where an indicator value is further above the mean

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After reading some of my recent posts about the New God Argument, a Transhumanist friend wrote to me with some questions about the nature of God. He was raised as a Christian. And he's been wondering how God as described in the New God Argument relates to God as described in traditional Christianity, and particularly to Jesus Christ. That's a question I receive often. So I thought it would be helpful to share some brief thoughts about that here. First, let's contextualize why this is something that my friend and other Transhumanists may be concerned about. Given some assumptions consistent with contemporary science and technological trends, the New God Argument demonstrates that trust in the superhuman potential of humanity is logically consistent only if we also trust that superhumanity probably would be more compassionate than we are now and probably created our world. Such superhumanity may qualify as God. And such trust may qualify as faith. The New God Argument is particularly poignant (and therefore controversial) for Transhumanists because most of us strongly trust in the superhuman potential of humanity. But many reject faith in God. And the New God Argument stands as a strong criticism of that position. It demonstrates that atheist Transhumanism may be logically incoherent, depending on how broadly that atheism is construed. Atheist Transhumanists may maintain logical coherence by rejecting the existence or relevance of supernatural Gods. They may also maintain logical coherence by rejecting the existence or relevance of natural Gods whose origins are alien to that of humanity. However, if they reject natural Gods with origins similar to that of humanity then, as the New God Argument demonstrates, their trust in human potential is inconsistent with their account of probable human origins. When Transhumanists start to internalize this argument, they begin to wonder, like my friend, whether and how this relates to the accounts of God from traditional religions. He asked, "Is the historical Jesus Christ from the future?" Maybe. But not necessarily. Personally, I don't think so. I revere the historical Jesus as Christ. I also think the historical Jesus came from the same place that the rest of us came from: biological parents who descended from biological parents, who evolved from prehuman ancestors (who existed to some extent as information or "spirit" before that). What about the virgin birth? As I understand the scriptures, "virgin" describes a young woman -- not someone who has never had sex. My friend continued, "Is Jesus from a future Superhumanity coming back to give us instructions & teaching in our timeline?" Again, although I don't think so, it may be that the future can affect the past either through time travel or through more subtle mechanisms. I can't disprove such possibilities. But that's not the point of the New God Argument. The New God Argument doesn't say anything about time travel or inverted causation. The New God Argument does say something about the probabilities of our origins based on our hopes for the future. It observes that if we become superhumanity and procreate worlds that emulate our evolutionary history, then we almost certainly would not be the first or only to do so. So the New God Argument is describing a procedural recursion but not necessarily a temporal recursion. It is describing a process that may happen over and over again in similar ways with some variation (a cosmic evolution with intelligence as the mechanism of inheritance). But it's not necessarily describing a time loop or any other non-linear timeline. And yet my friend wondered, "Where does Jesus fit into all this?" I revere Jesus Christ, as described in the Bible, to be the principal example of the kind of person that we should become. Christ is not Jesus' last name. It is his role. And it is a role that, again according to the Bible, he not only exemplifies but also invites us all to participate in with him. The function of that role is compassion: to console, heal, and raise each other. The function of Christ is, ultimately, to save each other from our greatest enemies: death and hell. Accordingly, Jesus invites us to raise the dead and to reconcile (become one or atone) with each other. And that function figures prominently in the New God Argument. I call it the Compassion Argument. It is basically the idea that (a) humanity is likely to continue increasing in decentralized destructive capacity, that (b) nothing short of the limits of cooperation will be sufficient for surviving the limits of such power, and (c) the limits of cooperation are indistinguishable from sublime compassion. Jesus calls us, even commands us, to do and become that which we must to survive the glory of God -- to survive the power of superintelligence. Love your neighbor as yourself. And love God, that which you and your neighbor should become, with your whole mind and strength. Jesus' command is reflected in the heart of the New God Argument. Finally, my friend commented, "I was brought up to believe that Jesus Christ is God - the Trinity. So when you say God, I think of Jesus." And he asked, "Do Mormons believe in the Trinity?" Most Mormons will tell you that we don't believe in the Trinity. That's technically accurate insofar as formal theology is concerned. But there are some ways in which Mormon theology resonates with Trinitarian thought to some extent. There are many ways to describe God in Mormonism. Although we generally offer simple explanations like "God is our Heavenly Father." It's equally true that we consider other persons, notably Heavenly Mother, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost to be God. And, although the doctrine of theosis is not unique to Mormonism, we do emphasize it. Our scriptures attribute Godhood to some prophets, such as Abraham. And they teach that, as children of God, we all have potential to become God. That sounds like polytheism. But it wouldn't be technically accurate to call us polytheists for several reasons. And these reasons begin to illustrate some resonance with Trinitarian thought. The first reason that we're not polytheists is because we insist that, although the Gods are many, they are also one. We most commonly explain their unity as one of purpose. But our scriptures also suggest other ways in which the many Gods are one God. For example, both the Book of Mormon and the Doctrine and Covenants explain that the Father and the Son are One Eternal God because they are roles that one person may fill simultaneously. They use Jesus as the principal example of one person who fills both roles (with the caveat that he had to progress into filling both roles). And they teach that we, too, may eventually fill both roles. Another example is that our scriptures describe a power or influence that permeates time and space, referred to as the "light of Christ," which unites everything in God. It's a sort of panentheistic account of God (note that panentheism is not the same as pantheism, in that the former doesn't merely equate God with nature but rather esteems nature to be an expression of God). So God, in Mormon theology, is both one and many. And that may sound somewhat familiar to Trinitarians, even if there are significant differences too. In conclusion, I'll comment as I have before, that theology is not sufficiently appreciated among Transhumanists. It's really too bad. Highly intelligent humans have engaged in theology for thousands of years, doing their best to imagine and articulate the nature of what we, today, might call superintelligence. And just as alchemy and astrology contributed to the emergence of chemistry and astronomy, so theology has contributed and yet will contribute to the emergence of a science of superintelligence.

Originally published at lincoln.metacannon.net on September 29, 2019 at 11:21PM.

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Why is Gender a Social Construct?

First off, what is a social construct? Dictionary.com defines it as "a social mechanism, phenomenon, or category created and developed by society; a perception of an individual, group, or idea that is 'constructed' through cultural or social practice." Basically, it's something that is shaped by society, and wouldn't exist without a society that supports it. Anything that differs between cultures can make a good example of a social construct, such as language. There have been thousands of different languages, and the reason why we use one or another is because of what society we live in.

Many people think that gender can't be a social construct, because they believe that gender is completely and totally tied to sex. Sex in this instance meaning your chromosomal sex, expressed by genitals and secondary sex characteristics such as breasts, facial hair, and body type. We are told that boys have beards, flat chests, fat around their bellies, broad shoulders, narrow hips, and penises. We are told that girls have round faces, wide hips, narrow shoulders, full breasts, vaginas, uteruses, and ovaries. Most of the time, that fits, but what happens when it doesn't?

There simply aren't two sexes that conform to certain standards. About 1% of the world's population is born with a body that doesn't conform to the medical standards of "male" and "female". That's seventy million people. Seventy million people are on this world who don't have the typical "male" body or "female" body. So what sex are they? They're intersex. Okay, then what gender are they? Because society has such a persistent binary gender system, they're typically assigned either male or female, often with medical surgeries done to make their genitals look more "normal". These babies are assigned a gender and handed off to their parents, and are raised as if their assigned gender will perfectly match their body. They recieve the same sexual education as other kids, who aren't intersex, and then become scared and confused when their bodies don't develop like non-intersex kids. People assigned "female" will sometimes grow hair all over their bodies, even facial hair, or not get their periods, people assigned "male" will sometimes grow breasts, people assigned either gender tend to not develop the way they were told that they would. So now we have "girls" with beards and broad shoulders, and "boys" with uteruses, ovaries, and penises. "Females" as well as "males" can have XX, XY, XXX, XXY, or XO chromosomes, even though we're told a "female" is someone with XX chromosomes, and a "male" is someone with XY chromosomes, with no variation. Additionally, studies have found that several genes contribute to the creation of genitals and typical hormone levels associated with "male" bodies and "female" bodies, not just sex chromosomes. Does this sound like your perfect, gender = sex world? No? Well that's the world that you live in.

So now we've debunked that "male" means one thing and "female" means another, in the context of sex, let's talk about it in the context of society. We've all heard the words "I would  never let my son play with dolls." But why? Dolls are toys. It's been shown that babies assigned male and female like to play with dolls. So why have we decided, as a culture, that dolls are only for girls? That idea is directly tied to gender roles. We have specific ideals in our heads of what "boys" are like and what "girls" are like, even if we move past physical appearance. Girls are expected to be soft, weak, motherly, emotional, giggling, unintelligent housewives. Boys are expected to be macho and strong, refusing to do anything considered "feminine" because of the idea that girls are somehow weaker than boys. Some studies have attempted to prove these gender roles true, and some of them claim that they have. For example, women are said to be better at figuring out what facial expressions correlate to certain emotions. However, men who work in highly emotional careers, such as therapy, are proven to do just as well, showing that this difference isn't based off physiology, but experience. Men are taught that they are better than women by our society, and women are taught that they are lesser than men. There is absolutely no physical evidence to support this, yet it persists in our society anyways because that is the idea that we have constructed. The masculine stereotype is one of a man who has no emotions, and yet men feel the same emotions at the same time at the same intensity level as women, they are simply taught that if they express these emotions, they are "feminine" and therefore weak. The color pink used to be masculine, and yet we've reassigned it to feminine based on a societal whim. In several cultures, women are considered housekeepers, existing only to raise the children, keep the house clean, and the family fed. Men are expected to go out and do the "hard work" by keeping a job and bringing home money. And yet the amount of women as breadwinners is rising. Why? Because they're finally allowed to be. There has never been any reason for women to stay at home except because they were told to. Women have always had the exact same capabilities as men, and yet they were not allowed to explore these capabilities. Gender roles are based entirely on society, and there are several societies that do not use the same gender roles that we do. In fact, there are societies that do not even use the binary system that we do.

Some native american societies have a gender called "two-spirit". A two-spirit is a person who holds both a masculine spirit and feminine spirit, and these people had their own roles in the tribe that neither men nor women had, or a blend of both of the other gender roles. They were often held in high esteem. That gender was demolished as well as many other parts of native society as colonialism took hold and natives were forcefully assimilated into a European-style society. Gender roles were forced onto them just as the English language was. In ancient Egypt, there was a third gender known as sekhet, though we don't have much documentation on the roles of the sekhet, they were distinct from men and women. In Indonesia, they believe that there are five genders that must exist in order to keep balance in the world. There are hundreds of other cultures, it would take way too much time to explain them all, but genders that are not considered male or female have always existed, and always will. Sometimes these people are intersex, sometimes they are not.

Gender is an internal feeling, not an assignment based off the size of one's genitals. Somebody who is transgender prefers a label other than their assigned sex, for any reason. It could be that they don't like their body and would prefer the typical body of a different assigned sex. It could be that they're uncomfortable with the gender roles typically fulfilled by their assigned sex. It could be that they don't like the pronouns associated with their assigned sex. Or, it could simply be that even though they aren't necessarily made uncomfortable by their assigned sex, they simply prefer the pronouns, body, roles, or label of a different gender identity. This idea, that gender is internal and not something you can tell by looking at a person, is not new, and is not going anywhere. The labels we are using, such as "nonbinary" "genderqueer" "genderfluid" "genderflux" "demigirl" "proxvir" "gendervague" or any other label of the hundreds that are currently named, are mostly new, because language is constantly evolving, just as society is. Fact is, the idea of gender is just that, an idea. We have these labels for communication and for a sense of community, just as many women have women's clubs and use their gender as a sense of community. There is no biological basis for gender roles, and therefore there is no biological basis for gender. Our society won't be getting rid of gender anytime soon, but gender is definitely a social construct that will continue to grow and change as our culture does.

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These rates of healing can be enhanced if the Gallifreyan is kept near (or inside) a TARDIS. While in the healing trance, they will appear dead to most humanoids, but other Gallifreyans can tell they’re alive. Their body temperature will drop so far below zero that that frost sometimes forms on the body and the mind will essentially switch off. Despite this one heart will continue to beat about once every 10 seconds. While in the trance they can metabolize many types of poisons and drugs using Detox. Using the trance, a fall from over 200 feet can be survived without losing conciousness or seriously breaking any bones. This is accomplished by a combination of bone relaxation and cellular break down and regeneration (similar to what happens in larval pupa). Gallifreyans have even been know to survive lightning strikes. They can selectively regenerate specific organs while in the trance and (given several months) a Gallifreyan can grow a new heart (should one of their originals be removed). It might be possible for them to grow new limbs. If kept alive, a Gallifreyan’s severed body part can be used to detect whether that specific Gallifreyan is in the area. If the body is subjected to great stress such as a severed limb, extream illness, (or perhaps extreme boredom) the the Limbic (or Lindal) Gland releases the hormone Lindos to trigger Regeneration. As the hormone travels throughout the Gallifreyan’s body will begin to feel weak (especially if this is his first regeneration) As the body prepares to lose solidity the Gallifreyan there will always be a moment of hallucination. Ideally all regenerations should take place within a low-grade telepathic field (like the inside of a TARDIS). At this point the permanently carried self-replicated biogenic molecules heal the body of its wounds. Gallifreyans who are exposed to the vacuum of space for several minutes, have had both their hearts punctured, or suffer a direct hit by a Dalek Neutraliser can not regenerate. It is possible to regenerate from a glancing hit by a Dalek Neutraliser. Gallifreyans are educated in how to control their regenerations at their chapter’s academy. It is also possible for some (all?) Time Lords to will their own regeneration without stress or injury. Chemical and telepathic signals can be used to force regenerate someone who is badly wounded (but not somebody who is concious and refuses to regenerate). In most cases, once all the cells have been healed, the regeneration of the body will proceed. However, by enacting the proper meditative techniques a Gallifreyan can temporarily delay the completion of their regeneration for several hours and (if their will is great enough) several days. This assumes they don’t die first. If a Gallifrey the regeneration was triggered by an injury, and a suitble bio-matching receptacle (a spare hand that had been amputated for example) is availible, they can abort the Regeneration after the healing process is complete by siphoning off all the extra energy into the receptcal. This is a rare occurance as regeneration was never intened to be used to heal injuries (and bio-matching recepticles are rarely availble). After healing, the regeneration proceeds and the subject’s body (and to a lesser degree the mind) will be completely restructured. The extra third strand of Gallifreyan DNA was added by Rassilon to make Regeneration possible. This strand stores the regenerative information within the Gallifreyan’s Bio-plasmic Fields that surrounds their bodies. With out these feilds of cronon energy regeneration would be impossible and a Gallifreyan would age and die. These fields of chronon energy also protect a Time Lord as they travel from one time stream to another. These fields have to be very active to adapt to the trauma of Regeneration. So much so that if a member of a lesser speices is exposed to a Gallifreyan for several months the bio-fields will ‘infect’ them providing the same protection from the timestream, rejuvinating their cells, and replace their telemeres. As a result the primitive will age very slowly and live for centuries. If this alien was to leave Gallifrey they will start to age at the rate of a year for every day. During regeneration this information is conveyed from these fields to the biogenic molecules via a bio-language called Nucleolingua Symbiotica. When a regeneration does occur the permanently carried self-replicated biogenic molecules rebuild the body in a violent biological eruption of Artron Energy. Normaly this energy comes from the Lindos hormone, though other sources of artron energy can be used as well. Using this energy every molecule in every cell is adjusted, displaced, rearranged causing a complete renewal and healing and consuming the rest of the Energy. Regeneration also restructures the biodata of the subject, thus it could affect the subjects past as well as its future. Because of this some Time Lords will catch glimpses of their entire past and future during the final tremors of their regeneration. Regeneration is an exihilerating experiance akin to driving a car very very fast. A blinded Gallifreyan will regain their sight after after a regeneration if the neural pathways controlling his sight are intact. Even damaged synapses are repaired and a Gallifreyan who regenerates after decapitation will grow a new head (that will probably have the same memories as the original). At the first regeneration the nanomachines are programmed to build into the new body a number of improvements and backup systems including a new heart. For this reason the first regeneration is usually the most painful. At the end of the regeneration the comatos Gallifreyan is awakened with by an automatically triggered electroencephallic shock. It takes about 10-60 minutes for the body to “gel” completely which allows Gallifreyans of New Blood Houses some time to try various forms. Occasionally two Gallifreyans will end up with bodies that look the same. This has been witnessed on at least 1 (or 2, or 3) occations. This could mean that the looms have only a limited number of bodies stored in their data spirals. The new body will often have a different personality that expresses a different aspect of their fundemental personality. A copy of the previous personality is stored in the memory space for eventual transfer into the Matrix. Each copy is kept “sleeping” in a “room with no doors.” The past incarnations often resent being locked away and wish they could have lived longer. Some Time Lords of the first rank can achieve Retro-Regeneration and temporarily summon the skills and personality of a former incarnation. A TARDIS’s Telepathic Circuits can help a Time Lord acheive this. While Regeneration often causes temporary memory gaps the new body does have the same memories. However, because of the new personality, he will tend to draw different conclusions from those remembered experiences. While many skills remain the same, it appears that many dexterity based skills need to be “relearned” (at a fairly quick rate) due to the differance in body design. A Gallifreyan’s handwriting remains more or less the same throughout all of their incarnations. Until recently Regeneration was still a relatively risky procedure. While regenerating a Gallifreyan’s body might incorporate any foreign biodata it comes in contact with allowing them to change species. Thus a Gallifreyan could regenerate and find himself to be half human. This problem was only corrected within the last several thousand years. Gallifreyans from Newblood Houses have amazing control over there regenerations. This allows them to try on several different genetic templates (and appearances) during a regeneration. This techniquie can be taught with some success to other Gallifreyans. Some are even capable of temporarily shifting their genetic makeup enough to fool some types of gene scanners without inducing a regeneration. It is possible for a Gallifreyan’s gender to change during regeneration if they regenerate by commiting sucide. This illegal procedure is known as a Sex Change Regeneration. It is also possible for them to regenerated in an animal like a dog. Within the first 15 hours of regeneration a Gallifreyan will still have enough risidual cellular energy to regrow a severed body part, such as a hand. The new body part might be designed to prevent what ever caused the loss of the original. Shortly after regeneration Gallifreyans will often experience bursts of superhuman strength and speed while the new body stabilizes. They can also experiance Ambient Complexity which causes erratic and volatile mood changes. Its worth knowning that extreame heat combined with adrenalin can temporaily stabize a newly regenerated mind. In most cases the Gallifreyan’s mind will synchroniz properly within 4 days returning their strenght, reflexes, and personality to normal (for their new incarnation). In some cases Post-Regenerative Trauma can cause severe personality instability. Some times in the absence of a Zero Room the subject never sychronizes properly. Both Metamorphic Symbiosis Regenerators and Zero Rooms can assist with regenerative trauma and ambient complexity. Anaesthetic can delay or destroy the regenerative process and cause amnesia. For all these reasons regenerations are usually planned months to years before the actual event. Gallifreyan technology (such as a TARDIS) or assistance is essential to ensure survival during a regeneration especially if the subject has suffered radiation damage. Without technological assistance (such as a TARDIS) a Gallifrey runs the risk of the rengeneration aborting halfway through leaving the subject looking like some sort of multi-limbed monster. It is very dangerous for Gallifreyans who haven’t passed First Maturation (ie teenagers) to regenerate. For this reason it is usually forbidden for Gallifreyans to regenerate until they are 500 years old. Some seedy Gallifreyan Cardinals hang themselves to get rid of extra regenerations. This is considered to be a dangerous hobby. For these reasons their’s a fair amount of “regeneration politics” among certain factions on Gallifrey. These focus on issues of class, gender, and species. A “Sex Change Regeneration” is forbidden and is considered to be a worse crime then stealing a TARDIS and interfering in other time zones. The standard punishment is for the Time Lord to be locked inside their TARDIS forever. Their only escape is to activate the de-materialization switch with will remove them from History turning them into a neverperson. Public discussions of regeneration among Gallifreyans appears to be similar to sex amongst humans (i.e. not good table manners). A single body can last over 1000 years but the subject’s body will atrophie until he’s only a few feet tall and he will require a wheelchair for mobility. Each body is refered to as an “incarnation” or a “life-span.” After 12 regenerations the biogenic molecules begin to decay naturally. Gallifreyans are limited to 13 bodies because their minds and bodies can only withstand the strain of twelve regenerations. Each body can last centuries and Gallifreyans only need to regenerated every thousand years or so. However the last few incarnations generally don’t last as long as the earlier bodies. If a Gallifreyan suffers a severe enough injury in his 13th body a regeneration will be triggered, but its inevitable failure will kill the subject. Triggering a 13th Regeneration might be the accepted way that Gallifreyan’s end their lives. It is possible to “recharge” a regeneration cycle, but this can only be done with the permission of the High Council and requires a massive amount of Artron Energy. It probably involves a Metamorphic Symbiosis Regenerator. Occasionally a Gallifreyan renews his regenerative cycle by “Jumping Looms” (being reborn into a new Family). A Sonic Micro-Field Manipulator appears to use the same principles of regeneration only the technology is external to the subject. It can use hypersonic sound waves to create a state of resonance which destablizes the subjects cell structure. A metegenic program can then hack into the subjects genese, manipulate the coding in the protein strands, and program them to regenerate. This technology can also be used to prevent regeneration hyper age a Gallifreyan. It can be built into a Laser Screwdriver to be used as a weapon. A Distillation Chamber can be used to collect up a Gallifreyan’s lifeforce (and thus steal their future regenerations) if it is applies as soon as the Gallifreyan begin to regenerate. ( Source )

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Chapter Twenty-Six : THE + IN LGBTQ+

So here we are. I did the L. I did the G. I did the B. I did the T. L G B T. Done. Oh for fuck’s sake, now what ? What do you mean there’s more letters ?

LGBTTQQIAAPC2 ????? YOU SURE ? I don’t think anyone is at this point.

Okay, let’s make a quick rundown of them all (it’s not like I have a life or something).

Q as in QUEER Nop, I’m keeping this one for the very end as I have a shitload to say. Let’s see.

Another Q ? Oh, okay, I see.

Q as in QUESTIONING  

We ain’t starting with an easy one. Questioning is the period of time a person can go through to sort out the ideas of gender, sexual identity and/or sexual orientation. It is a process of exploration for people not sure of themselves (which is a fair feeling) and uncomfortable with the idea of social queer labels. If you’re looking for a particular branch of people who could fall into that category, look no further than teenagers. At a time when your body is changing, your hormones are showing, and society still doesn’t put forward the idea that being Queer is acceptable, one might feel a great deal of confusion and uncertainty. Kids right now promote the right to sexual fluidity and I think that’s great. I just called them kids. I feel like a grandpa. The concept of sexual fluidity available to someone who doesn’t want to constraint him/her/themself in a subcategory is theoretically extremely healthy for the mind, helping seeing things clearer in the future.

I as in INTERSEX

Well, I’ve already talked a lot about Intersex people in previous articles, as it is so connected in its History to the lives of Transgender people (so read the articles from June 24th on Trans Identity and the June 9th on the differences between Sex, Sexuality and Gender Identity if you’re interested). I’ll do a sum up. Intersex people are individuals born with any of several variation in sex characteristics (chromosomes, sex hormones, genitals) and who do not fit the binary definitions of male or female bodies. Do not use the term “hermaphrodite” because if you do, you’re a hateful asshole. It’s a biological specificity that has long been ignored by the medical and social scene, giving them little to know coverage to actually build a proper gender identity up until recently. There’s a whole campaign right now to stop forced surgeries on Intersex infants as they are treated as wrong doings from nature that should be corrected. They shouldn’t. Binary notions of life has to be corrected. As the same for forced sterilization on transgender people, modifying the sex characteristics of an individual without his/her/them consent is a Human Rights violation. The existence of Intersex people is still not up to date in the world but progress has been made with gender classification on legal documents. Finally, being an Intersex individual does not make you automatically homosexual or bisexual. It’s a gender identity that has nothing to do with sexual orientation, giving to some arguments that they should not be included in our community. Fuck those people. But let’s not forget that as part of our community, we need to make an effort towards you in understanding your identity, include you in general conversations and fight for your individual rights that sometimes have little to no relations to ours. Let’s not repeat the errors of this heterosexual society, please.

A as in ASEXUAL

Good god, so much controversy over that one. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, low or absent interest or desire for sexual activity. To make shit clear to everyone, it is considered a sexual orientation, although the primal idea of it is that there’s no sexual orientation to begin with. Although as in every sexuality (or lack of), there are levels and degrees of what being asexual means to someone. The acceptance of Asexuality is relatively new to the scientific community and to the world, mostly since the internet was invented and people started sharing their personal struggles (as they were deemed struggles in the eyes of society). More than any other term, asexuality seems to have a big question mark in the minds of people. Well, as sexual beings mostly driven by our urges, it’s hard to comprehend a world where no of this is part of the day-to-day mental conversation. The Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) has a great thing to say about the words Asexual : “There is no litmus test to determine if someone is Asexual. Asexuality is like any other identity — at its core, it’s just a word that people use to help figure themselves out. if at any point someone finds the word Asexual useful to describe themselves, we encourage them to use it for as long at it makes sense to do so”. Words of preaching that can be applied to any identity in our supposedly inclusive rainbow. Anyway, it’s a complex question that can go to various scenarios. Someone Asexual might engage in romantic relationships, other might not. They could have sex in order to satisfy their partners, but they probably wouldn’t take any pleasure out of it. Maybe they masturbate, maybe they don’t. The point is — Their sex drive is not our businesses. We don’t need to know what you do in your down time. Labels that can be adopted by Asexual people can also include Aromantic, Biromantic, Heteromantic, Homoromantic, Panromantic — with the acknowledgment of “sexual” orientation but lack of lust towards someone else. See ? There’s also Gray-romantic, Demiromantic, Demisexual, Semisexual, Friend-Focused. Queer people, know that Asexual as their places among our ranks, as their can be subjected to as much vile discriminations if out as the rest of us. More importantly, there’s currently no major legislation focused on Asexuality and no media exposure of any kind.

Another A as in ALLY

Also sometimes known as “SA” for Straight Allies. Usually cisgender heterosexual people who supports equal rights, gender equality, social movements and are in opposition with homophobia, biphobia, transphobia. I don’t have a lot to say about Allies. They’re good. The more we have, the better. Just don’t confuse being open to being an Ally. Being a Ally means make actual changes into your environment towards Equality. It’s not just saying that you have tons of gay friends and “they’re so much fun, I love them!”. Uh uh. It can be activism. It can be protests and articles and petitions and working for LGBT groups. Sure. Do that if you’re into it. I’m not an activist myself. I ain’t gonna judge you if you don’t want to be socially active for us. But you can be an ally by first of all, listen. Not just to us but to all the shit that can come out of your damn mouth that are homophobic and you don’t even realize it. Be ready for being taken back to school, people. Because the struggle is sometimes real. So real that some Queer people don’t want to educate straight people. I’m willing to but only if I feel like the person can really get it. I quickly know if they are or not. Don’t use our reclaimed slurs. Don’t “Guuuurl Okrrrrul Death Drop” us for the sake of comedy. As a gay man, I’m not even sure I can do it myself since it’s been part of the drag world. Yes, cultural appropriation inside the Queer community is a thing. Look it up. Anyway, Ally in the acronym ? hmm, debatable, even for me. Maybe an honorary title on the side ?

C as in CURIOUS

Arf, nop. I don’t agree. Next.

T as in TRANSEXUAL

Already covered the Transexual identity in the June 14th article. Go read this one, sucker.

P as in POLYAMOROUS

The practice of/desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner. Not to be confused with cheating as a polyamorous is made aware by all partners involved. It’s been described as a “consensual, ethical and responsible non-monogamy” philosophy/sexual identity. Those identities are so exciting to talk about. A polyamorous individual believes in an open relationship and rejects the view that sexual and relational exclusivity are necessary for deep, committed, long-term loving relationships. It’s not just about being sexually attracted to other people while in a relationship and acting on it, there’s real values such as love, intimacy, honesty and integrity in the process. Also a healthy  position on non-possessiveness that I admire greatly. Many social factors enter into consideration when it comes to polyamorous identity. The disillusionment with monogamy, illustrated with cheating and divorce from previous generations. A need for independence and equality, sometimes driven in a woman with feminism beliefs. You don’t need a man and you can do your own choices. Be as free as a man has been for thousands of years. Most of all, there’s this belief than human beings are not monogamous to begin with and to impose it on people is madness. The interest thing about polyamorous identity is not really the details of the relationships but the fact that it is not an identity or sexuality per say, but a companion piece to some of them. You can be poly and Straight, Poly and Trans and a Lesbian. Off course, as most of the other categories, it is not widely accepted by society and until recently, rarely talked about. I have a feeling it’s about to change. One of my friends came out to me as polyamorous. I mean, she didn’t actually come out but the fact that she openly talked about it surprised me and then delighted me. Not to be confused with Bigamy, which with being married to multiple partners. Not very common on western countries but forms of judicial recognition of multiple non marital partners are here and there, most notably in parts of the States.

P as in PANSEXUAL

Already did that one at length on the June 20th article on Bisexuality. No need to repeat myself that much.

2 as in TWO-SPIRIT

That one you’ve never heard of. Right ? It is a modern, pan-Indian, umbrella term used by some indigenous North American tribes to describe Native People in their communities who fulfill a third-gender (or other gender — variant) ceremonial role in their cultures. The term was created in 1990 (birth year) in Winnipeg by Lesbian and Gay indigenous gathered for the occasion, as a way to differentiate First Nations people from non-Native Queer Community people. The concept of Two-Spirit has been around for a long, long time but it used to have another name : Berdache. It was thought to be replaced as it is considered outdated and offensive (from the arabic “Bardaj” that means “slave”, the french Berdache that means “passive” and Italian “Bardassa” that means either “young prostitute” or “brat” and primally focuses on transgender folks and not other areas of the now-named Two-Spirit). Two-Spirit is not considered to be the same as being a Gay Native American. Yes, Two-Spirit people can fall in love with people of their same gender, or genderfuck conventions of what it means to be a man or a woman, but it’s way more than that. The term is meant to carry on the traditions of Indigenous people, too broad to explain them all here as each tribe has their own little definitions of what a Two-Spirit individual is. For more comprehensive information, you can watch Lydia Nibley’s 2009 documentary feature called Two Sprits. It focused on the murder of 16 year-old Navajo Fred Martinez, described by his mother as “nadleeh” or “half woman, half man”. But careful, it doesn’t mean exactly what you think it means.

And finally Q as in QUEER

This one’s easy. It’s us all. It’s an umbrella term to represent anyone in the Queer community. We’re a lot of categorized minorities in need of regroupment and that’s the easiest way to do it. I actually love the word Queer. It’s just an empowering word due its directness and History. It appeared around the 16th Century to talk about things that are “strange”, “odd”, “peculiar”, “eccentric”. Perfect fit. It later implied a feeling of suspicion and unwellness. It took 300 years for the word to get use in a pejorative way towards sexual differences. It was that or “invert”. Both are extremely fun. For almost a century, being called “Queer” was probably the worst. Well, Faggot isn’t a good one either but you get my drift. In the late 80s, the word started to be reclaimed as a neutral or positive self-identity by LGBTQ+ people. An activist organization to fight anti-gay violence called Queer Nation was created in 1990 (birth year, AGAIN!). I believe it to be still active and alive in some capacity somewhere in America. It also seemed important at the time to find a word that wasn’t so narrow in scope (as “Gay” is) and as the AIDS Epidemic was baptized “The Gay Cancer”, we were truly in need of a rebranding intervention. But that rebranding didn’t came without its challenges. With a new name came a new attitude, one that rejected the principles of assimilation into heteronormative society. The idea of marriage, adoption, service were banned from what was known the Queer movement in the 90s (while the “Gay” movement was still very much alive and willing to find new rights to Queer people). I didn’t live through this and I only have my perception of the word. I know some of y’all reject that term as you deem it offensive and self-deprecating. Some of you don’t appreciate the political vibe it brought to the community and the divide in ideas that followed. I only know that we cannot keep adding letters to our acronym. Ain’t nobody got time to say all those letters. We need to compromise, people. Yes, it’s a bad word. Now, it’s OURS. Being gay is political. They MADE IT political by beating us, torturing us, arresting us, killing us. They wanted to insult us. We take it and we roll with it with Pride.

So, are we good now ? Have I covered them all ?

Nop, I forgot to talk about Gender-Fluid, Non-Binary people (or Gender Queer), Bigender, Trigender, Pangender. Androgyne. Gender Bender. Third Gender. Androsexual, Gynephilia, Transvestite…

Time for you to make your own damn research. I still have four more articles to right and just so you know, I won’t use the term “LGBTQ+” anymore. I’ll say Queer as nothing else as of now. Position cleared.