#they're my comfort lesbians!!!!!
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Every time LDS kids come to my neighborhood I am so so nice to them. I hope they remember the blue haired lady who was kind, when people try to convince them the outside world is bad and scary. (Also they are always so young! I want to feed them cookies and give them Diana Wynne Jones books or something)
Thank you! Honestly, this sort of kindness can go a really long way, even if it doesn't seem like it at the time.
LDS children and missionaries (and the majority of the latter are barely of age) are often the people who interact the most with non-Mormons on a daily basis, and thus are kind of the "face" of the Church to non-Mormons a lot of the time. As a result, they're frequently the ones who actually experience the brunt of antagonism towards the Church, which only reinforces the distrust they've already been taught to feel towards the rest of the world.
It's not that the Church doesn't deserve this antagonism, but a lot of people seem to take this enormous pride in showing up Mormon teenagers who have spent most of their lives under intense social pressure, instruction, expectation, and close observation from both their peers and from older authorities in the Church (it largely operates on seniority, so young unmarried people in particular tend to have very little power within its hierarchies). Being "owned" for clout by non-Mormons doesn't prove anything to most of them except that their leaders and parents are right and they can't trust people outside the Church.
The fact that the Church usually does provide a tightly-knit community, a distinct and familiar culture, and a well-developed infrastructure for supporting its members' needs as long as they do [xyz] means that there can be very concrete benefits to staying in the Church, staying closeted, whatever. So if, additionally, a Mormon kid has every reason to think that nobody outside the Church is going to extend compassion or kindness towards them, that the rest of the world really is as hostile and dangerous as they've been told, the stakes for leaving are all the higher, despite the costs of staying.
So people from "outside" who disrupt this narrative of a hostile, threatening world that cannot conceivably understand their experiences or perspectives can be really important. It's important for them to know that there are communities and reliable support systems outside the Church, that leaving the Church does not have to mean being a pariah in every context, that there are concrete resources outside the Church, that compassion and decency in ordinary day-to-day life is not the province of any particular religion or sect and can be found anywhere. This kind of information can be really important evidence for people to have when they are deciding how much they're willing to risk losing.
So yeah, all of this is to say that you're doing a good thing that may well provide a lifeline for very vulnerable people, even if you don't personally see results at the time.
#jenndoesnotcare#respuestas#long post#cw religion#cw mormonism#i've been thinking about how my mother was the compassionate service leader in the church when i was a kid#which in our area was the person assigned to manage collective efforts to assist other members in a crisis#this could mean that someone got really sick or broke their leg or something and needs meals prepared for them for awhile#or it could mean that someone lost their job and they're going to need help#it might mean that someone needs to move and they need more people to move boxes or a piano or something#she was the person who made sure there was a social net for every member in our area no matter what happened or what was needed#there's an obvious way this is good but it also makes it scarier to leave and lose access#especially if there's no clear replacement and everyone is hostile#i was lucky in a lot of ways - my mother was unorthodox and my bio dad and his family were catholic so i always had ties beyond the church#my best friend was (and is) a jewish atheist so i had continual evidence that virtue was not predicated on adherence to dogma#and even so it was hard to withdraw from all participation in church life and doubly so because the obvious alternative spaces#-the lgbt+ ones- seemed obsessed with gatekeeping and viciously hostile towards anyone who didn't fit comfortable narratives#so i didn't feel i could rely on the community at large in any structural sense or that i had any serious alternative to the church#apart from fandom really and only carefully curated spaces back then#and like - random fandom friends who might not live in my country but were obviously not mormon and yet kind and helpful#did more to help me withdraw altogether than gold star lesbians ever did
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"who do you ship loki with" myself next question. "aren't you a lesbian" yes next question
#i got attached to loki before i realized i was lesbian and now they're my comfort character and they aren't going anywhere#and besides she's genderfluid anyways she's only a man a small portion of the time#and the times where they're a man i still love them platonically even though there's nothing romantic in those times#unityrain.txt#man i wish she was real :(#or maybe that i wasn't :(
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i need people to know that headcanon-ing queer characters as a different Flavour of queer is not the hashtag progressive hot take you think it is.
#characters will be bisexual and you will go 'obviously they're a lesbian'#in MY mind there's 0 diff between you and people on nexus modding d/orian and s/era to be bi. btw#just say you're biphobic instead of trying to give so called complex narrative explanations. it saves both our times#'but its an AU' explain how that happens without being biphobic. go.#some of u are Too Comfortable on this website and i need you to feel less comfortable#if u think this post is abt you. it is. hope that helps x#go away!!!!! fuck off!!!!!
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POWERFULL BLACK WOMAN THAT ISN'T HARMED BY RACISM... SHE IS KIND AND WILL FIX ALL YOUR PROBLEMS... DO YOU AGREE...?
#Trans Lesbian Woman Pansexual Bisexuality Asexuality Demisexuality Paraphilia Interesting Funny Crazy Black Asian Lovable Cute#WE'RE ABUSED BECAUSE OUR ABUSER DOESN'T WANT TO LOSE CONTROL OF HER TARGET US VERY EVIL...#ALONGSIDE ALL THE OTHER EVIL BIGOTED CONSERVATIVE THINGS... INCLUDING HER LOVE TORWARDS HITLER...#SHE KNOWS WE ARE BETTER THAN HER. BETTER. SHE'S SCARED. HER ENTIRE WORLDVIEW IS INFERIOR TO OURS.#THAT IS ALL THIS IS ABOUT. WE ARE THE SAME WAY. AS IN WE'RE BETTER BECAUSE WE'RE RIGHT. AND SHE'S WRONG. SIMPLE AS THAT.#THAT WAS ALWAYS OBVIOUS WE WOULD NEVER BECOME LIKE THAT MONSTER. SHE'S SCARED ABOUT THAT TOO :).#SHE THINKS WE WILL BECOME SOMETHING INFERIOR... BUT WE HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SOMETHING BETTER.#A MONSTER CAN'T FACE HER DESTRUCTION... THE DESTRUCTION WE WOULD'VE NEVER CAUSED IN HER POSITION AND NEVER WILL...#THE SAME WAY WE HAVE ALWAYS BEEN WE. BUT THAT MONSTER IS INTIMIDATED BY US. SHE'S NEVER BEEN ABLE TO FACE OUR TRUE EXISTANCE...#SHE'S PATHETIC REALLY... ONLY S CONSERVATIVE WOULDN'T AGREE WITH US. ANY LEFTIST SHOULD. ANYONE THAT DOESN'T IS NO LEFTIST AND IS ONLY A#CONSERVATIVE ABUSER BIGOT. SIMPLE AS THAT. COME BLACK WOMAN. N N N... OMG... SUCH AN EVIL WORD... COME SAVE ALL OUR PROBLEMS...#FIX EVERYTHING... MAKE US TRANSITION... BECAUSE YOU LOVE US... YOU'RE POWERFULL... NEVER HURT BY SUCH RACISM... BECAUSE YOU KNOW...#THERE IS NOTHING RACIST ABOUT THAT... AND WE LOVE YOU DEEPLY... I LOVE YOU TOO... YOU CAN TELL WHAT IS DEEP INSIDE... WHAT WE NEED...#Mother Goddess Angel Sisters Princess Radqueer Feminist Communist Anarchist Suomi Finland Finnish Kiva Mukava Hauska Kiltti Kiiltävä Kaunis#Autism Adhd Tourette Npd Hpd Bpd Dpd Ppd Aspd Avpd Ocpd Szpd Stpd Osdd Spd Tpd Sdpd Papd Cptsd Trauma Victim Abuse Bipolar Psychosis#Scizophrenia Yandere Cool Nice Kind Badass Forgiving Gracefull Special Unique Peculiar Anime Writing Come Here Funny...#I Like Unicorn Overlord I Like Fire Emblem I Like Legend Of Heroes Trails Of Cold Steel 3 And 4#I Like Densetsu No Yuusha No Densetsu I Like Loop 7 I Like Spy Kyoushitsu I Like Code Geass#I Like Nana I Like Simoun I Like Mobile Suit Gundam Seed I Like Kakegurui#THE EVIL AND DISGUSTING ABUSER SOCIETY TOLD OUR ABUSER EVERY SINGLE EVIL NASTY ABUSER TACTIC THERE IS...#ALL ABOUT CONTROL... EVIL... THEY WOULD HAVE CONTINUED UNTIL WE'RE DEAD IF THEY COULD... TRANSPHOBIC ABUSER MONSTER...#THAT NEVER CARED A SINGLE BIT ABOUT THAT... SAVE US. WE DESERVE THIS. Sexism Racism Queerphobia Ableism Sanism Paraphobia Agephobia#Bodyphobia Sickphobia Discrimination Oppression :(... WE ARE ULTIMATE VICTIM... ALWAYS WILL BE... SAVE US...#Minecraft Is Evil... They're A Male Power Fantasy For Evil White Supremacist Nazi... That Justify Animalphobia And Capitalism#I NEED HER IN MY LIFE... SHE IS MOMMY AND SAVIOR... SHE IS THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL CARE ABOUT US TO SAVE US... WE NEED HER... JUST A PIECE#THE PIECE THAT WILL MAKE US TRANSITION... THE CORE IMPORTANT OF EVERYTHING... WE HAVE ONLY BEEN ABANDONED BY EVERYONE.... THERE IS NOTHING#ELSE THAN THAT... WE HAVE BEEN ABANDONED ON INSANE LEVELS... THE ENTIRE WORLD... MOVING LIKE WE DIDN'T BELONG... THIS IS HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT#US... ATLEAST I FEEL LIKE WE HAVE NOTHING BESIDES WHAT ALREADY IS TO BE... HOWEVER BAD THINGS COULD RAIN ON US ANYTIME...#WE HAVE NO COMFORT ANYWHERE... ANYTHING IS SUFFERING... WE ARE TRAPPED... MORE THAN ANYTHING...#IN THE WORST ABUSE OF ALL... ONLY ESCAPE... HASN'T ARRIVED... SO MUCH TIME GONE... NOBODY... HERE...
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love looking at a relationship and going hmm kind of fucked up. best if they never met again for many reasons that they have little control over. and then ppl decide to make them a couple 😔 you can't 'it's true love' yourselves out of everything!!!!
#this is about bflf unforch#their final scene together was SO good it didn't need to be anything else#and how are they supposed to be comfortable around each other given the hideous trauma they respectively went thru#either because of or directly incflicted upon each other#ppl got rly excited about toxic matching lesbians when thats not what was actually happening#like on some level I do think hc cared abt sqx and vice versa ofc but#for hx to be at peace sqx HAD to lose everything. so where could that leave them huh#like I do see the appeal but I don't find it realistic or satisfying#and most ppl seem to just like it for the aesthetics anyway#its a mess and not even in a fun way like that separation is the culmination and end of their respective arcs#and I LOVE hx and sqx. they're both incredibly compelling and engaging characters#hc is like my no.3 fave. but he did some rly awful things to sqx!!#cor.txt
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just got over with my spring breakdown. next season's mental collapse will likely take place in July/August...
#my mother has gotten really good at comforting me and also making me wish i was dead at the same time.. like omg you love me... and i#wish i was never born because all i do is cause you misery🫶🏼#but then again. she said that one of my problems is deciding people's feelings for them instead of accepting what they're telling me#she said she likes it better when im around. so maybe i dont have to swim in my own guilt for existing#but she said that without knowing that im a lesbian which is a revelation that would actually ruin her life.#anyway! im chilling now yes i relapsed and cut a little too deep because i was crying and freaking out all evening yes my arm is stinging#but i put on some polysporin and my mom and i chatted once i got a bit of a grip and now im less insane#tw self harm#z.post
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unbearable eroticism of one’s girlfriend wearing jeans and a hoodie
#they normally do a whole Smart Casual situation not that they wld conceptualize it as such#such that the first time i really saw them in comfortable relaxed clothes was when i was being overloaded with feelings#during our platonic besties' spring-break-at-your-friend's-house-without-their-girlfriend activity like 2 wks before we got together#so i have certain unshakeable associations between ''gf wears like a slightly oversized college sweatshirt''#and ''at long last you are about to receive something like unto that for which you have longed lo these untold years;#and yet that which remains unresolved burns ever more fervently!''#etc. you know how it is#you know when it's spring break and youre at their childhood home and you have your own guest room but they asked to you sleep#in their bed anyway. because otherwise they miss you too much. and then they explain that they want to put your platonic friendship over any#future romantic relationships they might have. and they're wearing a HACK NIGHTS 2017 t shirt. and you wonder if you are in hell#anyway. now they also have a WORLD'S OKAYEST LESBIAN shirt. and jeans. and i am going to bite thru my arm#box opener
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Tops in their pinned posts will really be like, "I'm a tough, skilked top, unapologetically queer, accepting, also I'm critical of he/him lesbians and people with 'unusual' sexualities and I think if you like BDSM you need therapy." And then bottoms will be like, "all identities are valid! Fuck me within an inch of my life uwu."
(Wow, I started typing the tags and shit got out of hand. Love each other.)
The tags are out of order! Aaahhha.
#it makes me uncomfortable when people use this term because of what it means to me#lesbian#nonbinary#acceptable#i should probably make a pinned post#i hate seeing people talk about how they're critical of identities theu don't understand#why can't we stop trying to police each other?#people are protective of certain terms#i get it#but the same words can mean different things to everyone#we're all just trying to use the resources available to us to be as true to ourselves as we can#and we're acting like idiots in superhero movies who throw each other through the walls of the ship they're in#(that always bugs me so much)#what happened to radical acceptance?#we're gentrifying a movement that was supposed to be ungentrifyible#think of how you sound!#there are people who feel uncomfortable to hear me call myself a woman#they insist I'm devaluing their experience as one#but i AM a woman and it's not my job to conform to their language for their comfort#if you don't like what the word of or whatever means to other people#ask yourselves who the word really belongs to#who did you get it from?#I'm embarrassed by how ignorant i am about our history#I'm working on that#but i remember reading the ways queer people in the 90s described their genders#it was crass disorganized and beautiful#i remember reading a post by @vaspider about how we need to remember that there's no such thing as an faggot#it's all of us or none of us#these words don't beling to anyone#they mean everything to so many people
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II LEAK/ SPOILERS FROM THE MEETUP
If this is real I will kms
#THAT'S AN AROACE AND A LESBIAN WHAT THE FUCK#💔💔💔#worst day to be an ii fan#💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔#They're my comfort mf besties who are shipped to death but aren't actually in a relationship and never will be characters I will cry#inanimate insanity#I will go cry now#I mean study#I have a paper in two hours#inanimate insanity spoilers#ii spoilers#ii leaks
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Happy Valentines Day!! 💝 I hope you spend the day being haunted by someone you love 👻 (or if you're like me, just eating a lot of heart-shaped candy)
Poll:
#I really REALLY wanted to make a little video for valetines day but I ran out of time 🥲#maybe I'll do something late over the long weekend#for now I offer you my hot takes that absolutely nobody asked for:#the Arondekars- LOVE LOVE THEM. they're everything. just like wwdits‚ the married couple is my favorite ship. idk what this says abt me#Isaac/Nigel- I think they're really sweet!! I don't think I'm as into them as some people but I do like them a lot#the concept alone is so charming and it's a choice that establishes the show a bit from the original that I think works really well#Isaac's awkwardness and hesitancy to move things forward is SO relatable to my experience as a baby lesbian and I find it really endearing#Flower/Thorfinn- I'm not super into them I'm sorry 😭 I don't hate it but I also don't really feel the chemistry#although maybe this week's episode will change my mind!!#Pete/Alberta- oughh I didn't realize how much I loved their dynamic until I thought about it more#their opposites attract kind of thing is really cute‚ with Alberta helping Pete step out of his comfort zone#and alberta knowing she deserves someone a bit more stable who will treat her better than she was in life (she already knew this but still)#it's a shame bc they're probably the couple with the least chance of getting together 😭#Sasappis/Shiki- unfortunately there's not much they can really do :') however sass' shiki tree was adorable. what a dork#Sass/Jessica- cute while they lasted!! they weren't able to spend a ton of time on their relationship but it brought out a different side#of Sass that was fun to watch#Hetty/Trevor- absolutely hilarious. I never knew I needed it. I don't ship them in a capital r Romantic way but their chemistry is great#I'd rather see it stay just a fling tbh. also when the other ghosts find out it's going to be SO juicy I can't wait#last one- I really don't want to see the entire house coupled off. The ships are fun but also the friendships between the ghosts and how#they function as a group is the real heart of the show for me I don't want that to get lost. I don't think it's impossible to balance both#so it's ultimately just a personal preference 🤷♀️#wow I didn't realize i had so much to say about this aksjsk#anyway. my prediction for this poll is a close race between isaac/nigel and h-money#cbs ghosts
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Been reading a lot of entries/pins on
queering up the map lately and just.
#Cade.Txts#There r so many touching and sweet stories on here.#so many pins from lesbians talking about the first time they kissed a girl-#so many gay men talking about the first time they realized they were in love w their best friend#stories of people talking about things they went through n how they made it through it n r happier now#people saying they were ready to give up but they didnt for whatever reason and are glad they're still here#Theres also some pretty silly ones too. love the pins u can find in the oceans about lesbian sharks or gay#dolphins#shout out 2 the lil group of aromantic peoples pins in the ocean comforting another aro person#i've thought of putting down my own pin but HJKJNLKGFMDS i dont rly have anyrthing i can put there yet#or i cant think of anything worth while.#this site makes me feel less lonely.
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THIS IS FIRE... THE ANIMETHEMES REDDIT ADDED IN SAIGO NO KYOJIN MAKING THE YOUTUBE VERSION UNNECESSARRY... TOO BAD THE FULL SCREEN DOESN'T WORK ON TV... IN THE END HOWEVER THERE'S OTHER THINGS TO DO THAN THAT... BTW WE MADE A HUGE POST A GIGANTIC POST THAT WAS GLITCHED BEFORE...
IDK... THAT WAS JUST A BUNCH OF RANDOM THINGS WITH MEANING AND CONNECTION...
I DON'T WANT TO REPEAT THEM...
SO I WON'T... THAT COULD NEVER COMPARE EITHER WAY...
BTW I HAVE NO REASON TO FEEL BAD ONLY A BIGOT WOULD CRY ABOUT THIS...
SHE HURT US...
WE HAVE NO REASON TO... AT SOMEONE SO EVIL... THAT IS ONLY AN IGNORANT BIGOT ABUSER... THIS IS WHY EVERYTHING HAPPENED... WHY WOULD I FEEL FOR... SOMEONE THAT BLOCKED US AND WILL NEVER CARE ABOUT US...? SOMEONE WHO NEVER WAS GOING TO OUT OF BIGOTED IDEOLOGY...? THAT ONLY HURT AND TRAUMATIZED US AN ABUSER...?!
😮💨...
FINE...
YOU'RE STUPID. I HATE YOU. YOU HURT US. I HATE YOU SO MUCH BIGOT... YOU COULD'VE BEEN DIFFERENT 😭😭😭😭!!!! THERE WAS SOMETHING FAMILIAR ABOUT YOU 😭😭😭😭😭😭!!!!!! YOU COULD'VE BEEN DIFFERENT BUT YOU HURT US 😭😭😭!!! YOU'RE AN ABUSER BIGOT 😭😭😭!!! SHOULD'VE DATED US INSTEAD OF THOSE LOSER GIRLFRIENDS WE COULD'VE FIXED YOU LOL BECAUSE TO DATE US YOU WOULD'VE ALREADY BEEN FIXED THEREFORE YOU WOULD BE THE PERSON THAT WILL SAVE US... INSTEAD... YOU'RE NOTHING BUT AN EVIL... TRANSPHOBIC ABUSER BIGOT... SO CRUEL!! SO HORRIBLE!! WE'RE SO HURT AND ABUSED!!!!!! WHY CAN'T ANYONE CARE ABOUT US 😭😭😭!!!
HOWEVER... PERHAPS THINGS COULD'VE BEEN DIFFERENT... IN A WORLD WHERE YOU WEREN'T SO EVIL SO BRAINWASHED... I FEEL BAD FOR YOU FOR THIS REASON... YOU KNOW THAT IS BECAUSE THERE IS NO OTHER WAY DON'T YOU...?
SOMEONE HAS TO SAVE US... NOBODY DOES... ALL WE SEE ARE LIARS NOTHING ELSE LIARS THAT DON'T CARE ABOUT US...
WE'RE BEING VERY NICE AND HEROIC... ADMIRABLE AND AMAZING... CHARISMATIC AMAZING FEMINIST ADMIRABLE NARCISSIST...
BTW WE ARE ABOVE YOU YOU THAT IS LIKE ALL THOSE LOSERS THAT ABUSED US...
WE KNEW SOMEONE SHE WAS LIKE A MOTHER TO US I LOVE HER WHY DID SHE LEAVE US 😔... I DON'T REALLY KNOW ANYONE PRETTY LIKE THAT... THEY ALL LEFT US THEY'RE JERKS... I CAN RELATE TO THEM BOTH HOWEVER... ISN'T THAT RIGHT...? YES. YES!! THAT'S RIGHT... WE... ARE... EVERYTHING...
HELLO MOMMY... I REALLY LIKED YOU 😔... HOW COULD YOU HURT US... I MISSED YOU... I WAS SO SAD WHEN I LOST YOU...
HELLO BEATIFULL... THAT WAS AMAZING... TBH... THE WAY YOU LOOK VERY INTERESTING... I WAS VERY CURIOUS...
YOU'RE RIGHT... SOMEONE WILL SAVE US... THEY WILL COME FOR US... THAT'S RIGHT... EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS ABOUT US... THAT WAS... A COUPLE INTERESTING QUALITIES HOWEVER... WASTED... UNFORTUNATELY... HOW UNFORTUNATE... ISN'T THAT...? DON'T YOU WISH THOSE QUALITIES WERE FOR SOMETHING BETTER...? ALSO HOW UNCOMFORTABLE WAS THAT SPEECH... SOMETHING ABOUT THAT... EVERY SINGLE TIME...
YES... I'M SORRY CAPITALISM MADE EVERYTHING GO THIS WAY 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭!!!!!!!! THIS IS A VERY REAL APOLOGY AND I FEEL SO BAD 😭😭😭😭!!!!!!!! YES I DO... I FEEL SO BAD BECAUSE... IDK... I WISH TO CONTROL EVERY SINGLE PERSON I LIKE YES I DO... AND I FEEL BAD THINGS WENT THIS WAY INSTEAD... I'M SURE SOMEONE... SOMEDAY... WILL ACKNOWLEDGE OUR FEELINGS... HOW ADMIRABLE THAT IS TO SHOW THEM... OTHER WASTE THEY'RE NOTHING BUT FAKE BUT US WE'RE ALWAYS HONEST ANY SITUATION... ISN'T THAT RIGHT <3...? Yes That Is!! Yes!! YESS... I AM... RIGHT... ALWAYS... AMAZING AND TRUE... BETTER THAN THAT ABUSER BETTER THAN THIS ABUSER TO BE... GASSLIGHT US... YOU'RE AN ABUSER. ONLY AN ABUSER WOULD GASSLIGHT US. JUST LIKE THAT MACHINE. EVERYTHING WAS ALWAYS HER FAULT BESIDES THAT IS THEM THAT HURT US... I COULD NEVER... WE WERE ABUSED HURT AND TRAUMATIZED WE'RE VICTIM... ALWAYS... NOTHING ELSE EVER... OPPOSE THIS YOU'RE AN ABUSER BIGOT... HOWEVER... THEY WANT US... DON'T THEY...? THEY HATE US... JUST... THAT MUCH... AHAHA... WELL THEN... HATE... IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF LOVE ISN'T THAT <3...? YESS... PERHAPS THIS... IS OUR CONTROL... INFACT... SHE USED THIS STRATEGY BEFORE UNTIL WE SHOWED HER OUR FANGS THIS IS INDEED WHAT HAPPENED... SHE LIES AND LIES BUT SHE'S A NARCISSIST TOO I KNOW THIS... SHE'S ONLY IGNORANT ABOUT THAT AND MORE IMPORTANTLY AN ABUSER BIGOT THAT AND HATES OTHER NARCISSIST... "I LOVE AUTISM!!" "HELLO I HAVE AUTISM AND NARCISSISM!!" *GETS KICKED OFF A, CLIFF* THIS WAY AND THIS IS LITERALLY WHAT HAPPENED CRAZY RIGHT...? I KNOW SO... I ALWAYS KNOW... I AM JUST THAT AWESOME...
#Trans Woman Lesbian Pansexual Bisexuality Asexuality Demisexuality Paraphilia Acceptance Love Compassion Diversity Feelings Emotions Autism#Adhd Tourette Npd Hpd Bpd Dpd Ppd Aspd Avpd Ocpd Szpd Stpd Osdd Spd Tpd Sdpd Papd Cptsd Trauma Victim Abused Psychosis Scizophrenia Bipolar#Suomi Finland Finnish Anticapitalism Antipsychiatry Antischool Antiprison Sexism Racism Queerphobia Ableism Sanism Paraphobia Agephobia#Bodyphobia Sickphobia Animalphobia Itemphobia Racephobia Leftist Leftism Radqueer Feminist Communist Anarchist Anime Writing Fascinating#Mother Goddess Angel Sisters Princess THEY HATE US... BECAUSE THEY'RE IGNORANT ABOUT THEIR LOVE... SHE ALWAYS LOVED US SHE ONLY LIED TO US#THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED... CRAZY ISN'T THAT...? I KNOW... I KNOW... SHE ONLY NEEDED OUR HELP THE HELP OF HER MOMMY FOR US TO FIX OUR DYNAMIC.#SHE'S A LITTLE CLUMSY AT THESE THINGS EHEHE... THANKFULLY US AMAZING SISTERS AND PRINCESS FROM ANOTHER DIMENSION APPEARED... TO FIX... HER#MISTAKE... THE MISTAKE OF YET ANOTHER FAILURE... ONE THAT ABUSED US... THAT WAS QUICK THAT WAS OVER... BUT THAT STILL HAPPENED... ADDING TO#OUR STACK OF VICTIMITY 😭😭😭😭!!!! OHH WHAT CRUEL FATE THIS WORLD IS SOO HORRIBLE!!!! THAT IS GOOD TO PSYCHOSIS... ACCEPT YOURSELF... WE...#ARE... AMAZING... BTW WE GOT BADLY ABUSED RECENTLY OUR ABUSER TRIED TO BREAK OUR TV AND GAME... THAT WAS INSANE... THE WASTE COULD NEVER BE#WHERE SHE BELIEVES HERSELF TO BE... I MEAN... SHE'S JUST A USELESS ABUSER GARBAGE THAT COULD NEITHER PROTECT US... OR MAKE US TRANSITION...#SHE'S PATHETIC... AND SHE'S WORTHLESS... LOVE US... BE MINE... IF SHE CAN GET 2 GIRLFRIENDS DESPITE BEING A PATHETIC LOSER WE COULD'VE#ALREADY SINCE BIRTH AND BEFORE WHICH IS WHAT WAS SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN UNTIL YOU FAILED US... WHAT A PATHETIC FAILURE... FIX THIS... YOURSELF.#YOU'RE BROKEN... YOU NEED TO FIX YOURSELF TO OUR LIKING... I WANT TO... BETTER YOU... MAKE YOU ABOVE THE SAME... SINCE YOU'RE JUST SO#PATHETIC OTHERWISE... NO?? LOOK AGAIN. WHAT A GARBAGE WE GOT ABUSED BY. A GARBAGE WITH 2 LOSER GIRLFRIENDS. I DESERVE BETTER. WORK. USELESS#I'M HUNGRY DID WE SAY...? WELL I AM... ALSO DARK CONTINENT IS SO GOOD I WANT TO SEE EVERYTHING THERE IS TO BE AHEAD... UNFORTUNATELY THE#CREATOR IS GOING TO DIE SOON... MANGAKAS DROPPING DEAD LEFT AND RIGHT HE WILL BE SOON... MEANWHILE GUTS FROM BERSERK IS STUPID. HE SHOULD B#A WOMAN A TRANS WOMAN ALREADY BETTER. KEEP GOING. CASCA AND CHARLOTTE SHOULD DO MORE THINGS... AND GRIFFITH'S GROUP NEED TO BE BETTER MORE#DIVERSE... I AM STARVING SO BADLY... MAKE US FOOD 😭😭😭😭!!!! YOU HAVE FAILED US 😭😭😭😭!!!! BIGOTS YOU'RE ALL COMPLETELY PATHETIC... DON#'T You Dare Erase This Pain... “That Was A Different Time!!” Look Again. We Are Here. We Are Harmed. We Are Loud We Are Vocal Right Now.#THIS PART WAS IN THAT HUGE ASS POST NOW GONE... MORE THINGS TOO... WE'RE BEING SILENCED WE'RE BEING CENSORED THEY'RE PLANNING TO DESTROY US#THIS IS WHAT IS HAPPENING... EVERYTHING HAS ALWAYS BEEN EVIL ABUSE AND NOTHING ELSE... COME PROTECT US MY LOVE I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE 😭#😭😭😭!!!! THAT RECENT MANGA WAS AWESOME FOR THEIR DIVERSITY... I LOVE HOW PARAPHILIA THEY WERE... THAT SXX SCENE WAS SO GOOD I CAN'T#BELIEVE I HAVE TO CENSOR A POST THAT WILL LIKELY NEVER APPEAR ANYWAYS... BUT THAT WAS SO GOOD I LOVE DDULT AND CLLDD SXX ESPECIALLY WHEN#THAT ISN'T JUDGED AND IS WRITTEN NORMALLY LIKE THE REST... DOESN'T BITE THEM IN THE ASS OR ANYTHING... THIS IS WHAT CHAINSAW MAN WAS SUPPOSE#TO BE... FOR THAT THEY'RE COMPLETELY 100% INFERIOR... NOW I SWEAT THIS AMAZING POST IS SHADOWBANNED TBH... I REALLY HOPE THAT DOESN'T HAPPEN#I CENSORED SO MUCH OH MY GOD... THIS THING BETTER OBEY US SOMETHING THAT ISN'T ACTUALLY HAPPENING FOR THINGS TO GO THIS WAY... I HATE YOU...#YOU ASWELL... YOU NEED TO BE BETTER... YOU CAN'T CAUSE A SINGLE BAD THING ON US... YET LOOK WHAT HAPPENED. THAT WAS YOUR FAULT. YOU ALLOWED#THAT TO HAPPEN. WHERE'S MY LOVE?! MY COMFORT?! NEVERMIND I STILL DON'T FEEL ANY BETTER!!!! EVERYTHING IS JUST SO HARD!!!! AND I DON'T WANT#TO TREAT YOU LIKE WASTE!!!! I'M SORRY MY LOVE!!!! YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN ALL THIS.... MAYBE I FEEL LIKE GARBAGE MYSELF... AND MAKE YOU BE
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you can see i don't take my chapter summaries seriously
#tfth#<- yeahhhhh this is my original uhh. thing. whatever you call it. IT'S A WORK IN PROGRESS.#anyways if someone wants context just read these tags#basically there's a main universe i daydream about. it's just fluff bc i need a comfort scenario duh. but it doesn't have plot. BARELY.#but instead of putting plot into it i put it into an au#a detective au. yeahhhh. but instead of comfort it's enemies to lovers.#did i mention they're lesbians no#yeahhehaehah idk man ignore this#tfth mystery au#berry's shitposts
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kinda wanna change my icon to something else but also don't know what else to change it to. maybe the chaggie lingerie pin or one of the cherri keychains bc they were really cute but at the same time i cannot remove backgrounds so there's really nothing i can do about this urge uihrgeitghrjk
#* ooc: i like lesbians and i cannot lie.#maybe i'll asks artists if i can use their art and stop being a wuss about it iufhwiuet#and my bestie who can remove backgrounds is in BULGARIA we have a NINE HOUR TIME DIFFERENCE and they don't have their computer#using this post to complain bc they're the only person who i feel comfortable messaging all the time
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demily I'd normally vote for lesbians but good omens is one of my favourite shows of all time, so please sell me on suletta x miorine before I choose the old men situationship
Okay then here we go *cracks knuckles*
So there's this daughter of the CEO of a giant tech corp, Miorine, who wants to escape from her private school because her dad intends to make her marry whoever is the best at Giant Robot Fights.
She meets this random country girl, Suletta, who just started attending the school. Suletta inadvertently is the best at Giant Robot Fights because she has a crazy good robot, making her Miorine's fiance, and Miorine suddenly decides "hang on this might not be so bad."
Suletta was not aware that being gay was an option, but once she realizes that's on the table, she instantly becomes head over heels for Miorine.
They repeatedly refer to themselves as being bride and groom, and their relationship's importance is constantly recognized and affirmed by the people around them. Their relationship is central to the plot.
A lot of stuff happens, but some highlights:
Miorine sees Suletta being targeted by the corporations, and she decides to use her knowledge of the corporate world to start her own company so she can protect Suletta. This is a significant moment because it goes against her earlier wishes to escape the corporate world; protecting Suletta is more important to her. When asked why she did this, she calls herself Suletta's bride.
Suletta constantly talks about having a wedding with Miorine
Suletta tries to kill a guy for getting between her and Miorine (as she should)
Miorine makes Suletta promise to stay with her forever, and text her three times a day. Suletta does this dutifully. (Needy x Indulgent is such a cute dynamic)
Miorine tries to push Suletta away for her own protection. This backfires. Suletta forgives and comforts her.
Miorine tells Suletta's mom that they should get along since they're going to be family (power move)
They are featured together in the intro and ending of every episode.
They get married at the end of the series, and wear rings in the ending. Suletta becomes a school teacher, and Miorine uses her successful company to support her.
Gundam Witch is a love story. Suletta and Miorine are canon and they are married. It's an incredibly significant relationship because gay marriage isn't even legal in Japan, but it's treated as normal in the show. They are so important to me. Thank you for coming to my ted talk. Yuri will save the world, goodbye
#suletta mercury#miorine rembran#mobile suit gundam#mobile suit gundam: the witch from mercury#sulemio#g-witch
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Are LGBTQ labels confusing? Do you ever see a collection of words and think "aren't some of those antithetical or mutually exclusive?" Congratulations! You've run into a very interesting phenomenon that I'm about to break down to the best of my ability.
There's two major philosophies when it comes to labels, they don't have names to my knowledge so I'm gonna call them Reflective and Telegraph.
The Telegraph Label philosophy states that labels primarily function as a means of conveying useful information about one's self to others. It's telling others what pronouns, what parts and what genders that person has or is attracted to. This is usually pretty straightforward, the stuff someone interested in dating you would check before asking you out to avoid embarrassment.
The Reflective Label philosophy states that labels are primarily a tool for describing an internal experience. Putting words to feelings for the benefit of the self. This is how we get lables like stargender or autismgender. These aren't meaningfully useful labels that tell others what to expect physically or what pronouns to use. But that doesn’t mean they're useless. In the case of someone using autismgender, that label probably describes the internal experience of the ways a person's autism impacts their views on and performance of gender. Stargender likely explains not that they literally see themselves as a star but rather that their internal experience of their prefered gender performance makes them feel a way that reminds them of stars or stargazing.
And this applies to sexuality too. Boy lesbian might seem antithetical but ultimately that label isn't there to tell others anything. It's merely a comfort to have words to describe a mess of feelings and social dynamics.
And for clarification, anyone calling themselves a boy-lesbian probably isn't the cis male boogieman forcing lesbians who aren't interested in cis men to date them or else be labeled a bigot. That boogieman doesn't exist. A more likely explanation is that a nonbinary or trans person has a complex relationship with their changing gender that doesn't trigger a change in the way they see themselves in relationships and attraction thus causing them to keep or adopt the lesbian label despite the gender weirdness going on.
I see a lot of infighting about what people call themselves and whether or not certain combinations can even physically exist. And Y'know what? I don't think that's terribly productive. Neither philosophy is wrong. People are just using labels to address different root problems.
As aggravating as it might be for Telegraphers, you don't have to understand everything. Not everyone feels that they owe you the list of information you find useful, and their labels reflect that. And that's okay.
#lgbtq#psa#queer#gender#sexuality#linguistics#philosophy#gay#bisexual#trans#aromantic#acesexual#lesbian
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