#this is personality based not experience based btw

[thehappynewzo]

SYNASTRY OBSERVATIONS🔥❤️

I just want to give a heads up that I am no professional astrologer.. although it's funny cuz you see most users saying this here and their predictions seem pretty professional in the end no? Lol. Anyways, as I was saying, please don't plagiarise my content..but wait, no, I don't really have a problem actually cause astrology is astrology and if you wanna use it for your posts, fine...feel free to...I have no issue so please widen your knowledge and share it with others. Okay, I think it's best i begin now.

Also, I'll be talking about stuff that are meant only for adult eyes lol😂 so dear minor watching, i understand how curiosity fuels your engine but please don't interact with this, otherwise curiosity will also begin to kill minors along with cats.😂😂

If something here does not relate with your experience, please keep in mind that astrology is an insanely vast but such a beautiful topic so this varies based on other aspects and placements too.

☀️Sun in the 8th house🏠 -

•The sun person makes the house persons insecurities and past wounds exposed due the sun persons brightness, because of this it seems like the sun person hurts the house person unintentionally.

•The house person gets triggered a lot with certain actions of the sun person but keep in mind, the sun person has no intention of triggering the house person.

•These are the triggers that's developed because of the house persons past and it gets exposed to the sun's light.

•No matter how much the house person tries to stop those triggers, it won't stop in the beginning of the connection.

•The sun person might want to explore the house persons deepest parts that they hide from the world and as the dynamic gets closer to eachother in the connection, the sun persons heat either worsens the wounds or helps heal the house person heal them.

•The sun person pays a lot of attention to the house persons deepest wounds and desires.

•They notice every little detail of the house persons insecurities but you'll be happy to know that the sun person usually finds brightness in all your darkest parts.

•The house person will be someone who provides them a shadey place to relax from their own ego and shine. A place for them to dig deeper than surface level.

•The house person gets obsessed completely with their entire soul towards the sun person. It's usually possible that the house person felt an instant pull to the sun person on their first meeting.

•Here, usually along with the above points, manifests in such a way where the sun person wants the house person to be as open and comfortable with them as possible but the house person is too afraid to expose their sensitive hidden parts to the sun person.

8th house synastry -

•i feel, according to my studies and observations that whatever planet sits in the 8th house becomes like a two sided coin or a opposite sort of thinking here most of the time.

•Usually the planet person thinks and feels some way about the house person but the house person feels like the planet person thinks the complete opposite of what the planet person actually thinks (lol I hope it made sense) and vice versa.

•It's like both the house person and the planet person may have similar feelings about eachother (planets depend as it can change this) but they both think that the other doesn't feel the same way about them.

• EX: VENUS in the 8th house - both of them (planet person and house person) love eachothers beauty and insecurities of eachother but they are insecure that the other person does not like it or will not like it sooner or later.

ANOTHER EX: SUN in the 8th house - both of them (planet person and house person) wants the other to open up to them but they think the other person does not want to or will not support them or understand them. Both of them want to open up abt their insecurities but they both are afraid and hence take a long time to open up but in the beginning are closed off.

Btw, I'll be making a list of Eros in the houses and signs in synastry soon.

Eros (433) in 3rd house : Firstly, Eros is your turn ons. The Eros person is turned on / finds the house person voice very attractive. Also the house persons hands, how the house person speaks and their mind.

Eros (433) in 7th house : The Eros person is turned on / finds the house persons feminity attractive. Even the house persons ass lol. If the house person is a woman, then the Eros person finds her feminine body very beautiful.

Kiss (8267) in the 4rth house :

•the house person can be comforted easily by the kisses of the kiss person.

•the kiss person's kisses feels like home for the house person.

•soft loving kisses.

•slow comforting kisses.

•The kiss person can love to kiss the house person's chest.

Kiss (8267) in the 9th house :

• the house person gets very hyped up and excited when the kiss person kisses them.

•the house person feels protected and safe everytime the kiss person kisses them.

•since this is Jupiter's house, the house person may want more and more of the kiss person's kisses. They may also get a lot of kisses from the kiss person. The kiss person may have the urge to kiss the house person whenever they're around around them since Jupiter expands whatever he touches. This holds true if the house person's Jupiter is in conjunct with the kiss persons kiss Asteroid.

•the kiss person can give the house person kisses out of nowhere too.

Vesta (4) is an asteroid that indicates what our soul is most devoted towards, where you're most dedicated, where you invest a lot of your energy. The conjunctions can make this asteroid very prominent in synastry.

= If you want to know if you are going to invest a lot of energy in a connection, check if Vesta conjuncts any of your inner planets, especially big 3 (ascendant, sun, moon) and ESPECIALLY JUPITER.

= Which planet Vesta conjuncts indicates the kind of dedication or the areas in which you or the other person is dedicated towards in the connection.

= EXAMPLE 1 :

•Vesta conjunct Jupiter = Vesta person is dedication to guide and protect the Jupiter person.

•This conjunction makes the Vesta person extremely, I mean superly duperly extremely excessively devote all the energy they have in them towards the Jupiter person.

•The Vesta person surrenders and devotes themselves to Jupiter person as if the Jupiter person were a god.

= EXAMPLE 2 :

•Vesta conjunct Venus = the Vesta person has a romantic dedication towards the Venus person.

•The Vesta person is very much dedicated to showing the Venus person their love.

•This is a 100% loyalty placement in any romantic relationship. Other aspects matter too though but this tops the loyalty placement among many other.

• The Vesta person is usually the one very loyal in this connection but the Venus person loves the dedication that the Vesta person has towards them and this becomes the Venus person's fuel for loving the vesta person in return.

•The Vesta person is devoted romantically towards the Venus person.

= EXAMPLE 3 :

• Vesta conjunct Sun = the Vesta person has an overall dedication towards the sun person.

• This literally means that the Vesta person is dedicated to the sun persons soul.

= EXAMPLE 4 :

This time I'll give an example of Vesta seated in _______ house.

• Vesta seated in the 8th house = The Vesta person has such a deep leveled soul digging devotion towards the house person, especially if Vesta conjuncts any planet here (esp. big 3).

Yay! Special asteroid mention time!!

Vesta ☌ child (4580) -

The Asteroid Child is youthfulness, where your inner child never dies, where you feel a little lost, where you feel like a child.

•The Vesta persons devotion is aimed at making the child person feel like a child.

•The Vesta person invests HUGE amounts of their energy just to make the child person laugh like a child, smile like a child and feel like a child.

•The Vesta person is also devoted to make the child person's inner child never die, to keep their inner child alive.

•The child person can make the Vesta person feel lost at times.

•The child person is lost when it comes to the Vesta persons devotion towards them, especially if Vesta is also ☌ (conjunct) Sun/Jupiter.

•The child person wonders why the Vesta person is so devoted towards them.

That's all for today my dear readers with amazingly curious minds. I hope you all enjoyed reading this post today and I hope I made somebody smile! Let me know in the comments if anything resonated and if you'd like me to cover anything in astrology!! Love you all so much ! Bye bye for now! Take care, be happy and healthy!😊❤️

Asteroids mentioned above : 433,8267,4,4580

[skyloftian-nutcase]

Which member/mix of members of the LU Chain are you?

Sky: You’re pretty even keel about stuff. So much so that it can honestly make you a bit of an airhead and daydreamer. It’s how you get through life without letting anything bother you - reality can’t hurt you if you spend a good chunk of time not in reality, right? Your inner peace allows you to be considerate and caring for others, so much so that you oftentimes forget to take care of yourself. You’re very empathetic. You’re known as sweet and gentle, and that’s generally true, but there’s also very strong emotions that you keep so tucked away you yourself forget about them until they come exploding out of you. Your gentleness and kindness also doesn’t detract from the fact that you love adventure and chaos and will absolutely cause mayhem, just not all that often. You like comfort and familiarity, but you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone for some fun. You love sewing peace and harmony all around you, and enjoy helping others. You’re the mediator of whatever group you’re in.

Legend: You love adventures, and you’re a wanderer. But you’re also very methodical about it - you’re going to plan the hell out of a trip or a career change or anything in your life before you get into it. Why go in blind and unprepared? That’s a recipe for disaster. As much as you truly enjoy the thrill, however, you’re far more defensive than you sometimes intend to be. You put on a strong front, showing the world that nothing bothers you, because a lot actually does and you don’t want to be perceived as not being able to handle it. Not to mention it’s great for convincing yourself too, and at this point it’s just a coping mechanism. You do truly love what you do, though, it just comes with baggage and collateral damage that you want so badly to avoid. You care deeply, and it peeks through despite your prickly exterior. You love to collect things, you can never be too prepared, and you have a hard time letting go of both stuff and people. You do tend to be a bit dramatic about things. Oh, and Sarcasm is almost your native language. You have a dry wit that’s sharp enough to cut to the bone, but you don’t use it to hurt others so much as defend yourself. It can make you come across as a bit of a grouch, but people just need to learn how to read you right.

Time: You’re a bit of a loner, but you can work with others as needed. You’re just used to getting the job done alone, and occasionally you can rub people the wrong way as a result. You’re decisive, and you don’t care if that bothers people - when a job needs to get done you just do it. Others can get on your nerves, but never to an extreme degree for the most part. It’s less of people bothering you and more of you just being so introverted that you’re worn out. But despite all of this, you love to guide and mentor, because it gives you a sense of purpose and belonging, and you feel like you’re making a difference when you do it. You inevitably become the leader of whatever group you’re in because you’re not going to wait for anybody else to step up when a job needs to be done. You can be playful, but that’s usually on the back burner when there’s work to be done, so you can come across as pretty serious. This is magnified by the fact that you don’t like talking about personal stuff in general, but especially with strangers, so you’re a bit enigmatic and can even be seen as aloof. Nevertheless, those close to you know that you can be very warm and kindhearted. You’re very protective of those you love, and though you might have a smaller friend circle than others, every single one of you is insanely close.

Twilight: You absolutely adore animals. Like... more than people. Not that you don’t like people, but if you had to choose between spending your day with doggies or spending your day with people, you’re gonna put your phone on do not disturb, chuck it out the window, and fling yourself into the nearest puppy pile. You’re very protective, and you’re usually viewed as the responsible one of the group or family. You know that isn’t all true, though - you’ve done some seriously stupid things, like that one time you licked the goop you picked off the wall just to see what it was. You’re viewed as gentle and kind, but you are aggressive as hell when something goes wrong. Like, honey, you don’t hesitate. At all. You suck at talking about your emotions but you’re always willing to be there if others want to talk about theirs. You’ve got that oldest sibling vibe, the whole be responsible and impress mom and dad, make everyone proud thing. Despite the fact that you will literally knock someone’s teeth out the instant you think they’re a threat to those you love, you really are a gentle person, and you inspire others.

Wild: You’re an adrenaline junkie and a thrill seeker, and you’re an absolute goofball. You will make up literally the most bonkers things to accomplish a goal. Can’t reach that spider on the ceiling that needs to be stopped? Chew on some gum and spit it at the spider. Ha! Now it’s stuck there! Loser! It takes you maybe an hour or so to realize that now you have a captive spider and gum now stuck on your ceiling. But at least the spider is contained, right? Your life is essentially move from one goal to the next and you don’t spend too much time planning ahead, but boy when something goes wrong it is imprinted in your skull forever. You 100% overthink things you’ve done when you have a quiet moment or are reminded of something from your past. It doesn’t necessarily stop you, but it hurts. It can make you a bit paranoid about repeating mistakes, too. And by a bit, I mean you might straight up have a meltdown if you think the situation is bad enough.You tend to shoulder the blame of everything that goes wrong in your life, even when it isn’t your fault at all.

Wind: No matter what you’ve experienced in your life, you’ve managed to hold onto some innocence and childlike joy. You’re bubbly and bright, but sometimes that overshadows how seriously you can take your responsibilities. You’re loyal, you’re protective, and you’re eager to learn and improve. You brighten the room whenever you enter it, your energy and joy is infectious. Your curiosity is too. You’re very confident in yourself, but not to the point of arrogance. You speak your opinions loudly, whether it hurts others’ feelings or not, though it isn’t your intent to offend. You just make yourself heard is all, and you aren’t afraid to argue. Nothing is going to stop you when you set your mind to your goal, and no matter what anybody says or does, you know that you’ll succeed. You might be a bit too much for people sometimes, and you don’t always notice, but you’ll adopt anybody into your friend circle whether they realize it or not and look out for them.

Hyrule: You are the person who can MacGyver literally anything. You’re super independent and self-sufficient, you could be dropped in the woods and just survive on your own for like a month. You feel confident and comfortable in your own skin until you meet up with others who might be in a similar field to you, and then suddenly you’re comparing yourself to them all the time and they always come out on top in your mind. You’re never good enough, never smart enough. You struggle to see what others see in you. You’re fierce and fearless, you are the first one to charge into trouble or danger if you think you can help. You’re humble and polite, but you can totally tease those you love as well. You’re stubborn as hell and will never give up. You won’t start a fight, but you also won’t back down from one.

Four:  You’re mature beyond your years, and you like being distinguished that way. Quiet, observant, and talented, you’ll happily slip into the “old soul” category, and you get annoyed when people remind you that you might be younger than them. You’re very intuitive and introspective, and you tend to pick up on things before most. You need a lot of time to yourself to energize, and mindfulness is a big deal to you. If you can’t help yourself, if you can’t control whatever is going on in your head, then you can’t be of any help to others, and that’s a motto you live by. You tend to be the most even keeled of your group as a result, and you can also be the quietest. You probably have one or two specific hobbies or talents that you love and pursue to perfection. Despite being able to control yourself well enough, you might not always be the best person to calm others down since your methods don’t always work for everyone else, and once you’ve used up what’s familiar to you, you’re not sure how to proceed. You care very deeply, if something hits you hard enough you’ll go down. But you can pick yourself up... it just might take a while.

Warriors: Strong, confident, and charismatic, you draw the attention of the entire room when you enter, and you’re totally fine with that. You take command of any situation, but you’re not pushy - if someone else seems to have the situation in hand, you’ll defer to them until you think you need to step up. You’re intelligent and detailed, you notice patterns and are very observant. You also love to be a troll when you can be - all that seriousness doesn’t mean you can’t tease the heck out of people you care about! You tend to take things that would emotionally cripple someone and file them to be dealt with later, and it can make you seem cold, but you’re just processing it later because you refuse to process it right now in the moment. This gives you the chance to be able to handle the absolute worst and most horrible things life can throw at you and just keep moving like it doesn’t bother you - because in that moment, it truly doesn’t, you’re not emotionally registering it. You’re the steady rock everyone can rely on when a hurricane is tearing through. You look out for those around you, and you naturally guide them. It’s just second nature to be the leader. There hasn’t been a situation that you haven’t shied away from, you’re always wanting to help, no matter the cost to yourself. You’re very sociable and get to know others around you quite quickly.

[draayder]

The steps to scheduling top surgery when you are totally grasping for straws and don't know any surgeons or how to find any surgeons

Call the nearest hospital's main phoneline

While the phone rings brace for having to out yourself to a stranger

Say "Hi, I'm female-to-male transgender and I'd like to find a surgeon who can perform a bilateral mastectomy for me."

The receptionist will say "Oh, um, okay, let me transfer you."

After a brief pause, once again say "Hi, I'm female-to-male transgender and I'd like to find a surgeon who can perform a bilateral mastectomy for me."

Repeat steps 4 and 5 until you are numb to outing yourself and the newest receptionist in the chain instead says "Oh, hi, sorry, we just spoke a minute ago."

[memento-morri-writes]

I really want to see more low/no empathy characters (NOT antagonists/villains) in books. Especially as protagonists, rather than side characters. I want to see characters who react with practicality after a tragedy. While everyone else is mourning, they're immediately thinking "how can we fix this / how can we make sure it doesn't happen again." Or alternatively characters who don't even react "reasonably". Who see tragedy and their first thought is "Well, at least we don't have to worry about X anymore." Or who sigh in relief that "at least it wasn't worse" while looking at the worst thing that's ever happened in their life.

I want to see characters who don't know how to react when their companions are experiencing strong emotions. Who try their best, but sometimes their best is a really awkward pat on the back or thumbs up. Or alternatively characters who avoid people who are experiencing strong emotion because the awkwardness and uselessness they experience is so uncomfortable for them.

I want to see characters who misread the room and crack a joke too soon, or try to offer a distraction when people don't want to be distracted. Characters who mean well, but act outside the "norm".

And I want to see characters who aren't villainized for it. I want to see characters whose friends say "It's okay, I know you're not good with this stuff." Or who make sure that their low-empathy friend has an important job to do to keep their mind busy, because just because they don't have empathy doesn't mean they can't be traumatized.

[anxiously-sidequesting]

Big shout-out to the ocs and lore that depicts physical/appearance changes due to high concentration and uses of magic btw that shit is so cool. Whether your wizard's hair turns blue or straight up grows an extra arm due to the excessive amount of powerful magic they use everyday I eat that shit up. Bonus points if it's a rare/newly discovered condition or if your wizard is just straight up unrecognizable from arc 1 to arc 4. Bonus bonus points if the wizard gains a disability from it and has to learn to adapt to their new condition

[hayakawapartner]

aki with a s/o with chronic pain . . .

!!! this post is sfw, but minors/ageless blogs dni with this post/blog !!!

notes: gn!disabled!reader, this is self indulgent i tried to make this fitting for more general chronic pain! reader might come across as ehlers danlos-coded (is that a thing?? weird thing for me to type)

aki is already so sweet and caring with you, of course he would be helpful when your chronic pain flares up.

he notices that you’re moving a bit slower, taking shorter steps, taking a longer time to get up from your seat… and he’s immediately there to help

VERY quick to ask what you need, but he also tries to offer your usual solutions

“where does it hurt? do you need a heating pad? painkillers? tiger balm? do you want me to run a warm bath?”

if you have fluctuating mobility/occasionally use a mobility aid, he does his best to keep everything in a convenient spot for you. crutches near the bed so you can slide your arms in and get up with a bit more ease, rollator in a place where you don’t trip but it’s easy to access…

he was initially Overly Careful with you so he didn’t aggravate your pain further, but as he grows used to your needs, he’s still careful but he’s not scared of breaking you like he used to be

kisses the back of your neck while gently massaging your sore joints/muscles, murmuring soft “i love you”s and “you’re gonna be okay”s while he’s rubbing tiger balm onto your sorest spots

if he hears your joints pop he gets really nervous until you specify if it was a good/bad pop

if a spot is too sore, he won’t touch it in case he hurts you even more.

and if you just Can’t get out of bed for the day? he calls off from work to take care of you. brings you comfort food, helps you to the bathroom when you need it, makes sure you’re hydrated and taking your meds…

SPEAKING OF MEDS. this man is so good at reminding you

“did you forget to take your meds? maybe you should take them now, love. it’ll help you feel less sore.”

he’s very careful to make sure he doesn’t shame you for forgetting meds, for needing help, for being in pain. he just does whatever he can to make sure you’re okay and empathises with your complaints about your aches.

while he hates seeing you in pain during a flare-up, he becomes extra doting just to make sure your needs are met. cooks your fav comfort meal, makes sure all your pillows are soft and arranged to keep you comfy, refills your water bottle whenever it’s almost empty, etc.

he’s just so loving… aaauuuu

[ccarrot]

okay this is a very personal hot take but i genuinely don't believe dazai is as self destructive as he may seem.

[dels-bluevoid]

Feeling silly

[084392]

thinking about pmd2 grovyle gijinka hair😭

[dumplingsjinson]

“You know how they say catch flights, not feelings? Well… What if I told you I caught both? And no, I didn’t catch feelings because I caught a flight. No, I caught a flight because I caught feelings.” 

“…For who?” 

“For you. It’s all because of you.” 

[d3stroyman]

Playing NSR and Psychonauts back to back was a mistake my art is entering it's weird period I think we'll see how long this lasts

Anyway hi Doppelganger

[coffeeandcalligraphy]

1:30am & thinking about all the bipoc women writers who went out of their way to be so incredibly kind to me while only having met briefly… like the author I met a couple months before moving to school who was so excited & encouraging when I told her I was studying writing… & like the caribbean poet who bonded with me after learning we were both guyanese & who comforted me when I was struggling in first year in a majorly white city & as one of the only bipoc in my department… & to the Black poet who kept in touch with me when I was transitioning to university & who was one of the first ppl to message me when I got off my first flight to a new city… & to the Cree poet whose reading I attended in 2021 who talked to me outside the venue in the cold about indigeneity at a time where I badly wanted to learn more about my ancestors but didn’t know where to start… she has no idea that that one conversation drove me to research (as best I could) my ancestry & in doing so learn more about my family & the language I couldn’t name standing on that corner… literally ily bipoc women !!!!

[the-gayest-tree-you-ever-did-see]

in the BEST way, tumblr checkmarks

stack

only show up sometimes

only show up for some people

only show up on some posts

glitch into different colors randomly

follow you down the page then zoom back up to their owner

and more!

[pokewatcher20]

The idea of “best friends” is so confusing to me

You can have more than one, and it CAN be one-sided, but society generally sees it as “you can only have ONE best friend and they MUST see you as their best friend too and you MUST be each other’s number one priority when it comes to friendship”

Like, okay, some of that I can do! But that’s where the confusion starts: How do you KNOW if they see you as their best friend?

Okay, hypothetical: you’re a kid, and your teacher tells the class to make a present for your best friend. So you do, and you’re super excited to see their face, and then the time to give the gift happens… and they made a gift for someone else. Whoops! Turns out that YOUR best friend doesn’t see you as THEIR best friend, and now you look like the world’s biggest loser because no one made you anything!

Maybe it’s because I’m autistic, or treat it with the same gravity that I do for love confessions, but does no one else find that TERRIFYING? You can never really know if the closest person you have in your life actually cares about you as NEARLY much as you care about them

Do I just ask? And WHAT can I even say??? “Hey, my life is so irreversibly intertwined with yours that I can’t imagine a world where I don’t know you. Btw” ???

That sounds like I’m trying to ask them out! That’s EMBARRASSING bro! “The only way to find out is to subject yourself to the mortifying ideal of being vulnerable” that’s too scary. die. one BILLION explosions attack 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🗣🗣☄️☄️☄️☄️☄️☄️☄️☄️🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🎆🎆🎆🎆🎆🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥

[sasdavvero]

headcanon that Niko's mum keeps trying to move his hair from his face because she can't see his eyes

[its-ezraaa]

What is your personal favorite headcanon for Nicholas (Fence)?

Okay this might be weirdly specific but if Nick ever went to college and had to do a mini job he'd be bartending. Probably somewhere where he'd have to deal with a lot of entitled guests. I imagine him to deal with them in a pretty chill and mature way though. "The guest is king and just let them have their little temper tantrum whatever" you know? But the moment some drunk guy harasses his co-worker he'd kick him out instantly. (Insert socially awkward business student Seiji being forced to attend a drinking evening with his fellow classmates. Congrats, now this is the beginning of a college AU I will never write.)