saw your answer about stripe ask and i just want to say for anyone out there: don’t use paypal unless that’s the only option for you.
i made a paypal account and immediately, within a minute of making it, it got permanently limited and after days to contacting paypal they still refused to fix it (saying they can’t reveal why it got limited for their safety) and didn’t let me close my account. basically i can’t use my account and i can’t delete it either so my info will always be stored on paypal, which is ridiculous and not safe.
anyway, like i said, if you have another option besides paypal then use that because paypal sucks. be careful!
^^^^^^ no yeah exactly same hat (og ask)
I have a solid guess on why mine is dead so tiny psa if you’re making a paypal account & have legally changed your name in the past like year before that pls triple check that everything official is as consistent and already changed over as possible and you have new IDs already Before you make the account bc they’ll find one tiny thing that hasn’t fixed itself yet and shut you down for possible identity fraud no matter what you do :)
(also if you feel like you need to have paypal so you have an option for customers who don’t have a card I will once again recommend stripe bc I’ve discovered their direct email invoices allow you to accept bank transfers as a payment method (including internationally) so people can just pay using the online banking account their paypal is linked to without having to go through paypal)
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post blew uo and i got annoying pieces of shit in my notifs again so ill aay it one last time transmisogyny is the word for when transphobia and misogyny intersect. trans*ndrophobia is a special word for transmascs transphobia and is redundant
you are not effected by "androphobia", since that doesnt exist in any substantial way outside of where you've placed it into transphobia and im not gonna entertain your 'i want a special word too'
trans*ndrophobia truthers stay mad i gueessss ¯\_("3)_/¯ im literally dropping out of this debate because not one single one of you have ever actually read what i say on this and just say shit like "A TRANS MAN GOT BEAT UP TODAY IS THAT NOT TRANS*NDROPHOBIA" no you fuck he wasnt assaulted for being a man its always transphobia (assault for being trans) or misogyny (assault for being trans AFAB)
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For some reason recently my favorite thing to do when something goes wrong or there are some circumstances outside of my control is wave my fist at the sky and say "Curse you foul Fates!" because it feels nice to have a nebulous thing to not necessarily blame but to at the very least direct my ire towards
For some reason it's easier for me to move on from frustrating or down right awful situations that I can't control when I have something to throw my anger at other than myself. Rather than blaming myself for something I can't help instead it's the fault of the insidious fates that weave our reality and it is my sworn duty as a trans person to cut the thread of fate and KILL GOD sorry I got a bit carried away there
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