#tw anti selfship

[fujinvamp]

TikTok antis are fucking ridiculous. “Suing you for pedophilla” mf I’m a minor. If I was ACTUALLY gonna be sued, this would be sent via email. Not fucking TikTok. I’m also pretty sure you can’t set out minors information out to the world legally, so yeah. Genuinely fuck off.

I know I’m not guilty of any of that shit first of all, and second of all, if you knew my information, fucking contact me via email like a grown adult. Fuck off.

Also… this may be me freaking out thinking it might be real but whatever

[doodlepoodle69]

New drinking game, everytime you see “proship dni” on a selfship post, take a shot !!

[missunstxble]

Remember to make out sloppy-style with your F/Os!

"Borrowed" from a rude anti.

Blinkie made by me in Blinkies.cafe.

[siscon-stsg]

your villain/yandere!f/o kissing you on the forehead. their arms are tight around you, keeping you close and snug for cuddles, but also trapped in case you ever think of escaping.

―goodnight. love you,― they'd whisper, knowing tomorrow you'll wake up next to them even if you don't want to. and the day after that. and the day after that. and the day after that. and the day after that...

[puffsbutdarker]

Shoutout to self shippers who are in abusive relationships with their F/Os

antis DNI

[sweet-ladys-things]

I made more🐇💕

[sparklee-selfships]

🍒 mad scientist F/O who's so distraught at your sudden death they spend months researching how to resurrect you!

🎀 occultist F/O doing rituals and exchanging their body parts to bring you back to life!

🍓necrophiliac F/O taking care of your corpse! preserving you so you don't decompose too quickly!

[selfship-vent-confessions]

I didn't know where else to ask this, so if you don't post this, I understand, but wtf is a proshipper/comshipper?

I mean, based off of how everyone acts about them they're clearly problematic, but what do they do that's a problem?

I genuinely don't know what they are, and google is telling me things that don't seem like the whole truth based off of the way people are acting. I need to know so that way I can make sure I'm not friends with problematic people irl or online.

Can someone help pls?

TW/CW: mentions of abuse, pedophilia, incest, harassment, and pro/comshippers

"Proship" has technically two definitions, with antis (people against proshipping) saying it stands for "problematic ship" while proshippers themselves say it stands for "pro shipping" (in the sense of "pro" meaning "to be for/support"). No matter which way you see the label being shortened to, it means they support every type of relationship, including incest, pedophilia, abusive relationships, and other horrible things. Proshippers claim they do this because they're "anti censorship", "anti harassment", or they "want people to be allowed to ship whatever they want no matter what". But these are gross sentiments to have considering the context they specifically use it in and relationship dynamics we're talking about (though, yes, you can be anti harassment and anti censorship without being a proshipper, it's just terms they use a lot to claim what they're doing is good). They think that every ship has a right to exist, though importantly, to ship something is to support it, so there is no "I ship it but I don't support the relationship". The act of shipping in it of itself is supporting the relationship.

Comship is for "complicated ship", and is synonymous with proship. Same thing, different label. Both will think of any excuse under the sun to try and say why they're actually not that bad, but they're all twisted words or exaggerated truths. Granted, antis don't always handle situations regarding proshippers the best, there have been cases of antis going much too far or sending harassment. But proshippers will have you believe antis are these super brutal abusers in fandoms who harass people 24/7, and that's not true at all. Proshippers also frequently ignore their own histories of severe harassment to make themselves look better.

There are some beliefs pro/comshippers have that you can have and it won't automatically make you one of them. You can believe in anti censorship and anti harassment, in people being allowed to ship without being harassed, or in representation of complex relationships without being a pro/comshipper. It's how these sentiments are applied that make the difference. "Ship whatever you want" should not extend to pedophilia, incest, abusive relationships, or other similarly disgusting themes. Representation of complicated dynamics should not be used to support or normalize those dynamics if they're unhealthy/abusive/ect. Anti censorship and anti harassment shouldn't equate to showing people this disgusting content without their consent, or to children just because "it happens". That doesn't make it okay.

The reason the labels are so often confused is because there are people that use them in the wrong way or where the label wouldn't apply. A healthy relationship between two consenting full-grown adults can't be pro or comship. It's when you start subtracting from that is when it becomes genuinely harmful (abusive, nonconsensual, barely legal, or involving children). Normalizing or supporting these relationships is harmful and in several instances has done active harm to real people. The only ones who debate this are people who are part of those groups themselves who try to scramble for every possible excuse as to why it's okay (it isn't). I'd be here all day if I explained every single pro/comship argument and why they're wrong or don't apply the way they think it does, but as a general overview and definition this should work

[zombieplaguedoc]

This one goes out to all the self shippers who had experience with S3lf h@rm. Imagine your f/o walking in on you while you're hurting yourself. You may have made it hard to open your door, so they knock and gently say "S/i? Can i come in?" After some silence, your f/o opens the door. They would apologize if they accidentally scared you, and walk up to you slowly. You might be trying to hide the wounds or try to get away, but your f/o wants to hear the truth. They may be shocked and worried at first, but know that your f/o would never be angry at you, and they would immediately bring you into a very comforting hug. "We don't have to talk about it if you don't want to." Your f/o would say in a soft voice as they keep holding you close, and even rocking you gently. "It will be okay. I am here for you." Your f/o would tell you softly, reassuring you that you're not alone and that they would always be here with your by your side until you're doing better, and even after you recover.

Your f/o loves you, and they will be here for you always, forever, and until the end of time. You are loved, appreciated, and if you are struggling, have a virtual hug from me as well. You are not alone in this, and you will always have support. <3

Antis dni, this post isn't for you.

[doodlepoodle69]

I find it really funny that the antis who’d bring a indie/fan creator down for making problematic media never talk about main stream shows who do the same.

like, they’d bully someone to suicide for making nsft of teen characters and cancel anyone who follows them but would watch a anime that has lolicon in it. Because it’s easier to torment a vulnerable artist with only 1k followers then a well known artist with millions of *fans*.

[missunstxble]

I fully believe that all fandom shipping problems can be settled by normalizing OC × Canon and self-shipping more. "I would like to see this character in a relationship, but none of the characters in their shared media are good picks-" make an OC that has the dynamic and history that you want. Do it.

Reclaimed from an extremely hypocritical anti.

[bornofhumanhate]

I have finally decided to kill the cop in my head and develop my sibling S/I for my F/O.

My F/O is a big brother in canon and a pretty toxic one, so I wanted to have a younger sibling for him who he loves a little too much.

And I’m pretty excited. It just feels so liberating.

[sweet-ladys-things]

hello! you have a lovely blog, it's really cute and i love the blinkies/divider things you've made! is there any chance you could make one with the phrase "ship & let ship"? totally cool if not, still wanted to show you some appreciation <3

Thank you so much, I'm glad you like them so much! I made it and more for anyone who wants to use them!

[lunarbroadcast]

Hiiiii bestie,,,,I just saw your Kevin moodboard and was wondering if I could get a rosecest / rose tinted kiss board as well? Sorry if you’re not taking requests but I figured I’d ask :3

﹀♡.﹀﹀♡﹀﹀.♡.﹀﹀♡﹀﹀.♡﹀

*ೃ༄ Rosecest aesthetic moodboard˚◞♡

HELL YEA I GET TO MAKE ROSECEST CONTENT FUCK YEAA-

IM NOT EXACTLY TAKING REQUESTS BUT IF ITS A CHANCE I GET TO MAKE CONTENT OF MY TWO GOOBIE WOOBIES ILL DO IT UEREHRGE- LMK IF I SHOULD CHANGE ANYTHINGG

♡ percy and alastor kissing (made by belaziken)

♡ percy fanart (made by kevin-pilled)

[angel-theory]

Creating Angel Theory

tw: CSA

Angel Theory, the source of my highest kin, started its life as a selfship fanfiction about my parasocial other and I.

At the time of creation, I was struggling with my childhood trauma, specifically when I was sexually assaulted at the age of five years old. This lead to me developing hypersexuality in order to cope with the event that I fundamentally could not understand. I blocked this event out until the age of ten. This lead me to dissociation and escapism as coping mechanisms. My vice was a YouTuber's playthrough of Undertale. Undertale and that YouTuber filled all the voids in my life. I attached myself to both and they became concrete parts of my identity, the identity that was distancing itself from the little girl that experienced CSA.

When I created Angel Theory, I created the self insert as the identity I was pursuing in order to leave the little girl behind. Angel Theory was a world where I was a YouTuber just like my parasocial other. Angel Theory begins in 2016 where my parasocial other meets my self insert after a bad breakup and ends in 2017 with us dating and living together.

My self insert is my preferred identity and informs all of my transIDs, trisIDs and permaIDs. Due to the fact that it's source is a fanfiction I consider it a kin.

[sp00ks-in-th3-cl0s3t]

DISCLAIMER: I do not condone homophobia or transphobia, nor do I wish to participate in the politics surrounding the Christian community.

If you have religious trauma, please scroll.

This one is for the Christian selfshippers!

Imagine you f/o converting ( by choice )

Imagine reading the Bible with them and answering their questions about God's word! And DEFINITELY imagine them taking time out of their day to pray with you 🤭

CONSERVATIVES AND ATHEISTS DNI WITH THIS POST.