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nirei is so cute, but i think he would look even cuter if you had a hand around his cock and we’re jerking him off, stopping just short of making him come over and over again until his eyes are all watery and his lips are wobbly. he blushes scarlet when you coo and call him my poor baby before resuming your movements once more. he almost sobs from the relief of you finally allowing him to come, but he quickly gets overwhelmed by the feeling of you steadily moving your hand up and down his shaft. he doesn’t know whether to try and wiggle away from you or to lean into the euphoric sensation. he chokes on a sob when you make him come again, so soon after his first orgasm. nirei knows there’s going to be no reprieve in sight when you giggle lightly and kiss the side of his head, your hand continuing to stroke his cock despite his cries of overwhelming pleasure.
#wind breaker smut#nirei smut#nirei akihiko smut#lol i wanna eat him#tw overstimulation#tw edging#on my pulpit#shrine.wind breaker#saint.nirei akihiko
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Mommy, hi…
Could you edge me. I wanna know how long I can be edgy before I can’t take it anymore. You can put me in any position. Use and toy. Please
-🐇👑
how baby, mommy would love to edge you for days. the first couple of days i would just make you watch me get off. not touching you and not letting you touch mommy either. just watch as i hover over your face, not letting you taste me, except for the droplets of slick that would land on your face. then only after a few days, after hours and hours or begging i would spread your legs open. and ensure you stay like this by tying them to the bed. put a vibe to your clit and at this point you would get to the edge so fast. only a couple of minutes and i can already see you pretty pussy start to pulse. just to take the vibe away the first signs of your orgasm. kiss you gently on your inner thigh while i wait for the pleasure to go down a little, wipe your tears away and coo lovingly at you before i put the vibe back on. and repeat the process endlessly until you can't think, you can't speak, you can't breathe. you can only sob and shake. and when im done with you make you cum just by blowing on your cunt, no friction, only a ruined orgasm. you're so cute and pathetic mommy can't help it <3
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𝐁𝐢𝐠 𝐁𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞

˚₊‧꒰ა ☆ ໒꒱ ‧₊˚ 18+ only... no minors please... ˚₊‧꒰ა ☆ ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
big brother!seishiro nagi x f!reader x reo mikage
1288 words. f!reader
content warnings: incest (full) - dubcon - threesome - fingering - praise - good girl - slight cucking - power dynamics - slight edging
all characters aged up btw
"You're a pretty sick guy, Nagi, you know that?" Reo laughed idly as he watched your big brother towering above your frightened form. Your eyes moved between the two older men in front of you, unable to believe what was about to happen.
You've always had a thing for Reo. He's cute, he's rich, and the way he's looking to devour you in this moment makes your heart race. Your eyes are fixated on him as the hair he's consistently attempting to keep tucked behind his ear keeps falling in front of his eyes.
A gasp leaves you as Nagi pinches your cheeks and forces you to look at him. His brown eyes staring daggers into your, it's like he's examining how you could even have the audacity to look at a man who isn't him.
"She's my little sister. I'm meant to protect her, isn't that right?" he speaks without shifting his gaze for even a second. You nod, obediently, earning a smile from him. "It's my job to look after you... so I think it's my right to break in your little pussy."
"M-My pussy?" you stutter. You gasp once again as he forces your legs to spread. He flips up your skirt and presses your chest hard enough that your back connects with his unmade bed. You shudder as you feel a slender finger run up the line of your slit. Your soaking panties become stickier with each second his digit is pressed against you.
"Yeah... pretty pussy, baby. Virgins always get wet so easily... 'n your even wetter because you're excited for your nii-san to fuck you. Mmm..." he groans, still teasing your panty-clad folds as he begins to palm at his cock.
You whimper, and he catches the way you glance at Reo like he's your saviour. Like you're begging him to understand you've never done this before, let alone with your brother, and you're oh so worried. Nagi moves the gusset of your panties into the crease of your thigh, baring your petalled flesh to himself and Reo.
"Woah..." Reo speaks. He turns into a blushing mess as he can't tear himself away from the sight between your legs.
"Never seen a cunt before, Reo?" Nagi asks, a single finger circling your sticky clit before he ease it into your tight heat. "Don't tell me you're a virgin, too." he laughs, shallowly.
Reo clears his throat, his eyes finding yours as he searches for your reactions to the pleasure like an addict. The way your face winces at the single finger intrusion couldn't have ended in any other result besides from him being rock hard. His cock straining against his jeans. He's losing his resolve, knowing he'll need to touch himself soon to alleviate the tension.
"No, I- I have- just never seen one that pretty..." he explains.
His response results in Nagi donning a fake pout, before laughing once more.
"You hear that, baby? Prettiest pussy Reo's ever seen... shit, I have to agree." he explains. He wastes no time forcing a second finger inside of you, pumping and scissoring them inside of you to stretch you out. "I'm gonna make you cum nice 'n hard, like a good big brother should. Because your nii-san has a big cock, y'know? It'll be easier to take after you cum."
"I- I-" you speak, a few tears rolling down your face as you try and find the words to say through the concotion of blinding pleasure with an agonising sting.
"Mm... you always look so pretty when you cry."
"Don't think we should be doin' this... Sei... i-it's wrong..." you sniffle, knuckles turning white as you grip onto the bedsheets beneath.
All he can do is tut as he watches you take his fingers like such a good girl. He curls them against your sweet spot, forcing you to throw your head back. He uses his free hand to swipe his fingers over your clit, and at the same time Reo has finally freed himself from his confines. His cock in his hand as he cant resist but to pleasure himself as you fight with the morality of being pleasured by your brother.
"This is exactly what little sisters are made for, sweetheart." Nagi assures you. "Made for nii-san's to fill up like good little girls. You're mine. 'N if you're a really good girl, you'll let nii-san and his friends touch you and fuck you whenever we want."
"Mmpf..." Reo moans, stroking himself up to a climax. Hearing the way Nagi speaks to you like you're nothing more than a plaything seems to be a sexual awakening for Reo.
As beautiful as you are, as gorgeous as your moans are, as pretty as your pussy is.
You're just Nagi's property.
"A-Am I a good girl? A good sister... f'you?" you ask him with pleading eyes.
He smirks, fingering you more as your tears continue to flow.
"Do you want to be? Wanna be our good girl?" he asks, his head tilting in Reo's direction to include him in the conversation. "Do you think what nii-san is doing is wrong? Or do you want to cum all over his fingers?"
"I think she wants to cum." Reo intervenes.
"I think so too. I think my sweet, baby sister wanted to sound like a good girl by saying this is wrong. But you're so close, aren't you? Naughty girl about to make a mess of her brothers fingers."
"N-No..." you sniffle. "Wanna be good... please." you sob, voice sticking in your throat as you can't bear to say anymore.
"The only good thing you can do right now is what we tell you. So, go on... cum all over nii-san's fingers."
And with that final, strict command, your hips are rolling against his fingers as you try to chase your high. You can't believe this is happening. The absolute astonishing pleasure you're becoming dizzy over due to your big brothers ministrations. All the while your crush is watching with so much lust in his eyes, you think he might cum along with you. His face is becoming sweatier, his fist turning to a blur as he works himself faster.
"I- I love you!" you call out, pearlescent cream coating Nagi's fingers as you continue to experience bliss. His fingers don't stop, and your words are just more encouragement to drag every last aftershock out of you.
You aren't even sure who you were talking to in that moment. To Reo? Your brother? Hell, it might have even just been the feeling of cumming. After it's all said and done, and Nagi still won't give you a moment of reprieve, you can't help but stare at Reo once again. You want to see him cum, you aren't sure why, you just feel that it might be close to art when he does.
"Stop it." Nagi commands as he looks over to Reo.
"C-Can't..." Reo explains, his fist still going as he stares at you. He's chasing the feeling you've just experienced, he wants to be in that blissful release with you. He can't stop... he can't... he-
Nagi grabs his wrist and moves his hand away.
"I invited you hear to enjoy my sister's pretty pussy. Have some respect for her. You can jerk yourself off any time, if you blow this opportunity, I won't be kind enough to let you have another."
Reo grunts practically choking out sobs as he's had his ecstacy robbed from him. He takes a few deep breaths, looking at you briefly before looking at Nagi again. He nods, agreeing with his words, the pair of them looking at you again.
"Alright, sweet girl. Nii-san's going to fuck you now."
©𝐃𝐀𝐃𝐒𝐏���𝐑𝐌
#nagi seishiro x reader#reo mikage x reader#blue lock x reader#mikage reo x reader#seishiro nagi#reo mikage#nagi x reader#reo x reader#nagi seishiro#mikage reo#bllk x reader#reader insert#tw: inc*st#tw cucking#tw praise#tw power dynamics#tw edging
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kinktober entry 10: Pet Play and Edging
Rating: Explicit Pairing: Bonten!Kokonoi x undescribed!unnamed!female oc Fandom: Tokyo Revengers Warnings: pet play. edging. collar. being leashed and tied to a wall/in place. again pet play. unbeta’d.
notes: I'm currently sick and waiting on results to see if my lungs are infected. Fun times. So, enjoy. This one is for @scythegal. art pic in banner is by miyolpp
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The bell jingles slightly as she kneels. The collar she’s wearing is studded with diamonds, looking more like a classic choker than what it really is. A sign of ownership to the man in front of her.
He doesn’t look at her. She doesn’t move though, hands on her thighs as she waits, looking down at the floor until he acknowledges her. It gives her time to slip into the role he pays for.
She’s done this long enough to know when he’s ready for her to act. She leans forward, resting her head on his thigh. He doesn’t look at her but he runs a hand over her hair gently. She sighs softly at the feeling. It doesn’t seem like much, but it’s a sign that he knows she’s there and he’s getting ready to take care of her. He’s a good master.
She shifts, trying to make the tail attached to her sway slightly as she makes a noise that’s supposed to resemble a purr. It does exactly as intended, drawing his attention.
He looks down at her, sharp eyes meeting hers. There’s a small smile on his lips at her eagerness, even as he’s trying to hide it. “Kitten, I have to finish this first. Wait.”
She pouts and rests her head back on his lap, but it doesn’t last long. Her master uses his phone, turning on the vibrator that’s already nestled into her with his order. She whimpers into his leg, pressing her thighs together trying not to react.
“Hush, Kitten. Be quiet. I need to concentrate. If you’re good, I’ll give you a treat.” Kokonoi’s treats vary from expensive gifts to nights that leave her legs trembling.
She nods, biting her lip as she tries not to react and distract him. It’s hard. She buries her face in his thigh, surrounding herself with his scent as he plays with the intensity of the vibration. She’s not entirely sure he’s working. He just playing with her.
It builds up and drops before building up again until she’s left on the edge for what feels like hours. She whines, panting as she tries to avoid shifting closer. She wants to rub herself on his foot, to get herself off instead of being teased like this. It gets to the point where she’s frustrated enough and overwhelmed that she can’t help but bite down on the meat of his thigh.
Hajime rubs the ears on the top of her head, the best quality he could purchase and it shows with how flawlessly it merges into her hair. “Is my kitten needy?” he muses, finally looking at her again. “Thought you were going to be good for me.”
She bites back the response on her tongue and instead takes the chance to lick at his fingers. She can taste ink on his skin but she ignores it, just wanting to be closer to him.
He grins. Kokonoi pulls open a drawer and she tries to settle back into position when she hears more than sees the leash being pulled out. He clips it into the small D-ring on her collar and stands. She moves quickly, following on her hands and knees like she knows he expects. The vibrations haven’t stopped and it makes her nearly stumble, but she tries to keep up. She tries to breathe through it because the end result will be worth it. She just has to be good.
He clips her leash to a hook he has on the wall next to the makeshift dog bed that’s waiting for her. Not as much a punishment as the cage, but it still restricts her from him. She crawls onto it, turning to face him as she whines again. She knows better than to use her words now.
“Patience, pet,” he says, using one hand to grasp her chin to tilt her face up towards him. He presses his thumb into her mouth and pushes down her tongue so she’s forced to only listen. “I’m not done. You can’t manage at my side. One more chance, kitten. Be good and wait for me.”
He leaves her there, tied to a wall and resting on a dog bed that’s more luxurious than the ones she’s had before she met him. The vibrations increase and she curls up, panting as she tries not to give in as he plays while he works.
When he comes back to release her, she’s a whining, wet mess, desperate and eager for him as she begs for his attention. He likes her best like that.
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Whitney and dacryphilia.
Whitney tripping you so you'll cry. He sits in front of you and licks your tears away, the stud in his tongue scraping along your skin.
Whitney forcing you to watch a sad movie then making you blow him. It's to help take your mind off the movie, of course!
Whitney, bouncing you on his cock over and over, never letting you cum so you're crying in frustration, only serving to make him harder and harder.
Whitney, taking you to bed after finding you used and abused in the streets, hushing your cries, gently slipping into you, rocking his hips in a gentle rhythm. Why don't you tell him all about it? Don't forget the worst parts. It'll make you feel better, after all.
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DM Dom edges you, while you periodically roll a D20, and won't let you finish unless you roll high enough. Which body part you roll it with depends on your preference, limits, and mobility.
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MY INTERNET CONNECTION IS APPARENTLY "EDGE"ING HORNY FUCKING BITCH WONT WORK >:(
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I might like this too much.😚
can a girl get a megumi smau that has him being pussy-drunk the moment he slips in that he completely loses all logic and sense?? i need to see him fall apart instantly
no bc why is this so true!! so srry for the late reply ive been busy bby. I just realized it said smau and i think those are texting fics?? mb 🤦🏽♀️
Tw:// name calling (daddy, mentions reader is a slut, princess, baby), mentions of baby trapping, explicit language, slightly toxic if you squint fr, possessiveness
Megumi is quiet and typically composed never been one to speak up or lose his composure because he just can’t be bothered but when you finally let him taste your pussy, he’s hooked.
You wanted him to take it a step further and take you how he desires, he complains that he’s too strong and might hurt you but megumi could never do that even if he tried. Until he sees you prancing around in your cute little tops and short shorts that could barely be considered covering ‘why even wear them’ he wonders. You thought your attempts weren’t working, your boyfriend just acted like you weren’t dressed up for his attention and then peered down at you like nothing. So you eventually gave up on your failed attempts. I mean you even pushed yourself against his dick pretending to slip your way through to make yourself towards the counter but it clearly wasn’t going to happen or megumi would’ve done something at least by now.
That was what you were thinking moments before he was spreading your legs open and fucking you like his life depended on it. It was your own fault really for pushing him this far when his composure was already slipping at any moment.
“g-gumi please it’s too much” Megumi sees the way you try to push on his lower abdomen and he doesn’t care. Why should he when you asked for this like the slut you are? “Tch.”
“You can’t take what I give you? ‘You runnin from me?” he pants softly in your ear letting out a shaky desperate moan. Chuckling and then mocking ‘it’s too much’ in your fucked out voice. You hear him being mean but you’re too hazy to care.
He’s moaning so pretty while thrusting in and out of you. It turns you on so much more how desperate he is for you. He’s addicted to your pussy and the way it sucks him back in like a vice. Megumi believes he’s seeing the bells they talk about at weddings and then you tighten around him. He didn’t even know you could get tighter, is this heaven? He could truly be going crazy. You just feel so good and he needs more. You look so pretty when you’re ruined under him. He wants to see more
“You feel so good baby, fuck, this my pussy right? Who fucking you like this?” You feel yourself starting to pool at his words and start fucking yourself back on him. He’s acting so nasty and it’s making you flustered never seeing him so… feral. He was fucking you so good and your brain was all fuzzy, It felt so good you wanted to scream.
You nod your head way too weak to speak. He groans as his cock enters in and out of you.
Megumi doesn’t appreciate your non-vocal answer he wants to hear how well he’s making this pussy his. Megumi halts his thrusts almost in a teasing manner making you whine. “I know you hear me talking to you, or did I really fuck you this dumb?”
“Didn’t even start yet princess, Answer the question baby or i’ll stop.”
your eyes widen at his threat and you scramble to get your words out because you feel yourself getting near the edge quicker than later. “N-no daddy m’sorry please this pussy yours only you can fuck me so good like this p-please I need more” you cry out with tears starting to line your face. You glance through watery eyes to see if your response satisfied him and see megumi’s smile growing at your pitiful pleads
“Don’t tell me what you need mama you don’t need anything but i’ll give you what you want.”
he then lines up with your puffy folds all swollen and red then pushes himself in one swift motion knocking the air out of your lungs.
Megumi sucks in fresh air losing his breath after re entering your sloppy pussy. “F-fuck it feels so good baby I wanna k-keep fucking you so badly. Wanna cum so deep in this p-pussy forever.” he stutters out as he loses himself inside you. He’s so pussy drunk off of you he can’t even remember why he didn’t try to fuck you before and whatever reason he had megumi was sure it was stupid. He wants to fuck you forever and maybe if he knocks you up he’ll be able to have your pussy whenever he pleases, he can’t have someone else take what now belongs to him.
Walking around swollen with his kids with your perfect tiddies leaking out milk would be a perfect way to keep you with him. He likes the idea but it’s for a different time for him to carry out. He continues his harsh ramming now just fucking you on the instinct of feeling and angles his hips up looking for the spot to make you fall apart even more on him. Megumi notices how loud you get once he hits that bumpy nerve on the top of your aching pussy, knowing he hit your g-spot. ‘Found it’ he says in his head with a light hearted snicker to himself.
“ ‘gumi m’close please keep going g-gumi feels s’good when you fuck me r-right there” you slur out too drunk on the feeling of his cock pounding at your sweet spot. You were so close and between his kissing down your neck with his brutally fast thrusts, and the rubbing on your sore clit maybe if he just hit right there one more time you’ll-
“Oh you want it right there? I’m so very disappointed baby but you can’t cum yet, I’m not finished with you. I’m beating up this shit and I want to savor every second I get inside of my pussy.”
“Aww don’t cry, after all, didn’t you want this?”
im working on a rafe fic but i paused it to answer this and no regrets at all tbh LMFAO
any grammar mistakes or suggestions please lmkk🙏
#black reader#jujustu kaisen x reader#megumi fushiguro#megumi x reader#megumi smut#tw edging#jjk x reader smut#jjk smut#jujutsu kaisen#jujutsu kaisen megumi#x black reader
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Hi mommy
Your blogs are so hot. They make me so wet and horny. Whenever I touch myself, i can't cum. Pls help me mommy
hi baby <3 awww baby but thats the way things are supposed to be. ofc you can lurk around my blog and read the posts and fantasize about mommy's cock splitting you half. mommy's tongue eating your drooling pussy. mommy's hands all over your body. you can get your pussy all wet and throbbing for mommy. that you can do.
but you cannot cum. that's mommy's job baby you understand? only mommy is allowed to feel you cunt clench around her fingers or her cock. only mommy gets to make you squirt and pass out from overstimulation. that's for mommy only ok? you're all smart girl i know you understand. but keep rubbing your clit for me baby. keep yourself nice and edged for me.
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Page 19-20-21 of my Double Edged fancomic! Remember that despite everything, Luci is still the devil >:3
page 1-2-3 page 4-5-6 page 7-8-9 page 10-11-12 page 13-14-15 page 16-17-18 page 22-23-24 Feel free to tip a coffee! :)
I kindly ask you to not send me DMs about when the pages will come out, they are scheduled to come out every tuesday, thank you!
#radioapple#appleradio#hazbin hotel#lucifer morningstar#tw blood#tw wound#double edged fancomic tag#my stuff
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I like the idea of being sent to hell for carnal sins, and the punishment fitting the crime, so to speak.
CW: torture, hell, pain, edging, overstim, orgasm denial, mind break, forced sex, monster fucking, beast fucking, object insertion, tentacles, machine fucking, oviposition, egg birth, egg birth denial, size kink, anal, knotting
Every fantasy you’ve ever imagined is granted to you, but in the wrong way. Every single depraved, twisted thing you wanted to experience, even things a mortal human body can’t physically do. It’s hell, so those restrictions no longer apply.
You’re fucked for literal years on end. By everything and anything. Monsters, criminals, beasts, objects, machines, if you can think of it, it fucks you, or someone fucks you with it.
Huge cocks that would literally ruin you in your past life. Strange objects and techniques that would rip you apart.
Tentacles fuck all the way through your body, entering your ass, and thrusting through your throat.
Massive eggs deposited deep in your womb, only for you to have to birth them, your body stretched obscenely and painfully. Just when you finally feel one crown, another huge cock pushes it all the way back into you, forcing it to reenter your cervix.
Massive Minotaurs forcing you down on two of their cocks at once, your mind snapping in half as they slam themselves into you over and over again.
3 headed Cerberus with his huge dick longer than your arm, pounding his knot in and out of your ass at a dizzying speed. Gallons of cum pumped into you until it’s dripping out of your mouth.
Crazed scientists with hundreds of machines to test on you. How much does this one hurt? How much does that one make you scream?
Criminals you knew of on earth who stand against everything you believe in, making you a drooling slut on their cocks. Taunting you for being so easy to break. You’ll just fuck anything won’t you? Even the literal worst humanity has to offer.
Being spitroasted between two huge demons, their tips meeting in your middle, their tails deep in your ass.
So much cum. You’re always filled, dripping, swallowing. Each creature depositing their cum, or eggs, or whatever else inside you and dropping you to crash to the ground when they are done. At all times you’re incubating at least 3 different species.
And the kicker? What truly makes it all the worst punishment imaginable? You can’t cum. You have been cursed to be unable. You live just before the peak at all moments. But you never tip over. You never get to feel the release.
You spend eternity on the precipice of the strongest orgasm anyone, anything, has ever experienced, and you will never get to find out what it feels like.
#nb nsft#bdsmkink#bd/sm breeding#bd/sm pet#queer bd/sm#bd/sm kink#bd/sm slave#monster kink#monster x human#monster smut#monster fucker#monster fuqqer#tentacle monster#monster k!nk#tw noncon#overstim nsft#edging kink#edging and denial#remiratboi#ovi kink#egg birth#egg kink#egg laying#size k1nk#size k!nk#chubby!reader#chubby reader#fat nsft#fat reader#forcedsex
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Everyone was inexplicably a little bit zesty in Race To The Edge for some reason, from what I can remember. Especially Snotlout.

#my art#httyd#httyd fanart#httyd rtte#race to the edge#how to train your dragon#snotlout jorgenson#httyd hiccup#httyd snotlout#hiccup haddock#tw scopophobia
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I was gonna do some serious sketches but got silly with them as usual...
#yes i did post one of these before but then deleted it because....well.#also don't ask why hiccup looks like that...i don't know man#nox draws#sketchies#🗡#dagur the deranged#hiccup haddock#rtte#race to the edge#httyd#dreamworks dragons#tw stabbing#(call this my honourary ides of march addition? /j)#tw blood#idk what more tws to add but like it's nothing graphic so idkkkk#also i think i am getting better at drawing his hair so i'm kinda proud of that#yayyy#yk sometimes i worry i'm gonnaget accused of like ai or smth because of the way i fuck up details and hands
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OLIVIA COOKE & EMMA D'ARCY House Of The Dragon Season 2 Premiere, June 3rd, 2024
#@william @kate MOVE . the real royal couple is here#joint facecard NO annual APR#i prayed to god everyday there was a video of emma and olivia for this event and lo and behold#dailyactors#dailyactresses#emma d'arcy#emmadarcyedit#olivia cooke#dailyoliviacooke#oliviacookeedit#hotd#hbo hotd#house of the dragon#rhaenicent#rhaenyra x alicent#my edits#i cannot believe i found this fuckign video dude holy shit#the sheer homo power they're radiating..... im on edge#tw flashing#tw flickering#cw flashing#cw flickering
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Of course, Paul. :)
#starkid#the guy who didn't like musicals#tgwdlm#hatchetfield#paul matthews#pokotho#unreality tw#I think the caption pushes it over the edge
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sorry but i am SO deeply tired of the 'aphobia isnt real' arguments because they are literally always being conducted in such bad faith. NO there is not specific societal or legal discrimation against aces and aros BECAUSE we are asexual and or aromantic. you cannot hold specifically bigoted beliefs towards a group you do not even know exist. there ARE, however, underlying and deeply pervasive systems and beliefs that actively erase, dehumanise and make life tangibly more difficult for aro and ace people on a social, economic and legal basis. most of this is due to hyperinvisibility, the medicalisation of any nonnormative + misunderstood orientations, the elevation of romance + romantic structures as the most important aspects of interpersonal relationships in society, as well as the nuclear atomisation of the family. among other things. like. amatonormativity has never been ABOUT aromantic people specfically oh my GOD. its simply the underlying social belief that everyone is expected to be in monogamous romantic relationships and that those relationships are expected to the default centre of one's life. its something that affects EVERYONE! but within that it affects aromantic people in a specific and heightened way because of our inability to participate in it in a societally acceptable way. like these are not 'aromantic' or 'asexual' or 'polyamorous' issues specifically. these are theories and terms that originated within feminist + queer sociology studies! its all part of the wider underlying social fabric! aspec people are simply pointing out that we are often affected by these things in unique and often unseen ways.
the idea that we believe people actively 'hate' us for being asexual or aromantic is completely ridiculous. most people i know do not even know the definition of those words! so how could they hate me for it. they could however, for example, hold the pervasive + societally unchallenged belief that not experiencing sexual or romantic attraction is a medical issue or something concerningly abnormal in a human being + something i should get fixed. and its not uncommon that when you DO explain that its simply your orientation to them, they continue to medicalise it and see it as some sort of issue. genuinely so deeply tired of having to explain this to people time and time again when they only want to cherry pick the most ridiculous arguments to respond to and then act as if that's a majority held opinion in the aspec community. like i actually think we are aware of how society views us we're not fucking deluded and stupid. we don't have victim complexes we are just pointing out facts that yall are so desperate to ignore. UGHHHHH
#aromantic#mossy posts#sorry i just saw the most irritating shit ive had to lay eyes on for a bit and it evoked a bit of rage from me. i dont want to be that#person but its like. no one is saying 'aphobia' = the idea people hate aspecs BECAUSE we are X thing. its the PRODUCT OF OTHER#SOCIAL FACTORS AND BELIEFS THAT COALESCE INTO DISCRIMINATION which is often unintentional. like these are just as#much feminist and queer issues as anything else. the way some of these people act like we're stupid when they are literally#just putting words in our mouths and misconstruing everything we say in the worst faith ways possible just. sends me over the edge#aro#asexual#ace discourse tw#sorry i HATE to engage or even touch on this stupid ass discourse in the slightest but genuinely. some of you are fucking stupid
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